Randy Is "Disgusted" By The Way This Mum Treats Her Daughter | Say Yes To The Dress
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- This bride has been to more than 80 shops trying to find the perfect wedding dress and just when there's one she loves, her mum ruins it.
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Okay but let’s give props to the friend calling the mom out “Diana we aren’t shopping for you”
Y E S
The designer of the dress was freaking horrified. She was laughing as a defense mechanism, but her face said, "I'm horrified! Somebody Duck Tape this bitch's mouth shut NOW!"
Im disgusted to be named diana now....
@@dianaa615 I am so sorry u share her name
@@dianaa615 same my name is also Diana
I just think she was JEALOUS how beautiful her daughter looked in that dress. Reminded me of snow white and her step mother.
THIS. Actually the true story of Snow White was that it WAS her real mom. Disney changed it for the kids.
I think the dress swallowed the girl. Too big on her.
Just wrote the same thing about Snow White and her stepmother!
Though I do think this wasn't the perfect dress for her. Still, the way her mother made it all about herself, was so not okay.
@@ww4734 why Couldn't they just not make this a story...i feel bad how they changed it to step mom from real mom for the kids but used step moms as villain. Not good at all
Step mom's are loving too. They need to stop putting these in kids head that a step mom is evil.
@@tabassum9401 that’s true. A lot of step mom are loving and maternal, a lot of biological moms are not.
“Because I the evil mom in here”
I love how there was literally zero hesitation for her daughter to say “YEP!”
And then her mom looking at her like that like she didn’t expect her to agree is hilarious
fr it was so manipulative
This daughter is absolutely GORGEOUS!!! That evil thing is jealous of her own beautiful daughter.
My thoughts exactly.
I have a feeling that is it and I find it sad that mothers can be jealous of their daughters like that.
Seriously. These women who are jealous of their beautiful daughters sounds like Snow White's mother. In the original Grimm's fairy tales, it was her mother, not stepmother, who was the evil queen.
I think she's jealous of her daughter's youth but her daughter isn't as thin as her and I bet the mom rubs that in her face. (I think the daughter is beautiful I'm just saying what I see from the mom)
Like how she was sucking up to the designer. The designer has the same "look" as the mom. Like Botox and high maintenance woman, etc.
She's not having a hard time finding a dress. She's having a hard time finding her mothers approval. Poor Samantha. Hope Mario takes her far away from that witch of a mother.
Amen! Far far away!
She’s the kind of mom that now says “no it’s ugly” and then shows up to the wedding wearing this dress
@@serinathomas7335 did you just copy the comment above word for word
@@serinathomas7335 not you copying what someone else said-
Her mother should help her not laugh at her. Gee if she can’t stand looking at her daughter then she shouldn’t be there
It's very clear to me that this woman feels like she's a hot mom and her daughter is average at best I have a feeling that this woman has been criticizing her daughter's appearance since she was a little girl
Sadly a lot of moms do this and it’s really sad. Emotional factors in stuff like this
That’s the vibe I got and it killed her to see her daughter look stunning cause she did look gorgeous in that dress and is younger and prettier than herself so she had to kill her spirit.
For me it seemed like the mom was always a hottie and always grabbing the attention, but now she is just "The Mom of the Beautiful" and feels the attention going over to her Daughter and gets jelous...thats the Vibe that I get
I just thought of that thanks for the insight
You just summed up my life. I know how she feels
This woman is the definition of the saying " who needs enemies when your family is like this"
hey, so quick question i know this video is 2 years old but did she ever find the dress? you got any idea?
@@mah-e-kana373 Yes she did find a nice dress and had a nice wedding. Her mom found a nice dress too. However, who knows what happened behind the scenes.
It’s crazy how Randy and others went from thinking the bride isn’t able to settle on a gown to completely understanding why she did go to 80+ stores all over the globe for that one gown.
When Randy said “it would be a dream of mine to have children, how could you treat your child that way?” I almost cried omg
Gay men are great dads because they have to work so hard to become one.
@@feet300 is Randy gay? Sorry I’m new
@@aangrylemon1291 isn't it obvious? Haha
Bruh I will be Randy’s child
Same
The mom sitting there, SMIRKING as her daughter is IN TEARS-that's the definition of toxic.
Rt!
Well she wasn’t in tears but like yah
It’s no wonder she’s been to 81 stores. Her mom is a WITCH.
Welcome to narcissistic mothers.....
Just relized my mum is toxic ✌️
Bc my mum act the same
I remember when I first saw this episode, and how appalled I was about the way her mother treated her after that first "it's ugly" comment after the dress was on her daughter... and THEN Pnina said something in her side interview, away from the family and my jaw dropped because I have watched ALL the SYTTD episodes and Pnina has NEVER said anything bad about anyone on camera EVER. I wanted to cry for this girl.
Yup and for Pnina to say that truly shows how bad her mom was.
Yes, I noticed too! Pnina has never, ever taken sides! And when she did......You knew it was all wrong in all levels.
Mom had a nose job and God knows how much more plastic surgery. It did not help.
