MERCY!😱 WOMEN DISCOVER THEIR BOYFRIENDS/HUSBANDS ARE ON THE DL: SIGNS OF A DOWN LOW MAN |TikTok Comp

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  • WOMEN DISCOVER THEIR BOYFRIENDS/HUSBANDS ARE ON THE DL | HE’S GAY SIS! | SIGNS OF DOWN LOW MEN EXPOSED! | TikTok Storytime Compilation
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  • @Ashleycycle
    @Ashleycycle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +582

    This isn’t just a black thing. I’m a white woman in rural Pennsylvania who rides motorcycles. All these dudes are doing each other

    • @tishagoodman4343
      @tishagoodman4343 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

      😢wow that’s crazy.

    • @ToniOne03
      @ToniOne03 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      😢

    • @adriana27100
      @adriana27100 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      I hear you...they come in all races, sizes and shapes!

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes girl, I also see white men doing each other. To be honest I think the majority of the men out there are willing to have sex with each other!

    • @QilinRider21
      @QilinRider21 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Wow!!...

  • @teeshante
    @teeshante 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +378

    The woman saying look inward and ask yourself why you have an issue with a bi partner… absolutely TF NOT! Ladies you don’t owe anyone an explanation about your choices regarding your life and body. As a straight woman if you want to date, marry a straight man you don’t have to answer anybody’s questions nor go on an inward philosophical journey questioning the desires for your life.

    • @mellh6102
      @mellh6102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      Ngl my anxiety would be peak. I couldn't handle the fact that he prefers a man more than me

    • @teeshante
      @teeshante 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      @@mellh6102 And you don’t owe anyone an explanation. ‘No’ is a complete sentence. Life and relationships are complicated enough without adding extra layers of complexity. You’ll never have someone forcing a woman to date a man that’s of another race or religion. Why the hell are ppl trying to force women to date men of a different sexuality. Craziness.

    • @avionnepierre5540
      @avionnepierre5540 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Absolutely right, I was saying the same thing,why would I have to go inwards, it's simply NOT my cup of Tea,no explanations needed and no convincing needed.

    • @teeshante
      @teeshante 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      @@avionnepierre5540 Precisely! Imagine going inward and constantly questioning decisions you’ve made for your life based on someone else’s life. That’s insane, we don’t turn inward when we make the decision to not date Pookie, Nino Brown, or even Carlton. So we trust women to make decisions about their own life until it’s about sexuality. That woman sound crazy.

    • @Coco-nq3vg
      @Coco-nq3vg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Meanwhile men can have a preference but God forbid a woman has a preference to dating straight men then magically the rules change.

  • @cheyb2257
    @cheyb2257 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +426

    It’s ok to be alone for safety and peace

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      This is the sad reality we might need to face…humans are not meant to be alone.

    • @cjdiva6440
      @cjdiva6440 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      ​@@JodiTheIslandGirl exactly, I don't like being alone although I am currently, but if this is what's out there... 😔

    • @Afrocentric_Exotical_24
      @Afrocentric_Exotical_24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same ​@@cjdiva6440

    • @Queen_EL11
      @Queen_EL11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ‼️

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      “And it shalt be so..” 🐻😳🤌🏼

  • @Tonya-s1d
    @Tonya-s1d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +205

    I would NOT date at all in Atlanta.... PERIOD!

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      Wouldn’t even consider moving out there!!!
      And that’s blk Hollywood!!!😩

    • @msmampful
      @msmampful 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      DL men are everywhere- not just ATL!!

    • @omgimover4075
      @omgimover4075 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was just about to say that lol

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      @@msmampfulBut Atlanta has like 95% of them. So she also has a point there.

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@sashaclarke2749It’s being said that Hispanics & black men have are the most dl on the chart.

  • @motchiko904
    @motchiko904 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +345

    I can’t believe that we still deal with this in the year 2024- just be gay

    • @VanessaD82
      @VanessaD82 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You know whats a huge issue no one wants to talk about? Gay men who hate women. ☕️ Ask any gay man and he will tell you this is true.

    • @daniella8400
      @daniella8400 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Their egos won’t let them be gay. They can’t feel powerful with men like they do women, we feed their egos

    • @mimid6354
      @mimid6354 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Fr, but unfortunately people are still being hurt for being gay not to mention not all cultures are as open just because it’s 2024 a lot of modern thinking is still influenced by older views

    • @VanessaD82
      @VanessaD82 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      @@mimid6354 I understand this, but to drag someone else into your own internal struggles is just selfish and wrong.

    • @gailainsley6939
      @gailainsley6939 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Many of them want the kids and social status women bring. Once they’ve got that they tend to become more reckless/ open about it. Don’t give them children ladies and vet thoroughly.

  • @mzshoneydrop
    @mzshoneydrop 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    My ex was DL. I kind of blame myself for seeing the signs and choosing to ignore them because I was in love with him and we shared children together. I wasted 12 years of my life with this person. But I reclaimed my 30’s. I thank God I’m able to say I walked away without any diseases and able to start my life anew.
    I really want to tell my story. I know it could help so many women in my shoes. I walked away with nothing but my two
    Kids. No house, no money, no car and no credit.. it’s been 3 years and I have them all.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Oh wow…I’m so sorry you had to go through this. Hopefully one day you’ll be able to share your story because it really helps others.

