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honestly stop- it’s a shame that you went on a youtube channel that’s about opening yourself to new ideas and thoughts among lifestyles to go an “watch” a video with an obvious close mind and to not even listen to not just all of the girls in the video but the one that specifically my comment was about and to proceed type the comment out to some one who doesn’t want your two cents. my comment stands, and you might want to enlighten yourself on the birth control method “just close your legs” because it doesn’t always work like that and i wish it was as easy as that in a perfect world but this world is volatile and thinks that opinions is the way we lead so a lot of times like stated in the video if you grow up in a conservative way you don’t get the actual conversation about birth control, how sex works, consent among how the hell your own reproductive system may work. i think you should think things through before you speak or maybe just stay silent and rewatch this beautiful channels video with a more open mind. Thank you! Have a good day!
Guapo Y Rico I understand that, I just don’t think it’s fair. She’s been left alone in this scary situation and the other person who’s responsible isn’t there to be scared with her.
In my country MOST schools don't even have sex ed classes. The closest we come to having one is reading the reproduction chapter in biology. So yeah there's a lot of getting pregnant in secret, having abortions in secret and a lot of just kicking out or killing the girls in secret.
Here in the uk,we started learning about this in y6/5 grade and Y7 and through out school life I'm 12 btw we even lightly touched the subject in year4.The American education system is really one of the worst in the world
I also want a teen dad version. Or maybe teen parents as couples. Not everyone has to be teens still, but people who were teen parents share thier experiences and compare lives.
Jay Gill exactly you wouldn’t want them to get pregnant if their not ready but if they do you don’t want to shun them and stop talking to them and judge them
@Graciela Montano you’re incredibly wrong, this girl supports her child 100 percent financially, physically and emotionally. Her parents are not raising her child. It may be like that in some cases but with Maddie no. And also even if it was the case I don’t see how that makes her lesser than other mums.
@Graciela Montano it’s not that it’s her and her family supporting her. it’s the fact that the other side of the family prolly isn’t supportin. a 50/50 is missing for the baby. see the big difference now?
Most prolifers are very clear about morals for a reason: to prevent this. It's not just to shame behavior that feels good. First: republicans donate to charities the most (see stats for helping women/girls). Second, what you said is not an argument.
@@brianboru175 actually is the complete opposite, it's about supporting the teens that got pregnant by mistake and don't want to get an abortion or give the baby for adoption so that they know they are not alone and that they can do it, it's not telling little girls to get pregnant at a young age, smh
standstillabby thank you. Why is that the first though that comes to people heads when we clearly state that we encourage our friends to wait to have kids?
I felt so bad for the blonde haired girl when she was talking about the father. She sounded like she was going to cry and it broke my heart. I wish I could give her a hug
The red head is a old soul, sounds wise beyond her years. I think she will make a great mother. Not that I dont think the others wont, her answers just really stood out.
how ironic that the girl against abortion was the only one who felt educated enough on birth control🤔 ..... if people don’t want abortion to be a thing anymore we need more education in school!!!!! sex shouldn’t be so taboo!!!
I feel so bad for Maddie, being a teen mom is hard but being a teen mom at 14/15 is so much harder. I give her mad props for raising her daughter without him. She deserves some love
@Dontknow Lol no lmao. She and her boyfriend were not educated about it. Plus when she talked about it in another video, she rejected at the beginning. She didn't really want to. It might be her fault too, but it's also her boyfriend's fault. It's also their parent's fault. It's also the person who's in charge of the education's fault. It's also social norm's fault. It's not black and white, please refrain from seeing social issues as so.
Her dad is still there. He was in a video on Maddie’s TH-cam channel but I do feel bad for Maddie, She is only 15/16 and she had to look after her child while she was in school.
My heart broke when Maddie was the only one to walk towards disagree for the question regarding child's father's involvement. Coz i know Maddie wanted that Everly doesn't miss out being with her dad. But I guess it's better to have no influence than to have bad influence
Namrata P Okay so the thing with me is, i don't have a dad or at least he doesn't want me - And i would give EVERYTHING to have him in my life, now matter how he would treat me
Kira hun lemme tell you something. my mother’s dad left her when she was young. he came back, and she was ecstatic of course, but through his behavior she realized why he left. he was abuse and not fit to be a father. a father isn’t just anyone. he needs to be able to LOVE and CARE for his child. kids shouldn’t have to settle for a parent. maddie made the right decision by not letting her daughter have a bad influence as a father
A friend of mine got a girl pregnant in high school and I consider him the gold standard for teen parent. He went from barely passing classes, no job, party every week end to a straight A student. This dude knuckled down when he needed to most I have tons of respect for him. I really felt bad when the girl got crazy and decided to just cut him out of the kids life. It broke his heart
Sounds awful she cut him out of the kids life, But are you sure there was no other reason to it? Afterall no one knows what goes on in their realationship. Just a thought
Jungkooks Left nipple I don’t know everything about it but I know she wasn’t a very good parent especially compared to him. He wanted to have a family and apparently she felt she was better off as a single mother and just getting child support
noah thehoneyboy if he gets a good job and like no criminal records then he could definitely apply for joint custody. Hope he gets blessed for being a good guy :)
Omg that is so sweet... I think he is the best teen dad to consider and that girl is crazy for cutting such a good father out of their childs life like bruh
@@priels.f3375 You're right. Bad use of an absolute. A lot of people are against abortion. So if a teen has sex and gets pregnant would you rather she keep it or get an abortion? I personally chose to support them either way instead of making them feel even worst because either way they are going to be judged.
Jayla Smith I totally agree with you. People should be able to choose what they want for their bodies and their lives because it’s ultimately their life.
@@jaylasmith7317 agree, that's the sad part tho is no matter what you choose people gonna judge. The baby happened anyway so yelling at that woman isnt gonna do anything. However supporting as well as advising will help.
@@brianboru175 Teen mothers need the full family support system. Not to be a wet blanket but without it, they almost doomed to fail. The society should not encourage teen mothers, period. It is not healthy.
Hello People we could just you know dip which is what a lot of guys do n if he still in hs not much u can do sure u can put chill support but if he aint work he prob has to only pay 10$ a month
big balls Both potential parents are at fault. You make it sound like 100% of the burden of fault lies with the mother. The father is also responsible for not using a condom.
Ladies, someone else's issues with fertility have nothing to do with you. Don't feel like you need to have a child just because other women struggle to conceive.
I grew up without a father and for 23 years I had to fight for my mental health, not having a father figure can be really really bad and you can see she want that father figure, she wanted a father for her baby even they are not togather anymore and i think that's whats tearing her up knowing that at some point she has to explain her child why him or her father isnt part of there life and that she has to make sure that her child knows its not him or hers fault.
@@TenebraeLexia as someone who also grew up without a father I can tell you that it's all about the parenting. Having a father figure is really not the be all and end all of a good childhood or parenting in general.
@@alisalexter4072 boys gonna be boys... because the world let it happen. Girls gonna be women, gonna be moms, gonna be grandmas, meanwhile the world let boys be boys. That's unfair, and that's tottally true as well.
I honestly would like to see the teen fathers perspective, since it's not talked about much it's usually focused on the mother. I really loved this video, they are all so mature and it's amazing seeing how their relationships with their moms improved.
I wish they'd included an older teen mom, ie was a teen when she had the baby but has grown up since. What's it like for a former teen mom once she's like 25 and has a teenager? I'd love to hear that perspective.
It was 2 weeks after my 16th birthday when I had my first son. This year I turn 40 and he turns 24 life isn't over, but it's a very hard road. I wouldn't change my decision.
@@oskyluvr Not everyone can understand how a boyfriend loves and how a father loves and they just assume that a good boyfriend is cut out for a good father aswell.
