Ladies my uncle's always said it's so important to pay attention to a man's relationship with his mother. Rico grew up seeing his mom struggle overwork herself being a single mom. Rico thinks this is normal and is looking for that type of woman. But he doesn't realize his mom was in survival mode, which she past that behavior down to him. He also lives in survival mode also known as trauma. Most women that come from healthy environments where their mom was in her feminine and not over worked will not be attracted to a guy like Rico. Men are built to work hard and are able to work 2 jobs and still be ok. A women usually does this when she doesn't have a choice or she came from an environment where the women had to overwork and struggle. When I was around 13 my parents were not even together. My mother would work so much overtime to pay for my private school. When she told my dad he ended up getting a second job to pay for my school so she could just work her regular shift. They were already broken up for about 12yrs. He wasn't turned on by a woman over working herself. He understood he needed to step in and release the burden so she could be a better mom. A masculine man understands that a woman is not built to work like a man.
Very well said. This is something I’m learning first hand at this stage in my life. It’s also important to know when to walk away when a man thinks like this instead of trying to wait for him or teach him how to love, support, protect, and provide properly.
I grew up in a home with both parents and dating a “boy” who grew up in a single parent household watching his mother struggle. He feels like he deserves a pat on the back for doing the bare minimum because it’s more than he’s ever seen a man do.
@@kaiteeet7325 Yessss that part!!! Don't stay and try to teach. You will fail and they will punish you. They have to be raised with male figures teaching them and being example of healthy masculinity. Many women that don't have this example fall into "struggle love" relationships with those types of males Don't do it. Walk away!!
EXACTLY, masculine women will only attract little boys, in order to really exude your full masculinity you truly need a male figure in your life. A masculine man will always be attracted to women who are FEMININE. So true
Why they acting like they need to save him from something… is he trying to obtain the life they have? He seems more grounded and level headed than both of them. They need to grow up
I would love to know why dude in the yellow said marriage is the hardest thing he's ever done. The hardest?! Is it hard being faithful? Is it hard choosing your wife everyday? I was married 10 years and it was not the hardest thing for me until he developed a drug problem the last two years...now THAT was hard. Hard because he refused help, hard because he became unpredictable, hard because I had to divorce him etc..I wonder why it's hard for him.
The guy in the yellow speaks on sex like a woman and its kind of goofy. Maybe its just me, but to an intelligent man thats the type of advice that keeps the black culture down bad.
Its all about balance for both people in a relationship. You need your job to provide for yourself and if you found the right person to have kids with and build a family you're going to find that balance for yourself, your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/ husband, your career, your goals, your hobbies, your health, and happiness too. Everyone needs that person who matches their lifestyle, their energy, and has their best interests. You want to be with someone who supports your goals and work ethic too. I don't think anyone should pull back in their career unless its detrimental to the person or causing issues. But balance like a 100 percent pie chart you cut it for balance. You make sure every area of your life is giving you peace and you focus on it.
Every woman is not selfish or unfair. I agree that you should treat people in a relationship the way you want to be treated. The guy in the middle is the only one that is reasonable and logical.
I need Rashan in my life! He’s tryna approach dating/relationship in a healthy way! The other guy is sex gassed & full of sh*t! Lol! You can get outside but in a strategic way that allows you to date in a healthy way!
Deadass , I had a woman loved every bit of me but she wanted a relationship and I didn’t . I had to play the game and got the kitty and played along until she figured out that it wasn’t going nowhere . Woman don’t respect nice guys at all . On top of that she was clingy and she was a bit of a hopeless romantic meaning … she wanted to be loved by all means and she just was too nice which is good but that shit scared me to the point that she lost herself and made me feel like she’ll kill me or herself if things go left lol . But homie in the middle has the right idea but good guys finish last sadly
Great convo/ I think everyone made good points. Bottom line-there is no one fits all in love. Everyone has their own specific wants, needs and preferences.
The more I watch BM discuss relationships I understand why our families are broken and I can’t understand why women even want to be bothered. I most certainly don’t at this point.
@@andredavis5126 no I don’t believe it’s always men’s fault. I do believe that both sexes should start treating each other the way they want to treated themselves, but unfortunately when I hear men talk about relationships they want to behave in ways they wouldn’t accept if someone was treating them that way.
22:51 Ummm she’s trying to get away from you that’s why. Look at how you act sir , who would want to be around that negativity and narcissism all day ?
