Purity rings (especially given by a dad on bent knee) and purity balls are one of the creepiest things in the world. It’s basically a wedding ceremony with fathers and daughters. Ugh. I’m so glad my parents did not push that on me while I was growing up
I need to find that episode of the Cleveland show where the son wants to participate as well and Cleveland is so grossed out. He wants nothing to do with his son's purity lol It really puts in perspective how creepy it is when you swap it like that haha
Those disgust me. My partner has three bio daughters and two step daughters, so raised five girls. He doesn't obsess over their "V Card." He actually is as grossed out as I am with the idea of purity culture.
am i missing something? i could've sworn that whole video was a joke because he was wearing a crown aka he was the queen and therefore jealous. are we sure he was serious 😭🙏
The only issue with the "raise your sons to not be creeps": I'm raising my son to not be a creep, but John Doe down the street is letting his son free roam on Andrew Tate red pill content.
Yeah, I _wish_ good parenting alone could solve the issue. But I've seen posts/comments by millennial and genx dads distraught about the sexist monsters their sons have become. I'm not a parent, but I am a substitute teacher (and a millennial) and I constantly ask myself, "At what point is it okay to break away from teaching kids _how_ to think and instead tell them _what_ to think?"
Plus, when they have friends who engage in redpill/blackpill content, they might feel pressured to believe in it to stay in the friends group and not be ostracized by their peers. I witnessed so many young kids go from being genuinely sweet little boys to making r-word jokes at parties.
I got a rose from a knight at Medieval times with long hair and a beard and I was 10 years old, I was basically swooning because I was a goofy little girl who got picked by a knight that looked like my fictional crushes. My dad was happy for me and teased me about how much I loved it. Normal dad reaction
my brain shut down while talking to some dude who was dressed as an elf that I thought looked really cool THE OTHER DAY, so I would just die on the spot if that happened to me lol
@@BarbieDreamDungeonfor real. Can we normalise giving men flowers and being loving outside of gay relationships? It’s really cute! Men: please get your friends flowers on Valentine’s Day.
I dont condone murder, but as someone with chronic hip pain that cant afford to find out wtf is wrong because the last time i got an x-ray it was $3,000 and am still trying to figure insurance out...I might not mind it. Im 19, i legally became an adult ONE YEAR AGO and ive already aquired medical debt.
(Not sure if this is any help but doing what I can from a country with free healthcare) I have hip pain too, had X-rays and an MRI and the doctors said my pelvis bones and sacroiliac joint are just a bit wrong and there is nothing they can do about it and told me to take ibuprofen for a few days when it flairs up (the anti-inflammatory in it helps), sleep with a pillow under my knees if I’m on my back and between my knees if I’m on my side, do hip stretches, and strengthen my core and back muscles.
Me with my chronic unexplained back pain and fatigue at 18 😔 thank god I'm still on my mom's insurance otherwise I would for sure pull a Luigi Mangione
This. I’m 22 and been searching about 5 years for diagnosis for my chronic issues. Actively fighting for an MRI right now and having to keep proving I need my meds via appointments in person that cost money and Co-pay. I am nit against all violence in all situations. 😂
@@mr.bingusthecat **shakes cane vigorously** you kids and your nostalgic renaissance era ideology. Only hardworking adults remember the good ol’ days of the Neolithic Revolution. Things started gett’n soft in the Bronze Ages, too many ninnys not remembering the proud days of tilling your fields with a stone hoe, instead of relying on their fancy shmancy smelted ore shovels! And talk about the violence! Back in my day you beat your enemy in the head with a rock like a real man instead of using those dang sabers like a pansy! Bahhh! 😂
Telling your wife to do something because its "sexy" isnt something you should do in front of the kids, period. If your significant other also thinks its sexy or agrees to it do it in private??? My parents thought this stuff was funny to do in front of us and i also smelled a divorce coming a mile away.
broo I read this before getting to that part of the video it's somehow worse than I expected. I took "sexy" more literally and thought it was like telling her dance in front of the kids but nah just casually sexualizing a shitty relationship dynamic.
Honestly I think it's abusive to even use that word in front of your kids. Maybe I grew up backwards and am extra sensitive but that word and subject is a HUGE no in my book
im an adult now, but as ive been growing up my parents have always made out just anywhere in the house, slapped each others asses, made dirty jokes and anything they could in front of me AND MY YOUNGER SIBLINGS. it is truly disturbing.
@@Marina-vf6jg I don't believe it's abusive to say that word in every scenario, but yes I agree. Certain times tho, it's okay. Edit: not to mention, I believe anyone under 18 is a kid still. And obviously, you should have conversations with them about sexual things, such as safety during sex, what's good and what is not good to do or say, teaching your kids well so they don't end up a rapist- etc.
Nothing's really been the same since the fan was gone. My workplace had a round of lay-offs the very next day, and then my wife and kids packed their bags without really saying anything. I always tell myself "Well, at least I still have the fan." It always takes a second to settle in again. I just keep trying to forget, but I think I'm going to be ok. One day.
For the AITA of the girl with the overprotective dad: From the dad’s perspective, what was he expecting if didn’t let the girl participate in sports when she was young? It’s so important for parents to foster a love of exercise in their kids (in a way the kids enjoy, such as a particular sport or activity) and he didn’t. After not letting his daughter participate in sports growing up, he’s now going to complain about her weight? (Obviously exercise isn’t the only factor that contributes to weight, but if he actively prevented a means for his daughter to be healthy he can’t complain when he thinks she’s being “unhealthy”)
I FEEL THIS IN MY SOUL. I've always been a chubby kid, but there were plenty of times in my adolescence when I expressed interest in sports, dance, martial arts, all sorts of physical activities. But whenever I'd bring up my interest in them my dad would always shoot it down by saying shit like, "Nah, you're too overweight to be doing all that." And then he would turn around and bully me and nitpick me about my weight and saying how I need to diet and exercise more. Like??? It was always so frustrating. And now I'm still fat and have a hard time being active as an adult. But hey, on the bright side I've been no contact with my dad for about 7 years now. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
It’s always alarming when guys immediately think of sexual things when they see something mundane of like bathing suits, like, wtf is going on when you see that in the wild!? Does your mind go to that with other children!?
The dad at the swimsuit video really isn't thinking practically, like she's young, she may need to hurry to the bathroom and a one piece suit means she'll have to take all off and it's cold in the bathroom. But a two piece, it's no different than a tank top and shorts in the context
@@basementdwellercosplay after realizing that, after kids get out of diapers they should be out of one pieces? Because It would suck having to do that any time you're at a public pool Edit: or not diapers, but old ebough to go to the bathroom alone
I fully support children in two piece bathing suits, especially if they’re potty training toddlers . Do you know how annoying it is to get a wet toddler out of a one piece? I work in childcare and I can confirm it’s VERY annoying
I never thought of this perspective. I always thought they looked goofy, but I guess it doesn’t matter when they’re goofy all the time and potty time is over quicker
I found my kid a two piece set with a full top and long sleeves and swim shorts (a hard style to find where I am located, but needed cause we’re in the south with a strong sun) If I hadn’t found that, I would’ve gotten her a two piece regular set and a swim tee to plop on top 🤷♀️ (again, for the sun rays) My point is, it’s not impossible to have a kid in a two piece set and still have “enough skin covered” as well (whether you’re worried about creepy men at the public pool, or the sun burning their tender, sensitive skin, it’s not impossible all because you have a two piece set)
@@sullyrane653thank you for protecting your kids skin, they will thank you when they’re older, sun protection is so important i wish more parents paid attention to it
about the little kids swimsuit shopping, my mom, who’s extremely southern baptist and has always dressed very modestly, refused to buy me one piece swimsuits until i was about 6 or 7. two pieces are just easier to take off when you have to go to the bathroom, especially when you still might need help, like at their age. especially bcs kids will always tell you they need to go right before they have an accident. it has nothing to do with the way it looks, it just makes things so much easier
The people freaking out about little girls in bikinis are the same people who let their sons swim topless. Think about what that does to a little girl when she sees the way her body is policed and her brothers isn’t. Her brother will notice that too.