    • @loismartin9634
      @loismartin9634 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      So grateful you were able to get out without any disease. It's a mess out here. I am 65 years young....and with no prospects of dating. I just continue to pray.

    • @romesaluckett3839
      @romesaluckett3839 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Blessings over you and your household.

  • @kozief.7215
    @kozief.7215 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +278

    The educator on gay/bi/DL missed me with her question to women about asking themselves why they don’t want DL men.. cheating is cheating.
    My question to her is: Ma’am who wants a partner who puts them at risk & is a public safety hazard??

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      I was shocked she even asked that 😟

    • @Gelnailstookblackmenoutthehome
      @Gelnailstookblackmenoutthehome 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cause we don’t f’n want to and we don’t have to look inward !!!!

    • @justjackie4394
      @justjackie4394 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

      I tuned her out as soon as she started speaking that garbage. 😒

    • @cynthiakila1161
      @cynthiakila1161 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m like if that’s yo type just say that . . But u can’t question why straight women don’t wanna be with a gay man . Wtf she on 😂

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, they're trying to make it cool and acceptable to be with these men. No ma'am!!! Absolutely NOT!

  • @msyemisi7930
    @msyemisi7930 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    So glad i have been single and celibate since 2017! I don't want to be BOTHERED!!!💯

    • @TamikaDurant-lr4xv
      @TamikaDurant-lr4xv หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Exactly! I don't want to be bothered at all don't have the time nor the patents 😂😂😂😂

  • @DanataD
    @DanataD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +131

    I don't have to look inwards to ask myself why I don't want to date a bi or gay man. There isn't a need for reflection to validate that it's not my vibe.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Exactly! Women are not that desperate

    • @adrijackson9429
      @adrijackson9429 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Actually he needs to look inward as to why he's confused about whether he wants to be with a biological male or a biological woman. Stop blaming women for DL men. That's their insecurities, not the women

    • @carolinebogard6240
      @carolinebogard6240 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯 Agree!! That is not my playground.

    • @queenopurrrr
      @queenopurrrr หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly I thought I was hearing things!

    • @DanataD
      @DanataD หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@adrijackson9429 FACTS!!!!!

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    Wasting time!!!!? These men are putting THESE WOMEN'S lives in danger. When will you learn?

  • @PettyIsMyMiddleName
    @PettyIsMyMiddleName 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +198

    Did homegirl say if a woman is NOT ok with her man being DL, that she needs to ask herself WHY NOT?
    Is she f/ing serious 🧐 ?
    Wow, I’m so glad I’m celibate , it’s disgusting out there in the dating scene.

    • @lazerbubbles3630
      @lazerbubbles3630 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      The one w/the eyebrows?

    • @mostofus99
      @mostofus99 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Her logic: If you don't want to date women, and you're a hetero woman, you need to ask yourself why.

    • @Aikalovely11
      @Aikalovely11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr Ratchet asf. If you find a decent man. Search is Done. Ain't f'all good out there

    • @SeekAfterGod
      @SeekAfterGod 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      yes ma’am

    • @NoName-jq1ru
      @NoName-jq1ru 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She didnt say down low she said bisexual. Because realistically whats the issue? Cheating is wrong regardless of sexuality.

  • @tashahall1855
    @tashahall1855 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +282

    And then some ppl wonder why birth and marriage rates are down

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      Precisely! Women are choosing to be alone.

    • @ChocolateBabe_
      @ChocolateBabe_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      EXACTLY. I want to make a video about this so bad without me going off on rant! I don’t understand what ppl do not understand about this???? It’s so simple??!!

    • @DanielIsraelite
      @DanielIsraelite 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@JodiTheIslandGirli mean women definitely are bi more than men 100%. The hwite mon is the biggedt hom of all men though

    • @503DS
      @503DS 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@DanielIsraelitedon’t doubt that MEN, especially black men, arent engaging in sexually activity with other men. They are! This is a factor as to why birth rates are low. Men have an absolute need for sex. They have figured out that they can go both ways to get it! Their eyes, noses and butt holes are wide open!😅 sheesh

    • @Denzelswife-rb7qz
      @Denzelswife-rb7qz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ChocolateBabe_ do it !! Me as well, I want to start my channel on ALL these shenanigans!! 😅

  • @TishCane
    @TishCane 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    Why would I want a man who has a craving for what I don’t have??

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Just make it make sense!

    • @faith1780
      @faith1780 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      This!!! Sis tried to sound so deep but was so illogical lol if someone only likes bats but I only have a glove….why would I stick around and waste both our time and energy? 😂 at bare minimum we all deserve a partner that is sexually and romantically attracted to our parts. BARE MINIMUM 😂

    • @romesaluckett3839
      @romesaluckett3839 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Omg, ladies you'll never ever be enough. Cut those losses. And in my experience they dont even give u the bare minimum because alot of the time they're giving their energy to someone else.

  • @Klassicvibes1979
    @Klassicvibes1979 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +143

    When I was younger I had a guy beg me to date him for years and I finally said yes and the next day someone sent me a video of him and his boyfriend fighting at 2 am in the middle of the street. He was fly as shit too 😂😂😂

    • @mimid6354
      @mimid6354 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Woow

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      😂😂😂

    • @Meyou1n1
      @Meyou1n1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      At least u found out the next day!!!

