Bride’s Mother AKA “The Mouth Of The South” Reduces Bride To Tears | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta
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Bride Taylor’s appointment is full of bickering from her separated parents, and when her mum, “the mouth of the south” dislikes her dress, she’s reduced to tears. How will Flo get this appointment back on track?
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From Season 4 Episode 2
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"I spent my last twenty years pleasing her, and now I'm a grown woman and it's time for me to please myself". Damn, I wish I had been that healthy at 20. Good for her.
Hardship one upper
Then her mom wasn't that bad, was she?
@@mamajedijaws4938 She still lost her marriage. And it’s obvious the daughter loves her Father more. So yes. She was bad.
@@mamajedijaws4938 it acculy proce she was worse then this today
That’s what she said.
The mom's jealousy of the father daughter relationship is literally seeping out her leather pores
"leather pores"🤣🤣
“leather pores” is quite possibly the most creative and effective insult i’ve ever heard
Same xD like ouch!
009999 up
Brilliant description!
“Your mouth is as big as your heart.” That’s the most Southern backhanded compliment I’ve ever heard.🤣
Should have had a bless your heart when she said it ❤️ 😅
😂
Except her heart is about the size of a peppercorn from the way she was insulting her daughter just so she could disagree with her husband. No wonder they're separated. A pity her mouth *wasn't* actually the size of her heart.
Dad's face as mom is body shaming his daughter says it ALL
Her mom couldn’t even SMILE about anything.
The fact that the first two dresses were practically the same except for the embellishment says everything.
I would’ve given that Karen the boot
Honestly I’d also be a daddy’s girl if I had a mother like that
Exactly!
I think the mom was drunk
Yes, I was, God rest his loving soul❤‼️
@@l.dougherty7573 rest in peace ❤
I honestly came to the comments wondering whether somebody had already written that....😂
The way the mom side-eyed the dad just for genuinely complimenting their daughter on how she looks in the dress tells you all you need to know about her mindset at this appointment.
exactly
The mom didn't even talk about how her daughter looked. All she cared to talk about was the dress. At least the dad talked about how SHE looked, not just the dress. He barely mentioned the dress!
These things are so heavily edited , it’s hard to know what’s real and not
Bombastic... 😅
Did you see most everyone was seated next to dad instead of mom 😂
Taylor's wedding was in 2012, she did wear this dress, and from the pictures her mom actually might not have been there at all. Some lovely photos of her dad walking her down that aisle though 🥰🥰
What’s her social media? Just curious. I would love to see photos
Her mom was zipping her dress on the wedding day.
@@michigan48 you never know. Mom might have said something to piss someone off after the daughter was in the dress and got asked to leave
@@colleenosullivan857 I actually know a couple who have done this. Parent was incredibly toxic, and they did something on the wedding day that got them kicked out before the wedding officially started.
you can see the mother behind the bride, when she and her dad were walking down the aisle. Not the tiniest sign of a smile on her face.
"What do you think daddy I don't wanna listen to her"
Sister truer words were never spoken AMEN
The fact that the mom was tearing down her daughter, saying she was boney, while the dad was calling her beautiful. No wonder she’s a daddy’s girl, he’s the only one who’s actually nice to her
The daughter is beautiful. Slender
She is beautiful and the mom is probably jealous of her.Mom's horrible personality etched on her face.
Funny how mom said she was boney on top in dad’s strapless pick and needed coverage but not in mom’s strapless pick that had about the same amount of coverage 🙄
Many women would KILL for that defined collar bone!!! She's beautiful!
😅😅9th
@@kelleythenurse3283
That woman's bitterness is literally etched on her face.
She needs to realize it's about what makes her daughter happy, not her.
Like wow she been rode hard in her life..she needs therapy really bad
Such a sad woman.
And thank the Lord she has her daddy's looks and sweetness.
@@purpleness64 she needs a swig of broubon...BAD
"She is like bulldozer to my happiness" i luv this line😂
The mom comes off as one of those people who had a kid because they wanted the attention during pregnancy and for the fun parts but resents the child for having their own personality and anyone who encourages that.
I completely agree
So, the mother says her daughter is “too bony” for the dress the father selected, but then the dress the mother selected has a more or less identical top and suddenly, the poor daughter isn’t “too bony”. Yeah, power struggle between the separated parents is what’s going on. Ridiculous, and sad that the daughter is in the middle of it.
Thank you! That is what I came to say!
I noticed that too. Was surprised nothing was said about that.
