The irony is that husband said his reasoning is she was such a bad mom and wife. But then cheated with a person that not only cheated on her husband numerous times but also is such a horrendous mother that she would sleep with her daughter's husband and father of her newborn grandchildren. WTF😳😳😳
and a disgusting man for a husband. I'm so proud of her for leaving his ass. I just can't believe this man made babies with his wife just to turn around and go fuck around with miss hooxhie mama
The life of the Scapegoat. Dang I know it well, but my mom is thankfully not this type of N, and incapable of such trash.... I mean this one takes the low-down cake.
The twisted mother is absolutely DEMONIC. That’s solid and not based on superstition, not a “Fundie” nor “Charismania”. You’re 💯correct when you say she’s dangerous 💔
@@TwinkleToes-u8voh absolutely I told my wife about this and said u and my mother would absolutely be in the hospital because there’s no way I would be able to control my anger
It will be your own! I’ve always heard that narcissist mothers are jealous of their own daughters. This is a prime example. I’m still watching but it’s so heartbreaking
This is a textbook example of a narcissist mother who is jealous of and competes with her daughter. Absolutely makes me sick to my stomach. My mother is a narcissist and before she got dementia she was the most horrible and abusive person to the point people from her job would tell me after they got to know me that she said terrible lies about me.
Bet he ain't got nothing to his name. I bet that hard, it's such an L move to cheat at all, esp when your wife just had a baby. It cannot be hard to find a non-family member to be a cheater with.
This is some sick shiitt! I have sisters and if I ever witnessed some inappropriate stuff with their husband's with my mom or anyone else I'd automatically call them out and I'd tell my sister immediately.
This is CRAZY right. I'm so here for the train wreck... I like this lady. Much empathy although I'm grateful I've never even come close to this experience. This is so next level betrayal. dang
The word you missed was "In my opinion". He is a classic "henpecked" husband. A victim of emotional abuse no doubt. In my opinion. She seems to be very machiavellian and wears the trousers.
Girl sue ur Mom for emotional distress and sleeping with ur Husband, then sue both parents for defamation and take their house- show Mom how to correctly take over
@@1Skorpia Not really, look up the laws in their state for one and what type of whore are u if u really think thats true? She can sue her Dad also with proof of the affair and harassment- u don’t know how this works 😂😂😂😂
@1Skorpia there's no defamation on the daughters behalf; you're allowed to retell true events on a public platform, as long as there were no standing orders from court. Unless her parents are friends with very important people who can use their power for corruption, there isn't a judge who would slap and gag order on her. Defamation, libel, and slander, come into play when someone's lying about a situation.
It seems like her older sister still having a relationship with the parents was the final straw, a good enough excuse to cut her off. Older sister sounds very bratty and crass. 😅
U know how yr eating a big plate of food and u get full and u want to eat more but u just can’t so u gotta come back to it, that’s me mentally listening to her story 😳 wow that is a lot to not only take in but to digest 😳it’s so wonderful she ain’t crazy by now….but the good thing is she was able to overcome those demons and move on with her sanity in tact 👈🏽💯😳kudos to her for not giving up and pushing through every trap that the devil set for her💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes, a lot of people sadly 😥 go through this...Narc are the worst. People find it hard to believe and it makes us feel like we're crazy, but we get it.
Mothers words can sting. I'm almost 40 and still remember my mother telling me when I was very young that she should have aborted me. I don't speak to that evil woman. She up and left us for some guy she met online (she used a VERY old pic) and then she came back when he didn't want her. Really screwed us kids up. Also loves to defend her pedo son. I wish I could say I miss my mom, but I never really had one
I agree with Katherine have no contact with all of them. The mother clearly has no morals and if she did it to one daughter she will do it again. Mom and dad are both terrible. I would never speak to either parent or any sibling who took the parents side. Im sorry there is low but having a affair with your own daughters husband then moving into her house after they seperate is a whole nother low.
Oh man, them contemplating Catherine's and the dad's death is a giant red flag. Next level crazy, I'd say very dangerous. And ive got some sad experience with crazies. 😣
Catherine you are one strong woman, thank you for sharing all your life. I'm 45, Im humbled by your journey. Your daughters will be amazing humans and contributor to make this world better because of you. ❤
Wow. Her hubby is Narcissistic. My ExN cheated on me too and had no remorse blamed me then acted like nothing happened like I wanted to talk to him after or even be intimate.🙄😷😷😷
Mom too and the family enables her behavior which is why she continues to do what she does...so NO I don't blame Catherine for expecting her family to no contact her.
