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⚠ WHICH SECT IS CORRECT ❓ Every sect claims to be following the Quran & Hadith Joining to a sect means we abide by the teachings of the sect & this is the real cause of 73 sects The problem is we connect to a sect & then go along with whatever they have been taught, even if it contradicts the Quran & Hadith on some matters. The perfected & complete islam had no sects & the soloution was follow the Quran & Hadith The perfected & complete islam taught us to follow the Quran & Hadith If we all simply followed the Quran & Hadith, we would only have one sect To be amongst the correct sect, we must follow the Quran and Hadith strictly CONCLUSION 👉🏻 The BEST way to unite the ummah is by following the Quran & Hadith
as nisa are emotional why isn't husband no. 1, sahabiyat offer nisa to the husband, even sisters to bond! some when re-did nikah wanted their 1st husband, nisa are monogamous & men polygynous, if a nisa is weak he should be shy but never apologize for being polygynous! it's like a bint apologizing for wanting to wear hijab, you just don't do it. nisa being over masculine is wrong like a guy being over feminine is wrong, thats the difference. and of course iman first, fact that this might be an issue maybe due to an overindulgence in dunya and maybe they might want a partner who is coming off the weak for dunya lifestyle so they can relate and bond by helping each other stay on the straight path. This should be why men should get virgins as well... sorry but truth is truth. maybe tell your son not to go for virgins but thats on you.
-WHICH SCHOLAR IS CORRECT ❓ Followers of every sect are REJECTING Scholars from all the other sects 👉🏻 An average BARELVI will REJECT a SHIA Scholar with a DEGREE 👉🏻 An average DEOBANDI will REJECT a AHL I HADITH Scholar with a DEGREE 👉🏻 An average follower from every sect will REJECT Scholars from 72 sects According to our Prophet PBUH, Scholars from 72 sects will enter HELL Following a SCHOLAR means we must abide by the teachings of the sect he follows & this is the real cause of 73 sects To be on the safe side 👉🏻 we MUST learn direct from the Quran & Hadith or CHECK what we have been taught by any Scholar, Mufti or any preacher is in the Quran or Hadith The truth is if everyone followed the Quran & Hadith, we would not have different sects To be amongst the correct sect, we MUST follow the Quran and Hadith STRICTLY CONCLUSION 👉🏻 The BEST way to unite the ummah is by following the Quran & Hadith
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Gosh reading some of the comments really saddens me. There seems to be a high level of mistrust and hostility between bothers and sisters in Islam😥. I know many people have had negative and toxic relationships, but let us try not to generalise and say that all men are bad or all women are bad. At the end of the day, Allah made men and women to be together. Insha Allah if we focus on our iman and truly living our lives according to the Quran and Sunnah, that will help relations improve. I wish all my brothers and sisters all the best!🤲
Seriously. Right on point! Allahumma barilaha. I absolutely hate it when people label and stereotype and make blanket statements on any one. It shows such a lack level headed attitude in a person.
what gabriel said about married women thinking of another man than her husband being a huge nono for the husband is true imagine if your husband the father of your kid talked about another woman he saw or ecountered in the past (not a relationship he just saw her and she stayed in his mind after all these years even after meeting you) and described how pretty she is to HIS family while holding YOUR kid(lets say the kid is 2 years old) behind your back (you are not with them) how would feel as a woman ? imagine the same for a man if his wife did that describing a man she saw it didnt happen to me im 19 years old but i saw and heard a certain someone i know do that i had high respect for her but after that im scared to get married and experience that it broke my heart and i felt sad for him cause he is a good guy a husband and wife should honor eachother especially when one of them is absent
It can but i think its due to defeatist mentality in media, many sahabiyat offerred nisa to their husbands, even sisters & girl friends to bond! some nisa when they re-did nikah wanted their 1st husband, nisa are monogamous & men are polygynous, if a nisa is weak he should be shy but never apologize for being polygynous! that's like a bint apologizing for wanting to wear hijab, you just don't do it.