The dad's pick had a sweetheart neckline, the mom's dress was straight across. I think mom meant Taylor didn't have the chest to pull off the sweetheart, but I think that neckline actually gave the illusion of a bigger chest and looked lovely on her.
@@mtspp5801 Yes, you make a valid point but I also think the mother was obviously using the whole thing to spar with her soon to be Ex. Also, considering how fast she pivoted with the addition of the veil, the whole thing was probably staged for TV drama. Oh well, for whatever reason I still watch these videos! 🌻
@@cindygarman8603 Did we watch the same show? They literally said that at 3:56 😂
It makes me sad to see the mom act this way what a toxic person. I’m glad the daughter was strong enough to choose what she wanted
You said it best when you said toxic … I wonder if her husband has survived the MIL
Reality shows not so real, cameras are on, nastiness starts
Sometimes, you have to choose to stop communicating with people ALL together. Including your own mother and family members at times. Because they can just bring you down, burden you, distract you, hinder you, and be jealous of you. Sometimes, you just have to just love people from a distance, pray for them, forgive them, and move on with your life. Even with tears in your eyes and confusion in your hearts.
Agreed. The mom is a bitter joyless woman.
How does the mother say the first dress was wrong because she was too boney up top and needs to cover that but her dress was strapless also, so what happened to being too boney now. That made no damn sense.
I wish parents would realize it’s NOT about them. It’s her wedding. Her dress. Her memories.
The dad is a loving man, you can tell. His pick shows how much he pays attention to his daughter
That mother was toxic. What a horrible woman… she isn’t even paying for it.
Agree with you that mom is toxic. She's so mean even when everyone loved the dress and her daughter is crying
I was thinking the same thing!
I agree, however, I think her mother was in pain too, so she came around in the end, I'm gonna cut her some slack.
Yeah so her opinion matters less
@@adelevercueil9172 toxic like Chernobyl
Favorite lines: "She's very opinionated...we've been separated for some time now..."
"I've been trying to please her for 20 years, but I'm gonna stand up for what I want today." 💯💯💯
“….i love you but….your mouth is just as big as your heart” lol 😝
@@bodybalancer”your mouth is as big as your heart” is easily one of the best and the most backhanded compliments I’ve ever heard😂
“Can I say something just to take away from this” is an insane thing to say during a special moment for your child
Literally in love with the father and daughter relationship. The dress truly represented their relationship between the two. A 10
It's pretty telling that the mom's apology was, "I'm sorry she's crying," and not, "I'm sorry my hurtful words made her cry."
Yeesss!
Hello jessica
How are you doing today?
Absolutely! Most people couldn't act so cold if they tried to intentionally, and yet, it is just so second nature to this woman! Man she's cruel. At least she is honest...that was the 'only' thing she was sorry about.
@@peterparker01676 Go away creep. How’s Nigeria btw?
@@maggiemae9099 honestly I'm a brutal honest person but not on a personal level when its someone's special day
Good for the dad he manage to break way from toxicity
It's easy to see why they split.
Not entirely. There was a bit of tit for tat there. Mother was a very bitter, unhappy woman. Shame she couldn't just be happy and supportive for her daughter. There are further complications if the daughter is the first child to marry. Mother not ready to move to a new phase of life
@@helendavies1326 the mom hated dresses just because the dad liked them. The dad on the other hand hates the dress cause he knew their daughter hates the dress. Mom was only looking for what she wanted in a dress, dad was looking for what the bride wanted.
Seems like he left his daughter to deal with that (who was most likely still underaged/a child!).
I can't really cheer for that, tbh.
@@leonamay8776 Who's to say her mother had custody?
Sometimes, someone needs to say "It's NOT your wedding, mother!"
That dad was an absolute sweetheart and i feel like the bond they had, he could genuinely tell what his daughter loves. That mom though…good lord almighty.
Dad’s pick is gorgeous, my jaw dropped when she turned to face the mirror
@@mht4908 it truly was
I love how they showed the actual wedding day. I wish they would do that more often.
Yes!!! Agree!
I agree and love seeing them wear the dress they chose on the wedding day.
I read somewhere that quite often that a new dress gets picked after the show. So they only show ones where the dress is used in the wedding. A lot of the brides get bullied into picking a dress by their families and decide to fix that
Ya that's really beautiful 🥰
I like showing the wedding day because it puts it all in perspective. I loved the dress but not for a beach wedding. I wouldn't have picked any of those dresses for a beach wedding.
"She's like a bulldozer to my happiness..."