I’m so happy you have your baby sister for support!!! This is heartbreaking I wouldn’t talk to anyone in my family if they were okay with mom doing that!! I wish you nothing but the best in life!!
I feel so bad for this woman :( I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect or at the very least want your siblings to go non-contact after something like this. I don’t think it’s unreasonable to want or need support from your family. You saw how it affected her, you saw how she was betrayed, you saw how she was manipulated and/or lied to by your parent(s). That alone would make me not wanna talk to my parent(s), if not on behalf of my sibling it would definitely be because of the principal. separate from being a parent, this speaks volumes on your character and who you are as a person. if you could hurt my sibling like that, what would make me think you wouldn’t hurt me in the same way if given the chance? above all else their relationship was severely inappropriate. because even if it wasn’t my sibling, you still did that to another person??? like???😬 just vile gross and nasty. and if you can support or be around someone like that, parent or not, i feel like that speaks to who you are as a person as well🫣 but that’s just me idk
Ah. Her mom is a teacher. This explains LITERALLY EVERYTHING. there are two kinds of teachers. The kind sweet honest ones....and then there are the others...who sleep with other teachers, do cocaine and smoke weed and drink every day in massive amounts, cross the line with students, are into swinging with their husbands and wives....etc. I know many many many teachers. This isn't something that most teachers will admit other teachers are doing these things....but I can assure you, they are. I know all the dirt on everyone in my school district....small tiny little town. It's beyond scandalous.
This really breaks my heart and angers me. So many people failed you and trying to seem they are the normal ones. This situation isn’t weird at all but it is and they all should be ashamed of themselves. It’s hard to hear but I can’t seem to turn away because I feel you need to share your story as therapy and I am here for support for you.
I believe the problem is not choosing sides, but standing a position that suggests yiu condone it or yhat the OP is in the wrong. But at the same time id still cut off the older sister as the attention seeking qualities mirrors the mom. Have to be very weary
I just had to add another comment. You are so strong. I am amazed by you. Although I doubt that you will ever see this comment, I just want to put out there that I think you are fantastic!
Don’t accuse a daughter of this without proof, you will lose this child forever for the resentment of a child having to apologize for the rest of thier life for something they did not do.
Parents like this make you want to go no contact. And move far away. 😢 i am so sorry she had to go though this I hope she can heel .. that mom need serious help
Sometimes ya gonna pick a side. By still hanging with the parents it's like saying what mom did was ok. And dad did blame the daughter for it happening. If a relationship is toxic you don't need it in your life. It does not matter if they are related or not. Life is too short to deal with the drama.
I remember this story omg! And I would definitely cut my siblings off too if they continue to have a relationship with my mother and father after this. Because if it was another person on the street who claimed to be my friend and did this to me, my siblings would never want to speak to that person again. You don’t get a pass, especially when it’s my mother who did it!if my sister still spoke to my mom, I would think that they with her actions and therefore I wouldn’t want any of them in my life at all
There was another unhinged Reddit story of a woman who was with her husband since they were teens. She had kids with him, and her mom had more kids. Turned out mom was sleeping with the husband almost since they got together in high school - and her siblings were actually her husband’s children 😭
Im sure this comment will be passed by but I gotta tell it anyways lmao... I turned 50 this last March. I married my ex husband when I was 16. I had my 1st child at age 18. When my son was 9 months old. My oven (mom) was separating from her ex and needed a place to live. So she moved in with my ex and I. About 3 months in (maybe sooner) it was like they were married and I was the outcast. I don't think they were doing anything at THAT time but it got so bad there. They would LITTERALLY gang up on me and VERBALLY attack me. So I lft... Long story short. I took my son with and I gave him visitation with our son. On ONE of those visits, they must have lost track of time but I showed up to pick up my son and CAUGHT THEM IN BED TOGETHER... we didn't get back together after all that AND TO THIS DAY... I don't talk to my oven. That's been over 30 yrs now....
