Stop Saying "I'm Fine" - Ways to Respond to "Hello, how are you?"

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  • @aintgonnaletuknow5758
    @aintgonnaletuknow5758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2047

    omg "I'm fine thank you and you?" is such an international thing 🤣🤣 teachers all around the world taught like this.

    • @thehappymagicalmind
      @thehappymagicalmind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm asking why at this point ahahah

    • @solar0wind
      @solar0wind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      In Germany, teachers teach their students that English v is pronounced like w. E.g. they teach wampire or wery instead of vampire and very. I don't know why. I learnt the correct pronunciation by chance. Almost no German that I met knows it. Don't English teachers know English? Why is there a trend in many countries to "misteach" one component?

    • @chocolatemotoko
      @chocolatemotoko 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm from Cambodia and our teachers do teach us that way too.

    • @cecile436
      @cecile436 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@solar0wind none of the Germans I met who can speak some English ever pronounced a 'v' like a 'w'.
      Can't it be just teacher not explaining well that the 'w' should be pronounced as such and not like a v (like in German)
      Or meaning that the English v is pronounced like the German w ?

    • @solar0wind
      @solar0wind 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cecile436 Most of my teachers pronounced it wrong themselves and even if they didn't they didn't correct anyone saying it wrongly. I've heard so many people say it like that. Not only people in my surroundings, but also stars and politicians on TV and other people. When I got together with my boyfriend, I noticed that he's doing it too. Apparently, his teachers told him that his pronunciation is good, even though he says wiking instead of viking and stuff like that.

  • @patrickhodson8715
    @patrickhodson8715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    I had a teacher who always answered “I’m doing way better than I deserve” and I like that one a lot

    • @Pokarface7
      @Pokarface7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dave Ramsey was your teacher?

    • @millersadventure
      @millersadventure 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Sounds super victimy

    • @shizukagozen777
      @shizukagozen777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww it's so cute. ❤

    • @shizukagozen777
      @shizukagozen777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@millersadventure
      Why ? 😂😂😂

    • @CharDhue
      @CharDhue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Its just mean he/she is thinking that he/she doesnt deserve the lucky life he/she have

  • @dementos7806
    @dementos7806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2279

    "You alright?"
    "Yeah, i'm alright, you alright?"
    "I'm alright"
    "All righty then! right, i'm off"
    "alright, see ya"

    • @kailil8096
      @kailil8096 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      alright, That doesn't sound right

    • @essem4979
      @essem4979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      It's a Skyrim dialogue

    • @migmolrod2252
      @migmolrod2252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@essem4979 followed by a good "fus ro dah"

    • @davidkayoshira803
      @davidkayoshira803 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Mimimosa3
      @Mimimosa3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I would wear this on a shirt.

  • @kelvinho2475
    @kelvinho2475 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1200

    "They ask u how u are, u have to say that you’re fine, when you’re not really fine, but u just can’t get into it cuz they wouldn’t ever understand"

    • @Sentinel_Daniel
      @Sentinel_Daniel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I was expecting this meme showing up in this video.

    • @os.a.m.a
      @os.a.m.a 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh-la-la your comment is 1 year late, yet you got almost 1 thousand likes in only 2 weeks, I'm fine thank you and you

    • @azuzusu224
      @azuzusu224 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      OMG I THOUGHT I WAS A SERIOUS COMMENT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @abbadonthrasher
      @abbadonthrasher 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol this applies on every language

    • @サナ-u5g
      @サナ-u5g 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmaoo

  • @giangquynhtrang6707
    @giangquynhtrang6707 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1549

    Other ways to say " How are you?"
    + How is it going?
    + How are you doing?
    + you alright?
    + you okay?
    + alright?
    + what's up?
    + what is the matter?
    +you alright?
    +you okay?
    =)pay close attentions to intonation.
    Other ways to answer:
    "I'm fine, thank you"
    + yeah, I'm good/great/pretty good
    + yeah, I'm alright
    + yeah, doing well/good
    Well, I'm a bit tired/sleepy/I'll
    I 've been better/ better days
    Not doing so well

  • @compagniaelvira
    @compagniaelvira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4922

    - How are you?
    - I was better before you asked me.

    • @aisenlara4725
      @aisenlara4725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      😂

    • @renpeek
      @renpeek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Most relatable answer ever

    • @renpeek
      @renpeek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Mario it means that it tends to happen irl (in real life)

    • @listeningeveryday4992
      @listeningeveryday4992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      haha funny funny

    • @ibnuabdulah7109
      @ibnuabdulah7109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha

  • @thenyougothit2297
    @thenyougothit2297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +772

    My favorite is “still breathing, thanks”

    • @ThalyaxD
      @ThalyaxD 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Jajajaja this reminds me to an elderly British guest I have when I was working in a hotel. Every day that I asked her how she was, she answered like that

    • @ulugbekkhudoyberdiyev6111
      @ulugbekkhudoyberdiyev6111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how are you

    • @gandsamosir7214
      @gandsamosir7214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Almost same like me, “still alive” hahaha.

    • @pamisachan
      @pamisachan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I tend to say, in portuguese "surviving"

    • @ilya.b
      @ilya.b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I've heard a version of it: "Still kicking". I presume it's from a phrase "(I'm/ he's) alive and kicking".

  • @dakdakgoos
    @dakdakgoos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +680

    Haha, My sister had a Japanese boyfriend. When I first met him I was kinda depressed at the time, so he opened with "What is wrong with you?"

    • @heyyou2476
      @heyyou2476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Omg😂😂😂

    • @nessyness5447
      @nessyness5447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      i feel that sentence needs a casual "bitch" at the beggining or end of it " bitch, what is wrong with you?"/ " what is wrong with you, bitch?"

    • @eamixtures2295
      @eamixtures2295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      @@nessyness5447 neither of them do, lol. He was trying to show concern I guess, "What's wrong?" or "is there something wrong?" would have been the right choice of words.

    • @nessyness5447
      @nessyness5447 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@eamixtures2295 i know i know, i mean that the way he said it comes out as something you would add a "bitch" on the beggining or end of the sentence, instead of like concern XD

    • @eamixtures2295
      @eamixtures2295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nessyness5447 ohh okay, I getcha

  • @mykhailohoy7787
    @mykhailohoy7787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2545

    "Alright?"
    "Alright. Alright?"
    "Alright."

    • @CatholicCanadianConservative
      @CatholicCanadianConservative 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      Too natural

    • @beatrixerd
      @beatrixerd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      :D

    • @aliasanna7844
      @aliasanna7844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Ça va ?
      Ça va. Ça va ?
      Ça va.

    • @NicolasCupo
      @NicolasCupo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      "Todo bien?"
      "Todo bien. Todo bien?"
      "Todo bien."