Heartbreaking
When your daughter walks in with tears of joy in her eyes and a smile on her face you shouldn't shut her down just to 'win'.
Dad was so sweet. I miss my dad so much. Don't forget to hug your fathers.
What a supportive Dad.
Especially the way he was focusing it on her and what was good for HER!!!
His choice of dress was my favorite!!
I wish they would ask the other people their opinions. She looked good in both. Lucky to have such a figure.🇦🇺😊♥️
Yeah, I have to agree with you. I wish my parents had their wedding before they had me in their life. If I married Nakia and my mom says that the dress I’m wearing is beautiful, then I would accept her as a fashion consultant.
Mom comments were uncalled for. I see why she was called Mouth of the South.
No, actually, mom was beyond rude, she was downright verbally abusive. Southerners are polite.
@@scallopohare9431 Yup and even Lori was annoyed and wanted to shut her up.
No wonder Dad divorced her. Nasty hard faced woman.
Literally 😂😂😂😂
Angelic bride. Who with grace.. dealt the toxic narcissistic mother... Stellar father complimenting his daughter...
And Monte.. Outstanding insight into the best dress for the bride
( Thank you Miss Lori for shutting her up)
Agreed!
The dad got so triggered when the mom said the bride looked “bony” it was written all over his face😂😂😭😭btw she was GORGEOUS 🎉 in every dress you go sis💅💯
That "mother's" behavior was absolutely dreadful. No wonder the dad divorced her.
To be fair, experience may have made her that way. We don't know that Dad is a good as he seems. Mum should have risen above her issues though. Sad, unhappy woman
@@helendavies1326 No need to bend over backwards to defend the mom just because she's a woman. There's no excuse for her behavior - period!
And in time to save Taylor from lifelong low self esteem and low confidence Cheers to Taylor and Dad. Warms my heart to see freedom after life with a tyrannical bully bitch. ❤
@Helen Davies I don't know. I tend to lean towards the dad being a good guy, because that mother certainly didn't raise Taylor to be the gracious woman she's become.
@@helendavies1326 There's *NO* excuse for her behavior PERIOD.
Taylor is absolutely lovely and gracious. She managed to be kind and have something nice to say about the "mouth of the south", even after this narcissistic unit was cruel, childish, toxic and rude. Your 20-year sentence is over. The wedding looked beautiful. This young woman deserves every good thing to come her way.
Thank God her dad had her back!! He just wanted her to be happy and feel beautiful. Her mother just wanted her to be miserable because she wasn't the centre of attention. Just plain NASTY!
Amen
Dude the dad's reaction when the mom said she liked the other one better was murderous! I love him!
I’m SO happy for Taylor, her husband, and Taylor’s dad. she learned a lot of great behaviors from her father.
Even if the mother read these comments about her bad behavior, I can tell it wouldn’t ever change her attitude..
Her bitterness & nastiness is literally carved into her face by the universe
Because narcissists can never admit fault.
"I spent my last 20 years pleasing her, and now I'm a grown woman it's time for me to please myself." 👏👏👏👏
My daughter picked out her gown because it's her wedding. I had no say except "mommy what do you think of this one?" I loved it.
I love how the dad is just ignoring her 😂😂👏🏼👏🏼
The daughter has the grace of an angel. She looks beautiful in her dress of choice.
The dress her dad picked is beautiful! The mom’s dress is like a 1 out of 10. I can relate to hearing someone’s opinions that are negative and hurtful. My ex-stepdad and cousin were like that with me and my mom. It was supposed to be our own wardrobe decisions, but we let other people’s decisions and opinions manipulate us into losing our own decisions.
Absolutely…it was made for her!
When the dad said " Next" I laughed 😂😌
20 yrs old and already a tiger! Go girl!
That's why the parents are separated....mom's attitude is just....wow
I just wish he left her earlier and thaken custurdy if the kid so she not needed to grow up with that thing
The mom only hated the first dress out of spite. Not only was it not in mom's ideal style, but the dad picked it
I have no words for how I feel about that mother.🤦🏾♀️ I hope she has a wonderful wedding.
The dad is being a great father. The mom needs to realize that it is the daughter's wedding day and it isn't about what dress the mom wants.
I thought this girl looked amazing in each dress she had on, including mom's favorite. I don't think she could make a wrong choice.
Despite the mom’s attitude, I thought she picked a lovely dress. The one the bride went with looked more like a wedding cake with all the layers.
I agree!
And narcissistic moms like this wonder why their kids don’t call or visit once they move out. What an evil mom!
