Story Time My 19 Year Old Level Up Story

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ความคิดเห็น • 674

  • @misshouda1740
    @misshouda1740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1779

    To be leveled up at 19 is the greatest achievement as a woman it's the perfect timing 🙌🙌

    • @AmaLoveGoddessTV
      @AmaLoveGoddessTV 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Yup....i didn't until 24 smh

    • @crystalrobinson6349
      @crystalrobinson6349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Definitely

    • @sc-jl1lj
      @sc-jl1lj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Is it too late to start at 22 ?

    • @misshouda1740
      @misshouda1740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      @@sc-jl1lj 18_ 25 is the prime it's a perfect age to marry a wealthy man and have kids and get back in shape again

    • @crystalrobinson6349
      @crystalrobinson6349 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@sc-jl1lj No definitely not Shenia but you have to also change your mindset it starts there you have to become a priority to yourself first

  • @starrjohnson1327
    @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2150

    When I was 26 I leveled up. Changed my hair, lost weight, started taking vitamins. Men and women would break their necks looking at me because I was tall, wearing heels and a dress AND long hair to my behind! I let my family get in my dating life and ended up back with dusties! Now I'm staring over. I'm meeting men of means and looking good. Vitamins are the key!

    • @folakebianca
      @folakebianca 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Starr Johnson What kind of vitamins do you use?

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +308

      @@folakebianca Biosil drops for hair and skin. They also make capsules but the drops work quicker. Drink alot of water or you will breakout. Fish oil 2xs a day and Collagen powder. I drink 1/2 a lemon in water twice a day too. My skin glows and my hair grows honey🌠 Also, cut out as much junk, fried and dairy foods as possible!

    • @brownsugar1301
      @brownsugar1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ❤️

    • @michoum115
      @michoum115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Thanks for sharing !

    • @starrjohnson1327
      @starrjohnson1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@michoum115 No problem😉

  • @madeline7969
    @madeline7969 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    Women who are older than 25, it's ok to start now. You aren't not late, it's never too late to level up.

  • @Gawdessofficialpublishing
    @Gawdessofficialpublishing 4 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    Any disrespect at a job I leave because it slowly becomes more toxic.

    • @PreppyPrincess777
      @PreppyPrincess777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Same. In the process now....

    • @jesenializ339
      @jesenializ339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Me I think These slave masters called bosses truly have ugly rotten and decaying spirits don’t they. I mean really. Who says that to another human being.

    • @Girlygirlsread
      @Girlygirlsread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true

    • @danashaw8463
      @danashaw8463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      That's the problem I'm having with this job I have. Some reason I believe I can make it without this nonsense. There is always some woman trying to take my job. I'm over it

    • @lavellans
      @lavellans 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @Me I think Don't feel bad for them. There are good and kind bosses and leaders as well. The bad ones will use that pity against you.

  • @Brilliantskye
    @Brilliantskye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1237

    This is why I love Shera, because being naturally beautiful is not enough. You have to know your worth. You have to do the work, decide what you want and make it happen. She gives you the recipe 💅🏾

  • @SChild5.
    @SChild5. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    The 90's was fun! I too was 19 years old & started beauty school when wealthy sponsors noticed me. I went through alot & it took effort, but the perks were great; beautiful wardrobe, money, cars, fine restaurants. I wasn't ready to be with 'em. Three years later, I met more sponsors & left college to start my own business. I continue to level up & stay aware. That feeling of free is worth a thousand words.

    • @simonewal4078
      @simonewal4078 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Do you think it is because in the 90s men had more money now the economy is getting worse and worse with shrinking education.

    • @SChild5.
      @SChild5. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Simone Wal The 90's was definitely different, & people didn't have social media.

    • @nanaamakyerewaa6656
      @nanaamakyerewaa6656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hello

    • @Luxiouriousprettyme
      @Luxiouriousprettyme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      men were more men in the nineties@@SChild5.

  • @curvesbyada
    @curvesbyada 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    YES! I always tell my ladies to level up first. Because if you go out thirsty, you will come home disappointed.

  • @pikaluv1186
    @pikaluv1186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +240

    I’m tired of attracting dusties and its time for me to attract a real stable rich man.

    • @TaureanDreams
      @TaureanDreams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Go Linda!!!!!!

    • @pikaluv1186
      @pikaluv1186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      JenniferPerry1988 yasssssss

    • @xxxlegend6810
      @xxxlegend6810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@pikaluv1186 good luck! :))

    • @kenadidias8391
      @kenadidias8391 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      update ?

  • @juliamarian
    @juliamarian 4 ปีที่แล้ว +577

    May all us ladies stay on our level up game all 2020 !

  • @cordovabriana
    @cordovabriana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    I just turned 25 and I’m ready to start losing all this weight and feel the best about myself. I already have a fiancé who pays all of the bills and I don’t work. He will be helping me start a business this year and I will be getting married. I like this motivation to exercise and diet . We will be going to Hawaii with all of the high executives from the bank he works for because he is a top performing banker and I want to look sexy at the gala in my gown. I’m ten years younger than him and I want to turn heads💁🏻‍♀️ here’s to beginning the process🥂

    • @MsLolaTaylor
      @MsLolaTaylor 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Cheers to expensive, happy beginnings! 🥂

    • @DoMinique-ju2ul
      @DoMinique-ju2ul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Gooo girl!

