I had a conversation with my girlfriend tonight about boundaries. I'm 32 and have struggled with lust my entire life. I want this relationship to be different. She is truly the love of my life and worth waiting for! I have a ring and I plan to propose soon. We spend so much time together and a lot of it ends up being one on one at my house or hers, so there is temptation. We can't get married until June and I don't know how I'm going to make it... God has given me a great deal of self-control, and he's faithful to give me more! He's delivered me from pornography completely! Praise God.
Start dating with witnesses. The thing you can learn from the relationship described in Song of Solomon is that the friends of the bride and groom were all quite happy for them to be together. If you don't have Godly friends you can date around it should give you cause for concern
I just watched your videos about your first night as virgins. I gotta say, I really related to Gabe's fight against porn addiction, and I've also been looking to get closer to God! As a 15 year-old, I would be really grateful for prayers, and I'm really thankful for your channels! Thank you so much, God bless you ❤✝️
My husband and I love this video. We had to set those boundaries too. We had those lusting temptations since we was virgins, I was his first love and he was my first love. We stood strong in this journey. We got married at 23 and we're gonna be 25 this year since we're the same age.
@gas_station_evangelization God bless you too. We met at 2021, got married in 2023 and ready to start a family together with our newborn daughter this year.
Thank you for being so vulnerable and obedient. Your videos serve as true guidance for my own Christian relationship and countless others. This advice is priceless, and I learn so much about God, love and myself when I watch you both. Please don’t stop posting or talking about these things. May God bless the both of you.
Incredible incredible video guys. I don’t think you could genuinely comprehend the impact that videos like this will have on thousands of christian couples. I personally thank you for making content like this. God bless you guys!
I accidentally stumbled upon different sexual material online before even my teenage years, I ended up falling into porn. The Lord set me free from the addiction but I still struggle with intrusive thoughts despite having had walked away from porn 6 years ago. Thank you for sharing your story, I have had people demean me for being a woman who struggled with these things. For girlies who struggle with intrusive thoughts I have found that as soon as it enters your mind, rebuke it in the name of Jesus. It really does work! ❤
I love this guys, they are so direct, and I love when somebody talk the truth without lukewarmness. Posdata: I don´t comment any video, but when Gabe said: I don´t even care about the opinion of feminists, that phrase did me comment, continue doing these videos
After watching this video i'm going to talk to my bf about these kind of boundaries. I can tell he struggles with temptation and we are trying to prioritize Jesus over everything else. Thank you guys. I've been watching you guys for a long time. Thank you thank you thank you.
Hi everyone. I also had this conversation with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for almost 3 years (we will be both 20 soon). He is a Christian and as I became a follower of our Lord Jesus Christ in September 2024, I realised I don’t want to be part of any intimacy until I am married. We agreed we won’t sleep together or anything else, but for him, as a guy, it is easier said than done. And as I don’t want to “help” him with it, it’s up on him. But he feels like he’s cheating on me while doing it on his own. He also struggled with porn addiction, from which he has been set free thanks to our Lord. We were thinking about getting married, but for now it would more like how to escape so he wouldn’t have to do it by himself and I don’t want to get married just because of it, although I love him, I would like to marry him some day and we know each other very well. Could you please give me so advice? Because I feel like nobody talks about this in sense like: We’re waiting until marriage. But what the guy is supposed to do during this waiting period? Since he can’t go without it for a year or so
Not sure what you mean by "doing it on his own" and "doing it by himself"... if you're referring to self-pleasure, that is not a necessity... you guys not carrying out the act together and having him "do what he needs to do" on his own, is not the solution... that is devaluing your future experiences together. It is so so so tough, but the way I try to help myself with it is to reassure myself that by doing such things, I am damaging my future self and my partners future self as well for a shallow pleasure that ultimately does me no good. Hope that helps
Not many churches will touch this subject in detail. To worried that most of the people would be offended and leave. Alot of the worlds behavior is in the church. Leggings aren't accepted in many work places because it's considered to be naked. But in church it is ok. Something wrong here. When is the church going to stand up on these issues? Many won't. Nice to see these two go after these topics. Not to worried about who it will offend.
Engaging in sex before marriage does not cause a higher likelihood of divorce. It's correlated with a higher likelihood of divorce. Correlation is not causation. This is a very basic error. Divorce rate and likelihood of premarital sex are both correlated with religiosity. Highly religious people are less likely to divorce and are also less likely to engage in premarital sex.
I turned 32 years old on June 1st and I still have never looked at a guy with lust. I also am waiting until marriage to have sex. I think about this topic a lot and it amazes me how so many people today have zero self control and go sleep and have sex with so many different people. To me that's cheap.
I had a conversation with my girlfriend tonight about boundaries. I'm 32 and have struggled with lust my entire life. I want this relationship to be different. She is truly the love of my life and worth waiting for! I have a ring and I plan to propose soon. We spend so much time together and a lot of it ends up being one on one at my house or hers, so there is temptation. We can't get married until June and I don't know how I'm going to make it... God has given me a great deal of self-control, and he's faithful to give me more! He's delivered me from pornography completely! Praise God.
