i still remember how jess and gabe used to avoid 'juicy' questions bcs i do understand how they tried to maintain the positivity on this platform but now, they had a serious, straightforward conversation. it feels new and refreshing to see this.
Min 7:00. a piece of advice I received right before I got married was "Listen to understand, not to answer", which I something I tell newlyweds all the time now. It so true in every situation. It is so important, especially in marriage to help each other feel heard and understood. Consciously stop and listen to your partner, truly wanting to understand them before you just snap back with an answer. :)
I agree with both of y’all on the annoying personality traits, the person who is only listening to respond, and the person who has all the knowledge. It is really hard to converse with those types of people. Loved this video, thank y’all!! ♥️
Hearing Jess talk about the difficulty of balancing the various spheres of life was so encouraging to me. I identify with that SO much ever since baby girl was born… Thanks for always being so open in your videos. 💛
Jess and Gabe, I adore your souls so much. You both radiate pure kindness and joy for this gift of life. Gabe, I am currently reading your book and it is so beautiful and inspiring. I am learning so much from reading it. You have such a talent for writing and storytelling. Jess, I can't wait to hear your new original music. I know it's going to give the world absolute chills. You both are so very loved and precious blessings to this world. Seeing you both as parents warms my heart so much. Your daughter is a beautiful little angel. 💛
One of my absolute favorite biological things to happen to women after having a baby is how their voice goes ever so slightly lower. Its due to babies getting sensory overwhelm by loud sharp noises so a mother's voice automatically adjusts to the fact that baby is there. It's so beautiful and soothing and even cooler when you know the reason
I was iffy at the start, but I actually really enjoiy these podcast style videos now ! Have a good day everyone, look after yourselves and do a good deed today !
I loved this so much. Watching you two go through so many phases of life over the last 6 years, watching you become parents and still being the nicest you could ever be and with love fonder than there ever was; really makes me believe in love and marriage in times where we dont see a lot of success in them
I loved what you had to say about listening. The last few years, I’ve worked so hard on being a better listener. And hearing the quote that Gabe said was super helpful, as well as what Jess said about not thinking of the next thing you’re going to say, because I am definitely guilty of that. Love you both!!
I have been watching for a little over 5 years now, and I love your relationship. You both have shown me that it’s ok for me to have high expectations when dating. You both are extremely kind, generous, respectful and selfless people, and that is what I also look for. I’m now married to an amazing man 🥰 Keep being the amazing persons you both are. Love you guys. 🥰
About Jess’s comment on balance❤️think some times we try to seperate each aspect of our life into categories, and our Faith journey falls into one of those categories. But I think somewhere we need to stop seeing Faith as another category in our life, but the foundation of all other categories.❤️ by doing this, we know the holy spirit is there to guide us, and help us find balance in the other aspects of life❤️ it’s amazing knowing that we don’t need to try figure it with our own understanding or human wisdom, but we can pray that the Holy spirit leads and guides our steps, taking it day by day❤️
When my kid was a few months old i wanted to do everything and i was so hard on myself. It caused me my mental health that I have neglected myself. I have neglected myself when even though I didnt even perfect my parenting. Now I regret that I didnt have any help, or asked for help or hired a nanny! Now... I sometimes feel like im being selfish but Im learning more self love, im trying to lose weight after becoming almost obese after childbirth and pandemic... im trying to work outside our house because working at home ever since has also not helped my mental health as well... im not a superwoman... i realized that... and I need to be happy, mentally healthy, my daughter deserves that.... Take it Easy Jess and Gabe!
I loved this, high quality answers, nice editing, and I love the banter/humour between you guys! It's super nice to see that natural humour and banter that's developed since the original days of this channel
I tend to listen to someone and try to think of a response while they're talking because it's a bit of an anxiety response. My teacher, in year 6, once told me off because I'd gone up to her desk and forgotten what I was going to say. She then told my mum during a parent-teacher night that I should think about what to ask beforehand. So now I just automatically try to think of questions when people are talking because then I won't get put on the spot to answer and forget what I about to ask/say. Not saying that this is why everyone does this, but for me, it's anxiety.
