Why Most Women Fail by Chasing the Same Available Men
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 พ.ย. 2023
- "The 20/80 Rule: Why Most Women Fail by Chasing the Same Available Men"
🔥 Welcome to another thought-provoking episode🔥
In this eye-opening discussion, we delve deep into the dating dynamics that often go unnoticed. Join us as we uncover the surprising truths behind the 20/80 rule and why the majority of women may be facing unnecessary challenges in their pursuit of love and happiness.
🚺 Are you tired of seeing women repeatedly chasing after the same available men, only to end up disappointed? 🚹 Do you wonder why certain individuals always seem to attract attention, while others go unnoticed?
In this episode, we break down:
✨ The 20/80 Rule: Understanding how a small percentage of people seem to dominate the dating scene and why this can lead to frustrations.
💔 The Pitfalls of Conformity: Why conforming to societal norms and expectations can limit your chances of finding genuine love and happiness.
💡 Strategies for Success: Discover practical tips and insights on how women can break free from the cycle and navigate the dating world with a fresh perspective.
💬 Join the conversation by sharing your thoughts and experiences in the comments below! We love hearing from our amazing community.
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The problem is that for 80% of Women what’s important is that the guy is 6” tall minimum, makes 6 figures, is handsome, a s*x beast and a bit of a player and bad boy, as well as being loyal and never cheat.
80% of woman are looking for a guy that doesn’t EXIST 🤷🏿♂️
And their to stupid to figure this out. LoL 😂😂
If that was true, then that would mean most married men are those things.
Which is not true considering majority of two parent households collectively make less than 70k
They don't see it as a problem...which is a problem as well. They think the dating pool is the problem because they limit their options ,Themselves,focusing on what they are not attracted to rather than what they are attracted to. They date the same guy over and over. A Man can find SOMETHING attractive about a woman and work with that. The attraction can grow even more once you spend time together, learn about each other, and enjoy each others company. But women focus on the "icks" and the 1 or 2 things they find unattractive about a guy. And those 1 or 2 things will dictate rather or not the guy is attractive or not. A lot of women don't even believe that there is a such thing as unrealistic expectations. So I don't expect them to change when they can't even acknowledge that there could a problem.
You don't become the person you wanna be with. That's one of the issues BW are having now. They are becoming the guys they wanna be with. The person you want doesn't usually want what you want. The key is to find out what the type of person you want ACTUALLY wants in a s/o and become that, or simply become more realistic about your prospects. Being what you want won't get you what you want; make sure you're qualified for what you're asking for instead of making it all about you.
women don't understand they want to compliment their partner not be exactly what their partner is . Yall both work 12 hours a day and no one cooks , yall both going to be hungry
@@malimal4972 more and more guys are falling into that trap. We don't need two hustlers or two bosses in the relationship. When will there be a relationship first of all, and secondly, why would I want someone who is just like me? I mean, I love me some me, but another me is not what I'm missing in my life.
@@sonnyqsoul exactly , my fiancé is my polar opposite , 13 years straight and counting , no marriage certificate needed . Meaning I work a lot and she hates to work. I hate cooking and baking , she loves it . She hates to lead on masculine stuff , I love it . Like the great Paula Abdul once said, "I take two steps forward , he takes two steps back, we come together , cause opposites attract"
It's because most women do not actually care what the man wants. They care about what they want him to be, and look for that. That is where most f up and why many "boss" chicks are single. Women who care about what a man wants "pick me's" get snatched up in their early 20s and are wives.
Super facts bro!! We dudes don't want to marry another dude.....
If you are over 25 yrs old and you are making a “list” you are DONE. As an adult the only things that should be on your list is:
-good character
-smart decision making
-are they attractive to you
That’s it and that’s all. Everything else on that list can come and go with the wind.
preach
Great conversation discussions. Very good messages.
15:29There’s a show that’s on both AMAZON PRIME & TUBI called “Our Kind Of People”. Stellar cast. What Rico just mentions happens in this show. It’s crazy !!!