Randy had me tearing up! What a sweet person. Truly deserving of kids. I also don't understand how anyone could treat their own kid that way.
Sadly there are some that really hate their kids and constantly want to control them. Not all parents are loving and sweet.
"Diana, we're not shopping for you" Props to the friend who politely tried to help
That's the part that gets me. Because she was not even shock or anything, but merely annoyed. It obvious this mom acts like that all the time and bridesmaid witnessed it often
That's a polite way to say, "Zip it." The mom already had her moment.
The fact the mother said she wasn’t even focusing on her own daughter she’s so rude I’d slap her in the face if that was me
Yeah!
The mom doesn't need to be "politely" helped, her narcissism needs to be called out. It's obviously an ongoing issue too since the daughter resignedly said "how she is" (which I know how that feels)
Her mom had that narcissistic smirk on her face, watching her daughter look crushed. She was enjoying every minute of it.
Usually I hate when people use that word, because I think it devalues the whole npd diagnosis, but yeah no, we're all thinking it.
I agree she truly loves watching her lovely daughter suffer. I noticed that the toxic mom was wearing a very short dress which draws attention to herself rather than the daughter.
A part of me wanted to wipe that disgusting smirk off of her face.
I surprised the mom could smile at all, with all the work she's had done to her face. She seems like she's used to getting ALL the attention, maybe she was very beautiful when she was young, and she can't stand being older and letting her daughter have the spotlight. So sad.
So disgusting
When she did that she looked like the bigest jerk but she didn't care becouse she can't stand that it wasn't about her but her dother. Her dother has been dealing with that probobly her whole life. How can someone who is so self centerd be a parent?
This made me cry. How could a mother be that cruel to her daughter on the most important day of her life. Randy was right to walk out on the mom.
I'm so lucky my mom is a sweetheart, I can't imagine having a mom like this.
I’m glad your mom is a sweetheart. That is very special ❤ my boyfriend’s mom is the same and she’s claimed me! Lol my own mom..well she’s got an evil and histrionic streak. But I forgive her and my dad. Life is beautiful and we need more sweetheart moms
You are lucky as not all moms are loving and sweet like the one we see here.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Amen to this! If I’m ever a mom, I’ll be breaking the cycle. Just like my sweet sister did with my niece ❤️
@@em8302 I agree and my late mom was loving but she had her flaws too. My late mom was not this bad thank goodness. I am not a mom yet but am an aunt so I know how to treat my nephews. My nephews all love me as I treat them all very well. Glad that your sister did the same.
Same, just wish it could've been like that for my dad too
“Do you like it? I’ll pay for it and let’s GO”
This is one of the worst feelings a person can feel from a parent…
Yup my mother also acts this way towards me once my mom tells me to hurry and just get what I want after she would say she didn't like it. Even just the little things then once I get it I would sometimes cry then she would sometimes joke to me that i looked weird and laugh at me so yeah it does hurt a lot
@@yvezmia3311 I’m sorry :(
its like 5 minutes ago you loved something but as soon as they say this its like you dont want it anymore
@@yvezmia3311 omg god same my mom is so toxic
That’s exactly what my mom does and it actually hurts
The “mom” is probably the reason why they visited 80-100 stores. The daughter probably already found a dress that she loved and the “mom” probably tore her down during those appointments as well.
Was looking for this comment. I have never seen a Lebanese mother so unsupportive of her kid.
Exactly this. I also think her mother is jealous of how beautiful she is. In or out of that dress, or any dress, she has a natural beauty and glow to her that her mother is obviously lacking here. This sweet girl. Y'all know she's been dealing with this her whole life, too.
Aaaahhh. 80-100 it was!!
I understood 8'200 (eightytwohundered) and I was wtf?!😳😳😳😳
With a strong opinionated Mother like that, I would probably have bought that dress just BECAUSE my Mother hated it, and I would have loved it even more 😊
@@sideglance 🤦🏾♀️I also thought she said 8200
I love the fact this video is online and everyone is commenting on how horrible this mother is. I hope she sees this. I hope she understands how hateful she is. I hope she regrets her behavior. So selfish. So disgusting.
Lol this a reality show, one with many reported fake conflicts, as it is with reality shows - the trashiest form of entertainment media.
You don't know their real life dynamic or how the dressing tour has gone up to this moment. For all we know this *could* very well be a case of 80 stores in 2 continents not satisfying a spoiled rich daughter, and she couldn't live with her mom not liking the dress when she finally found it, in which case the mom would be justifiably ready to completely done with it.
The mom saying to Pinina over and over how she was looking at her outfit and not at her daughter was not misunderstanding anything. She is a nasty woman.
People like that never change. They just think everyone else is wrong.
@@VMF-rj8qo Have you ever gone bridal shopping before? If you haven't, you have zero clue what you're talking about.
I come back to this clip a lot. My mom is exactly like that. It gives me so much hope to see people who see how she is and that people care so much. It reminds me not to shut people out because of how someone acts amd people truly are better than what my mother says.
❤ I can relate. I keep my heart open but my boundaries firm; there is love and good people who are wholesome to the core. It’s a lot less scary than we feared as kids
My late mom was sort of like this too but not this bad. This mom takes the cake.