    • @thart6205
      @thart6205 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Meyou1n1😮😢

    • @egom1993
      @egom1993 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

  • @lb8141
    @lb8141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    So many men on the DL.

    • @goddessqueen7882
      @goddessqueen7882 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      And women

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      It’s scary

    • @kiowah231
      @kiowah231 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@goddessqueen7882 Women being gay is very different from a man being gay

    • @LEMATTOFFICIAL
      @LEMATTOFFICIAL 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      ​@@kiowah231nah nah miss me with that goofy sht. I have been cheated on by a DL girl too and it hurts all the same. Lying about your sexuality helps no one and everyone who does that then cheats needs to be held accountable guy or girl.

    • @alithedon4996
      @alithedon4996 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@LEMATTOFFICIAL Boy shut up😂 Trying to me too a situation. It is different though. Cause I bet you'll feel real different if one of your boys out of nowhere tried to come on to you as opposed to one of your female friends. That's why it's different. Cheating is wrong no matter what, but the issue is the way men behave with regards to homosexuality as opposed to how women deal with it, is why the DL ish is sickening. And you know this.

  • @geremymason5936
    @geremymason5936 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +153

    I never realized how many men were dl or attracted to men until I started listening to stories like these and even reflecting on a lot of my interactions with men that obviously don’t like women but I could never put 2 and 2 together. It’s crazy to think about how so many men nowadays act so toxically and are so angry because they struggle with their sexuality. I don’t see the point nowadays - if you like men, just be who you are. Be with who makes you happy. I don’t see why so many men keep dealing with women when they obviously don’t like women and would rather be with a man. Honestly, if more dl men came out, maybe they wouldn’t be so ashamed and feel more comfortable living in their truth and accepting who they truly are

    • @nanettesimon9388
      @nanettesimon9388 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      That mean no men left😂

    • @geremymason5936
      @geremymason5936 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@nanettesimon9388 lmao. Not none, but so few it’s almost negligible. Crazy to think about. 💀

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Exactly! Just live in your truth or maybe the deception is what drives their egos

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s so easy be be gay these days these guys are evil the lgbtq coalition is huge

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@nanettesimon9388 Ha ha!! 🤣 True.

  • @babieboo
    @babieboo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Be safe out here ladies..These Ninja's ain't LOYAL or STRAIGHT..
    Smh

    • @msyemisi7930
      @msyemisi7930 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      At ALL!!!💯

    • @TamikaDurant-lr4xv
      @TamikaDurant-lr4xv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts!😂😂😂😂

    • @brittanyreed1903
      @brittanyreed1903 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Powerful and TRUE STATEMENT in some cases SADLY!!!!🤦🏽‍♀️🥺

  • @justinejustice_league1857
    @justinejustice_league1857 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +116

    I think some men like being on the DL, and it gives them a sense of excitement. They like the secrecy of it all and fooling people. Yes, others are afraid of the acceptance factor.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I concur 👏🏾👏🏾

    • @franco2b145
      @franco2b145 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ALL NARCISSISTS… yes, I said all!! Men and women narcissists are gender fluid and will screw a ROCK if that’s what it takes to garner supply and attention.
      Yes.. I said it! These things are loyal to no one!!

    • @cindihillis7047
      @cindihillis7047 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I believe some men like prison when they are in there is ok .you gay for the stay.get out be with women.they are cowards not being honest!

    • @WalkingwithChrist97
      @WalkingwithChrist97 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes! It's a sick game! They like to bash women and use and abuse us! They really act as a cult!

    • @come_on_barbie_123
      @come_on_barbie_123 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes, it's the sneakiness and deception of it all that excites them. Same as a hetero relationship! But the DL adds a whole new level.

  • @andreannelea7664
    @andreannelea7664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +110

    You see how we really don’t know people ? So wild

    • @7Tiffany
      @7Tiffany 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yes, hunny! And scary!

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So true…because 35yrs?! 🙁

    • @cindihillis7047
      @cindihillis7047 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Incel they hate women!

  • @rossindustry8832
    @rossindustry8832 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

    This turns my stomach

    • @mskitty729
      @mskitty729 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Mine too this is SICK 😮

    • @RaiWilliams-pe4tg
      @RaiWilliams-pe4tg หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too

    • @Rich-z9c
      @Rich-z9c 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Pepcid!

  • @TheKriscg
    @TheKriscg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

    I’ll say it… every black man in Atlanta is on the DL! It ain’t safe! 😂😂😂

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      I don't doubt it at all. But the number of DL/gay men is high in other cities also. Even lots of white men are doing each other nowadays. I'm pretty sure that most men are at least curious about other men.

    • @Denzelswife-rb7qz
      @Denzelswife-rb7qz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      At least 98% and 60% women😅

    • @Melanated483
      @Melanated483 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@terjemarken2411Apparently, black & Hispanic men are the highest dl in major metro cities.