Aaron lookin fire tonight; the only thing that would’ve turnt that fit up are those Black with golden accents Christian Dior glasses.
Them boots should be replaced with the white trousers to match; 3 inch heels
A woman's value to a man is her looks, ability to be respectful and cooperate, a man's value to a woman is his ability to provide.
Most women are not the most desirable woman that the man they want can get.
Women like sex too.
Another circular conversation.. I've notice there's no mention of marriage within the Black community.. These podcasts are sounding like conversations. you have in a high school. We need to grow up.
If you a playa become as close to what most women want. Become the 20% so you can get more options
I get off on seeing women fail when they arrogantly discard every visible red flag and still pursue the type of guy that cheats on them, treats them like shit and/or makes them a single mom
A young lady has to be trained to be a wife. A full-grown lady will struggle with dating if she was not trained to be a wife. Men look for wives. I never observed this until I dated a Latino woman and visited her family events.
Men don't want to be with people exactly like us. You can have things in common but the more you're like us the less attractive you are
The problem is women r looking for men based on money. Thats shallow & by now its 90% of women looking for top 10% earners. It doesn't add up!😮
Even if I was rich, it’d be a turnoff to know the woman I’m with wouldn’t even look my way if I didn’t have money
And 95% of women don't qualify for those top 10% earners......but in reality,this doesn't apply to all men. If your tall and attractive,dress reasonably well with swagger and a slick mouth piece,you don't really need much money. That's where pookie and Ray Ray comes in.
@@mrmoe110 thats why you treat her accordingly. Treat her less than and keep it recreational. That evens the score.
@@JonThompson-bt8rw 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ya sound like a bunch of "Tonyas" Tonya was the character in The Five Heartbeats who didn't have time for Duck when he was a so called nobody BUT when he made it big then she wanted to show up
That’s a mean ass gap 😁
lady in the black is gonna have louds of pets
The 🙋🏾♂️ Question is, what do women want, the answer is:
Every 🤬 Daaaaamn Thing.....A Modern Black Womans ideal man is 6'6, he has 100 tattoos & gold teeth, he's been locked up before, he has 3 degrees, he makes over 200 thousand a year, he's an entrepreneur, that helps her kids with their homework & he's at home every night before 8:00.....Because this describes like 5 different dudes they become like that feather in Forrest Gump constantly floating from 1 failed relationship to another, and end up buying a 🐶 & dying alone , because settling is totally out of the question.
Private school..... Well I wish them good luck.
I think a woman can definitely get a man making any man, this all depends on beauty, femininity, submissive, friendly, and can cook and clean.
As guy in top 10% income bracket, I only care if a woman makes enough to take care of the needs and she’s contented with what she has. I don’t care if she’s a millionaire.
Exactly what I say. As long as she isn't asking me for my money,and doesn't expect me to wine and her,were cool.
@@JonThompson-bt8rw Yeah, because I’m already paying for my lifestyle, so she can enjoy the lifestyle, but don’t be asking me for money to go fix your personal needs.
@@blackups__6554 naw,I'm doing the bare utter minimum for and with women. No Free meals,no flowers/cards/candy....... nothing. When I 1st meet a woman,I'll take her to the cheapest bar in town during happy hour that doesn't even serve food. I'll pay for 1, round,maybe 2 at the most if it's going pretty well. I'll do this twice only. If I see her again it will be at my place,or hers.
Wealthy men are not picking bw.
Compared to the mental capacity understanding and virtue of the women from my past who had class in the seventies and in the early eighties these women are only like 30% of the hundred percent of good that those women were.
Is the woman in black missing a front tooth?? Yikes!
Nah..She just likes to shop at the Gap😂😂😂
Some cultures find tooth gap between the front teeth attractive.
Man when I say that these black women on this show are horrible representation of a sister worldwide I mean it vehemently.