Dating Single Women From Fatherless Homes
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ม.ค. 2024
- Navigating Relationships: Daddy Issues, Postpartum Depression, and Respect
Welcome back to another riveting episode of 8 At the Table! In this installment, our dynamic cast featuring Rico Hundo, Amanda, Erin The Renegade, and Jada B delves into the intriguing topic of dating women with daddy issues. Buckle up for a thought-provoking conversation as they also touch upon postpartum depression, debunking myths that it's exclusive to women.
Rico Hundo opens up about his personal comfort levels, expressing that he wouldn't feel at ease dating a woman who grew up without her father. However, Jada B challenges stereotypes, emphasizing that a strained relationship with one's mother doesn't necessarily translate to disrespect towards a partner.
Things get heated as Rico delves into the complexities of men who have strong connections with their mothers, highlighting that it doesn't guarantee respectful treatment of women. This episode is a rollercoaster of perspectives, shedding light on the multifaceted dynamics of relationships.
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The fact that she is minimizing the father presence is proof that the brother is right, lol. She's actually proving his point .
No, what she is saying is many great women were raised by single moms.
Her father not being there makes it easier for her to be satisfied. It is extremely hard to fill the shoes of a good father! She might not be promiscuous but she will be spoiled and demanding!
Yep
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor ♀ *CHOICES AND BEHAVIOR.*
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline.
Rico get Charleston White up there. He gonna get ya point across in the raw way. The ladies gonna hate him but guarantee he gonna state a lot of facts
It’s the fact they really tried to sit there and tell this man about his own mother
There's a lot of men fighting to see there kids, and women will deliberately move to another coast to keep the kids away from there father.
They fail to address the mothers that fled with the kid from the good father. Knowing the family court is biased in her favor
I agree with Rico! A woman raised without at least a decent father that she has love for is a HUGE red flag, especially in this man hating landscape that we're in.
I love this show ❤
A step dad could definitely do that tho as well
Well, it’s good to know that a child has to suffer as an adult dating double because their dad wanted nothing to do with them. It’s a cruel world! GOD gave us free will. What a harsh choice
Its crazy how a mans preference is vilified even if it has logic behind it.
42:56 Rico I can finally say I agree ! I’m 27 years old just had that same conversation with my father yesterday. And he held accountability because he wasn’t fully there.
I really like all the "eye rolling," this lady had. I salute those that deal with the darkside but the world is troublesome enough to come and correct those type of women.
We should aim for a home where both mother and father are in the picture raising their child/ren in a healthy environment together. Thats what children need.
Fresh and Fit have a bigger platform even after the strike
Fresh and fit just missed understood they really bettering the community but you have to look at it from a logical stand point. #freshandfit
Rico was right on point on this one.
how when he is of the same situation? men dont need to verbally get on social media and tell what they will not accept in who they date. that is fem, what women do, if he had a dad, he would know
Change the court systems in America. Make those women pay alimony and child support. Divorce rates would go down and fatherless children would be nonexistent. Solved.
This whole conversation is the typical TradCon *intellectual dishonesty*
It's not _fatherlessness_ "problem"
It's *SINGLE MOTHERHOOD* , they are using "fatherlessness" as a *euphemism* for it to subtly shift the blame onto *MEN*
Blaming *MEN* yet again.
To the uninitiated and low IQ it seems indistinguishable, but it's a _semantic_ game they're playing, as to not upset the _female_ base.
You don't get to blame men for poor ♀ *CHOICES AND BEHAVIOR.*
This intellectual dishonesty is why the traditional conservatives will _keep losing_ and _keep making the situation worse_ .
Until you solve the _actual_ problem (hint: it's not the _men_ ) society will continue to collapse.
Enjoy the decline.
About parents. My father died when I was 4yrs old. I am second to the last. My mother did not remarry. She focuses on 7 of us. And we came out 👍.... 3 in Chicago with good job. I was living in Chicago and moved to 4
Rico is right. He put words to it. Rico is 💯 on this. Very succinctly put.
Those green frames are SO nice
Sounds to me he’s so F’d up because of his dad not being there so he refuses to date a woman who was dealt the same cards…..honestly good therapy and choosing to be better can help all of this instead of devaluing a women without a father. No one is in control of the cards they are dealt they are only responsible for how they overcome it!
Exactly! Women are more prone to doing the shadow work to heal childhood trauma especially after experiencing heartbreak. So we have many opportunities to further develop ourselves. Men just drown in their toxic behaviors and project it onto women.
Fatherless men are a bigger red flag. Run, run ladies.
@@EC-yl7xk I agree but again this too can be overcame by intensive therapy
@@EC-yl7xkHow's a fatherless woman not a red flag too?
@@Classynfabolous005 who thinks they need therapy, but folks that need therapy. tired of fem dudes demanding what they want verbally, all men demand lol
She refuse to listen to him… girl listen stop being defensive and listen… she is annoying
Well said Rico and Erin said my life far as my mom and dad!!
Clearly, they are against dads
Why y'all are this early, this morning??? 😂
It's levels to this. Some women grew up without a father, and then some women grew up without a father AND didn't have examples of healthy relationships between men and women in their extended family. She a baby momma, her mom was a baby momma, her grandmom was a baby momma, etc. For example, suppose you don't have a good example at home and don't see any healthy relationships with your extended family (aunts, uncles, etc.). In that case, you are at a competitive disadvantage. Your vision of what relationships are based on movies, TV shows, music videos, etc. All of which are unrealistic and exaggerated. Not compare that to a woman who grew up with a father at home; most of her friends have fathers at home, and most of her aunts, uncles, and members of the previous generation are all still together. That's a lot of information and reference points to pull from. That woman will have a competitive advantage over the first woman. The further you get away from the latter example, the more likely the woman will struggle with relationships with men.