  • @julias2855
    @julias2855 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    My husband worked in an area w lots of gay men.
    He would get hit on a lot as a silver fox.
    He was really nice about it and thanked them for the compliments but please stop because I’m in a relationship.
    He was cool about it but very clear that his preference was me.
    I appreciated his reaction and not being “macho” about it

  • @artbygilik
    @artbygilik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    There was a guy on the bachelor show named Colton. He was on the show to date women and even dated the girl he picked at the end, but he ended up marrying a man

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      He was just clout chasing coming on that show

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No idea who that is but maybe he's bi, just saying

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Samson16436 he was dating the woman he was with on the show for a while, but he married a man and had a Netflix show about him coming out of the closet 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @qianagray9399
      @qianagray9399 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I knew he was gay when I first saw him, so when he came out on tv I was like duh..

    • @artbygilik
      @artbygilik 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @ my gaydar was off, but I remember he was known for being a virgin on the bachelor/bachelorette and they made a storyline off that

  • @KimberlyMattison
    @KimberlyMattison 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    The cry of so many women these days 😢

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      It breaks my heart 💔

    • @Rich-z9c
      @Rich-z9c 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      These days! This nothing new.

  • @kayw5562
    @kayw5562 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Growing up my brother was mean, almost hateful he and i fought like cats and dogs. Once he decided to live his life as a gay man. He was the sweetest person, loving, caring would give you his last! It like he was another person.100 percent different. This is so true they hide themselves and it's sad. Until they are happy with themselves watch out!

    • @dysy0013
      @dysy0013 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Good for your brother! I'm asexual and single and that's what made me happy.

  • @ghostqueen2082
    @ghostqueen2082 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    My ex was on the dl and gave me the big hi5 if u follow...he married me for my passport so he could get the meds...pls be careful ladies my life is ruined 4eva

    • @mellh6102
      @mellh6102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      This is. Prayers to you I hope you can get to a place where you are okay

    • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
      @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      See this is exactly what I am talking about!!!!! Women aren’t understanding that DL men should be a study case. They are very much unhinged. I am so sorry you went through this. If I were you I would write a book and make money off my story…. I don’t know you but it’s just a thought. God bless you. ♥️

    • @dyrich6799
      @dyrich6799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      🙏🏿

    • @BKJay718
      @BKJay718 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      😞🤬 I’m sorry this happened to you. I hope you’ve gotten divorced. Praying you live a long happy life 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @1WomenScorned
      @1WomenScorned 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      I’m so sorry sis

  • @thatlovegirl12
    @thatlovegirl12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    The fact she said she was dating the man for 4 months. Started sleeping with him in April and found out he was dl in august. I’m not judging but honestly get to know people better before jumping in bed on the first month.

    • @amandaburnett5551
      @amandaburnett5551 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Shit these days at least it wasn't the 1st few hours

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This! I told my deceased bff to take care of herself (if you know what I mean), before she went out with a man…
      At that point she could assess the situation and move accordingly!🤌🏼🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @bosslady6198
      @bosslady6198 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah it was too fast I saw that red flag too

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@sashaclarke2749I say this all the time 😂

  • @NurseLisaD
    @NurseLisaD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

    Did she really say if he is secure in his sexuality and is ok with his same sex attraction women should ask ourselves why we wouldn’t date him? Ummm people have preferences. There is someone who might accept it, but not all of us likes that.

    • @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
      @PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Women are being brainwashed into accepting this from men without them fully understanding what’s behind it….

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      They’re allowing the inevitable!🥹😩

    • @backtomyroots6515
      @backtomyroots6515 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeeeee!!!! THANK YOU! 🙏

    • @AS-wj1du
      @AS-wj1du 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No thanks. I'd be competing with men and women and I'd be sad my man would be looking at other men. I'd feel bad, my self esteem would be so low 😕

  • @nailazion3113
    @nailazion3113 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Down low/Bisexuality is CONFUSION...

    • @muvaqjira
      @muvaqjira 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      No, he tolerates women but really wants a man. Not confused.

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@muvaqjirawhat do you mean? Bisexuality exists

    • @amycurtis535
      @amycurtis535 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bisexual = I’m sexually attracted to men but I’m willing to be with a women for the benefit of being in a straight relationship. Also, I’m entitled to cheating on her with men as well.

  • @shaudaeyoakumify
    @shaudaeyoakumify 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Yeah that movie for colored girls always stuck with me. My first love I think is gay. I’ve always had that small feeling since we were teens. One day I asked him about it and even told him I’d marry him even if he was (the fucking desperation) he got sooo angry but not in a way you would expect, he asked me why I thought that but I couldn’t say, it was just this feeling. Things ended up not working out and he went on to have a family, fast forward to a couple months ago and a high school friend ends up nonchalantly telling me he’s been sleeping with men since highschool. We were raised religious and his father was a pastor so maybe that’s why he’s hid it for sooo long. I feel bad for his wife and children and the countless men he openly tried to shame for being gay 😳 I cried after we hung the phone up but deep down I knew it and will never not trust my discernment again…

  • @kazbah1217
    @kazbah1217 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I also have stories of multiple ex boyfriend's who said they were straight, only to reveal years later they are bi. It's devastating to be tricked because it's fraud.