that thing has no right to ever call herself a mother absolutely disgusted by this ladys story i hope she heals and i wish these people the karma they deserve x
The ppl that showed hate obv have never been married, had kids, been truly betrayed in an adult sense and I’m fairly certain they may be short a few marbles if you know what I mean! Screw them! Also- your mother seggually abused you as a child imo. I’m fairly certain a psychiatrist would agree. Asking for help takes courage! I know you didn’t but most ppl are more than happy to especially for their grandbabies! You had his granddaughters & as much love & support they can get the better! Babies can never have too much love. Take care. ❤
Damn I feel so bad for this young woman she didn’t deserve any of the bad crap her husband and mother did to. Her wow, hope she’s doing much better now in her life today! ❤❤❤
Damn, this is so bad. At least I'm not alone. My Narcissist ex and my daughter (his adopted step daughter) betrayed me. She is married too. She moved in after I left. I wasn't "needed" anymore, according to both of them. She gets his half of our lives work after he dies.
Have you looked into your financial rights? That doesn’t sound right. You should be entitled to a financial settlement. Make sure you write your daughter out of your will and make it very clear that you mean that and that you don’t want it contested
😮🤯😢...but she's healing🙏🏾. And to the immoral, depraved, debaucherous, damned she's separated herself from 🦨💨💨💨💨💨💥 & may you get your portion in this life
No. Imo I think she is being unreasonable to go no contact with the siblings, however I hope these sisters know that continuing to talk to their mom knowing that she had an affair with one of her daughters husband's, what is to say that mom won't end up doing it again only to another sister. You know what I'm saying? Cause mom and dad cannot be trusted. So if I was one of the sisters I would at least put an arms length between our relationship ship and if they are married or have boyfriends I would put up two arms and two legs worth of length between us all😅. Cause mama she a hoochie mama😅😂😂
Induno if god forbid I got cheated on like that and my siblings still bootlicking the spineless parents I’d go no contact to FUXK everyone lol. Immglad i don’t come from that family
To answer your question: In the OT, infidelity was grounds for a divorce...imo, he pulled some OT debauchery right here. All in all, there was nothing to salvage & her expending no energy into reliving his prideful philandering during her process of coping & healing, was purely self-preservation ie. her not turning around only to be turned to a pillar of salt. But also ultimately necessary for the protection of her children's innocence & wellbeing.
Why did she keep the monkey baby toys when her mother said they represent how she sees her granddaughters appearance based on them being half Mexican? Why not toss them, or donate them? Why keep them in the closet? Seeing those things would p¡ss me off every time I opened the closet. Even if they were tucked away & out of sight. Just knowing they were there would be infuriating. Hopefully she has gone NO CONTACT with her narcissistic mother. A restraining order would be a good idea too. So if anything she could use the monkey toys as more evidence for why her mom should not be allowed to be around her granddaughters. Plus this might also help her keep her daughters' father away as well. Because he might still be sleeping with their grandmother & might bring them to see her even if a order of protection is in place. So he may need AT LEAST supervised visits. Especially since he wants to play flying monkey. So maybe it's a good idea after all that she held on to those things.
but this was her husband.. and she had just had his kids.. and they were in the nicu.. and her mom was planning on making a move to marry him which would absolutely fuck their family tree to a family bush.
It's understandable she feels hurt by her sister but ultimately not fair to demand her sister also cut them off, given she was adopted out she obviously has some complex trauma of her own
You’re confused. The older sister she is talking about is the second child her mother and father had. Her oldest sister is the adopted one. The one that wasn’t adopted but still older is the brat that sucks up to the evil mom.
@@JodiTheIslandGirlthe older sister isn’t the adopted one. The OLDEST sister is the adopted one. The second born sister is the one still hanging out with evil mom like besties.
My husband said he wouldn't go either. He would unalive both us lol. Their relationship reminds me of my parents. They have cheated on each other so many times. My dad is numb to it and mom holds grudges and kicks him out at least once a week about him cheating 20 years ago when she's cheated multiple times since. I am no contact with my parents. I feared my mom too. I related to this story. My husband hates my mom so I have no worries but I know exactly what kind of mom they are describing 😢 My mom did sck a man up after me and him had a weekend fling 😭 I really didn't have feelings for him though. My mom thought I did. My baby sister and youngest brother caught her doing it 😭
I dont think she ever said that she wants her siblings to never talk to their mother again, I think she just expected more support from her siblings as she have. I would expect my siblings to be there for me if this happened to me but I no they wouldn't disown her shes still their mother. The mother is nasty nasty nasty and the father is obviously just so used to his wife doing this to him so he just excepts it. And that in itself is also weird.