Start dating with witnesses. The thing you can learn from the relationship described in Song of Solomon is that the friends of the bride and groom were all quite happy for them to be together. If you don't have Godly friends you can date around it should give you cause for concern
You have got this his strength is made perfect in your weakness ❤
Thank God for Grace
I'm happy to hear your testimony.
Stay strong brother 😊
I just watched your videos about your first night as virgins. I gotta say, I really related to Gabe's fight against porn addiction, and I've also been looking to get closer to God! As a 15 year-old, I would be really grateful for prayers, and I'm really thankful for your channels! Thank you so much, God bless you ❤✝️
My husband and I love this video. We had to set those boundaries too. We had those lusting temptations since we was virgins, I was his first love and he was my first love. We stood strong in this journey. We got married at 23 and we're gonna be 25 this year since we're the same age.
As a 23 year old single Christian guy, this gives me hope. God bless you two! 🙏
@gas_station_evangelization God bless you too. We met at 2021, got married in 2023 and ready to start a family together with our newborn daughter this year.
I'm glad to see more Gen Zs are being saved.
Thank you for being so vulnerable and obedient. Your videos serve as true guidance for my own Christian relationship and countless others. This advice is priceless, and I learn so much about God, love and myself when I watch you both. Please don’t stop posting or talking about these things. May God bless the both of you.
Incredible incredible video guys. I don’t think you could genuinely comprehend the impact that videos like this will have on thousands of christian couples. I personally thank you for making content like this. God bless you guys!
I accidentally stumbled upon different sexual material online before even my teenage years, I ended up falling into porn. The Lord set me free from the addiction but I still struggle with intrusive thoughts despite having had walked away from porn 6 years ago. Thank you for sharing your story, I have had people demean me for being a woman who struggled with these things.
For girlies who struggle with intrusive thoughts I have found that as soon as it enters your mind, rebuke it in the name of Jesus. It really does work! ❤
I love this guys, they are so direct, and I love when somebody talk the truth without lukewarmness. Posdata: I don´t comment any video, but when Gabe said: I don´t even care about the opinion of feminists, that phrase did me comment, continue doing these videos
After watching this video i'm going to talk to my bf about these kind of boundaries. I can tell he struggles with temptation and we are trying to prioritize Jesus over everything else. Thank you guys. I've been watching you guys for a long time. Thank you thank you thank you.
Amen! Humbleness and modesty in a relationship thats rooted in Christ 🙏🏾
I really appreciate ur vids they make me feel so empowerment knowing the truth of relationships and stuff!
I thank God for your obedience to His Words.
Hi everyone. I also had this conversation with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for almost 3 years (we will be both 20 soon). He is a Christian and as I became a follower of our Lord Jesus Christ in September 2024, I realised I don’t want to be part of any intimacy until I am married. We agreed we won’t sleep together or anything else, but for him, as a guy, it is easier said than done. And as I don’t want to “help” him with it, it’s up on him. But he feels like he’s cheating on me while doing it on his own. He also struggled with porn addiction, from which he has been set free thanks to our Lord.
We were thinking about getting married, but for now it would more like how to escape so he wouldn’t have to do it by himself and I don’t want to get married just because of it, although I love him, I would like to marry him some day and we know each other very well.
Could you please give me so advice? Because I feel like nobody talks about this in sense like: We’re waiting until marriage. But what the guy is supposed to do during this waiting period? Since he can’t go without it for a year or so
Not sure what you mean by "doing it on his own" and "doing it by himself"... if you're referring to self-pleasure, that is not a necessity... you guys not carrying out the act together and having him "do what he needs to do" on his own, is not the solution... that is devaluing your future experiences together. It is so so so tough, but the way I try to help myself with it is to reassure myself that by doing such things, I am damaging my future self and my partners future self as well for a shallow pleasure that ultimately does me no good. Hope that helps
you guys are the cutest couple I know AND wiser than most. God bless both of you!
Thank you for this! What do yall think about guy-gurl friendships tho? Id luv a vid on your thoughts on that
Amen. It's true.😇😊 Thank you for this video. This is very helpful and truly Godly advice.😊😇🙏
Not many churches will touch this subject in detail. To worried that most of the people would be offended and leave.
Alot of the worlds behavior is in the church. Leggings aren't accepted in many work places because it's considered to be naked.
But in church it is ok.
Something wrong here. When is the church going to stand up on these issues? Many won't.
Nice to see these two go after these topics. Not to worried about who it will offend.
you guys are amazing
Logical Christians 🌸
I sent a donation and didn’t get the email with the Christian dating guide!
Hi Gabe
W Video!
Engaging in sex before marriage does not cause a higher likelihood of divorce. It's correlated with a higher likelihood of divorce. Correlation is not causation. This is a very basic error.
Divorce rate and likelihood of premarital sex are both correlated with religiosity. Highly religious people are less likely to divorce and are also less likely to engage in premarital sex.
In other words, not demonstrating commitment prior to marriage correlates to not demonstrating commitment after marriage.
I turned 32 years old on June 1st and I still have never looked at a guy with lust. I also am waiting until marriage to have sex. I think about this topic a lot and it amazes me how so many people today have zero self control and go sleep and have sex with so many different people. To me that's cheap.