For people in Australia wanting to go and talk to someone about their mental health: It is called a mental health plan. It sometimes can take a while to do (40-90 minutes); so I recommend you book for a double appointment. You can usually call or go online, just let the receptionist know that you're wanting to ask for a mental health plan and they will know exactly what you're talking about. When you go in your doctor will ask you a few questions about how you've been feeling and then they will get you to fill out a small questionnaire. The questionnaire is pretty easy; best to not overthink it but don't feel that you have to rush either. The form will tell the doctor how anxious, depressed, and/or stressed you are and will allow your doctor to refer you to a therapist that they think would be most suitable. If you have a preference for a therapist you can ask your doctor about them as well. Most doctors are very understanding in these appointments. I hope this helps anyone who might be feeling anxious about having to book an appointment
it was lovely to hear Rocket being so open about what he had been going through, we tend to be so protective of our mental spaces when they aren't going well and projecting 'positive vibes' when it may not be the case. Sharing with an unbiased person through therapy is important it creates a safe space and we get tools to help reset and rethink with out the feeling we are handing off a heavy weight to a friend or family member. I think everyone one who enjoys your content truely appreciates the hard work you both do and wishes you all the best, you have certainly inspired me to get back creating.
thank you rocket for your transparency, I just realized it's not that big of a deal to just talk about it it also putting words on intimate feelings that's help. Just thank you so much for sharing you guys are simply amazing.
Little cat tutorial for first owners: I had multiple cats that were very well behaved and you can actually teach them tricks if you have the patience. (I taught them come here, sit, jump, go down, and fetch :)) What is essential is to understand how to communicate with them. If you don't want them to do something stare at them. If you want them to come to you give them a blink with both eyes. Never use your hand as a toy for them to play with it is only cute when they are a kitten afterwards it just hurts.
Petting: cats have their own mind where they like to be pet or not. A good rule of thumb is to greet them before you pet them. So they can anticipate a touch. Sometimes cats will scratch because you scare them by suddenly patting their lower back for example. When petting try not to stroke so fast or hard that you create static it is uncomfortable for the cat. If you pet them too intensly or long they can become oversimulated. If you then do not respect that they no longer want to be pet they might leave or become agitated.
All super good advice! Also if you let a cat get away with something once, you have to train them all over again. You can train cats to not use their claws. It takes a long time but just keep up with it. Make sure that you buy a scratching post for them and tell them what good cats they are when they use it. Then discipline them when they use their claws on any furniture or carpet. When they are on you and kneed you with their claws, grab their paws and squeeze it hard (not too much of course). You'll have to keep doing it for a while. My cat never uses his claws on me even when playing. My husband didn't keep up with it so his legs get dug into. Their claws come out when they are excited or happy even, so it's really good to train them not to do this so they are nice when they are on your lap or playing.
I taught my cat how to sit and lay down. Shes passed away now but the other one that I bring outside knows how to come to me when I click my tongue. (Shes always supervised when outside)
such a cute little baby! please don't take this the wrong way, but i hope that your next pet if and when you get one will be adopted from a shelter. there are so many homeless animals that deserve just as much love as tonka!
To maybe add to that question about taking on hobbies while depressed - As someone who deals with depressive episodes pretty frequently, I've found that the difference between a fulfilling and unfulfilling past time is how much I challenge myself. I feel the most reward - and the most relief from my mental health issues - when I take on something that I haven't done before and have even a bit of success with it. I think that the key to that is recognizing even the small improvements that you make. I'm a full time artist but I've been pursuing the past time of woodworking as something to not make money from or gain recognition for but to help with my mental health. An example of a challenge I would set for myself would be learning how to use a new tool or maybe even just researching a woodworking technique and learning something new. I hope this helps.
There is so much I want to say! Your vlogs are like presents, seriously a ray of sunshine every single time. Your relationship with Rocket is such a wonderful example to your younger viewers (I’m old) on how healthy partnerships should be. You are both so supportive of each other and are each other’s biggest cheerleaders. I was so moved when Rocket opened up about his mental health, not an easy thing to do, but he gave such great advice and being vulnerable to your audience will have helped a lot of people seek out therapy, help and support from their friends and family. Lastly Tonka is absolutely adorable. I love seeing people just fall in love with animals. I have 2 beautiful cats and can’t live without a feline friend. I’ve already followed his insta and don’t be shy about including him in future vlogs. Take care guys x
Ahw I really love the kitten! (I love them alll). Though I really would like to address: adopt, don't shop... buying a cat from a store is wrong on many levels and I'm not even going to explain it all (if you do some research you'll see why). I wanted to say this in the comments because you are such a big influence and a lot of peeps take example of you.
This store strictly does not buy from puppy farms. They sell/rehome rescue pets and have pets from licensed breeders. But very happy for you to leave this comment here! Ty!!
@furrylittlepeach Buying a cat from a breeder, even if they are licensed, is still shopping and less ethical than adopting a cat from a shelter since thousands of cats already need homes and breeders are just creating more of them that people will buy because they’re “prettier”, meaning less get adopted and potentially end up getting euthanized. Did you check where your kitten came from?
The “adopt, don’t shop” message is very important and, as a long time volunteer for animal rescue groups, I’m glad to see someone bringing it up. I also want to say that I hope no one will guilt trip Shaan, since it seems she wasn’t aware of the full extent of what goes on with most of these pet stores. Not to mention that she just happened to see Tonka and fell in love, which is a wonderful thing for her and him. I’m glad he has a loving home now. And maybe Shaan’s newfound love for him will inspire her to advocate for the other fur babies in the shelters :)
If you’re in the uk and struggling with mental health there is this place called my market place, they do drop in therapy sessions and the first Wednesday of every month if you ring up you can book regular counselling. It’s all free and I would highly recommend it.
