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honestly stop- it’s a shame that you went on a youtube channel that’s about opening yourself to new ideas and thoughts among lifestyles to go an “watch” a video with an obvious close mind and to not even listen to not just all of the girls in the video but the one that specifically my comment was about and to proceed type the comment out to some one who doesn’t want your two cents. my comment stands, and you might want to enlighten yourself on the birth control method “just close your legs” because it doesn’t always work like that and i wish it was as easy as that in a perfect world but this world is volatile and thinks that opinions is the way we lead so a lot of times like stated in the video if you grow up in a conservative way you don’t get the actual conversation about birth control, how sex works, consent among how the hell your own reproductive system may work. i think you should think things through before you speak or maybe just stay silent and rewatch this beautiful channels video with a more open mind. Thank you! Have a good day!
In my country MOST schools don't even have sex ed classes. The closest we come to having one is reading the reproduction chapter in biology. So yeah there's a lot of getting pregnant in secret, having abortions in secret and a lot of just kicking out or killing the girls in secret.
Here in the uk,we started learning about this in y6/5 grade and Y7 and through out school life I'm 12 btw we even lightly touched the subject in year4.The American education system is really one of the worst in the world
Jay Gill exactly you wouldn’t want them to get pregnant if their not ready but if they do you don’t want to shun them and stop talking to them and judge them
I feel so bad for Maddie because she seemed so emotional about her child’s father being not there. I just wanted to give her a hug and tell her she is doing great.
Guapo Y Rico and she’s the only one taking any responsibility, he should have to help out too. Even if he no longer wants to be with her, he still has a responsibility to their child.
Ladies, someone else's issues with fertility have nothing to do with you. Don't feel like you need to have a child just because other women struggle to conceive.
I feel like no one is talking about how mature of a decision it is to notice that a father isn't a good influence on the baby and cut him loose AT 15. There are people in their 40s who can't make that decision.
It is difficult cause every child needs a father. If the biological father isn't there I hope someone else will take that place for real. My father grew up with out his father and yes it made him the best dad ever but I know that deep down he misses the fact that he didn't had a dad when he neeeded
I feel so bad for Maddie, being a teen mom is hard but being a teen mom at 14/15 is so much harder. I give her mad props for raising her daughter without him. She deserves some love
@Dontknow Lol no lmao. She and her boyfriend were not educated about it. Plus when she talked about it in another video, she rejected at the beginning. She didn't really want to. It might be her fault too, but it's also her boyfriend's fault. It's also their parent's fault. It's also the person who's in charge of the education's fault. It's also social norm's fault. It's not black and white, please refrain from seeing social issues as so.
Her dad is still there. He was in a video on Maddie’s TH-cam channel but I do feel bad for Maddie, She is only 15/16 and she had to look after her child while she was in school.
@@brianboru175 actually is the complete opposite, it's about supporting the teens that got pregnant by mistake and don't want to get an abortion or give the baby for adoption so that they know they are not alone and that they can do it, it's not telling little girls to get pregnant at a young age, smh
standstillabby thank you. Why is that the first though that comes to people heads when we clearly state that we encourage our friends to wait to have kids?
Guapo Y Rico I understand that, I just don’t think it’s fair. She’s been left alone in this scary situation and the other person who’s responsible isn’t there to be scared with her.
I also want a teen dad version. Or maybe teen parents as couples. Not everyone has to be teens still, but people who were teen parents share thier experiences and compare lives.
how ironic that the girl against abortion was the only one who felt educated enough on birth control🤔 ..... if people don’t want abortion to be a thing anymore we need more education in school!!!!! sex shouldn’t be so taboo!!!
@@oskyluvr Not everyone can understand how a boyfriend loves and how a father loves and they just assume that a good boyfriend is cut out for a good father aswell.
Most prolifers are very clear about morals for a reason: to prevent this. It's not just to shame behavior that feels good. First: republicans donate to charities the most (see stats for helping women/girls). Second, what you said is not an argument.
I wish they'd included an older teen mom, ie was a teen when she had the baby but has grown up since. What's it like for a former teen mom once she's like 25 and has a teenager? I'd love to hear that perspective.
It was 2 weeks after my 16th birthday when I had my first son. This year I turn 40 and he turns 24 life isn't over, but it's a very hard road. I wouldn't change my decision.
The red head is a old soul, sounds wise beyond her years. I think she will make a great mother. Not that I dont think the others wont, her answers just really stood out.
@@priels.f3375 You're right. Bad use of an absolute. A lot of people are against abortion. So if a teen has sex and gets pregnant would you rather she keep it or get an abortion? I personally chose to support them either way instead of making them feel even worst because either way they are going to be judged.
Jayla Smith I totally agree with you. People should be able to choose what they want for their bodies and their lives because it’s ultimately their life.
@@jaylasmith7317 agree, that's the sad part tho is no matter what you choose people gonna judge. The baby happened anyway so yelling at that woman isnt gonna do anything. However supporting as well as advising will help.
@@esthergeorge223 Actually, the past tense of spell is spelled in American English. In other varieties of English, such as AUS/UK, both spellings are accepted. Spelt in American English would refer to a hardy wheat mainly grown in Europe.
I have a curiosity.Why everybody thinks the moment the heart is formed then the fetus can feel something?The brain’s nervous system develops around 8 weeks and the consciousness appears around 24-25 weeks of pregnancy so the fetus can’t feel pain before 8 weeks and is not conscious until way later.What I want to say is that we don’t feel with the heart.The heart just pumps the blood.We feel and love with the brain, although world wide the heart is the symbol of love it doesn’t help us feel emotions or sensations.I don’t say I am contra or pro abortion, I just find it curious how we were “fooled” into thinking that we love and feel things with the heart, when in reality the brain is the organ responsible for that
You need at least some brain activity to have a heartbeat - it's the brain that tells the heart to beat. And 24-25 weeks is way too late for consciousness - there are babies who've reacted to amniocentesis around 15-18 weeks gestation.
@@ettinakitten5047 The AAAS states that "New research shows that babies display glimmers of consciousness and memory as early as 5 months old" and other sources say that the kind of advanced brain activity needed for consciousness happens at around 25 weeks
nobody can know when consciousness develops. we barely know anything about it in adults, I don't trust any information saying that they know when an fetus develops an consciousness.
I felt so bad for the blonde haired girl when she was talking about the father. She sounded like she was going to cry and it broke my heart. I wish I could give her a hug
I took a human sexuality class in college, and I was near 30, and when my professor asked us where we got our sex education from, almost no one said from their parents. Some said from school but the issue was that most of it was from their peers, who were giving false information. So a big shout out to my mom and stepmom who were not afraid to teach me about birth control or afraid to take me to a clinic to get on it right before I went to college.
Michaella Kennedy it’s usually get an abortion you’ll ruin my life or they are scared and run from it. But when I think teen I think 14-17. Not over 18.
Lol we havent cared about men for years. They wont do it. Why do you think men's suicide rate is so high compared to women? Its cause nobody cares about what men think and men bottle things up because they know nobody cares so why share a problem thats not going to get fixed.
@@micaela7159 but children do and to deny the possibility that your child might (and deny them access to health education) you're putting them at risk of unwanted pregnancy
Olivia Bull “So Mature!” She was so mature when she got pregnant at fourteen wasn’t she? It’s her fault she went with it as much as it was the boy’s fault. These people are so immature. I’m 13 I would never be so immature as to do this.
@@kookie-py i mean that these girls not encourage other teens to get pregnant but if they get they help them and support them.. Hope I helped you haha 😂
Yeah at 19 you already graduated high school and at 14 your a complete child....you're still in school and you don't drive and your just not realy ready
A friend of mine got a girl pregnant in high school and I consider him the gold standard for teen parent. He went from barely passing classes, no job, party every week end to a straight A student. This dude knuckled down when he needed to most I have tons of respect for him. I really felt bad when the girl got crazy and decided to just cut him out of the kids life. It broke his heart
Sounds awful she cut him out of the kids life, But are you sure there was no other reason to it? Afterall no one knows what goes on in their realationship. Just a thought
Jungkooks Left nipple I don’t know everything about it but I know she wasn’t a very good parent especially compared to him. He wanted to have a family and apparently she felt she was better off as a single mother and just getting child support
noah thehoneyboy if he gets a good job and like no criminal records then he could definitely apply for joint custody. Hope he gets blessed for being a good guy :)
Omg that is so sweet... I think he is the best teen dad to consider and that girl is crazy for cutting such a good father out of their childs life like bruh
lol planned my ass. she didnt want to look like a harlot for having sex outside of marriage. its the 21st century. no one cares. youre being judged for gettied married that young and 'planning' to have a kid, not cuz u had sex before marriage🙄
@Halee Puckett I'm not going to accuse any of these girls, but just statistically speaking teen mom's are more likely to be single mothers, and in turn more likely to be in a low socioeconomic class, and in turn more likely to utilize welfare. Being a teen Mom lowers your chance of getting a HS diploma or higher education, and being a single mother can lead to a vast number of problems for your kid(s). Luckily, each year the statistics for teen Mom shows a downward trend, meaning less teen mom's. (However, sadly, the rate of single mothers is on the rise). An interesting topic to research.