If it were a rash shirt and swim shorts type of two-piece, that's understandable, heavily object to bikini two-pieces for kids exclusively because of sun safety reasons (down here in australia we even had advertising campaign "slip, slop, slap" when I was little ie. slip on a rash shirt, slop on some sunscreen, slap on a hat, melanoma is not a joke), not because of some nonsense purity/modesty thing
The Medieval Times discussion made me think, there needs to be a Primeval Times or something that’s caveman themed. I don’t fully know how it would work but I’d have a lot of fun going there
That would be a vibe ngl. Walk into a cave, lit only by a bonfire, sit down on some logs and stumps, roast some meats on spits, eat some berries, sort of like camping but better cuz you're not allowed to talk to each other only grunt and nod
@@tatiana4050 you underestimate the appeal of bones to small girls. for several days in elementary school me and a bunch of other girls held an impromptu excavation on the playground digging up small animal bones
first person is a woman btw(i'm 99% sure) it would make a lot more sense, the way the brothers talked about women was probably directed at OP, her brothers were picking on her for being feminine, hence "i was scared to engage in anything feminine"
34:35 This is not "over protective". It's possessive, and we are at a point as a society where we can stop pretending this behavior is about protection. If you want to protect your daughter, buy her pepper spray, 'cause this "you can't go out" crap ain't it. In fact, I would argue you're endangering her by teaching her that this is how she should expect to be controlled [not treated; controlled] by the men in her future.
Through that whole story I sat here thinking oh my god they sound like my parents. I'm in fuckin therapy for the amount of emotional damage my hyper-helicoptery parents inflicted on me. In my specific case, I'm very codependent. And because I just learned to roll over and take it, I've turned into a very passive, conflict avoidant to a fault adult.
@@hawkgirl9984 I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. You didn't deserve that sort of treatment then or now! I hope you're making progress, but even if you think you aren't, the fact that you can tell what your parents did was fucked up is DEFINITELY progress!!! Happy Holidays!!!!!
@@hawkgirl9984 i'm in the same position and i'm 36. looking back over the course of my life and realizing how abusive my childhood actually was at the hands of my mother actually horrifies me, and really explains a lot of my current mental health struggles im slowly unpacking. she basically got off scot free because our family is very traditional and i'm essentially the black sheep of the family, but in recent years i've been pushing back and telling certain people to fuck off and its been the best thing i've ever done for myself. i hope you can find some peace and healing fam, best wishes
@@hawkgirl9984same here. I'm 18 and I can't even have a sleepover with my guy friends or my boyfriend even though I known them for years because and I quote from my mom, "you never know with boys and hormones" like basically implying even though I trust and love my friends very much that they would still r@pe me. I'm hoping I can get therapy one day and talk about it
@@hawkgirl9984keep up the great work going to therapy! I was in the same position and after a few years of therapy I’m assertive and able to stand up for myself. It’s tough work but it’s SO worth it, YOU are worth it!
My mom was my first bully and still is. It's a horrible feeling, you never feel like you'll ever be able to make your parent happy/do well enough for them to be proud of you in any way
What's even funnier about this is that Kelly Clarkson won American Idol in 2002, not 2001. I remember because my husband and I got married in November of 2001, and then we moved into our first house in June of 2002, and we watched American Idol in the basement of the new house. Edit: I paused the video to check the comments to see if anyone else mentioned Kelly Clarkson winning in 2002, made this comment and another one, and then resumed the video to see the fact check. My bad! 🤦♀️🤣
For the dad complaining about the girl going out: He is threatening to ruin her future, but clearly not taking that in mind and just being an a hole. I hope she's able to graduate and move the hell out of his house.
Yea same like my dad has always hugged me and all that but he has always just been fatherly infact he genuinely does not care who i date as long as they dint hurt me and even then he isnt like gonna shoot em or some shit yk
@@Aperson11028exactly how men should behave as parents. They should maintain their kids privacy and not think weirdly about their partners and I’m so tired of the “if you make her cry I’ll get my shotgun” shit
For real. My Dad would play “briding bronko” with me as a kid, and we normally hugged. Basically, I would sit on his back and he would act like those mechanical bulls till I fell off. I loved it, Lmao. Anything weird was honestly me. Like copying animal behaviour, Lmao.
Omg the tiara dad reminds me of my own father. I remember once he looked at my step mom and was like “hey! Wear some heels or something, look sexier” in front of all of us and she literally stopped what she was doing and wore them. That never sat right with me. He was also extremely abusive in general and the whole house was expected to cater to him. He was definitely an “alpha male” type before that term was coined. Needless to say, all of his kids have minimal contact with him, I’ve completely cut him off
My dad is a girl dad. As in he has four daughters. And he taught us to always ask questions, he's shown interest in each of our many boyfriends and comforted us when things didn't work out. True girl dad!
All of these dads are giving "my children are my property. They are an extension of me. If they do not do exactly as I do or say they are embarrassing me. They are a loser and make me shamed..." Literally any parent who just views a child as a human doesn't do this shit lmao. Outside of maybe the swimsuit thing I think every dad was just gross. A toddlers swim suit is meant for utility to just swim in. It's weird for him to make his reasoning so public. Like I don't need weird dudes staring at my kid like that. BUT those weird dudes are going to do that anyway. You can only protect them so much. Trying too hard will just make you crazy. Sometimes just let the kids just be kids who fuckin cares.
First paragraph: this ^. I am the daughter of one such (now deceased) father. I'm the youngest and the only autistic person of five children. He forever resented me for this and was my first bully. I wasn't the perfect doll child or happy little robot he wanted me to be. Of course, he never SAID outright that he didn't want an autistic child, so that he could make me out to be the crazy one. Children are not an accessory or a toy to be taken out and played with when convenient.
The swimsuit one makes sense from the mom's pov too. You need to help the toddler easily use the bathroom and shake sand out of their suit after each wash.
19:10 also on the parents side a 2 piece is so much easier to deal with when they have to go to the bathroom and need help (although the dad has probably never thought of that because mom always deals with it)
32:29 actually, cycles do not line up from living with each other. This was based on a bad study, but the media ran with it, and when it was disproven, the media didn’t care, so people still think this is true to this day. The reason it may seem like your cycles line up could be because you spend 1/4 of each month being on your period, so it’s not that unlikely that a couple or a few days of being on your period will be shared with someone else you live with.
@ there’s so many other examples of popular media taking a study that makes interesting claims, running with it, and then not sharing studies that disprove the claims. Example: water having “memory”. It does not.
Plus not everyone's cycles are the exact same length--even if we're only talking like a few days' difference, if you live with someone for long enough your periods will drift in and out of sync with each other's because that's just how math works.