Just a tip to people who are struggling with a situation similar to the person asking about the hobbies - a symptom of depression is lack of pleasure from things that normally gives you pleasure so it might not be that there's something wrong the specific activities you're doing, it could be a result of the depression.
tonka seems like such a sweetheart 🥺 i love him already. also super proud of rocket for talking a bit about his mental health and how he's helping himself. i hope more people find themselves empowered to seek help especially if the opportunity is right there. also also sooo excited for your book sha'an! hoping for the best for you and all the members of your cute little household 💛
The best, absolutely best part about kits is them falling asleep on you!! Be careful about the fridge! They follow you everywhere and will climb into the fridge and you could, unknowingly, close Tonka in there 🥶. I love cats and am delighted for both of you!!!
it sucks how many people in life dont understand that feeling of pure and absolute love you get from owning the best cat in the world. im sure it spreads across other animals too but i can only speak for kits so fa. seeing you with tonka there at the end made me tear up with happiness cause i know exactly what you guys were feeling and its so wonderful, beats every other feeling
Wow learning about the mental health system in Australia, as an American, just wow. I can’t afford mental health care even with insurance the co pays are a lot.
A KITTEN. BIGGEST TWIST OF ALL. lol "now I'm thinking I should just be more impulsive but also what if it ruins my life" a mood. (appreciative to Rocket for opening up!! his advice and personal experience is helpful, and also helps to normalize accessing and checking in with your own mental health, which feels very daunting to consider might need some attention.)
I have eczema too and I totally get when it gets worse due to stress :( I had a bad month with my face and hands but thank you for being so confident and still filming, its really inspiring
It's just apart of our lives hey. Gotta learn to be okay with it. I still feel really insecure sometimes, but as I get older I feel less obliged to hide it! Makes you really appreciate when you have clear skin though. My hands and arms still flare up but my face has been pretty good!! I'm so thankful when it's good. Hope you find a way to love yourself despite flareups!! WE DESERVE IT!
Yeah! From what I see in the vlogs I have same skin condition and I was always so thrilled when I saw Sha'an being so confident in front of the camera, despite the rash. It gives me such good vibes, that you just have to keep on going. It is what it is!
@@furrylittlepeach You're not alone with the eczema! Just wanted to share the things that have helped really reduce my flare ups in case it might help you too 🙏🏼 Mine are triggered by cold, dry air and severe dust allergies. I had to get humidifiers and have to use special pillow covers and duvets and all that anti-dust mite stuff. Also, Lanolips totally helped get rid of a flare up on my lips and kept it away for our whole winter season! Hope these tips might help a little! You are such an inspiration Sha'an!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I had eczema under my eyes for the past 4-5 months and it was not a pleasant time. Unfortunately I found out from my healthcare provider that wearing a mask was making it worse so I needed to have medication for it.
maybe i am emotional rn but i cried throughout this whole video. you snuggling with tonka, rocket opening up with what he had been going thru and just your videos in general, gives me so much happy vibes
seeing rocket w a kitten is something i didn’t know i needed. that was the purest moment 🥺 and then came along “WELCOME TO THE FAMILY. NICE TO MEET YA”
Rocket is right. I also have mental health issues to the point that my body almost shutdown. But I learned it to use to my advantage. I still get panic attacks but I have understood its purpose. "Past time can turn into a hobby" - the key here is that you just do not do things just because or for this or that. You do positive things because you can and you deserve good things along the way. You are not obliged or locked into the negative aspects of this kind of sickness.
Thank you Rocket, we love you! Ok, I’m scrolling through the comments & I’m sad. These last 3+ years have been harder than normal & many times surreal. Then you add quarantine, the aggression over wearing a mask, the need to protest racism & inequality, the pressures of the next election, it’s overwhelming. I wish the US took mental & physical healthcare seriously & didn’t treat it like a privilege, instead of a right. Also, I can’t wait to see the secret project & congratulations on Tonka.
I'm so happy the resource was available to us when Rocket needed it, and will be if I ever need it. We are very fortunate. I hope that mental health becomes a priority in legislation everywhere.
we have a similar therapy referral system in estonia, it's great! thanks so much rocket for opening up to us, i have a history of depression as well and know the struggle to find activities to enjoy doing. i think the pastime vs hobby thing could be more of a passive vs active issue - it's easier when you're depressed to do passive things like watching tv and listening to music but that isn't really enough to feel fulfilled, it's important to also have a hobby where you're actively creating something or doing a physical activity, or something where you have goals to work towards etc.
Sha'an, you're right about us in America.. Our healthcare system is sooo bad :( As someone who suffers from anxiety to the point of having to be admitted to the ER for panic attacks, I really wish our country would get it together, and understand how important it is to maintain your mental health.. And thanks to Rocket for speaking out about his depression, it means a lot to us folk who feel we're alone in our suffering.
