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You are not the Assistant Jesus Christ - If it doesn't work, QUIT - Benjamin Zulu on dating

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 มี.ค. 2021
  • #SwitchTV #FullCirclewithMwikali #BenjaminZulu

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  • @SwitchTVKenya
    @SwitchTVKenya  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Do not forget to subscribe to our TH-cam channel.. Click here to subscribe -- th-cam.com/users/switchtvkenya

    • @alindafelix9836
      @alindafelix9836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The audio volume is low 😫

    • @macym57
      @macym57 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Could you please post the contacts for Mr. Zulu, not personal ofcourse but the one that a client would get in touch with. Thanks.

    • @kelvinjameson3764
      @kelvinjameson3764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      you probably dont give a damn but does anybody know a method to get back into an instagram account?
      I somehow lost the login password. I would appreciate any help you can give me

    • @milomathew5267
      @milomathew5267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Kelvin Jameson Instablaster ;)

    • @kelvinjameson3764
      @kelvinjameson3764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Milo Mathew Thanks so much for your reply. I got to the site thru google and Im in the hacking process atm.
      Seems to take a while so I will get back to you later when my account password hopefully is recovered.

  • @hannahkihara5532
    @hannahkihara5532 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Don’t trade your happy single life for a miserable relationship.. have you heard?👂🏽

  • @gladysngami9685
    @gladysngami9685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Under 25 and in relationships thinks zulu is just talking fikeni hapa 30 ndio mtaelewa and it will be too late,,zulu wisdom need more and bigger flatform

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    When people ghosts you, treat them as the dead😂

    • @josphinesherry5511
      @josphinesherry5511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly

    • @dianamugo6625
      @dianamugo6625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @naominjenga8709
      @naominjenga8709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I like the way Benjamin describe it like"others r like candles ad wears a suit u will see them

    • @angieangela9036
      @angieangela9036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂
      I giff up

    • @RoseMary-fe2pu
      @RoseMary-fe2pu 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wololo 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    "If you are 20, go plant a tree and grow with it first" Indeed, you have no business being in serious relationships in your 20s.Get a life!Focus on your life.Focus on your career.Grow and develop yourself in your 20s... Those are the best times to set the pace for the rest of your future.Enjoy your single-hood thoroughly in your 20s...
    Punchline after punchline on this episode! :-)

    • @nzisawambua4141
      @nzisawambua4141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How can anyone not take this serious?.in our twenties,we didn't have TH-cam or WiFi..so we couldn't watch this important videos..

    • @shirokarume9464
      @shirokarume9464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This one is so true and correct

    • @moasiyena5012
      @moasiyena5012 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's very true.

  • @mercynakandi286
    @mercynakandi286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    The issue of always being ready to walk away is really important, always know your worth. Thanks Benjamin

  • @teshshon9404
    @teshshon9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Mr Benjamin Zulu has a youtube channel..........lets follow him.

    • @gladysmamatwins1019
      @gladysmamatwins1019 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I didn't know, that's great

    • @sofi1672
      @sofi1672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please, what’s the name of the channel?

    • @tetelomampe3064
      @tetelomampe3064 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sofi1672 search Benjamin Zulu you will see it

    • @sofi1672
      @sofi1672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tetelomampe3064 Thank you, found it.

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    "Do the right things first!Poverty is a mindset!"

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    "Why should a church limit your life?" "It's very healthy to outgrow a church" "Will that denomination marry you?" "Politely migrate to a church you can find candidates to marry" Those thoughts really struck me hard!

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    i have seen it with my kids.We randomly confirm our love daily to us and ensure the other person understands.Also that they know how to apologise with love and not put each other down.I teach my son how to love and appreciate his sister because thats how he will appreciate his wife in future.

    • @faymalaika7144
      @faymalaika7144 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow!I admire that dear

    • @leahanitareddig
      @leahanitareddig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@faymalaika7144 thanks. Because the math is easy.If i want a man to love and respect me then i should teach my sone to do the same and carry it on to his wife.Because that someones daughter is any woman out there that i would pray for my sone.Also that someones daughter could be my daughter another mother is praying for his son. Its all the mirror reflection all through.

  • @joycemiracle1588
    @joycemiracle1588 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Consistent communication is a sign of maturity

  • @mama_christian
    @mama_christian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I love the title, its true I used to go into a relationship trying to play Jesus by changing someone or trying to convince someone on their potential

  • @winnieachieng2764
    @winnieachieng2764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I will never ressurect any dead spirit in my life..... RIP is the answer.