I think life is made of unbalanced days! It's so natural for us to be more focused on one part of our lives than others most of the time and even though we should still try to keep up with what's important, we shouldn't feel guilty... as the Bible says, there's a time for everything! ❤️❤️❤️
No ways this was so much fun to watch, I'm also part of the squad that watched you both do the LDR, and Gabe surprising you back in Australia to watching your wedding video now you're both parents! It's amazing to see how God works in you both and through you both, been such a fan of the two of you, haha now in living in Kentucky and I realized you're probably like a few hours from where I live don't worry no stalker vibes but it's just amazing to see God's hand of favour and work in the both of you, love you always Jess and Gabe and now we get to see sweet lil Makaiah Lou too, how great is the God we serve! Sending love from Kentucky, a fellow South African 🇿🇦 fan!
I liked the real raw honesty in this video and how and how Jess was kind of laughing at at Gabe when they he asked a certain question and I I thought her reaction to that was pretty funny and I like how you guys are sharing your lives and I know can't always be easy having a baby and and you know and and working through things but I think all in all you guys are going to great
Omg the phone part where you’re saying I ask a question and he doesn’t respond 😂😂😂 I’ve dealt with that and I’m like how?!?! I can multitask so easily!
This was so beautiful! I love the relationship you both have and the fact that you set time in your busy schedules for each other every day. It’s one of the reasons I enjoy watching your videos.😌🤩
Loved this conversation! Also wanted to quickly share my favourite lyrics from a song: „You gotta face the clouds to find the silver lining“. It’s from the song „What faith can do“ and it has saved me when I was at my lowest. Maybe someone reads this comment and listens to the song and finds some strength again like I did years ago ❤️
The explaining each other to a stranger, Gabe's made me cry it's really sweet I can't explain it but how smooth and on going how he talks about you is well has me at an awe. Paused at :34😭🥲 crying literally
My husband and i got married about 2 weeks ago and we answered the questions along with you guys. It was fun to see the answers that we gave as an early married couple and the answers you both gave as a couple who has been married more than 5 years.
Jess&Gabe do more videos like this you guys are amazing, loved it so much. Just something i´ve notice because i watch it twice already a few hours ago and again right now because i wanted to check something, so when i watched it a few hours ago it had like around 83.8k views and know is 81k views what? It goes backwords? youtube is really weird.
I think it took me 4-6 months after having our daughter to figure out a balance between being a new mom, wife, work, personal, friends, cleaning. All of that.
Gabe, when you said “distraction” to get over your first love by using vine… isn’t like more refocusing your priorities? Cuz, when you were in a relationship, your focus was your special someone… and it was over, your focus changed to Vine. So I guess refocusing is more fitting than distraction haha
For favorite song lyric mine is, "cause God knows if I were to lose you time goes further away just explore whatever's left of my soul cause I won't need it anymore"
~Q. Insecurity that holds you back the most? ~A. “The opinions of others… “ As I listened, this came to mind & heart~ a loved piece of children’s literature entitled, ‘You Are Special,’ by Max Lucado. It is with my profound gratitude for who you are & what you do ; for the extraordinarily powerful encouragement that you are to me & countless others, that I encourage you to enjoy, ‘You are Special’, by Max Lucado! ~GRATITUDE!
I just wanted to address the Gabe not listening when being spoken to. I read a book called men are like waffles women are like spaghetti. It explains how men compartmentalize, what ever they are doing THATS WHAT THEY ARE DOING ie if he's at work then he's working if he's watching TV then he's watching TV. For us women EVERYTHING in life intertwines like spaghetti,we could be doing the dishes thinking about what to pack the kids for lunch tomorrow which will get us Thinking about how much sugar they consume and how we have to teach them a balanced diet so next time we go to the grocery store we have to buy more natural food and so on and so on
I love you guys ❤ I also love the podcast style videos. You guys don’t do it often (which is nice) but when one comes around it feels special and more intimate for the fans 🫶🏽
Perfect by ed Sheeran is my husband and I’d first dance song! The “we were just kids when we fell in love” part immediately got us, we started dating in high school, then got married 11 years later 🥰
beautiful jess and amazing gabe, i adore and praise y'all's souls so muchhhh... may god be with y'all through it all.. you both are always in my prayer.. stay safe and healthy.