(27:27) this young girl sounds kinda like how I was growing up as a trans man, and my dad somewhat acted like that too. Hope she gets out. Her parents getting divorced is probably the best thing that can happen from my experience. Get away from that man
no I completely agree. I'm nb and the visceral reaction to his little prank is exactly what I would have done. like I never care about stuff like that usually but lord
Things I am grateful for this Sinmas (in no particular order): 1.) Queen Anne chocolate covered cherries 2.) Peppermint Bark 3.) My dog, Jasper (the goodest boy) 4.) Minecraft 5.) My friends Edit: 6.) Luigi (the absolute legend)
Here to say that the "2001: A Space Odyssey" reference absolutely sent me. I did not expect such an iconic movie to be mentioned. Nikki is a learned and cultured queen 💅🏼❤️
13:49 The school to prison pipeline is talking about how students who are disciplined in school are HIGHLY more likely to end up in prisons. It's very racially driven, systematic oppression. -From a teacher
Not disciplined- OVER disciplined. A student doesn't want to participate in gym class because of an aching stomach? Dragged out of class by the resource officer. Not participating during class? Day of in-school suspension. Before these students get halfway to graduation, they already have rap sheets. They're making criminals out of school children.
the schools in my county banning phones, non-clear bags, hoodies, etc and suspending/punishing kids for being caught w any of these are gonna see a lot of this i feel
Also very disability driven. Loads of disabled kids, especially disabled kids who are POC, get punished for existing. And often times many rules punish the disability itself and not fitting in to NT and strict capitalistic standards.
@@hayliekendall7995 Fair. It handles sexism, racism, ableism, the prison industrial complex with a history of slavery and corporate greed, and institutions of schooling for nationalism in the US, etc. it’s so much…
She'll grow out of it, it's part of growing up to start to distance yourself from your parents. It can be a bit crushing as a parent but if you have a good relationship, there will often be a return to that closeness without the judging and eye rolling. Somewhere around college age usually, based on anecdotal evidence and my own observations. It sounds like you are doing a good job. ❤️ It can be hard and parenting can often feel a bit thankless, but I believe and hope the best for your relationship. Your daughter will likely grow up to be close to her mama, thanks to the respect you show her now.
Unsolicited advice. Feel free to ignore As someone who used to teach middle school, I think you could talk to her about whether SHE is feeling judged at school. Once you talk about it and how it affects her, you can point out that she's doing the same to you and that you can be confident about who you are, even if people don't like it.
shoutout to my dad for being a girl dad in a good sense, as he wanted daughters (he’s an artist and has never touched sports, absolutely petrified of having sons that family would force him to raise all sporty) and has always just been our biggest supporter- he doesn’t really treat us like “girls” he treats us like people, and has never viewed us like these dads. he keeps plan b stocked in case one of us (or our friends) needs it, was supportive as hell when my sister and i both came out, and has always kindly interacted with our partners and friends. recently he found our one of my best friends isn’t very close with her dad, and he’s like adopted her, he always makes sure our house has the snacks she likes and makes like dad jokes to her TT this just turned into a rant about my dad but i love him so much oh my god
I guess technically I'm a girl-dad, girl dad. Since I'm a trans woman with a teen daughter, but I would never force her to call me Mom if she wants to call me dad, so that's where we are at LOL.
If you want her to call you feminine things instead of masculine, it's your right to ask her to call you mom instead of dad because you'd want to teach her to gender people correctly, yknow? But it is up to you
The cool thing about parental titles is that it isn’t necessary linked to gender, like sometimes single parents are both mom and dad, some men are moms, some women are dads ❤
Imagine being that first kid and seeing that tiktok and being like "awe, my dad filmed me catching a rose, how nice, I get to cherish this moment forever-" and then going "oh... why is my dad frown- oh..." LIKE OHMYGOD I WOULD BE MORTIFIED !!!
I really like how the corporation the CEO worked for was like, “Actually, he was fighting FOR the people, and fought to provide healthcare for so many people and not profit off of suffering.” While he was actively in litigation for insider trading and was head of an organization that rejected more claims and profited more than any other health insurance organization in the country. 😂 Everyone send Luigi a Christmas card y’all.
Teenagers being scary is true. I remember watching a TH-cam video where these four middle schoolers made a couple adults cry from how vicious they trolled them.
“Teenagers scare the living sh!t outta me! They could care less, as long as someone else bleeds! So darken your clothes, or strike a violent pose, maybe they’ll leave you alone- but not ME!”
I would love if the swimsuit one ended up being because the dad took sun exposure safety seriously. That would be wholesome and sweet. No two piece, no one piece, full coverage to protect my daughter from UV
I was pro-one piece for that reason but someone else pointed out the benefit of a tankini (or rashguard) and bottoms to facilitate their often immediate bathroom needs and that wins imo. One band of skin would be less annoying to reapply spf than cutouts so I'm still against cutouts in kids swimsuit designs.
also unfortunately there are people who think inappropriately of children “less covered” so i couldn’t tell see if the dad was thinking of safety but he was the one being gross about it
The “dresscoding daughter” one seems to be written by the mom tbh. The username is “Creepella” something, there brothers berated feminine things to OPs face and OP consequently stayed away from anything feminine, etc. It seems like a woman who grew up in a predominantly male household where feminine traits were harshly criticised, so she’s struggling with how to navigate her daughter wanting to exhibit feminine traits in the future.
Pre-k (4 year olds) teacher at an ISD here and after the day from hell it was so unexpected yet so so sweet to be called out in such a positive way! Thank y'all!
I got the 2001 movie reference! But I'm 50. ETA: I am grateful for the fact that my crappy dad is safely stashed away in a decent memory care facility. It's better than he deserves, but I am a better daughter than he was a dad. ON TOPIC.
Omg finally someone else who talks about the way Jacob kissed Bella against her will. It creeped me out so much when I read it too and I think about it every time someone say their team Jacob. Like he literally SA:d her.. Also, it’s like known that if Edward wasn’t a thing, Bella would’ve ended up with Jacob. But he emprinted on Renesme which is Bellas child, and since women are born with all their eggs, would he imprinted on his own daughter? The thought grosses me out.. but it kinda fits the theme of this video i guess😅
But also Edward broke into Bella’s house and watched her sleep, which imo is just as bad. I truly hate the series now just because of the messed up things in the “romances”
@@joansapy6648they're both awful, the entire thing is just gross. i've seen ao3 fanfictions that were better written and less creepy, and i hate how a lot of mainstream published romance novels still have those gross things in them even after all this time
@ I knoooowww… and the way Stephanie Meyer tried to justify it in midnight sun (edwards pov) is just plain gross. Like dude he just broke into a random girls house to watch her sleep (after thinking of killing her in extreme detail) there’s no justifying that shit..
32:40 No they don't! That is an old wive's tale. It's just coincidence and the relatively short amount of time between periods: eventually, something might sink up, and you're probably more likely to know when the women in your home are having their period vs women you don't live with, so it's gonna seem like "oh, it's more common when you live together." no, you just have lopsided information.
6:40 the gasp I gusp when I thought for sure this video sponsor was going to be for adult toys again… I was like “whaaaaat?!” But also “you know what, you go gurl” 💅💁🏻♂️
honestly as someone who was in high school in 2001, it actually was great until september, then it was sort of weird and somber and obscenely patriotic
So according to science cycles syncing is a myth but most women have anecdotal evidence, but given cycles are about 28 days and there is about 30 days in most months it’s just more likely for women periods to be close enough together to make it seem linked.
And cycles can normaly be 24-35 days, and can vary (normaly) by a few days for one woman cycle to cycle, so women can go in and out of phase with each other quite often. PCOS, adolescence, perimenopause - all of which are common - and other factors can cause even more variability.
Love the colour of Nikki's hair. If I was brave I would have my boomer iron grey old man hair dyed blue or turquoise. Back on topic... I am so jealous. That moment the babby received the rose was soooo sweet! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Would have been made up to the heavens if that was my daughter...who is now 28 but still my princess lol ps Props to the knight for the throw! Good shot sir knight!
@@MILLlWATT It's funny that I've rarely worn colourful clothes and I wonder if it's because I've lacked self confidence and never wanted to draw attention to myself. But now I have some clobber because the colours make me happy and feel good. The good thing about getting old is that one tends to give less and less of a shit about what others think about oneself! lol Am in the process of moving home. So new hair for a new start would be good!