  • @imdoinbttrthnu
    @imdoinbttrthnu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Girl I had a dude say he had twins and come to find out they weren’t. I kept asking why one would come to visit but not the other and he finally confessed 2 months in. A month after that he says the sheriff or whoever came to his home giving him papers about some paternity suit. The girl was claiming he had a son with him and blah blah blah. The child was supposedly 8 months. GIIIRRLL! 😂😂 I was done then. I was in fear of the next month to come. Every month a new kid was popping up and mind you I have none! It was my first and LAST time messing with a man with kids. Lesson learned… don’t go lowering your standards or what have you to mess with someone.

    • @anthonyrodriguez2413
      @anthonyrodriguez2413 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I see that pic. 🤣 you’re gonna have to lower your standards to find a man cuz a man of value would be lowering his standards to be with you. 🤣

    • @imdoinbttrthnu
      @imdoinbttrthnu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@anthonyrodriguez2413 Anthony… USCIS is looking for you 🥴

    • @anthonyrodriguez2413
      @anthonyrodriguez2413 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@imdoinbttrthnu where have you been? The US does not enforce any type of immigration laws!!! 🤣 if anything I’m getting free housing, college, a social security check, and food stamps. Life has never been easier and I no longer have to work for anything.

    • @bjbrownbob
      @bjbrownbob 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This comment just stopped me from calling my dead beat former Nigerian love. He was pressing for marriage to get his green card so he could work and supposedly "take care of me."!!! I've met 5 more green card searcher but I'm not lowering my standards EVER AGAIN!!!

    • @VLONELI23
      @VLONELI23 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@anthonyrodriguez2413 Lazy then a mf if you’re Ok with living off of a Social Security check Once a Month 😂

  • @kiashaw
    @kiashaw หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    This is so crazy! Men are out here putting women through hell no matter the situation. No wonder women are choosing to be single.

    • @KevinGardner-d1b
      @KevinGardner-d1b หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dats on y'all stop be crazy bout the meat gay Bois in ts like big meat to don't let it go over yo head

    • @Maialeen
      @Maialeen หลายเดือนก่อน

      @KevinGardner-d1b You need to get a tutor to teach you English from scratch. Whatever you have going on when it comes to grammar, is not working for you.

    • @KevinGardner-d1b
      @KevinGardner-d1b หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Maialeen it's 2024 it's documented that most of the rich people in the world have no education but you want to be the Grammer police not know my life going a hell of a lot better then yours no kids no bills let's start there for every word type was type correctly just for you since accomplishing goals not what you worried about you worried about being the Grammer police get a life people don't care about the internet 🤣🤣🤣🤣 people with a life anyway go get one who ever you are

  • @PaytonShaggy
    @PaytonShaggy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Omg. I feel bad for these women! We need to bring back shame.

  • @vekiebaking-shelton1452
    @vekiebaking-shelton1452 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    So glad the two men came out to help us 💗💗💗

  • @Monique-je1yu
    @Monique-je1yu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    It's "ATLANTA!!!!!" How much you wanna bet he had a manicure flawless skin and plucked eyebrows?? I KNOW he did 😂😂😂😂

    • @terjemarken2411
      @terjemarken2411 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      He had for sure!!! LOL

    • @BlackEmmys
      @BlackEmmys 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And don’t forget the colored contacts!😂

  • @Alexis-r9q
    @Alexis-r9q 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This is why i am staying as a single asexual black woman forever.

    • @dysy0013
      @dysy0013 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good for you! I'm a asexual biracial man and I couldn't agree with you more!

  • @lovelyscorp79
    @lovelyscorp79 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    The Lord served my downlow bf and his coworker lover up on a silver platter. I know My God don't play about me. In no other scenario would they have walked past me and not seen me. But I saw all of them.

  • @loyaltyloyalty4614
    @loyaltyloyalty4614 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I am happy I found my husband 16yrs ago and we are going strong!!! I wouldn’t trust dating nowadays I feel bad for my daughters!! I’m praying nothing like this happens to my children!!! It’s devastating go through something like this!!! Be careful ladies!!!

  • @levelupii4663
    @levelupii4663 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Her cousin hates her if he is relishing in seeing her hurt. Drama queen indeed.

  • @loyaltyovathabag21
    @loyaltyovathabag21 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you for making this video! Im still receiving death threats for exposing my DL ex husband 😂 I'm happy other survivors are telling their stories 💪🏽

  • @whyask9864
    @whyask9864 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Ladies, do not be in denial. The signs and red flags be there from the door. It comes out in arguments, his behavior, and mannerisms. Believe it and dont jeopardize your health for nobody.

  • @thatlovegirl12
    @thatlovegirl12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I think my brother is gay. I live in Atlanta and anytime he has visited me he always tries to laugh at gay men

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Oh wow…has he introduced you to any girlfriend recently?

    • @Floridastoriess
      @Floridastoriess 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think all men are gay now

    • @ChrisKinney-ww1fg
      @ChrisKinney-ww1fg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What the d look like🤤

    • @Chunlialways
      @Chunlialways หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JodiTheIslandGirlif he dl it would be worse to waste a woman's life.

  • @geekyzombie
    @geekyzombie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This situation is a tale as long as time.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Social Media is just ‘outing’ them 😅

    • @furrymonkeything
      @furrymonkeything 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@JodiTheIslandGirl you know!😅

  • @TamiaJohnson-yo1xg
    @TamiaJohnson-yo1xg 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Some of these women are laughing, probably because they are over it but I feel bad for them. These situations sound traumatizing!