    • @cordovabriana
      @cordovabriana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Do Minique 😘💖

    • @cordovabriana
      @cordovabriana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Freespirit30338 thanks girl 🥰

    • @sadelorraine8437
      @sadelorraine8437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes girl!!!!!! This is so inspiring 💯🙌🏽👑👑👑😩😩 get the bag and continue leveling up queen❤🤩

  • @LateshaRenee
    @LateshaRenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +346

    Shera saying "I was at work" sounds soooo hilarious lol

  • @الراقيالعبدي
    @الراقيالعبدي 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    I’m 19 lol .I just celebrated my birthday 2 days ago and I am starting my level up journey . Wish me luck 😌🤞

    • @chioma2983
      @chioma2983 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      mouad finixx same! February 17th!

    • @user-ep4jo1ev3j
      @user-ep4jo1ev3j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im February 19😊

    • @user-us3jy2mb5r
      @user-us3jy2mb5r 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How did it go?

  • @kikioside7828
    @kikioside7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    I’m 21....I left my very toxic DUSTY ex in September, since then I have been working on leveling up into a wealthier social caliber and focusing on my MONEY ....now I am launching my own online beauty business and getting a BBL in June !

    • @Positivevibes3808
      @Positivevibes3808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kiki Oside congrats!

    • @melissaworld91
      @melissaworld91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kiki Oside who’s doing your bbl?

    • @Girlygirlsread
      @Girlygirlsread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awesome, share updates!

    • @gg6162
      @gg6162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm debating saving up for a bbl myself. I already have a huge ass that makes heads turn so I wouldn't know what to do if my stomach pouch was gone too 🤪 I'll be acting up

    • @kikioside7828
      @kikioside7828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Positive Vibes 2020 dr dowbak in Miami

  • @amalsuzanne7151
    @amalsuzanne7151 4 ปีที่แล้ว +348

    I’m 18 right now and I’m grateful to have found your videos ✨

    • @valentinaesqueda3533
      @valentinaesqueda3533 ปีที่แล้ว

      same!✨

    • @avaafthatsme6093
      @avaafthatsme6093 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Hey, I’m currently 18 and was wondering how Shera’s advice has impacted you since you’ve learned it?

    • @Elise658
      @Elise658 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So ?

  • @FunkyBruja
    @FunkyBruja 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    You're giving me young Tina Knowels.

  • @nikkig1030
    @nikkig1030 4 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    Shera is entitled to her privacy and not sharing her whole life to the world for those who are spreading hate. Even if she was not being completely “honest” her ( that is worst case scenario) her advice is very powerful. She is human inside and just because she doesn’t show it, doesn’t mean it’s ok to keep bashing her . If you don’t agree with her, don’t watch her. People take what can be tailored to them and it helps them. You think the celebrities you idolize don’t have skeletons in the closet? IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT THE HELL SHE IS AND WHAT SHE BELIEVES, she still takes the energy to do what she’s passionate about and even though people think it’s “delusional” and outdated, it is still teaching people to not sell themselves. Even if Lucifer was on here saying the same thing, it is still valuable. I have been listening to Shera for a very long time and I am seeing other TH-camrs trying to bring her down and question her legitimacy.. it is very frustrating to see how low people go. It doesn’t matter what we hear or see. You haters are in complete contradiction yourselves! We have one TH-camr talking crap about her with substance abuse past issues, nobody is perfect. Let her live in peace! If you think she is brainwashing women then those women can answer for themselves… It doesn’t affect your life, so fuck off. She is very consistent and she holds her ground and that is very commendable… Whether it is the truth or not her whole being is a great conduit to help people start thinking. At least she is challenging people to think differently.. Because she is very powerful despite of what she has gone through in her life that nobody is entitled to know, she has the strength to get up on TH-cam and speak on things, despite all of the hate that she sees and receives.

    • @trinnieh627
      @trinnieh627 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      That's right! She has helped me change my life completely and I'm so thankful. I know she's helped many others. Who have the haters helped??? I'll wait... 😂

    • @minguyen0909
      @minguyen0909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Diet change everything

    • @stellablue1271
      @stellablue1271 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Nikki G EXACTLY! I couldn’t have said it better

    • @alexastop8257
      @alexastop8257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@minguyen0909 I wish I get those peels too. If anyone has an idea what works currently please share

    • @LuxLife24
      @LuxLife24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow

  • @LestheEmpress
    @LestheEmpress 4 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    Yes!! The time and effort you put into yourself is very important. You have to look and feel your best not only physically, but also spiritually and mentally.
    It's all about the confidence and inner beauty you radiate that draws a man in.
    You don't have the be the baddest b*tch, but you sure as hell have to feel like one 😉😉

  • @Fabii._
    @Fabii._ ปีที่แล้ว +173

    You’re creating a beast out of me.
    This come back is personal! Death. & reborn

  • @chineloyasmine3616
    @chineloyasmine3616 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    I’m 19 and I’ve decided to level up. I’ve always been someone with a traditional taste but I was tired of being single. I can now say I have learned my lesson and recognize my true worth. Thank you Shera for teaching us to put ourselves first and not budge for no dusty.