My heart broke when Maddie was the only one to walk towards disagree for the question regarding child's father's involvement. Coz i know Maddie wanted that Everly doesn't miss out being with her dad. But I guess it's better to have no influence than to have bad influence
Namrata P Okay so the thing with me is, i don't have a dad or at least he doesn't want me - And i would give EVERYTHING to have him in my life, now matter how he would treat me
Kira hun lemme tell you something. my mother’s dad left her when she was young. he came back, and she was ecstatic of course, but through his behavior she realized why he left. he was abuse and not fit to be a father. a father isn’t just anyone. he needs to be able to LOVE and CARE for his child. kids shouldn’t have to settle for a parent. maddie made the right decision by not letting her daughter have a bad influence as a father
I was pregnant at 14 and had my first son at 15 and now am 42. The way I think about it now and how I thought about it then is so different in many ways. With maturity comes wisdom. I do not regret my son but do regret all the things I missed out on as a teen and young adult. Life is not over as a teen mom. It has been a long road for me. My oldest is now 26 and is married and has 2 children of his own. I am so proud of the young man he has become! I am now almost half done with my BA in elementary education my youngest is now 11. I have 5 sons and every time one of them gets to the age I was when I got pregnant I kinda hold my breath and hope the same does not happen to them. Once they get past that then it is high school graduation as the goal my oldest found out he was expecting a week after graduation. Though I still wish he would have waited and experienced life a bit, I looked at it as an accomplishment that I got him to graduation before he had his first. To all the teen parents out there keep your head up and know you can do it! It will not be easy and you may miss out on some things but you are stronger than you know!
I feel so bad for the blond girl everyone else baby daddy was in their life’s and I could see she was kinda sad I felt so bad for her I wanna give her a hug :(
yeah I mean, when she saw that other girls have the baby's father having responsibility and she doesn't....I'm sure she was very sad. I mean if it was me, I'm sure I would have cried there and then. Seeing that other girls had their boyfriends/the father of their child taking responsibility while the father of your child...is just like, get an abortion, I don't want to be a father, and leaving....it's hard. Also, she is a strong girl. And being strong also meant that you want to keep that 'strong' profile and not let others know and see how weak you really are. That's how mothers, especially single mothers, are.
@@calumhoodswifey7743 What does that has to do with me lol? I just corrected her mistakes, she wasn't talking about when the first heartbeat starts but about when it can be heard
I felt bad for the father one.. You could see how hurt she was because she was hearing everyone's experience with having a dad while she's here being a single mother. All the luck Maddie ❤️
Layla Al assaad if the girl can decide if she keeps the baby or not (i think she could exept in a few situations), the guy should be able to decide if he is the father or not. If it was an accident and he didn’t want the baby, he should’t be obligated to be the ‘’dad’’, he also should’t have to pay for child support. You want the baby? Thats fine, but I don’t want to, so don’t try to get my entire bank account for a decision I couldn’t make.
I grew up without a father and for 23 years I had to fight for my mental health, not having a father figure can be really really bad and you can see she want that father figure, she wanted a father for her baby even they are not togather anymore and i think that's whats tearing her up knowing that at some point she has to explain her child why him or her father isnt part of there life and that she has to make sure that her child knows its not him or hers fault.
@@TenebraeLexia as someone who also grew up without a father I can tell you that it's all about the parenting. Having a father figure is really not the be all and end all of a good childhood or parenting in general.
@@alisalexter4072 boys gonna be boys... because the world let it happen. Girls gonna be women, gonna be moms, gonna be grandmas, meanwhile the world let boys be boys. That's unfair, and that's tottally true as well.
I felt bad for Maddie when she had to answer the question about if Everly’s dad was in the picture, when she got all choked up my heart broke for her❤️❤️
Don't feel bad? His reaction was completely normal for a FOURTEEN year old They're both at fault for this He shouldn't have let his hormones take over And she shouldn't have spread her legs
honestly stop- he had sex with a girl, and then called her a slut. I’m sorry but seriously? I can understand why he might have doubts that the kid is his, or maybe he doesn’t believe he’s the only guy she’s been with but that’s no excuse for slut shaming someone. It’s normal for him to not want a child, again I understand that, but he also didn’t use contraception so it’s both if their faults, but she didn’t choose for him to get into fights and be a terrible father.
My mom had me when she was 41 years old. I used to be embarrassed about it, but now I think, why is it so weird? People give birth at all different ages
@@svdprvncesse0469 my mom also had me at 40 and my sister is way older than me and is 30 years old lol. I used to be embarrassed about it because some of my friends’ moms were younger than my own sister! And my mom would be like the same age as their grandmas and it was embarrasing. But now I don’t really care
I love the red head. She’s gorgeous inside and out, she’s super wise and well-spoken, and she just seems like a good person to be around! I wish her and all the other moms and their babies the absolute best 💛
@@brianboru175 Teen mothers need the full family support system. Not to be a wet blanket but without it, they almost doomed to fail. The society should not encourage teen mothers, period. It is not healthy.
Hello People we could just you know dip which is what a lot of guys do n if he still in hs not much u can do sure u can put chill support but if he aint work he prob has to only pay 10$ a month
big balls Both potential parents are at fault. You make it sound like 100% of the burden of fault lies with the mother. The father is also responsible for not using a condom.
Actually below 18.. usually teens bodies are not really for it.. and even for girls, they should consider that at the end of the day, birth controls don't give 100% guarantee that you can't be pregnant. In many countries, having sex below 18 is considered as rape.
@@mahimabhargava2714 actually, majority of countries have the legal age at 16. In Europe, it's mainly 14-16. Not supporting it. In my opinion, it should be 18-21
@Royd it's literally the law that you have to take care of the child you made..hence why child support exist and you can be jailed if you miss payments
@@hyperlordyoutube if you actually watched the video you would've seen that she had no idea that she could get pregnant. That's why countries that have great education systems have less teen pregnancies. It's easy to hate her and blame it on her, but it's not really her fault. I blame the parents and that excuse of a school she went to
big balls being in the baby’s life is not what makes a father. if he didn’t want to be a father he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant, a pregnancy takes two people.
Very cool but I think it’d be hard to get the full picture because i doubt they’d get any volunteers who are dead beat dads and completely uninvolved (though my assumption is this is a large percentage of teen dads)
sara kroczyk Yes but you still risk marginalizing a group of people regarding this topic. Not to say that these young ladies weren’t relatable but I would love to see a part 2 with a more racially diverse cast. (I noticed that they were no African American or Asian (south or east) teen moms present). Still a good video tho.
its questionable how they found these people already let alone the 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of the population that are teen dads willing to come on to youtube
@@annabeledwards544 none of the teen moms here that I know of have adult fathers. Is it possible, yes but usually it happens with boys you meet in school or people you're generally around, i.e people your age.
Allie and Maddie seem like they could end up being really good friends the way they talked to each other 5 months later... okay so i didn’t know but apparently they were already friends so my bad haha but they still seem to have a good dynamic anyway
Damn, Maddie has it rough. Getting pregnant at 14 and having to raise a child alone is unimaginably scary Edit: I’m not in any way excusing her actions but regardless of whether or not she should have done A, B, C or D the fact is the situation is still difficult and scary.
This is so depressing. Even in the best case scenario of getting married and starting a family that young it's sad to me. Most teen parents I've met seem to be stuck mentally trying to recapture their youth. Their whole life revolves around being a parent forever.