@5:50 well captured br Gabriel. Men don't want to hear from their wife they are attracted/intrested in another man. Completely destroys trust. Out of ignornace or accident a wife might reveal or say somehting along those lines, that can be forgiven if the case as men make mistakes too. But at times women might do this knowingly to hurt their husband or to mentally/emotionally manupilate them maybe thinking their husband will be gelous and try harder for them. In reality, it's deal breaker. I can't imagine the prophet or any companion staying with their wife after hearing they like someone else. What's the right boundary setting for dealing with this kind of situation br Gabriel?
Ofcourse, its a given. Men can do the same, describing intrest in another women to their wive(s). It's matter of character. If a man or a woman does this intentionally, harming the other spouse, it would be sinning and displeasing to Allah swt.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed Excalty! Most if not all women value protective gelously naturally. They feel wanted and valued when they see this from their man. For the same reason, someone women will describe other men "intentionally" to invoke this trait, so that they see a reaction of gheera, get attention and feel they are wanted/valued by their husband. Women posessing this behaviour are usually disregulated, they need and seek that attention regardless of the method. They fail to appreciate their action is displeasing to Allah and the end result. By mentioning other men...they activate this good trait of protective gelously. As the wife is the one who initiated this, the man might experience mental/emotional confusion/abuse at this point, freeze and experience shock. It's toying with the man's gheera and his honour. These traits identify him. An individual's tolerance determines when, but a grounded man will break off the marriage to protect his manhood prescribed by Islam or it will break him, which results in a broken marriage.
Even though somehow I disagree to a certain level but still hit that like button as a support. What my journey towards marriage thought me if you straighten up yourself/ur ❤/intention, do your best towards almighty Allah and your family non of this ideologies matters and you will live happily ever after with total peace and serenity insha Allah ... Ameen 🤲
I'm not a Muslim, but I enjoy listening to other people's points of view. I have been married to my husband for thirty years. He is from Mexico, I am from the USA. When we met, I didn't know Spanish, he didn't know English. He was very attracted to me. I turned him down a lot before a mutual friend bet me twenty dollars to go out with him. So we went out together. Enjoyed our first date, had many more, then married a year afterwards. We have two daughters. I believe that marriage is a series of growth phases. What you don't achieve in one marriage, will be there in the next, with extra baggage. So stay in the one marriage, as much as possible. Love is a choice. Attraction is just the reward for being open to love. It comes, then leaves, then comes back again. Just respect and choose to love each other. Even in the tough times.
It’s nice to think of love as a choice but it takes two to tango. If the other isn’t on the same page or even one within the same book then it doesn’t work.
@@janinemaldonado6806 if i knew my wife started hanging out with me over a bet in the past before we get married i would be heartbroken and maybe divorce
@@zakiaitslimane658 I was not confident in going out with him because he was/is a very handsome man. We spoke different languages and he is ten years older than I am. I didn't think, back then, that it was possible. I hadn't been in relationships because I was young. I thought that I would have been boring for him. Those were the reasons I told him "no". So his friend bet me, in front of him, and I finally agreed. I didn't think it would've worked out, but it did. Don't give up on one weird occurrence. Women have to be realistic in choosing a mate. Nobody wants to be a single parent. It may seem cruel, in your eyes, but from my naive perspective, back then, I was protecting my future. I didn't think that it was going to work out. He proved me wrong. Nothing wrong with that. We have a great relationship. I highly respect my husband.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed We are happy about it. It's not needed, in this time, in the US, because of our laws. But if society crashes, old times may return. I was a young person, back then, without romantic experience. I grew up with only brothers, with lots of sibling rivalry. A young girl doesn't know what an older woman knows. A man also must be patient for young ladies to mature a bit. Just like one must be patient with young men.
This is one thing that i fear the most, to be with a woman that sees me as a safety net. Its hard coz you expect me to give unconditional love, when deep down your love is conditional based upon things i might not even be able to change.