ME TOO!!! I literally watch this over and over again like I get such comfort knowing I’m not alone with a narcissistic mother. It’s so sad when I get more love and empathy from strangers than my own mother. I’m sorry you are going through this and for anyone that has a narcissist for a mother.
My mom is too, as is my brother. If I like something or someone, whatever or whoever it may be, they will mercilessly mock and heckle me for any and every interest I show. So, I don't tell them anything anymore. And they are act clueless about why they are now locked out of my life.
The mother is clearly narcissistic and has been abusing and gaslighting her daughter throughout her entire life. Why hasn’t anyone seen this before????
Yep I see it. Mine is narcissistic too and would do the same if this was my bridal appointment. This shit is sad!
Yes, she is a narcissist.
My father is narcissistic I know how it feels......
Yup same my mom too, horrible horrible attitude.
👍 Good comment. It's sad that most people aren't aware of what Narcissistic behaviour is. It can be years down the line when they've been hurt one time too many that they go seek answers. ☹️ and usually by that time they're in their 40s and 50s. This sort of psychology should be taught in schools.
respect to the girl who said “we’re not shopping for you” 😂
PERIODTT 🤣🤣
XD
I was looking at the commons while watching the video and as soon as I saw yours they said that XD
@@blackteababy5424 Same
😂😂pure facts
I can relate to Randy, it took me many years to have children and I don’t know how anyone could treat their daughter like that. She was literally glowing in that dress, how can you as a mother crush you child’s confidence like that?
Sadly there are mothers and fathers too that literally hate their children. I felt that way with my late parents. At times they can be loving but at times they can be so brutal.
I don’t know how many years/episodes I’ve watched say yes to the dress but I think she is absolutely the most beautiful bride I’ve ever seen- for her to not want to look at herself in the mirror literally gave me a physical pain. She deserves so much love, self-love, and respect from others. And simply to be able to enjoy her life and special day
It looked like she had a nice wedding and did find a nice dress. But who knows what happened behind closed doors.
They should’ve kicked this mom out. She literally ruined everything
right! like the dress was so gorgeous on her and it makes me so upset that her mom laughed at her. i feel like that’s something my mom would do tbh 😭
She’s paying so they can’t kick her out
As soon as her mother opened her mouth her face just dropped I feel so bad
Ikr- she just wants her dress to be the worst-
She really said “It’s ugly!” On the bride and said “Omg I love the top” on the mannequin. Bitch wtf is wrong with this mother-
The fact that she didn’t even cry just shows that her mom does this to her often…
She probably did find a dress she liked at all of those past appointments.
@@XuiLeeEv fr
@@XuiLeeEv ikr
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@Hello It's K Absolutely, but some mothers are like that. The daughter seems lovely.
"I just want to get a dress, pay for it and leave... I'm hungry. I want to go eat. Haha." Narcissist.
Her mom is the devil, I hate how her confidence went from 100-0. She looked absolutely stunning in the dress and the fact that her mother enjoys taunting her really hurts.
“I cant walk down the isle knowing that she doesnt like it”
This girl has been manipulated by her mother
No that’s just a common thing that people feel. They want validation from there mother
@@yougsa a mother should teach her daughter to value her feelings and needs above other ppls wants its normal to want validation from a parent its not normal for it to be debilitating codependency
@@jsjgfdhgfsf9693 Indeed. This girl shouldn’t feel like she has to make her mother happy. This is HER wedding, not her bitchass mother’s. I think she’s better off not inviting her mother to the wedding if she’s gonna be like that
@@yougsa absolutely not, this is manipulation at its finest
@@royal3809 mm that’s completely your opinion
RANDY is disgusted. Yeah, he’s not the only one. 🙄
Your not the only one here sis.
@@jellycube6364 babes what😀
@@emilyvazquez3877 what?
@@emilyvazquez3877 i meant im disgusted,that mOm literally made fun of her daughter when others can only dream of having kids.
@@wyewonn Um no he's not, he finds it gross that the mother is putting down her own child like that over a dress
This poor woman. My mother could be brutal, laughing at my hair, makeup, clothing, making passive aggressive comments about my parenting. The day she said made a comment about my son I tore into her. She had the audacity to cry and play victim. I know what this woman is going through. It's tough. But I bet she will be an amazing mother because she knows how NOT to be a mother.
i am crying for her. being raised by someone like this is absolutely soulcrushing. i hope her mother is not in her life anymore and that she is healing.
Randy's response is proof that a lot of the people who shouldn't have kids have them, and those who would be awesome parents don't or can't
I wish Randy would have children. He’d be a wonderful parent.
You're right. Many of us can't and it breaks my heart each and every time I see a parent degrade their child like this mother did.