  • @vekiebaking-shelton1452
    @vekiebaking-shelton1452 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Why would I be comfortable with being with a dl man? The same way you said that he could be bringing harm to me and his lover because he doesn't even love his self because he want even use protection. No ma'am you do it then. I don't have to look inside myself because he didn't

  • @ZazazaLoo
    @ZazazaLoo หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    When you're dealing with heterosexual men, there's no question about their orientation. Period. You just know he wants you.
    When in doubt, just run, don't even try to figure it out.

  • @carlissable
    @carlissable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    How many times does it have to be said, EVERYTHING THAT LOOKS GOOD, DOESN'T MEAN IT'S GOOD FOR YOU. I feel like a lot of people that get caught up in this SAME OLD CESSPOOL FILTH, simply don't take heed to wisdom or try to discern. And are desperate.

  • @T56757
    @T56757 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Watch out for the signs Ladies, they are there, you just have to pay attention.

  • @U11111-u
    @U11111-u 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I believe this has been going on for years social media is only making us more aware of it which is a good thing because that’s the last thing you would think about when dating and trying to get to know someone.
    The dating game is not easy because now we have to worry about these DL men as well as the other issues such as cheaters, married men pretending that their single, baby mother drama the list goes on and on 😫

  • @Jerry-xs1uz
    @Jerry-xs1uz หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    If a dl man lies to a straight woman that he's straight and if she asks him and he lies, but later on, she catches him in a lie, he should BE ARRESTED!!! Thank you.

    • @1norme23
      @1norme23 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That part!!

    • @kholetAndre
      @kholetAndre 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Though that DL shit is foul, what would the crime be for them to be arrested?.

  • @ChrissyPrudhomme
    @ChrissyPrudhomme 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Loyalty is something people know nothing about..

  • @bingusluvr2280
    @bingusluvr2280 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Jodi this is my first video watching of yours, and I loveeee your accent 😆

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Oh thank you! I’m from Jamaica 🇯🇲 😌

  • @karlagonzalvez4703
    @karlagonzalvez4703 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Who else knew the gay cousin was lying and jealous? 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      If that really the case, that’s nasty work

    • @furrymonkeything
      @furrymonkeything 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I don't think the cousin was lying. He later was probably threatened by that guy. The boyfriend on the DL probably does not think receiving BJ means he's gay. The cousin knows but is afraid for his life.

  • @Nahugodia
    @Nahugodia 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    God , I have goose flesh running all over me. That guy actually confirmed the men are putting women in danger! 😱

  • @jffry24
    @jffry24 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    OK, so now you know what it’s like. It’s not OK to be freaking hiding this stuff. Or tricking people.

  • @LyneseTheDame
    @LyneseTheDame 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is a great topic more should be done new to the channel now I’m subscriber

  • @a1s1g16
    @a1s1g16 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    It seems as if the men are preferring their own species rather than the opposite just be open about it it’s so many letters out there chose one that suits you best

  • @Ddsimin
    @Ddsimin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    What is ol girl talking about if a woman is uncomfortable dating a bi men she need to ask herself why not?! TF? How about everyone doesn’t have to like or accept EVERYTHING just because the world says so…
    That over blew me , if I took that the wrong way someone let me know. She outta pocket fr fr with that weirdo statement.

    • @closingthedivide1187
      @closingthedivide1187 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Ddsimin Nah, you didn’t take it the wrong way at all. It was an out-of-pocket statement for real! Check myself on my preferences for what!? It’s giving delusional🙄.#delulu

  • @TamikaDurant-lr4xv
    @TamikaDurant-lr4xv หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's not even safe to go on dates anymore 😮

    • @HUYI1
      @HUYI1 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Nope! My first love turned out to be gay and then he went with a woman behind my back and then outed that he was gay, my feelings at a young age at 17 messed with my head for years and I never trusted men ever again yet I'm still confused and concerned about my current relationship as much as I love him, I'm devided, I don't deserve to be treated like this a second time and put up with heartache

  • @Olmllc
    @Olmllc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The boyfriend showed up is crazy work😂😂

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I didn't figure out my guy was on the DL 😭 ntil he triangulated me with a prior GF and choosing to be with his best friend (male) over me every single day of the week. Hr acts strongly make outwardly but he's a weak man internally. I left fue to the antics but too blind while in the relationship to see it.

  • @janetmack1242
    @janetmack1242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    At 16:45, loving the accent. If i spoke like that i would never shutup...lol..

    • @tarsheilamathews7697
      @tarsheilamathews7697 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me too 😂😂😂

    • @Unapologetically_Savage
      @Unapologetically_Savage หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Me three 😂😂😂 I would read out loud just to hear myself speak!! 😂😂😂

    • @twms1971
      @twms1971 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ♥️ Me 4. Like ma’am what else? Say purple again please!!! 😂

    • @Visions-333
      @Visions-333 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I fake it and still don’t shut up. 😂😂😂😅

  • @ceciliagreene8981
    @ceciliagreene8981 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just came across your videos Jodi, thanks for providing such a great platform for women to share their stories and experiences, your accent is exquisite too, peace and love ......