    • @nabo5909
      @nabo5909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@NicolasCupo actually in Italian you can't say that, actually yes but nobody will never tell you that(as it happens in French)
      It will be like :
      Tutto Bene?
      Tutto bene, tutto bene?
      Tutto bene.
      It will be awkward.

  • @dewanrahman1204
    @dewanrahman1204 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1800

    My brain: Don't do anything stupid. Be calm.
    My crush: Nice weather!
    Me: Thanks.

  • @veliar2540
    @veliar2540 5 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    “We British don’t have emotions”
    - How are you?
    - Well.. a bit ill
    *accidentally coughs his lungs out*

    • @beatricehyacinth1136
      @beatricehyacinth1136 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂😂😂..and am laughing my eyes out

    • @vantaegii
      @vantaegii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i'm crying ahsjndjxjxn😂😂😂

    • @imtheboy2200
      @imtheboy2200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi all..im single and you?????

    • @Diamond_Fairy000
      @Diamond_Fairy000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me xD and I'm not British

    • @4pik200
      @4pik200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I need 5 minutes to get your joke😅

  • @imperiallarch7610
    @imperiallarch7610 4 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    American here: when someone asks "How are you?" in a situation where you don't want to make small talk, it is totally acceptable to reply "Fine, thanks." If you're talking to them for a reason, you can immediately follow up with it - for example, if the bank teller asked how you're doing, you could reply "Fine, thanks, I'm here to make a deposit." Or if you don't have a reason to be talking to them, and don't want to, you can just stop there - for example, the person next to you on the bus says "How you doin'?" and you reply "Fine, thanks," and pretend to check your phone.
    Some people won't take the hint, unfortunately, and will keep talking.
    Also note that it is always okay to say that you're "fine," "okay," "alright," or even "good" no matter how bad you actually feel. 95% of the time "How are you doing?" is just a casual greeting and they don't really want to know how you're doing.

    • @papateachme
      @papateachme  4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      GREAT points here!!!!

    • @missquinberly
      @missquinberly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I always say "how are you?" back to the people serving me 😂

    • @therizinosaurus214
      @therizinosaurus214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I tend to use "I am doing well."

    • @J0nDaFr3aK
      @J0nDaFr3aK 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So, I presume it is ok to use the answer "fine" in American English (even to avoid an unwanted conversation, but not in BE. Is that right?

    • @Ky-rs7jp
      @Ky-rs7jp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@J0nDaFr3aK we do that too here in Britain, we will use I'm fine thanks, you? when asked how are you?

  • @Raya-z6t
    @Raya-z6t 5 ปีที่แล้ว +958

    A: "How are you?"
    B : i-i don't feel so good *start Turning to ashes *

    • @olgavasileva7238
      @olgavasileva7238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😆😆

    • @1evonvielen
      @1evonvielen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      No. No, god damn, no. Nooooo! *bursts into tears*
      (I'm not British as you might have noticed.)

    • @vronirom6469
      @vronirom6469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      how dare you

    • @schander3515
      @schander3515 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mr Stark... I don’t feel so good
      I don’t wanna go, don’t wanna go...

    • @valentinunzaga759
      @valentinunzaga759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      F

  • @FruityHachi
    @FruityHachi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1191

    - what's your problem?
    - i'm fine, thanks, you?

    • @joythanda2850
      @joythanda2850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂

    • @4pik200
      @4pik200 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      My only problem is you😁

    • @randomdude0
      @randomdude0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lmao :D

    • @teodoe7286
      @teodoe7286 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao that's mee

    • @engineer2117
      @engineer2117 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hahahaha.... : )

  • @ardnajela0418
    @ardnajela0418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    I’m an English teacher but non native so I’ve been thinking on how to stop this ‘I’m fine thank you and you?” ..This was so helpful!!

    • @kainguru1
      @kainguru1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      As a native, "I'm fine thank you and you?" sounds too formal, like something said to a supervisor or boss, or a complete stranger.
      We're typically quite casual in USA so I would expect a response like "Fine, thanks. And you?"

    • @Kisara-ST
      @Kisara-ST 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I think we, non-natives, are used to say that because we almost exclusively speak English with our teachers in middle/high schools.

    • @WasabiBunny
      @WasabiBunny 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Native Australian English speaker here, we often say ‘fine thanks, you?’ Or ‘yeah, fine. You’

    • @ardnajela0418
      @ardnajela0418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      mhari hughes I like fine thanks, you?. Is it only in Australia? My kids might get more used to this since it’s similar to the common greeting

    • @ardnajela0418
      @ardnajela0418 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kain Guru I’m practicing new greetings with my students so I’ll ask to say thanks instead of thank you. A small change but a big difference (natural is the goal hehe)

  • @monsieurcoba4074
    @monsieurcoba4074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +847

    Friend: You good?
    Brain cell 1: I'm good
    Brain cell 2: I'm okay
    Me: "I'm gay"

  • @hoshistan9004
    @hoshistan9004 5 ปีที่แล้ว +372

    "we're British, we don't have feelings"
    Me Brazilian with the most emotional and enthusiastic reactions for each and every situation: "oh ok..."

    • @dustingatzke8714
      @dustingatzke8714 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just be you if they don't like it fuckem cause to nobody should change for who you are strong feeling well that's you and why would kiss ass to none emotions that got no ❤️

    • @nekitamantovani8685
      @nekitamantovani8685 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol so true

    • @gabrielareck4114
      @gabrielareck4114 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sol Süßebursche HAHAHHAHAHA exatamente

    • @kingwithoutacrown1
      @kingwithoutacrown1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sol Süßebursche
      I'm German and i really would like to know what in this world made you choose "Süßebursche
      " for a nickname 😂

    • @ABRLDM
      @ABRLDM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As a brazilian I feel you. I might answer things like: "Oh, I'm doing amazing, and also my dogs are doing amazing, life is great" and so on but the narrator is behind the screen saying: "Things were not that fine: she was ill during the holiday and the dogs ate her favorite funko"

  • @amandadossier
    @amandadossier 5 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    meeting someone in brazil:
    A:"hey, how are you?"
    B:"hey, how are you?"
    they hug each other and no one answers

  • @anomalousdelirium
    @anomalousdelirium 5 ปีที่แล้ว +699

    Q : "You okay ?"
    A : "It's just a flesh wound."

    • @verajuly2011
      @verajuly2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      "Tis' but a scratch"

    • @fen0221
      @fen0221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣

    • @yusataslim3666
      @yusataslim3666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      A: just lost my left arm, Nothing to be worry

    • @nyghtseven
      @nyghtseven 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Isn't a achmed's answer ? 😁

    • @zohrazizi4976
      @zohrazizi4976 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yusataslim3666 😂😂😂💔

  • @jeff-ramos
    @jeff-ramos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    For Americans, we'd never say "Yeah" to begin the reply. In fact, most of the time people just respond with another greeting question without actually answering. 1:"How's it going?" 2:"How's it going?"
    Also, if you ask someone "Are you ok?" or "Are you alright?" with any intonation whatsoever, people will interpret that as you think there is something wrong with them. Do not use these.