I find it very interesting that we rarely, if ever, hear the term “teen dad”. This doesn’t make a ton of sense to me bc it takes 2 people to make a baby.
because sadly, a lot of the time when a teen pregnancy occurs, its mainly the mom going through it from the day they find out their pregnant to raising the child.
Because teen moms/girls are forced to become a lot more intelligent and mature once they are having a child while the boys really aren't forced to and have to make the decision solely on morals and how mature they are.
Yeah, it was something to get cocky about. Im in highschool but i know people in my school who tells me story of how they lost their virginity in middle school.
Yes. I’m in 7th and a girl had to go to the hospital to see if she was pregnant, in 6th grade. It’s honestly weird/disturbing to think about in a way. Because to think some people go through their whole lives as a virgin, when there are 6th graders who already have lost their virginity.
it really wasn't that deep, he never wanted a kid. She got it anyway, deal with the consequences. You can't now complain and scream victim when he's not there as you chose this
@@k-popismybias1139 Yeah they're both responsible of course it makes two to make a baby. But the decision of going through with the pregnancy is ultimately on her. So why feel sorry for her when the father isnt too happy about it. Especially as he expressed this prior to the pregnancy, she knew what she was getting into ffs 😂
@C H Yes, birth control should only be taken by those who truly understand the negatives! There are so many dangers to taking birth control, including death, and that's such a huge thing for *children* to deal with.
When the blonde girl talked about how in texas all they talk about is abstinence, I really felt that. They never talk about things like birth control, condoms, etc.
peachygranger I know, but it is „don‘t support teen pregnancy but support pregnant teens“. So i was right. I never said: who the hell supports pregnant teens. I said: who the hell supports teen pregnancy. It was all right, you just misread my comment
Lilman Yellow hi, teen mum here, I look after my baby and don’t have parents to help me. saying this about teen mothers is actually really gross. I live with my boyfriend who is at college so I look after my little girl almost 24/7 alone.
TaunTaun's Mr.President he works part time while in college and I get child benefit from the government, college is different in the uk and it’s only part time
do all people with depression (diagnosed) think the same. Update: I think my use of the the word "diagnosed" wasn't fully explained. I put that word in there because i have heard people my age and on social media use depression or "im so depressed" as a way to be relatable without really meaning it. I think a lot of people see it as "cool" to be depressed when that is far from the truth. I personally have seen and increase of people use these phrases on social media. I just really want to destigmatize mental illness and i thought depression was a good start seeing that more intense mental illnesses(DID,PTSD,OSDD ect.) do need a diagnosis by a phyciatrist. I DONT think your feelings are ANY less valid if you are not diagnosed. Love to everyone.
KODE then don’t say you have depression until you’re diagnosed. It’s disrespectful to people who are diagnosed. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself, so if you wanna take care of yourself go to the doctor or get someone to go with you/take you. You CAN get diagnosed and if you can’t cause of a parent talk to a school counselor or wait till you’re 18.
@@arac7690 According to the video she wasn’t educated on birth control beforehand. She could have researched, but the conservative background makes teens less likely to do so. Plus she surely matured after having a child, so even if she wasn’t before she can be amazingly smart now.
I really feel bad for Maddie. She's 15 and didn't get the support she needed from her bf. I'm 15 and I can't imagine going through what she's been through.
Josh Jacobs well Chelsea I also feel bad for her but she was kinda a little proud about being the only one with like a “Great Marriage” somewhat she thinks she’s better than all of the other moms and she thinks that she is the only struggling with it kinda maybe. Also she doesn’t know what it feels to be in maddie’s situation.
Kid's shouldn't have boyfriends. Especially when their not educated on stuff like this. Now their going to miss out on so many things they could have done growing up.
first time watching one of these videos and i was shocked that their initial answers were so open to everyone else in the room. i cant see how we can get their honest answers without some kind of barrier.
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have one for muslims and hindus as well please
How about- Do bible believers think the same? 😉
Hey guys you need to do, Do all college students think the same?
Do all stoners think the same?...Do it...Do it(Starsky and Hutch voice)😆✌️
How about -do all teen dads think the same
When they asked about the dads involvement and the one girl went straight to the left... that hurt.
and the obnoxious one starts talking straight away about the "too involved husband". ugh.
Thats Maddie Lambert she is a youtuber
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Annika they are on good terms now!!
Annika no because she is female and she doesn’t deserve to even have it easy because nobody cares about them
Why is no one talking about the girl that said
"Theres a huge difference between supporting teen moms, and supporting teens becoming moms"
WORD GIRL
exactly .
preach ✨
Literally less then a second after I read this it said it in the video 😂
What's the difference
Baisil Sunny
Ye idk either
i want to hug the blonde girl when she was talking about the father. She is so strong and her statement truly shows how good of mother she is.
haley bay I only clicked this because I saw her, and I watch her on TH-cam all the time @maddielambert
baby.cherries same
She's still at fault tho lmao
She wouldn't be in that situation if she would've just kept her legs closed
honestly stop- it’s a shame that you went on a youtube channel that’s about opening yourself to new ideas and thoughts among lifestyles to go an “watch” a video with an obvious close mind and to not even listen to not just all of the girls in the video but the one that specifically my comment was about and to proceed type the comment out to some one who doesn’t want your two cents. my comment stands, and you might want to enlighten yourself on the birth control method “just close your legs” because it doesn’t always work like that and i wish it was as easy as that in a perfect world but this world is volatile and thinks that opinions is the way we lead so a lot of times like stated in the video if you grow up in a conservative way you don’t get the actual conversation about birth control, how sex works, consent among how the hell your own reproductive system may work. i think you should think things through before you speak or maybe just stay silent and rewatch this beautiful channels video with a more open mind. Thank you! Have a good day!
honestly stop- Listen to your own username and stop.
Their lack of knowledge regarding pregnancy and safe sex is quite scary, honestly.
the only reason i know is bc my mom was a teen mom
In my country MOST schools don't even have sex ed classes. The closest we come to having one is reading the reproduction chapter in biology. So yeah there's a lot of getting pregnant in secret, having abortions in secret and a lot of just kicking out or killing the girls in secret.
Here in the uk,we started learning about this in y6/5 grade and Y7 and through out school life I'm 12 btw we even lightly touched the subject in year4.The American education system is really one of the worst in the world
@@dereckhazzard9149 same we learn about this in like 5th grade
@@aabiram.a.z5645 killing?
I really like the way the girl phrased "there's a big difference in supporting teen mom's and supporting teens to become mom's
Jay Gill exactly you wouldn’t want them to get pregnant if their not ready but if they do you don’t want to shun them and stop talking to them and judge them
Jay Gill yw for 1k
@@jasperm434 ahaha thanks
@@nicole963 agreed, what's done is done, you have to work with the situation you have
Danielle Cohn is encouraging teens to become mums.
There is a huge difference between supporting teen moms and supporting teens to become moms. So important
isadora Chavez YESSSSSSS!!!!!
isadora Chavez I love this so so much
Truee
*cough* Daniel cohn
THANK YOU 💖
I feel so bad for Maddie because she seemed so emotional about her child’s father being not there. I just wanted to give her a hug and tell her she is doing great.
The father left her after he found out.
I am confussin it’s her fault to
@@wcharleigh no he broke up with her before that
Guapo Y Rico and she’s the only one taking any responsibility, he should have to help out too. Even if he no longer wants to be with her, he still has a responsibility to their child.
@@atlantagemtv3033 she was 14 too
Ladies, someone else's issues with fertility have nothing to do with you. Don't feel like you need to have a child just because other women struggle to conceive.
THIS
yes ma’am 🙌
That logic hurt me. I think you should raise a baby only if you want to raise a baby, but what do I know.
AMEN!!! Like what does it have to do with you that your mom struggled to have you? Especially when you are 17
I needed this comment right now.
I feel like no one is talking about how mature of a decision it is to notice that a father isn't a good influence on the baby and cut him loose AT 15. There are people in their 40s who can't make that decision.
EXACTLY
It is difficult cause every child needs a father. If the biological father isn't there I hope someone else will take that place for real. My father grew up with out his father and yes it made him the best dad ever but I know that deep down he misses the fact that he didn't had a dad when he neeeded
@@AdrianaMVPrayerPodcastShow the child will have her Grandfather, who isn't that old and can be a father figure.
Honestly, people who make mature decisions wouldn't have had a baby at age 15
My mom was 27 when she gave birth to me sooo is that a good age?