Thank you to Rocket for sharing his experience and how helpful therapy and self-compassion was for him! And omg I love Tonka so much the way he just rested in Rocket's arms like a baby ughhhh
Hello, so I kind of stop watching videos in a while but I’m so happy that I started watching your videos again. It helps with my mental health and they make me happy. Thank you so so so much ✨❤️
Aww, Rocket, Thanks for being so open. Mental health is still sadly seen as something you hide. I've been diagnosed with a few mental health issues, Severe Depression and anxiety amongst them. I try to talk about them as often as possible to make it clear to people that it's okay to talk about it. This current time is definitely extra hard on us all at the moment and I have been extra careful and aware of mood has been. Stay strong to anyone out there suffering in silence, or not. Keep fighting the fight.
I just found your channel randomly while looking for inktober processes and I think you're my new favorite person. I love your personality, your energy, your art, obsessed!
Yes, in America, our health system is absolute shit. It was very nice to have Rocket come in and open up and the way you guys addressed it in such an empathetic way. Very wonderful to see it being talked about and how important it is to support people through.
Tonka bby is too cute!!! So so cool to hear about Australia’s approach on mental health issues thank you rocket for being so open about it. You two are freaking amazing and I’m excited for what’s in store!! Thank you for another wonderful vlog~
Awww Tonk is the cutest! 😍 he looked so adorable curled up on you Sha’an, I bet he thought your blue jumper was really comfy ☺️ and when he stretched his toes 🥰 so cute!
HE IS SO SNUGGLY!!! whenever i'm in the lounge he'll come snuggle and sleep, and when I'm working he'll come to my chair and meow and then I'll put him on my lap! It's so nice to have a little cuddle buddy! Then there's this one time of night where he goes crazy and zooms around the house ahhaha
I just wanna thank Rocket for jumping into the q&a, and also thank you Shan for acknowledging that particular topic wasn't your place to talk. Such smart, such emotional intelligence from both. All my admiration and love. Hugs from Mexico 💙
How you managed to get your loved ones to agree for you to get Tonka is beyond me. Maybe you could do a Skillshare class on the powers of your persuasion. 😅 Thank you to Rocket for opening up and sharing something so personal.
I'm dying over your new cat and this was such a fun video!!! AND crazy excited you're going to be making more videos - they really are great! Thanks for all the work you put into them. I'm also very excited to see all the book stuff - give us all the details - WE WANT TO KNOW!!!!! Did I mention how cute Tonka is?!?! I'm also always worried when I show my cats and dogs (I do a lot of "talking" for my animals when I put them in my vlogs) that people are like - we're over it - but I "make them say" funny things so I feel like it's ok.
Seeing some super good cat advice! Also if you let a cat get away with something once, you have to train them all over again. You can train cats to not use their claws. It takes a long time but just keep up with it. Make sure that you buy a scratching post for them and tell them what good cats they are when they use it. Then discipline them when they use their claws on any furniture or carpet. When they are on you and kneed you with their claws, grab their paws and squeeze it hard (not too much of course). You'll have to keep doing it for a while. My cat never uses his claws on me even when playing. My husband didn't keep up with it so his legs get dug into. Their claws come out when they are excited or happy even, so it's really good to train them not to do this so they are nice when they are on your lap or playing.
A lil note on therapy in the US. It's definitely harder to get mental health help here in the US but for those out there, know that it is okay to not be okay. There's still a huge negative connotation that comes with going to therapy where people judge you for it when they shouldn't. It took me a long time to admit I needed to go see someone. I didn't tell anyone I was going to a college counselor as well as a therapist. Both took me several weeks before I even grew vaguely comfortable being in the environment. It's hard opening up and admitting how you feel. There's such a huge push for people to be machines that are constantly moving forward and producing work. You owe no one an explanation for going to therapy or counseling or any sort of mental health help. The first step is admitting to yourself that you need help, and that you want it as well. You're strong for just admitting that, and even stronger for going through with it. Don't be ashamed to tell your doctor you want to see a therapist, or to join group help. You got this, and never forget there's strength inside you. More people have depression and anxiety than you know. I hope you have a lovely day, and thanks for the vlog Sha'an, it made my day!
*** I meant move overseas. Should have clarified. We will definitely take him if we move within australia. The reason i would be hesitant to take him overseas is having trouble getting him back into Australia through quarantine. Even when I leave the house for an hour I miss him!!!
I am an American, living in France, and I just wanted to say congratulations to Australia for such great health care and mental health care! Wonderful. And thanks for making such great videos!
from the moment tonka entered the video i was like screaming he's so precious. when I saw him laying on ur chest when u were working 🥺🥰 it was so sweet i love him so much
I’m loving the fact that in Australia it’s normal to go to a therapist and get mental health checks while in my country it’s the least thing people want to do. I mean, while I was in college i was so stressed and depressed to the point that I was getting physically ill because of the insomnia, and when i went to my family doctor he said that it was a normal thing and that i needed to get over it (spoiler: I left college after) Sorry if my english it’s too broken, i’m self taught
It makes me so happy seeing you live your life with such passion and authenticity. I really appreciate Rocket opening up, it brought me to tears because I can relate. Thank you for being you💛
❤️ Rocket thank you for opening up about everything as someone who deals with depression and PTSD it’s comforting to hear that you experience it as well. Even tho I’ve dealt with it so much in my life I have to remind myself I’m not alone. Especially now with COVID here in the states a lot of things are uncertain and on haunt so it’s difficult. Just thank you so much for opening up and letting everyone know that this something you just deal with
Hello guys, I just want to share I have been following you for the past months and your videos have helped me cope with the stress and anxiety we all are facing lately. I admire the way you deal with life and that you decided to live from art. Both sincerely shine with your own light at your oun pace and are such an amazing team. Thank you for reminding me there is nothing better than pursuing your own dreams and doing your best. Big hug from Colombia
i always feel so good after watching your videos!!!! thank u for sharing slices of your life with us, it really inspires me to keep doing what i do (i'm a film editor and i like animating and illustrating) and seeing your process is very stimulating. also, thanks rocket for sharing that. and tonka's the cutest baby ever!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you Rocket for sharing your experience. Thank you Sha'an for sharing you studio vlogs. Today's video made me feel less lonely. And special thanks to Tonka for being the best boy in the world. The shot of you lying on the couch drawing with Tonka the neck muff looked so cozy and nice. :D
About our mental health - I find what I eat reeeally affects my mind. Thank you Rocket, for sharing your experience. It is darkest before the dawn. You are so talented and also, a very gifted draw-er yourself, Rocket...I can just imagine you drawing some pics of Mr. Tonka (love your name for him). Wise sages of the ancient world said cats change our lives for the better. Great video from you both.