Nobody expects a husband to love unconditionally. Your love will be conditional and based on your wife's ability to satisfy you and bare your children. The only love between humans that's unconditional is the love between parent and child
what gabriel said about married women thinking of another man than her husband being a huge nono for the husband is true imagine if your husband the father of your kid talked about another woman he saw or ecountered in the past (not a relationship he just saw her and she stayed in his mind after all these years even after meeting you) and described how pretty she is to HIS family while holding YOUR kid(lets say the kid is 2 years old) behind your back (you are not with them) how would feel as a woman ? imagine the same for a man if his wife did that describing a man she saw it didnt happen to me im 19 years old but i saw and heard a certain someone i know do that i had high respect for her but after that im scared to get married and experience that it broke my heart and i felt sad for him cause he is a good guy a husband and wife should honor eachother especially when one of them is absent
@@96muslimgirl i agree my only crush would be my wife if she calls MY parents mom and dad seriously i dont know if its every man but if my wife calls my parents mom and dad like her own parents i would faint from cuteness and have hearts on my eyes
@@96muslimgirl it's very shallow, even some nisa who really appreciate the husband will want their man to do nika again, because they like strong men and respect them & sometimes even with their girlfriend to bond, this is real life vs. celebrity stuff is very childish... its the issue with secular people, they don't grow up adn act like they will live forever when thats only in jannah...
@@ulama7828 she admires a male celebrity basically a male famous person for whatever he does which is inappropriate in both genders , if he’s known or unknown doesn’t make it better
not all nisa agree, many nisa like polygynous men who are in nika or want to nika again as they like strong men & find that a sign... it's usually secular bollywood Muslima that think different, or not like strong men who they considered bad for being different then the secular types due to media, if its a defeatist mentality thats the issue then they need to grow up, other than that natural jelousy can be replaced with respect and familial ties.
As Salam ale Kum. I found his super confusing. I feel like many women wish they married up, but realistically, they ended up marrying down because men are deceitful in their intentions
Gabriel this is weird. If Allah swt thought men could not be satisfied with one woman why did Allah swt create Adam AS with one wife and his children had one wife. “And we created you in pairs” He didnt say in quadruplets lol
It's nice to see that you are advising women.Man wants best for himself but when woman wants best for herself men have problem.We are same.Woman will not forgive man if he is doing something wrong.I agree that women should not say everything in front of her husband because most of them are psycho's who will hate her and can kill her but both of them shouldn't lie to each other.Not all men are polygamous by nature.Hur is mate(not only women) which means that every woman will have same as man in paradise.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed according to what women have to say and WHO statistics women are abused mostly by their husbands and their male family members.4/5 are cheaters and I haven't seen any (happy)marriage that was for whole life(except marriage of Muhammad a.s and Khatija pbuh).Men left (or get second wife)their wife when she is ill or have more weight,older etc.Men don't know what love is and they are mostly cowards but only brave towards women.
All men are polygamous, and women are monogamous. That's something that stays true in this life and the other: "And ˹they will have˺ maidens with gorgeous eyes," Women will not have Hoor al Ayn because they don't want them, no women will desire more than 1 man.
@@mansou20012 who said that?? I lot of men are monogamous and I have read about lot of women who are polygamous.Maid is someone who is serving others not having sex with them.There would be male servants too not only female.Hur is mate(not only woman) and woman and men will have partner there.Woman want man in this and afterlife,they have desires and some of them have desire for more men.What do you think,that paradise would be brothel for men haha.
@@XYz-ce9oi No. Men are polygamous by nature, and women are monogamous. Does it sound like a good idea to you to marry/have 3 slave men, even if you were to have $150M in your bank account? Of course not, but if you ask the same to a man, most of them they will say yes (to 3-4 women). That's our Fitra, men marry women, and women look for a MAN. P.S. If a woman have desires for more than 1 man, she's probably hypermasculine/dominant or is struggling with some issues. Don't take my word though, I'm not a Doctor. But Islamically, Scientifically even Historically it is bad for the woman to have that because is not in their nature.
@@XYz-ce9oi nisa being polygynous is not normal, not even healthy, this is why their waiting period is longer, not all men are polygynous but its normal for them. Hur are mature, the servants are kids...
We'll never be the best for anyone because there's always someone better, and that is precisely why some women destroy their marriages; they feel entitled to better, so they go out there and seek it at the expense of their existing relationship. Another good reason not to invest too heavily emotionally into a relationship, especially as a man
@@alghurraba I understand where you are coming from, but not all men do this simply because of the fact that getting a woman whos out of their league is more difficult than it is for a woman to get a man out her league. Women would only downgrade as a result and if some are entitled, will dump the guy if they get the chance for a better one.