    • @Vivian-K
      @Vivian-K ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Me too❤❤

    • @basaninicole
      @basaninicole ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Girl me too I’m 19 leveling up 😭

    • @Coco_xoxo
      @Coco_xoxo ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@basaninicoleayeee fellow 19 year olds

    • @sinenomine9194
      @sinenomine9194 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm 19 too girly, by the time 20 hits we'll already be leveled up!

    • @coolgirlcore
      @coolgirlcore ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too

  • @Natalie8o8
    @Natalie8o8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I need to lose the rest of my weight because I already turn heads. When I get to my goal. Damn.

    • @ShantezTolbut
      @ShantezTolbut 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Natalie same Sis

    • @Natalie8o8
      @Natalie8o8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shantez Tolbut we got this. ❤️

    • @gg6162
      @gg6162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This girl! I can't leave the house without men approaching me. But my boyfriend doesn't notice bc he's too busy online looking at Instagram thots smh. Once I'm leveled up he's gonna have to get with it or get gone

    • @Natalie8o8
      @Natalie8o8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      G G You gotta have self worth!!!!! I dumped my dumb ex, lost 100 pounds and now I’m working on getting alllll the way leveled up. No man that doesn’t know my worth is going to keep me around

  • @lunaavise
    @lunaavise 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I am now 18 . I have never been in a relationship, I am glad that I found Shery, she is really the best and wisest, thanks to her, I learned a lot

  • @tuiteraz4591
    @tuiteraz4591 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Our mothers didn't explain anything to us. But You do this for us. Thank You. This knowledge was always somewhere deep down inside of me, but European standards of conduct prevented me from letting this knowledge into my consciousness. I've always been ashamed to even think what you're talking about, I was so brainwashed Subconsciously, I've always been very unhappy with men. I felt unappreciated and burdened

    • @basicbase749
      @basicbase749 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In my 30s, I feel like our mothers didn’t teach us to respect ourselves. They all raised us as pickmeishas. And expected from us to just sacrifice our happiness for others

  • @goodgirl7468
    @goodgirl7468 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Honey I turned 19 yesterday. And I’m ready to leave everything behind me and start over 💖

    • @user-ep4jo1ev3j
      @user-ep4jo1ev3j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Good luck. I turned 19 a week ago. Lets not waste time. Life is swift xx

  • @dashaylalynn81111
    @dashaylalynn81111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I love getting the things I didn't have to work for or spend my own money on😂😍💕 it's the best feeling in the world. It's like once you're used to that type of lifestyle, you can't really see yourself living any other way. I'm a Leo ♌ so the royal treatment is mandatory 👑💎

    • @KhiahPottinger
      @KhiahPottinger 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aphrodite Leo gang ♌️ ❤️

    • @kayyoung9242
      @kayyoung9242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here leo 🦁🦁🦁

    • @kv2811
      @kv2811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes girl Leo's naturally born with this mindset ♌️ shera just guiding us to perfect our skills

    • @b.freeman2118
      @b.freeman2118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PERIODDD

  • @Cute_Stuffs
    @Cute_Stuffs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    We never had mothers teaching us these we had to learn them on TH-cam

    • @venusrx4671
      @venusrx4671 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’ve never come across anyone else like this on TH-cam until recently lol God blessed me with the algorithm

  • @brownsugar1301
    @brownsugar1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    I’m 24 & my level up process just begun lol. I’m done with dusties been done. Working on myself, learning how to do my own makeup which is easier than I thought. I’m glad I found your channel.❤️ now it’s time for me to get out of Mississippi 😂

    • @fatimaabukar4374
      @fatimaabukar4374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Girl I'm 24 too and feel like I'm too late

    • @brownsugar1301
      @brownsugar1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Fatima Abukar it’s not too late. I use to think that too

    • @GiselleGetsItDone
      @GiselleGetsItDone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Girl I’m trying to hurry UP and get out of Jackson babbbbbyyyyy

    • @brownsugar1301
      @brownsugar1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LL Cool K girl I can’t wait!

    • @zambriajackson4646
      @zambriajackson4646 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Diosa Flower I’m 24 trying to get out of Tampa Florida ☀️

  • @CircumstancesNeverMatter
    @CircumstancesNeverMatter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Can definitely relate to the extended lunch break and not coming back to a job. 😂😂

    • @Chiyloko
      @Chiyloko ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The story of my life 😂😂

  • @taelahharris7154
    @taelahharris7154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I am a 19 year old mom getting my degree in nursing and getting a divorce. love your videos.

  • @mil835
    @mil835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I’m 16 and I am not focusing on the guy part but on the leveling up part, thank you for your videos 🙌🏽🥰

    • @tdesty
      @tdesty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Vrm smart the guy will naturally follow the level up

  • @loyalty.2481
    @loyalty.2481 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    lmao @ "I know he don't think I'm this size". It was just so funny the way you said it!

  • @greyahmarie0905
    @greyahmarie0905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Leveling up is key physically and mentally... especially for those of us who need to lose weight ! Thats my lazy area but thank God for cbd tea because just drinking that daily i lost weight quickly... and it is a major difference when u lose weight... im naturally curvy but beling slim thick has changed life all over again ... Good luck ladies

    • @gg6162
      @gg6162 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      CBD tea? Tell me more. I don't smoke. Does it get you high?

