I needed this so bad!!! Thank you kris Reece! I'm learning so much! I've been like this ever since that girl hit me over a month ago and broke my neck I keep saying oh what was me no one understands me I have a broke neck and a total car and they did nothing to her but now I'm starting to see the truth thank you again kris Reece!!
@@kyndallsloan8455 I'm so happy to hear that you are turning to God for comfort and justice. He will never fail you. I pray you continue to lean into Him and he will guide your next steps. Blessings!
A very powerful word thank you. Accepting victimhood as our identity is how we block ourselves from making decisions, solving problems, and taking responsibility. It’s rooted in fear (the powerful tool of the Enemy). Unfortunately, victims struggle with finding joy and peace, and all the other fruits of the Holy Spirit. When I start to blame and feel helpless, I pray, “Father God, what do YOU want for me at this moment?” His reply is always an action I can take (which gets me out of helplessness) and the action always draws me closer to Him.
So true!! This is me ....listen if we stay in in that pain for too long we become that victim forever. I have caught myself in that mess actually creating situations so I could feel like a victim and never having to do or be responsible . If I stayed a victim then everyone had to take care of poor me. That is not a healthy spirit of God I feel it is more like the Adversary spirit...poor me!!
Where have you been all my life? Just discovered your channel. I always miss the lives.:( Its been so helpful. Been watching a ton of these. Thank You so much
1 Stop making excuses!! God may understand but many won’t!!❤️ No Blaming!! It’s Victim 2 Taking Ownership for your Needs!! High Expectations of Others!! Set Boundaries!! 3 See yourself/God correctly!! We minimize God in our eyes!! God Blaming vs Truth of WORD 4 The ROOT!! Neglectful Parent!! 5 REPENT!! Judges others instead of self accountability!! Trusting Gods Justice is for you as stated in His WORD!! 6 Forgive!! Don’t Stay Justified in your Anger!!
I have both issues of victimhood I am an innocent victim of unequally yoked adultery which makes me a bastard child, my mother gaslights and mentally abused me in my adulthood. Edit: My victim mentality is i consider myself an abomination, a screw up, an anomaly etc every time i do something even the slightest wrong
2nd Timothy 3:1-7, says it why. And also, for the narcissist ex wife, her mom and their 2nd husband's included a Baptist pastor from Bainbridge Island, Mark 10:12, and Roman's 7:2-3. I was their victim, and their husband's will be next anytime soon.
Thanks for your thoughtful truth of what God does and thinks of his fofollowers. I have been praying for my need of spiritual coaching. I'm not a victim of anything except my own life. Not sure what I could receive from this type of help. Please advise me if you work with clients that are bipolar and on medication along with VNS implant. I have only been a Christian for 10 months. New to the Bible. Also have been trying to learn how to text. I have lost my last consler due to Covid conditions and his unexpected early retirement. We are able to text with one another but I didn't know how to make sense of psychology behind his and my Doctors instance on warning about religiosity. My consumer used it to explain why l was set on fire and was in the burn unit. My parents blamed me for asking on my and our daughter's best interest that she should not stay with my husband and was told no. I stay in the relationship for my daughter sake. I hated myself because I feared for our lives allowing MYSELF TO BE ADDMITED IN STAY TREATMENTS. I WAS UNAWARE OF HOW MUCH CONTROL I GAVE TO HER. I HAVE DISCOVERED THAT I AM BETTER OFF NOT ALLOWING HER TO CONTROL ME. I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD. FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE . I HAVE LEARNED TO READ,PRAY,EXPERIENCE PERSONAL GOD GIVEN GRACE AND MERCY .HAVE NOT BEEN PLACED IN A PSHCY HOSPITAL SINCE 2005. Been blessed to have outlived my entire family and ex-husband . I placed my old friends that are Pasters. As very good people who would be happy to give their testimony when I was able to read English. I am a 70 year old shut in and have called some churches. I have always pray for my old friends and ask God to help me to understand why they would not invite me to one of there own services. I may never have the answer for thier behavior.
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I needed this so bad!!! Thank you kris Reece! I'm learning so much! I've been like this ever since that girl hit me over a month ago and broke my neck I keep saying oh what was me no one understands me I have a broke neck and a total car and they did nothing to her but now I'm starting to see the truth thank you again kris Reece!!
@@kyndallsloan8455 I'm so happy to hear that you are turning to God for comfort and justice. He will never fail you. I pray you continue to lean into Him and he will guide your next steps. Blessings!