Depends on what that man is looking for if he is looking for a wife vs gf vs sneaky link all have different requirements. The bar is higher for a wife than for a sneaky link. Most men would never marry most of the women they dated. If you're wife you got to bring a lot to the table aka mind, body, soul, and finances.
It's all about who you choose and knowing that they're the right person for you before you choose someone you have to know who you are because if you don't then you'll be confused about what you need.
Uhmm.. to be clear.. NOBODY asked me... but there were times that Reshaun (my apologies if the spelling is wrong) was trying to talk about his experiences and you two would NOT. SHUT. UP!! Someone else will come on here and genuinely could've used some of the methods that R used, to better understand themselves.. I HAD to stop, because the immaturity was starting to make me feel anxious. Please do better next time.
YES! Rashaan seems like a good guy but he cheated in his past relationship. I wanted to know what made him cheat. What made his marriage not last? Esso overtalks so much. I did like the point he made though about having a partner that works all the time and how that can be a negative in a relationship. I mean I think that was the issue Bey and Jay had so they started touring together. Bey said “I’m not leaving you to your own vices and to another Becky with the good hair” lol But guys talk about women not listening…geesh. Lol
Da God Rashun is the most mature God of the 3. I know many Goddesses in the comment section are gonna speak negatively bout the other 2 Gods. They need to remember, these 2 types of Gods could have sex with em. It’s an energy thing. Most Goddesses are not attracted to Gods like Rashun in real life. When a God is reckless, in his life. It’s easy to to get multiple Goddesses. Idk but it is. When a God starts maturing and becoming a better person. Many Goddesses treat him like he’s invisible. For sum odd reason. When a God becomes mature. Dating gets harder. Cuz most Goddesses go for the bad boy type a God. How many Goddesses kept on dating & havin sex wit Gods who didn’t respect them. Full of drama. This is why Goddesses don’t want Good wholesome mature gods in their youth. When Goddesses hit their 30’s all of a sudden Goddesses are attracted to The good Gods. From the ages of 0 to 30. Most Gods are being passed over. This is why the passport Gods movement is an all-time high. Simultaneously 0 to 30 most Goddesses deal with toxic low level no good Gods. This is a mere reflection of Goddesses. You date with and deal with who matches your inner energy level. I wish The God Rashun the best in life & def in love. He is intelligent, humble, wise and seeks ways to heal. Instead of remain broken.
😮 you know what I don't particularly like him for him to be married he certainly act like he single it seemed like his wife just wanted him and she didn't care what she do just to get him he's always the one saying you need to go find some poonanny you need to go get a girl you need to go have sex send me I will be worried if I was his wife looking at this show because to me he's not putting her in a good light he's saying that he would never do it again and he definitely if he's not cheating he wants to cheat. Now the guy in the middle I really can listen to him but they clown him so much it's not even cool I believe he's a total package he's accountable for his actions and he's real now on to the next one Rico old little young but is very spoiled you can tell that he swore he uses way he has not matured yet he still got a lot of ways to go as far as I'm concerned and we all know he has trust issues so I wouldn't even mess with him at all he's going to always have some power with his woman
Dude in the yellow is married but trying to clown dude for not being a whore? The other guy is single and trying to give advice on women? This is comical.
I'm going to say it for him. It sounds like he wants his previous wife back. I wish he would just say he miss her and call her up. It's pretty obvious that he misses somebody.
Those women were young and dumb, when I hear talk like that ,its time to go run,major alarming red flags,if a man had slept with alot of women, yuk I for one would not want a used up man, straight up dirty
People are so brainwashed heard what he said a woman expecting always chasing more will eventually not respect the relationship because can't multi task because can't replace time at all the point is to enjoy the fruits of labor together but if the intentions shows what's more important for the woman when in relationship only thing important is each other
But when not focused & become comfortable with the space you built & your mind start catching up with all the extra time will realize a lot of the woman you deal with isnt4you1sT
Feel sorry for the brother in the middle because it's easy to over give yourself to impress &please any woman for a date & not even be into the intimate part ,then eventually will run into a lot of women who about receiving $ from a dude to the point her time needs to be paid for More
Sometimes I get amazed at the immaturity of grown men because this was kinda sad to listen to. Esso assertion that the way to heal from a break up is fornication with several women or thots is very sad and reckless. Question, aside from sex and money what virtuous advice or solutions did they give to the brother?🤔 I'll wait....