I have a curiosity.Why everybody thinks the moment the heart is formed then the fetus can feel something?The brain’s nervous system develops around 8 weeks and the consciousness appears around 24-25 weeks of pregnancy so the fetus can’t feel pain before 8 weeks and is not conscious until way later.What I want to say is that we don’t feel with the heart.The heart just pumps the blood.We feel and love with the brain, although world wide the heart is the symbol of love it doesn’t help us feel emotions or sensations.I don’t say I am contra or pro abortion, I just find it curious how we were “fooled” into thinking that we love and feel things with the heart, when in reality the brain is the organ responsible for that
You need at least some brain activity to have a heartbeat - it's the brain that tells the heart to beat. And 24-25 weeks is way too late for consciousness - there are babies who've reacted to amniocentesis around 15-18 weeks gestation.
@@ettinakitten5047 The AAAS states that "New research shows that babies display glimmers of consciousness and memory as early as 5 months old" and other sources say that the kind of advanced brain activity needed for consciousness happens at around 25 weeks
nobody can know when consciousness develops. we barely know anything about it in adults, I don't trust any information saying that they know when an fetus develops an consciousness.
I find it very interesting that we rarely, if ever, hear the term “teen dad”. This doesn’t make a ton of sense to me bc it takes 2 people to make a baby.
because sadly, a lot of the time when a teen pregnancy occurs, its mainly the mom going through it from the day they find out their pregnant to raising the child.
Because teen moms/girls are forced to become a lot more intelligent and mature once they are having a child while the boys really aren't forced to and have to make the decision solely on morals and how mature they are.
Michaella Kennedy it’s usually get an abortion you’ll ruin my life or they are scared and run from it. But when I think teen I think 14-17. Not over 18.
Lol we havent cared about men for years. They wont do it. Why do you think men's suicide rate is so high compared to women? Its cause nobody cares about what men think and men bottle things up because they know nobody cares so why share a problem thats not going to get fixed.
lol planned my ass. she didnt want to look like a harlot for having sex outside of marriage. its the 21st century. no one cares. youre being judged for gettied married that young and 'planning' to have a kid, not cuz u had sex before marriage🙄
@@micaela7159 but children do and to deny the possibility that your child might (and deny them access to health education) you're putting them at risk of unwanted pregnancy
big balls being in the baby’s life is not what makes a father. if he didn’t want to be a father he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant, a pregnancy takes two people.
I felt bad for the father one.. You could see how hurt she was because she was hearing everyone's experience with having a dad while she's here being a single mother. All the luck Maddie ❤️
Layla Al assaad if the girl can decide if she keeps the baby or not (i think she could exept in a few situations), the guy should be able to decide if he is the father or not. If it was an accident and he didn’t want the baby, he should’t be obligated to be the ‘’dad’’, he also should’t have to pay for child support. You want the baby? Thats fine, but I don’t want to, so don’t try to get my entire bank account for a decision I couldn’t make.
I love the red head. She’s gorgeous inside and out, she’s super wise and well-spoken, and she just seems like a good person to be around! I wish her and all the other moms and their babies the absolute best 💛
Yeah at 19 you already graduated high school and at 14 your a complete child....you're still in school and you don't drive and your just not realy ready
sara kroczyk Yes but you still risk marginalizing a group of people regarding this topic. Not to say that these young ladies weren’t relatable but I would love to see a part 2 with a more racially diverse cast. (I noticed that they were no African American or Asian (south or east) teen moms present). Still a good video tho.
Actually below 18.. usually teens bodies are not really for it.. and even for girls, they should consider that at the end of the day, birth controls don't give 100% guarantee that you can't be pregnant. In many countries, having sex below 18 is considered as rape.
@@mahimabhargava2714 actually, majority of countries have the legal age at 16. In Europe, it's mainly 14-16. Not supporting it. In my opinion, it should be 18-21
Damn, Maddie has it rough. Getting pregnant at 14 and having to raise a child alone is unimaginably scary Edit: I’m not in any way excusing her actions but regardless of whether or not she should have done A, B, C or D the fact is the situation is still difficult and scary.
@@kookie-py i mean that these girls not encourage other teens to get pregnant but if they get they help them and support them.. Hope I helped you haha 😂
My mom had me when she was 41 years old. I used to be embarrassed about it, but now I think, why is it so weird? People give birth at all different ages
@@svdprvncesse0469 my mom also had me at 40 and my sister is way older than me and is 30 years old lol. I used to be embarrassed about it because some of my friends’ moms were younger than my own sister! And my mom would be like the same age as their grandmas and it was embarrasing. But now I don’t really care
I feel so bad for the blond girl everyone else baby daddy was in their life’s and I could see she was kinda sad I felt so bad for her I wanna give her a hug :(
yeah I mean, when she saw that other girls have the baby's father having responsibility and she doesn't....I'm sure she was very sad. I mean if it was me, I'm sure I would have cried there and then. Seeing that other girls had their boyfriends/the father of their child taking responsibility while the father of your child...is just like, get an abortion, I don't want to be a father, and leaving....it's hard. Also, she is a strong girl. And being strong also meant that you want to keep that 'strong' profile and not let others know and see how weak you really are. That's how mothers, especially single mothers, are.
Yeah, it was something to get cocky about. Im in highschool but i know people in my school who tells me story of how they lost their virginity in middle school.
Yes. I’m in 7th and a girl had to go to the hospital to see if she was pregnant, in 6th grade. It’s honestly weird/disturbing to think about in a way. Because to think some people go through their whole lives as a virgin, when there are 6th graders who already have lost their virginity.
When the blonde girl talked about how in texas all they talk about is abstinence, I really felt that. They never talk about things like birth control, condoms, etc.
Allie and Maddie seem like they could end up being really good friends the way they talked to each other 5 months later... okay so i didn’t know but apparently they were already friends so my bad haha but they still seem to have a good dynamic anyway
I married as a teen (17) and waited till 24 to be pregnant just to avoid the teen mom stigma. Even at 24 people give you the side eye. I feel for these brave young women ❤️❤️ it's amazing to see them unanimously say that their babies have changed their lives for the better. My four boys have radically improved and elevated my life but the garage with is REAL
This was such an amazing video to be a part of. I love reading all of your comments. I love that we can TALK about this subject and shed some light on it. A huge thank you to Jubilee❤️❤️
Honestly the best part of this video was the girls bringing out their babies. It really just solidified how real the responsibility of having a child that young is, and how strong all these girls are
it really wasn't that deep, he never wanted a kid. She got it anyway, deal with the consequences. You can't now complain and scream victim when he's not there as you chose this
@@k-popismybias1139 Yeah they're both responsible of course it makes two to make a baby. But the decision of going through with the pregnancy is ultimately on her. So why feel sorry for her when the father isnt too happy about it. Especially as he expressed this prior to the pregnancy, she knew what she was getting into ffs 😂
JaneAlbert I think it’s scientifically proven that women’s minds mature faster than men’s minds. It’s that or she’s kind of pulling stuff out of her ass
@@DestinationJapan95 She's correct. It used to be converntional wisdom that often times girls mature faster than boys. But eventually scientists found that important developmental changes happen in girls' brains earlier. There's certain developmental brain activity that begins in girls from ages 10-12 while in boys it begins between 15-20.
its questionable how they found these people already let alone the 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of the population that are teen dads willing to come on to youtube
@@annabeledwards544 none of the teen moms here that I know of have adult fathers. Is it possible, yes but usually it happens with boys you meet in school or people you're generally around, i.e people your age.
Lilman Yellow hi, teen mum here, I look after my baby and don’t have parents to help me. saying this about teen mothers is actually really gross. I live with my boyfriend who is at college so I look after my little girl almost 24/7 alone.