@ new hair is always the best! i've gone back to natural after years of every colour ever and then some, my dad helped me with a rainbow mohawk even -it's a fun and incredibly addicting change, and really good, easy to use hair dye is so easy to come by nowadays - my favourite brand never got over $10 aud and I could get it from my local supermarket! 10/10 you gotta have a crazy hair phase in life, it's surprisingly healing taking such radical, yet such low stakes control over your own self
The "overprotective" dad reminds me so much of my dad. These types of parents genuinely do not want their children to be independent or self sufficient in any way. They only care about controling their children.
24:30 bro this is reminding me of my dad and let me tell you, that is in no way a good thing. that poor girl is dealing with very selfish and controlling parents, and she’s going through a lot no doubt just solely based off of what he said. it’s a truly scary world out there, especially if your parents are the ones contributing to your pain.
I ACTUALLY DO REMEMBER WHERE I WAS WHEN I READ THE JACOB SCENE LOL I remember finding that scene genuinely upsetting. Like a weird tonal shift from the rest of the series for the most part. I was like 10 lol
Honestly getting rid of the fan during Sinmas is perfect, it's a bunch of videos in a row so everyone will get it out of their systems real fast, plus she's a sinner for getting rid of it.
I'm so glad my dad is just some guy. He's so dumb in many regards, like it genuinely shocks me sometimes, but at the end of the day he's just some guy and he loves me and my mom and asks me what i want for dinner at 10AM.
The only girl dads i support are the dads that cheer on their daughters with everything they do, are comfortable buying period products when she needs them, stand up for her when she needs it and love her no matter what path she takes in life or who she becomes.
honestly "pick me" has been ruined the way "karen" was ruined. they both meant something originally but now a significant amount of people have taken both to just be "woman doing something i don't like" we need to just put the big boy words back on the shelf until these kinds of people figure out what the hell they mean
I'm grateful for 9 years of having escaped a living situation with a family like these, being spirited away by my best friend, being able to transition, and am now engaged to said best friend after understanding our queerness
I remember getting a rose from the green knight at Medival Times when I was seven. It was so cute because he came right up to us because we were in the first couple rows.
On the "giving your daughter a dress code" part, I rolled my ass over so fast when trying to sleep when you said "imagine if the they're the most masculine lesbian there ever was". I'm a trans guy. THAT WAS ME xD I wasn't dressing in "skimpy clothing", I just was one of two "girls" in my Catholic school that wore slacks instead of a skirt. xDD
Thank u sm for having me 💗 Merry Sinmas 🎄🎅🏻
I got your reference! 😊
ho did u steal the fan?
hi nikki happy new years
2001: a space odyssey mentioned ‼️
Not sorry, but Jeffree star is so problematic
Purity rings (especially given by a dad on bent knee) and purity balls are one of the creepiest things in the world. It’s basically a wedding ceremony with fathers and daughters. Ugh. I’m so glad my parents did not push that on me while I was growing up
WE NEED AN EPISODE ON PURITY BALLS. Those things are freaking insane.
Oh! Ew!
I need to find that episode of the Cleveland show where the son wants to participate as well and Cleveland is so grossed out. He wants nothing to do with his son's purity lol It really puts in perspective how creepy it is when you swap it like that haha
Those disgust me. My partner has three bio daughters and two step daughters, so raised five girls. He doesn't obsess over their "V Card." He actually is as grossed out as I am with the idea of purity culture.
Purity balls. Sounds bad. Yes my brain is filthy, but seriously
If I Had a 12 yr old daughter tell me she doesn't need to be pretty to have a successful career, I'd NEVER feel like a prouder parent 😭✨💕
Saaaaaammmeee! ❤😂🎉
that first tiktok could’ve been funny if the dad was like “i wanted a flower too”. come on man, make a funny
But a funny is hard! /s
That feels like something my dad would say XD
This is how my dad would've responded and he isn't even that funny or quick on his feet. He's just not a freak. 💀
am i missing something? i could've sworn that whole video was a joke because he was wearing a crown aka he was the queen and therefore jealous. are we sure he was serious 😭🙏
For real
The only issue with the "raise your sons to not be creeps": I'm raising my son to not be a creep, but John Doe down the street is letting his son free roam on Andrew Tate red pill content.
As a person from a red state who's neighborhood is still filled with Trump signs
Yeah, I _wish_ good parenting alone could solve the issue. But I've seen posts/comments by millennial and genx dads distraught about the sexist monsters their sons have become. I'm not a parent, but I am a substitute teacher (and a millennial) and I constantly ask myself, "At what point is it okay to break away from teaching kids _how_ to think and instead tell them _what_ to think?"
Plus, when they have friends who engage in redpill/blackpill content, they might feel pressured to believe in it to stay in the friends group and not be ostracized by their peers. I witnessed so many young kids go from being genuinely sweet little boys to making r-word jokes at parties.
@captaincaspian42 kids see parents cave to peer pressure too. That's why modeling good behavior to your kids is so important and not sheltering them.
If you teach them to be independent and choose their circle better.
I got a rose from a knight at Medieval times with long hair and a beard and I was 10 years old, I was basically swooning because I was a goofy little girl who got picked by a knight that looked like my fictional crushes. My dad was happy for me and teased me about how much I loved it. Normal dad reaction
I'm a grown ass man and I'd be giggling and kicking my feet if a knight gave me a rose too
Aww 🥹
my brain shut down while talking to some dude who was dressed as an elf that I thought looked really cool THE OTHER DAY, so I would just die on the spot if that happened to me lol
i understand and see you, because me too, id be over the moon
@@BarbieDreamDungeonfor real. Can we normalise giving men flowers and being loving outside of gay relationships? It’s really cute! Men: please get your friends flowers on Valentine’s Day.
I dont condone murder, but as someone with chronic hip pain that cant afford to find out wtf is wrong because the last time i got an x-ray it was $3,000 and am still trying to figure insurance out...I might not mind it. Im 19, i legally became an adult ONE YEAR AGO and ive already aquired medical debt.
(Not sure if this is any help but doing what I can from a country with free healthcare) I have hip pain too, had X-rays and an MRI and the doctors said my pelvis bones and sacroiliac joint are just a bit wrong and there is nothing they can do about it and told me to take ibuprofen for a few days when it flairs up (the anti-inflammatory in it helps), sleep with a pillow under my knees if I’m on my back and between my knees if I’m on my side, do hip stretches, and strengthen my core and back muscles.
@jessicaahhhhh I really appreciate the tips, ill definitely try this stuff out. :)
Me with my chronic unexplained back pain and fatigue at 18 😔 thank god I'm still on my mom's insurance otherwise I would for sure pull a Luigi Mangione
This. I’m 22 and been searching about 5 years for diagnosis for my chronic issues. Actively fighting for an MRI right now and having to keep proving I need my meds via appointments in person that cost money and Co-pay.
I am nit against all violence in all situations. 😂
OP are you in the united states? If so, try to apply for medicaid through Healthcare.gov
,,Have you ever been to medieval times?" and my European ass is here thinking ,,oh my god, she's not that old"
(it's obviously a joke, born 1999, we're young and beautiful)
medieval times was alright but the renaissance era was better. you just had to there ‼️
"Queen never cry" ahh Bubbles pfp lol
@@mr.bingusthecat **shakes cane vigorously** you kids and your nostalgic renaissance era ideology. Only hardworking adults remember the good ol’ days of the Neolithic Revolution. Things started gett’n soft in the Bronze Ages, too many ninnys not remembering the proud days of tilling your fields with a stone hoe, instead of relying on their fancy shmancy smelted ore shovels! And talk about the violence! Back in my day you beat your enemy in the head with a rock like a real man instead of using those dang sabers like a pansy! Bahhh!