The part where you said good parents don’t have kids hits hard. Honestly I think that’s where all the found family tropes in shows come from. Like jaded people being found parents. Shit hits differents
This is what I don’t understand with some of the parents on this show. THIS IS YOUR CHILD! The way they can make them cry and see them crying and still smirk and laugh. What the f@ck??? I have three sons and no daughters. I will never enjoy the pleasure of going bridal gown shopping. But if my sons ask me to take them suit shopping I will only be looking at their faces. If they walked out with a smile as big as this girl did I wouldn’t care what they were wearing. Their happiness outshines anything in this world.
Ikr. It breaks my heart when parents act like this towards their kids. If you are lucky enough to be blessed with a child you should cherish them with all your heart. Through all the ups and downs and especially their wedding.
The mother is a classic manipulative narcissist. This poor daughter is trying to chase her approval, like trying to catch the wind it will never happen.
Yes. She was jealous of her daughter
wait-
i thought this was normal-
@@layanmalla2914 No
@@layanmalla2914 no
@@layanmalla2914 well that's same how my mom would react.
I love my mom so much. I got my dress a few days ago and she was beaming through the whole process. We researched dresses together for months to find the style I was going for and when I had to go in and pick some dresses to try on she was the one person who I asked to help me. She was actually the one who pulled the dress I got. My mom mad me feel so beautiful and I am so sorry to the beautiful ladies who don’t have that experience with their mothers.
Found an update to this, the total shops she went to ended up being 100 and she did get married, there was no mention if the mother was present or not.
“I’m hungry, I wanna go eat” why is this woman acting like one of the most important days in her daughter’s life is an errand?
Yes. I don’t see her ,I’ve never seen such an unloving Mother, I don’t see any love or any feelings towards her beautiful daughter!!! At all!so so sad.
Look at how she's dressed, at how she pulls the attention to herself. Thats a narcissist.. I totally feel for Diana..
Because she went to over 80 dress shops in 3 continents already and still had no dress. We don't know if the mother liked other dresses and the daughter did not. The mom has issues and is cold, but the daughter seems like a spoiled princess with a mommy who can afford Pinina (my spelling is awful here, apologies). Who has time and money to shop that much for a dress, even if it is a wedding dress? The mother wasn't wrong about the dress either. The daughter is beautiful and has a great body, but that dress did not suit her body type or height. It was the mother who even picked the dress, not the daughter. The daughter ended up liking it. The mother didn't. The mother was wrong about how she phrased her dislike of the dress. It was cold and rude, but I think she does care about her daughter and did not want to see her walk down the aisle in a dress that wouldn't work on her. Sometimes you need to take these shows with a grain of salt. If they are losing a sale on a $10k dress, of course they might make the person objecting feel bad and say things like...what kind of person are you. I think Randy is too sanctimonious and putting down the person with the credit card, not a great idea in real life.
Oh please ! The mom was cold but she was right. The 👗 doesn't flattering her girl. Not at all. For sure the way mom acted was bad. But the girl has no taste. And friends & vendor are just hypocrites.
Like girl go eat afterwards for celebration your daughter is happy 🙄
The smirk on her mother’s face when she said “I don’t want it”. She won. Congratulation mom, you crushed your daughter’s self confidence. Way to go.
She was smiling for a second, until everyone around her was catching on and defending the daughter.
She probably didn't like the boobage
Mom hates the fact that she is aging.
@@20PINKluvr still. she couldve said it a little more nicer if she really did not like that part. Atleast sugarcoat it to make her daighter feel a little better since she really loved the dress.
@@20PINKluvr she was smiling. theres no reason to smile if you think your daughter's dress is inappropriate. she was just making fun of her daughter to belittle her
I'm so sorry for her. She was absolutely shattered. Randy was such a gentleman, the way he just comforted her and supported her. How all the staff rose to the occasion and supported her. I hope she found her dream dress.
Showed this to my mom and she said: “Well, as mothers, we know what looks good on you. But if you don’t agree, whatever, you can look ugly at your wedding if you’re paying for it 😂” I’m not sure if I want to invite her to anything
I agree with your mother. That lady has gone to 80 stores. She's tired of dress shopping.
Your mother is right and real lol Not only the dress didn't look good but after going to 80 stores in two continents, and paying for the damn dress, the mom has her leniency to be done with the whole thing.
"You want the ugly, puffy dress that makes you look like you don't have a torso? Great, at least you finally picked one, let's go."
It's fascinating how the two folks who commented to this have seemed to completely miss the point
Pretty sure the mother is the reason they went to 80 stores@@michigan48
@@michigan48 there's a way of speaking bruh. U don't crush ur daughter's self confidence like that and the mother was clearly making everything about herself idk what's wrong with her.
And I'm sure the bride couldn't find her dress because the Mom probably would crush her confidence like that all the time
They've been to 81 stores because her mom hates everything she likes. She's trying to please her mother at the cost of her own happiness. She needs to stop bringing her mom with her.