Ahhhh Tonka(?) knows he is soooo LOVED..."TONKA" Book coming in the near Future....and funny I never realized the sound was uaaa...until you shared this volg with the sound...YES! major improvement...Awesomeness!..
Oh my god that little cutie is adorable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍 Also, I think impulsive decisions very often turn out to be incredibly amazing - there's something magical about that sudden, crazy impulse!
Thanks so much for posting this- Tonka is absolutely beautiful and it's always a joy to see your work- I'm so excited for Bandits! Thank you Rocket as well for opening up and for the reminder about the 10 free sessions- mental health isn't always an easy thing to talk about and you're right Sha'an, it really does help people.
i just wanted to say how much i really appreciate the q&a segments of your vlogs sha'an!! especially how you really take the time to analyse the questions and answer them in depth, even tho the q might just be like a 'simple yes/no' question! i found that even though i already have a general knowledge about certain art related stuff, its really validating to hear it from another artist and to hear it explained to me with confidence, it helps me to take in the info and solidify it in my head if that makes any sense x) 💖
Loved this vlog so much 🙌🏾 also it’s so cool watching you do the tshirt design, pathfinder is the key to everything 😍 I had a very deep dive into google trying to find this fabric store, I’m so keen to check it out for myself ✨
The more pictures of Tonka on Instagram the merrier! I have a cat, she’s been with us for a year and I miss her being a kitty so, all the pics of the little nugget will light up my Instagram feed.
For people in Australia wanting to go and talk to someone about their mental health:
It is called a mental health plan. It sometimes can take a while to do (40-90 minutes); so I recommend you book for a double appointment. You can usually call or go online, just let the receptionist know that you're wanting to ask for a mental health plan and they will know exactly what you're talking about.
When you go in your doctor will ask you a few questions about how you've been feeling and then they will get you to fill out a small questionnaire. The questionnaire is pretty easy; best to not overthink it but don't feel that you have to rush either.
The form will tell the doctor how anxious, depressed, and/or stressed you are and will allow your doctor to refer you to a therapist that they think would be most suitable. If you have a preference for a therapist you can ask your doctor about them as well. Most doctors are very understanding in these appointments.
I hope this helps anyone who might be feeling anxious about having to book an appointment
it was lovely to hear Rocket being so open about what he had been going through, we tend to be so protective of our mental spaces when they aren't going well and projecting 'positive vibes' when it may not be the case. Sharing with an unbiased person through therapy is important it creates a safe space and we get tools to help reset and rethink with out the feeling we are handing off a heavy weight to a friend or family member. I think everyone one who enjoys your content truely appreciates the hard work you both do and wishes you all the best, you have certainly inspired me to get back creating.
thank you rocket for your transparency, I just realized it's not that big of a deal to just talk about it it also putting words on intimate feelings that's help. Just thank you so much for sharing you guys are simply amazing.
Sha’an and Rocket for years: We need to get a dog
Sha’an and Rocket: Gets a cat
Everyone: ... :3
S: do you like the cat? X5
R: ... *too overwhelmed to answer”
HHAHHAHAHAHHA
the level of serotonin i get from your videos is uncountable. this was so pleasing and wholesome to watch :'))
ur too kind
Little cat tutorial for first owners:
I had multiple cats that were very well behaved and you can actually teach them tricks if you have the patience. (I taught them come here, sit, jump, go down, and fetch :)) What is essential is to understand how to communicate with them. If you don't want them to do something stare at them. If you want them to come to you give them a blink with both eyes. Never use your hand as a toy for them to play with it is only cute when they are a kitten afterwards it just hurts.
Petting: cats have their own mind where they like to be pet or not. A good rule of thumb is to greet them before you pet them. So they can anticipate a touch. Sometimes cats will scratch because you scare them by suddenly patting their lower back for example. When petting try not to stroke so fast or hard that you create static it is uncomfortable for the cat. If you pet them too intensly or long they can become oversimulated. If you then do not respect that they no longer want to be pet they might leave or become agitated.
All super good advice! Also if you let a cat get away with something once, you have to train them all over again. You can train cats to not use their claws. It takes a long time but just keep up with it. Make sure that you buy a scratching post for them and tell them what good cats they are when they use it. Then discipline them when they use their claws on any furniture or carpet. When they are on you and kneed you with their claws, grab their paws and squeeze it hard (not too much of course). You'll have to keep doing it for a while. My cat never uses his claws on me even when playing. My husband didn't keep up with it so his legs get dug into. Their claws come out when they are excited or happy even, so it's really good to train them not to do this so they are nice when they are on your lap or playing.