& that's really disrespectful if you're man telling you everything ok & what he doing paying off& allowing freedom & you don't have time that shit is crucial & women divorce men all the time for not making time4there man + acting tired about it to the sex becomes a chore more
The guy in the yellow hoodie is soooooo annoying!!!!!! He talks too dang on much and doesn't let anyone talk and he also is immature. We don't care what you have to say sir. You are not a respectable choice or someone we should be listening to. 🙄😡🤢👎
Ladies my uncle's always said it's so important to pay attention to a man's relationship with his mother. Rico grew up seeing his mom struggle overwork herself being a single mom. Rico thinks this is normal and is looking for that type of woman. But he doesn't realize his mom was in survival mode, which she past that behavior down to him. He also lives in survival mode also known as trauma. Most women that come from healthy environments where their mom was in her feminine and not over worked will not be attracted to a guy like Rico. Men are built to work hard and are able to work 2 jobs and still be ok. A women usually does this when she doesn't have a choice or she came from an environment where the women had to overwork and struggle.
When I was around 13 my parents were not even together. My mother would work so much overtime to pay for my private school. When she told my dad he ended up getting a second job to pay for my school so she could just work her regular shift. They were already broken up for about 12yrs. He wasn't turned on by a woman over working herself. He understood he needed to step in and release the burden so she could be a better mom. A masculine man understands that a woman is not built to work like a man.
Very well said. This is something I’m learning first hand at this stage in my life. It’s also important to know when to walk away when a man thinks like this instead of trying to wait for him or teach him how to love, support, protect, and provide properly.
I grew up in a home with both parents and dating a “boy” who grew up in a single parent household watching his mother struggle. He feels like he deserves a pat on the back for doing the bare minimum because it’s more than he’s ever seen a man do.
@@kaiteeet7325 Yessss that part!!! Don't stay and try to teach. You will fail and they will punish you. They have to be raised with male figures teaching them and being example of healthy masculinity. Many women that don't have this example fall into "struggle love" relationships with those types of males Don't do it. Walk away!!
I love how you put this. Great perspective.
EXACTLY, masculine women will only attract little boys, in order to really exude your full masculinity you truly need a male figure in your life. A masculine man will always be attracted to women who are FEMININE. So true
Moral of the story: pick wisely or stay playing
Right😂
I respect rashaan…. That’s a man. The mentality of the other man is dangerous game to play.
These rotten apple's are the main reason men bottle up and the highest rate of suicide is among men.. so sad, so immature.. no soul, just air.. 🙄🤦🏽♀️
The guy in the middle is the only one who is mature, and has way more emotional intelligence than the other two bozos
Why they acting like they need to save him from something… is he trying to obtain the life they have? He seems more grounded and level headed than both of them. They need to grow up
Exactly. Ignorant to the max. Let the man heal. If more of us took that journey; the better choices would be made
The immaturity is real.
I didn’t think how long he has been healing was funny at all, maybe that’s the reason men don’t express their true feelings
@@Naturalwoman730 agreed they was laughing like they don’t have healing to do themselves 😭😭 we all do
Only a woman would say this bs
Seriously
Yo u beat me to it omg terrible
Wow!
They’re clowning him?
Sad 😮
Leave him alone and let him heal his way.
He’s not trying to pass toxicity on others.
I love him for that.
I would love to know why dude in the yellow said marriage is the hardest thing he's ever done. The hardest?! Is it hard being faithful? Is it hard choosing your wife everyday? I was married 10 years and it was not the hardest thing for me until he developed a drug problem the last two years...now THAT was hard. Hard because he refused help, hard because he became unpredictable, hard because I had to divorce him etc..I wonder why it's hard for him.
Esso just likes to hear himself talk… he also doesn’t let the others get their point across before cutting them off.
Exactly what I was thinking!!!!! I hate him on this show! 🙄🙄🙄😡
The guy in the yellow speaks on sex like a woman and its kind of goofy. Maybe its just me, but to an intelligent man thats the type of advice that keeps the black culture down bad.
Why was it funny that he’s still healing? That’s sad.
He a 6, tf....I swear I don't know what these females be telling Rico.....cuz no, absolutely not!😂
Facts💯☺️
These men are really trying to corrupt this guy 🤦🏽♀️ let him be.
Its all about balance for both people in a relationship. You need your job to provide for yourself and if you found the right person to have kids with and build a family you're going to find that balance for yourself, your boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/ husband, your career, your goals, your hobbies, your health, and happiness too. Everyone needs that person who matches their lifestyle, their energy, and has their best interests. You want to be with someone who supports your goals and work ethic too. I don't think anyone should pull back in their career unless its detrimental to the person or causing issues. But balance like a 100 percent pie chart you cut it for balance. You make sure every area of your life is giving you peace and you focus on it.