My "mother" put me thru hell and back... yet she has a different bond with my younger brothers and I do not intervere I dont tell them how to feel or try to prove why I went no contact.... everyone can have different relations ❤
The irony is that husband said his reasoning is she was such a bad mom and wife. But then cheated with a person that not only cheated on her husband numerous times but also is such a horrendous mother that she would sleep with her daughter's husband and father of her newborn grandchildren. WTF😳😳😳
Right! Like make it make sense.
Poor Catherine. Not only did she find out that she has a bad mom, but also a bad dad and bad siblings.
and a disgusting man for a husband. I'm so proud of her for leaving his ass. I just can't believe this man made babies with his wife just to turn around and go fuck around with miss hooxhie mama
Аnd bad everyone. She's the only good one.
@@35foxtrot35I doubt she is good....that entire family is a mess and I have a feeling that she is also. I get major b$t&h vibes from her.
@@35foxtrot35The only normal one
The life of the Scapegoat. Dang I know it well, but my mom is thankfully not this type of N, and incapable of such trash.... I mean this one takes the low-down cake.
Mom moving in the same night is insane 😩
Unbelievable!
DIABOLICAL‼️‼️😫😭😱
It's disgusting!
@@JodiTheIslandGirlJodi this sh*t is Blowing My mind 😱😡🤯 California ♥️😎
@@JodiTheIslandGirlThe Mama was soooo out of pocket!!!! I can imagine her Pain...😱🤯 California ♥️😎
The twisted mother is absolutely DEMONIC. That’s solid and not based on superstition, not a “Fundie” nor “Charismania”. You’re 💯correct when you say she’s dangerous 💔
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Yes, it is demonic and she needs Jesus.
I don’t necessarily believe in biblical demons but I wholeheartedly agree with you! Absolutely twisted! 😣
The way this video made me want to fight & this isn’t even my mess to deal with 😑🥊
You and I both
Same girl same!
The fact that she confided in her Mom about her marital problems and she slept with her husband 😢
She probably was rejoicing inside
@@JodiTheIslandGirl
I'd be in prison frfr
@@TwinkleToes-u8voh absolutely I told my wife about this and said u and my mother would absolutely be in the hospital because there’s no way I would be able to control my anger
@@juliexx1980
Exactly, there's no way I'd allow myself to be passive in that situation
@@TwinkleToes-u8vnot over a man.
It will be your own! I’ve always heard that narcissist mothers are jealous of their own daughters. This is a prime example. I’m still watching but it’s so heartbreaking
Yes, it’s so hard to believe you would purposely hurt your own daughter?!
Omg 😳
That's my mom exactly 😂😂😂
Mine too @@estherblack2770
There are a lot of those kinds of moms here on yt with a "family" channel smh.
This is a textbook example of a narcissist mother who is jealous of and competes with her daughter. Absolutely makes me sick to my stomach. My mother is a narcissist and before she got dementia she was the most horrible and abusive person to the point people from her job would tell me after they got to know me that she said terrible lies about me.
I’m so sorry 😢
@@JodiTheIslandGirl Thank you ❤️
i’m in
I hope you take him for everything he has in the divorce. And sue your mother for emotional destress. Your right about your dad 😮
I endorse this message 👏🏾👏🏾
Bet he ain't got nothing to his name. I bet that hard, it's such an L move to cheat at all, esp when your wife just had a baby. It cannot be hard to find a non-family member to be a cheater with.
This is some sick shiitt! I have sisters and if I ever witnessed some inappropriate stuff with their husband's with my mom or anyone else I'd automatically call them out and I'd tell my sister immediately.
Likewise
17 minutes in, and my jaw has been on the floor numerous times. Wtf
I know !!!! 😢 how can a mom do this ?
And it gets worse 😣
This is CRAZY right. I'm so here for the train wreck... I like this lady. Much empathy although I'm grateful I've never even come close to this experience. This is so next level betrayal. dang
@TimesUp8888 it is almost hard to believe. I mean, I do, but how the hell do you heal from something like that
Her mother has some very serious dirt on her father. They have secrets between them that even she doesn't know.