I taught my cat how to sit and lay down. Shes passed away now but the other one that I bring outside knows how to come to me when I click my tongue. (Shes always supervised when outside)
omg guys! I tried to premiere but it didn't work this time! I'll be in the comments tho so we can pretend it's a livechat!
aa hello sha'an
Hiii Shaaan 🍎
@@marleyoo hey cutie patootie!!!
@@samanthabuyco ooooooo apple emoji! THE BEST!
No worries at all Sha'an! These things can be a bit fiddly, it's just how it goes sometimes 🌈🦕
I love how everything is so golden and vibrant 🥰
heheh always
such a cute little baby! please don't take this the wrong way, but i hope that your next pet if and when you get one will be adopted from a shelter. there are so many homeless animals that deserve just as much love as tonka!
Agreed! We will be getting a dog in the future and will definitely be looking for rescues first!
@@furrylittlepeach @caroline li Yeah, here in South Australia you can only get rescues in pet shops, which is so awesome :)
To maybe add to that question about taking on hobbies while depressed -
As someone who deals with depressive episodes pretty frequently, I've found that the difference between a fulfilling and unfulfilling past time is how much I challenge myself. I feel the most reward - and the most relief from my mental health issues - when I take on something that I haven't done before and have even a bit of success with it. I think that the key to that is recognizing even the small improvements that you make.
I'm a full time artist but I've been pursuing the past time of woodworking as something to not make money from or gain recognition for but to help with my mental health. An example of a challenge I would set for myself would be learning how to use a new tool or maybe even just researching a woodworking technique and learning something new.
I hope this helps.
Thank you for sharing this! ❤
I felt so proud when rocket said you can talk about my stuff to give advices. thanks for sharing and talking about that stuff
There is so much I want to say! Your vlogs are like presents, seriously a ray of sunshine every single time. Your relationship with Rocket is such a wonderful example to your younger viewers (I’m old) on how healthy partnerships should be. You are both so supportive of each other and are each other’s biggest cheerleaders.
I was so moved when Rocket opened up about his mental health, not an easy thing to do, but he gave such great advice and being vulnerable to your audience will have helped a lot of people seek out therapy, help and support from their friends and family.
Lastly Tonka is absolutely adorable. I love seeing people just fall in love with animals. I have 2 beautiful cats and can’t live without a feline friend. I’ve already followed his insta and don’t be shy about including him in future vlogs. Take care guys x
This is such a spot on, beautiful comment 💛
Ahw I really love the kitten! (I love them alll). Though I really would like to address: adopt, don't shop... buying a cat from a store is wrong on many levels and I'm not even going to explain it all (if you do some research you'll see why). I wanted to say this in the comments because you are such a big influence and a lot of peeps take example of you.
This store strictly does not buy from puppy farms. They sell/rehome rescue pets and have pets from licensed breeders. But very happy for you to leave this comment here! Ty!!
@furrylittlepeach Buying a cat from a breeder, even if they are licensed, is still shopping and less ethical than adopting a cat from a shelter since thousands of cats already need homes and breeders are just creating more of them that people will buy because they’re “prettier”, meaning less get adopted and potentially end up getting euthanized. Did you check where your kitten came from?
@@Kuromiicat thank you for backing up what I meant.
The “adopt, don’t shop” message is very important and, as a long time volunteer for animal rescue groups, I’m glad to see someone bringing it up. I also want to say that I hope no one will guilt trip Shaan, since it seems she wasn’t aware of the full extent of what goes on with most of these pet stores. Not to mention that she just happened to see Tonka and fell in love, which is a wonderful thing for her and him. I’m glad he has a loving home now. And maybe Shaan’s newfound love for him will inspire her to advocate for the other fur babies in the shelters :)
@@marlo_reads I 100% agree 💜
If you’re in the uk and struggling with mental health there is this place called my market place, they do drop in therapy sessions and the first Wednesday of every month if you ring up you can book regular counselling. It’s all free and I would highly recommend it.
Thank you so much for this info!! 🥰
Hi Ruby, I'm having trouble finding the site you recommended, is it "the marketplace" which is in Leeds?
@@annalyndell sorry I didn't realise I'd put my instead of the, yes it is the market place
Awh no worries, thank you! I'm not sure if I'm able to use it because I'm not near Leeds 😔
Just a tip to people who are struggling with a situation similar to the person asking about the hobbies - a symptom of depression is lack of pleasure from things that normally gives you pleasure so it might not be that there's something wrong the specific activities you're doing, it could be a result of the depression.
Thanks for sharing this!
tonka seems like such a sweetheart 🥺 i love him already. also super proud of rocket for talking a bit about his mental health and how he's helping himself. i hope more people find themselves empowered to seek help especially if the opportunity is right there. also also sooo excited for your book sha'an! hoping for the best for you and all the members of your cute little household 💛
Sha'an: this is the part where i buy a cat
also sha'an: *zooms in to a dog*
Hehehe this dog was so funny tho 😅
The best, absolutely best part about kits is them falling asleep on you!! Be careful about the fridge! They follow you everywhere and will climb into the fridge and you could, unknowingly, close Tonka in there 🥶. I love cats and am delighted for both of you!!!
it sucks how many people in life dont understand that feeling of pure and absolute love you get from owning the best cat in the world. im sure it spreads across other animals too but i can only speak for kits so fa. seeing you with tonka there at the end made me tear up with happiness cause i know exactly what you guys were feeling and its so wonderful, beats every other feeling
I would honestly just watch a stream of you cuddling with Tonka...