It goes both ways regardless of the statistics. Even some men feel this way. I don’t like to generalise and stereotype so I hate putting blanket statements like that on any one.
@@alghurraba -men are allowed to marry more than one woman. so your point is baseless -men are Polygamous and they are less likely to idealize other women and destroy their own marriage afterwards. different to women, who often try to get someone better instead of their current husband - men really hate to be compared to other men, as stated from gabriel. leading to harsh feelings inside the man and resentment. Women are less likely to feel so jealous. so we are speaking in generals. its not okay for both parties to show their affection towards people outside their marriage and share it with their spouse in a unsuitable way. Nethertheless their are differences between both genders.
Why lie? In fact, no need to bring up the topic with your spouse at all. Men know that they themselves aren't the best, because there's always someone richer and taller than you, so, if husband's know this, why would you think your wife doesn't know it too? If she can accept that you desire prettier women than her, why can't you accept she desires men better than you? No one says you must like it, but hypergamy is part of women's fitrah just like polygyny is part of men's. We should be able to accept each others fitrah and move on
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed I would. I wouldn't ask hubby about all the women he's probably looked at and fantasised about at work because that's his fitrah and I have to accept it 🤷
@King Sultan I know. I'm not saying it's halal to do that, all I'm saying is it's in a man's fitrah to look at women, even though it's haram to do so. But it's still in his fitrah regardless, and that's what I meant
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed the second sentence of my post already answers that question...you shouldn't be bringing that stuff up with your spouse in the first place
What if I disclosed my past initially and 7 years later he still brings it up and we have small kids. I despise him he despises me and speaks to another woman but he still won't divorce me
Who is dumb to say to her husband/wife that they like the physical appearance of someone else ?These thoughts should be kept for him/herself!Allah already allowed us to lie to our spouses about how much we like them how best they are ...how we love them more than our children ...etc..how to say we admire other women /men??
SubhanAllah, this is so true! Ladies, never ever compliment another man while you are with your husband. Regardless of whether it's his looks or his personality. It's a knife to the heart.
@@meghdirlynda5366 Yes of course I agree. I just feel that it goes without saying that men should not compliment other women when they are with their wives.
Brother ,I heard somewhere that women should allow their men to make mistakes rather than criticizing them , that way they will learn from their own mistakes , It doesn't work . Hasn't in my case ...blunders keep happening by the man in question which are,could have been rectified...this disparity is hurtful ,and difficult for a woman ,who is dealing with this situation. The fact is "grade up " and "grade down" in both genders exist ....I want to write so much ,but won't.
It is a shia regime, a secular regime is far less harmful to both islam and muslims. Without that shia goverement, the sunnis in iran can start to control and expand in the country again. As the brother said, nothing of value was lost. Either way, Iran is located at the heart of the muslim world, behind it is islamic lands in central and south asia and before it is the levant, mesopotami and arabia. It cannot escape anywere, even if it becomes secular and falls it will eventually return to the hands of the true muslims and the troublemakers will be dealt with swiftly, inshallah. Nothing to worry about.
The burning of hijab and cutting hair is programmed by their white liberal masters who they love to obey. I'm glad more and more muslims are waking up to the fact, that these liberals masquerading as muslims are our true enemy and we must target them and forget about US, Israel etc.
Couples should not be discussing other people, past relationships or any third party. That’s asking for trouble. Basically this whole video was “protect mens fragile ego” as he can’t take knowing you did not go blind the day he married you 😂. Women are far more jealous regarding their husband than a man can ever be. However it’s a know fact that many men believe that getting another wife or even suggesting remarrying will create competition in your wife. They see this as a benefit and argue it improves their marriage. What about those women’s feelings and mental health?
Yes. I can only become attracted to a man if I see that he’s into me me me me, and only me. (I mean I’m sure he has other thoughts in his head but he doesn’t show them in the least lol.) When I met with a brother last month we went to a coffee shop and there was a beautiful young barista in this tight top showing her midriff and she was google-eying at him and she was about 20 years younger than me and they actually looked like they’d make a good couple. I was thinking, “Ok let’s see what he does.” He showed no inclination toward her whatsoever even though with the energy in the air you couldn’t help but feel that this was obviously an attractive very young woman who was showing that she liked him and he could have probably liked her if in a different situation. He just ordered and paid without smiling or showing interest and then we sat down and he went out of his way to turn his back toward her and fully face me despite the seating making it a bit awkward to do that. And he leaned forward toward me. I was like, “Yep that’s right. He knows what to do. Ok, now I can like him.” Lol My husband checking out other women would be the biggest turn-off imaginable.