The blonde girl really has been THROUGH IT. I’m 18 and I can’t even imagine what it’s like. Very strong girl. I wish her and her child the best.
Cheyenergy she is doing really well, has her own apartment and everything, she has a TH-cam channel where you can follow her journey
she has a youtube channel! 10/10 would check it out. pretty sure she was also on "kids meet a teenage mom"
Shawol Blue she doesn’t have her own apartment🤭
@@girls4722 how do you want us to check out the channel without giving a link/name???
Michael Gamp i think her channel is Maddie Lambert
I feel so bad for Maddie, being a teen mom is hard but being a teen mom at 14/15 is so much harder. I give her mad props for raising her daughter without him. She deserves some love
she could have chose a older man with money and she would have been fine.. men don't want used up women as wives
@@jamesmanter8731 who hurt you?
pegah afrasiabi ｆａｃｔｓ
@Dontknow Lol no lmao. She and her boyfriend were not educated about it. Plus when she talked about it in another video, she rejected at the beginning. She didn't really want to. It might be her fault too, but it's also her boyfriend's fault. It's also their parent's fault. It's also the person who's in charge of the education's fault. It's also social norm's fault. It's not black and white, please refrain from seeing social issues as so.
Her dad is still there. He was in a video on Maddie’s TH-cam channel but I do feel bad for Maddie, She is only 15/16 and she had to look after her child while she was in school.
Little update, Maddie, the blonde, youngest girl, now has the baby daddy involved in her life and is on good terms with him!
That's good to hear. Hopefully he's treating them well
Yeah I saw that video too!!
@@sam-li5rq He should’ve been more careful then lmao
@@drfifteenmd7561 yeah lol
@@Neyobe Can you post the link to that video?
"There is a difference between supporting teen moms and supporting teens to become moms." Loooove what that girl said!! Excellent.
Of course you would. Girl power right 🙄🙄🙄?
@@brianboru175 actually is the complete opposite, it's about supporting the teens that got pregnant by mistake and don't want to get an abortion or give the baby for adoption so that they know they are not alone and that they can do it, it's not telling little girls to get pregnant at a young age, smh
standstillabby thank you. Why is that the first though that comes to people heads when we clearly state that we encourage our friends to wait to have kids?
@@brianboru175 If a teen makes the mistake of getting pregnant, you should support her through her tough time. Dumbass!
Yes she hit the nail on the head with that one!
The blonde girl talking abt how the father wasn’t involved broke my heart
@Lilman Yellow her name is Maddie Lambert, same as her yt channel. She certainly doesnt get govt money, and is a full time parent.
Lilman Yellow wow underlying sexism and generalising judgmental . Jumped out.
Lilman Yellow she takes care of her kid. Stop making assumptions
Tori Kieschnick duh lol it don’t break mines it took her and him to have the baby. That’s what to expect from teens
Guapo Y Rico I understand that, I just don’t think it’s fair. She’s been left alone in this scary situation and the other person who’s responsible isn’t there to be scared with her.
I also want a teen dad version. Or maybe teen parents as couples. Not everyone has to be teens still, but people who were teen parents share thier experiences and compare lives.
Lol if you can find them, they dipped the moment mommy didn't want an abortion.😆
Had to give you your 1k like. Also I agree I think that would be a great video idea.
Yes!
@@wiseguy240Winston it's funny because normally it's the MOM that wanted to have an abortion, not the dad.
The fact si that there are no teen dads
how ironic that the girl against abortion was the only one who felt educated enough on birth control🤔 ..... if people don’t want abortion to be a thing anymore we need more education in school!!!!! sex shouldn’t be so taboo!!!
Maddie was also against abortion, but I agree.
Exactly!!!
I strongly agree
Indeed, sex education is the only way some people will actually be abstinent as well.
Teaching abstinence only leads to babies having babies 😔
abortion isn't birth control. It's killing the fetus, everything else prevents fertilization
The girl with the red hair is extremely beautiful and so well spoken
Rosemarie Rivera her yt is Allie Brooke
HER TH-cam IS ALLIE BROOKE
That’s my girlllll I love her
Look at her TH-cam Channel then
Yes Allie Brooke I love her
"There's a huge difference between being a father and a boyfriend" give that girl a medal.
A medal? lol obviously it’s different everyone can see that
@@oskyluvr Not everyone can understand how a boyfriend loves and how a father loves and they just assume that a good boyfriend is cut out for a good father aswell.
Syeda Nilima u deserve the award 🥇
Blossom Cotton not everyone can see that ya know so dont go assuming
Kaylee Wright well I thought it’s pretty obvious but apparently not 🤨
The girl with the red hair almost makes me cry, she's so lovely
She has a youtube channel. It's called Allie Brooke
@Elizendo It has a orange tint
yeah she was so lovely until she said "since men mature way slower than girls" at 7:53...
Benci it’s scientifically proven that girls mature faster look it up
Elizendo that’s great but i’m trusting the hundreds of articles i’ve seen. you can look it up.
Nobody is talking about maddies outfit like its so cute
The redheads woman is so wise beyond her years its mind blowing. She’s going to raise a great kid.
Allie has a youtube channel she's amazing ☺
@@similarly4904 what is her chanel?
@@sophiekendel2613 Allie Brooke😊
She’s really pretty too
Sophie Kendel thank you!
"There's a big difference between supporting teen moms and supporting teens to become moms"
Tell them to the Republicans pro-lifers. I meant it not in a political tone. I meant it as in let them face the reality tone.
Most prolifers are very clear about morals for a reason: to prevent this. It's not just to shame behavior that feels good. First: republicans donate to charities the most (see stats for helping women/girls). Second, what you said is not an argument.
This is a great comment.
Agreed
no
I almost cried seeing Maddie standing by her own when they asked abt the father
And when her shaky voice shakes more, maddie nooooo!!
And she’s 15, way to young to have to be going through something like that
Love u maddie!!!!
@@theresa9538 yea i watched that one and tbh i felt extremely awkward for them 2
@@gellianeubagan9706 i know T.T but she's doing pretty great w her Everly now ❤️
I wish they'd included an older teen mom, ie was a teen when she had the baby but has grown up since. What's it like for a former teen mom once she's like 25 and has a teenager? I'd love to hear that perspective.
It was 2 weeks after my 16th birthday when I had my first son. This year I turn 40 and he turns 24 life isn't over, but it's a very hard road. I wouldn't change my decision.
Like 25 and has a teenager? Damn, so she had to have been around 12 when she gave birth? Tween mom 😳
The red head is a old soul, sounds wise beyond her years. I think she will make a great mother. Not that I dont think the others wont, her answers just really stood out.
Lucky Lex you are so incredibly sweet❤️❤️
Allie Brooke girlll where is your sweater from???
@@nehenzo1 why? How do you know that she didnt think of the possible repercussions and whether she was ready for a kid or not?
@@nehenzo1 wise people learn from experiences and mistakes
nehefrr Same thing I was thinking
"There is a big difference between supporting teen moms and supporting BECOMING a teen mom" YES!!
@Templar Knight But everyone is also against abortion. So what is the other option? Because abstinence clearly isnt the solution
Jayla Smith not everyone
@@priels.f3375 You're right. Bad use of an absolute. A lot of people are against abortion. So if a teen has sex and gets pregnant would you rather she keep it or get an abortion? I personally chose to support them either way instead of making them feel even worst because either way they are going to be judged.
Jayla Smith I totally agree with you. People should be able to choose what they want for their bodies and their lives because it’s ultimately their life.
@@jaylasmith7317 agree, that's the sad part tho is no matter what you choose people gonna judge. The baby happened anyway so yelling at that woman isnt gonna do anything. However supporting as well as advising will help.
"A boyfriend and a father are two different things." 👏👏🙌
you spelled different wrong
@@mathmagician155 it should be "spelt" not "spelled". You spelt the word "spelled" wrong. Past tense pls
@@esthergeorge223 Actually, the past tense of spell is spelled in American English. In other varieties of English, such as AUS/UK, both spellings are accepted. Spelt in American English would refer to a hardy wheat mainly grown in Europe.