TaunTaun's Mr.President he works part time while in college and I get child benefit from the government, college is different in the uk and it’s only part time
do all people with depression (diagnosed) think the same. Update: I think my use of the the word "diagnosed" wasn't fully explained. I put that word in there because i have heard people my age and on social media use depression or "im so depressed" as a way to be relatable without really meaning it. I think a lot of people see it as "cool" to be depressed when that is far from the truth. I personally have seen and increase of people use these phrases on social media. I just really want to destigmatize mental illness and i thought depression was a good start seeing that more intense mental illnesses(DID,PTSD,OSDD ect.) do need a diagnosis by a phyciatrist. I DONT think your feelings are ANY less valid if you are not diagnosed. Love to everyone.
KODE then don’t say you have depression until you’re diagnosed. It’s disrespectful to people who are diagnosed. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself, so if you wanna take care of yourself go to the doctor or get someone to go with you/take you. You CAN get diagnosed and if you can’t cause of a parent talk to a school counselor or wait till you’re 18.
Nah, we need more pessimism with these comments... Those children are going to grow up hating the lot of you for what you have done to the climate before they could do anything to stop you... You are passively ruining their future on this planet... Feel horrible...
Didn't you know the girl who said "there's so many ways to prevent being pregnant and you know that" was the only one educated on birth control methods
@@SweetLolitaStocking Police brutality exists but it is far less common than people are led to believe. I want them to shed some light on that. Cops really are just humans trying to keep their community safe but the few corrupt cops give them a bad reputation.
You sweet angel. Good for you. Almost everyone I know wishes they would have waited longer. Hold on to your innocence. You can't have it back when it's gone.
the genuine connection seems amazing in this video honestly. it sounds like a group of friends discussing a similar aspect of their lives. love this episode
When I think of teenage pregnancy I think of 14 year old me and my newborn son. Not a 19 who is pregnant and married. There is a very big difference between the two.
@@kuntrybumpkin8539 well as I stated where I live, as soon as you turn 18 you are considered adult You can drink, drive, get married, make legal decisions on your own etc. So to me she's not a teen lol it's just my opinion
@@kuntrybumpkin8539 well there are scientists saying adoloscence ends at 24 some say at 19 lol so... And I really wouldnt say a 24 year old is still a teen even if changes still occur.. And by most it's considered to end at age 19.. So Well she sure isnt a child anymore ^^ In the end, some people still act like kids at 30 so.. She's a legal adult and having a kid shouldnt have been dangerous to her health as usually at 19 your body is almost fully developed. (phyisically at least, not mentally)
This is so depressing. Even in the best case scenario of getting married and starting a family that young it's sad to me. Most teen parents I've met seem to be stuck mentally trying to recapture their youth. Their whole life revolves around being a parent forever.
Fatima Quintanilla this moms are killers they thought of killing there children they dot deserve sympathy or respect. They are just as bad as normal killers.
Ikr I don't really like her ex- boyfriend tbh first he created all the drama about the paternity test and then he wasn't that interested in Everly, so I think Maddie is handling Everly pretty well without Everly's dad
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have one for muslims and hindus as well please
How about- Do bible believers think the same? 😉
Hey guys you need to do, Do all college students think the same?
Do all stoners think the same?...Do it...Do it(Starsky and Hutch voice)😆✌️
How about -do all teen dads think the same
i want to hug the blonde girl when she was talking about the father. She is so strong and her statement truly shows how good of mother she is.
haley bay I only clicked this because I saw her, and I watch her on TH-cam all the time @maddielambert
baby.cherries same
She's still at fault tho lmao
She wouldn't be in that situation if she would've just kept her legs closed
honestly stop- it’s a shame that you went on a youtube channel that’s about opening yourself to new ideas and thoughts among lifestyles to go an “watch” a video with an obvious close mind and to not even listen to not just all of the girls in the video but the one that specifically my comment was about and to proceed type the comment out to some one who doesn’t want your two cents. my comment stands, and you might want to enlighten yourself on the birth control method “just close your legs” because it doesn’t always work like that and i wish it was as easy as that in a perfect world but this world is volatile and thinks that opinions is the way we lead so a lot of times like stated in the video if you grow up in a conservative way you don’t get the actual conversation about birth control, how sex works, consent among how the hell your own reproductive system may work. i think you should think things through before you speak or maybe just stay silent and rewatch this beautiful channels video with a more open mind. Thank you! Have a good day!
honestly stop- Listen to your own username and stop.
The blonde girl really has been THROUGH IT. I’m 18 and I can’t even imagine what it’s like. Very strong girl. I wish her and her child the best.
Cheyenergy she is doing really well, has her own apartment and everything, she has a TH-cam channel where you can follow her journey
she has a youtube channel! 10/10 would check it out. pretty sure she was also on "kids meet a teenage mom"
Shawol Blue she doesn’t have her own apartment🤭
@@girls4722 how do you want us to check out the channel without giving a link/name???
Michael Gamp i think her channel is Maddie Lambert
The blonde girl talking abt how the father wasn’t involved broke my heart
@Lilman Yellow her name is Maddie Lambert, same as her yt channel. She certainly doesnt get govt money, and is a full time parent.
Lilman Yellow wow underlying sexism and generalising judgmental . Jumped out.
Lilman Yellow she takes care of her kid. Stop making assumptions
Tori Kieschnick duh lol it don’t break mines it took her and him to have the baby. That’s what to expect from teens
Guapo Y Rico I understand that, I just don’t think it’s fair. She’s been left alone in this scary situation and the other person who’s responsible isn’t there to be scared with her.
Their lack of knowledge regarding pregnancy and safe sex is quite scary, honestly.
the only reason i know is bc my mom was a teen mom
In my country MOST schools don't even have sex ed classes. The closest we come to having one is reading the reproduction chapter in biology. So yeah there's a lot of getting pregnant in secret, having abortions in secret and a lot of just kicking out or killing the girls in secret.
Here in the uk,we started learning about this in y6/5 grade and Y7 and through out school life I'm 12 btw we even lightly touched the subject in year4.The American education system is really one of the worst in the world
@@dereckhazzard9149 same we learn about this in like 5th grade
@@aabiram.a.z5645 killing?
When they asked about the dads involvement and the one girl went straight to the left... that hurt.
and the obnoxious one starts talking straight away about the "too involved husband". ugh.
Thats Maddie Lambert she is a youtuber
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Annika they are on good terms now!!
Annika no because she is female and she doesn’t deserve to even have it easy because nobody cares about them
I also want a teen dad version. Or maybe teen parents as couples. Not everyone has to be teens still, but people who were teen parents share thier experiences and compare lives.
Lol if you can find them, they dipped the moment mommy didn't want an abortion.😆
Had to give you your 1k like. Also I agree I think that would be a great video idea.
Yes!
@@wiseguy240Winston it's funny because normally it's the MOM that wanted to have an abortion, not the dad.
The fact si that there are no teen dads
I really like the way the girl phrased "there's a big difference in supporting teen mom's and supporting teens to become mom's
Jay Gill exactly you wouldn’t want them to get pregnant if their not ready but if they do you don’t want to shun them and stop talking to them and judge them
Jay Gill yw for 1k
@@jasperm434 ahaha thanks
@@nicole963 agreed, what's done is done, you have to work with the situation you have
Danielle Cohn is encouraging teens to become mums.
The fact that Maddie doesn’t want the father in the baby’s life show/ how strong she is.
@Michael Hewitt-Clarke well he didn't even believe that the baby was his.
@Graciela Montano so? It’s amazing that she has her families support. But that doesn’t minimise her strength
@Graciela Montano you’re incredibly wrong, this girl supports her child 100 percent financially, physically and emotionally. Her parents are not raising her child. It may be like that in some cases but with Maddie no. And also even if it was the case I don’t see how that makes her lesser than other mums.