I get the pain men get from experiencing this but i dont think women have it easier. At least men can look forward to the hoors in jannah who are only for them, whereas we women will always have to share our husbands and never rlly get their complete love. Their gazes will always be on other women and we have to suck it up and accept that we will never be enough for our husbands. That kills us women too. And i know people will say jannah is going to be good for everyone and you wont feel anything, but the issue is in this dunya we have emotions and its extremely hard to just imagine our emotions disappearing. Men get their fantasies written in the quran but we women have to just trust that itll be okay. Its just very painful and honestly makes me not look forward to jannah if allah has even written jannah for me. And ive spoke to other women about this it breaks them as much as it breaks me. Please guys dont leave negative comments i am honestly just venting about what i feel daily and i could use some words of encouragement
1. There are no negative emotions in jannah so you wont feel it. 2. Its possible in 1000 different universes, humans can be conditioned to like or dislike things different things from how we are conditioned on earth. In jannah the set of rules and conditions will change and you will like it or atleast wont hate it. 3. You are imposing your limited experience of this world to paradise this is the where the error is stemming from. 4. Our natures can be programmed in 10000s of different ways so we experience one set of conditions but Allah can always change that. 5.Why do humans get emotional? The action results in an emotion. Can Allah create a scenario where a specific action results in a different emotion or no emotion ? Yes so think of it like that. I know its quite rational what I have said and maybe hard to internalize emotionally.
You'll have whatever you want in Jannah but because of woman's modesty, Allah wouldn't say you can have 3 husbands for example cos it would make a mockery of us woman in the dunya. Look how society talks about Muslim men in this regard. Believe, it was a favour to us that Allah did not reveal anything like that explicitly but yeah, be a good woman and if you want 10 husbands when you get there then you are promised you'll have whatever you desire. I bet you'll only want one though 😉 May Allah give you Jannah sister, don't lose hope sweetheart. Men and women are created differently and Allah knows what He created and His Wisdom behind these things.
@@abdullahahmad9300 جزاك الله خيرا و احسن الجزاء في الدارين Appreciate the reply :) You're right in your points. emotions do get in the way of me rationalizing things. But something that also bothers me is women will change in their negative emotions but men wont change in their desires. Our emotions will change in jannah but allah will keep mens desires. I havent found anything really comforting about it. I try to rationalize it by saying women were created for men and not the other way around so women will need to change and not men. Still makes me feel like a second class citizen but someone will have to give the sacrifice I guess. I dont know if i am making sense 🤔
@@Anita1984isuponus loool i definitely dont want more than 1 husband. الحمدلله I love my husband dearly its just sad to know he'd honestly get another woman if it was an option. :/ Khair everything is for the best and has wisdom, the truth just tends to hurt.
Marriages are so much stronger and easier when the spouse really is close to our ideal - and we love them so much that we’re fine with them not literally being the ideal. But for the other’s sake, we shouldn’t settle too much. Because they’ll feel it, there will be a bit more distance, and the marriage won’t flow as smoothly. Muslims need to be ok accepting that emotions really are HUGE in marriage and love matters. (Not infatuation, not just lust, but love.) I don’t know why it’s so difficult for so many people to say this. Marry the one that you feel really, really lucky/blessed to have.
@Miss Kaylor [Foid Hate Account] I was married for 16 years, I understand the concept, and still believe marriage and relationships are infinitely easier when we don’t have to try so hard and it comes more naturally. It doesn’t always become easier with practice. In fact sometimes it gets harder, once we can’t help but be faced with reality instead of trying to live in a fantasyland. Also, having one partner will love can’t keep a marriage together forever. It takes two to tango. What the other one is or isn’t doing becomes increasingly significant over time.