That's something I noticed for a LOT of brides in the show. Itvs always "my mom and I don't get along" THEN WHY BRING HER TO THE SALON OF SHE JUST MAKES YOU MISERABLE
@@wonderlandartwork3579 i think its so normal just to bring your mother no matter what. not only that a lot of the time the family pays (like the mom in this situation). it honestly hurts seeing these toxic mothers just treat their daughters in such mean ways
A lot of the time this happens because the person feels like not including the mother (or other toxic person in the situation) would turn out worse than bringing her. Like here, she said she didn't want the dress anymore because she knew her mother would be shit talking it behind her back at the wedding. Imagine what her mom would do if the bride told her she couldn't help to pick out the dress at all. Guarantee the mom would trash talk any dress she brought home in that scenario, and would even be likely to shit talk her own daughter to anyone who'd listen for not including her in the process.
@@singingwolf8997 that checks out. People SUCK
Why would anyone bring their mother with them? The only reason I can think of is if the mother is paying for the dress, and even then her opinion is not required and should not be welcome.
That mom is absolutely self centred, horrible and so disrespectful. Her attitude was exactly what Randy described it as “ disgusting “
Send me your email
I think the mother is jealous. I think she’s unhappy with herself and so she has to drag her daughter (and everyone else) in her misery.
I just need to say that I am your 999th like on this comment
@Snow Drop no it doesn’t. The dress wasn’t altered to her size. If she did buy the dress they would alter it to her bust size, hips, waste, etc. just like her mother your an ass without imagination
@Alize Farhin true, he’d at least be honest
No wonder it's 81 stores... I think the mom is partially the reason why she couldn't get the perfect dress.
This episode just made me cry. I've known narcissistic people and how they love to tear people down, but I just can't imagine having a mother like that. My fiancés mother is that way, and that's why his mom is not invited to our wedding. Like she makes it her job to try to break down her kids and their relationships. No one needs the person who is supposed to love their child the most there tearing their child down on the most important day of their life. I couldn't have been a consultant during this. I'd have been fired the second that lady opened her mouth. Then I'd bring Samantha ice cream and make it my personal mission to take her and her friends somewhere without her mom to find the dress of her dreams.
I feel like the mom is in a way body-shaming her daughter. Mannequin has the "perfect body" so anything on a Mannequin looks great, The daughter looks beautiful in the dress too. Also, Some of the moms on this show are so entitled, like it's not your wedding if your daughter feels good in the dress then that is all that matters.
Ok but I don’t see how the mom doesn’t think the daughter looks good. I honestly think she looks better than the mannequin. That daughter is so pretty I’d be suprised if she didn’t look good in it
Yeah shes beautiful in the dress
That mom is so over done with plastic surgery and the “real housewives look” and the daughter is a natural beauty. I’m thinking mom is jealous.
The daughter looks nice in it. Once it was fitted for her it would look amazing. The mom is something else.
This is exactly what I was thinking
She’s the kind of mom that now says “no it’s ugly” and then shows up to the wedding wearing this dress
That mom envies her daughter.
😴😴
Envious mother. She thinks she look better than her daughter.
Exactly
This is so true
Fuuuck. It’s true.
The best is the end where the mom says "Because I'm the evil mom here" and the daughter agrees and the look on the mom's face is everything. So hurtful that you would do that to your daughter and laugh at her.
“Yeah not on Samantha” You could tell she was caught off guard when they threw her own words at her, really speaks volume
If the mother talks like this to her daughter with cameras in her face, imagine what she says to her when they are by themselves. :(
Dude their Arab moms I know this from experience as I am Arab everyone is like that and most of the time ten times worse I think the girl has a right to be mad at her mom but she’s kinda being a baby cuz she should be used to this by now
My mum is also like that:D
@@maryamnuman3797 You should never have to get used to emotional and verbal abuse, even if it's from your parents.
What this poor woman must have endured as a child 😥
@@maryamnuman3797 I figured there was a cultural difference, and I respect that. It just was hard to watch for someone not in that culture.
Her "mom" so easily complimented the other lady yet can't even be bothered to squeeze one nice thing out for her own child. Some people shouldn't be involved in planning important events.
Some people shouldn't have children either.
Like having a child? SMH. Some people should truly, sincerely NOT be parents. :-( Wish Randy could adopt Samantha!
999 likes, made it 1k :) lmao
@@d.v.3314 stole the words from my mouth!💯
That is cultural Arabs for you- gentle with others but harsh on her own blood. 🤣
The fact that the daughter isn't crying at how her mother treats her tells me she's too damn used to her mother being nothing but cold and cruel to her. That "mother" does not deserve to be a mother.
Randy was the perfect surrogate parent that this girl needed during the aftermath of a toxic mother. Sometimes a stranger can be kinder to you than your own family.
He has that "grandma" personality.
The mum thinks she’s funny but everyone clearly sees how toxic she is yikessss
To be honest, she is laughing because to such psychopath the sadness of others ,even of her own daughter is a sth funny...especially since she caused that sadness...this woman is "an emotional vampire"!
A narcissist
The mum is a SNAKE!
When her mom said all those words I could already hear the aggressive keyboard typing-
Be quick
Yes to Randy’s feelings! He is soooooooo right!
I love how caring and supportive randy is ❤
Thats probably why she went to 100 stores. This mother is annoying
Came for this comment
Literally thought the same thing!
