Another really big obstacle is when parents and children have a disagreement on the kind of person to marry. Parents are not willing to look outside the culture when living in a new country.
True but a lot of muslim men these days are the same the first question they ask a woman is what do u do for ur career when it comes to marriage. They see women who are not going to take their career seriously or already have a career established as not marriage worthy instead of her deen, beauty, taqwa and akhlaq. Some parents are not different either they want their children to look for someone with good 'high paying' job otherwise they are deemed as not marriage worthy. Sad that things have become like this in our muslim communities where people seek temporary materialistic things as a priority.
@@Flowersx-x Yeah that is materialism and not true devotion to God. Piety should be the first thing someone looks for in a partner. Not money. And men are expected to be providers so that is quite funny how they would be asking what a woman does for a career.
No. We not only need to get married. We need to get in touch again with nature of man and woman. Women have to learn how to be real wifes and mothers. And men need to learn how to be husbands and fathers.
I began to think that the married people who have their desires fulfilled don't feel the struggles of unmarried men and women who are trying their best to stay out of zina
@@abu-7854 I'm happy for you, but how come the society at large is silence like it is normal for people to get married at the age of 30 and the way to marriage is becoming more difficult, even in Massajid they only do recycled Khotbat every year like a deja vu and they do not talk about youth struggles, and the fathers of the girls not taking the advice of our prophet pbuh about the Maher (asking for too much) and they expect the youth to have it all we forgot it all this is why we reach this awful point.
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@King Sultan Excuse me I never wore make up in my life it's just all natural beauty.I only wear lipstick only.Everything else is my totally natural face.And you don't even know me to tell me such of thing.
I'm not making any excuses I'm just telling you that I don't wear and never wore make up in my entire life in my face.Because you just accused me of wearing makeup.And don't even know me to see.There's no excuses.Just replying to you in truth.
Women generally feel apathetic to men, or have a mild contempt for them - unless a man is exceptionally handsome or high-status. So, it could be said, they don't really 'like' men - they just like his superior genetics and finances. There is no point hating them for this. It's just instincts, and no woman chose it. Hating women for not liking 95% of men is like hating women for having five fingers on her hand. It's totally arbitrary. It's perhaps the toughest pill to swallow, but women are indifferent to men, and actually kinda feel disdain for us. They have only tolerated us for so long, but with feminism, we can truly see where their interests lie. Just accept it, and live the best life you can.
what in the black pill, kys ideology is this. brother the muslim men are the scarcity. you might not see it, but there are hundreds of options for you, trust me. just get stability and taqwa then they will come to you. You said alot of wrong things in your comment, but yes women are different to men ofcourse. take romaani's new course, you will learn and level up in this dunya and akhira
If girls are not treated as girls ,if their islamic rights are violated ,then she may start showing masculine attitude ,not always the case ,but ..the same goes for adult women.
I find it very wierd for a man to not be married smh exactly what is he doing to fulfill himself men are very sexual. These brothers need to fear Allah
@@Sara-216 You can't even begin to compare RP with feminism. Feminism is responsible for taking women out of the home and into the workforce, it is the root cause of almost every ill in our society. It reduced the cost of labour making two-income households a necessity, it taught women to despise men, it is breaking families apart. RP would not even exist without feminism
@@Sara-216 RP isn't an ideology, no one can name a single prescription because there aren't any. All RP does is analyse the dynamics between men and women and come to conclusions based off of that, it doesn't prescribe a way of life or a particular set of actions like feminism does. I can be a Muslim man and also acknowledge certain RP realities like saying 'no' to your wife, lest she begin to resent you for never standing your ground, just like Umar RA did. Anyway, I'm not offended or mad lmao, idk how you came to that conclusion. Maybe it's the style of my writing.
Staying halal? Wow, I dont know where to begin. 1. They arent intrested. 2. If they are, there is something which causes lost intrest. 3. They take time to "know" each other but when it comes to meet with parents, they will take a long time to agree, but most of the time, they find an excuse then. 4. The wali doesnt like one, because other nation or you look to much of a müslüm. 5. When you can bring it to an meeting, than its not even something you find attractiv.