    • @ExpeditionLars
      @ExpeditionLars 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am a non native but have been in the us for 3 months. I noticed the thing with not answering the question at all aswell and it REALLY threw me off all the time. it just shows how little it mattered.
      I sometimes tried to get cashiers etc. to answer with at least a "good" and for me, saying "good, how are you doing today?" made most of em speak up.

    • @jeff-ramos
      @jeff-ramos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ExpeditionLars I could see how that would be confusing, for sure. I think it's just because all these sayings get generalized as greetings such that they cease being real questions and just mean "Hello" instead in causal conversations. "How's it going?" "What's up?" "What's good?" "How's it?" "Sup?" - all the same

    • @SAZHlMl
      @SAZHlMl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      had to drop by and ask you few things if you dont mind. im non native and been in usa several months, and im still hella confused if some people ask ‘hows it going?’ and i always answer with ‘good, and you?’ is that how am i supposed to respond or should i ‘hows it going?’ back like you said? haha im sorry i hope you get the situation i was explaining

    • @ExpeditionLars
      @ExpeditionLars 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SAZHlMl I learned that both work, but let's see if our native has a better answer.

    • @robynhillier4002
      @robynhillier4002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HomersPinkDonut that’s how I’d respond. I’m good, you?

  • @Vitaliuz
    @Vitaliuz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2016

    - "How are you?"
    - "Well... My grandma died a bit."

    • @Pequenobote
      @Pequenobote 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Then not good

    • @robertogeorgiev1089
      @robertogeorgiev1089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      looool

    • @DziqryJ
      @DziqryJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      I wanna laugh, but it's *too dark*

    • @Maheshrpsharma
      @Maheshrpsharma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      A BIT???
      half dead

    • @ladyrumn6403
      @ladyrumn6403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Would you mind if I laugh 😬😬😬

  • @WukongTheMonkeyKing
    @WukongTheMonkeyKing 5 ปีที่แล้ว +438

    My responses for 'how are you?'
    "Not so bad'
    'Pretty good'
    'Wondering why youtube started recommending english language videos to a native english speaker'
    'Fantastic ' (either sarcastic or not)

    • @esthermiller2713
      @esthermiller2713 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Josh , whenever someone asks me how I am, I politely “bite my tongue” & refrain from telling them that, if they have a free hour, I can tell them. That’s not meant to be sarcastic. That’s actually the truth. But my response is always the same. I just smile & tell them my heart’s still beating. No one has time for an honest answer. 😉

    • @angiehernandez9274
      @angiehernandez9274 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      All good!!! And you??

    • @treblesix8730
      @treblesix8730 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@angiehernandez9274 All good? I'm suffering from arthritis, just been made redundant, wifes left me, the bank's foreclosing on my house, my 16 year old daughter has run off with the circus, my cat died and I've been told I have terminal plaque. But, yeah, all's good. 😂😃😡

  • @Mr.Nichan
    @Mr.Nichan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    My whole family dies after they murdered all my friends.
    Q: "How's it going?"
    A: "I've been better."
    Englishness mastered.

  • @raragrace5040
    @raragrace5040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Meanwhile in Australia:
    Stranger walking past: how’s it going?
    Me with a quick smile and nod: hey
    Both: keep walking
    Neighbour: hey, how are you going?
    Me: good thanks, and you?
    Neighbour: yeah I’m good, and you?
    Me: yup, I’m good, see you later
    Close friend: how are you?
    Me extremely depressed: a bit down but okay
    Super market checkout person: bye
    Me: thanks, you too!

    • @bryelg.9939
      @bryelg.9939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @barbarahaynes7036
      @barbarahaynes7036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, there are levels of reply based on your relationship with the the person asking!!

    • @pdr.
      @pdr. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Random English guy in the pub: You alright?
      Me: Am I alright? Are you alright? You wanna take this outside?
      Random mate: Hey mate, howya goin'?
      Me: Oh, yeah, not bad
      (probably the most common response in Aussie, but it's regional)
      Me in USA: How are you going?
      Random American: By car
      Me in UK pub after work: Mate, your round
      English workmate: So are you, ya fat bastard

    • @Mr.Caligos
      @Mr.Caligos 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Does your neighbour have Alzheimer?

    • @ceruleanbird7920
      @ceruleanbird7920 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      The last one has happened to me so many times in all the variations!

  • @697s3
    @697s3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1524

    -how are you
    -* *me remembering this video and starting to panic* * ME TOO

    • @jphvnet
      @jphvnet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jajaja genial

    • @Belu3554
      @Belu3554 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fernandesvicky2303
      @fernandesvicky2303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sooo truee... 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mohahol
      @mohahol 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its real 😁

    • @vasextomiu5507
      @vasextomiu5507 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      JAJAJAJA

  • @peternguyen8305
    @peternguyen8305 5 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Hi , I outline class here:
    1. Stop ask
    "How are you".
    -> Stop answer
    - Im fine, thank you, and you ?
    - So so
    -------
    2.
    Should ask :
    How are thing
    How is it going
    How are you doing
    How are you going ?
    --
    Should answer:
    Yeah, I am good
    Im pretty good,
    Im doing well
    Iam doing good
    Can not complain
    I am alright
    -----
    Yeah, Im a bit tired/ill/sleepy
    I have been better
    Not that great
    Im not doing that/so well

  • @flaviowagner2967
    @flaviowagner2967 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am Brazilian and normally we express our feelings. I am so happy by having the opportunity to be here

  • @laurasellera3340
    @laurasellera3340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    I watched this video a few days ago and today I used what I’ve learned from it. I was in a conversation class online for the first time and the tutor (from UK) asked the classic “How are you?” and without even blinking I replied “Can’t complain”. He really liked my answer! Cheers!

    • @jaouadelmorabit5947
      @jaouadelmorabit5947 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      my friend, can you tell me which class online you follow it?

    • @laurasellera3340
      @laurasellera3340 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jaouad el morabit There are quite a lot of options, so you’d better see which one matches what you’re actually looking for. I’m currently using a platform called Cambly ‘cause I just want to improve my conversation. If you feel like trying this one out, tell me your email and I’ll send you an invitation code, so you’ll have 10 minutes for free. Cheers!!

    • @cinthiavargas1104
      @cinthiavargas1104 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hellow! I would like improved mi conversational English. Can I have that code to tried.

    • @laurasellera3340
      @laurasellera3340 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Cinthia Vargas Let me know if it doesn’t work.