I absolutely agree, the mother was downright cruel Do that to her daughter. I Have a habit of thinking from both sides of the spectrum, is it a possibility the mother is just annoyed at this point because of having to go to so many stores all over the world? 🤷🏼♀️ I want to see the whole episode!
Yes it’s not the daughter it’s the mom ruining it for her!!
The mother is not “annoying “, she is jealous and cruel!
She’s one of those mothers who doesn’t see her daughter as her “daughter”, more like competition and she’s been controlling that girl since she came out of her birth canal.
I was just thinking the same thing
No Arab, Indian, Pakistani and Afghani moms are boss and brutal honest if you do not like to bad
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134 As an Indian myself, I disagree with your opinion. You can't justify a person's mean and narcissistic behaviour on their ethnicity and no, Indian moms are definitely not like this.
@@lijajohnson9862 depends
@@carol-annebragancaborba6134 so sorry you know people like that, but there is no excuse to how she treated her daughter.
“i can just feel the love in the room”
i love randy sm
I always wanted a daughter. Had two wonderful sons so I am blessed but I can't imagine treating a child this way! Unforgivable!
her mom seems like the type of person to wear white on her daughter’s wedding day out of pure jealousy
Believe this: I went to a dear friend's wedding years ago, and her mother had the fricking NERVE to wear her old wedding dress!! Can you believe it??
You could hear the gasps and shock from family members...
@@carmeng5421 OMG 😱 i would of been very mad
I don’t think she’s this type of mom...she doesn’t give off jealous vibes. She instead gives off a vibe where she wishes her daughter looked different as in was skinnier. She seems like she might be those people that believe their children have to look good because they’re a reflection of her... so she’s very demanding in a toxic way.
Is that really a thing? I’ve never seen anyone wear anything other than white to weddings. Isn’t it rude to not wear white?
@@strawberri.8763 yes a lot of mother's or my rhers in paw do that it kind of ruined yours wedding 💒💒💒💒💒😂
“All children deserve parents, but not all parents deserve children .” -Lots of YT comments
It’s very true tho.
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Very true
So very true!!!
Well said
Randy is a true Gem and I hope he can have a family of his own because he’d be an amazing parent.
He has such a gentle soul!
The fact she doesn’t cry or gets upset’ shows that her mother must do this all the time and she’s used to being treated that way,
Exactly. It's a first sign of being abused.
She seemed too tired to be even bothered by her behavior so she just simply gave up on the dress she loved. That's scandalous and very sad.
Agreed. This is just a normal day for her with her mom. You can tell by the stance and the fact the poor girl doesn't break down. Even when Randy tells her it's not right and it's not something that should happen. Even then she doent really react. She is so used to this behavior she can turn numb and stay in that mode. Then when someone shows affection she stays numb because she's not used to it, or feels its false due to mom's passive aggressive attitude. Hope her future husband helps her drop that toxic husk of a human called her mother.
or she doesn’t wanna cry on tv?
Her mom is a narcissist and the girl needs therapy. Her friends should've told her as much at least because she has a whole life ahead of her and she'll never be happy for as long as she keeps allowing her mom to impact her like that
I wonder how her husband treats her
“I like her outfit, where’d you get it” “I just want to go eat” She literally only cares about herself 🤦🏾♀️
Honestly. She seems to only think of herself in life. I can’t imagine how she will pretend the wedding is hers throughout. She seems like a control freak too.
For people like her the only thing I can say is hope you like your eventual retirement home cause your daughter will be the one picking it.
Imagine the mother is jealous.
Spoken like the absolute narcissist that she is.
I looked back and my comment and still feel the same.
Randy is so sweet. I hope he gets everything he wants.
Bless Randy's beautiful heart. He would make a wonderful father. ❤
She's JEALOUS of her daughter, because she's the center of attention instead of her.
So true , absolutely agree that woman Is a narcissist and that 's why she treats her daughter that way , she can not handle that her daughter is the only one who matters at moment .
Bingo! #divamom
And she’s more beautiful
Absolutely. Narcarsist's always have to have all eyes in them. In addition, they also have to be the ones manopolizing all conversations, where other people can not contribute to the conversation otherwise.
I hate that at the end she calls herself a evil mom as a joke but when Samantha agrees she is surprised.
I actually thought, good on you Samantha. very concise and blasted 'Mommy dearest' right out of the water.
The usual surprised Pikachu face of an entitled, self centered Karen, when faced with the truth about herself.
She was trying to play The victim card, well done "mom"
That was her failed attempt at gaslighting.
The mom totally played herself LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣
He was the sweetest!
must be almost impossible to digest, for that "mother" to see her daughter being such a beautiful soul, and gorgeous woman, shining like a gem
im so surprised with how she didn't start crying on the spot- like- she is so strong
You get used to it.
Prolly cuz her mother has verbally and emotionally abused her for all her life.
@@alexie5424 your right but she shouldn't have to get used to it, if she is like this over the dress, what is she going to be like when the babies start coming, Lord help her, change this mother's mindset & attitude toward Her daughter, & heal the daughters wounded spirit, in Jesus Name Amen!
With a mom like that you have to be strong!!!