@Graciela Montano it’s not that it’s her and her family supporting her. it’s the fact that the other side of the family prolly isn’t supportin. a 50/50 is missing for the baby. see the big difference now?
@Graciela Montano Nvm, yøu thought wayy to deep into my comment than yøu should have.
"There's a big difference between supporting teen moms and supporting teens to become moms"
Tell them to the Republicans pro-lifers. I meant it not in a political tone. I meant it as in let them face the reality tone.
Most prolifers are very clear about morals for a reason: to prevent this. It's not just to shame behavior that feels good. First: republicans donate to charities the most (see stats for helping women/girls). Second, what you said is not an argument.
This is a great comment.
Agreed
no
The girl with the red hair almost makes me cry, she's so lovely
She has a youtube channel. It's called Allie Brooke
@Elizendo It has a orange tint
yeah she was so lovely until she said "since men mature way slower than girls" at 7:53...
Benci it’s scientifically proven that girls mature faster look it up
Elizendo that’s great but i’m trusting the hundreds of articles i’ve seen. you can look it up.
"There is a difference between supporting teen moms and supporting teens to become moms." Loooove what that girl said!! Excellent.
Of course you would. Girl power right 🙄🙄🙄?
@@brianboru175 actually is the complete opposite, it's about supporting the teens that got pregnant by mistake and don't want to get an abortion or give the baby for adoption so that they know they are not alone and that they can do it, it's not telling little girls to get pregnant at a young age, smh
standstillabby thank you. Why is that the first though that comes to people heads when we clearly state that we encourage our friends to wait to have kids?
@@brianboru175 If a teen makes the mistake of getting pregnant, you should support her through her tough time. Dumbass!
Yes she hit the nail on the head with that one!
Little update, Maddie, the blonde, youngest girl, now has the baby daddy involved in her life and is on good terms with him!
That's good to hear. Hopefully he's treating them well
Yeah I saw that video too!!
@@sam-li5rq He should’ve been more careful then lmao
@@drfifteenmd7561 yeah lol
@@Neyobe Can you post the link to that video?
I felt so bad for the blonde haired girl when she was talking about the father. She sounded like she was going to cry and it broke my heart. I wish I could give her a hug
Barney Is AWESOME 👏
333rd like
Same by the way her name is maddie
but his then boyfriend is in her daughters life.. she has TH-cam channel where i find out
@@binkrn5942 OMG, she has a TH-cam channel, please tell me What channel is please
I almost cried seeing Maddie standing by her own when they asked abt the father
And when her shaky voice shakes more, maddie nooooo!!
And she’s 15, way to young to have to be going through something like that
Love u maddie!!!!
@@theresa9538 yea i watched that one and tbh i felt extremely awkward for them 2
@@gellianeubagan9706 i know T.T but she's doing pretty great w her Everly now ❤️
The red head is a old soul, sounds wise beyond her years. I think she will make a great mother. Not that I dont think the others wont, her answers just really stood out.
Lucky Lex you are so incredibly sweet❤️❤️
Allie Brooke girlll where is your sweater from???
@@nehenzo1 why? How do you know that she didnt think of the possible repercussions and whether she was ready for a kid or not?
@@nehenzo1 wise people learn from experiences and mistakes
nehefrr Same thing I was thinking
how ironic that the girl against abortion was the only one who felt educated enough on birth control🤔 ..... if people don’t want abortion to be a thing anymore we need more education in school!!!!! sex shouldn’t be so taboo!!!
Maddie was also against abortion, but I agree.
Exactly!!!
I strongly agree
Indeed, sex education is the only way some people will actually be abstinent as well.
Teaching abstinence only leads to babies having babies 😔
abortion isn't birth control. It's killing the fetus, everything else prevents fertilization
I feel so bad for Maddie, being a teen mom is hard but being a teen mom at 14/15 is so much harder. I give her mad props for raising her daughter without him. She deserves some love
she could have chose a older man with money and she would have been fine.. men don't want used up women as wives
@@jamesmanter8731 who hurt you?
pegah afrasiabi ｆａｃｔｓ
@Dontknow Lol no lmao. She and her boyfriend were not educated about it. Plus when she talked about it in another video, she rejected at the beginning. She didn't really want to. It might be her fault too, but it's also her boyfriend's fault. It's also their parent's fault. It's also the person who's in charge of the education's fault. It's also social norm's fault. It's not black and white, please refrain from seeing social issues as so.
Her dad is still there. He was in a video on Maddie’s TH-cam channel but I do feel bad for Maddie, She is only 15/16 and she had to look after her child while she was in school.
My heart broke when Maddie was the only one to walk towards disagree for the question regarding child's father's involvement. Coz i know Maddie wanted that Everly doesn't miss out being with her dad. But I guess it's better to have no influence than to have bad influence
Namrata P Okay so the thing with me is, i don't have a dad or at least he doesn't want me - And i would give EVERYTHING to have him in my life, now matter how he would treat me
@@Kira-ni8eu Ok you do you
Kira hun lemme tell you something. my mother’s dad left her when she was young. he came back, and she was ecstatic of course, but through his behavior she realized why he left. he was abuse and not fit to be a father. a father isn’t just anyone. he needs to be able to LOVE and CARE for his child. kids shouldn’t have to settle for a parent. maddie made the right decision by not letting her daughter have a bad influence as a father
@@mirandag3304 you need a gold star
Kira that’s probably cz u don’t know how bad it might be, some ppl are the opposite they wish they never had a mom/dad in their life
A friend of mine got a girl pregnant in high school and I consider him the gold standard for teen parent. He went from barely passing classes, no job, party every week end to a straight A student. This dude knuckled down when he needed to most I have tons of respect for him. I really felt bad when the girl got crazy and decided to just cut him out of the kids life. It broke his heart
Great for him but it’s awful she cut him out, think of the baby
Sounds awful she cut him out of the kids life, But are you sure there was no other reason to it? Afterall no one knows what goes on in their realationship. Just a thought
Jungkooks Left nipple I don’t know everything about it but I know she wasn’t a very good parent especially compared to him. He wanted to have a family and apparently she felt she was better off as a single mother and just getting child support
noah thehoneyboy if he gets a good job and like no criminal records then he could definitely apply for joint custody. Hope he gets blessed for being a good guy :)
Omg that is so sweet... I think he is the best teen dad to consider and that girl is crazy for cutting such a good father out of their childs life like bruh
Nobody is talking about maddies outfit like its so cute
"There is a big difference between supporting teen moms and supporting BECOMING a teen mom" YES!!
@Templar Knight But everyone is also against abortion. So what is the other option? Because abstinence clearly isnt the solution
Jayla Smith not everyone
@@priels.f3375 You're right. Bad use of an absolute. A lot of people are against abortion. So if a teen has sex and gets pregnant would you rather she keep it or get an abortion? I personally chose to support them either way instead of making them feel even worst because either way they are going to be judged.
Jayla Smith I totally agree with you. People should be able to choose what they want for their bodies and their lives because it’s ultimately their life.
@@jaylasmith7317 agree, that's the sad part tho is no matter what you choose people gonna judge. The baby happened anyway so yelling at that woman isnt gonna do anything. However supporting as well as advising will help.
"supporting teen moms vs supporting teens becoming moms" this is so important
Teen mothers are not responsible for their actions, they are immature children,. Unless raped, they are at fault.
@@brianboru175 Teen mothers need the full family support system. Not to be a wet blanket but without it, they almost doomed to fail. The society should not encourage teen mothers, period. It is not healthy.
off-kilter
Why? They already made that choice. If you’re not going to support them, then you’re setting up her, and her baby up for failure in life.
Hello People we could just you know dip which is what a lot of guys do n if he still in hs not much u can do sure u can put chill support but if he aint work he prob has to only pay 10$ a month
big balls Both potential parents are at fault. You make it sound like 100% of the burden of fault lies with the mother. The father is also responsible for not using a condom.