@Miss Kaylor [Foid Hate Account] Ya, they have to at least try to love you too. All of you guys who say this stuff are too idealistic and naive. Not every spouse even cares a whit about trying to love the other. They just don’t care. Please stop trying to shame people who have been through it. You don’t help.
🤣 SubhanAllah brother Gabriel, ✅ I'm not married yet! I would like to get married again.But when I was married I did choose someone that was a 10 in my eyes anyway so your not wrong, and I considered my self a 7. You make a good point 😅
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed salam alaykum wa Rahmatullah brother, this statement was for before I became a practicing Muslim. So Deen and character is a 10 still with some beauty of course.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed I'm not hurt Alhamdulillah you are aloud to make your point. May Allah bless you and reward you for your kindness and Hiqmah.⭐
@Gxyu Exhob I was not aware of my religion, untill I read the Qur'an, I was born in a Muslim family but nobody was practicing because we just didn't know much about our religion just followed thing with no understanding. But Alhamdulillah Allah Guided me to know him. Ameen 😊
I believe maturity is key because a man shouldn’t ask his woman did you love him😂. It just seems so girly. First off if you trust in ALLAH then both husband and wife should not go opening up such things and if something comes up change the subject and take it with a grain of salt
as nisa are emotional why isn't husband no. 1, sahabiyat offer nisa to the husband, even sisters to bond! some when re-did nikah wanted their 1st husband, nisa are monogamous & men polygynous, if a nisa is weak he should be shy but never apologize for being polygynous! it's like a bint apologizing for wanting to wear hijab, you just don't do it. nisa being over masculine is wrong like a guy being over feminine is wrong, thats the difference. and of course iman first, fact that this might be an issue maybe due to an overindulgence in dunya and maybe they might want a partner who is coming off the weak for dunya lifestyle so they can relate and bond by helping each other stay on the straight path. This should be why men should get virgins as well... sorry but truth is truth. maybe tell your son not to go for virgins but thats on you.
Al huur al ain are not women please update your information it is a misunderstanding in islam it has a total different meaning , and by the way females look at men but the society does not allow it and the mike is always with men , it will be absolute unfair for women to be created with desire and sensuality for men yet allah created females in jannah for men only logically there should be awards for females too , it's like saying indirectly that allah is not fair please sir look for the definition of huur al ain , the true one , not the famous promoted one
Search for the evidence on your own i was manipulated too thinking tha huur al ain are beautiful ladies for men in jannah and i belived in it until i was sitting watching a deen show on tv talking abt misunderstandings and the topic was huur al ain and i was shocked it's not only that apparently men liked this idea since it gives them peace and joy and even if they discover that it has diffence in the meaning it pisses them off and they don't want to lose the beauty of thinking abt it one thing i have to say is that women are for men in the dunia and in jannah is another level faaaar away from dunia stuff ( most men think of sex only and the quantity of flesh ) and that's a shame , in jannah allah changes us completely ( perfection) and what was provided for humans in dunia is not going to repeated in heaven yet because of the simplicity of the human mind and the reliance on their ears to get information abt their deen from other people ( without personal effort ) makes them easily manipulated over the years in sooooooooo many cases i met people using wrong hadiths from the sunnah in their lifes and it is disappointing (without asking questions or at least try to uderstand ) allah is fair and filled with justice if huur al ain exist they should be for both not for those who think that allah categories them because they are special ( all of us are humans and we have needs and nobody is more special than the other )
And the word al huur al ain is a general word , allah did not say gorgeous females or used a specific expression that hints abt the gender , thankfully some men are using their efforts to understand their deen and things are developing
@@chaimathebti4017 So you have no evidence from the Salaf Us Saliheen. Just as I thought, I suggest you keep quiet on matters that you have no knowledge of. That is better and safer for you.
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⚠ WHICH SECT IS CORRECT ❓
Every sect claims to be following the Quran & Hadith
Joining to a sect means we abide by the teachings of the sect & this is the real cause of 73 sects
The problem is we connect to a sect & then go along with whatever they have been taught, even if it contradicts the Quran & Hadith on some matters.