This makes sense
Or her father could just be a door mat
The word you missed was "In my opinion". He is a classic "henpecked" husband. A victim of emotional abuse no doubt. In my opinion. She seems to be very machiavellian and wears the trousers.
He's probably in the closet or some fetish he doesn't want people to know
@@Jtol88 🎯🎯🎯
Omg this sounds exactly like my mother but she got rejected by my husband and all my boyfriend's she tried with 😂😂😂 delusional narcissist
Girl sue ur Mom for emotional distress and sleeping with ur Husband, then sue both parents for defamation and take their house- show Mom how to correctly take over
The mother could do a cease and desist on her /countersue. Or gag order. Sue her for defamation of character also. It goes both ways...
@@1Skorpia gotta prove it first, it ain’t defamation its true ! 😂😂😂
@@1Skorpia Not really, look up the laws in their state for one and what type of whore are u if u really think thats true? She can sue her Dad also with proof of the affair and harassment- u don’t know how this works 😂😂😂😂
@1Skorpia there's no defamation on the daughters behalf; you're allowed to retell true events on a public platform, as long as there were no standing orders from court.
Unless her parents are friends with very important people who can use their power for corruption, there isn't a judge who would slap and gag order on her.
Defamation, libel, and slander, come into play when someone's lying about a situation.
This video triggered me bad, because these flying monkeys are so bold with their chaos. Stay safe girl 💙
It seems like her older sister still having a relationship with the parents was the final straw, a good enough excuse to cut her off. Older sister sounds very bratty and crass. 😅
Thanks for watching 😊
The older sister is exactly like her mother. Overly sexual and inappropriate
She should have called him back and had someone else call her mother a minute later to see if her phone rang.
Sounds like my mom. Especially the empty, selfish “sorry, love you” texts. Glad I went no contact before I got married.
This level of betrayal Wowwww
So low
You won't get any peace untill you go no contact. It's extremely peaceful and drama free 👍
It really is so discusting that Nana was sleeping with the kids' dad, yucky 🤮 poor woman and children
They are sick people
So needing to see what the mother looks like to have all these affairs!!!
Scrap that just seen on her TikTok …Ewww that’s actually gross
Me too 😅.
Girl where pls
I am officially flabbergasted. My mouth is hanging open rn. I am shaken to my core. This is unbelievable and crazy. Wow
It’s heartbreaking
U know how yr eating a big plate of food and u get full and u want to eat more but u just can’t so u gotta come back to it, that’s me mentally listening to her story 😳 wow that is a lot to not only take in but to digest 😳it’s so wonderful she ain’t crazy by now….but the good thing is she was able to overcome those demons and move on with her sanity in tact 👈🏽💯😳kudos to her for not giving up and pushing through every trap that the devil set for her💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes, a lot of people sadly 😥 go through this...Narc are the worst. People find it hard to believe and it makes us feel like we're crazy, but we get it.
Lot of women are jealous of their daughters!! My mom is so scared of me being successful 😂😂😂. She hated me from the time she birthed me.
Oh wow! I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Do you still to her?
That's a deep wound,how terribly unfair. My heart goes out to you,dear 💜
Same. thank god she never was into younger guys my age... she's not that type at all omg
Mothers words can sting. I'm almost 40 and still remember my mother telling me when I was very young that she should have aborted me. I don't speak to that evil woman. She up and left us for some guy she met online (she used a VERY old pic) and then she came back when he didn't want her. Really screwed us kids up. Also loves to defend her pedo son. I wish I could say I miss my mom, but I never really had one
Yes, mines As well. People need to look into narcissistic people.
I agree with Katherine have no contact with all of them. The mother clearly has no morals and if she did it to one daughter she will do it again. Mom and dad are both terrible. I would never speak to either parent or any sibling who took the parents side. Im sorry there is low but having a affair with your own daughters husband then moving into her house after they seperate is a whole nother low.
This mother is a legion of demons I tell you.
I'm so happy she got out of there and that her children don't have to go through what she did .
Once she started telling the story about Jason my face looked like this☹️
That Mother is something else
Yeah and 🤢 and 🤮
Oh man, them contemplating Catherine's and the dad's death is a giant red flag. Next level crazy, I'd say very dangerous. And ive got some sad experience with crazies. 😣
Catherine you are one strong woman, thank you for sharing all your life. I'm 45, Im humbled by your journey. Your daughters will be amazing humans and contributor to make this world better because of you. ❤
Sounds like the mom was/is a predator. Mentally she hasn’t grown up. She is living through her children.