@@miiyu5432 well in the UK we use spelt as past tense
@@esthergeorge223 oh well thanks for the heads up
I have a curiosity.Why everybody thinks the moment the heart is formed then the fetus can feel something?The brain’s nervous system develops around 8 weeks and the consciousness appears around 24-25 weeks of pregnancy so the fetus can’t feel pain before 8 weeks and is not conscious until way later.What I want to say is that we don’t feel with the heart.The heart just pumps the blood.We feel and love with the brain, although world wide the heart is the symbol of love it doesn’t help us feel emotions or sensations.I don’t say I am contra or pro abortion, I just find it curious how we were “fooled” into thinking that we love and feel things with the heart, when in reality the brain is the organ responsible for that
You need at least some brain activity to have a heartbeat - it's the brain that tells the heart to beat. And 24-25 weeks is way too late for consciousness - there are babies who've reacted to amniocentesis around 15-18 weeks gestation.
@@ettinakitten5047 The AAAS states that "New research shows that babies display glimmers of consciousness and memory as early as 5 months old" and other sources say that the kind of advanced brain activity needed for consciousness happens at around 25 weeks
@@ettinakitten5047 the heart forms first of all organs and then brain and everything
nobody can know when consciousness develops. we barely know anything about it in adults, I don't trust any information saying that they know when an fetus develops an consciousness.
This has always puzzled me too. Like why the heart? I'm gonna have to look into this now.
The 15 year old is so strong I just want to go hug and support her
Ellie. Star her yt is maddie lambert
She was on Hiho Kids
She is super awesome
CelliDoesStuff wait omg now i remember her wow shes even younger than me... i hate her boyfriend why would u leave your baby
She has a yt its maddie lambrat
Maddie(the blonde) looked so sad when everybody was explaining about their baby’s father
For real, that guy needs to get slapped
She was Hiho kids. I didn't notice
Yes it’s sad when most of them had some there for the baby
Ya
Yea Yea his name is Isaac go off on him ✌︎
I felt so bad for the blonde haired girl when she was talking about the father. She sounded like she was going to cry and it broke my heart. I wish I could give her a hug
Barney Is AWESOME 👏
333rd like
Same by the way her name is maddie
but his then boyfriend is in her daughters life.. she has TH-cam channel where i find out
@@binkrn5942 OMG, she has a TH-cam channel, please tell me What channel is please
I took a human sexuality class in college, and I was near 30, and when my professor asked us where we got our sex education from, almost no one said from their parents. Some said from school but the issue was that most of it was from their peers, who were giving false information. So a big shout out to my mom and stepmom who were not afraid to teach me about birth control or afraid to take me to a clinic to get on it right before I went to college.
a teen dad version would be so interesting, we don't usually get to hear their side!
Michaella Kennedy it’s usually get an abortion you’ll ruin my life or they are scared and run from it. But when I think teen I think 14-17. Not over 18.
Lol we havent cared about men for years. They wont do it. Why do you think men's suicide rate is so high compared to women? Its cause nobody cares about what men think and men bottle things up because they know nobody cares so why share a problem thats not going to get fixed.
Society doesn't care about men unless it's about child support, engineering, or going to War.
Omg yessss
👏👏👏 yesss
I despise parents who refuse education/birth control for their daughters but are shocked and angry when their kid winds up pregnant.
or they just shouldn’t have sex at 14
@@micaela7159 exactly.
@@micaela7159 but children do and to deny the possibility that your child might (and deny them access to health education) you're putting them at risk of unwanted pregnancy
@@micaela7159 Well duh. Abstinence should always be encouraged but not treated as a foolproof plan. Therein lies the problem.
@@the1dbumblebee317 Exactly. These people act like I condone kids having sex. Literally nothing in my original comment could even imply that.
im 14 and I could never imagine having a kid but she's soo mature
Olivia Bull gosh I’m 13, and have not got my period, I can’t imagine being pregnant especially since she said she just turned 14. Also, I look 9 lol.
@@aldcranks5700 gosh man cherish your blood-less years. i got mine when i had just turned 10. c h e r i s h them
Olivia Bull “So Mature!” She was so mature when she got pregnant at fourteen wasn’t she? It’s her fault she went with it as much as it was the boy’s fault. These people are so immature. I’m 13 I would never be so immature as to do this.
Olivia Bull I had my first child 6 years ago when I was 14 and I was immature but as soon as I had my baby I instantly turned into a 20 year old 😂
@@thecurryman5077 yes, but look how mature they got ...
“ Me and my twin brother have always been the same age”
Why did that remind me of “ every 60 seconds in Africa a minute passes by “
I think parents of teen parents would be an interesting episode.
Yesss!! Great idea.
yess this needs way more likes
Antinootus yesss pleaseee
Yeah that would be interesting
Especially the parents of the one who thought having an abortion would be disrespectful to her mother.
That 15 year old girl is so strong I can't even imagine-
I can't believe she's 15
Get this to 69 likes to make it less sad
@@kyna8 done
@Grace Roblez what's it called
Kyna Johnson its called maddie lambert
8:27 of course we must not support TEEN PREGNANCY but it is very important to *support* PREGNANT TEENS
They don't tell u to get pregnant but if the thing happend they won't rip your head off , So clear
@@clairdelune4423 okkk😂
@@kookie-py i mean that these girls not encourage other teens to get pregnant but if they get they help them and support them.. Hope I helped you haha 😂
San San they’re just saying they wouldn’t want every teen girl to get pregnant but if it happens they’ll support them because that’s important.
Cysus SL honestly If my friend became pregnant I would honestly help her care for her baby
I know it’s weird but I just love to help people😂
The 19 year old is so annoying. She also contradicted herself with the whole “i planned my pregnancy.”
Yeah I feel like why is she even on here she's not bringing much to the table
She’s not annoying just because she doesn’t believe in abortion.
@@melliexcx I don't think that's what they were getting at
@@sjjdksjdjs2984 no I’m sure that’s it. Because when you don’t support abortion you’re obviously a terrible person 🙄
mmkay sis
Having a baby at 19 and having a baby at 14 is such a huge difference
Marry Potter Yes extremely. 19 is an adult. 14 is a young teen. 14 can mean not even in high school. 19 can mean a full time job
Education is needed for youngsters
Harridira Sivagnanam but you can’t do anything about it and she was moreover barely educated about sex education. It’s like crying over a spilled milk
Yeah at 19 you already graduated high school and at 14 your a complete child....you're still in school and you don't drive and your just not realy ready
Harridira Sivagnanam what did you write?
Maybe people reported it?
The red head is very eloquent and articulate with her speaking
Lu H You mean Allie? Yeah, she’s amazing.
so 𝓮𝓵𝓸𝓺𝓾𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓵𝔂 𝓼𝓹𝓸𝓴𝓮𝓷
Allie or Tia?
đō yōū thīnk ī’ll grāđūātē ?
jessxox審美 Allie
A friend of mine got a girl pregnant in high school and I consider him the gold standard for teen parent. He went from barely passing classes, no job, party every week end to a straight A student. This dude knuckled down when he needed to most I have tons of respect for him. I really felt bad when the girl got crazy and decided to just cut him out of the kids life. It broke his heart
Great for him but it’s awful she cut him out, think of the baby
Sounds awful she cut him out of the kids life, But are you sure there was no other reason to it? Afterall no one knows what goes on in their realationship. Just a thought
Jungkooks Left nipple I don’t know everything about it but I know she wasn’t a very good parent especially compared to him. He wanted to have a family and apparently she felt she was better off as a single mother and just getting child support
noah thehoneyboy if he gets a good job and like no criminal records then he could definitely apply for joint custody. Hope he gets blessed for being a good guy :)
Omg that is so sweet... I think he is the best teen dad to consider and that girl is crazy for cutting such a good father out of their childs life like bruh
My jaw literally dropped when she said "we found out we were pregnant on a Wednesday and I got married that Saturday"
lol planned my ass. she didnt want to look like a harlot for having sex outside of marriage. its the 21st century. no one cares. youre being judged for gettied married that young and 'planning' to have a kid, not cuz u had sex before marriage🙄
@@MsDudette21 yeah I gotta say after hearing that was it truly planned?
I don’t think she truly planned for it. But she’s conservative and religious and they had to pretend.
So obviously
@@KatIsaTeddyBear what does that have to do w anything honestly
The girl in the beige sweater would be awesome to have as an aunt.
Kookie_Sprite omg yes
Kookie_Sprite I want her in my life like in any way possible
@@ayansi9784 I think she has a youtube chanel
What colour is beige
@@chanyeolsfluffyhair188 creamy white
I would say this is the best spectrum ever, everyone was really sweet and reasonable.