    • @greyahmarie0905
      @greyahmarie0905 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gg6162 no thc babe ... theirs a new rasberry lemonade flavor... u will drop weight quick, feel overall better in health .heres the link retail.totallifechanges.com/Cbuchanan0905

  • @psat21
    @psat21 ปีที่แล้ว +176

    Did mine last year at 32. I now can’t stand a guy whose not pulling 6 figures. I only deal with those. The average guy just doesn’t do it for me anymore. 😊
    As for my level up, I got my teeth done now I have the PERFECT smile. I started going gym, I take vitamins for my skin hair and nails, I stopped eating and drinking fast food. I cook all my food now and I reduced my carbs intake. I got a 1:1 lesson on how to do my makeup and I dress to impress even if it’s just to meet up for coffee. Though I still will dress down if I’m crossing the road to get milk lol. I wear perfume everyday, I drink lots of water and only drink alcohol socially and stop at 2 drinks anymore I will end up doing and saying things that reveal my old masculine ways lol 😂 I soften my voice and I walk like I’m on a runway especially when there are loads of people around.
    But since all these changes, I get A LOT OF ATTENTION from men and women. I’m dark skin and bald headed (bleached blonde) MOST of the time. I sometimes slap on the wig if my scalp gets too cold 😂 but I definitely stand out from the crowd when I make the effort.
    I remember when I never use to plan my outfits ahead of time. When I use to wear basic makeup. Now everything is STRATEGIC. Even on a date I’ll be feeding my date and sucking seductively on that cherry
    Sprinkle sprinkle

    • @janellerush2004
      @janellerush2004 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So it’s really not too late? Im 32 now

    • @jazzminh7997
      @jazzminh7997 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’m 32 and on this same path right now! We are some self aware queens!🫶🏽

    • @wouldntyouliketoknow873
      @wouldntyouliketoknow873 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It’s never too late, there is always a better version of you that you can be leveled up to! 💅 💄💁‍♀️

    • @tomboyinrecovery
      @tomboyinrecovery 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yess thank you for sharing Ik im 22 but i feel like damn if only i was hip to this when i was 19

    • @Luxiouriousprettyme
      @Luxiouriousprettyme 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      sucking on that sherry ouch

  • @LamiAtZenith
    @LamiAtZenith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I had my first level up aged 19 too, lost my puppy fat, really looked after myself - skin, hair everything was looking right. However, I was at a campus uni so I had zero exposure to the right kinds of men, and besides I didn't really know men were actually part of the level up process in terms of getting what I want from them AFTER getting their attention. I was intentionally single not really caring yet still encountered a couple dustys! lol sigh, anyway I'm 24 now in the middle of my level up 2.0 and I just want one life partner. I'm too good and I'm only getting better so I'm ready to get taken off the market haha

  • @zayamacintosh5389
    @zayamacintosh5389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    18 and already levelled up looks and body wise. Raised in the hood so I just need to be more feminine 🙏🏾

    • @Kayla_chosen1
      @Kayla_chosen1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here i need to work on my feminine energy

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Girl you age like fine wine! Ya aging backwards gorgeous

  • @ZeeGrace999
    @ZeeGrace999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Yes Shera! I’m a Pisces too and I was typical nice girl. Trying to avoid confrontation. Quiet etc. When I leveled up. I threw it out. But still remained soft feminine and mysterious. Now I’m alluring.

  • @percyastronautstatus.8780
    @percyastronautstatus.8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Shera looking like a senior in college today with that highlight ...

  • @QueenQueenly
    @QueenQueenly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    I leveled up recently. Never got so much stuff as recently. It’s been amazing from the material side. Wow. Never felt so much luxury ever

    • @clatowett
      @clatowett 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I feel you, enjoy

    • @DD_MENEN
      @DD_MENEN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here girl....lets go 💃💃💃

    • @nanaamakyerewaa6656
      @nanaamakyerewaa6656 ปีที่แล้ว

      Show me the way girl

    • @b.freeman2118
      @b.freeman2118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your face card soooo pretty so I don’t disbelieve you

  • @percyastronautstatus.8780
    @percyastronautstatus.8780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    "what u learned in cooking school " ....."umm we"re still cutting vegetables"....lol...shera is something else

  • @pikaluv1186
    @pikaluv1186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I’m 24 and should have done this years ago but I’m ready for my level up its making me nervous but I want better for myself.

    • @moniquechats5323
      @moniquechats5323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same I’m 25

    • @Metaphysicalmindspace777
      @Metaphysicalmindspace777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Linda Nguyen Do it now while you are young.

    • @pikaluv1186
      @pikaluv1186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Freespirit30338 worddd!!! If I don’t I’ll be dammed later

  • @singuensful
    @singuensful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Leveling up is important. Sometimes i wish i had more money to do everything i want but hey. I lost 30 pounds, changed my hair color and look better by the day.
    I already had that leveled up feeling back then when i was a younger hot stewardess but i was in love with a dusty who i thought would feel lucky to have me. He ended up trying to use my money for his own leveling up. Lol
    I wasn’t checking for rich men back then which was a huge mistake.
    I then stopped taking care of myself, added 40 pounds. I was also sick for some times.
    Im in my 30´s now and my goal is to look better than before. It’s harder to attract men of means when your older and dudes constantly reminding you that you aren’t the youngest anymore.
    i still work on me cause i know it can only pay off.