Started off shocked but the longer I listen, the more she sounds like a victim of everyone she’s ever met.
This is the lowest of low
The bottom of the barrel
I could NEVER imagine. Your OWN mother. That's going over girl code😶
Wow. Her hubby is Narcissistic. My ExN cheated on me too and had no remorse blamed me then acted like nothing happened like I wanted to talk to him after or even be intimate.🙄😷😷😷
Mom too and the family enables her behavior which is why she continues to do what she does...so NO I don't blame Catherine for expecting her family to no contact her.
The brother is a Narc too
Lowest of the low!
If your spouse cheated on you which is adultery you have right to leave even though you made a vow.
As the BIBLE STATED!!!!
Thanks for compiling these stories, Jodi :) :)
My pleasure!😇
This made me even more glad that i have the mom i have. I feel so bad for her i can't even imagine.
I’m so happy you have your baby sister for support!!! This is heartbreaking I wouldn’t talk to anyone in my family if they were okay with mom doing that!! I wish you nothing but the best in life!!
I feel so bad for this woman :(
I don’t think it’s unreasonable to expect or at the very least want your siblings to go non-contact after something like this.
I don’t think it’s unreasonable to want or need support from your family. You saw how it affected her, you saw how she was betrayed, you saw how she was manipulated and/or lied to by your parent(s).
That alone would make me not wanna talk to my parent(s), if not on behalf of my sibling it would definitely be because of the principal. separate from being a parent, this speaks volumes on your character and who you are as a person. if you could hurt my sibling like that, what would make me think you wouldn’t hurt me in the same way if given the chance?
above all else their relationship was severely inappropriate. because even if it wasn’t my sibling, you still did that to another person??? like???😬 just vile gross and nasty. and if you can support or be around someone like that, parent or not, i feel like that speaks to who you are as a person as well🫣
but that’s just me idk
Ah. Her mom is a teacher. This explains LITERALLY EVERYTHING. there are two kinds of teachers. The kind sweet honest ones....and then there are the others...who sleep with other teachers, do cocaine and smoke weed and drink every day in massive amounts, cross the line with students, are into swinging with their husbands and wives....etc. I know many many many teachers. This isn't something that most teachers will admit other teachers are doing these things....but I can assure you, they are. I know all the dirt on everyone in my school district....small tiny little town. It's beyond scandalous.
Damn thr pesto girl catching strays and she didn't even do anything. Lol
Sounds like dad was into it too
That woman is a predator!!!! This is insanity!
This really breaks my heart and angers me. So many people failed you and trying to seem they are the normal ones. This situation isn’t weird at all but it is and they all should be ashamed of themselves. It’s hard to hear but I can’t seem to turn away because I feel you need to share your story as therapy and I am here for support for you.
Don’t blame yourself for not expecting your mother to be sleeping with your man 🤧
That would never cross my mind either 🥴
I believe the problem is not choosing sides, but standing a position that suggests yiu condone it or yhat the OP is in the wrong.
But at the same time id still cut off the older sister as the attention seeking qualities mirrors the mom. Have to be very weary
Appreciate your feedback 😊
23:59 This is not the first time her mother betrayed her. This woman is mentally broken. That betrayal is beyond imaginable.
Mom got an itch that can’t be scratched 😅
I'm surprised she ain't itching yet
I just had to add another comment. You are so strong. I am amazed by you. Although I doubt that you will ever see this comment, I just want to put out there that I think you are fantastic!
I also have an older sister who wants to compete with me about everything. I have no interest in it, but everything I do, she suddenly does the same.
Don’t accuse a daughter of this without proof, you will lose this child forever for the resentment of a child having to apologize for the rest of thier life for something they did not do.
Parents like this make you want to go no contact. And move far away. 😢 i am so sorry she had to go though this I hope she can heel .. that mom need serious help
Sometimes ya gonna pick a side.
By still hanging with the parents it's like saying what mom did was ok. And dad did blame the daughter for it happening.
If a relationship is toxic you don't need it in your life. It does not matter if they are related or not. Life is too short to deal with the drama.