The redheads woman is so wise beyond her years its mind blowing. She’s going to raise a great kid.
Allie has a youtube channel she's amazing ☺
@@similarly4904 what is her chanel?
@@sophiekendel2613 Allie Brooke😊
She’s really pretty too
Sophie Kendel thank you!
Ladies, someone else's issues with fertility have nothing to do with you. Don't feel like you need to have a child just because other women struggle to conceive.
THIS
yes ma’am 🙌
That logic hurt me. I think you should raise a baby only if you want to raise a baby, but what do I know.
AMEN!!! Like what does it have to do with you that your mom struggled to have you? Especially when you are 17
I needed this comment right now.
Maddie looks like she was on verge of tears (when she was talking about the father)
she was going to i think
I grew up without a father and for 23 years I had to fight for my mental health, not having a father figure can be really really bad and you can see she want that father figure, she wanted a father for her baby even they are not togather anymore and i think that's whats tearing her up knowing that at some point she has to explain her child why him or her father isnt part of there life and that she has to make sure that her child knows its not him or hers fault.
@@TenebraeLexia as someone who also grew up without a father I can tell you that it's all about the parenting. Having a father figure is really not the be all and end all of a good childhood or parenting in general.
@Mahima Romanoffsallymw but she cute, oh well, boys gonna be boys, they wont simply outgrow that phase if it isnt about time yet
@@alisalexter4072 boys gonna be boys... because the world let it happen. Girls gonna be women, gonna be moms, gonna be grandmas, meanwhile the world let boys be boys. That's unfair, and that's tottally true as well.
I think parents of teen parents would be an interesting episode.
Yesss!! Great idea.
yess this needs way more likes
Antinootus yesss pleaseee
Yeah that would be interesting
Especially the parents of the one who thought having an abortion would be disrespectful to her mother.
Anyone else notice that the blonde girl is from “kids meet a teen mom”
Can u comment video link
shaquan smalls m8 just look up what he said it ain’t that hard
HiHo
yeah😂
It’s Miles she also has a yt channel and is quite famous. I knew her from her channel.
“ Me and my twin brother have always been the same age”
Why did that remind me of “ every 60 seconds in Africa a minute passes by “
I honestly would like to see the teen fathers perspective, since it's not talked about much it's usually focused on the mother. I really loved this video, they are all so mature and it's amazing seeing how their relationships with their moms improved.
goldheartxx Yes Interesting
Good yeeeesss. I always thought they were immature assholes
goldheartxx yes! I would love to see that
The 15 year old is so strong I just want to go hug and support her
Ellie. Star her yt is maddie lambert
She was on Hiho Kids
She is super awesome
CelliDoesStuff wait omg now i remember her wow shes even younger than me... i hate her boyfriend why would u leave your baby
She has a yt its maddie lambrat
Maddie(the blonde) looked so sad when everybody was explaining about their baby’s father
For real, that guy needs to get slapped
She was Hiho kids. I didn't notice
Yes it’s sad when most of them had some there for the baby
Ya
Yea Yea his name is Isaac go off on him ✌︎
I wish they'd included an older teen mom, ie was a teen when she had the baby but has grown up since. What's it like for a former teen mom once she's like 25 and has a teenager? I'd love to hear that perspective.
It was 2 weeks after my 16th birthday when I had my first son. This year I turn 40 and he turns 24 life isn't over, but it's a very hard road. I wouldn't change my decision.
Like 25 and has a teenager? Damn, so she had to have been around 12 when she gave birth? Tween mom 😳
"There's a huge difference between being a father and a boyfriend" give that girl a medal.
A medal? lol obviously it’s different everyone can see that
@@oskyluvr Not everyone can understand how a boyfriend loves and how a father loves and they just assume that a good boyfriend is cut out for a good father aswell.
Syeda Nilima u deserve the award 🥇
Blossom Cotton not everyone can see that ya know so dont go assuming
Kaylee Wright well I thought it’s pretty obvious but apparently not 🤨
The red head is very eloquent and articulate with her speaking
Lu H You mean Allie? Yeah, she’s amazing.
so 𝓮𝓵𝓸𝓺𝓾𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓵𝔂 𝓼𝓹𝓸𝓴𝓮𝓷
Allie or Tia?
đō yōū thīnk ī’ll grāđūātē ?
jessxox審美 Allie
That 15 year old girl is so strong I can't even imagine-
I can't believe she's 15
Get this to 69 likes to make it less sad
@@kyna8 done
@Grace Roblez what's it called
Kyna Johnson its called maddie lambert
I have a curiosity.Why everybody thinks the moment the heart is formed then the fetus can feel something?The brain’s nervous system develops around 8 weeks and the consciousness appears around 24-25 weeks of pregnancy so the fetus can’t feel pain before 8 weeks and is not conscious until way later.What I want to say is that we don’t feel with the heart.The heart just pumps the blood.We feel and love with the brain, although world wide the heart is the symbol of love it doesn’t help us feel emotions or sensations.I don’t say I am contra or pro abortion, I just find it curious how we were “fooled” into thinking that we love and feel things with the heart, when in reality the brain is the organ responsible for that
You need at least some brain activity to have a heartbeat - it's the brain that tells the heart to beat. And 24-25 weeks is way too late for consciousness - there are babies who've reacted to amniocentesis around 15-18 weeks gestation.
@@ettinakitten5047 The AAAS states that "New research shows that babies display glimmers of consciousness and memory as early as 5 months old" and other sources say that the kind of advanced brain activity needed for consciousness happens at around 25 weeks
@@ettinakitten5047 the heart forms first of all organs and then brain and everything
nobody can know when consciousness develops. we barely know anything about it in adults, I don't trust any information saying that they know when an fetus develops an consciousness.
This has always puzzled me too. Like why the heart? I'm gonna have to look into this now.
I find it very interesting that we rarely, if ever, hear the term “teen dad”. This doesn’t make a ton of sense to me bc it takes 2 people to make a baby.
A fair amount of the fathers of teen moms are adult men, and generally the mom takes primary responsibility of the child.
because sadly, a lot of the time when a teen pregnancy occurs, its mainly the mom going through it from the day they find out their pregnant to raising the child.
Leah Bee Walker well I’m pretty sure that most of the time the dad walks out of the mums and baby’s life
Because teen moms/girls are forced to become a lot more intelligent and mature once they are having a child while the boys really aren't forced to and have to make the decision solely on morals and how mature they are.
You can just adopt
a teen dad version would be so interesting, we don't usually get to hear their side!
Michaella Kennedy it’s usually get an abortion you’ll ruin my life or they are scared and run from it. But when I think teen I think 14-17. Not over 18.
Lol we havent cared about men for years. They wont do it. Why do you think men's suicide rate is so high compared to women? Its cause nobody cares about what men think and men bottle things up because they know nobody cares so why share a problem thats not going to get fixed.
Society doesn't care about men unless it's about child support, engineering, or going to War.
Omg yessss
👏👏👏 yesss
red head was spitting wisdom the entire time, I STAN
You shouldn’t STAN anyone
Right?? She's got some killer speaking skills.
She has a TH-cam channel btw, allie brooke
She is amazing. Her name is Allie Brooke. Go check her account on youtube
allie is amazing and raising an awesome kid, cartia
My jaw literally dropped when she said "we found out we were pregnant on a Wednesday and I got married that Saturday"
lol planned my ass. she didnt want to look like a harlot for having sex outside of marriage. its the 21st century. no one cares. youre being judged for gettied married that young and 'planning' to have a kid, not cuz u had sex before marriage🙄
@@MsDudette21 yeah I gotta say after hearing that was it truly planned?
I don’t think she truly planned for it. But she’s conservative and religious and they had to pretend.