This was so nice 💚 Just chilling and chatting🎙️co host Milo off to the side 🐶 Kaia makes a guest appearance ✨ truths, compliments, roasts, and even some singing! 🎶 Yes please to more Conte'nt ✌️
I enjoyed this video so much! Bern watching you two since the beginning. Every moment was truly precious, especially when Gabe picked up your lovely baby aww. ❤ + the vibes are just so good with you. Sending love!
Have you heard of the Save Soil movement before? It is said that by 2045 we would be producing 40% less food than what we are producing right now, and our population would be over 9.3 billion people. If you like to eat, you might be interested to Save Soil also😊 #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet #Mentsükatalajt #Tudatosbolygó Love from Hungary 🇭🇺🌿🌿🌿 Save Soil, let's make it happen
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i still remember how jess and gabe used to avoid 'juicy' questions bcs i do understand how they tried to maintain the positivity on this platform but now, they had a serious, straightforward conversation. it feels new and refreshing to see this.
@Ashley she don't need to say everything
@Ashley she probably wasn’t comfortable to talk about it yet. it’s not being boring.
@@bwelp huh? I was telling that other commenter that Jess is NOT BORING AND THAT SHE CAN SAY WHATEVER SHE WANT TO
@@freedom4063 I'm sorry. I obviously have clicked to respond to the wrong comment.. lol
@Ashley being uncomfortable or embarrassed talking so openly about that is not “being boring”. please, don’t be disrespectful.
i feel like jess is so herself in this video, so free and so chill I LIKE ITTT
This is the most genuine, open and realistic conversation I’ve heard them have and I love it
I love it when you just sit down and have open, honest and enlightening conversations! Keep them coming.
Min 7:00. a piece of advice I received right before I got married was "Listen to understand, not to answer", which I something I tell newlyweds all the time now. It so true in every situation. It is so important, especially in marriage to help each other feel heard and understood. Consciously stop and listen to your partner, truly wanting to understand them before you just snap back with an answer. :)
I've always loved that advice too. And not just in marriage, but with everyone you interact with.
You both should never be insecure about your musical talent. I still listen to Gabe's album and Jess' covers. I love your voices😍
I do too! All the time!
Me too! I’m still listening to your worship songs ❤
6:43 "argue as if you're right, listen as if you're wrong" wow that's a really good advice
It's still feels new actually watching them now and realizing they're actual PARENTS, after watching them from the LDR vids...
Y’all need to start a podcast like ASAP. I love listening to y’all talk it’s so calming❤❤
YESSS PLEASEEEEEEEE
I agree with both of y’all on the annoying personality traits, the person who is only listening to respond, and the person who has all the knowledge. It is really hard to converse with those types of people. Loved this video, thank y’all!! ♥️
I am one of them, but i am trying to improve on it
Hearing Jess talk about the difficulty of balancing the various spheres of life was so encouraging to me. I identify with that SO much ever since baby girl was born… Thanks for always being so open in your videos. 💛
Gabe is saying “andaconda” you cant convince me otherwise😂😂
Love this talk guys so genuine💘💘
Jess and Gabe, I adore your souls so much. You both radiate pure kindness and joy for this gift of life. Gabe, I am currently reading your book and it is so beautiful and inspiring. I am learning so much from reading it. You have such a talent for writing and storytelling. Jess, I can't wait to hear your new original music. I know it's going to give the world absolute chills. You both are so very loved and precious blessings to this world. Seeing you both as parents warms my heart so much. Your daughter is a beautiful little angel. 💛
One of my absolute favorite biological things to happen to women after having a baby is how their voice goes ever so slightly lower. Its due to babies getting sensory overwhelm by loud sharp noises so a mother's voice automatically adjusts to the fact that baby is there. It's so beautiful and soothing and even cooler when you know the reason
Oh, wow! I did not know that. My body seems to never stop to amaze me! Love from Sweden.
I was iffy at the start, but I actually really enjoiy these podcast style videos now !
Have a good day everyone, look after yourselves and do a good deed today !