  • @Tenile-hs5vn
    @Tenile-hs5vn หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I absolutely absolutely love hearing you speak . I am so glad I came across your videos ❤ 😊 if you ever , come to Australia, id love to show you around .

  • @VeraGoodwin-b8n
    @VeraGoodwin-b8n หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Yes the cousin was definitely telling The truth 😁

  • @Tablet-fc8qk
    @Tablet-fc8qk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    When men do each other, there is a change n man hood

  • @Unavailableforyourgames
    @Unavailableforyourgames 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I found out the same thing and left him alone 💃 he should have just been honest 🤷 a man told me about the dude that I was dealing with 🙄 I simply left him alone no explanation was needed from him 🙄 a man came to me and spilt all the tea with evidence 🙄

  • @KimberlyMattison
    @KimberlyMattison 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

    I believe she gave that man her address to order the Uber. Ladies please make better decisions for your own safety.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Most people were saying the same thing in her comment section. I really hope that wasn’t the case

    • @kozief.7215
      @kozief.7215 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I thought the same thing when she said he sent a “black truck”

    • @thebest750
      @thebest750 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ⁠@@kozief.7215" black truck" is a high end class off Uber over Lyft. They literally only send black SUVS for this more expensive service. Just because you haven't heard of it doesn't make it a lie.

    • @1Andrea
      @1Andrea 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      She already clarified that he cash app her, and she got the Uber, but even if he had her address, the location has many units. There would be no way to actually locate her apartment.
      Depending upon the size, it could be up to 1000 units

    • @yourmajesty8742
      @yourmajesty8742 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Still unsafe. Ive had guys stalk my apartments waiting to catch a glimpse of me.​@1Andrea

  • @aklesiaaddixx7355
    @aklesiaaddixx7355 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    The cousin actually did that and the dude threatened him and he called the cousin. The man is dl 😆

  • @ChrissyPrudhomme
    @ChrissyPrudhomme 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    My husband became my room mate when he said something about homosexual activity, he was intoxicated..That was 9 years ago, last time we had sex..

  • @Talkswithtee302
    @Talkswithtee302 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    The Hispanics are definitely number 1 ! Smh 😢

  • @HUYI1
    @HUYI1 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    That British woman, i so feel for her! And she was young too 😮

  • @tanyacivic
    @tanyacivic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The lady who broke down her story like Reesa Teesa....That could've just been one video😒

  • @prettykita9147
    @prettykita9147 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    She looks just like Maia Campbell 💯💯💯

    • @chanettaowens3451
      @chanettaowens3451 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I said the same thing,she so pretty🤎🤎🤎

    • @prettykita9147
      @prettykita9147 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chanettaowens3451 💯

  • @619G_
    @619G_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    Wow these downlow vids is wild. New fear unlocked I don’t want my future man do be dirty like this 😩

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Pray for discernment hun

    • @1WomenScorned
      @1WomenScorned 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Hope yours is straight, but the one tip I’d say is to watch the eyes (what is he looking at?)

    • @furrymonkeything
      @furrymonkeything 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂

    • @zooweellama
      @zooweellama 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Then stay single because no matter how much you vet or THINK you know, you will never know for sure and you have to be okay with that risk. driving has risk, eating out at restaurants have risk of food poisoning.
      It’s up to you to decide which risk are worth it. The looooong list of cons associated with being with men are enough for me to either date women or die single.

  • @mother_prana
    @mother_prana 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    14:22 honestly that is a great question

  • @rukiamire8746
    @rukiamire8746 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Honestly I know a lot of white couples who go to swingers club and do bisexual things. The problem with this is these men aren’t being honest about their desires and their partners aren’t open to hearing about it. If you’re not into it, totally fine! Men need to be honest and women need to accept it without judgment and keep it moving!

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Right…do what rocks your boat but don’t deceive people while you’re at it.

    • @cherryblossoms942
      @cherryblossoms942 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Good thing i dont believe wyte is right. What does wyte couples going to swinging clubs have to do with deception. We are well aware other groups go to swing clubs. They may agree to those swinging activities as a couple. This video is about men who dont disclose their real preference - which is a man. A deceptive man will lie about anything and put his life and yours at risk for his 2 minutes of pleasure.

    • @sashaclarke2749
      @sashaclarke2749 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Real Swingers don’t do same sex, sex…
      Swingers switch partners, but I guess the last generation is doing that?!🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @k8schmate
    @k8schmate 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The woman at 8:07 is indeed gorgeous, there is no reason she should have to put up with this!! Shameful.

  • @shondadiggins21
    @shondadiggins21 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    The second story... I wouldn't have paid shit.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Her leaving the tab would’ve probably cost more drama

  • @freshfiji5474
    @freshfiji5474 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    The girl with the glasses is funny 😂❤. They just cake and eat it too.

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I could never

    • @ladonta1722
      @ladonta1722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Welp that explains trey song cake lol

  • @kanenelson5376
    @kanenelson5376 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Wait! And how did he know how and where to hit up your cousin if he didn't know him?? 🤔 that boy wasn't lying. he waz threatened and scared

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Remember she said they know each other because the boyfriend sold the cousin a fake ID 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @kanenelson5376
      @kanenelson5376 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl ooooh ok

    • @furrymonkeything
      @furrymonkeything 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I agree the cousin spoke the truth but was scared. Fake IDs that DL man has other men pleasuring him , but probably does not consider himself gay. I bet that was how the cousin paid for his ID.