So obviously
@@KatIsaTeddyBear what does that have to do w anything honestly
I despise parents who refuse education/birth control for their daughters but are shocked and angry when their kid winds up pregnant.
or they just shouldn’t have sex at 14
@@micaela7159 exactly.
@@micaela7159 but children do and to deny the possibility that your child might (and deny them access to health education) you're putting them at risk of unwanted pregnancy
@@micaela7159 Well duh. Abstinence should always be encouraged but not treated as a foolproof plan. Therein lies the problem.
@@the1dbumblebee317 Exactly. These people act like I condone kids having sex. Literally nothing in my original comment could even imply that.
I saw Maddie in Hiho kids episode of *KIDS MEET TEEN MOM* . She is still strong in spite of the leaving of her boyfriend.
I KNEW I RECOGNIZED HER
i saw her on cam & fam and subscribed to her right away
Shaming a kid for not wanting to be a father! Society is sick!
big balls being in the baby’s life is not what makes a father. if he didn’t want to be a father he shouldn’t have gotten her pregnant, a pregnancy takes two people.
@trinity
Damn right!
I felt bad for the father one..
You could see how hurt she was because she was hearing everyone's experience with having a dad while she's here being a single mother.
All the luck Maddie ❤️
she chose him..
RedPills ForWomen The Clown jumped outtttt
@@jamesmanter8731 tf u talking about
Her father is now in the baby’s life but I believe there is some sort of tension between Maddie and the father of the baby.
Layla Al assaad if the girl can decide if she keeps the baby or not (i think she could exept in a few situations), the guy should be able to decide if he is the father or not. If it was an accident and he didn’t want the baby, he should’t be obligated to be the ‘’dad’’, he also should’t have to pay for child support. You want the baby? Thats fine, but I don’t want to, so don’t try to get my entire bank account for a decision I couldn’t make.
I love the red head. She’s gorgeous inside and out, she’s super wise and well-spoken, and she just seems like a good person to be around! I wish her and all the other moms and their babies the absolute best 💛
Whitnee S. Totally agree
Whitnee S. fr
Her TH-cam channel is called Allie Brooke and she’s so positive and full of life, her daughter is adorable too
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Yes
Having a baby at 19 and having a baby at 14 is such a huge difference
Marry Potter Yes extremely. 19 is an adult. 14 is a young teen. 14 can mean not even in high school. 19 can mean a full time job
Education is needed for youngsters
Harridira Sivagnanam but you can’t do anything about it and she was moreover barely educated about sex education. It’s like crying over a spilled milk
Yeah at 19 you already graduated high school and at 14 your a complete child....you're still in school and you don't drive and your just not realy ready
Harridira Sivagnanam what did you write?
Maybe people reported it?
I really like how they included a girl who had a planned pregnancy too. Jubilee does such a good job of getting a diverse group of participants
Isaac Turpin I didn’t see one black girl tho still an interesting video
Victoria Perez yes but that was for a whole different topic...
@@cocomonster1000 diversity isn't only about race. You can have a diverse group of all the same race.
sara kroczyk Yes but you still risk marginalizing a group of people regarding this topic. Not to say that these young ladies weren’t relatable but I would love to see a part 2 with a more racially diverse cast. (I noticed that they were no African American or Asian (south or east) teen moms present). Still a good video tho.
and they included a realllllyyyy young mom and a currently pregnant one.
My biggest worry at 12 was a creeper blowing up my house
Casjack I have that fear rn and I’m 11 lmao 😂
Dude thank you u made my day I was sick I kinda feel better now :)
ツAMIRPLAYZ lol :)
Hahah true
Casjack SAMEEEE
Them all carrying their children together at the end was ADORABLE
And to think there was an option of killing them before they were born
Vomit
brendon night ikr. Abortion is murder
Carrying the fruits of their sin. Fitting
the red head in the sweater is so beautiful omg
maya danyelle her name is ally Brooke she has a YT channel called Allie Brooke
Libby’s Layouts ikr
They are all beautiful
Allie Brooke♥️
maya danyelle I love her omg
If you are under 15, don’t even CONSIDER doing it.
Maddie's baby daddy basically begged her and she thought it would be the only way to keep him🤷♀️
@@_ConfusedCricket_ do you know maddie or you just saying that out of nowhere
@@farskeffela6979 she has a TH-cam channel
Actually below 18.. usually teens bodies are not really for it.. and even for girls, they should consider that at the end of the day, birth controls don't give 100% guarantee that you can't be pregnant. In many countries, having sex below 18 is considered as rape.
@@mahimabhargava2714 actually, majority of countries have the legal age at 16. In Europe, it's mainly 14-16. Not supporting it. In my opinion, it should be 18-21
Damn, Maddie has it rough. Getting pregnant at 14 and having to raise a child alone is unimaginably scary
Edit: I’m not in any way excusing her actions but regardless of whether or not she should have done A, B, C or D the fact is the situation is still difficult and scary.
So tru
K and K having money to afford birth control is also a miraculous thing
she has her own youtube channel
*Maddie
Zanieb Al you can get condoms for free from clinics and some GP places
At 19, she is married and has kids?! Bruh I’m 19 and I only just started figuring out what to do with the rest of my life...
Yeah haha, I'm 24 and I still haven't figure out anything except that many people suck and that I hate most people except my friends and family 🤣🤣
Well, you're late.
True hahaha
Lol shes 19 an adult its okay to get married. Why people so weird about it.
@@tayylorfierce6823 Well "legally", sure. However 19 is very young to have found a purported life partner.
8:27 of course we must not support TEEN PREGNANCY but it is very important to *support* PREGNANT TEENS
They don't tell u to get pregnant but if the thing happend they won't rip your head off , So clear
@@clairdelune4423 okkk😂
@@kookie-py i mean that these girls not encourage other teens to get pregnant but if they get they help them and support them.. Hope I helped you haha 😂
San San they’re just saying they wouldn’t want every teen girl to get pregnant but if it happens they’ll support them because that’s important.
Cysus SL honestly If my friend became pregnant I would honestly help her care for her baby
I know it’s weird but I just love to help people😂
How about "old moms" i.e. women that have become mothers after 35 years old.
Yessss, that'd be interesting
Maybe over 40 years
Please!
My mom had me when she was 41 years old. I used to be embarrassed about it, but now I think, why is it so weird? People give birth at all different ages
@@svdprvncesse0469 my mom also had me at 40 and my sister is way older than me and is 30 years old lol. I used to be embarrassed about it because some of my friends’ moms were younger than my own sister! And my mom would be like the same age as their grandmas and it was embarrasing. But now I don’t really care
the initial look on maddies face when they asked about the babies father :(
Iqra Chowdhary yeah considering they always have so problems with him bringing their personal arguments to social
@@David-xy4br She literally said she didn't. He was the only guy that she had ever been with.
It was a little funny
David 4949 you gotta learn the whole story before you judge someone✌🏻
David 4949 ur horrible. If u watched her videos she said knew who the father was, and that he was the only guy she had been with.
I feel so bad for the blond girl everyone else baby daddy was in their life’s and I could see she was kinda sad I felt so bad for her I wanna give her a hug :(
Her name's Maddie and her youtube is Maddie Lambert
Aphrodite the goddess of love, beauty,and passion I know I subscribed her
I teared up when she was talking about it. I felt so bad for her. ❤ she'll find a good man in the future who'll be a great husband and a father.
and then the other girl goes "My husband is too involved" like sisss read the room
yeah I mean, when she saw that other girls have the baby's father having responsibility and she doesn't....I'm sure she was very sad. I mean if it was me, I'm sure I would have cried there and then. Seeing that other girls had their boyfriends/the father of their child taking responsibility while the father of your child...is just like, get an abortion, I don't want to be a father, and leaving....it's hard. Also, she is a strong girl. And being strong also meant that you want to keep that 'strong' profile and not let others know and see how weak you really are. That's how mothers, especially single mothers, are.