    • @kamaranitv2178
      @kamaranitv2178 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      And i love you

  • @germanix6995
    @germanix6995 5 ปีที่แล้ว +621

    A: How are you?
    B: I'm fine, thank you, and you?
    A: I'm fine, thank you, and you?
    B: I'm fine, thank you, and you?
    ...

  • @dinimuliani9943
    @dinimuliani9943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +297

    British: you alright?
    Indonesian: of course. What's ur problem man?🤣

  • @cloudbuster1024
    @cloudbuster1024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    That's a problem for German people, like me. So, don't ask me "what's up", if you don't want the truth!!...about my feelings, my medical history of the last 2 weeks to 10 years...and so on. Really, DON'T ASK!!🤣

    • @furkanaydin8046
      @furkanaydin8046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      German 1 : Wie geht's?
      German 2 : Ja muss ne

    • @cloudbuster1024
      @cloudbuster1024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@furkanaydin8046 oder so😂

    • @furkanaydin8046
      @furkanaydin8046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@cloudbuster1024 hasse das xD
      "... ... ... MUSS WAS !?"

    • @Pikelet12
      @Pikelet12 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ooh that’s interesting! I’m Australian, and we can be very blunt and it’s hard to get information sometimes hahaha

    • @Secretcrushonglam
      @Secretcrushonglam 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@furkanaydin8046 gehen 😜

  • @connorwood95
    @connorwood95 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Two additional points:
    Alright as a form of hello.
    A: "alright?"
    B: "y'alright. How's it going?"
    Common in the Midlands.
    Second, if things are terribad, "I'm alive".

  • @mrvqiu
    @mrvqiu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +708

    *"and remember we are british we don't have emotions"* made my day

    • @oxanaa5374
      @oxanaa5374 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      rene sans 😂

    • @gianissapandu3435
      @gianissapandu3435 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Someone plis tell me, whats the meaning about “dont have emotion” here? ✨✨

    • @shinhoshock1485
      @shinhoshock1485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Wingardium Leviosssaa

    • @AliYKesen
      @AliYKesen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@gianissapandu3435 They have emotions but they dont show it to everyone.

    • @aylasalci1883
      @aylasalci1883 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Now that is for sure.

  • @callme_cangio
    @callme_cangio 5 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    We are british, we don't have emotions.
    "How are you doing?".
    " Well, I'm a bit ill...". * dies *

    • @danya1645
      @danya1645 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @oneofthefansofniall4319
      @oneofthefansofniall4319 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hi everyone ı have been learning english for long time and ı need to improve my english so that can Someone help me

    • @butzmanniam
      @butzmanniam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A Brit to a girl he's deeply in love with: "Well, you're alright".
      A Brit asking to marry him: "I don't mind you being around".

    • @antiprogre213
      @antiprogre213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@butzmanniam i don't understand this jocke. Can you please explain it to me? I'm learning english. I'm from Argentina. Thanks.

    • @butzmanniam
      @butzmanniam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@antiprogre213, Englishmen suppress their emotions. Where a man from France falls on his knees before a girl he loves an Englishman stays indifferent even when showing an affection.

  • @chrismueller3368
    @chrismueller3368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Somehow stumbled upon this, I’m an American. We also say “what’s up?” in normal greeting. It can also be used when checking up on people because they might be sad, however, it depends on the intonation.

  • @Jakerski
    @Jakerski 5 ปีที่แล้ว +477

    -would you like some more salad?
    - I’m fine, thank you, and you?

  • @martynaoles3180
    @martynaoles3180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1715

    Teacher: Good morning everyone
    Class: Gooood moooorniiing
    T: How are you?
    C: I'm fine, thank you. How are you?
    T: Fine, thanks. Sit down.

    • @tracyndlovu9717
      @tracyndlovu9717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +143

      Reminds me of my primary school days.😂😂😂

    • @ushinemizo2392
      @ushinemizo2392 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Martyna Oleś lol

    • @aslhanylmaz2942
      @aslhanylmaz2942 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I think this is only being in turkey.

    • @seyrenwindsor7737
      @seyrenwindsor7737 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol

    • @lemavir7634
      @lemavir7634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      jaja, siempre lo mismo, a todos nos pasò, te falta el silence please!

  • @liefkeenhart5993
    @liefkeenhart5993 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1015

    Of course British people say..."UK?"

  • @mybubbles5552
    @mybubbles5552 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I’m a native English speaker and I say “I’m fine thanks, and you?”. I’ve also said “I’m so-so”. My sister likes to answer “well...I’m still alive” 🤣

    • @tao4mike
      @tao4mike 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I usually say ”decent... You?”

    • @emreyuksel9448
      @emreyuksel9448 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where are you from?

    • @stephenwelleruk
      @stephenwelleruk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too... In response to a greeting “question” like these I think “I’m fine thanks” is what I’d say 90% of the time, and I definitely use “so-so” a lot too (if that’s how I’m feeling/doing 😏)

    • @medeaendor3706
      @medeaendor3706 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh is it really possible to ask "and you?" at the end? I do it because we do it in German, but every time I did it in Britain or Amerika I had the impression it was not appropriate because the person who asked me walked on

    • @stephenwelleruk
      @stephenwelleruk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Medea Endor Medea Endor well - I’m not pretending I’m a teacher of English (don’t want to hijack the channel!) but I would say that it depends. If you are passing a casual acquaintance in the street; they say - whilst you’re both still walking! A something like “Hey! How are you?”, I would reply, with a smile “Fine thanks”... and we pass each other. If it is part of a very brief, casual ‘greeting’, then I may not say “...and you?”. I consider that their question and also my answer are both just a form of friendly ‘greeting’. If the person stops to talk as they make their first greeting, then I consider that we.’really starting a conversation, and then I would say “I’m fine thanks, and you?”. if you’re both “travelling” then it is it bit ‘too much’ to ask the question back, as they will already - like you said - probably be past you ... and then it becomes and awkward answer from 10metres away 🗣

  • @Prisssazul
    @Prisssazul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    First time I was asked “how are you doing?” , I thought “doing what?” hahaha

    • @uknowwho4497
      @uknowwho4497 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      SAME! And i've said: Im eating a apple. 😂😂😂 Shame on me.

    • @schnioula
      @schnioula 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This made my day! 😂

    • @wissamso
      @wissamso 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The same happened to me hhhh🤣🤣😅

    • @SELBLINK_in_your_area
      @SELBLINK_in_your_area 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@uknowwho4497 Yes, shame on you - because it's "an apple", not "a apple"!