I loved this so much. Watching you two go through so many phases of life over the last 6 years, watching you become parents and still being the nicest you could ever be and with love fonder than there ever was; really makes me believe in love and marriage in times where we dont see a lot of success in them
Watching you being parents is the best! My babygirl is 1 year old and its the best feeling ever to be a mommy❤️
I loved what you had to say about listening. The last few years, I’ve worked so hard on being a better listener. And hearing the quote that Gabe said was super helpful, as well as what Jess said about not thinking of the next thing you’re going to say, because I am definitely guilty of that. Love you both!!
I have been watching for a little over 5 years now, and I love your relationship. You both have shown me that it’s ok for me to have high expectations when dating. You both are extremely kind, generous, respectful and selfless people, and that is what I also look for. I’m now married to an amazing man 🥰
Keep being the amazing persons you both are. Love you guys. 🥰
About Jess’s comment on balance❤️think some times we try to seperate each aspect of our life into categories, and our Faith journey falls into one of those categories. But I think somewhere we need to stop seeing Faith as another category in our life, but the foundation of all other categories.❤️ by doing this, we know the holy spirit is there to guide us, and help us find balance in the other aspects of life❤️ it’s amazing knowing that we don’t need to try figure it with our own understanding or human wisdom, but we can pray that the Holy spirit leads and guides our steps, taking it day by day❤️
When my kid was a few months old i wanted to do everything and i was so hard on myself. It caused me my mental health that I have neglected myself. I have neglected myself when even though I didnt even perfect my parenting. Now I regret that I didnt have any help, or asked for help or hired a nanny! Now... I sometimes feel like im being selfish but Im learning more self love, im trying to lose weight after becoming almost obese after childbirth and pandemic... im trying to work outside our house because working at home ever since has also not helped my mental health as well... im not a superwoman... i realized that... and I need to be happy, mentally healthy, my daughter deserves that.... Take it Easy Jess and Gabe!
9:16 absolutely agree with gabe! jess' voice is amazing, im so exited to hear her original song !!
I loved this, high quality answers, nice editing, and I love the banter/humour between you guys! It's super nice to see that natural humour and banter that's developed since the original days of this channel
9:46 when Jess was talking about wanting to homeschool there daughter, I was totally expected Gabe to say he was homeschooled 😂😂
A very very, very, very beautiful couple. Beautiful souls. This is what success looks like.
I love this podcast format. Just to listen to yours voices is so calming and refreshing
I really enjoyed this - I love the site down, real talk, type of videos. No prep, just go - it's very, very good.
im loving the podcast setup yall :)
I tend to listen to someone and try to think of a response while they're talking because it's a bit of an anxiety response. My teacher, in year 6, once told me off because I'd gone up to her desk and forgotten what I was going to say. She then told my mum during a parent-teacher night that I should think about what to ask beforehand. So now I just automatically try to think of questions when people are talking because then I won't get put on the spot to answer and forget what I about to ask/say. Not saying that this is why everyone does this, but for me, it's anxiety.
i agree! the fear of freezing up when it’s your turn to speak, and then the other person doesn’t think you’re listening. i just need to be prepared
Gabe talking about tabs as if we were web browsers 😆
I think life is made of unbalanced days! It's so natural for us to be more focused on one part of our lives than others most of the time and even though we should still try to keep up with what's important, we shouldn't feel guilty... as the Bible says, there's a time for everything!
❤️❤️❤️
your love for each other reminds me of our heavenly Father's genuine, kind & real love🤍 what a wonderful & blessed fam🥰
Loved this and didn’t want to end. You both are so sweet to one another. ❤
No ways this was so much fun to watch, I'm also part of the squad that watched you both do the LDR, and Gabe surprising you back in Australia to watching your wedding video now you're both parents! It's amazing to see how God works in you both and through you both, been such a fan of the two of you, haha now in living in Kentucky and I realized you're probably like a few hours from where I live don't worry no stalker vibes but it's just amazing to see God's hand of favour and work in the both of you, love you always Jess and Gabe and now we get to see sweet lil Makaiah Lou too, how great is the God we serve! Sending love from Kentucky, a fellow South African 🇿🇦 fan!