“She’s gonna be 12 and some of the girls in her grade do ‘it’”
Excuse me? Wat.
Yeah, it was something to get cocky about. Im in highschool but i know people in my school who tells me story of how they lost their virginity in middle school.
Yes. I’m in 7th and a girl had to go to the hospital to see if she was pregnant, in 6th grade. It’s honestly weird/disturbing to think about in a way. Because to think some people go through their whole lives as a virgin, when there are 6th graders who already have lost their virginity.
Layla_ Grace Oof
That’s GROSS
It's true when i was in 6th grade ( I'm in 8th grade now) there was a girl who was pregnant.
Maddie at 14 having a baby, me at 14 watching Peppa Pig in my piggie costume while playing pokemon go
When the blonde girl talked about how in texas all they talk about is abstinence, I really felt that. They never talk about things like birth control, condoms, etc.
Well, Texas is... Texas. What can I say, it's the uneducated child of the US. I honestly pity anybody who lives there.
it’s horrible. i knew a girl who thought girls got pregnant by kissing until we learned the reproductive system in 7th grade
out our school it’s literally BANNED for sex education
nat !! They do for me at least. And even than most people are aware anyway.
RoBro being aware and educated are two different things, i’m glad you’re learning about it tho
Allie and Maddie seem like they could end up being really good friends the way they talked to each other
5 months later... okay so i didn’t know but apparently they were already friends so my bad haha but they still seem to have a good dynamic anyway
they were friends before this lmao
luxian how’d u know? does it say anything in the video?
They both have TH-cam channels
luxian oh haha well that would make sense
Omg yeaaa
The story of the blonde girl just broke my heart
It's a pretty classic story tbf.
Her name is Maddie lambert btw
She has a youtube channel too.
S Mah Noor Bukhari I love her channel
Maddie?She has an TH-cam channel
I married as a teen (17) and waited till 24 to be pregnant just to avoid the teen mom stigma. Even at 24 people give you the side eye. I feel for these brave young women ❤️❤️ it's amazing to see them unanimously say that their babies have changed their lives for the better. My four boys have radically improved and elevated my life but the garage with is REAL
This was such an amazing video to be a part of. I love reading all of your comments. I love that we can TALK about this subject and shed some light on it. A huge thank you to Jubilee❤️❤️
i got pregnant at 15 y’all inspired me to make a youtube channel❤️❤️
i love the way you think .
Just wanted to say I loved your answers. So well spoken and wise ❤️ you're going to be a fantastic mother as your daughter grows up
love you girl! you're super inspirational
Amazing! So interesting...
i love you the most out of all of them
Allie's perspective and perception is truly eye opening, i keep being in awe by how wise she is
Shendelzare Silkwood II she has her own youtube channel if you’d like to watch her
I know she's so inspiring
karen Hannoush what is it, she seems very wise for her age
britishlola i believe it’s Allie Brooke
When they brought the babies out.....my heart literally exploded
You should see a doctor, that's not healthy
That's not vegan
@@totohomono728 commenting is not *_-vegan-_*
@@totohomono728 omg erin lmao im dying
Spoiler, I was scanning the comments before the end😭😭😭
KUDOS TO MADDIE...SHE IS MOST STRONG TEENMOM IVE EVER CAME ACROSS...
You go girl✊
Honestly the best part of this video was the girls bringing out their babies. It really just solidified how real the responsibility of having a child that young is, and how strong all these girls are
You should do "Do all single fathers think the same?"
Best idea yet.
Vincent Gonzales YES PLZ
Yeah. They go to buy milk once.
This would be amazing!
Agree. But maybe "teen fathers" like this one as opposed to "single fathers"
The girl with red hair: so beautiful and mature 👏
You should check her youtube channel. It is Allie Brooke
All of them are so mature including the youngest one in my opinion, I was amazed by their opinions
Tia was so wise and articulate, especially the line "support teen moms, but don't support teens becoming moms"
It broke my heart to see Maddie talking about the father of her daughter.
it really wasn't that deep, he never wanted a kid. She got it anyway, deal with the consequences. You can't now complain and scream victim when he's not there as you chose this
@@k-popismybias1139 Yeah they're both responsible of course it makes two to make a baby. But the decision of going through with the pregnancy is ultimately on her. So why feel sorry for her when the father isnt too happy about it. Especially as he expressed this prior to the pregnancy, she knew what she was getting into ffs 😂
@@ddeunnoshi thank you
@@ddeunnoshi yeah i hope Isaac will see this
I'm still confused on her age.
The red head was incredibly articulate! Very well spoken.
Rebecca Kendall her name is Allie. Her TH-cam is Allie Brooke
Which one
@@macirenee2916 More like Allie's Broke
JaneAlbert I think it’s scientifically proven that women’s minds mature faster than men’s minds. It’s that or she’s kind of pulling stuff out of her ass
@@DestinationJapan95 She's correct. It used to be converntional wisdom that often times girls mature faster than boys. But eventually scientists found that important developmental changes happen in girls' brains earlier. There's certain developmental brain activity that begins in girls from ages 10-12 while in boys it begins between 15-20.
I would love to see a Teen Dad episode. that would be an interesting spectrum of opinions with a lot of differing opinions.
its questionable how they found these people already let alone the 0.0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001% of the population that are teen dads willing to come on to youtube
@Marisa 07 i love my kid
Marisa 07 As a child, please understand you arent experienced enough in the world to understand this conversation.
@@annabeledwards544 none of the teen moms here that I know of have adult fathers. Is it possible, yes but usually it happens with boys you meet in school or people you're generally around, i.e people your age.
True
Yo, when they gave us the talk in 8th grade our class already had one baby and one on the way. Great job, adults
Ikr
Same
somehow the adults fault?
They gave us the talk in 5th grade and it was never brought up again
How is that adults fault?
I can’t even imagine being 15 .. still a baby yourself and carrying that kind of responsibility. All the respect.
Lilman Yellow I agree that is what happens in many scenarios but not always.
Lilman Yellow hi, teen mum here, I look after my baby and don’t have parents to help me. saying this about teen mothers is actually really gross. I live with my boyfriend who is at college so I look after my little girl almost 24/7 alone.
TaunTaun's Mr.President he works part time while in college and I get child benefit from the government, college is different in the uk and it’s only part time
@Lilman Yellow Why would you make that assumption.
TaunTaun's Mr.President it takes two to tango. Remember that
do all people with depression (diagnosed) think the same.
Update: I think my use of the the word "diagnosed" wasn't fully explained. I put that word in there because i have heard people my age and on social media use depression or "im so depressed" as a way to be relatable without really meaning it. I think a lot of people see it as "cool" to be depressed when that is far from the truth. I personally have seen and increase of people use these phrases on social media. I just really want to destigmatize mental illness and i thought depression was a good start seeing that more intense mental illnesses(DID,PTSD,OSDD ect.) do need a diagnosis by a phyciatrist. I DONT think your feelings are ANY less valid if you are not diagnosed.
Love to everyone.
Low key how do you know if you have the depressed
Kash Boy Wonder get diagnosed
alayna d what if you can’t get diagnosed or are afraid to?
KODE then don’t say you have depression until you’re diagnosed. It’s disrespectful to people who are diagnosed. It’s your responsibility to take care of yourself, so if you wanna take care of yourself go to the doctor or get someone to go with you/take you. You CAN get diagnosed and if you can’t cause of a parent talk to a school counselor or wait till you’re 18.
No we don’t
this is the least argumentative spectrum room i think i've ever watched. it was pretty cute and uplifting
It is not. These females are everything wrong with society. Self privileged, wanting attention, self-pity, leaching off the taxpayers money etc.