😂
😂😂😂 thank you for the brief glimpse into another human experience
This video sounds like "if men suffer in silence, why am I always hearing about it?"
Telling your wife to do something because its "sexy" isnt something you should do in front of the kids, period. If your significant other also thinks its sexy or agrees to it do it in private??? My parents thought this stuff was funny to do in front of us and i also smelled a divorce coming a mile away.
broo I read this before getting to that part of the video it's somehow worse than I expected. I took "sexy" more literally and thought it was like telling her dance in front of the kids but nah just casually sexualizing a shitty relationship dynamic.
Honestly I think it's abusive to even use that word in front of your kids. Maybe I grew up backwards and am extra sensitive but that word and subject is a HUGE no in my book
@Marina-vf6jg there's 100% a time and place for it and I completely agree
im an adult now, but as ive been growing up my parents have always made out just anywhere in the house, slapped each others asses, made dirty jokes and anything they could in front of me AND MY YOUNGER SIBLINGS. it is truly disturbing.
@@Marina-vf6jg I don't believe it's abusive to say that word in every scenario, but yes I agree.
Certain times tho, it's okay.
Edit: not to mention, I believe anyone under 18 is a kid still.
And obviously, you should have conversations with them about sexual things, such as safety during sex, what's good and what is not good to do or say, teaching your kids well so they don't end up a rapist- etc.
The only sin here is not having the fan
fr 😭😭
Don't forget she has asked us how are we
UHMM MADILYN MEI PFP???
Nothing's really been the same since the fan was gone. My workplace had a round of lay-offs the very next day, and then my wife and kids packed their bags without really saying anything.
I always tell myself "Well, at least I still have the fan." It always takes a second to settle in again. I just keep trying to forget, but I think I'm going to be ok. One day.
For the AITA of the girl with the overprotective dad:
From the dad’s perspective, what was he expecting if didn’t let the girl participate in sports when she was young? It’s so important for parents to foster a love of exercise in their kids (in a way the kids enjoy, such as a particular sport or activity) and he didn’t. After not letting his daughter participate in sports growing up, he’s now going to complain about her weight?
(Obviously exercise isn’t the only factor that contributes to weight, but if he actively prevented a means for his daughter to be healthy he can’t complain when he thinks she’s being “unhealthy”)
I FEEL THIS IN MY SOUL.
I've always been a chubby kid, but there were plenty of times in my adolescence when I expressed interest in sports, dance, martial arts, all sorts of physical activities. But whenever I'd bring up my interest in them my dad would always shoot it down by saying shit like, "Nah, you're too overweight to be doing all that." And then he would turn around and bully me and nitpick me about my weight and saying how I need to diet and exercise more. Like??? It was always so frustrating.
And now I'm still fat and have a hard time being active as an adult. But hey, on the bright side I've been no contact with my dad for about 7 years now. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Thank God! 🫂
So real, Luigi does in fact slay in one way or another
Y'all, not all murderers....
ARCANE FAN SPOTTED. I HAVE THE SAME PFP ON TIKTOK
Jayce, jaybe, jaybe not
He slays in both ways
@@leruetheday377 I agree
“Ah. That’s upsetting.”
-me the majority of this video
It’s always alarming when guys immediately think of sexual things when they see something mundane of like bathing suits, like, wtf is going on when you see that in the wild!? Does your mind go to that with other children!?
Seriously! Like...why? There's no way that it's all hormones. some of it has to be learned behavior to see woman as objects...
Alarmingly common too
It's already alarming if they think that with any child
The dad at the swimsuit video really isn't thinking practically, like she's young, she may need to hurry to the bathroom and a one piece suit means she'll have to take all off and it's cold in the bathroom. But a two piece, it's no different than a tank top and shorts in the context
@@basementdwellercosplay after realizing that, after kids get out of diapers they should be out of one pieces? Because It would suck having to do that any time you're at a public pool
Edit: or not diapers, but old ebough to go to the bathroom alone
I fully support children in two piece bathing suits, especially if they’re potty training toddlers . Do you know how annoying it is to get a wet toddler out of a one piece? I work in childcare and I can confirm it’s VERY annoying
For REAL
I never thought of this perspective. I always thought they looked goofy, but I guess it doesn’t matter when they’re goofy all the time and potty time is over quicker
I found my kid a two piece set with a full top and long sleeves and swim shorts (a hard style to find where I am located, but needed cause we’re in the south with a strong sun)
If I hadn’t found that, I would’ve gotten her a two piece regular set and a swim tee to plop on top 🤷♀️ (again, for the sun rays)
My point is, it’s not impossible to have a kid in a two piece set and still have “enough skin covered” as well (whether you’re worried about creepy men at the public pool, or the sun burning their tender, sensitive skin, it’s not impossible all because you have a two piece set)
i never thought abt that. that’s a nightmare omg
@@sullyrane653thank you for protecting your kids skin, they will thank you when they’re older, sun protection is so important i wish more parents paid attention to it
about the little kids swimsuit shopping, my mom, who’s extremely southern baptist and has always dressed very modestly, refused to buy me one piece swimsuits until i was about 6 or 7. two pieces are just easier to take off when you have to go to the bathroom, especially when you still might need help, like at their age. especially bcs kids will always tell you they need to go right before they have an accident. it has nothing to do with the way it looks, it just makes things so much easier
My mom wouldn’t get me one prices, but she would get me tankinis. I was super pale though, so it was probably the best call
The people freaking out about little girls in bikinis are the same people who let their sons swim topless. Think about what that does to a little girl when she sees the way her body is policed and her brothers isn’t. Her brother will notice that too.
Having to strip naked to take a shit is also just embarrassing tbh
Tankini is good. I don't like one pieces with cutouts though like that Elsa one kinda looked like, makes for more fiddly sunscreen reapplication
If it were a rash shirt and swim shorts type of two-piece, that's understandable, heavily object to bikini two-pieces for kids exclusively because of sun safety reasons (down here in australia we even had advertising campaign "slip, slop, slap" when I was little ie. slip on a rash shirt, slop on some sunscreen, slap on a hat, melanoma is not a joke), not because of some nonsense purity/modesty thing
26:50 "MY BEER GETTIN MACHINE AIN'T ALLOWED TO CALL MY OTHER BEER GETTIN MACHINE A SLAVE!"
lmao 💀
I feel so empty without the lesbian fan 😔
Same actually
Especially when she's wearing a shirt with the fan ??????
Same
and not asking us how we are 😔
me too 💔
The Medieval Times discussion made me think, there needs to be a Primeval Times or something that’s caveman themed. I don’t fully know how it would work but I’d have a lot of fun going there
shadow puppet shows from big-ass bonfires... hell yeah. or we can do it up flintstones style.
That would be a vibe ngl. Walk into a cave, lit only by a bonfire, sit down on some logs and stumps, roast some meats on spits, eat some berries, sort of like camping but better cuz you're not allowed to talk to each other only grunt and nod
And instead of knights giving out roses to girls, cavemen would give out bones to boys
@@tatiana4050 you underestimate the appeal of bones to small girls. for several days in elementary school me and a bunch of other girls held an impromptu excavation on the playground digging up small animal bones
Please! Lmao, all the food could be KETO 😂😂😂😂
first person is a woman btw(i'm 99% sure) it would make a lot more sense, the way the brothers talked about women was probably directed at OP, her brothers were picking on her for being feminine, hence "i was scared to engage in anything feminine"
I was looking to see if anyone else caught this. OP being a woman makes more sense to me lol
That makes way more sense, thank you for picking up on that
I was like, oh this is a woman and they said he and I was like... huh?