When Jess said “that was… random” - that got me 🤣🤣 you’re both amazing!!
“Andaconda” 💀😂 you mean Anaconda? I’m dyinggg
I liked the real raw honesty in this video and how and how Jess was kind of laughing at at Gabe when they he asked a certain question and I I thought her reaction to that was pretty funny and I like how you guys are sharing your lives and I know can't always be easy having a baby and and you know and and working through things but I think all in all you guys are going to great
Omg the phone part where you’re saying I ask a question and he doesn’t respond 😂😂😂 I’ve dealt with that and I’m like how?!?! I can multitask so easily!
A Jess and Gabe podcast? YES PLEASE!!!
This was so beautiful! I love the relationship you both have and the fact that you set time in your busy schedules for each other every day. It’s one of the reasons I enjoy watching your videos.😌🤩
I loveee theese podcast-styled videos! So so good!!
After all these years you guys never fail to make amazing videos! Keep rocking and doing your thing guys.
Without a single clue Jess you inspire me just by being yourself
Loved how deep some of these were!
Jess - we have this quote at work: "Listen to learn, not to respond".
Loved this conversation! Also wanted to quickly share my favourite lyrics from a song: „You gotta face the clouds to find the silver lining“. It’s from the song „What faith can do“ and it has saved me when I was at my lowest. Maybe someone reads this comment and listens to the song and finds some strength again like I did years ago ❤️
This set up was so relaxing and real 😉 loved it
A lullaby album by Jess would be the best ❤️
I aspire to live a life like both of you
Seems so heavenly
Don’t believe everything you see on the internet. Try to enjoy the life you have
The explaining each other to a stranger, Gabe's made me cry it's really sweet I can't explain it but how smooth and on going how he talks about you is well has me at an awe. Paused at :34😭🥲 crying literally
My husband and i got married about 2 weeks ago and we answered the questions along with you guys. It was fun to see the answers that we gave as an early married couple and the answers you both gave as a couple who has been married more than 5 years.
It's been such a long time since you guys made a sit down video, really missed the podcast style content!
I really love this concept! As a young adult christian there is so much value for me in the things you guys say and talk about ♥
Jess&Gabe do more videos like this you guys are amazing, loved it so much.
Just something i´ve notice because i watch it twice already a few hours ago and again right now because i wanted to check something, so when i watched it a few hours ago it had like around 83.8k views and know is 81k views what? It goes backwords? youtube is really weird.
youtube is really weird gives lots of views to same and not to others also the same with the number of subscribers, realy sucks
that´s really weird the thing about the views,something is wrong with youtube
I loved hearing that you plan to homeschool the baby!! That’s going to be one of the best and most rewarding choices you make. 😊
Would absolutely love to see Jess as a mum/worship singer/interior designer 🤩
Don't worry Jess, HSM3 makes me cry every time too.
And my heart literally crying watching this video and remembering sending it to someone who cheated on me.. 😅 but I am happy that it ended for good.
Aww the words of Gabriel at the end were so cute 🥰🥰🥰
The compliments to each-other, why'd I start tearing up a little?
Loooooooooved this so much. Love you guys and your vulnerability and willingness to share. Blessings.❤
I think it took me 4-6 months after having our daughter to figure out a balance between being a new mom, wife, work, personal, friends, cleaning. All of that.
I love this video, and the way y’all talk to each other is so sweet… I’ve been watching y’all for years and I love both of you!! 😊😊
jess saying HSM 3 is why i love her
Gabe, when you said “distraction” to get over your first love by using vine… isn’t like more refocusing your priorities? Cuz, when you were in a relationship, your focus was your special someone… and it was over, your focus changed to Vine. So I guess refocusing is more fitting than distraction haha
Love love loveeeee these sorts of vids
And vlogs too of course
Same ! I was a little unsure with the first podcast style video. But, now I actually really enjoy them
@@KarleeM76 righttt!! Some of my questions actually get cleared up
11:49 Makaya's little wiggle is soooo cute 😍
For favorite song lyric mine is, "cause God knows if I were to lose you time goes further away just explore whatever's left of my soul cause I won't need it anymore"
~Q. Insecurity that holds you back the most? ~A. “The opinions of others… “
As I listened, this came to mind & heart~ a loved piece of children’s literature entitled, ‘You Are Special,’ by Max Lucado. It is with my profound gratitude for who you are & what you do ; for the extraordinarily powerful encouragement that you are to me & countless others, that I encourage you to enjoy, ‘You are Special’, by Max Lucado! ~GRATITUDE!