    • @maria-stuart
      @maria-stuart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

  • @logik4264
    @logik4264 5 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    Brits: "We don't talk about how great we are"
    Also Brits: Have "Great" before "Britain"

    • @yourenglishteacher189
      @yourenglishteacher189 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Probably that's why they don't use it they're sure of their Greatness humble to show it

    • @davidrivera_2002
      @davidrivera_2002 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Xdxd

    • @patrickhodson8715
      @patrickhodson8715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂 wow that’s fantastic

    • @Jabber-ig3iw
      @Jabber-ig3iw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We have a Scottish and then British king to thank for the great, he just decided to add it.

    • @alexforbes6011
      @alexforbes6011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Jabber 1974 it actually just means “bigger land” because there’s “little Britain” in France (Bretagne).

  • @imnotamarysue
    @imnotamarysue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1614

    I'm spanish. We have all the feelings you have lost 🤣

    • @maxs.8372
      @maxs.8372 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Ya ves, son muy frios

    • @pixrun5388
      @pixrun5388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hola

    • @AbdullahRady
      @AbdullahRady 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      that's why I moved to Spain 💞

    • @lirielysantiago58
      @lirielysantiago58 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg , literal

    • @enion6167
      @enion6167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Muahaha?

  • @erionnetic1626
    @erionnetic1626 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    My typical responses to "how are you?" are something like:
    "I'm good"
    "I'm ok."
    "I'm alright."
    "I'm fine"
    "Ehh, so-so" (not doing well)
    "Still breathing/alive/etc." (Either really stressed or trying to be funny. Usually both.)
    And the age old telling you my whole life story because I can't afford therapy 👁️👄👁️
    Sometimes I just respond with "good/fine/etc." Though ofc.

  • @lovingweirdo4727
    @lovingweirdo4727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    As a German I can absolutely work with the no emotion thing.

    • @rebeccafriedrich9765
      @rebeccafriedrich9765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same

    • @najatahmed873
      @najatahmed873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Livvy at least you give us the most perfect products in this world. ..so just leave the great emotions for us:D

    • @lovingweirdo4727
      @lovingweirdo4727 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@najatahmed873 Thank you, it's a pleasure

    • @abdoahmed7475
      @abdoahmed7475 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bro I have 2 German friends they are funny

    • @GivemeBacon
      @GivemeBacon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Germans are the best

  • @Someone-jf3mb
    @Someone-jf3mb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    - What's up?
    - Clouds and the sky.

    • @mr_scrupulous
      @mr_scrupulous 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Good point

    • @khairulhafidz15
      @khairulhafidz15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Outstanding moves

    • @aidajung6896
      @aidajung6896 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      And the sun and the stars lol

    • @josei4
      @josei4 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bahajajahjahahaha

    • @meehesan4611
      @meehesan4611 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      i laughed so hard.

  • @omerkaanavsar1766
    @omerkaanavsar1766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    Meanwhile in every Turkish classes
    -Good morning class
    +Good morning teacher
    -How are you today
    +Fine, thanks, and you
    -Fine sit down.
    My english teacher must watch this useful video

    • @msdhanis1212
      @msdhanis1212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      in Indonesian classes also do that

    • @AtaYldz
      @AtaYldz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      robotlaştırılıyoruz 😂

    • @vintastrong
      @vintastrong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Haha Vietnam also like that.

    • @yagmurertekin1613
      @yagmurertekin1613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aga b

    • @sabihaabid798
      @sabihaabid798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm from Pakistan and Pakistani teachers also do that

  • @TheBottegaChannel
    @TheBottegaChannel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Had a good chuckle at this. I'm American, and I use " I'm fine, you?" " Eh, so-so..." and a multitude of all other expressions displayed in the video. Thank you for the lesson though. It's appreciated.

  • @automobili2801
    @automobili2801 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1956

    -How are you?
    -better than you.

  • @ucenic1
    @ucenic1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Good video. I'm American. Usually in the morning I'll say something like, "hey bruh." And my friend will say, "morning dude."

    • @desperado7472
      @desperado7472 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      american slang... i mean

    • @lilyp6949
      @lilyp6949 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I say hi

    • @ucenic1
      @ucenic1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lilyp6949 that's a good one. A lot of people at work say, "how's it going"? To which I reply, "hey."

    • @kainguru1
      @kainguru1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ucenic1 yeah, nobody ACTUALLY expects a life story in answer to "How's it going?" It's simply a friendly greeting. Say "Good" and move on. Haha

    • @dg_yorick6814
      @dg_yorick6814 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kainguru1 "hey man, how's it going?"
      Well, it all started with my father leaving...

  • @janetbeatrice9505
    @janetbeatrice9505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    But many of us here in the U.S. just say "Hi, how are you?" and a typical response is "I'm fine, thanks. How are you?" I don't think anyone should feel like they're doing anything wrong if they say this.

    • @eternaldreamerofsleep
      @eternaldreamerofsleep 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Janet Beatrice
      Well it does sound boring in my opinion

    • @fernandof770
      @fernandof770 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@eternaldreamerofsleep Life's too short to go over complicating things

    • @pelaito2
      @pelaito2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      There are some native speakers who speak for all the other native speakers in all English speaking countries. What gives them the right and authority?

    • @janetbeatrice9505
      @janetbeatrice9505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I don't have a problem with the idea of giving people options. I just don't think it's fair to warn people that they'll be doing something wrong if they say things like "How are you?" and "I'm fine." Maybe it's different in other countries, but in the U.S., we do this all the time. So I guess we'll look like the odd ones if we go to another country and say "How are you?" or reply with "I'm fine."

    • @gizzmo2z
      @gizzmo2z 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It's not wrong, it just sounds a bit stilted. 🤷

  • @ChameleonTheatre
    @ChameleonTheatre 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro! You da man. Native English teacher here and I’m learning so much from you.

  • @oficinadebicicletasfabaobi535
    @oficinadebicicletasfabaobi535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Thank you TH-cam 🙏 I finally found my new English teacher 🤣. This is the first video I watched with the answers I was looking for. Thanks Papa English!

  • @elly512
    @elly512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1536

    Why did I watch this I’m a native English speaker

    • @therebekahg
      @therebekahg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Same

    • @nuwanda7716
      @nuwanda7716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      He is very amusing isn't he?

    • @elly512
      @elly512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nuwanda Otaku lol yeah

    • @bora7903
      @bora7903 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      he mixture of Jason statham and Johnny sins

    • @yevhenkozlov286
      @yevhenkozlov286 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      so... why?

  • @angelikaskoroszyn8495
    @angelikaskoroszyn8495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    How are you?
    In England: 'well, I'm a little bit ill'
    In Poland: 'well [insert 5 years worth medical history]
    We're surprisingly competitive when it comes to who suffers more from whatever diseases they caught

    • @brunnarocha873
      @brunnarocha873 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Brasil and Poland are cousins kkkkkkkkk I am from Brazil and here, we tell all the history in details

    • @sc4mz173
      @sc4mz173 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      facts

    • @nightcorepl2725
      @nightcorepl2725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True story

    • @MrReaxxionAction
      @MrReaxxionAction 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      In Ukraine or Russia people also answer in detail

    • @mfznal-hafidz8592
      @mfznal-hafidz8592 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      In my country, for good condition we usually say "I'm healthy/ I'm so healthy". For bad condition "Sucks, bro/sucks, dude/ Really sucks". Lol, but true.