  • @beckydavid3247
    @beckydavid3247 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was once married and one day the guy texted me and told me this is not who I was looking for......I choose to walk away.

  • @Liz-pv9yx
    @Liz-pv9yx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I'm a 1st yr student at Mr Benjamin Zulu University...

    • @wecalm5258
      @wecalm5258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me here I'm almost graduating to celibacy

    • @moriahogola8665
      @moriahogola8665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      same, I am on my second term. four more years to 25

    • @lydiamwalimu8387
      @lydiamwalimu8387 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Am still a fresher

    • @adhiambogorrety3807
      @adhiambogorrety3807 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am a second year now iin this university 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @fl0rencemutuku40
      @fl0rencemutuku40 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      . look

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Keep them fearful of losing you.
    Especially when their is disrespect.

  • @ayotadhiambo
    @ayotadhiambo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    "The problem is not God or the government, it is YOU!"

  • @estherlightshow222
    @estherlightshow222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I love how this guy gets mad sometimes

    • @marilyndafeta3064
      @marilyndafeta3064 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Benjamin Zulu 🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🥂

  • @ngangindunge6764
    @ngangindunge6764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The moment I will make decision to settle down again,I will be ready.
    Thanks Zulu and Mwikali.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 3 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When someone ghosts you let them continue resting in peace

    • @jullyvlog8198
      @jullyvlog8198 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What's ghosting?

    • @kikikiki3216
      @kikikiki3216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@jullyvlog8198 people just disappearing on you and stops contacting you. You message and call and they don't respond.

    • @morineakinyi1116
      @morineakinyi1116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very true

    • @josphinesherry5511
      @josphinesherry5511 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @kimrenard923
      @kimrenard923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wanjiru eeeish from Tuko to Switch. Tuko na wewe bumber kwa bumber. But Zulu is just funny

  • @KennlitoeWanjiru
    @KennlitoeWanjiru 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Agreed Respect comes before Love

  • @kayshaddy
    @kayshaddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Mwikali's Laughter 😂😂

  • @barbaraboatengapea-kubi4903
    @barbaraboatengapea-kubi4903 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Thank you Zulu, you think like me, talk like me and today you have put all my thoughts into the right words for me. I feel proud of myself and I thank God for people like you. May we be persons of our words in action. God bless you.

  • @kemigishasylvia1708
    @kemigishasylvia1708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Let the dead people continue resting in peace... Benjamin you speak my mind always ❤️❤️❤️

  • @everlynnyaberi1120
    @everlynnyaberi1120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oooohhhh my young people lucky you take note of Zulus advice some of us wish we could change times

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    RESPECT COMES BEFORE LOVE.
    Napenda Benjamin advice.
    Develop good language

  • @serahm8207
    @serahm8207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I usually tell my gals and everyone that respect comes before love.... Nimwaigua

    • @eudiaorwa8121
      @eudiaorwa8121 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very true
      th-cam.com/video/iTD5emP0JUo/w-d-xo.html

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I can handle a man not loving me... could never handle disrespect...

    • @monicambugua557
      @monicambugua557 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nindaigwa kairitu

    • @raelnzulu143
      @raelnzulu143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yiii nitwaigwa

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I love Mwikali’s expressions when an email comes from a pre 25🤣🤣🤣!!

  • @jessicakwaro4073
    @jessicakwaro4073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kai🤣🤣🤣this man Zulu is just an inspiration aki learning alot from him

  • @lisaelly7501
    @lisaelly7501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mr Zulu, simply the best, call a spade a spade.
    Much Blessings! Much love from Tz!

  • @juliannesharpe3066
    @juliannesharpe3066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Respect comes before Love: Indeed!

  • @jeniphermbakile8274
    @jeniphermbakile8274 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    From Tanzania, I am learning a lot

  • @claireaurugai8266
    @claireaurugai8266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "For someone to pull you down, they must be down and for someone to throw dung at you they must first hold the dung themselves"......wisdom.
    BENJAMIN ZULU

  • @nancynoellahc2176
    @nancynoellahc2176 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Pre 25s please sharap🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣sharap, we cant afford to loose Zulu to BP

  • @rhodahbranice3379
    @rhodahbranice3379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    From the Reading of the comments l can say indeed people are learning alot from you Zulu n mwikali.Good job you are doing. 👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @rozzycate5239
    @rozzycate5239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mwikali plus zulu
    Just pure wisdom..

  • @wacheram3494
    @wacheram3494 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    That part of communication😏. I don't call nobody😉😉 only do it when it's necessary.