    • @twilight_124
      @twilight_124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Once a woman is in her mid thirties men will always remind her of her age.

    • @singuensful
      @singuensful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      twilight01 ikr I’m not done leveling up. I think i will start lying on my age cause chile 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @nymeria7239
      @nymeria7239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      @@twilight_124 Then a woman should remind those men that they aren't getting any younger themselves!

    • @nymeria7239
      @nymeria7239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      And how old are these "dudes constantly reminding you that you aren't the youngest anymore?" Be sure to tell they that they're not teenagers their damn selves!

    • @singuensful
      @singuensful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Nymeria723 from what i noticed these men are 10 years older than me. In their 40s. Men who don’t care are usually in their 50s and up. I swear these 40 yo think they are still teenagers and only want girls in their early 20s. I once dated a dude who was 43, he couldn’t perform in bed anymore, But he had the nerve to talk about my age.

  • @taliyah7830
    @taliyah7830 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s so different when your own family members start getting mad after u glow up and put so much effort in yourself.

  • @liraanchu1770
    @liraanchu1770 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Omg level up is so powerful I force myself to not go out if I'm not 10 in term of hair make up. The effect in men is amazing thank you shera for inspiring me ❤

    • @wouldntyouliketoknow873
      @wouldntyouliketoknow873 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true! When I go out with my hair, makeup, heels, men be LITERALLY running to open doors for me, offering to pay for whatever it is I’m in line in front of them getting, being overly nice. Then when I go out with sweats, no makeup, hair undone (I stopped wearing bonnets outside, thanks to Shera! 🤣🤣🤣), I may as well be another man with the treatment I get looking like that 😂

  • @SChild5.
    @SChild5. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Some folks don't understand that you can level up, & still be not content or at peace with those around you. Shera, you keep it real on your channel; I've sharpened my skills when you get on live, & even learning to decode more. Some people are lucky to have you as a friend.

  • @marianrising5557
    @marianrising5557 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    I'm 19, I'm a Virgo, and my mom's a Pisces. We can be too giving! My mom was talking to me the other day how she wish she didn't take what the church said so seriously and used her sensuality to her advantage because "hoes are winning" 😂 to be honest, I can't pursue the gold digging life style whole heartedly, I've landed a job that pays $800 - $1k a week which is more than what my sugar daddies were giving me. My boss wants to move me to a 6 figure management position in the next 7 months as well. It can take a lot of psycho analyzing to get a man to pay you with the least amount of sex, or the Sugar Daddies nowadays will give you a dirt poor allowance. I'm a good weight, I get told many times I have the perfect body, the most beautiful smile and hair, I'm an esthetics students so I take my looks VERY seriously, but it takes so much time and effort into cuffing a rich man. Have your career going, but dont let it consume you. Same thing with gold digging for me. Embrace that feminity! 💫💕

    • @wheathusk2499
      @wheathusk2499 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Thats right sis! I think for people like us its just the mindset n attitude. I will advice you being older n having been in ur place to get with a man who is similar or better dont date down if you do he has to be really good supportive help out with work. If u dont choose money choose a man with a drive who is always going going. Achiever females tend to go for relaxed men but those aren't good the reason they're losers is not money its their attitude towards life of laziness n riding on others shoulders. Be careful of that sis bc I had this experience.

    • @katyjimenez-wc7bb
      @katyjimenez-wc7bb ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s right girl 🎉proud of u I landed my first job at 19 paying me 1k weekly as well and I never looked back but we still will
      Marry men that are worthy and loyal❤

    • @aruytpadyugf
      @aruytpadyugf ปีที่แล้ว +3

      What job is paying you 1k a week at 19?

    • @wouldntyouliketoknow873
      @wouldntyouliketoknow873 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@aruytpadyugfthis is attainable in certain areas like New York, California, Las Vegas, etc. But I am curious what job she is speaking of too.

    • @aruytpadyugf
      @aruytpadyugf ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@wouldntyouliketoknow873 I’m from LA and most 19 yr olds are not making 1K a week here unless they are specialized in a field

  • @user-ep4jo1ev3j
    @user-ep4jo1ev3j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I have always had a level up mindset. At this point in my life (just turned 19) i want to be spoiled by high value men and network with men of means

  • @Asigedge
    @Asigedge 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    My first level up was 19. Had gotten out of a toxic relationship, lost weight, started college, joined a sorority, was single for 6 years. It was great. Then I met someone, gained weight back (we liked food and he was a homebody so I wasn't active like I use to be). Now im overweight, irritated that I wasted 8 years on someone who just casually threw a whole marriage away. Leveling up now at 33 is harder than when I was 19 but im commited.