They are not. Everything wrong with society. Leaching off the taxpayers money!
nah
@Halee Puckett I'm not going to accuse any of these girls, but just statistically speaking teen mom's are more likely to be single mothers, and in turn more likely to be in a low socioeconomic class, and in turn more likely to utilize welfare. Being a teen Mom lowers your chance of getting a HS diploma or higher education, and being a single mother can lead to a vast number of problems for your kid(s). Luckily, each year the statistics for teen Mom shows a downward trend, meaning less teen mom's. (However, sadly, the rate of single mothers is on the rise). An interesting topic to research.
My heart broke when Maddie was the only one to walk towards disagree for the question regarding child's father's involvement. Coz i know Maddie wanted that Everly doesn't miss out being with her dad. But I guess it's better to have no influence than to have bad influence
Namrata P Okay so the thing with me is, i don't have a dad or at least he doesn't want me - And i would give EVERYTHING to have him in my life, now matter how he would treat me
@@Kira-ni8eu Ok you do you
Kira hun lemme tell you something. my mother’s dad left her when she was young. he came back, and she was ecstatic of course, but through his behavior she realized why he left. he was abuse and not fit to be a father. a father isn’t just anyone. he needs to be able to LOVE and CARE for his child. kids shouldn’t have to settle for a parent. maddie made the right decision by not letting her daughter have a bad influence as a father
@@mirandag3304 you need a gold star
Kira that’s probably cz u don’t know how bad it might be, some ppl are the opposite they wish they never had a mom/dad in their life
I was pregnant at 14 and had my first son at 15 and now am 42. The way I think about it now and how I thought about it then is so different in many ways. With maturity comes wisdom. I do not regret my son but do regret all the things I missed out on as a teen and young adult. Life is not over as a teen mom. It has been a long road for me. My oldest is now 26 and is married and has 2 children of his own. I am so proud of the young man he has become! I am now almost half done with my BA in elementary education my youngest is now 11. I have 5 sons and every time one of them gets to the age I was when I got pregnant I kinda hold my breath and hope the same does not happen to them. Once they get past that then it is high school graduation as the goal my oldest found out he was expecting a week after graduation. Though I still wish he would have waited and experienced life a bit, I looked at it as an accomplishment that I got him to graduation before he had his first. To all the teen parents out there keep your head up and know you can do it! It will not be easy and you may miss out on some things but you are stronger than you know!
“do all cops think the same?”
honestly think this would be hella interesting
amyx95 yess!
No
I mean no as in they don't, not as in I don't wanna see that😂
Oof we ARMY have weird ideas but I like it😂
Yes
I feel so bad for the blond girl everyone else baby daddy was in their life’s and I could see she was kinda sad I felt so bad for her I wanna give her a hug :(
Her name's Maddie and her youtube is Maddie Lambert
Aphrodite the goddess of love, beauty,and passion I know I subscribed her
I teared up when she was talking about it. I felt so bad for her. ❤ she'll find a good man in the future who'll be a great husband and a father.
and then the other girl goes "My husband is too involved" like sisss read the room
yeah I mean, when she saw that other girls have the baby's father having responsibility and she doesn't....I'm sure she was very sad. I mean if it was me, I'm sure I would have cried there and then. Seeing that other girls had their boyfriends/the father of their child taking responsibility while the father of your child...is just like, get an abortion, I don't want to be a father, and leaving....it's hard. Also, she is a strong girl. And being strong also meant that you want to keep that 'strong' profile and not let others know and see how weak you really are. That's how mothers, especially single mothers, are.
Anyone else notice that the blonde girl is from “kids meet a teen mom”
Can u comment video link
shaquan smalls m8 just look up what he said it ain’t that hard
HiHo
yeah😂
It’s Miles she also has a yt channel and is quite famous. I knew her from her channel.
"You're killing a heartbeat", did she go to biology class or...?
...Hating on the truth ..zagadat.
@@josefinamontico4536 What? You can't hear using ultrasounds, ultrasounds are used to see lol and no, heartbeats usually can be heard at week 7-8.
@@Adrian-mg5bl 18 days is when the heartbeat starts. TWO weeks and 4 days. Even though you cant hear it its still there.
@@calumhoodswifey7743 What does that has to do with me lol? I just corrected her mistakes, she wasn't talking about when the first heartbeat starts but about when it can be heard
she's right though. a heartbeat can be heard pretty early on.
I felt bad for the father one..
You could see how hurt she was because she was hearing everyone's experience with having a dad while she's here being a single mother.
All the luck Maddie ❤️
she chose him..
RedPills ForWomen The Clown jumped outtttt
@@jamesmanter8731 tf u talking about
Her father is now in the baby’s life but I believe there is some sort of tension between Maddie and the father of the baby.
Layla Al assaad if the girl can decide if she keeps the baby or not (i think she could exept in a few situations), the guy should be able to decide if he is the father or not. If it was an accident and he didn’t want the baby, he should’t be obligated to be the ‘’dad’’, he also should’t have to pay for child support. You want the baby? Thats fine, but I don’t want to, so don’t try to get my entire bank account for a decision I couldn’t make.
Maddie looks like she was on verge of tears (when she was talking about the father)
she was going to i think
I grew up without a father and for 23 years I had to fight for my mental health, not having a father figure can be really really bad and you can see she want that father figure, she wanted a father for her baby even they are not togather anymore and i think that's whats tearing her up knowing that at some point she has to explain her child why him or her father isnt part of there life and that she has to make sure that her child knows its not him or hers fault.
@@TenebraeLexia as someone who also grew up without a father I can tell you that it's all about the parenting. Having a father figure is really not the be all and end all of a good childhood or parenting in general.
@Mahima Romanoffsallymw but she cute, oh well, boys gonna be boys, they wont simply outgrow that phase if it isnt about time yet
@@alisalexter4072 boys gonna be boys... because the world let it happen. Girls gonna be women, gonna be moms, gonna be grandmas, meanwhile the world let boys be boys. That's unfair, and that's tottally true as well.
I felt bad for Maddie when she had to answer the question about if Everly’s dad was in the picture, when she got all choked up my heart broke for her❤️❤️
Don't feel bad?
His reaction was completely normal for a FOURTEEN year old
They're both at fault for this
He shouldn't have let his hormones take over
And she shouldn't have spread her legs
honestly stop- he had sex with a girl, and then called her a slut. I’m sorry but seriously? I can understand why he might have doubts that the kid is his, or maybe he doesn’t believe he’s the only guy she’s been with but that’s no excuse for slut shaming someone. It’s normal for him to not want a child, again I understand that, but he also didn’t use contraception so it’s both if their faults, but she didn’t choose for him to get into fights and be a terrible father.
Maddie will probably do fine. She will find a good guy who doesn't judge her (unless she has already found one) and probably have another kid or two.
@@honestlystop-8701 it's not her fault her country us shitty.
Maddie was on Hiho kids they met her and her baby Everly 💕🥰
How about "old moms" i.e. women that have become mothers after 35 years old.
Yessss, that'd be interesting
Maybe over 40 years
Please!
My mom had me when she was 41 years old. I used to be embarrassed about it, but now I think, why is it so weird? People give birth at all different ages
@@svdprvncesse0469 my mom also had me at 40 and my sister is way older than me and is 30 years old lol. I used to be embarrassed about it because some of my friends’ moms were younger than my own sister! And my mom would be like the same age as their grandmas and it was embarrasing. But now I don’t really care
I can feel their maturity through the screen.
Titianna W what maturity?
No you can feel the idiocy and fear for the babies
Titianna W then why are they teen moms
Yea cause getting pregnant when you're still not even fully developed is very mature.
Cruiser me too brother
I love the red head. She’s gorgeous inside and out, she’s super wise and well-spoken, and she just seems like a good person to be around! I wish her and all the other moms and their babies the absolute best 💛
Whitnee S. Totally agree
Whitnee S. fr
Her TH-cam channel is called Allie Brooke and she’s so positive and full of life, her daughter is adorable too
check out my teen parents channel! Currently doing a giveaway! I would appreciate any support! xoxo
Yes
"supporting teen moms vs supporting teens becoming moms" this is so important
Teen mothers are not responsible for their actions, they are immature children,. Unless raped, they are at fault.