My husband and I eloped so we wouldn’t have to put up with all that drama. My parents divorced unamicabily when I was five and it was a constant battle all the time. Then I would have had to put my in laws in the war zone which I wasn’t going to do. So I really felt for this young lady.
Love how happy she looked when she said her fiancé's name!
I would be ecstatic to be asked to come along to pick the dress. Whatever makes my girl happy! When my husband and I broke up, I tried really hard to make sure there was as little competition between us as I could. It’s not about who is right or wrong, or who is closer to the bride. It’s about her. It’s an honor to be included. A privilege, not a right.
You a real MVP good job!!
When the mother said, "It just doesn't do that for me," I wanted to punch the screen. Honestly, can she not see how happy her daughter is in this dress? It's the bride's day, not hers!
"She's like a bulldozer into my happiness," really got me 😂
glad that she has supportive in-laws. They looked pretty happy for her!
i really get how taylor feels, having spent her whole life trying to make her hypercritical mom happy to no avail. i took my mom with me to try on a dress i had actually already ordered online, so the try-on was more of a formality, but i gave her explicit instructions that she was not to say ANYTHING negative. she actually kept her mouth shut, surprisingly, and i'm glad taylor stood up to her mom too. even if someone's dress isn't YOUR style, the prettiest thing about it is how happy the bride feels wearing it. that's what's important.
I have the same kind of mother. I got married in a tshirt and jeans and didn't tell her til afterward!
See, what you did was good, you set your boundaries and expectations so she knows to be supportive or not speak.
This bride called her mother horrible names to the entourage and on TV before her mother said anything! That was so disrespectful. Dont draw first blood, then expect a toxic person not to be toxic? She is halfway there to becoming her mother with her own mean jabs.
@@perfecttenk8744 I'd argue the mom drew first blood by spending the daughter's whole life being verbally abusive, if mom didn't want to be publicly called out she should have been a better mother. should the bride not have warned the staff & crew of her mom's lifelong tendencies?
@dietotaku yes, she invited her mother, she has to give a decent amount of respect that should be gvn to mom. Same goes for mom, having accepted the invite, she shd show a decent amt of respect. What kind of horrible person invites someone to an event, to bad mouth the invitee to the public? A good person will hope for the best behaviour from her guests but will apologise if guests disbehave, not speak ill of people before it even happened. Daughter drew first blood. Arguably, she maybe willed it to happen on a subconscious level by her actions.
If the mom behaves like a troll, good for the crew and bridal business, they don't need warnings... Juicy & candid reality shows make money!
abused victims don't have to become abusers. Violence begets violence. This bad learned behaviour that is usually generational can be stopped before it gets passed on to her descendants. Kindness is key.
I guess we can't blame the poor bride at all. She had no good role model to learn good conduct from.
I’m glad she at least has one loving, supportive parent.
I died when everyone turned at the same time 💀💀💀😅😅😅 So sad that her mom was so negative. It's supposed to be for her daughter and her happiness.
I wound up picking a wedding location and dress based on what my mother wanted.
I can’t go back in time but I learned a lesson for my own daughter: she is her own person, and seeing her happy and thriving gives me joy. She is mot my clone, she is her own beautiful self.
My mother ruined my wedding on purpose…it took years to forgive her
@@conniebishop3966 I am sorry. I hope you had a lovely honeymoon.
I can see why her father split with this woman. He was an absolute gem of a father. His joy for his daughter made me tear up. The mother was an absolute witch though. I felt so bad for the beautiful bride for having to endure the insults. I can only imagine how she treated her child growing up.
she used her moms own words against her, u go girl!
Usually I don’t like the dresses the brides pick but this one..omg this one was beautiful on her, it was made for her and her body shape. I loved this dress on her and I don’t even like lace 🥰💕💕💕
Love that everyone just does a “wtf did i just hear” turn when she said that
The best part of this episode is that Taylor came out with a positive outlook. She could have talked down about her mom but she decided to find a benefit from her mom's negative behavior.
If I had a daughter, I’d do anything to make her day extra special. To see her cry made me cry. Every bride should be so happy with their gown. Bless them. 💜💕❤️🙏🌈
Same I would make my daughter feel like a princess every day in evry way I could
Mom is one of those “she’s not happy unless everyone else is unhappy.”
SHE ATE WHEN SHE SAID "i love you, but your mouth is as big as your heart" FINALLY A BRIDE THAT DEFENDS HERSELF
Wow..I can see WHY her parents are separated Her Mom is a nightmare.😱 Just glad everyone agreed in the end and the bride was happy.