  • @Angeliquearchive
    @Angeliquearchive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I loved hearing your story Shera! It’s so inspiring. I’m 18 and recently started my level up journey. I just got my first job working in retail and I’m learning different ways to invest in myself. I’ve also started working on my diet and just over all living a healthy lifestyle. Ever since I’ve started putting myself first I’ve been getting so much attention. Whenever I go out people stare at me and go out their way to tell me I’m beautiful. Sometimes when I go places the cashier won’t charge me😭 I just wanted to say that you’re such an inspiration to me and I love watching your videos💕

  • @saraxortega
    @saraxortega ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As soon as I leveled up and hit the gym I got into a relationship. Now have his baby 😂 so the level up works okay. I just didn’t really get to enjoy my “single level up” phase. I got taken out the game rq. Long story short I go out now once in a while to clubs or nice places and the attention is still there. Enjoy your singlehood ladies ! I took it for granted

  • @CeceTvCeceTv
    @CeceTvCeceTv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm not gonna cook or clean if I ain't got no ring yes!!!🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @erickaellison2015
    @erickaellison2015 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow! Here I am at 37 hopping it’s not too late, but you have inspired me to be the best version of myself I can be in every way.

    • @sarahkawala
      @sarahkawala ปีที่แล้ว +11

      It's not late. I am starting it in my 40s. I figured I better do it, the universe will honour us.

    • @pinkkay7235
      @pinkkay7235 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It’s not too late just do it and don’t look back.

    • @tiktokfamous3446
      @tiktokfamous3446 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yess!!

  • @Earth222Swank
    @Earth222Swank ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m seeing this at 20 years old. Been watching you since I was 17 or 18. You’re one of my greatest inspirations. I look up to you as a teacher. So wise. Thank you for what you do

  • @tiffanifarrington4039
    @tiffanifarrington4039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I remember Metabolife! My mom dropped so much weight so fast! She was so cute! It’s interesting, I lost like 60 pounds and I get more attention with weight on! Smh either way I still secure the bag but I think because it’s “trendy” to have weight on (and we all know men are followers, they’re not too smart) I think that’s why I got more attention before.

  • @zae73
    @zae73 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I’m 19, but started when I was 18 thanks to you and other TH-camrs. Thankfully I realized a lot of things I did naturally so there’s not much i need to learn and practice thankfully

  • @truthteller4659
    @truthteller4659 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    id never want to start my level up process earlier than I did, which was 26. Im so grateful for my mistakes. had all my freaky adventures that were fun with handsome trainers lmao!!!!! no regrets. leveled up dating decreased my libido.

  • @mariahsmith7640
    @mariahsmith7640 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Came at perfect timing. I’ve always been leveled up on the outside but I was lacking inside. The past few months have already been so beneficial to me because of you. I turn 21 in 6 months and I’m starting to travel a lot more now. Can’t wait to start freestyling. Sprinkle sprinkle 😋 I also have a job interview for a pediatric clinic 🙄 I live in small city btw.

  • @lavellans
    @lavellans 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She said 20, pisces, sensitive, and my feelings got hurt, lol. I'm a year late into my level up journey but I want to be settled and in a good job by 24-25. I had to break from college for health this year, which is rough, but in the meantime other than working I can learn the ropes of looking my best. My favorite quote is 'If you stay ready, you don't have to get ready.'

  • @Ravenpriestess
    @Ravenpriestess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    Did you see that Mariah Carey was awarded $5 million dollars from her ex fiancee'? Ms. Carey wasn't playing! :)

    • @danashaw8463
      @danashaw8463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Shes definitely a money magnet

    • @dcaramelone
      @dcaramelone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      O_O what?

    • @Girlygirlsread
      @Girlygirlsread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Wait, fiancés getting payouts too? The game certainly has changed. Time to put Lawyer’s on retainers, ladies.

    • @Ravenpriestess
      @Ravenpriestess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Apparently, her ex fiancee settled, because Mariah had evidence to support her claims. Her money game is strong!

    • @Metaphysicalmindspace777
      @Metaphysicalmindspace777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ravenpriestess Our time is soooo precious. I wish more women valued it. .

  • @claudiaenlightened3672
    @claudiaenlightened3672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I’ve never clicked so fast lol! Haven’t been this excited since the My Confessions video dropped 👀😩

    • @CCSL1110
      @CCSL1110 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Claudia the confession video was awesome!!!

  • @Silkmilk_101
    @Silkmilk_101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    U was poppin back when 99/2000 had the world backing that thang up.🔥

  • @amethystmaries2567
    @amethystmaries2567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Yes, I wish I could go back in time. It sounded like so much fun, and I feel like money was more abundant back then. Now men know the game(at least most). I feel like now they have their guards WAY up, and it is harder to get stuff out of them unless you truly are the creme da la creme. I am not saying that is an excuse to give up and not try, but it does suck. Oh well, just a little rant. I will use it as motivation to be the BEST I can be

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Amethyst Maries back then it was all about showing off to women how much u can spend ! Lol y’all. CAn thank Diddy and Jay z for that !