Yooo why he judging his healing process lmao 🤣 😂he dead wrong lol
Every woman is not selfish or unfair. I agree that you should treat people in a relationship the way you want to be treated.
The guy in the middle is the only one that is reasonable and logical.
This is such a disappointing interview. Our men must do better
Esso wife I feel sorry for you
NOTHING funny about dudes healing time. He takes as long as he needs. The dude so needs help sad that he thinks this is funny and he's married😮
18:30 why are they tryna change his mind on how he should respect women , again WEIRD, them the type of men you gotta stay away from.
Esso comes off a bit immature
Not a “bit”
I need Rashan in my life! He’s tryna approach dating/relationship in a healthy way! The other guy is sex gassed & full of sh*t! Lol! You can get outside but in a strategic way that allows you to date in a healthy way!
They are so right when it comes to those who always try to be fair. If you're always trying to be fair, you wind up neglecting yourself.
Deadass , I had a woman loved every bit of me but she wanted a relationship and I didn’t . I had to play the game and got the kitty and played along until she figured out that it wasn’t going nowhere . Woman don’t respect nice guys at all . On top of that she was clingy and she was a bit of a hopeless romantic meaning … she wanted to be loved by all means and she just was too nice which is good but that shit scared me to the point that she lost herself and made me feel like she’ll kill me or herself if things go left lol . But homie in the middle has the right idea but good guys finish last sadly
Great convo/ I think everyone made good points. Bottom line-there is no one fits all in love. Everyone has their own specific wants, needs and preferences.
Smh I pray my man don’t have homeboys like this
That tall gentleman is my type of man❤
Esso bruh….. “go towards the Healing! 🐱” 😂😂😂
The more I watch BM discuss relationships I understand why our families are broken and I can’t understand why women even want to be bothered. I most certainly don’t at this point.
Do you believe it's always men's fault
@@andredavis5126 no I don’t believe it’s always men’s fault. I do believe that both sexes should start treating each other the way they want to treated themselves, but unfortunately when I hear men talk about relationships they want to behave in ways they wouldn’t accept if someone was treating them that way.
A small minority maybe whereas the majority are rejected or left on read, people need to vet their partners better shits crazy. @@MickiMontana
22:51 Ummm she’s trying to get away from you that’s why. Look at how you act sir , who would want to be around that negativity and narcissism all day ?
Depends on what that man is looking for if he is looking for a wife vs gf vs sneaky link all have different requirements. The bar is higher for a wife than for a sneaky link. Most men would never marry most of the women they dated. If you're wife you got to bring a lot to the table aka mind, body, soul, and finances.
You asking for too much
@@aferg76 you see finances is last right? Lol
True for me a woman better have a real job that’s it.
@@javonn914 Theres more important things than money obviously.
@@joshuaBrooks.nicholas What's your definition of a real job?
It's all about who you choose and knowing that they're the right person for you before you choose someone you have to know who you are because if you don't then you'll be confused about what you need.
Uhmm.. to be clear.. NOBODY asked me... but there were times that Reshaun (my apologies if the spelling is wrong) was trying to talk about his experiences and you two would NOT. SHUT. UP!!
Someone else will come on here and genuinely could've used some of the methods that R used, to better understand themselves..
I HAD to stop, because the immaturity was starting to make me feel anxious.
Please do better next time.
YES! Rashaan seems like a good guy but he cheated in his past relationship. I wanted to know what made him cheat. What made his marriage not last? Esso overtalks so much. I did like the point he made though about having a partner that works all the time and how that can be a negative in a relationship. I mean I think that was the issue Bey and Jay had so they started touring together. Bey said “I’m not leaving you to your own vices and to another Becky with the good hair” lol But guys talk about women not listening…geesh. Lol
Stay as you are...
I wish they would’ve stayed on topic
If you are healing from your child mother or father
Then I would agree it can take more years to heal
Da God Rashun is the most mature God of the 3. I know many Goddesses in the comment section are gonna speak negatively bout the other 2 Gods.
They need to remember, these 2 types of Gods could have sex with em. It’s an energy thing. Most Goddesses are not attracted to Gods like Rashun in real life.