@@brianboru175 Teen mothers need the full family support system. Not to be a wet blanket but without it, they almost doomed to fail. The society should not encourage teen mothers, period. It is not healthy.
off-kilter
Why? They already made that choice. If you’re not going to support them, then you’re setting up her, and her baby up for failure in life.
Hello People we could just you know dip which is what a lot of guys do n if he still in hs not much u can do sure u can put chill support but if he aint work he prob has to only pay 10$ a month
big balls Both potential parents are at fault. You make it sound like 100% of the burden of fault lies with the mother. The father is also responsible for not using a condom.
If you are under 15, don’t even CONSIDER doing it.
Maddie's baby daddy basically begged her and she thought it would be the only way to keep him🤷♀️
@@_ConfusedCricket_ do you know maddie or you just saying that out of nowhere
@@farskeffela6979 she has a TH-cam channel
Actually below 18.. usually teens bodies are not really for it.. and even for girls, they should consider that at the end of the day, birth controls don't give 100% guarantee that you can't be pregnant. In many countries, having sex below 18 is considered as rape.
@@mahimabhargava2714 actually, majority of countries have the legal age at 16. In Europe, it's mainly 14-16. Not supporting it. In my opinion, it should be 18-21
I want to see the dad’s side of it. Do the teen dad
@Cougstrong Games what about the girls? How girls are better or worse than them?
@@wiktoriakohman2200 the fact that theyre taking care of their children.
@Royd it's literally the law that you have to take care of the child you made..hence why child support exist and you can be jailed if you miss payments
@Rae Beam huh ? I responding to one comment. Everything you just wrote you made up. I made none of those statememts.
The dads litterally left them all
i'm like 15 and i can't even take a care of myself at all. maddie, you're so strong and mature.
HyperLord 13?!!?? I THOUGHT IT WAS 15
@@hyperlordyoutube if you actually watched the video you would've seen that she had no idea that she could get pregnant. That's why countries that have great education systems have less teen pregnancies. It's easy to hate her and blame it on her, but it's not really her fault. I blame the parents and that excuse of a school she went to
@@fuckthiscrap oh wow i didn't actually know that. but WTF?! what school doesn't teach about pregnancies, LET ALONE THE PARENTS!!
Veljkovic Mina It doesn’t take a uni degree to know that you can get and abortion
Being married and having a baby is reminder of our mortality
red head was spitting wisdom the entire time, I STAN
You shouldn’t STAN anyone
Right?? She's got some killer speaking skills.
She has a TH-cam channel btw, allie brooke
She is amazing. Her name is Allie Brooke. Go check her account on youtube
allie is amazing and raising an awesome kid, cartia
Maddie at 14 having a baby, me at 14 watching Peppa Pig in my piggie costume while playing pokemon go
I saw Maddie in Hiho kids episode of *KIDS MEET TEEN MOM* . She is still strong in spite of the leaving of her boyfriend.
I KNEW I RECOGNIZED HER
i saw her on cam & fam and subscribed to her right away
Shaming a kid for not wanting to be a father! Society is sick!
big balls being in the baby’s life is not what makes a father. if he didn’t want to be a father he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant, a pregnancy takes two people.
@trinity
Damn right!
Be interesting to see this flipped and have a "Do All Teen DADS Think the Same?" video to get the perspective.
that would be cool!
Adam Wills yeah I’m here for it
Very cool but I think it’d be hard to get the full picture because i doubt they’d get any volunteers who are dead beat dads and completely uninvolved (though my assumption is this is a large percentage of teen dads)
That one would be really interesting!
Cristina Rori yes.
I really like how they included a girl who had a planned pregnancy too. Jubilee does such a good job of getting a diverse group of participants
Isaac Turpin I didn’t see one black girl tho still an interesting video
Victoria Perez yes but that was for a whole different topic...
@@cocomonster1000 diversity isn't only about race. You can have a diverse group of all the same race.
sara kroczyk Yes but you still risk marginalizing a group of people regarding this topic. Not to say that these young ladies weren’t relatable but I would love to see a part 2 with a more racially diverse cast. (I noticed that they were no African American or Asian (south or east) teen moms present). Still a good video tho.
and they included a realllllyyyy young mom and a currently pregnant one.
i am super proud of maddie, like i personally could never imagine being a mom at 15.
I would love to see a Teen Dad episode. that would be an interesting spectrum of opinions with a lot of differing opinions.
its questionable how they found these people already let alone the 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of the population that are teen dads willing to come on to youtube
@Marisa 07 i love my kid
Marisa 07 As a child, please understand you arent experienced enough in the world to understand this conversation.
@@annabeledwards544 none of the teen moms here that I know of have adult fathers. Is it possible, yes but usually it happens with boys you meet in school or people you're generally around, i.e people your age.
True
Allie and Maddie seem like they could end up being really good friends the way they talked to each other
5 months later... okay so i didn’t know but apparently they were already friends so my bad haha but they still seem to have a good dynamic anyway
they were friends before this lmao
luxian how’d u know? does it say anything in the video?
They both have TH-cam channels
luxian oh haha well that would make sense
Omg yeaaa
Damn, Maddie has it rough. Getting pregnant at 14 and having to raise a child alone is unimaginably scary
Edit: I’m not in any way excusing her actions but regardless of whether or not she should have done A, B, C or D the fact is the situation is still difficult and scary.
So tru
K and K having money to afford birth control is also a miraculous thing
she has her own youtube channel
*Maddie
Zanieb Al you can get condoms for free from clinics and some GP places
This is so depressing. Even in the best case scenario of getting married and starting a family that young it's sad to me. Most teen parents I've met seem to be stuck mentally trying to recapture their youth. Their whole life revolves around being a parent forever.
*Do all elderly people think the same*
This would be great because society has changed so much
Good one!!
The whole time they'd constantly be asking "what . . . what'd you say?".
Dwight Schrute hahah wow
They can't walk that much
Josef Nesher no, an unhealthy elderly person can’t walk much, anyone 60-80 years old who is in good health should be able to walk
I find it very interesting that we rarely, if ever, hear the term “teen dad”. This doesn’t make a ton of sense to me bc it takes 2 people to make a baby.
A fair amount of the fathers of teen moms are adult men, and generally the mom takes primary responsibility of the child.
because sadly, a lot of the time when a teen pregnancy occurs, its mainly the mom going through it from the day they find out their pregnant to raising the child.
Leah Bee Walker well I’m pretty sure that most of the time the dad walks out of the mums and baby’s life
Because teen moms/girls are forced to become a lot more intelligent and mature once they are having a child while the boys really aren't forced to and have to make the decision solely on morals and how mature they are.
You can just adopt
“She’s gonna be 12 and some of the girls in her grade do ‘it’”
Excuse me? Wat.
Yeah, it was something to get cocky about. Im in highschool but i know people in my school who tells me story of how they lost their virginity in middle school.
Yes. I’m in 7th and a girl had to go to the hospital to see if she was pregnant, in 6th grade. It’s honestly weird/disturbing to think about in a way. Because to think some people go through their whole lives as a virgin, when there are 6th graders who already have lost their virginity.
Layla_ Grace Oof
That’s GROSS
It's true when i was in 6th grade ( I'm in 8th grade now) there was a girl who was pregnant.
Yo, when they gave us the talk in 8th grade our class already had one baby and one on the way. Great job, adults
Ikr
Same
somehow the adults fault?
They gave us the talk in 5th grade and it was never brought up again
How is that adults fault?
It broke my heart to see Maddie talking about the father of her daughter.
it really wasn't that deep, he never wanted a kid. She got it anyway, deal with the consequences. You can't now complain and scream victim when he's not there as you chose this
@@k-popismybias1139 Yeah they're both responsible of course it makes two to make a baby. But the decision of going through with the pregnancy is ultimately on her. So why feel sorry for her when the father isnt too happy about it. Especially as he expressed this prior to the pregnancy, she knew what she was getting into ffs 😂
@@ddeunnoshi thank you
@@ddeunnoshi yeah i hope Isaac will see this
I'm still confused on her age.
Maddie looked so nervous talking about her baby's father, i want to hug her and tell her she's such a great mom by her own
She has a TH-cam channel where she already talked about him
Its 'Maddie Lambert' before more people ask😂
C H !! Tea
C H that’s why KIDS should be well educated about sex and their birth control options. Sex is a normal human interaction.
C H Finally someone who’s speaking some sense.
@C H Yes, birth control should only be taken by those who truly understand the negatives! There are so many dangers to taking birth control, including death, and that's such a huge thing for *children* to deal with.