@@brianboru175 WTF
@@notyourbruh He's kinda right dude.
@@brianboru175 Stop being so negative
Nah, we need more pessimism with these comments... Those children are going to grow up hating the lot of you for what you have done to the climate before they could do anything to stop you... You are passively ruining their future on this planet... Feel horrible...
Maddie is my favourite.
I dislike people who are against abortion. What if someone got raped? Used all protection they could? Are 10?
well i think a lot of people say theyre against abortion as an umbrella phrase but are fine with abortions in cases where there was no consent
Well
Most people are for abortion in cases of rape, incest, and to save the mother’s life
These teen moms have supporting parents, let's see teen moms who don't have supporting parents.....
Adan Dellrio yes!!! i would love to tell my story...
deadass my parents would kick me out :PPP
Adan Dellrio I would get thrown off the stairs, and I’m not joking
my parents would send me to africa where my grandma would prolly beat the baby outta me.
My mom would deadass slap me and kick me out
What about an episode on the people who were raised by teen moms? I'm interested in the relationship they would have with their mothers/ the world
As a person raised by a teen mom, I would love it
they are all in jail
BLACKIE CHAN not all of them but yea some
My mom was 15 when she had me (she’s 31 now) and we’re definitely very close. She matured when she had me.
Hello Hannah honestly I love having parents that were teen parents
Didn't you know the girl who said "there's so many ways to prevent being pregnant and you know that" was the only one educated on birth control methods
The simplest way, don't have sex.
Mean girls reference!!!!
but she wasnt educated on abortion. sux
@@lilchristuten7568 well duh, just most people aren't going to do that because they're horny teenagers.
@@camillefaith2005 Based on your comment, I would say you are 10 years old or less
i am super proud of maddie, like i personally could never imagine being a mom at 15.
American issue pointed here : doesn't educate enough about birth control...
I mean, I knew about birth control at like 9, I feel like they are just uneducated
That’s you , thankfully, but what about the girl from Texas saying the only thing they teach about is abstinence abstinence abstinence
@@vikipekarkova6632 Or they just didnt pay attention lol
they dont even teach birth control and that here in england..
well were i live, 𝙖𝙩𝙡𝙚𝙖𝙨𝙩 𓀬𐂂𓃰␈
𝔯𝔦𝔭 𝔟𝔯𝔦𝔱𝔞𝔦𝔫 𝔩𝔬𝔩
Nope. They did their part by teaching abstinence AS THEY SHOULD!!!!
If the teens had simply listened then they wouldn't be in this situation
the redhead girl is so intelligent and mature ❤️
Freddy Thornton and pengg
Freddy Thornton shes great you should check out her youtube channel Allie Brooke
10/10 would hit. I mean 18+
She really is, I loved hearing her speak
Allie Brooke is her TH-cam.
The red head is so pretty i couldn’t stop looking at her 😩
She has a utube channel
Indi Mist what’s her yt ??
sarah allerton “allie Brooke”
Auri Auri she’s a youtuber now
They all are
“I didn’t think pregnancy was common”
*WHAT*
*EXPLAIN HOW THE HUMAN RACE HAPPENED THEN*
There's 7.6 billion of us for a reason 😭
I really hope she was talking about teen pregnancy
@@wolfhooks146 What's the matter with numbers ?
Another spectrum idea: Do all cops think the same?
Especially with police brutality. It seems like the police don't get repercussions for killing an innocent victim.
@@SweetLolitaStocking Police brutality exists but it is far less common than people are led to believe. I want them to shed some light on that. Cops really are just humans trying to keep their community safe but the few corrupt cops give them a bad reputation.
OdysseyAuthor
People love to be outraged
YESS
Yeessss
_meanwhile I'm 16 and haven't even held hands with a boy..._
Enjoy it while you still can
Same but Im 18
same but 17
You sweet angel. Good for you. Almost everyone I know wishes they would have waited longer. Hold on to your innocence. You can't have it back when it's gone.
Wtf
Spectrum idea: do all adopted kids think the same!!
Theresa Zimbelmann great idea
Yes
Theresa Zimbelmann Nah fostered kids is more interesting
YES
I would like to appreciate in that one 😔👊 that would seem like very interesting congratulations.
tia had her baby because HER MOM had a hard time concieving????? And then considered adoption too??
Exactly
It’s her PERSONAL choice. Back off.
@@melliexcx I know it’s her choice, But she shouldn’t feel like she has to keep a child because her mom had trouble getting pregnant.
@@loadingpage8625 but she did so oh well
@@melliexcx Yeah but she shouldn’t feel like she has to keep a kid
When the twin said her and her brother have “always been the same age”
😆😂
Nooo, there ages are going to change by like a week or two
wait really?? a twin... *the same age?*
Niamh Power right... impossible
Ya think?
the genuine connection seems amazing in this video honestly. it sounds like a group of friends discussing a similar aspect of their lives. love this episode
I could almost see a tear roll down from the camera when maddie told us her story.
@@brianboru175 that sad moment when you only have big balls on the internet when no one can see you lmao
big balls i cant believe there’s still people like you in 2019.
billie’s avocados trolls?
Pourya Bigonah same :( i luv her so much
@@brianboru175 if it bothers you so much honey, maybe you should click off.
When Maddie was talking about Isaac I felt so bad because you could just feel her pain for her her sweet baby girl
Wait... Wait... how do you know his name? I don't think she said his name
I felt that too😢
She has a popular youtube channel, she’s Maddie Lambert
Selisha Romeo Maddie is a popular TH-camr and her baby daddy has made appearances on her channel before
She's living off taxpayer money, sad!
Do all private school students think the same vs public school
Thatniggachris yesssss
Omg yaaas
that would be interesting!
Thatniggachris no I am in private school is SO much better
That would be interesting to see!
When I think of teenage pregnancy I think of 14 year old me and my newborn son. Not a 19 who is pregnant and married. There is a very big difference between the two.
Where I live you are a legal adult at 19..so yeah I totally agree. She's an adult to me, not a teen.
Nad TRZW 19 is still a teen. Just a legal one.
@@kuntrybumpkin8539 well as I stated where I live, as soon as you turn 18 you are considered adult
You can drink, drive, get married, make legal decisions on your own etc.
So to me she's not a teen lol it's just my opinion
Nad TRZW This isn't a matter of opinion. Where I live 18 is also considered a legal adult. The matter is, 19 is biologically still a teen.
@@kuntrybumpkin8539 well there are scientists saying adoloscence ends at 24 some say at 19 lol so... And I really wouldnt say a 24 year old is still a teen even if changes still occur..
And by most it's considered to end at age 19.. So Well she sure isnt a child anymore ^^
In the end, some people still act like kids at 30 so.. She's a legal adult and having a kid shouldnt have been dangerous to her health as usually at 19 your body is almost fully developed. (phyisically at least, not mentally)
This is so depressing. Even in the best case scenario of getting married and starting a family that young it's sad to me. Most teen parents I've met seem to be stuck mentally trying to recapture their youth. Their whole life revolves around being a parent forever.
Spectrum idea: do all criminals think the same?
bro what?!😂
Do all ex criminals maybe.
Do all cops think the same
Fatima Quintanilla this moms are killers they thought of killing there children they dot deserve sympathy or respect. They are just as bad as normal killers.
@@PadmeAmidalaEdits but none of them got an abortion
Man. When that father question came, I felt bad for Maddie. I watched her video.
But she looked at the girl talking so lovingly.
Ikr I don't really like her ex- boyfriend tbh first he created all the drama about the paternity test and then he wasn't that interested in Everly, so I think Maddie is handling Everly pretty well without Everly's dad
what video?
she has a youtube channel @@unhealthyobsession4600
She is amazing with out him!
@@aliciaalvarez118 agreed