  • @Jon1950
    @Jon1950 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In a formal situation, the greeting is to shake hands and say, 'How do you do.' This is not a question. No one wants to know how you are. You simply reply, while still shaking hands, 'How do you do.'
    You might be introduced to two or three people at the same time. In which case you shake hands with each of them, each time saying, 'How do you do.' However, if you are introduced to a larger group of people, you might only need to nod and smile as you are told each of their names. If in doubt, just look confident.

  • @beatrizurmeneta
    @beatrizurmeneta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    5:16 "That means everything is happy and lovely. It's not very common to hear that"

  • @nixonabreu783
    @nixonabreu783 5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    I did it omg.I finally could understand this video without subtitles.

    • @blossooooom
      @blossooooom 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @ensternv1559
      @ensternv1559 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too :D

    • @oblivion9568
      @oblivion9568 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @somethingforyou345
      @somethingforyou345 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      aww!!

    • @EnderHeart5911
      @EnderHeart5911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s amazing! Keep up the good work! I’m trying to learn a second language and possibly a third, but I’m nowhere near your level in either of them.

  • @jemzomaclain
    @jemzomaclain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    7:58
    *_I'm fine, thank you, and you?_*

    • @ideadriven-i7h
      @ideadriven-i7h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Posted same comment with timecode. Then realised it's predictable and deleted.

    • @jemzomaclain
      @jemzomaclain 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ideadriven-i7h sorry pal :\

    • @santiagodemattia324
      @santiagodemattia324 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm fine, and you?

    • @GivemeBacon
      @GivemeBacon 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      *GOOD*

  • @PCLHH
    @PCLHH 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Germans do the same thing where they ask you: "Alles gut?" Same meaning as "Everything okay?" And use it as a greeting. I was confused for the longest, thinking I look sad or something, lol.

    • @b_awesome8506
      @b_awesome8506 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      someone actually told me his problem after i said alles gut as a greeting xD i was a little bit confused

  • @HuyenNguyen-gw3rd
    @HuyenNguyen-gw3rd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +252

    -You alright?
    -I'm alright! You alright?
    -Yeah I'm alright. 😐

  • @winnyrachmani3456
    @winnyrachmani3456 5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    Hahaha... 1:47 exactly how I reacted when my British coworker said, "You Okay?" It took me a second to realize that it's a greeting.

  • @karinbulik
    @karinbulik 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    The first time an English guy said to me "You alright?" I wondered if I was looking sick. 😂

  • @pizzasparkles
    @pizzasparkles 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "You okay? You alright?"
    Me: **start crying**

  • @Gyarados0
    @Gyarados0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Here in South West England, the most common is:
    -Hey mate, you alright?
    -Yeah not too bad, yourself?

    • @alexanderf2121
      @alexanderf2121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Recently I watched a interview with Sir. Paul Maccartney where he said that in Liverpool (besides always shorten the names - Macca, Lenny, etc) people used to ever answer like you mentioned here... _"not too bad"_ or _"not bad"_ ... for some reason, they not say "I'm good"... Is that true?

    • @danpesmed3502
      @danpesmed3502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, I always say not too bad

    • @takoreamexicangrill
      @takoreamexicangrill 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      SE England
      A: Awrite mate?
      B: Yea, not bad..
      A: owz fingz?

    • @hamjorge
      @hamjorge 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      "Not too bad".... Most common answer in Ireland

    • @o.i.s7719
      @o.i.s7719 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Even in Scotland most common word not too bad

  • @vwhatever8151
    @vwhatever8151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    If you're from the Midwestern US you've definitely had a conversation like this:
    Them: How are you/How are you doing?
    You: Goodandyourself?
    T: Good, thanks
    Y: Good, good

    • @pangeranjambi3685
      @pangeranjambi3685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      REALLY?!

    • @ufoch2137
      @ufoch2137 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In Poland, we are talking in this way LITERALLY. Very awkward

    • @ArnoLmed
      @ArnoLmed 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm a Colombian living in Minnesota and this is true hejej. I was told that saying "good" was out, it's still in though.

    • @ArnoLmed
      @ArnoLmed 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good, good, good, good.....

    • @mr.gnome_3239
      @mr.gnome_3239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a midwestern American I give this my stamp of approval

  • @rodrigocarvalho1806
    @rodrigocarvalho1806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    You are really great Papa!!!! And an excelent actor as well haha

    • @papateachme
      @papateachme  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Thanks Rodrigo!

    • @rodrigocarvalho1806
      @rodrigocarvalho1806 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm your great fan! Can't miss any of your videos

    • @angiegonzalez7473
      @angiegonzalez7473 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@rodrigocarvalho1806 He is Jason Statham twin.:)

    • @annassyaroni
      @annassyaroni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@angiegonzalez7473 Jason Statham is teaching English and very funny as well

    • @fabiosantos3672
      @fabiosantos3672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isso que é ensinar de verdade e vc entender o contexto. Impressionante!

  • @kap79
    @kap79 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As an American, the "you okay" and "you alright" are things we hear a lot during transactions, like at a store or restaurant. Kind of like a "need anything?" or "can I help you". That's why there might be some disconnect.

  • @ericpoeperic
    @ericpoeperic 5 ปีที่แล้ว +318

    I'm a native American English speaker.
    And I say "I'm fine thanks, and you?" all the time.

  • @arindamdey894
    @arindamdey894 5 ปีที่แล้ว +763

    Papa- Did you watch the video carefully?
    Me- yes
    Papa- How are you doing?
    Me- I am fine Thank you and You?
    Papa- *************?!?!***

  • @angelynvarlencia5716
    @angelynvarlencia5716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +362

    *after infinity war*
    Friend: ey pal, you alright?
    Me: mate, I don't feel so good

    • @GerassimosOfficial
      @GerassimosOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      XD

    • @zugzi
      @zugzi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Enzo Demousselle pretty much the same as "hey mate".

    • @deivisony
      @deivisony 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@zugzi hey comrade
      *USSR PLAYS*

    • @GivemeBacon
      @GivemeBacon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Stop following me, i'll do my spanish lessons

    • @malakelalamielhalimi4896
      @malakelalamielhalimi4896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pal, I feel even worst after endgame

  • @MyTakeonliberty
    @MyTakeonliberty 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    For years, when I’ll meet old friends or relatives and they greet me with, “How ya doin’?”
    I’ll say, “Well, I think there’s hope.”
    My friend will reply with, “There’s always hope.”
    Then, I’ll say. “Well don’t quote me on it, since I’ve been wrong before.”
    They suddenly get the joke and smile while saying, “We have all been wrong sometimes.”
    This makes them smile. Then we continue with whatever we want to talk about.