Yeah i snooped OPs account, they’re a women
Thank you for saying this! I was thinking this, too.
When you said "have u ever been to medieval times?" I legit thought you were asing her if shes time travelled lmao
Glad I wasn't the only one
34:35 This is not "over protective". It's possessive, and we are at a point as a society where we can stop pretending this behavior is about protection. If you want to protect your daughter, buy her pepper spray, 'cause this "you can't go out" crap ain't it. In fact, I would argue you're endangering her by teaching her that this is how she should expect to be controlled [not treated; controlled] by the men in her future.
Through that whole story I sat here thinking oh my god they sound like my parents.
I'm in fuckin therapy for the amount of emotional damage my hyper-helicoptery parents inflicted on me. In my specific case, I'm very codependent. And because I just learned to roll over and take it, I've turned into a very passive, conflict avoidant to a fault adult.
@@hawkgirl9984 I'm so sorry you're dealing with that. You didn't deserve that sort of treatment then or now! I hope you're making progress, but even if you think you aren't, the fact that you can tell what your parents did was fucked up is DEFINITELY progress!!! Happy Holidays!!!!!
@@hawkgirl9984 i'm in the same position and i'm 36. looking back over the course of my life and realizing how abusive my childhood actually was at the hands of my mother actually horrifies me, and really explains a lot of my current mental health struggles im slowly unpacking. she basically got off scot free because our family is very traditional and i'm essentially the black sheep of the family, but in recent years i've been pushing back and telling certain people to fuck off and its been the best thing i've ever done for myself.
i hope you can find some peace and healing fam, best wishes
@@hawkgirl9984same here. I'm 18 and I can't even have a sleepover with my guy friends or my boyfriend even though I known them for years because and I quote from my mom, "you never know with boys and hormones" like basically implying even though I trust and love my friends very much that they would still r@pe me. I'm hoping I can get therapy one day and talk about it
@@hawkgirl9984keep up the great work going to therapy! I was in the same position and after a few years of therapy I’m assertive and able to stand up for myself. It’s tough work but it’s SO worth it, YOU are worth it!
My mom was my first bully and still is. It's a horrible feeling, you never feel like you'll ever be able to make your parent happy/do well enough for them to be proud of you in any way
“2001 was a good year”
“besides…”
“OH”
ACTUALYL STARTED WHEEZING STOP ITTTTT
What's even funnier about this is that Kelly Clarkson won American Idol in 2002, not 2001. I remember because my husband and I got married in November of 2001, and then we moved into our first house in June of 2002, and we watched American Idol in the basement of the new house.
Edit: I paused the video to check the comments to see if anyone else mentioned Kelly Clarkson winning in 2002, made this comment and another one, and then resumed the video to see the fact check. My bad! 🤦♀️🤣
Sometimes forget ❤️
@ i forgor
Lmao I was born in 2001 😂
@@Pigeonfish_STOP ITTTT PLSSSS😭😭😭😭😭
For the dad complaining about the girl going out: He is threatening to ruin her future, but clearly not taking that in mind and just being an a hole. I hope she's able to graduate and move the hell out of his house.
my dad's always been playful and kind with me and my sis but thankfully was never weird about us. Shoutout to all the normal dads out there!!
Yea same like my dad has always hugged me and all that but he has always just been fatherly infact he genuinely does not care who i date as long as they dint hurt me and even then he isnt like gonna shoot em or some shit yk
@@Aperson11028exactly how men should behave as parents. They should maintain their kids privacy and not think weirdly about their partners and I’m so tired of the “if you make her cry I’ll get my shotgun” shit
For real. My Dad would play “briding bronko” with me as a kid, and we normally hugged. Basically, I would sit on his back and he would act like those mechanical bulls till I fell off. I loved it, Lmao. Anything weird was honestly me. Like copying animal behaviour, Lmao.
@@Aperson11028 For real. My Dad would joke, mocking strict Dads ALLLLL the time. And if anything, if I got hurt, he’d get the gun for ME, Lmao. 😂😂😂
Omg the tiara dad reminds me of my own father. I remember once he looked at my step mom and was like “hey! Wear some heels or something, look sexier” in front of all of us and she literally stopped what she was doing and wore them. That never sat right with me. He was also extremely abusive in general and the whole house was expected to cater to him. He was definitely an “alpha male” type before that term was coined. Needless to say, all of his kids have minimal contact with him, I’ve completely cut him off
On the 7th day on sinmas, Nikki gave to me:
A portrait of Luigi! 🥳🎊🎵
Thats goin over the mantle for sure
My dad is a girl dad. As in he has four daughters. And he taught us to always ask questions, he's shown interest in each of our many boyfriends and comforted us when things didn't work out. True girl dad!
All of these dads are giving "my children are my property. They are an extension of me. If they do not do exactly as I do or say they are embarrassing me. They are a loser and make me shamed..." Literally any parent who just views a child as a human doesn't do this shit lmao.
Outside of maybe the swimsuit thing I think every dad was just gross. A toddlers swim suit is meant for utility to just swim in. It's weird for him to make his reasoning so public. Like I don't need weird dudes staring at my kid like that. BUT those weird dudes are going to do that anyway. You can only protect them so much. Trying too hard will just make you crazy. Sometimes just let the kids just be kids who fuckin cares.
First paragraph: this ^. I am the daughter of one such (now deceased) father. I'm the youngest and the only autistic person of five children. He forever resented me for this and was my first bully. I wasn't the perfect doll child or happy little robot he wanted me to be. Of course, he never SAID outright that he didn't want an autistic child, so that he could make me out to be the crazy one.
Children are not an accessory or a toy to be taken out and played with when convenient.
The swimsuit one makes sense from the mom's pov too. You need to help the toddler easily use the bathroom and shake sand out of their suit after each wash.
@@TXRider I’m so sorry you had to deal with that ableism. Glad he is out of your life. ❤
19:10 also on the parents side a 2 piece is so much easier to deal with when they have to go to the bathroom and need help (although the dad has probably never thought of that because mom always deals with it)
The top is also like as long as a shirt. Honestly as a lil one I felt better and more modest in those two pieces. Waaaay less wedgie chance.
32:29 actually, cycles do not line up from living with each other. This was based on a bad study, but the media ran with it, and when it was disproven, the media didn’t care, so people still think this is true to this day. The reason it may seem like your cycles line up could be because you spend 1/4 of each month being on your period, so it’s not that unlikely that a couple or a few days of being on your period will be shared with someone else you live with.
Thank you for saying this!
@ there’s so many other examples of popular media taking a study that makes interesting claims, running with it, and then not sharing studies that disprove the claims. Example: water having “memory”. It does not.
thank you for being a truth spreader in this world of hate and lies
Well shit, I stand corrected!
Plus not everyone's cycles are the exact same length--even if we're only talking like a few days' difference, if you live with someone for long enough your periods will drift in and out of sync with each other's because that's just how math works.
absolutely in love with nikki taking a few seconds to remember what happened in 2001 and then the fact checking about kelly clarkson right after 😂😂
The girl in the princess story- the mom can stay a princess cause this daughter is a QUEEN. Slay girl slay.
(27:27) this young girl sounds kinda like how I was growing up as a trans man, and my dad somewhat acted like that too. Hope she gets out. Her parents getting divorced is probably the best thing that can happen from my experience. Get away from that man
Absolutely astonishing how many problems can be solved with the sentence "get away from that man"
no I completely agree. I'm nb and the visceral reaction to his little prank is exactly what I would have done. like I never care about stuff like that usually but lord
"I don't condone murder BUT-" excellent start skskskks
Things I am grateful for this Sinmas (in no particular order):
1.) Queen Anne chocolate covered cherries
2.) Peppermint Bark
3.) My dog, Jasper (the goodest boy)
4.) Minecraft
5.) My friends
Edit: 6.) Luigi (the absolute legend)
The way i fully expected your ad read to be "I like to unwind after a long day at work with today's sponsor, Bellesa."