She makes me want to go make a TikTok just to send her good vibes everyday ❤
I remember this story omg! And I would definitely cut my siblings off too if they continue to have a relationship with my mother and father after this. Because if it was another person on the street who claimed to be my friend and did this to me, my siblings would never want to speak to that person again. You don’t get a pass, especially when it’s my mother who did it!if my sister still spoke to my mom, I would think that they with her actions and therefore I wouldn’t want any of them in my life at all
She wrote this on Reddit, but changed it up. Wow crazy to see her face!!!!
There was another unhinged Reddit story of a woman who was with her husband since they were teens. She had kids with him, and her mom had more kids. Turned out mom was sleeping with the husband almost since they got together in high school - and her siblings were actually her husband’s children 😭
Hell Exists For A Reason You Know.
I get the weird part a lot of people sadly don't know what it means to have a Narc as a parent; it is a weird out of body experience 😢.
Wow A Narcissist if you ever heard of one. 😢 The dad says answer her 🙄 like no she can suffer. ❤
I hope she finds the love of her life a get married to her true love next time
You're the best person in your family. God-given God bless you. You're in my prayers!
You are so kind
Im sure this comment will be passed by but I gotta tell it anyways lmao...
I turned 50 this last March. I married my ex husband when I was 16. I had my 1st child at age 18.
When my son was 9 months old. My oven (mom) was separating from her ex and needed a place to live. So she moved in with my ex and I.
About 3 months in (maybe sooner) it was like they were married and I was the outcast. I don't think they were doing anything at THAT time but it got so bad there. They would LITTERALLY gang up on me and VERBALLY attack me. So I lft... Long story short. I took my son with and I gave him visitation with our son.
On ONE of those visits, they must have lost track of time but I showed up to pick up my son and CAUGHT THEM IN BED TOGETHER... we didn't get back together after all that AND TO THIS DAY... I don't talk to my oven. That's been over 30 yrs now....
that thing has no right to ever call herself a mother absolutely disgusted by this ladys
story i hope she heals
and i wish these people the karma they deserve x
Devastating
This is way crazier than that who did i marry viral story
Holy crap the mother is an entire honado (tornado) and the husband is a dicknami (tsunami)! 😮
I really don’t think she had much else to speak on about the husband because he probably doesn’t see anything wrong with what they did😢
This is a older story. I remember her telling this. Ladddtttt
Yes, she’s still sharing/ updating us
I love some good tea
Yes ma’am 😉
Your mom was never your “best friend”.
The ppl that showed hate obv have never been married, had kids, been truly betrayed in an adult sense and I’m fairly certain they may be short a few marbles if you know what I mean! Screw them! Also- your mother seggually abused you as a child imo. I’m fairly certain a psychiatrist would agree. Asking for help takes courage! I know you didn’t but most ppl are more than happy to especially for their grandbabies! You had his granddaughters & as much love & support they can get the better! Babies can never have too much love. Take care. ❤
Why was dad so afraid of his wife?
I don’t think we will ever know…this is more than just a ‘vow’
@@JodiTheIslandGirl I see…
No. My ears refuse to believe what they’re hearing 😢
She moved into ur house, destiny swapping is very real n this mess is gettin scary
Damn I feel so bad for this young woman she didn’t deserve any of the bad crap her husband and mother did to. Her wow, hope she’s doing much better now in her life today! ❤❤❤
Damn, this is so bad. At least I'm not alone. My Narcissist ex and my daughter (his adopted step daughter) betrayed me. She is married too. She moved in after I left. I wasn't "needed" anymore, according to both of them. She gets his half of our lives work after he dies.
Have you looked into your financial rights? That doesn’t sound right. You should be entitled to a financial settlement. Make sure you write your daughter out of your will and make it very clear that you mean that and that you don’t want it contested
Dude what in the ever loving fuck. It just keeps getting worse
😮🤯😢...but she's healing🙏🏾. And to the immoral, depraved, debaucherous, damned she's separated herself from 🦨💨💨💨💨💨💥 & may you get your portion in this life
💀💀💀 And her Dad took her Mom BACK after that? 👀😳🤡 What kind of drugs is he on I wonder.