Emma Stitch same
OHHHH you got the jxiaoooo tiger!!!! i'm in melbourne and waiting for mine and i am SO. DANG EXCITED!!!!
YES!!! Mine took a while to come too, I think just because of Covid. Can't wait for u to get yours! We have excellent taste 😈
Wow learning about the mental health system in Australia, as an American, just wow. I can’t afford mental health care even with insurance the co pays are a lot.
A KITTEN. BIGGEST TWIST OF ALL.
lol "now I'm thinking I should just be more impulsive but also what if it ruins my life" a mood.
(appreciative to Rocket for opening up!! his advice and personal experience is helpful, and also helps to normalize accessing and checking in with your own mental health, which feels very daunting to consider might need some attention.)
I have eczema too and I totally get when it gets worse due to stress :( I had a bad month with my face and hands but thank you for being so confident and still filming, its really inspiring
It's just apart of our lives hey. Gotta learn to be okay with it. I still feel really insecure sometimes, but as I get older I feel less obliged to hide it! Makes you really appreciate when you have clear skin though. My hands and arms still flare up but my face has been pretty good!! I'm so thankful when it's good. Hope you find a way to love yourself despite flareups!! WE DESERVE IT!
furrylittlepeach this reply means so much! Thank you 🥺 and yes !! We deserve it ❤️
Yeah! From what I see in the vlogs I have same skin condition and I was always so thrilled when I saw Sha'an being so confident in front of the camera, despite the rash. It gives me such good vibes, that you just have to keep on going. It is what it is!
@@furrylittlepeach You're not alone with the eczema! Just wanted to share the things that have helped really reduce my flare ups in case it might help you too 🙏🏼 Mine are triggered by cold, dry air and severe dust allergies. I had to get humidifiers and have to use special pillow covers and duvets and all that anti-dust mite stuff. Also, Lanolips totally helped get rid of a flare up on my lips and kept it away for our whole winter season! Hope these tips might help a little! You are such an inspiration Sha'an!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I had eczema under my eyes for the past 4-5 months and it was not a pleasant time. Unfortunately I found out from my healthcare provider that wearing a mask was making it worse so I needed to have medication for it.
maybe i am emotional rn but i cried throughout this whole video. you snuggling with tonka, rocket opening up with what he had been going thru and just your videos in general, gives me so much happy vibes
seeing rocket w a kitten is something i didn’t know i needed. that was the purest moment 🥺 and then came along “WELCOME TO THE FAMILY. NICE TO MEET YA”
Rocket is right. I also have mental health issues to the point that my body almost shutdown. But I learned it to use to my advantage. I still get panic attacks but I have understood its purpose. "Past time can turn into a hobby" - the key here is that you just do not do things just because or for this or that. You do positive things because you can and you deserve good things along the way. You are not obliged or locked into the negative aspects of this kind of sickness.
that new microphone is so Good i legitimately thought someone was speaking to me whenever rocket was talking behind the camera???
cats are life, oh my god how i love them!!!they bring so much joy and are so adorable and lovable with their humans!!!!
Thank you Rocket, we love you! Ok, I’m scrolling through the comments & I’m sad. These last 3+ years have been harder than normal & many times surreal. Then you add quarantine, the aggression over wearing a mask, the need to protest racism & inequality, the pressures of the next election, it’s overwhelming. I wish the US took mental & physical healthcare seriously & didn’t treat it like a privilege, instead of a right. Also, I can’t wait to see the secret project & congratulations on Tonka.
I'm so happy the resource was available to us when Rocket needed it, and will be if I ever need it. We are very fortunate. I hope that mental health becomes a priority in legislation everywhere.
we have a similar therapy referral system in estonia, it's great! thanks so much rocket for opening up to us, i have a history of depression as well and know the struggle to find activities to enjoy doing. i think the pastime vs hobby thing could be more of a passive vs active issue - it's easier when you're depressed to do passive things like watching tv and listening to music but that isn't really enough to feel fulfilled, it's important to also have a hobby where you're actively creating something or doing a physical activity, or something where you have goals to work towards etc.
100% Agree to this. Doing something and seeing the fruits of your labour is rewarding and that usually brightens my day.
Sha'an, you're right about us in America.. Our healthcare system is sooo bad :( As someone who suffers from anxiety to the point of having to be admitted to the ER for panic attacks, I really wish our country would get it together, and understand how important it is to maintain your mental health.. And thanks to Rocket for speaking out about his depression, it means a lot to us folk who feel we're alone in our suffering.
Thank you to Rocket for sharing his experience and how helpful therapy and self-compassion was for him!
And omg I love Tonka so much the way he just rested in Rocket's arms like a baby ughhhh
Oh how I’ve missed you!!! Love you for always being a ray of sunshine and a joy to see on my TH-cam page!
You're too kind ; - ;
I can't get enough of your studio vlogs! I put them on replay while I draw and it gives me good vibes and motivation :) Tonka is the cutest!
I would love to watch you pampering your furry little baby for hours ;-) he he he!
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@@Itchban Ben! hope you've been well :)
@@Itchban hi ben!
Hello, so I kind of stop watching videos in a while but I’m so happy that I started watching your videos again. It helps with my mental health and they make me happy. Thank you so so so much ✨❤️
Aww, Rocket, Thanks for being so open.
Mental health is still sadly seen as something you hide. I've been diagnosed with a few mental health issues, Severe Depression and anxiety amongst them. I try to talk about them as often as possible to make it clear to people that it's okay to talk about it.