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A very powerful word thank you. Accepting victimhood as our identity is how we block ourselves from making decisions, solving problems, and taking responsibility. It’s rooted in fear (the powerful tool of the Enemy). Unfortunately, victims struggle with finding joy and peace, and all the other fruits of the Holy Spirit. When I start to blame and feel helpless, I pray, “Father God, what do YOU want for me at this moment?” His reply is always an action I can take (which gets me out of helplessness) and the action always draws me closer to Him.
So true Jane. Thank you for sharing and watching!
@@paigeseemarie. thank you! Hope you have the best year ever.
So true!! This is me ....listen if we stay in in that pain for too long we become that victim forever. I have caught myself in that mess actually creating situations so I could feel like a victim and never having to do or be responsible . If I stayed a victim then everyone had to take care of poor me.
That is not a healthy spirit of God I feel it is more like the Adversary spirit...poor me!!
Love this Biblical Honesty❤Thank you ‼️ ‼️
Strong and loving message. Thank you. Be blessed.
Where have you been all my life? Just discovered your channel. I always miss the lives.:( Its been so helpful. Been watching a ton of these. Thank You so much
So good! Thank you. Praise Jesus!
I absolutely needed this video. Thank you so much!
I'm so glad it helped. Thanks for watching
I am encouraged. Thank you Kris Reece...just subscribed to your channel. May the Lord God use you mightily 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you Glenda!
thank you for this video! God bless you and your channel!❤🙏🏽
Thank you!
Good morning afternoon blessings 🙌
Thank you!! So Much 💕 I needed this!!
Thank you for this message
Thank you so much
I am so glad I saw this video bc it's biblical. Also the amount of times you said my friend like an African aunty is hilarious to ne
1 Stop making excuses!! God may understand but many won’t!!❤️ No Blaming!! It’s Victim
2 Taking Ownership for your Needs!! High Expectations of Others!! Set Boundaries!!
3 See yourself/God correctly!! We minimize God in our eyes!! God Blaming vs Truth of WORD
4 The ROOT!! Neglectful Parent!!
5 REPENT!! Judges others instead of self accountability!! Trusting Gods Justice is for you as stated in His WORD!!
6 Forgive!! Don’t Stay Justified in your Anger!!
I have both issues of victimhood
I am an innocent victim of unequally yoked adultery which makes me a bastard child, my mother gaslights and mentally abused me in my adulthood.
Edit: My victim mentality is i consider myself an abomination, a screw up, an anomaly etc every time i do something even the slightest wrong
This is the true mentality of a Narcissist, but can they actually see it in themselves? Probably not!!
What is the victim mentality?
I was violently raped years ago and the person is still abusing women with no punishment. Why ?
Christians think they can get away with everything
2nd Timothy 3:1-7, says it why. And also, for the narcissist ex wife, her mom and their 2nd husband's included a Baptist pastor from Bainbridge Island, Mark 10:12, and Roman's 7:2-3. I was their victim, and their husband's will be next anytime soon.
Thanks for your thoughtful truth of what God does and thinks of his fofollowers.
I have been praying for my need of spiritual coaching.
I'm not a victim of anything except my own life. Not sure what I could receive from this type of help. Please advise me if you work with clients that are bipolar and on medication along with VNS implant.
I have only been a Christian for 10 months. New to the Bible. Also have been trying to learn how to text.
I have lost my last consler due to Covid conditions and his unexpected early retirement.
We are able to text with one another but I didn't know how to make sense of psychology behind his and my Doctors instance on warning about religiosity. My consumer used it to explain why l was set on fire and was in the burn unit. My parents blamed me for asking on my and our daughter's best interest that she should not stay with my husband and was told no. I stay in the relationship for my daughter sake.
I hated myself because I feared for our lives allowing
MYSELF TO BE ADDMITED IN STAY TREATMENTS. I WAS UNAWARE OF HOW MUCH CONTROL I GAVE TO HER.
I HAVE DISCOVERED THAT I AM BETTER OFF NOT ALLOWING HER TO CONTROL ME.
I HAVE BEEN ABLE TO START A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.
FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE . I HAVE LEARNED TO READ,PRAY,EXPERIENCE PERSONAL GOD GIVEN GRACE AND MERCY .HAVE NOT BEEN PLACED IN A PSHCY HOSPITAL SINCE 2005. Been blessed to have outlived my entire family and ex-husband .
I placed my old friends that are Pasters. As very good people who would be happy to give their testimony when I was able to read English.
I am a 70 year old shut in and have called some churches.
I have always pray for my old friends and ask God to help me to understand why they would not invite me to one of there own services.
I may never have the answer for thier behavior.