No. Imo I think she is being unreasonable to go no contact with the siblings, however I hope these sisters know that continuing to talk to their mom knowing that she had an affair with one of her daughters husband's, what is to say that mom won't end up doing it again only to another sister. You know what I'm saying? Cause mom and dad cannot be trusted. So if I was one of the sisters I would at least put an arms length between our relationship ship and if they are married or have boyfriends I would put up two arms and two legs worth of length between us all😅. Cause mama she a hoochie mama😅😂😂
I cried at hoochie mama 😂😣😂
Induno if god forbid I got cheated on like that and my siblings still bootlicking the spineless parents I’d go no contact to FUXK everyone lol. Immglad i don’t come from that family
My daughter is my world
Never completion
I’d never knowingly do anything to hurt her
The tattoo timing just made me WTF so hard 😂😮
To answer your question: In the OT, infidelity was grounds for a divorce...imo, he pulled some OT debauchery right here. All in all, there was nothing to salvage & her expending no energy into reliving his prideful philandering during her process of coping & healing, was purely self-preservation ie. her not turning around only to be turned to a pillar of salt. But also ultimately necessary for the protection of her children's innocence & wellbeing.
Damn when I thought it couldn’t get worse
We are always the last ones to know.
Why did she keep the monkey baby toys when her mother said they represent how she sees her granddaughters appearance based on them being half Mexican? Why not toss them, or donate them? Why keep them in the closet? Seeing those things would p¡ss me off every time I opened the closet. Even if they were tucked away & out of sight. Just knowing they were there would be infuriating. Hopefully she has gone NO CONTACT with her narcissistic mother. A restraining order would be a good idea too. So if anything she could use the monkey toys as more evidence for why her mom should not be allowed to be around her granddaughters. Plus this might also help her keep her daughters' father away as well. Because he might still be sleeping with their grandmother & might bring them to see her even if a order of protection is in place. So he may need AT LEAST supervised visits. Especially since he wants to play flying monkey.
So maybe it's a good idea after all that she held on to those things.
Omg
My mom dated my first boyfriend, lmao. Idk what to tell you.
but this was her husband.. and she had just had his kids.. and they were in the nicu.. and her mom was planning on making a move to marry him which would absolutely fuck their family tree to a family bush.
@@TLL921bro what? Her mom dating her boyfriend is just as bad as Katherine’s mom having an affair with her hisband
@@Kstacks427 except it didn’t involve children that would be mindfucked so
@@Kstacks427 didn’t say it wasnt bad for HER i consider ALL involved . and anytime CHILDREN are involved, that’s FUCKED
i feel like the pesto lady didn’t ask to be a part of this mess
It's understandable she feels hurt by her sister but ultimately not fair to demand her sister also cut them off, given she was adopted out she obviously has some complex trauma of her own
Right
Her adopted sister has cut them out. The older sister has not. Keep up
You’re confused. The older sister she is talking about is the second child her mother and father had. Her oldest sister is the adopted one. The one that wasn’t adopted but still older is the brat that sucks up to the evil mom.
@@JodiTheIslandGirlthe older sister isn’t the adopted one. The OLDEST sister is the adopted one. The second born sister is the one still hanging out with evil mom like besties.
My husband said he wouldn't go either. He would unalive both us lol. Their relationship reminds me of my parents. They have cheated on each other so many times. My dad is numb to it and mom holds grudges and kicks him out at least once a week about him cheating 20 years ago when she's cheated multiple times since. I am no contact with my parents. I feared my mom too. I related to this story. My husband hates my mom so I have no worries but I know exactly what kind of mom they are describing 😢 My mom did sck a man up after me and him had a weekend fling 😭 I really didn't have feelings for him though. My mom thought I did. My baby sister and youngest brother caught her doing it 😭
I dont think she ever said that she wants her siblings to never talk to their mother again, I think she just expected more support from her siblings as she have. I would expect my siblings to be there for me if this happened to me but I no they wouldn't disown her shes still their mother. The mother is nasty nasty nasty and the father is obviously just so used to his wife doing this to him so he just excepts it. And that in itself is also weird.
Catherine dad is worse than mom. Thank God she had her grandma and at least 2 siblings with her❤❤❤
😮duurrrrrrrtyyyy
Both are trash 🗑️
@@JodiTheIslandGirl 🤭💯
My "mother" put me thru hell and back... yet she has a different bond with my younger brothers and I do not intervere I dont tell them how to feel or try to prove why I went no contact.... everyone can have different relations ❤
A whole trama dump towards the end 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
she should change her name to katherine grace
Or Catherine Hope.
Man that's awful. Yikes