I was like no way is that the ad thats happening rn 😂 it wasn't, but I was like ANNA
Me too! 😂
😂😂😂 I went there too
Same here 😂
SAME
Here to say that the "2001: A Space Odyssey" reference absolutely sent me. I did not expect such an iconic movie to be mentioned. Nikki is a learned and cultured queen 💅🏼❤️
13:49 The school to prison pipeline is talking about how students who are disciplined in school are HIGHLY more likely to end up in prisons. It's very racially driven, systematic oppression.
-From a teacher
Not disciplined- OVER disciplined. A student doesn't want to participate in gym class because of an aching stomach? Dragged out of class by the resource officer. Not participating during class? Day of in-school suspension. Before these students get halfway to graduation, they already have rap sheets. They're making criminals out of school children.
It's very complex issue that runs deeper then just discipline in schools, I feel like trying to sum it up in one sentence doesn't do it justice.
the schools in my county banning phones, non-clear bags, hoodies, etc and suspending/punishing kids for being caught w any of these are gonna see a lot of this i feel
Also very disability driven. Loads of disabled kids, especially disabled kids who are POC, get punished for existing. And often times many rules punish the disability itself and not fitting in to NT and strict capitalistic standards.
@@hayliekendall7995 Fair. It handles sexism, racism, ableism, the prison industrial complex with a history of slavery and corporate greed, and institutions of schooling for nationalism in the US, etc. it’s so much…
so sorry to say that "i'm seated, i'm gagged!" is going to become a new vocal stim for me
My daughter is 12 and she’s brutal. We’re very close, but she’ll still judge me SO hard. Middle school years are rough!
She'll grow out of it, it's part of growing up to start to distance yourself from your parents. It can be a bit crushing as a parent but if you have a good relationship, there will often be a return to that closeness without the judging and eye rolling. Somewhere around college age usually, based on anecdotal evidence and my own observations.
It sounds like you are doing a good job. ❤️ It can be hard and parenting can often feel a bit thankless, but I believe and hope the best for your relationship. Your daughter will likely grow up to be close to her mama, thanks to the respect you show her now.
Unsolicited advice. Feel free to ignore
As someone who used to teach middle school, I think you could talk to her about whether SHE is feeling judged at school. Once you talk about it and how it affects her, you can point out that she's doing the same to you and that you can be confident about who you are, even if people don't like it.
John Mulaney would agree.
shoutout to my dad for being a girl dad in a good sense, as he wanted daughters (he’s an artist and has never touched sports, absolutely petrified of having sons that family would force him to raise all sporty) and has always just been our biggest supporter- he doesn’t really treat us like “girls” he treats us like people, and has never viewed us like these dads. he keeps plan b stocked in case one of us (or our friends) needs it, was supportive as hell when my sister and i both came out, and has always kindly interacted with our partners and friends. recently he found our one of my best friends isn’t very close with her dad, and he’s like adopted her, he always makes sure our house has the snacks she likes and makes like dad jokes to her TT
this just turned into a rant about my dad but i love him so much oh my god
I guess technically I'm a girl-dad, girl dad. Since I'm a trans woman with a teen daughter, but I would never force her to call me Mom if she wants to call me dad, so that's where we are at LOL.
I cocked my head like a confused dog at girl-dad girl dad till I saw you were trans
That's such a fun way to put that ❤
The only correct way to be a girl dad
- a trans masc mom friend
A femme woman in a #1 dad hat sounds like such a look
If you want her to call you feminine things instead of masculine, it's your right to ask her to call you mom instead of dad because you'd want to teach her to gender people correctly, yknow? But it is up to you
The cool thing about parental titles is that it isn’t necessary linked to gender, like sometimes single parents are both mom and dad, some men are moms, some women are dads ❤
To think our speaker of the house did the purity ball shit. Really good episode of SVU where they did this and it was all based on the Duggars.
3:39 he wanted that rose for himself 😔😔
Bahahaha true 😂😂😂
Wiat so that was the context?
I'm pretty sure they're just joking. Since the dad did make it seem like he wanted it lol.
Imagine being that first kid and seeing that tiktok and being like "awe, my dad filmed me catching a rose, how nice, I get to cherish this moment forever-" and then going "oh... why is my dad frown- oh..." LIKE OHMYGOD I WOULD BE MORTIFIED !!!
Screw everything Sinmas, Nikki and Anamarie should do a collab everyday, this is by far the best collab duo.
This and Anamarie & Chad Chad
AND FUNKYFROGBAIT
@@intensehummingofevilthem too, definitely
IMHO Jacob Andrew Sharpe ought to be in this rotation.
@julieneff9408 Jacob Sharpe and Kurtis Connor is DEFINITELY extremely high on the list
100%, they're amazing together
13:21
This!! Its such a huge thing we gotta talk about. I'm a bi girl, and I'm currently dating my first cis man (love him
OMG NOT MY FAVORITE 2 UNSERIOUS TH-cam QUEENS COMING TOGETHER ON THE 7TH DAY OF SINMAS! 😭😭😭 This is the best sinmas present I could've ever asked for!
I really like how the corporation the CEO worked for was like, “Actually, he was fighting FOR the people, and fought to provide healthcare for so many people and not profit off of suffering.” While he was actively in litigation for insider trading and was head of an organization that rejected more claims and profited more than any other health insurance organization in the country. 😂 Everyone send Luigi a Christmas card y’all.
Teenagers being scary is true. I remember watching a TH-cam video where these four middle schoolers made a couple adults cry from how vicious they trolled them.
“Teenagers scare the living sh!t outta me! They could care less, as long as someone else bleeds! So darken your clothes, or strike a violent pose, maybe they’ll leave you alone- but not ME!”
i’m grateful for the elf bar and monster nikki gave us last sinmas
I would love if the swimsuit one ended up being because the dad took sun exposure safety seriously. That would be wholesome and sweet. No two piece, no one piece, full coverage to protect my daughter from UV
I was pro-one piece for that reason but someone else pointed out the benefit of a tankini (or rashguard) and bottoms to facilitate their often immediate bathroom needs and that wins imo. One band of skin would be less annoying to reapply spf than cutouts so I'm still against cutouts in kids swimsuit designs.
@ oh definitely on the easy off swimsuit for littles. I just like to imagine that’s why he was policing his toddlers swimsuit
also unfortunately there are people who think inappropriately of children “less covered” so i couldn’t tell see if the dad was thinking of safety but he was the one being gross about it
The “dresscoding daughter” one seems to be written by the mom tbh. The username is “Creepella” something, there brothers berated feminine things to OPs face and OP consequently stayed away from anything feminine, etc. It seems like a woman who grew up in a predominantly male household where feminine traits were harshly criticised, so she’s struggling with how to navigate her daughter wanting to exhibit feminine traits in the future.
31:50 i was literally sitting here like "he sounds like a *dog,* please someone say he sounds like a dog" and then Nikki backed me up
Pre-k (4 year olds) teacher at an ISD here and after the day from hell it was so unexpected yet so so sweet to be called out in such a positive way! Thank y'all!
I got the 2001 movie reference! But I'm 50. ETA: I am grateful for the fact that my crappy dad is safely stashed away in a decent memory care facility. It's better than he deserves, but I am a better daughter than he was a dad. ON TOPIC.
this is the funniest way i’ve seen this worded
I got it and I'm 19! My favorite movie!
this is so funny you're a queen
In 2025, we aren’t team Edward or Jacob. We are team Alice like we always should have been
thank u so much for the framed photo of luigi...