She was wrong for doing so, the Prophet Muhammad SAW commanded his wives to stay in their houses, you think he'd be ok with her leading an army? cmon on man even Allah swt tells his wives to stay in their houses " And stay in your homes and do not go about displaying your allurements as in the former Time of Ignorance." Ahzaab ayah 33 and if you actually knew you're history then you'd know about the hadith where Rasulallah prophesized this happening to ali and told ali to forgive her when it happens, no grounded muslim much less a scholar has ever viewed Aisha leading an army as a good thing. and theres also reports of her repenting from her actions afterwards and never leaving her home after that
No, women should NOT lead. Al-Bukhari reported that Abu Bakra (Nufay' ibn al-Harith) narrated that “when news reached the Prophet that the Persians had made Khosrau's (Kisra Shirawayh) daughter (Buran) their queen, he said: *'Never will such a people succeed who make a woman their ruler.'*
This is technically incorrect, she did not lead the army in fighting. She was only symbolically present there in order to negotiate terms with the other side, in order to aid reconciliation between both sides. Her presence carried weight due to her high status as the Mother of the Believers on both sides. She was not giving fighting orders like a general, nor making fighting strategies like a commander, nor fighting like a soldier in the army.
Another really big obstacle is when parents and children have a disagreement on the kind of person to marry. Parents are not willing to look outside the culture when living in a new country.
Marriage is not a priority anymore because we have lost our values. It's all about money and status now; it is not about God.
True but a lot of muslim men these days are the same the first question they ask a woman is what do u do for ur career when it comes to marriage. They see women who are not going to take their career seriously or already have a career established as not marriage worthy instead of her deen, beauty, taqwa and akhlaq. Some parents are not different either they want their children to look for someone with good 'high paying' job otherwise they are deemed as not marriage worthy. Sad that things have become like this in our muslim communities where people seek temporary materialistic things as a priority.
@@Flowersx-x Yeah that is materialism and not true devotion to God. Piety should be the first thing someone looks for in a partner. Not money. And men are expected to be providers so that is quite funny how they would be asking what a woman does for a career.
It is time to wake up brothers and sisters
We need to get married and bring a solid generation
Yes we can so lets do it
No. We not only need to get married. We need to get in touch again with nature of man and woman. Women have to learn how to be real wifes and mothers. And men need to learn how to be husbands and fathers.
@@a.m.3744
Yeah totally agree
@@a.m.3744 that is why i said solid generation
We can’t raise a solid generation if we are not what we are supposed to be
Just teach men to be men, and women will follow and obey.
You cant force people to get married when they dont want to.
Subhanallah this was a great talk, made me reconsider my outlook in things
Alhumdullilah this was very beneficial
Wa alekum salam wa rahmutallahi wa baraktuh
We hav given the order......
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I began to think that the married people who have their desires fulfilled don't feel the struggles of unmarried men and women who are trying their best to stay out of zina
Bullshit.
@@SayfumaniMyG what are you doing here if you can't form a proper sentence.
We were unmarried once as well..we do know the struggles actually.
@@abu-7854 I'm happy for you, but how come the society at large is silence like it is normal for people to get married at the age of 30 and the way to marriage is becoming more difficult, even in Massajid they only do recycled Khotbat every year like a deja vu and they do not talk about youth struggles, and the fathers of the girls not taking the advice of our prophet pbuh about the Maher (asking for too much) and they expect the youth to have it all we forgot it all this is why we reach this awful point.
Exactly! They should love for their brothers what they love for themselves
Alahumma barik lahu brother Gabriel. This is the reality of things SubhanAllah.☕🤍
Supplication Against Evil Eye 😈 👁
Mashallah means 👉🏻 What Allah has willed
( This Does not protect us from the evil eye ❌ )
Allahumma Barik Lahu - May Allah bless him 🤲🏻 ✔
Allahumma Barik Laha - May Allah bless her 🤲🏻 ✔
Allahumma Barik Lahum - May Allah bless them 🤲🏻 ✔
BarakAllahu Laka Feeha - May Allah bless it for you 🤲🏻 ✔
@@thetruthwithproof8802 yes I know brother! Just trying error. I do it a lot, Jazakum Allah Khairun.
@@Water321g sister
l was not taking a mistake out of your comment
l loved your comment
@@thetruthwithproof8802 Awww Jazakum Allah Khairun brother 🤍
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Forced marriages are forbidden in islam ( Quran 4 : 19 )
As-Salaam Alaikum.
@King Sultan Excuse me I never wore make up in my life it's just all natural beauty.I only wear lipstick only.Everything else is my totally natural face.And you don't even know me to tell me such of thing.
I'm not making any excuses I'm just telling you that I don't wear and never wore make up in my entire life in my face.Because you just accused me of wearing makeup.And don't even know me to see.There's no excuses.Just replying to you in truth.
@King Sultan Well maybe so.
