Narcissists have an entitled and possessive attitude towards their target. They enjoy upsetting the target to receive their narcissistic supply. Before going no-contact, the narcissist in my family would actually call me up and proclaim "I've got something else for you to worry about" and it would be some insignificant thing that had absolutely nothing to do with me. They expected me to solve or assist with every facet of their lives "because we're family".
And because you are "family" you must tolerate whatever BS shite show they are currently running. What sicko claims you are family so they can ramp up the abuse? These narcs out here that's who.
Typical narc so much drama especially mothers😀. Love your work. That’s exactly no how they work. I have been in the airport with her it’s total chaos. She loves making a scene🌻
Omfg. My mom would scream bloody murder over the tv remote. She couldnt find it. After 30 min of yelling, i would go downstairs to find it. It was always within arms reach of her. Drove me insane. Did you even look before yelling?
You are so right. Everything is always an issue. I remember the Saturday before I escaped him with my kids. I was in front of the coffee machine at home. And I had been so gaslighted about this that I actually was thinking ok he told me turn it off after the first coffee cause you are going to burn the house down and on other occasions he had told me keep it on because I want my second coffee warm. That triggered something in me. It told me this will never get better. I can't think for myself anymore.
It’s about control and trying to make you feel on edge that somehow you are wrong and they are right. In my opinion. Several times I had been driving with my mum in the car and the criticism was constant and I’d just stop and say shut up or get out of the car, I’m at risk of having an accident… It’s quite dangerous, their agitation could cause the wrong person to probably hit them. It’s quite risky behaviour on their part.
Good job imitating the narsisists. Ive seen them over react exactly like that in real life. And if your around it long enough it can litteraly make you sick. I ve been in those situations and when the heat comes down on me , the first one I call on is Jesus to deluver me.
@TruthTiger just keep working out like you been doing, and studying nutrition . Some people with the right touch have healed up from even the extremes. People with autoimmune disease have done well with low carb diets ,and interminted fasting. God bless you on your journey to recovery.
My narc mother grasps at straws to try to have an argument. Everything is a big thing with narcs, simple household tasks are some kind of big deal for her. I can’t tell her something that is needed for the house, or that the cats need more food without hearing how her life is so hard. My mother had demanded for help when I was a teen and a couple times turned around and physically attacked me for helping, so I’m slow to help people now- not interested in getting attacked. I still have a scar on my calf from her stabbing me with her heel when I was 15 helping her with her electric keyboard she never played- it has faded so much you can only see it in some bright lighting but when I see it it serves as a reminder of how she has treated me. I never help her because I see it as her seeking to abuse me in some way.
It really is the boy that cried wolf. I thought I had life debilitating anxiety till I got out. Life is so calm it’s almost boring. I love it!
I’m in the same boat, every day I’m a little less anxious. Feels good to heal
Narcissists have an entitled and possessive attitude towards their target. They enjoy upsetting the target to receive their narcissistic supply. Before going no-contact, the narcissist in my family would actually call me up and proclaim "I've got something else for you to worry about" and it would be some insignificant thing that had absolutely nothing to do with me. They expected me to solve or assist with every facet of their lives "because we're family".
And because you are "family" you must tolerate whatever BS shite show they are currently running. What sicko claims you are family so they can ramp up the abuse? These narcs out here that's who.
The narcissistic family is a prison.
Family should be good thing, but the narcs turn it into trap
Im dying laughing at you doing what narcs do 😂😂 its so true.
Thank you for your videos 🙌🏼
Your very welcome ❤
Yo this topic is great, I dealt with this too, these Narcissist have a big problem to grab attention from everyone else, every single week.
Haha they make a big deal over everything
Yep, always overdramatizing
Typical narc so much drama especially mothers😀. Love your work. That’s exactly no how they work. I have been in the airport with her it’s total chaos. She loves making a scene🌻
It’s always some stupid thing to panic about
Omfg. My mom would scream bloody murder over the tv remote. She couldnt find it. After 30 min of yelling, i would go downstairs to find it. It was always within arms reach of her. Drove me insane.
Did you even look before yelling?
Dude, same here, it’s so annoying
You are so right. Everything is always an issue. I remember the Saturday before I escaped him with my kids. I was in front of the coffee machine at home. And I had been so gaslighted about this that I actually was thinking ok he told me turn it off after the first coffee cause you are going to burn the house down and on other occasions he had told me keep it on because I want my second coffee warm. That triggered something in me. It told me this will never get better. I can't think for myself anymore.
Lol lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yep, lol 😂
Hahaha so true 👍
Thank you 🙏
This is hilarious 😂
Thanks bro 😎
It’s about control and trying to make you feel on edge that somehow you are wrong and they are right. In my opinion.
Several times I had been driving with my mum in the car and the criticism was constant and I’d just stop and say shut up or get out of the car, I’m at risk of having an accident…
It’s quite dangerous, their agitation could cause the wrong person to probably hit them. It’s quite risky behaviour on their part.
Oh yeah, eventually they’ll piss off the wrong person
2:26 You're so animated, but you got the narcs down pat tho 😂😂😂
Oh yeah lol, they get so crazy
Good job imitating the narsisists. Ive seen them over react exactly like that in real life. And if your around it long enough it can litteraly make you sick. I ve been in those situations and when the heat comes down on me , the first one I call on is Jesus to deluver me.
Oh I’ve got health issues now because of it. I’m healing day by day with the help of Jesus Christ.
But yeah it’s not a good environment to be in
@TruthTiger just keep working out like you been doing, and studying nutrition . Some people with the right touch have healed up from even the extremes. People with autoimmune disease have done well with low carb diets ,and interminted fasting. God bless you on your journey to recovery.
I wanna go for a drive with you in this car one day 🥰😄
Maybe one day 😅 ❤
Cockroaches
Yuuup, they are very low creatures
My narc mother grasps at straws to try to have an argument. Everything is a big thing with narcs, simple household tasks are some kind of big deal for her. I can’t tell her something that is needed for the house, or that the cats need more food without hearing how her life is so hard. My mother had demanded for help when I was a teen and a couple times turned around and physically attacked me for helping, so I’m slow to help people now- not interested in getting attacked. I still have a scar on my calf from her stabbing me with her heel when I was 15 helping her with her electric keyboard she never played- it has faded so much you can only see it in some bright lighting but when I see it it serves as a reminder of how she has treated me. I never help her because I see it as her seeking to abuse me in some way.
Like living in a soap opera
Oh yeah, that’s a great way of putting it
😂😂😂