This is so weird because women have the same preference for a man with a healthy relationship with his mother, but since a man has it then it must be toxic.
My dad abused my mom, my siblings and I, wish I grew up without him.
Better Ask your mom why she *CHOSE* him then 😏
Get real , post parting only affects 6%-15% of women and the duration is 2-3 months. They be using that as an excuse to be horrible ppl, because they are sleep deprived . Sleep
deprivation and post partum are not the same .
So much love you getting to the point
I l love this conversation
The lack of acknowledgment that what men actually need…
We're now going to act as if having a father in the house doesn't matter!? So she won't complain if her future baby father, leaves her alone with the kid because it doesn't matter if the father is in the house. You just can't make this sh*t up!!!
Shes doing all that barking and shes never experienced any of that ish🤦🏾🤷🏾
Single mom's get free assistance from the government. Who really thinks they're a strong/good single parent, because of free government assistance? Come on now y'all 😂🤣😭.
The father makes a big difference in the house a single dad is close to having both parents and a single mom the kids have the most problems, these not my words just facts
How? Most men can’t even take their child to the doctor without calling or texting the mother to ask a million questions about the child that THEY SHARE. Men don’t even express their own feelings so how can they teach children to healthily express theirs?
Well single moms also get government assistance, single fathers typically don't.
@azure8696 is your government assistance not based on income? Gender has nothing to do with who receives it no?
@@tashatasha171 Sorry I meant to say child support... same difference tho right?
@@azure8696 No.
I just wanted to say thank
Did they stop making baby books, because im 59 and most of what your talking about ive found in 📚
Rico is right … i agree
Because I love this I won't say anything
she NEVER thought, she could be depressed... like she had a immunity to depression lmao.....Rico idk how you do it sometimes cause they constantly trying to chime in and cutting you off. They're listening to respond not truly understand
I agree Rico, it’s just the sad truth.
These women need to understand what he is saying… he not wrong for feeling how he feels… not having a parent is a burden
Nobody chooses whom\who will be his father. We are products of to people who meet and did pro-create. So Rico saying he can't date a lady without a father doesn't make sense at all. What if the father of the lady passed on.
He's a serial cheater who was raised by a single mother. But his standards for women are unrealistic.
Having a father is “unrealistic”?
That’s a lie. So you saying a man and a woman having sex and the woman winds up pregnant neither knew or she didn’t know unless she’s a tramp. And there have been a lot of women claiming one man was the father when he wasn’t and turn and say she knows who the father is. I’ve been through that crap before but I knew I wasn’t the father.
Either you weren’t listening or you just dumb🤷🏾♂️
@@chasehlee7197See how dumb they are? 😏
Women will not give men their kids .. I been through this most of the time women will hide or not allow the man to see the child
Flawed personalities I'm gonna have to steal that.
I rly hate that these women with trauma get on these podcast and spread there trauma on other ppl w/o no stats no facts just there fucked up life and experiences
I wouldn't so much so put the blame on parents yes hold them and yourself accountable. You as an mature self-aware induvial should want to do better for yourself and each other especially in marriage there is tons of resources to help you become a difference maker; that's what our ancestors did to get us here why can't you do it? life is about making a difference and learn from past experiences.
Salute Rico. U kept ur cool in a den of hyenas tryna attack logic.
We cant choose our parents, so to avoid someone due to aint sh@t parents is ignorant. Nothing is absolute
Men raised without their fathers are horrible and truthfully most of my friends who were raised with their dads had kids in high-school everyone is different and just because someone was or was not raised by their father mean that they will be better equipped as a potential partner take everyone as they come and stop with the generalizations
I don’t think bro can have a real productive conversation with a real man lol
Your morher never told you about postpartum depression?
These are wicked woman
How foolish could you be
Its the child that grow up’s to be woman, its her own fault she doesn’t have a dad so punish her for something she had no control over? ok got it!!
I hope you don’t have a height or physical attraction preference.
….you can’t have public welfare with a dad in the house. Just saying
Erin just be fuckin talkin to talk. Making no damn sense
Why did Erin name drop fresh and fit that’s corny and weird. Also I like F&F and they don’t hate women I actually think you hate men if anything.
Fresh & Fit hates women period. That's why they were demonetized. Healthy masculine, real men hate them too.
Enjoy your passports, gentlemen.
please women go beyond blkmen, I see the tiktoks of beautiful interracial couples
And that's the end of blacks in America 😂🤣
@@canYOUhandleIT_ Woosh away from my reply thread with that interracial championing foolishness!
Brothers Do not listen to this dude, he has no clue! Women who had good fathers are much harder to satisfy than those who didn’t. Women who didn’t have good fathers don’t know what a good man who loves them unconditionally and knows how to protect them looks like! Therefore it’s much easier to satisfy her. It is extremely hard to fill the void of a good father.. You will always need compared to her father!
Bro is basically thinks he’s perfect and so is his mother. But he is not will to date a woman like his mother who most likely fatherless “ being a pregnant teen mom” He doesn’t know what he wants smh didn’t he make a woman a single mother???
I think he is the prime example of what’s wrong with community.
very funny how when describing the fathers who were not in the home, they never gave the example of the MOTHER leaving or divorcing the man. they made it seem like its the man who always leave when statistics prove that over 80% of women are the cause for failed marriages and broken relationships..the majority of the time its the mothers fault as to why the father is not in the home.
So, let me get this straight. A single father is saying he doesn’t date women who didn’t grow up with a father. If he was still with his child’s mother then he wouldn’t have to worry about dating.