  • @emilywandalo3590
    @emilywandalo3590 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am loving it from Scotland......so much wisdom sir 💪💪👏👏

  • @lefarevealed
    @lefarevealed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a! Man God has send to change African perspectives 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

  • @hellenwanjiku167
    @hellenwanjiku167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Mwikali in future you need to put water hapo it helps. As usual thanks for ur words benja.

  • @lizonyango1547
    @lizonyango1547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow I"m learning new things each and everyday through this show,,,thanks to Benjamin and Mwikali

    • @eudiaorwa8121
      @eudiaorwa8121 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too
      th-cam.com/video/iTD5emP0JUo/w-d-xo.html

  • @Salvation123..
    @Salvation123.. 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, Mr Zulu,
    For a lady in the mid30s, this is now to my ears. Even though someone I was getting to know, who was even texting and asking meaningful questions, just vanished ... God knows why .

  • @daphinenamuli7566
    @daphinenamuli7566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wisdom Wisdom Wisdom..... Thank you Zulu for unlocking this generation

  • @rebekah1278
    @rebekah1278 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm going to throw a funeral for those that ghosted me to mark the death of the relationships.

  • @kele6wele
    @kele6wele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this man and the hosts make it even more enjoyable, thank you all

  • @maryjulius2863
    @maryjulius2863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks for helping us laugh Benjamin.... 💥years added for that

  • @moderngrandma3452
    @moderngrandma3452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Viva Benj!!!!! Saying it loud and clear ........ you may not notice but your words make differences in our lives ......

  • @carolinemwazi5583
    @carolinemwazi5583 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mismatched energies = frustration. So true. Also: respect actions more than words. Do not overlook disrespect....you're inviting abuse. Know when to stop being good. Happily married or happily single. Loving the clarity! POOR: Passing over opportunities repeatedly. The problem is not God, it's not government, it's you! Thank you for shooting straight, Benjamin!

  • @irenenjeri3544
    @irenenjeri3544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Mwikali please stop asking zulu this questions of pre 25s we dont want to loose him toB.P😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @KK-yt3ty
      @KK-yt3ty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I blame the people calling in. They should know better 😂😂🤣

    • @TheLilly
      @TheLilly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol 😆

  • @lorraineoneill9297
    @lorraineoneill9297 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Benjamin Zulu is entertaining, sensible, full of good insights and a good mentor for women who are seeking a relationship.

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    this was good lessons.Teaching your children to express yourselves from young on.

  • @pamelawanderaofficial6257
    @pamelawanderaofficial6257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    These intelligence is high way above, umenijibu Benjamin. Your show is up

  • @Mwaluzi39
    @Mwaluzi39 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Benjamin Zulu 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Much love from 🇹🇿

  • @stellahmarriswambuwah9919
    @stellahmarriswambuwah9919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💞💞💞 ITS GOOD TO KNOW SOME DECISIONS I MADE IN THE PAST WHERE RIGHT🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.ZULU ALWAYS MAKES ME 😂 😂 😂 AND FORGET MY PROBLEMS.

  • @yourstrulyKe
    @yourstrulyKe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Keep them fearful😂
    ie know your worth and what you're worthy of! 🙌 💯

    • @charitymwangi2062
      @charitymwangi2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      12:50 it is not love that makes people faithful..it is fear of losing you...👌

    • @yourstrulyKe
      @yourstrulyKe 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charitymwangi2062 Absolutely!

  • @aishahamad6251
    @aishahamad6251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    From Sudan i am learning alot

  • @annieblessing9954
    @annieblessing9954 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😂😂😂😂😂 the way Zulu reacted on the 20years old😂😂😂😂 seriously at 20 thinking about man you’re loosing yourself

  • @stormc4044
    @stormc4044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    For a person to throw dung at you , they must hold the dung themselves...!!!! This is a game changer . 🤣🤣🤣

  • @kagkats
    @kagkats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    am looking for the love button bt only seeing the like one...well done Benjamin Zulu and Mwikali. Sense sense sense....Respect should be a standard upheld in any relationship

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Build something together.
    Eeeeeiiisssshhh this is brilliant.

  • @aimeeadeti-muga8868
    @aimeeadeti-muga8868 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 mwikali "keep them fearful"
    How come I never get these sessions live, nakuwanga na maswali...

  • @annewachira4317
    @annewachira4317 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very informative show! Thanks Benjamin Zulu!

  • @elizabethkumador5513
    @elizabethkumador5513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woow am learning alot tanx, listening from Ghana

  • @mercyabenaessuah3255
    @mercyabenaessuah3255 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Happily married or Happily single" BOOM! words to live by

  • @judy-et1vm
    @judy-et1vm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this.plus a big slap on my pretty face.