Yep her mom has done that her entire life. Very sad.
“Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child” 😔
Children deserve GOOD parents. A "mother" like this is worse than no mother at all.
Completely agree.
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@@Serai3 no not really
@@luhashrob Plenty of people raised by abusive parents would agree it's worse than not having them.
Priceless final words by the bride. Perfect video for what not to say and how not to act oh mommy dear....heartbreaking !
I was legit tearing up with her she looked so beautiful all I wanted was to give her a hug.
The mom seems like she has bullied her daughter about her weight for a long time. So sad. Just to be clear, the bride is not ugly or a bad body shape. But she obviously has a different body type and style.
I wonder how often her mother has told her own daughter that she is beautiful? She is so gorgeous and you can tell by how soft spoken she is that she has no confidence in herself. I hope she knows how stunning she looks.
While yes I agree with you on most of this, I don't think there is any reason to bring up her weight in this. It's uncalled for, and I don't think that in any situation anyone should ever bring up someone else's body unless they asked for their opinion. I know you meant no harm commenting this, and yes she does absolutely look stunning. This is not a hatecomment btw, I just feel as if it needed to be said. Have a nice day!
@@nanna5254 I can see what you mean, but let me explain where I am coming from: I never insinuated that there was anything negative about her weight. She is a different body type. She is tall and has curves. Her mother is very petite and smaller in stature. By virtue of comparison, their weights are different. The behavior she exhibits, while not outright stating it, is that she is disappointed in her daughter's appearance, and seems to mock her. Just look at the way the bride's whole body seemed to crumple under her mother's words, that is the body language showing that she is trying to " shrink " herself in front of her mom as she is being laughed at. What difference do you think there is between the mom loving the dress on the mannequin, but saying on her daughter it's "ugly"? A person doesn't have to be overweight to know that kind of painful criticism about their body not being as sleek as an airbrushed mannequin's.
@@augustriley6752 No of course I get that, and you are 100% right on this, I just felt as if her weight shouldn't have been brought up, but when you say it like this i understand and I apologize if my last comment came off in a bad way. Still, have a nice day:)
Beauty comes in different forms. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
The "so called standard" of beauty is ever changing. I have a friend just like the body shape, she reminds me of those beautiful classic oil paintings portrait of ladies.
Is there a follow up of what happen to her ?
What a horrible mother, ruining her daughter's wedding, when she clearly loved the dress. She was struggling not to cry, and I almost cried for her. That woman is a monster. Randy is right.
The daughter is just so sweet and graceful though. Hope she’s happy.
No she is not. Mom is right that dress is not looking good on her
@@honestreviewsbypsr2509 the bride likes the dress. The mother could have said I don’t like it as much as I thought or said something kinder. She completely destroyed her daughter’s confidence.
@@jemmajens9583 relax. She is a great mom. All these reality shows are scripted. Narcissistic mother potrayal have bought more views.
@@honestreviewsbypsr2509 idc if it’s scripted or not. How that woman is talking about her daughter isn’t okay, and if it is scripted, doesn’t mean it makes that behaviour okay, it’s an example of a terrible parent either way.
I love Randy !!! And he would be an amazing Father !!! Never loose ur heart feelings Randy. U can sure tell u were raised with a lot of love and care.
I hope she got the magical wedding she deserves. My heart breaks for her cause my mom is the same.
She did and had a nice wedding. I saw the photos so maybe her mom treated her better. But then again, who knows what happened behind closed doors.
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj I'm so glad.
what's even more saddening is the daughter probably chose this dress because her mom liked it when she saw it in the mannequin 😭
Yeah but come on mom is kinda right,she didnt really look good in it..too poofy and ..just not a good fit
You're right!
Mum is never pleased
@@deeshizzlemanizzle483 but she’s happy in it so it doesn’t matter, she looks beautiful because it’s something she loves!!! Her mother is destroying her confidence, she was already having a hard time finding the perfect dress and trust me on your wedding day nothing matters more to a girl than her dress. The mother could have constructed her criticism much better than what she did.
@@deeshizzlemanizzle483 _yeah but it's not her mom's wedding doesn't really matter that the mom didn't like her dress the fact of the matter is that she loved the dress and she really wanted it to be her wedding dress and it really is upsetting that she couldn't have it_
I feel like it wasn't her not liking a single dress in the 80 stores, it was the mom making her feel terrible in everything
Agreed! We saw exactly why she’s been to so many stores.
yes! what i just said!!
Defenitely
Ikr she must have felt so hurt! Poor girl
Same!
Your confidence is shattered when like someone you really care for comments something mean about something your feeling proud of.
Randy would make a wonderful parent.
The mom really did gaslight her daughter. "Fine, buy it! Lets go" thats 110% the definition of guilt tripping.
That’s what my mom did to me when I was picking prom dresses :/ wonder what she will be like when it’s my turn to pick a wedding dress
Yeah and at the end when she said "I'm the evil mom" glad the daughter said yeah instead of giving in to that guilt tripping
My mom always did this to me when we were shopping. Not as intensely as the video but I know exactly how she feels.
guilt tripping yes, gaslighting no. those aren’t the same things. it’s good to call bad behavior out when we see it, but we can’t just be calling everything abusive gaslighting.