Your videos have low sound!!
no 1 is money
no 2 is having a wife
Women generally feel apathetic to men, or have a mild contempt for them - unless a man is exceptionally handsome or high-status. So, it could be said, they don't really 'like' men - they just like his superior genetics and finances.
There is no point hating them for this. It's just instincts, and no woman chose it.
Hating women for not liking 95% of men is like hating women for having five fingers on her hand. It's totally arbitrary.
It's perhaps the toughest pill to swallow, but women are indifferent to men, and actually kinda feel disdain for us. They have only tolerated us for so long, but with feminism, we can truly see where their interests lie. Just accept it, and live the best life you can.
what in the black pill, kys ideology is this. brother the muslim men are the scarcity. you might not see it, but there are hundreds of options for you, trust me. just get stability and taqwa then they will come to you. You said alot of wrong things in your comment, but yes women are different to men ofcourse. take romaani's new course, you will learn and level up in this dunya and akhira
What about just being nice and being decent caring human beings?
@King Sultan is it true?
Women were created weaker to be looked after by men. And men were created to lust over women
If girls are not treated as girls ,if their islamic rights are violated ,then she may start showing masculine attitude ,not always the case ,but ..the same goes for adult women.
Treat your wife nicely ( Quran 4 : 19 )
I find it very wierd for a man to not be married smh exactly what is he doing to fulfill himself men are very sexual. These brothers need to fear Allah
@king how is he fulfilling his sexual desires ??? Zina masturabation smh
Men can’t go years no sex let’s be real unless he a wierdo
As soon as I realise that loyalty and love is not in a woman's dictionary; my libido drops, and then I go about my day. Easy peasy.
@@vost2916 Congrants, youre gay...or asexual.
They orgasm unvoluntarly or jerk off...most likely the latter.
feminism, thats the main obstacle atm
@King Sultan what is feminsim???
@@Sara-216 You can't even begin to compare RP with feminism. Feminism is responsible for taking women out of the home and into the workforce, it is the root cause of almost every ill in our society. It reduced the cost of labour making two-income households a necessity, it taught women to despise men, it is breaking families apart. RP would not even exist without feminism
@@ahmedalmahdi9254 My opinion was all the deviant ideologies are bad..... Why are u so offended brother....??Chill !
@@Sara-216 RP isn't an ideology, no one can name a single prescription because there aren't any. All RP does is analyse the dynamics between men and women and come to conclusions based off of that, it doesn't prescribe a way of life or a particular set of actions like feminism does. I can be a Muslim man and also acknowledge certain RP realities like saying 'no' to your wife, lest she begin to resent you for never standing your ground, just like Umar RA did.
Anyway, I'm not offended or mad lmao, idk how you came to that conclusion. Maybe it's the style of my writing.
nah women r still getting married even the feminists at high rates. we just don't have to settle for below par men which is why yall r truly mad
Staying halal?
Wow, I dont know where to begin.
1. They arent intrested.
2. If they are, there is something which causes lost intrest.
3. They take time to "know" each other but when it comes to meet with parents, they will take a long time to agree, but most of the time, they find an excuse then.
4. The wali doesnt like one, because other nation or you look to much of a müslüm.
5. When you can bring it to an meeting, than its not even something you find attractiv.
Aisha ra Led an army.
if we're talking about knowledge being POW_R then EVERY WOMAN SHOULD BE LEADING.
She was wrong for doing so, the Prophet Muhammad SAW commanded his wives to stay in their houses, you think he'd be ok with her leading an army? cmon on man even Allah swt tells his wives to stay in their houses "
And stay in your homes and do not go about displaying your allurements as in the former Time of Ignorance." Ahzaab ayah 33
and if you actually knew you're history then you'd know about the hadith where Rasulallah prophesized this happening to ali and told ali to forgive her when it happens, no grounded muslim much less a scholar has ever viewed Aisha leading an army as a good thing. and theres also reports of her repenting from her actions afterwards and never leaving her home after that
No, women should NOT lead.
Al-Bukhari reported that Abu Bakra (Nufay' ibn al-Harith) narrated that “when news reached the Prophet that the Persians had made Khosrau's (Kisra Shirawayh) daughter (Buran) their queen, he said: *'Never will such a people succeed who make a woman their ruler.'*
This is technically incorrect, she did not lead the army in fighting. She was only symbolically present there in order to negotiate terms with the other side, in order to aid reconciliation between both sides. Her presence carried weight due to her high status as the Mother of the Believers on both sides. She was not giving fighting orders like a general, nor making fighting strategies like a commander, nor fighting like a soldier in the army.
@@itsmuna8155 ﷺ
@@essencediviner but she participated.