This current time is definitely extra hard on us all at the moment and I have been extra careful and aware of mood has been.
Stay strong to anyone out there suffering in silence, or not. Keep fighting the fight.
Thank you for sharing ❤
I love that we get to see Rocket a bit more recently, he's such a beautiful soul!
I just found your channel randomly while looking for inktober processes and I think you're my new favorite person. I love your personality, your energy, your art, obsessed!
Yes, in America, our health system is absolute shit. It was very nice to have Rocket come in and open up and the way you guys addressed it in such an empathetic way. Very wonderful to see it being talked about and how important it is to support people through.
Patiently waiting for Tonka art
oh my goodness the part where Tonka was asleep on your chest while you were drawing was so sweet!!
More of tonka in the vlogs is more than welcome! Such a sweet and cuddly baby 🤧😭
You always work so hard to give a useful answer to the questions you get, it's really kind. Thank you so much Sha'an and Rocket for your time and care
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Tonka bby is too cute!!! So so cool to hear about Australia’s approach on mental health issues thank you rocket for being so open about it. You two are freaking amazing and I’m excited for what’s in store!! Thank you for another wonderful vlog~
Thank YOU for being here heheh
Sha'an being so emotional with Tonka just made me cry af 😩😍 thank you for sharing your piece of the world with us
Awww Tonk is the cutest! 😍 he looked so adorable curled up on you Sha’an, I bet he thought your blue jumper was really comfy ☺️ and when he stretched his toes 🥰 so cute!
HE IS SO SNUGGLY!!! whenever i'm in the lounge he'll come snuggle and sleep, and when I'm working he'll come to my chair and meow and then I'll put him on my lap! It's so nice to have a little cuddle buddy! Then there's this one time of night where he goes crazy and zooms around the house ahhaha
@@furrylittlepeach oh my goodness 🥰 he sounds sooo adorable!! 😍
I just wanna thank Rocket for jumping into the q&a, and also thank you Shan for acknowledging that particular topic wasn't your place to talk. Such smart, such emotional intelligence from both.
All my admiration and love. Hugs from Mexico 💙
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How you managed to get your loved ones to agree for you to get Tonka is beyond me. Maybe you could do a Skillshare class on the powers of your persuasion. 😅 Thank you to Rocket for opening up and sharing something so personal.
I'm dying over your new cat and this was such a fun video!!! AND crazy excited you're going to be making more videos - they really are great! Thanks for all the work you put into them. I'm also very excited to see all the book stuff - give us all the details - WE WANT TO KNOW!!!!! Did I mention how cute Tonka is?!?! I'm also always worried when I show my cats and dogs (I do a lot of "talking" for my animals when I put them in my vlogs) that people are like - we're over it - but I "make them say" funny things so I feel like it's ok.
tonka is like the most well-behaved kitty :3
It brought tears to my eyes when you were petting him at the store 😭😭😭 I could really see a connection. Best decision ever 💓
Seeing some super good cat advice! Also if you let a cat get away with something once, you have to train them all over again. You can train cats to not use their claws. It takes a long time but just keep up with it. Make sure that you buy a scratching post for them and tell them what good cats they are when they use it. Then discipline them when they use their claws on any furniture or carpet. When they are on you and kneed you with their claws, grab their paws and squeeze it hard (not too much of course). You'll have to keep doing it for a while. My cat never uses his claws on me even when playing. My husband didn't keep up with it so his legs get dug into. Their claws come out when they are excited or happy even, so it's really good to train them not to do this so they are nice when they are on your lap or playing.
Something good for cats is a scratch post/box for their nails and so that they don't scratch your sofa instead!
I love how your outfits color coordinate with tonka 🥺 so cute
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the cat chooses you ❤️ that's a rule of the universe
it‘s so relaxing seeing people in the Southern Hemisphere enjoying fall while you’re up here nearly dying bc of the heat
A lil note on therapy in the US. It's definitely harder to get mental health help here in the US but for those out there, know that it is okay to not be okay. There's still a huge negative connotation that comes with going to therapy where people judge you for it when they shouldn't. It took me a long time to admit I needed to go see someone. I didn't tell anyone I was going to a college counselor as well as a therapist. Both took me several weeks before I even grew vaguely comfortable being in the environment. It's hard opening up and admitting how you feel. There's such a huge push for people to be machines that are constantly moving forward and producing work. You owe no one an explanation for going to therapy or counseling or any sort of mental health help. The first step is admitting to yourself that you need help, and that you want it as well. You're strong for just admitting that, and even stronger for going through with it. Don't be ashamed to tell your doctor you want to see a therapist, or to join group help. You got this, and never forget there's strength inside you. More people have depression and anxiety than you know. I hope you have a lovely day, and thanks for the vlog Sha'an, it made my day!
Thank you for sharing this, it's super helpful and i'm sure someone that needs to hear it will read it. ❤
I really appreciate rocket opening up ❤️ ***hugs to you both (including tonks) from England***
Sending hugs back!!
I died of overload of cuteness when Tonka was sleeping on you shoulder/neck
ADORABLE CAT ALERT
Awwww!! The kitten is adorable!!!
i has a horrible day today and this gave me a much needed smile
Aw i'm so glad! Hope tomorrow is better for you!
a pet is a part of the family so i’m sure if you guys move you can certainly bring him 💕 people do it all the time
*** I meant move overseas. Should have clarified. We will definitely take him if we move within australia. The reason i would be hesitant to take him overseas is having trouble getting him back into Australia through quarantine. Even when I leave the house for an hour I miss him!!!
okay... tonka is everything..... sooo cute!