I just wanted to address the Gabe not listening when being spoken to. I read a book called men are like waffles women are like spaghetti. It explains how men compartmentalize, what ever they are doing THATS WHAT THEY ARE DOING ie if he's at work then he's working if he's watching TV then he's watching TV. For us women EVERYTHING in life intertwines like spaghetti,we could be doing the dishes thinking about what to pack the kids for lunch tomorrow which will get us Thinking about how much sugar they consume and how we have to teach them a balanced diet so next time we go to the grocery store we have to buy more natural food and so on and so on
Just came online to see if there was a new video on your channel!😂❤️❤️
Thank youuuu!❤️
I cry THE MOST when I watch High school musical 3 haha, I feel like I relate to everything Jess says on a deeper level hahahah
Please do a podcast I would listen to every single episode
SAME JESS!!!! My go to answer for a movie that makes me cry is HSM3 EVERY DANG TIME
This was so much fun to watch. I really enjoyed your happiness in this video. Love these sit-downs, they bring me so much calmness.
I love you guys ❤ I also love the podcast style videos. You guys don’t do it often (which is nice) but when one comes around it feels special and more intimate for the fans 🫶🏽
I literally cry every time I watch HSM3 & I’m 25 years old too! Lol!! 🤭
HIGH SCHOOL MUSICAL 3 MAKES ME CRY EVERY TIME TOO😭😭😭😭 W OUT FAIL
If you guys had your podcast already going, this would’ve made a great episode!
Genuinely, this was amazing content. Love the opportunity to hear from you guys in an authentic and casual setting ❤️ Keep up the amazing work
OMG I MISSED YALL, i’m back and here to stay cus idek what happened the first time but whatttt YOU GUYS ARE PARENTS CONGRADULATIONSSS🙌🙌🎉
Yall are soo cute!! Talking about some serious topics but also make it funny/entertaining.
loveee this little chill talk show of the conte's 🥰🥰💛
love this format!
The “awwwww I’m all sweaty” at the end killed me 🤣 love y’all
Listening to understand instead of listening to respond!!
Perfect by ed Sheeran is my husband and I’d first dance song! The “we were just kids when we fell in love” part immediately got us, we started dating in high school, then got married 11 years later 🥰
I can’t wait for Concept.
Please start a podcast! Your voices and conversations are the best!!
I love these sit down videos so much 💛
beautiful jess and amazing gabe, i adore and praise y'all's souls so muchhhh... may god be with y'all through it all.. you both are always in my prayer.. stay safe and healthy.
Loved this sit-down podcast vibe!
This is so sweet 🥺 writing these questions down so my husband and I can ask them to each other lol
Love that Rachel. I’m doing them as journalling prompts ☺️
This was so nice 💚 Just chilling and chatting🎙️co host Milo off to the side 🐶 Kaia makes a guest appearance ✨ truths, compliments, roasts, and even some singing! 🎶
Yes please to more Conte'nt ✌️
These are great journaling prompts… note to self
Would love if you guys can do these probably every couple months ❤️❤️ just talk and share life
I enjoyed this video so much! Bern watching you two since the beginning. Every moment was truly precious, especially when Gabe picked up your lovely baby aww. ❤ + the vibes are just so good with you. Sending love!
Have you heard of the Save Soil movement before?
It is said that by 2045 we would be producing 40% less food than what we are producing right now, and our population would be over 9.3 billion people.
If you like to eat, you might be interested to Save Soil also😊
#SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet #Mentsükatalajt #Tudatosbolygó
Love from Hungary 🇭🇺🌿🌿🌿
Save Soil, let's make it happen
I love this podcast style interview style video!! I wish ya had a podcast together.
These were such good questions!! 🥰 I’d love to see more people do this 🙂
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you guys should do more videos like these!!