  • @jalh1197
    @jalh1197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I will be 19 in 2 months and because of shera I am leveling up as well! ❤

  • @pimiralii
    @pimiralii ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m 18 and I swear Shera seems like an older version of me. I’m also a Pisces and very shy. Her story resonates with me so much it’s crazy! Recently I started taking her advice and I’m currently continuously getting attention from guys I never thought I would. So glad I found her channel this year I swear she changed my life, I’m a completely different person. Thank you so much Shera for everything💖💖❤

  • @mimihappy4563
    @mimihappy4563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The big sis I never had 😘😍This was soooo good and inspiring. This my summer believe me. I can definitely relate to this story 💯

  • @sonaasatryan5411
    @sonaasatryan5411 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I leveled up at 19 too. Lost a dustie just before turning 20 and started dating providers

    • @skootalooz
      @skootalooz ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just turned 19 and I’m leveling up now

    • @tiktokfamous3446
      @tiktokfamous3446 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes girl!!

    • @tiktokfamous3446
      @tiktokfamous3446 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@skootaloozI’m 20 tryna level up as much as I can

  • @preciousakinteye
    @preciousakinteye ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m 19 watching this now 😍😍 I’m dating my boss and he pays for every single thing lol… he knows it’s not going anywhere also and I’m really excited On my leveling up process 🎉

  • @mmckenna8639
    @mmckenna8639 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    19 y/o pisces here who’s man just took me to the Philippines💅🏼. I’ve always been in shape but mentally I was the quiet always saying yes one. My man now knows I mean business

  • @aimie2353
    @aimie2353 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Shera I was 19 when I levelled up because of you what a blessing you are

  • @luluchelor5496
    @luluchelor5496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    “Typical sensitive ♓️ “ Awe Shera sounds like me .That’s why I’m leveling up . Except I’m an emo ♈️

    • @mimihappy4563
      @mimihappy4563 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Go Aries ♈️. I’m one too. Good luck. Remember keep it feminine. We are more masculine sign 😂. Balance baby.

    • @luluchelor5496
      @luluchelor5496 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dominica Mitchell okayyy!! I’m about to watch her video on how to me more feminine !! Cause these masculine ways of mine 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @tm8559
      @tm8559 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      LuLu Chelor hey well if you look at the Aries symbol , it looks like a vagina / ovaries like the feminine. Aries is the 1 like the feminine ... it’s a beautiful thing when fire sign women are balance because you guys become more feminine than water signs or earth signs 🤍✨

  • @tg1204tgify
    @tg1204tgify 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    At 43 mins ...your strategies are so good. I would not have thought of getting money for cooking lessons. I want to think like this.

  • @nedraward7065
    @nedraward7065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Ur right beautiful Shera!!! Same thing happened to me, called Halle B...1st taste of pretty privilege, I knew then I was naive to game but hey now no time like the present💗🧚🏽‍♀️💖💃🏾💘🧚🏾‍♀️🏄🏽‍♀️🥰🧘🏽‍♀️🥳

    • @LateshaRenee
      @LateshaRenee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "Pretty privilege", I like that lol

    • @wouldntyouliketoknow873
      @wouldntyouliketoknow873 ปีที่แล้ว

      Girl, they used to compare me to Halle Berry and Aaliyah back in my teens. But I was also naive, not knowing my worth, dealing with dusties!! I could’ve married a billionaire if I had half the game she giving me now. I just gotta work extra hard at leveling up now that I’m older.

  • @gr8likefrostedflakes
    @gr8likefrostedflakes 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Everyone’s talking about losing weight and I’m trying to gain some lol.

    • @missshannonsunshine
      @missshannonsunshine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wendy Little that’s easier than gaining. I used to be underweight when I was little. There are many diet and workout videos for gaining weight on youtube. Good luck in your weight gain journey! Try smoothies if you’re not already!

    • @marilyncarlosog647
      @marilyncarlosog647 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Protein baby😉.

    • @LilithTheAquarian369
      @LilithTheAquarian369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      🗣🗣🗣🗣FINALLYYYYY I found someone with the same issue as me! Omg it’s like a blessing and a curse 🤣

    • @Genevii
      @Genevii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too!! I’m skinny af and Having that grown women filled looking body is soo important

    • @Girlygirlsread
      @Girlygirlsread 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Focus on contouring your body rather than gaining. A certain shape at all sizes is flattering. I’m slim too but I try to keep my waist to hip ratio on point so that gives the impression of curves. I’m busty so that helps too but if you’re not padded push up bras do the trick.

  • @latoshastanfield5523
    @latoshastanfield5523 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I appreciate your honesty, Ashera. Thank you for your help.

  • @LaDeeDah
    @LaDeeDah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I found you when I was thinking of going into Mortuary School. So crazy I watched that and ended up finding you again with this content. Love it ❤

  • @briaw713
    @briaw713 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    23 and I’m currently in the middle of the level up journey, I can’t wait for the results 😊

  • @Kelly-sj7hk
    @Kelly-sj7hk ปีที่แล้ว +25

    im almost 23 and stared reading books on mental health at 18. i was at a very low point in my life and was just like alright... if there is one thing i can do rn its edcutating myself thru books and yt. by the time i was 20 i was still a very shy girl but i started to reconise my worth more and more setting standards and letting my bf pay for dates. now a few relationships/ years later i will forever be gratefull that i started this journy really young AND took is seriously. i live on my own with my cat, go to school, go to work and staying celibate. ive never stopped leveling up and never will. i have two more years of school and will be done at 25 with a diploma, good looks AND mental maturity. Ladies start NOW! your value will skyrocket when u figure out who you are... THE PRIZE, A GODDES, WORTHY now get up