When a God is reckless, in his life. It’s easy to to get multiple Goddesses. Idk but it is. When a God starts maturing and becoming a better person. Many Goddesses treat him like he’s invisible.
For sum odd reason. When a God becomes mature. Dating gets harder. Cuz most Goddesses go for the bad boy type a God.
How many Goddesses kept on dating & havin sex wit Gods who didn’t respect them. Full of drama. This is why Goddesses don’t want Good wholesome mature gods in their youth. When Goddesses hit their 30’s all of a sudden Goddesses are attracted to The good Gods.
From the ages of 0 to 30. Most Gods are being passed over. This is why the passport Gods movement is an all-time high. Simultaneously 0 to 30 most Goddesses deal with toxic low level no good Gods. This is a mere reflection of Goddesses. You date with and deal with who matches your inner energy level.
I wish The God Rashun the best in life & def in love. He is intelligent, humble, wise and seeks ways to heal. Instead of remain broken.
I think Esso's wife is trying to match his energy.
17:28 maybe I’m crazy but, that is the most sound advice I’ve ever heard Rico give.
Women are prone to chaos, the min u do what they want to do, they get bored, they need excitement & drama
Factz
If each person plays their role and just does what they know is right there will be no problems. Y’all can’t do the right thing! SMH!!!
😮 you know what I don't particularly like him for him to be married he certainly act like he single it seemed like his wife just wanted him and she didn't care what she do just to get him he's always the one saying you need to go find some poonanny you need to go get a girl you need to go have sex send me I will be worried if I was his wife looking at this show because to me he's not putting her in a good light he's saying that he would never do it again and he definitely if he's not cheating he wants to cheat. Now the guy in the middle I really can listen to him but they clown him so much it's not even cool I believe he's a total package he's accountable for his actions and he's real now on to the next one Rico old little young but is very spoiled you can tell that he swore he uses way he has not matured yet he still got a lot of ways to go as far as I'm concerned and we all know he has trust issues so I wouldn't even mess with him at all he's going to always have some power with his woman
Dude in the yellow is married but trying to clown dude for not being a whore? The other guy is single and trying to give advice on women? This is comical.
He look like Kirk Franklin 😭😭
I'm going to say it for him. It sounds like he wants his previous wife back.
I wish he would just say he miss her and call her up. It's pretty obvious that he misses somebody.
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Those women were young and dumb, when I hear talk like that ,its time to go run,major alarming red flags,if a man had slept with alot of women, yuk I for one would not want a used up man, straight up dirty
I pray he’s not taking these goof balls advice
Is this a new episode, seems like I've seen this before but good video tho
People are so brainwashed heard what he said a woman expecting always chasing more will eventually not respect the relationship because can't multi task because can't replace time at all the point is to enjoy the fruits of labor together but if the intentions shows what's more important for the woman when in relationship only thing important is each other
Is this new? I’ve missed Rashan and ESO
Shout to my boy Fly Ra out here shinning💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Appreciate you king
But when not focused & become comfortable with the space you built & your mind start catching up with all the extra time will realize a lot of the woman you deal with isnt4you1sT
Homie in yellow wants to run the streets sooo bad
Feel sorry for the brother in the middle because it's easy to over give yourself to impress &please any woman for a date & not even be into the intimate part ,then eventually will run into a lot of women who about receiving $ from a dude to the point her time needs to be paid for More
Sometimes I get amazed at the immaturity of grown men because this was kinda sad to listen to. Esso assertion that the way to heal from a break up is fornication with several women or thots is very sad and reckless. Question, aside from sex and money what virtuous advice or solutions did they give to the brother?🤔 I'll wait....
& that's really disrespectful if you're man telling you everything ok & what he doing paying off& allowing freedom & you don't have time that shit is crucial & women divorce men all the time for not making time4there man + acting tired about it to the sex becomes a chore more
Ra better go get a pocket wife 😂
Rashaan, call me ❤
I feel sorry for the wife of the guy in the yellow jacket
build up with top tier..
7:18😂
18:06
Lmao nobody up here is wrong though.. just different realities
How old is this episode?
It came out 5 mins ago
@@bigdavo1187 that’s not what I asked mf
The guy in the yellow hoodie is soooooo annoying!!!!!! He talks too dang on much and doesn't let anyone talk and he also is immature. We don't care what you have to say sir. You are not a respectable choice or someone we should be listening to. 🙄😡🤢👎
On God
Soft
Women change after sex & it don't be good most the time regardless
Women are not men if her words say no it’s no lol
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