My grandmother's nickname was Midtown Motor Mouth and I could not have listened to her Mom spit venom like that without saying something. "Mouth of the South." More like just plain bitter. Her attitude's like unsweet tea in a can. I'm so glad her daughter stood up for herself. And her Mom can't call anyone boney when her own face looks more crusty than old cornbread.
🤣🤣🤣
What a nasty comment CrazyP in regards to the mums face.
So true!! Her mother was nasty as all f***! I'd ban her from the wedding, if she was my mother!
Beotch
Oof xD
What a wonderful, supportive Dad!
My parents have been separated since I was 15 I'm 32 now but got married at 27 and I shut any kind of argument down between them both. Told them to get their shit together or no one is coming to the wedding. They were well behaved and made me so happy. You have to take a stand especially since it's your wedding.
I hate how they're making it seem like both parents are acting bad but when the mom is 100% the problem. She even said at one point, she doesn't care if her daughter gets mad at her as long as she gets her way.
What an absolutely beautiful bride.
I'm so happy for her. It's so nice to see a healthy father/daughter relationship.
I love the side eye the stylist gave the mother
Monte deserves a hug from the bride too. He's the one that found her dress.
The bride has the perfect willow-ly, shape...and looks so beautiful in this dress.
I can't get over how many parents think the day is about them.
If it was my daughter I would say a 10 on ANY dress she puts on. To me all bridal dresses look beautiful on all these girls.
That lace literally brought tears to my eyes! Before the bride even walked out and cried!
If my mother ever said those things to me, I'd happily go no contact.
I did!
@@darleneengebretsen1468 I'm so sorry she said anything like that to you. You don't deserve that💙
that would guarantee a non invite to a wedding, i would absolutely disinvite that mom on TV
Love what the daughter said at the beginning of the video to her mom; “Your mouth is big as your heart.” 😂
When they cried over the first bride, I cried too.❤
That’s why mom is SINGLE!
💯😂 And the dad seems so happy!
@@florida9728 😂😂
I get the feeling Mom makes herself the center of attention wherever she goes.
I thought the same thing! As long as her daughters crying and miserable, she's happy!!
I look at the lines on Mama's weather-beaten face and can see she has spent most of her life sneering, frowning, shouting, and rolling her eyes. That Mama has the visage of a Medusa. The people surrounding her turn to stone before our eyes. Everyone shuts down emotionally. It's downright scary. No wonder she's a Daddy's Girl. He's not a narcissistic git like the Mama.
This comment should have a LOT more “likes”!!
Oh nah, don't insult poor Medusa like that. Lmao, someone oughtta said she looks like off brand Gordon Ramsey in drag!
Pure poetry 👌
@@jocelynpeters2062 You couldn't have said anything to make a poet-become-prose-writer happier. Thank you.
You hit the nail on the head! 👍
Lovely young woman with a strong mind. All the best for her and her husband!
The mother looks like she has been frowning and complaining all her life.
I think Taylor’s mum has lots of regrets ..instead of lashing out she needs to look inside ….all the bitterness and regrets show on her face…
Too much time in the sun!
Just what I was thinking! (Penelope & Narelle)
I think so too. It feels like she is jealous of her daughter.
Once again, Behold The Power of the Veil! But mom is still a bitch.
Nah. This kind of people never has regrets
How can dress 1 reveal a too bony chest, but not dress 2? Mom has some serious issues she needs to address with therapy.
To have a relationship that the daughter and dad have is so special 💗 wish every girl could have that
Dad's dress was the best she was so smart in it. But I love the bride had her good dress In the moment. I pray that mom would get guidance and help to make the family happy. I pray happiness for the bride. Stay strong always.
As soon as that 'mom' said "I like the other dress better" they all should have said "Well it's a good thing YOU are not wearing the dress".
Im happy her dad got away from that mom and I hope the daughter learns how to also! I would have kicked my mom out the second she opened her mouth!!
❤❤❤❤ this Bride is already such a beauty. Im sooo glad she got HER dress.
May the bride and groom have many years of happiness! Jokes on the mom, she said all that stuff to her daughter on TV for all to see.
you go baby girl as i don't think ANYBODY or ANYTHING could "please" that woman!!!
Glad the bride stood up for herself. Her friends didn't judge her either, as well as the dad. I couldn't stand the mother one bit
You picked a beautiful dress, glad your mama finally came around. And your daddy is very sweet for wanting his little girl to be happy
I love that dad! He seems amazing