  • @andrevaz7661
    @andrevaz7661 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm brazilian and only a beginner in english, but I can understand almost all of things you say. I watch your videos everyday and I learn a lot with this.
    Thank you very much for help us with your videos.

  • @mencred4334
    @mencred4334 5 ปีที่แล้ว +278

    Or you can use this question:
    "Mmm?"
    And people will answer:
    "Hmm mmm.."

    • @gergelynagy2681
      @gergelynagy2681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      La Be lol

    • @tempe157
      @tempe157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mmmm muah muahhh muaaHH

    • @ch7428
      @ch7428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂

    • @iSugarHeart
      @iSugarHeart 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thats how teenagers communicate in series of hums and grunts.

    • @derdonnerkiefertoaster5845
      @derdonnerkiefertoaster5845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sounds like German to me😂

  • @Miryyaa
    @Miryyaa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    Tony : "How are you?"
    Peter : "Mr. Stark, I don't feel so good..."

  • @BabyandLittleGuy
    @BabyandLittleGuy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're right! If you're British.
    I am American, so please keep in mind this is for use in the United States:
    THE MOST USED ANSWER to, "How are you?" is, "I'm fine, thank you, and you?" I don't like it, because it is a neutral, closed, non-emotional answer to an open question. But it is totally fine to use in the U.S. (sorry).
    "Hunky-dory" is an old-fashioned answer, but it IS used here, to say you feel optimistic, or to imply, a little sarcastically, that you don't feel very well.
    "So-so" IS used here, too, for when someone feels a little tired or bored.
    I liked the observation about the use of answers that could be mistaken to reflect a sense of arrogance. "I'm great!!" is a VERY common answer in the U.S., and, to the unaccustomed listener, could seem to denote self-aggrandizement. But, it IS used here in the U.S. regularly.
    ** Grammar tip:
    In the U.S., "These ones," is referred to as, "These." 6:04.
    I enjoy your videos, thank you!!

  • @orochikun8786
    @orochikun8786 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I have been living in London for a few years and I have heard "I´m fine" so many times... by native speakers. Of course they use different expressions as well...

    • @javii9768
      @javii9768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's okay to know new ways to say that boring expression.

  • @bichtrambumi
    @bichtrambumi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My boss who is from UK used to ask me “you okay” when we met in the morning and I was confused because I’ve learnt American English. Thanks for telling this. I love the way you teach us, very useful and funny. ❤️

  • @violetsky9849
    @violetsky9849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I'm fine thank u.. Actually Im feeling wonderful!, what's your problem?.

  • @j.w.griggsiii8698
    @j.w.griggsiii8698 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was definitely a lot different than what I was expecting when I clicked on the video. Then again, I am from the Southeastern United States where we are a lot more open with our expressions!

  • @luthfim8366
    @luthfim8366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    "What's your problem?"
    "You"

    • @kingsoren2010
      @kingsoren2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao at these comments but this one got me ROTFLMAO. I read this six times before i could move on and read the next comment.

    • @anu_priya8660
      @anu_priya8660 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm gonna use this....tynks. lol 😁😁😁

    • @udinmansyur6612
      @udinmansyur6612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me?

    • @treblesix8730
      @treblesix8730 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And thats the last thing you hear as his neanderthal forehead collides with the bridge of your nose and the lights go out........

    • @feedypvepvp3936
      @feedypvepvp3936 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fucek

  • @yi-minli2255
    @yi-minli2255 5 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    In Taiwan, we are also always taught to say "I'm fine. Thank you, and you"
    hahaha

    • @AnnabelleJARankin
      @AnnabelleJARankin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You can say that, it's fine.

    • @MariposaDelarosa
      @MariposaDelarosa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      En Venezuela too

    • @sonichef_taiwan
      @sonichef_taiwan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It is also rather common to hear taiwanese students say so-so and in actual fact so-so response was from textbooks (which I'm not sure if it still is).
      In Australia, ppl also use "you right there?" To ask if you need help/assistance/a hand.
      I'm very happy to know there are free TH-cam resources to help ppl learning English as a second language. Thumbs up!

    • @baluan3585
      @baluan3585 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We use it in Vietnam too

    • @labanderacetis17
      @labanderacetis17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I believe is a textbook thing... happens in Mexico too

  • @samantharobbins5779
    @samantharobbins5779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +391

    I’m a native speaker and now I’m overthinking how I respond to people 😳

    • @Mr.Nichan
      @Mr.Nichan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I already had that problem before I watched this video.

    • @bibibibi2680
      @bibibibi2680 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😁😁

    • @franciscoreinhardvillada2990
      @franciscoreinhardvillada2990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      me chupa un huevo gila

    • @compagniaelvira
      @compagniaelvira 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Please, tell us more! What do you usually say? It's a topic of huge interest to me. I live in London, and I meet one English every ten non English people, so I'd be glad to know what you actually say in this cases.

    • @samantharobbins5779
      @samantharobbins5779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Rolando G i usually say “hey what’s up?” “Not much, you?” “Not much.” That’s more typical than saying “hi how are you?”

  • @khanasajaya8924
    @khanasajaya8924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I proved that English has changed a lot. That's what I always say to my ESL students. What we learnt on books might be different in real life. Thanks for the explanation 👍

  • @totomaiden08
    @totomaiden08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Living 5 years in USA, the most common I heard is “Fine, you?”

    • @user-ns9fc
      @user-ns9fc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Prime Minister LOOOOLLL

    • @Laxreon
      @Laxreon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Still different from “I’m fine, thank you, and you?”

    • @Toywins
      @Toywins 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I say I'm fine thank you, in very polite situations.

  • @lucashvcl
    @lucashvcl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Great video! You nailed it with "I'm fine, thank you. And you?". Completely like my teachers would make us start a practice conversation back in school

  • @ayntmamiagaag
    @ayntmamiagaag 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I'm Finnish, we have even less emotions, but the "are you alright?" always scares the shit out of me 😄 Had to ask my friend if it's a normal small talk phrase or are my colleagues actually worried about me.
    Well, who am I kidding, as a Nordic person this whole small talk concept of asking meaningless questions (from my point of view) is quite an uncomfortable one.