  • @makalahthompson4042
    @makalahthompson4042 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a straight woman, I think most women can agree that they would rather not date a bisexual man because of the risk. Now I get men cheap all the time, but in my opinion, I would rather you cheat with a woman than a man. And like she mentioned, could I look like a man if he wants to date me and me at the same time, I think that would depend on the person honestly but just like if I had a STD I cannot get rid of I would have to tell my partner right? So it’s just always the right thing to do to give someone a heads up, can’t have everybody and if they can’t accept you for you then of course that person is not for you, but don’t think that would hide it for the most part.

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Bisexual people are not more likely to cheat than anyone else

  • @melissahardeman294
    @melissahardeman294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Glad i found Jodi. JODI IS THE TRUTH❤

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Aww, thank you so much 😊

    • @melissahardeman294
      @melissahardeman294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JodiTheIslandGirl im serious its hard to find a quality consistant truthful content creator and you are appreciated❤️

  • @christopherjordan6689
    @christopherjordan6689 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Don't celebrate valentine's day!

  • @OBSIDIANSTAR02
    @OBSIDIANSTAR02 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Homophobia really does impact everyone, fear drives people to be manipulative and dishonest. The concept of a beard is so sad. I hope these people heal and accept themselves. And I hope these women know that they are not the problem.

  • @ItsaProbIem
    @ItsaProbIem 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    2:32 He can’t picc you up but you’ll give him yo address to send you a blacc trucc😂,make it make sense

  • @kaykay3768
    @kaykay3768 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Chiiillleee the story with Carlton could have been wrapped in 2 parts🥴 Every other comment was "keep in mind" and overly expressed.

  • @dbxny2983
    @dbxny2983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Seems to me ATLANTA is a crazy place 😂😂😂.
    As a heterosexual I would never settle down in ATLANTA too many women to stay with one, but any other state Im faithful 😂😂😂😂
    On a serious note being upfront and honest is the key 🔑. I've learned to tell the truth and let her choose.

  • @love_fleurette
    @love_fleurette 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    That New York chicks story was long and pointless. Is the guy DL or not? And how did he get your cousins number to check him? How does your cousin know his real 1st name? How come your cousin could describe his apartment?
    Girl are you slow?

    • @CyCamronAnderson
      @CyCamronAnderson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Everything you said got me rolling 🤣👏🏾👏🏾😭

    • @CyCamronAnderson
      @CyCamronAnderson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You would make a great detective in the interrogation room with your straight to the point questions 😂

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      lol….Chile, we are yet to get the answers

    • @momo4044
      @momo4044 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think she was lying🤥it sounds like she free-styled an unrehearsed story😂

  • @LavettaLuckett
    @LavettaLuckett 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    There all gay now it's 2025

  • @CoutureConversations
    @CoutureConversations 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Some of these ladies just be making up stories so they can look at themselves made up in 12 pallets of makeup 😂😂😂

  • @LovieBrown-hy7dq
    @LovieBrown-hy7dq 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +75

    Even the thought of two men being together really disgust me.

    • @StramSaturdayDBDBDIB
      @StramSaturdayDBDBDIB 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Simple, dont think about it

    • @ChrisKinney-ww1fg
      @ChrisKinney-ww1fg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah seeing two dudes bobbing on each other's dongs in 69 is the best ever. Guys love 69 other guys

    • @fireunknown6624
      @fireunknown6624 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@StramSaturdayDBDBDIBcan't when it's all in your face now a days 🙄🙄

    • @Samson16436
      @Samson16436 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@fireunknown6624I'm so sorry you have to see human beings loving each other 😢

    • @GokuVdub
      @GokuVdub 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      they exist cause yall say stuff like that💀

  • @tahiesha1
    @tahiesha1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m just a bit confused on why the cousin got the real name and she got the middle name

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even if he’s no longer using it he should’ve still told her because they were dating.

  • @Theeultimatedanielle
    @Theeultimatedanielle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    42:46 I always give my middle name as my first. I feel more comfortable that way. If i decide to continue to get to know you, I'll reveal that within 2 weeks.

  • @Sfides
    @Sfides 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Her cousin wasn't lying to her. He was threatened and scared. Bcuz why didn't Carlton tell her right of the bat how he knew her cousin. Or how he could describe his entire living situation as if he's been there on multiple occasions. They came up with a story to tell her.

  • @Ellieangel777
    @Ellieangel777 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    14:45 omg Al Roker doppelganger

  • @agriope2334
    @agriope2334 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Cheating is cheating. I don't care if he is straight or bi, as long as he wants to be with me. I care if he lies.

  • @AnastasiaA4Eva
    @AnastasiaA4Eva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Had to subscribe ❤❤Love your accent

    • @JodiTheIslandGirl
      @JodiTheIslandGirl  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Awww thank you so much 🥹🥰

  • @tc1680
    @tc1680 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Carlton is a dangerous guy. The gsy cousin is afraid of him, a lot