I read New Moon on the bus to middle school and ugly cried when Edward left then just skipped through the entire portion with just Jacob haha
Omg finally someone else who talks about the way Jacob kissed Bella against her will. It creeped me out so much when I read it too and I think about it every time someone say their team Jacob. Like he literally SA:d her..
Also, it’s like known that if Edward wasn’t a thing, Bella would’ve ended up with Jacob. But he emprinted on Renesme which is Bellas child, and since women are born with all their eggs, would he imprinted on his own daughter? The thought grosses me out.. but it kinda fits the theme of this video i guess😅
lol i was like in elementary school & thought jacob was hotter so i was team jacob (i never read the books) but now i’m team edward
But also Edward broke into Bella’s house and watched her sleep, which imo is just as bad. I truly hate the series now just because of the messed up things in the “romances”
@@joansapy6648they're both awful, the entire thing is just gross. i've seen ao3 fanfictions that were better written and less creepy, and i hate how a lot of mainstream published romance novels still have those gross things in them even after all this time
@ I knoooowww… and the way Stephanie Meyer tried to justify it in midnight sun (edwards pov) is just plain gross. Like dude he just broke into a random girls house to watch her sleep (after thinking of killing her in extreme detail) there’s no justifying that shit..
32:40 No they don't! That is an old wive's tale. It's just coincidence and the relatively short amount of time between periods: eventually, something might sink up, and you're probably more likely to know when the women in your home are having their period vs women you don't live with, so it's gonna seem like "oh, it's more common when you live together." no, you just have lopsided information.
6:40 the gasp I gusp when I thought for sure this video sponsor was going to be for adult toys again… I was like “whaaaaat?!” But also “you know what, you go gurl” 💅💁🏻♂️
honestly as someone who was in high school in 2001, it actually was great until september, then it was sort of weird and somber and obscenely patriotic
18:01 he looks like he snuck onto earth 😭🙏
So according to science cycles syncing is a myth but most women have anecdotal evidence, but given cycles are about 28 days and there is about 30 days in most months it’s just more likely for women periods to be close enough together to make it seem linked.
And cycles can normaly be 24-35 days, and can vary (normaly) by a few days for one woman cycle to cycle, so women can go in and out of phase with each other quite often. PCOS, adolescence, perimenopause - all of which are common - and other factors can cause even more variability.
Love the colour of Nikki's hair.
If I was brave I would have my boomer iron grey old man hair dyed blue or turquoise.
Back on topic...
I am so jealous. That moment the babby received the rose was soooo sweet! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Would have been made up to the heavens if that was my daughter...who is now 28 but still my princess lol
ps Props to the knight for the throw! Good shot sir knight!
Do it!! I meet a lot of boomers at work and so many have coloured hair - pastels, neons, multicolour - it always looks so good!!
@@MILLlWATT
It's funny that I've rarely worn colourful clothes and I wonder if it's because I've lacked self confidence and never wanted to draw attention to myself.
But now I have some clobber because the colours make me happy and feel good.
The good thing about getting old is that one tends to give less and less of a shit about what others think about oneself! lol
Am in the process of moving home.
So new hair for a new start would be good!
@ new hair is always the best! i've gone back to natural after years of every colour ever and then some, my dad helped me with a rainbow mohawk even -it's a fun and incredibly addicting change, and really good, easy to use hair dye is so easy to come by nowadays - my favourite brand never got over $10 aud and I could get it from my local supermarket! 10/10 you gotta have a crazy hair phase in life, it's surprisingly healing taking such radical, yet such low stakes control over your own self
You can do it! I always love seeing old men with brightly colored hair, it looks wizardy in the best way
@@darkstarr984
I'd like to think I'm rocking a Gandalf the Grey look atm, but in reality it's more Rasputin without the ra ra! 😂😂
The "overprotective" dad reminds me so much of my dad. These types of parents genuinely do not want their children to be independent or self sufficient in any way. They only care about controling their children.
43:35 HE HAS NO RIGHT TO BE USING AN ARCANE SONG IN THIS VIDEO. DONT TAINT THAT MASTERPIECES IMAGE.
REAL
And with a dialogue from Princess Diaries 2. That's a crime
@ fr we simply must gatekeep. The girl dads ruin everything 😭
24:30 bro this is reminding me of my dad and let me tell you, that is in no way a good thing. that poor girl is dealing with very selfish and controlling parents, and she’s going through a lot no doubt just solely based off of what he said. it’s a truly scary world out there, especially if your parents are the ones contributing to your pain.
1:21 OMG YESSSS GIMME GIMME LUIGIIIIIII
I ACTUALLY DO REMEMBER WHERE I WAS WHEN I READ THE JACOB SCENE LOL
I remember finding that scene genuinely upsetting. Like a weird tonal shift from the rest of the series for the most part. I was like 10 lol
Honestly getting rid of the fan during Sinmas is perfect, it's a bunch of videos in a row so everyone will get it out of their systems real fast, plus she's a sinner for getting rid of it.
I'm so glad my dad is just some guy. He's so dumb in many regards, like it genuinely shocks me sometimes, but at the end of the day he's just some guy and he loves me and my mom and asks me what i want for dinner at 10AM.
YALL ARE SUCH A GOOD COLLAB OMG!!
The only girl dads i support are the dads that cheer on their daughters with everything they do, are comfortable buying period products when she needs them, stand up for her when she needs it and love her no matter what path she takes in life or who she becomes.
lol the dad calling his daughter a pick me for having her own opinions
honestly "pick me" has been ruined the way "karen" was ruined. they both meant something originally but now a significant amount of people have taken both to just be "woman doing something i don't like"
we need to just put the big boy words back on the shelf until these kinds of people figure out what the hell they mean
i love that you guys went off topic to talk about the type of cute girls you like true wlw solidarity
#BRINGTHEFANBACK
Not my hangry ass thinking chicken strips when she keeps asking “the one piece or the two piece?” 😂🐔🍟
The girl who lied to her dad should tell him that if he stops paying she'll join the military to help with the cost.
41:13 that was a PERFECT Bratz “ewW” omg
16:48 This Girl is 16 now, I really wonder how shes doing.
I'm grateful for 9 years of having escaped a living situation with a family like these, being spirited away by my best friend, being able to transition, and am now engaged to said best friend after understanding our queerness
Happy to see Nikki back on the channel! Love you guys!
The best gift ever is more Nikki content omg WE MISS U NIKKI COME HOME SOON 😋🩷
I remember getting a rose from the green knight at Medival Times when I was seven. It was so cute because he came right up to us because we were in the first couple rows.
You KNOW you're locked in when you sense the sinmas series upload.
23:47
TEENAGERS SCARE THE LIVING SHIT OUTTA ME 🎶
My brain could not refrain from commenting this lol
Nikki is the absolute best. So glad that you two collaborated again
I’m grateful for soup, and soup weather. Very comforting, magical soup.
wheres the fan?? did it also sin?
38:25 my dad may or may not have threatened to take me out of college because I spent the night at my boyfriend’s house at 21..
Nikki has the vibe of your friend’s cool older sister who shows you underground artists. Love her.
That last girl and her dad make a ton of concerning videos together, and she’s always touching him on the chest. It’s so creepy.
I'm grateful that my 11 year old dog Tank is happy, healthy, and an overall goofy guy who is loved by many.
I'm grateful for every little change I notice from being on T for these past few months. My facial hair is just starting to become visible!
On the "giving your daughter a dress code" part, I rolled my ass over so fast when trying to sleep when you said "imagine if the they're the most masculine lesbian there ever was". I'm a trans guy. THAT WAS ME xD I wasn't dressing in "skimpy clothing", I just was one of two "girls" in my Catholic school that wore slacks instead of a skirt. xDD