    • @kukko83
      @kukko83 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah, it feels weird. British people must think themselves to be pretty stoic, asking questions like "Alright?" and expecting an answer. I've always felt some anxiety when confronted by British people, with these kinds of greetings. It must have been a couple of times that I've robotically blurted out "I'm fine, thank you. How are you?", just like we were taught at school. And the Americans! It REALLY feels like they want to know how you are, but they don't.
      For us Finns it's just "Moro", or "Moi" and you can reply the same, or nod, or just barely lift your hand. Or do like my good friend at work, who doesn't react to the greeting at all. I used to get annoyed by that but now I just don't greet him at all, as I know it's uncomfortable for both of us. I guess he's the Finn's Finn, as it's not his obligation to make you feel welcome, by greeting you back.

  • @ezgisozmen4653
    @ezgisozmen4653 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm an English teacher, too and I laugh a lot at your jokes! Thanks for making learning English fun :)))

  • @thetinyvoyager1070
    @thetinyvoyager1070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    The most attractive and hilarious way to teach a language. Accidentally found this channel. Now can’t stop watching & laughing. Handsome and attractive host btw.

    • @diannagilabert8535
      @diannagilabert8535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He's super cute for sure.... The lessons a bit slow paced for my taste but he's good :)

    • @carmen1869
      @carmen1869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's not even proper English..more like slang hahaha

  • @cernovlasy
    @cernovlasy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    7:58
    Papa: So, in the comments let me know how are you doing, how is everything.
    Me: I'm fine Papa. Thank you. And you?

    • @tuberobotto
      @tuberobotto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh, this is classic: "do - you - un-der-stand the-words coming out of-my mouth?"

    • @foooddriven
      @foooddriven 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Papa: *quits TH-cam*

  • @siriokds
    @siriokds 5 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    Years of scholar English lessons becoming rubbish in a moment. I need to restart.

  • @Ballistah
    @Ballistah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    In northern Germany we say "Moin". Everything else is "rumgelaber"

  • @julijaosmane3348
    @julijaosmane3348 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    What about?
    Not too bad...
    80% of people in UK say this one🤔

  • @spiritussanctum1661
    @spiritussanctum1661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    And ask it with Russian accent- What's your problem!

    • @armen1920
      @armen1920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely

    • @deivisony
      @deivisony 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Comrade

    • @anastasija.sav.
      @anastasija.sav. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ООО дааа😂😂😂🙏🏼

    • @GivemeBacon
      @GivemeBacon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Whax yo problem?? You nyeed some vodka??

    • @spiritussanctum1661
      @spiritussanctum1661 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@unk999 What's your Suka nahui blyad problem will be correctly.

  • @millerk20
    @millerk20 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Quite often, the exchange "How are you? Fine, thanks. You?" is simply a courtesy and not an actual inquiry into someone's state of being/mind.

    • @localhostechoEro
      @localhostechoEro 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, how are you?

    • @rajshreesinha9830
      @rajshreesinha9830 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh

    • @Fluffy-777
      @Fluffy-777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, most of the time it's just courtesy especially if you don't really know the person but if its someone you know then this is an actual question.

    • @lokilix
      @lokilix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think all english teaching methods include always! no exception! the famous: hi how are you? I'm fine and you? Jajajajajaja ain't joking, not only as courtesy, but as a memorized answer

    • @christrejo95
      @christrejo95 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lokilix Agree...

  • @shiroy2
    @shiroy2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    "Fine, thank you. And you?" is A huge meme about English in China.

  • @SukaHatiPelanggan
    @SukaHatiPelanggan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Nice! It's like in Bahasa Malaysia:
    Ok ker ? (For are you okay?)
    Sihat? (For are you well?)
    Amacam (short for how are things?)
    But we need to be polite when talking to an elderly:
    Apa khabar makcik? (How are you, auntie?)
    P/s: in Malaysia, everyone is your uncle and auntie if they are your mom/dad's age. 🤣

  • @sarahl.6468
    @sarahl.6468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Love the skits. It's awesome how you can make the lessons so interesting

  • @starry_lis
    @starry_lis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    I'm not British. Can I be openly miserable then?

    • @bibobu4359
      @bibobu4359 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sure

    • @Krmpfpks
      @Krmpfpks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Nothing is as openly miserable as being British ;-)

    • @michaeljuliano8839
      @michaeljuliano8839 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Only if you’re German.

    • @anavictoria7688
      @anavictoria7688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thats what I thought too + Being latína. Like omg i feel soo ill😭

    • @VyacheslavBychenko
      @VyacheslavBychenko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You definitely should. How dare you not to be British?!

  • @patrickhodson8715
    @patrickhodson8715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When someone says “I can’t complain” I sometimes say “you’re a better man/woman than I. I can always find something to complain about.”

    • @juju_6842
      @juju_6842 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're definitively French.

    • @patrickhodson8715
      @patrickhodson8715 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Baronne tchiki _ nope, American

  • @3rdand105
    @3rdand105 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    And now, the American perspective! Right off the bat, "how are you" is not a question here, it's a greeting. This is because, if you ask an American how how he or she is, he or she will tell you in great detail, and you don't have all day to listen. "So-so" is not common here, but you'll hear it from time to time. We do tend to emote, because it expresses how well we're doing. We use most of the expressions given here, but two that I personally use are "Just ducky, thanks!" and "Super, thanks for asking!" Some will say "Good, 'n' you?" In fact, if I meet up with someone who begins complaining before greeting me, I interrupt them with "Fine, thanks, 'n' you?" It lets them know they need to show some manners before I continue listening.

    • @zackdubnoff2366
      @zackdubnoff2366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is all very correct. It is absolutely not a question. On the east coast cities it's common to say "How you doin'?" and the answer is "How YOU doin'". Note that this is pronounced like it is one word "howyadoon?" "HowYOOdoon?"

    • @Anastasia___.
      @Anastasia___. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey. Thanks for an explanation.
      But what about "What's up?"? I hear it *a lot* and *never* know what to answer, I don't even know if I should answer to that at all. Confuses me so much.

    • @maureen833
      @maureen833 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I work in a call center and english is not my first language. If an American ask me then ‘how are you doing?’- a response of ‘good, n you?’is ok?

    • @tolvajakos
      @tolvajakos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Anastasia___. Just say "hey" in return. It is a greeting. They are not asking anything when they say that. If they say "Whassuuuup", or "suuuup", you could still imitate their intonation and say "heeeey". If you are not comfortable saying "hey", because it it not something they teach you in school (although in US, a lot of people just say "hey" and not "hi"), you could say just "hi", or "hi, how are you doing", or just "how are you doing". I am not American, but have lived there. Maybe somebody from the US could weigh in on it as well.

    • @Anastasia___.
      @Anastasia___. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tolvajakos thanks! That's what I thought, that's it's not even a question. But I wasn't sure and always had that feeling of being rude or something (like, "what if that *is* a question and I'm basically ignoring it" :D).
      Yeah, I am comfortable with "Hey", so, no problem there :)
      Thank you so much.