Do all drug addicts think the same? I feel like it would be interesting
JimmyToCold ` very and funny
@@madelynshinn9910 Foreal tho 😂😂😂
Default User exactly, just like they’re are so many teen moms but they got few
Default User sorry smartass did he not say benzo and opioid addicts
I worked security at a Methadone Clinic and I can tell you that everyone has a different opinion.
I think having a child at 14 and having a child 19 at two different things ,a 19 year old is an adult a 14 year old is a child
American issue pointed here : doesn't educate enough about birth control...
I mean, I knew about birth control at like 9, I feel like they are just uneducated
That’s you , thankfully, but what about the girl from Texas saying the only thing they teach about is abstinence abstinence abstinence
@@vikipekarkova6632 Or they just didnt pay attention lol
they dont even teach birth control and that here in england..
well were i live, 𝙖𝙩𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙩 𓀬𐂂𓃰␈
𝔯𝔦𝔭 𝔟𝔯𝔦𝔱𝔞𝔦𝔫 𝔩𝔬𝔩
Nope. They did their part by teaching abstinence AS THEY SHOULD!!!!
If the teens had simply listened then they wouldn't be in this situation
When the blonde girl talked about how in texas all they talk about is abstinence, I really felt that. They never talk about things like birth control, condoms, etc.
Well, Texas is... Texas. What can I say, it's the uneducated child of the US. I honestly pity anybody who lives there.
it’s horrible. i knew a girl who thought girls got pregnant by kissing until we learned the reproductive system in 7th grade
out our school it’s literally BANNED for sex education
nat !! They do for me at least. And even than most people are aware anyway.
RoBro being aware and educated are two different things, i’m glad you’re learning about it tho
DON’T SUPPORT TEEN PREGNANCY but support pregnant teens ❗️
👏👏👏👏
Who the hell supports Teen pregnancy?
@@crazysmilingdonut804 not support like "yeah! Go get pregnant at the age of 12 or something!" But more of a moral support
peachygranger I know, but it is „don‘t support teen pregnancy but support pregnant teens“. So i was right. I never said: who the hell supports pregnant teens. I said: who the hell supports teen pregnancy. It was all right, you just misread my comment
@@crazysmilingdonut804 oh sorry, thanks for the correction :)
“I didn’t think pregnancy was common”
*WHAT*
*EXPLAIN HOW THE HUMAN RACE HAPPENED THEN*
There's 7.6 billion of us for a reason 😭
I really hope she was talking about teen pregnancy
@@wolfhooks146 What's the matter with numbers ?
I can’t even imagine being 15 .. still a baby yourself and carrying that kind of responsibility. All the respect.
Lilman Yellow I agree that is what happens in many scenarios but not always.
Lilman Yellow hi, teen mum here, I look after my baby and don’t have parents to help me. saying this about teen mothers is actually really gross. I live with my boyfriend who is at college so I look after my little girl almost 24/7 alone.
TaunTaun's Mr.President he works part time while in college and I get child benefit from the government, college is different in the uk and it’s only part time
@Lilman Yellow Why would you make that assumption.
TaunTaun's Mr.President it takes two to tango. Remember that
do all people with depression (diagnosed) think the same.
Update: I think my use of the the word "diagnosed" wasn't fully explained. I put that word in there because i have heard people my age and on social media use depression or "im so depressed" as a way to be relatable without really meaning it. I think a lot of people see it as "cool" to be depressed when that is far from the truth. I personally have seen and increase of people use these phrases on social media. I just really want to destigmatize mental illness and i thought depression was a good start seeing that more intense mental illnesses(DID,PTSD,OSDD ect.) do need a diagnosis by a phyciatrist. I DONT think your feelings are ANY less valid if you are not diagnosed.
Love to everyone.
Low key how do you know if you have the depressed
Kash Boy Wonder get diagnosed
alayna d what if you can’t get diagnosed or are afraid to?
KODE then don’t say you have depression until you’re diagnosed. It’s disrespectful to people who are diagnosed. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself, so if you wanna take care of yourself go to the doctor or get someone to go with you/take you. You CAN get diagnosed and if you can’t cause of a parent talk to a school counselor or wait till you’re 18.
No we don’t
You should do "Do all single fathers think the same?"
Best idea yet.
Vincent Gonzales YES PLZ
Yeah. They go to buy milk once.
This would be amazing!
Agree. But maybe "teen fathers" like this one as opposed to "single fathers"
Maddie is my favourite.
I dislike people who are against abortion. What if someone got raped? Used all protection they could? Are 10?
well i think a lot of people say theyre against abortion as an umbrella phrase but are fine with abortions in cases where there was no consent
Well
Most people are for abortion in cases of rape, incest, and to save the mother’s life
My biggest worry at 12 was a creeper blowing up my house
Casjack I have that fear rn and I’m 11 lmao 😂
Dude thank you u made my day I was sick I kinda feel better now :)
ツAMIRPLAYZ lol :)
Hahah true
Casjack SAMEEEE
the girl with the copper hair is absolutely stunning and seems super mature.
angel baby her names Allie she has a TH-cam but yea she’s amazingly smart
she has a youtube!!
Danae Marie If she was “amazingly smart” she wouldn’t have had a baby as a teenager...
Ara C lol truuuuu
@@arac7690 According to the video she wasn’t educated on birth control beforehand. She could have researched, but the conservative background makes teens less likely to do so. Plus she surely matured after having a child, so even if she wasn’t before she can be amazingly smart now.
I felt really bad for the blonde girl. Having to be an adult so fast because of a baby.
sch kn her name is maddie by the way
Not the baby’s fault
her name is maddie. she has a youtube channel called maddie lambert.
@@multi-musicman9611 it's not also her fault since the baby is from her father
Mahasin Asim But she chose to have sex do really it’s hers and the fathers fault
I really feel bad for Maddie. She's 15 and didn't get the support she needed from her bf. I'm 15 and I can't imagine going through what she's been through.
Most of them: My boyfriend left me
The ONE married girl: WeLl I’m MaRRiED
Josh Jacobs maddie was the only one standing in the disagree line
Josh Jacobs well Chelsea I also feel bad for her but she was kinda a little proud about being the only one with like a “Great Marriage” somewhat she thinks she’s better than all of the other moms and she thinks that she is the only struggling with it kinda maybe. Also she doesn’t know what it feels to be in maddie’s situation.
Kid's shouldn't have boyfriends. Especially when their not educated on stuff like this. Now their going to miss out on so many things they could have done growing up.
@@Al-bi2oe Totally agree. Kids shouldn't grow up to fast. And they must seriously stay away from adult stuff
@Hannah Stone Mature enough not to become a teen mom?
I would love to see a Teen Dads version of this!
Something else I'd be interested in is; Do all people raised by teen parents think the same?
Yes I AGREE
Honestly this is the first time I even saw the word teen dad.
Andrew Eli yessss
@@polin1710 oh wow, me too. No one ever really thinks about the dad. Probably assumed he's not as invested in the life of the child
I was thinking this exact thing!!
You should make the people wear blindfolds until they make their decisions. Studies show that people make their decisions off of peer pressure.
This is true
first time watching one of these videos and i was shocked that their initial answers were so open to everyone else in the room. i cant see how we can get their honest answers without some kind of barrier.
How will they know where to stand?
How tf they supposed to see where theyre going
yeah maybe they could write down which side they're on first and then go to that spot
I admire Maddie's strength as a mother, especially at her age
I love the maturity displayed by all of them!!! I wish Maddie and Allie were my best friends
At 19, she is married and has kids?! Bruh I’m 19 and I only just started figuring out what to do with the rest of my life...
Yeah haha, I'm 24 and I still haven't figure out anything except that many people suck and that I hate most people except my friends and family 🤣🤣
Well, you're late.
True hahaha
Lol shes 19 an adult its okay to get married. Why people so weird about it.
@@tayylorfierce6823 Well "legally", sure. However 19 is very young to have found a purported life partner.
Damn... I’m 14 tomorrow and I can not imagine being pregnant at my age. So much respect for that 15 year old getting through it!
Vivian Vail happy early bday!!!!
Vivian Vail happy early birthday
Happy birthday in advance 🌸🌸💌💌💌💌🛍🛍🛍💎💎💎💎
ayyy happy early birthday buddy
Happy early birthday, I recently turned 14