  • @shellyannrichards6565
    @shellyannrichards6565 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loving this Title for the Video. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @rosenangila1125
    @rosenangila1125 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Yes, I'm with mwikali on this, Mrs zulu aletwe 😁

  • @emeldapaul5796
    @emeldapaul5796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Energy Match ....Thank you Benjamin

  • @hindenburg2006
    @hindenburg2006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Follow your heart, but carry your head with you"
    😳😳😳

  • @yousfomar2448
    @yousfomar2448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Let me alow that relationship of mine rest in peace.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sikhululekilemoyo7156
    @sikhululekilemoyo7156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thanks Zulu you are an eye opener

  • @jeffgicharu220
    @jeffgicharu220 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "Next time you get attention with experts like us please ask things that can improve your life. Don't ask about men and trousers and sleeping and sex and breakups and nonsense. You're only 20. Why are you shattering your life? Do you have a covenant with death and depression and disaster and death. What's wrong with you, you're too young."
    "Can you start with money. Look! You're broke. You have no money, you have to throw questions on TV because they're free .......can you go to the right things first. Poverty is a mindset. "😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Very good advice for a 20 year old 😂😂😂

  • @maurinewanjiku9690
    @maurinewanjiku9690 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou guys,I've learned alot

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Sometimes we have to outgrow some friendships.
    This is true

  • @sarahal-e.5389
    @sarahal-e.5389 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello from Saudi Arabia
    Big fan

  • @DenDenAgain143
    @DenDenAgain143 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Are you a marriage counselor Benjamin? I love the way you are expressive, genuine and honest

  • @maryhebrew9480
    @maryhebrew9480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    In my friendships I first look what someone is putting on the table, 🤣😂

    • @wecalm5258
      @wecalm5258 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What exactly do u bring to the table

  • @wamsufitness3217
    @wamsufitness3217 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your camera guy is goooooood🥂

  • @judy-et1vm
    @judy-et1vm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Add to my happiness or subtract your presence.love it.

  • @rosettekatusiime6710
    @rosettekatusiime6710 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am here wondering y someone would dislike this video apart from the fact that they are negative people

  • @dativanguma8310
    @dativanguma8310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stay blessed .Your doing a good job

  • @ebaianne1392
    @ebaianne1392 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I'm from Cameroon. I love the conversation

  • @pamelawanderaofficial6257
    @pamelawanderaofficial6257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Zulu I feel your pain when you see people don't think wise

  • @jamesokaro6606
    @jamesokaro6606 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Are you worshipping God or the church?!!??!
    Swali nyeti hiyo! May God help us.

  • @gracewaithira2871
    @gracewaithira2871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Enjoying listening to zulu 🥰

  • @alicedaudi5933
    @alicedaudi5933 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes ,I am learning daily

  • @vennaodhiambo5447
    @vennaodhiambo5447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Plant a tree and grow with it. Wale Wa 20s,kieleweke.
    Nice one

  • @adriennabanks2411
    @adriennabanks2411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good stuff 👏🏽😘

  • @DenDenAgain143
    @DenDenAgain143 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    HAPPILY MARRIED OR HAPPILY SINGLE😂😂😂😂. Well done 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏 👏

  • @ruthmutinda6522
    @ruthmutinda6522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Respect calls before real love...
    Ooh yes,don't trade for a miserable relationship...better stay single...

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like your everything go forward
    Your start topic so much
    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏👌✔️

  • @didihighly-favoured7163
    @didihighly-favoured7163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Beautiful dress Mwikali 👌👌👌

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please respect actions more than word's.
    Don't overlook disrespect.

  • @ruthmutinda6522
    @ruthmutinda6522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this talk
    let the Ghosts remain Ghosts please...😁😁

  • @charityscopas3751
    @charityscopas3751 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Respect to you Sir Benjamin Zulu

  • @musiimentaanitah4906
    @musiimentaanitah4906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Guy speaks soo much sense ooooh

  • @brendaingaiza5503
    @brendaingaiza5503 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow this is a great show

  • @DenDenAgain143
    @DenDenAgain143 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I tell you…I hope he is a billionaire. He has rich ideas. I feel like I can’t explain what I thinking. I appreciate what he has to say

  • @veronicahndungu4353
    @veronicahndungu4353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please heal the irritation.
    This one men have to do it often.
    Make use of crisis.

  • @kammusic22
    @kammusic22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Speaking about ghosting there is someone I recently told please RIP. We are gonna move ghosting to another level you send them a flower with writings RIP.