That's what my mom does,is that really guilt tripping?
She’s the type of person to say “I’m just honest” literally every time they make a ridiculous or hurtful comment
That is how my mother operates
@@erinpoppert4472 same lol
YES. I had a friend like that in high school. She would tear everyone down but when they’d ignore her or end a friendship, it was because they “couldn’t handle her honesty” 🤦♀️
or "its just a joke"
My best friend ahahahaha
This broke my heart. Seeing the bride so defeated makes me so upset
I wanted to cry for her, like she was so defeated. This poor girl.
The fact that this mom is acting like a condescending “popular girl” in high school makes me kinda uncomfy
Agreed, she also seems like a sassy girl
she looks like one tho :0
Chances are, she was one, and hasn't grown out of it.
Can someone please tell me this episode is of which season?
God, that is such an insightful comment, I didn’t realize it but that’s exactly what she’s acting like, eww
I hate how the mom thinks that hurting her daughters confidence is a joke
Got you to 800🐸🌱💚🌿
It was obviously entertaining for her. Bully af.
It's just sickening how the mum thinks this is all bloody ok when clearly it's not
Can someone tell me this episode is of which season?
She’s a sick cruel b!tch . She was laughing at her own daughter. I can’t take it. She makes me want to puke
I’ve never ever seen Such a strong reaction from randy
I wish she could stand up for herself. I’m with Randy I have been wanting a child for years and ppl like this receive that blessing
Randy broke my heart by saying, “it would be a dream of mine to have children.”
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"I see it on the mannequin it looked different but on her it's ugly I don't like it"
such a wholesome thing to say to your daughter who found a dress she liked after visiting 80 stores.
I think the daughter maybe didn't really even like the dress because SHE liked it but cause her mom said she loves it at the beginning. I bet they wasted time in 80 stores cause the bride was too busy looking for smth that would please the MOM and not her, in which case, she might as well just not get married cause I doubt she'll ever find an actual dress her mom likes
@@sin3358 or maybe this mom just kept judging every thing she likes until she didnt like it anymore
The first dress wasn't flattering. The mother should have said that in a supportive manner.
Mom’s like this think the day is about them
The first dress didn't look good on the bride yes!! It looked beautiful on the mannequin.. true... But the mother could have said that in a less hurtful way. 😭
She was actually surprised that her daughter agreed with the evil Mom statement! Everyone who watched this said "yup" right away. What a crappy excuse for a mother!!!!!
I truly feel sorry for Samantha but also for her groom. WHAT a Mother-in-Law he’s going to have. Ugh!
Daughter: "I think everyone is on my side here"
Mom: "Yeah, because I'm the evil mom in here"
Daughter: _"Yup"_
Mom: **surprised pikachu face**
Yup Mum you sure are!
Honestly that little moment made me so, so mad. Like, she actually expected her daughter to contradict her, to break in with “No, you’re not evil” and use that as a lead-in to the daughter saying “yes mom, you’re right, I’m sorry.” And you just get the sense that this has worked for her on the daughter before, like when parents respond to “you did this and it hurt me” with “well I guess I’m just a terrible, evil parent then, sorry I’m just such a terrible person” and guilt their kid into saying “no, never mind, you’re not evil, I was wrong, I’m just too sensitive.” Good on the daughter for breaking the pattern and not falling for that old trick this time.
@@annabananag3962 Samantha has probably been gaslighted her entire life, and Randy backed up that this was wrong and disgusting, so she KNOWS mom is evil.
She's gaslighting her sooooo hard right now it's honestly heartbreaking
@@mammiesailung6698 I just read it lol that made me laugh aloud (8:50)
It’s like she’s purposely trying to make her daughter feel bad. She isn’t your high school rival Karen, she’s your daughter.
Sad to think how long this has been going on. I wouldn't doubt if it was her whole life.
💯. She's acting exactly like that!
She's cruel
@@pinningformichigan8120
people say you should love your close ones no matter what and forgive them, but again, just because someone is your blood , doesn't mean you have to put up with them, cause its not fair to you
As someone who's mother is like this.. ding ding ding.... it's been like that her whole life. From my teeth to me "looking like I'm wearing a diaper" in a skirt... that's been my mom forever.
My mom is the same way. Not just what I want to wear but on everything else. Especially in raising my two kids. Now that this summer I’m planning my daughter’s sweet 15, it’s just going to be me and her only.
She is basically like every older Asian mom… They never apologize even when it’s their fault, the kids are never gonna be good enough, no matter how hard they try and never ever will they tell you that they love you
the mom doesn’t even hate the dress, she probably just jealous that her kid gets to wear a beautiful dress and she doesn’t.
Factss
It seems to me that Mom is single and it doesn't surprise me with a shitty attitude like that. She's clearly a narcissist.
Same
I think she’s jealous that she’s not as youthful. It’s so petty.
So true.. if there was other sections instead of being just bridal, pretty sure the mom would have ran off to shop for herself without second thought