ITS TONKA TIME BABYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!
YEEEEEEE 😈😈😈
Thank you for being so generous with your time and energy to make these vlogs - they're a glimmer of joy in this chaotic world rn!!!
It's really my pleasure!!!
I am an American, living in France, and I just wanted to say congratulations to Australia for such great health care and mental health care! Wonderful. And thanks for making such great videos!
You and rocket make me so happy.
Ahh! My question was the first question and last question?!❤❤❤
from the moment tonka entered the video i was like screaming he's so precious. when I saw him laying on ur chest when u were working 🥺🥰 it was so sweet i love him so much
Cats are the best babies 😻❤️ So adorable
I’m loving the fact that in Australia it’s normal to go to a therapist and get mental health checks while in my country it’s the least thing people want to do. I mean, while I was in college i was so stressed and depressed to the point that I was getting physically ill because of the insomnia, and when i went to my family doctor he said that it was a normal thing and that i needed to get over it (spoiler: I left college after) Sorry if my english it’s too broken, i’m self taught
It makes me so happy seeing you live your life with such passion and authenticity. I really appreciate Rocket opening up, it brought me to tears because I can relate. Thank you for being you💛
Thank you for this comment, I will let Rocket know
I freaking love y’all
Oh my god! Such a cutie pie Tonka is!
I love him!!!
❤️ Rocket thank you for opening up about everything as someone who deals with depression and PTSD it’s comforting to hear that you experience it as well. Even tho I’ve dealt with it so much in my life I have to remind myself I’m not alone. Especially now with COVID here in the states a lot of things are uncertain and on haunt so it’s difficult. Just thank you so much for opening up and letting everyone know that this something you just deal with
Hello guys, I just want to share I have been following you for the past months and your videos have helped me cope with the stress and anxiety we all are facing lately. I admire the way you deal with life and that you decided to live from art. Both sincerely shine with your own light at your oun pace and are such an amazing team.
Thank you for reminding me there is nothing better than pursuing your own dreams and doing your best.
Big hug from Colombia
i always feel so good after watching your videos!!!! thank u for sharing slices of your life with us, it really inspires me to keep doing what i do (i'm a film editor and i like animating and illustrating) and seeing your process is very stimulating. also, thanks rocket for sharing that. and tonka's the cutest baby ever!!!!!!!!!!!
It's my pleasure! Thanks for watching :-)
Thank you Rocket for sharing your experience. Thank you Sha'an for sharing you studio vlogs. Today's video made me feel less lonely. And special thanks to Tonka for being the best boy in the world. The shot of you lying on the couch drawing with Tonka the neck muff looked so cozy and nice. :D
About our mental health - I find what I eat reeeally affects my mind. Thank you Rocket, for sharing your experience. It is darkest before the dawn. You are so talented and also, a very gifted draw-er yourself, Rocket...I can just imagine you drawing some pics of Mr. Tonka (love your name for him). Wise sages of the ancient world said cats change our lives for the better. Great video from you both.
Your videos make my day omg also you are amazing at art but I was SHOCKED on how fast you put your eyeliner on OMG
hahaha, it's kind of like painting!
OMG PRECIOUS KITTTYYYY!
An angel!
omg that cat is an ANGEL
AMEN
You giving him your bread was so relatable 🤣
You just got furrier 😻 what a sweet soul 😸
Ahhhh Tonka(?) knows he is soooo LOVED..."TONKA" Book coming in the near Future....and funny I never realized the sound was uaaa...until you shared this volg with the sound...YES! major improvement...Awesomeness!..
Yay!!! And glad you like the new mic!! worth it!
I love jxao!! It's so cool to see different artists I follow support one another
Love her work!
Oh my god that little cutie is adorable!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍 Also, I think impulsive decisions very often turn out to be incredibly amazing - there's something magical about that sudden, crazy impulse!
Wow your clients are so decent !! Concatulations on the spontaneous purchase of floofy love.
Yeah, welcome Tonka! You drawing on your iPad on the couch with Tonka on your neck is the ab-so-lute cutest thing
You guys are just too cute all 3 of you 💕😆💕
Thanks so much for posting this- Tonka is absolutely beautiful and it's always a joy to see your work- I'm so excited for Bandits! Thank you Rocket as well for opening up and for the reminder about the 10 free sessions- mental health isn't always an easy thing to talk about and you're right Sha'an, it really does help people.
i just wanted to say how much i really appreciate the q&a segments of your vlogs sha'an!! especially how you really take the time to analyse the questions and answer them in depth, even tho the q might just be like a 'simple yes/no' question! i found that even though i already have a general knowledge about certain art related stuff, its really validating to hear it from another artist and to hear it explained to me with confidence, it helps me to take in the info and solidify it in my head if that makes any sense x) 💖
Loved this vlog so much 🙌🏾 also it’s so cool watching you do the tshirt design, pathfinder is the key to everything 😍 I had a very deep dive into google trying to find this fabric store, I’m so keen to check it out for myself ✨
You guys remind me so much of us 4 months ago - we got a puppy in March and were just as embarrassing and adorable. Enjoy it!
I love you, Rocket, and now Tonka too. My heart expanded!
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The more pictures of Tonka on Instagram the merrier! I have a cat, she’s been with us for a year and I miss her being a kitty so, all the pics of the little nugget will light up my Instagram feed.