  • @EmpressofChrist
    @EmpressofChrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    For the haters. Shera has been through so much. I'm glad she is sharing her testimony 💕. That she struggled but fought for her life! And worked hard! To where she is now! Now look at her! She is such a beautiful woman who is helping other women. And you can tell she does it out of love. That's why Shera will continue to be more successful and more amazing things her way💕. She loves to give and that is why she receives double

  • @shebutter3195
    @shebutter3195 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks for sharing your journey and reminding us to always be the best we can be in all aspects of life. This weight for me is a constant struggle I’m 5’6 152lbs these last 10lbs are so hard to lose I was dying laughing when you said you were on a diet and starving. I just rushed to eat by 6pm today🤣

  • @flyleelee5351
    @flyleelee5351 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    We wanna know who the celebrities are, SheRa! 👀👀

  • @moonkoral1009
    @moonkoral1009 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just turned 19 yesterday and my level up started a couple months ago 💕💕

  • @ifeellikeastar9052
    @ifeellikeastar9052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I’ve been watching you for a long time but this is my first time hearing you talk about your past. I had no idea, thanks for sharing with us! You’re a true inspiration 💗💗

  • @LadiJadi72
    @LadiJadi72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Not old: Chronologically Advanced; Seasoned. Carry on Chica!

  • @basicinfo2022
    @basicinfo2022 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    4:55 realizing the power of being physically attractive to men and the level up.

  • @zee9731
    @zee9731 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    me at 19 finally ready to level up taking notes 👀📝

  • @tiabroughton2136
    @tiabroughton2136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Y’all I just had to tap in for a moment and tell you something I’ve just experienced 🤣. So tell me why I’m sitting here with my older cousin just joking around saying I attract all the nerdy dudes and nobody good looking approaches me. Keep in mind I get dressed up everyday, dress, makeup, wigs heels and she told me I’d get a man by taking off my wigs and wearing my real hair and removing the glam 😂✌🏾💀 I’m at a lost for words. She must have meant for me to get a dusty. She said she’s gonna give me a make over 💀💀

    • @tanishalavri3278
      @tanishalavri3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      What's wrong with the nerds? They are the perfect target.

    • @tiabroughton2136
      @tiabroughton2136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Andréa Lavri lol nothing you’re right I was just having a moment of being picky 😂

    • @tanishalavri3278
      @tanishalavri3278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@tiabroughton2136 lol my target is a millionaire nerdy bookish tech guy. Kinda shy. Bout to play a Cleopatra trick on him and make him go crazy.

    • @tiabroughton2136
      @tiabroughton2136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Andréa Lavri well good luck to you girl! ❤️❤️ you go girl. Keep me updated 🌹

    • @tiffsrandomreviews7218
      @tiffsrandomreviews7218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tanishalavri3278 😂😂😂

  • @AC-we4xx
    @AC-we4xx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    MORTUARY COLLEGE YAAAAAAAAASS

  • @FairyFlower-v6v
    @FairyFlower-v6v ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is exactly why I am very careful who I call friends. Women who don't take care of themselves nor know their worth are very jealous and draining. I wish I leveled up at 19 goddamn. I've had the sugar daddies and what not but now at 33 I almost feel too late haha but now I'm riding high and have a man ten years younger whos amazing

  • @AsheaIngram
    @AsheaIngram ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s amazing how I’m sitting here feeling like I’m watching a future experienced version of myself. You read my life at 19 and 20 and then you say you were a sensitive Pisces. That is meeeee😫 this past 2 years and I got too comfortable. Blew up, my millionaire provider told me I needed to get in the gym!! (He was a Leo) I’m almost at my goal and started to slip again!! Thank u for reminding me. I need to boss back up

  • @ShanaJahsintaWalters
    @ShanaJahsintaWalters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is going to be good. I am here for this stroytime.

  • @brianna.s6117
    @brianna.s6117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    18 rn love this story time so helpful 💗

  • @levitatinglimitless
    @levitatinglimitless 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really identify with your story!

  • @Camille-cv7io
    @Camille-cv7io หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just found this and I’m 32. I am leveling up right now. I get tons of attention but not from the ones of my caliber. Having fun but leveling up is great. Shout out to a fellow Pisces 😉

  • @saigethefashionista3442
    @saigethefashionista3442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You are always dropping jewels but I had to say that this is the best video you have ever done. Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us. I really needed to hear this.

  • @ayd7330
    @ayd7330 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m 22 and tired of working

  • @itsi5025
    @itsi5025 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wish I had came
    Across your videos when I was 19, I’m 22 in my leveling up process rn

  • @BestversionofKP
    @BestversionofKP หลายเดือนก่อน

    19 Turing twenty this month def taking notes ✍️

  • @trulykhush8000
    @trulykhush8000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am 19 and found Shera!💞

  • @addiecapri
    @addiecapri 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are so beautiful. It's crazy. I always saw you understood the game and played it intelligently there's always something behind the character.

  • @babalonbuchanan
    @babalonbuchanan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Leveling up at 19 💕

  • @zencameron444
    @zencameron444 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Watching this at 20, starting my level up journey rn 🥰 thank you shera