The perfected & complete islam had no sects & the soloution was follow the Quran & Hadith
The perfected & complete islam taught us to follow the Quran & Hadith
If we all simply followed the Quran & Hadith, we would only have one sect
To be amongst the correct sect, we must follow the Quran and Hadith strictly
CONCLUSION 👉🏻 The BEST way to unite the ummah is by following the Quran & Hadith
as nisa are emotional why isn't husband no. 1, sahabiyat offer nisa to the husband, even sisters to bond! some when re-did nikah wanted their 1st husband, nisa are monogamous & men polygynous, if a nisa is weak he should be shy but never apologize for being polygynous! it's like a bint apologizing for wanting to wear hijab, you just don't do it. nisa being over masculine is wrong like a guy being over feminine is wrong, thats the difference.
and of course iman first, fact that this might be an issue maybe due to an overindulgence in dunya and maybe they might want a partner who is coming off the weak for dunya lifestyle so they can relate and bond by helping each other stay on the straight path. This should be why men should get virgins as well... sorry but truth is truth. maybe tell your son not to go for virgins but thats on you.
-WHICH SCHOLAR IS CORRECT ❓
Followers of every sect are REJECTING Scholars from all the other sects
👉🏻 An average BARELVI will REJECT a SHIA Scholar with a DEGREE
👉🏻 An average DEOBANDI will REJECT a AHL I HADITH Scholar with a DEGREE
👉🏻 An average follower from every sect will REJECT Scholars from 72 sects
According to our Prophet PBUH, Scholars from 72 sects will enter HELL
Following a SCHOLAR means we must abide by the teachings of the sect he follows & this is the real cause of 73 sects
To be on the safe side 👉🏻 we MUST learn direct from the Quran & Hadith or CHECK what we have been taught by any Scholar, Mufti or any preacher is in the Quran or Hadith
The truth is if everyone followed the Quran & Hadith, we would not have different sects
To be amongst the correct sect, we MUST follow the Quran and Hadith STRICTLY
CONCLUSION 👉🏻 The BEST way to unite the ummah is by following the Quran & Hadith
for a car vlog the audio was very crisppp 10/10. great video as always may allah reward you
Assalamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh. Gosh reading some of the comments really saddens me. There seems to be a high level of mistrust and hostility between bothers and sisters in Islam😥. I know many people have had negative and toxic relationships, but let us try not to generalise and say that all men are bad or all women are bad. At the end of the day, Allah made men and women to be together. Insha Allah if we focus on our iman and truly living our lives according to the Quran and Sunnah, that will help relations improve. I wish all my brothers and sisters all the best!🤲
Seriously. Right on point! Allahumma barilaha.
I absolutely hate it when people label and stereotype and make blanket statements on any one. It shows such a lack level headed attitude in a person.
I agree with you it's so tiring seeing all this hostility
Focus on Aqeedah first In Sha Allah
what gabriel said about married women thinking of another man than her husband being a huge nono for the husband is true
imagine if your husband the father of your kid talked about another woman he saw or ecountered in the past (not a relationship he just saw her and she stayed in his mind after all these years even after meeting you) and described how pretty she is to HIS family while holding YOUR kid(lets say the kid is 2 years old) behind your back (you are not with them) how would feel as a woman ?
imagine the same for a man if his wife did that describing a man she saw
it didnt happen to me im 19 years old but i saw and heard a certain someone i know do that i had high respect for her but after that im scared to get married and experience that it broke my heart and i felt sad for him cause he is a good guy
a husband and wife should honor eachother especially when one of them is absent
Beautiful message brother
Jazakkalh
Gonna come back in a few hour when the comments get juicy😂
I think this goes both ways tbh
For Men, it's at a much higher degree
@King Sultan 😂
It can but i think its due to defeatist mentality in media, many sahabiyat offerred nisa to their husbands, even sisters & girl friends to bond! some nisa when they re-did nikah wanted their 1st husband, nisa are monogamous & men are polygynous, if a nisa is weak he should be shy but never apologize for being polygynous! that's like a bint apologizing for wanting to wear hijab, you just don't do it.
@King Sultan if nisa want equality look at hinduism, the nisa pay husbands mahr and wash their feets...
@5:50 well captured br Gabriel. Men don't want to hear from their wife they are attracted/intrested in another man. Completely destroys trust. Out of ignornace or accident a wife might reveal or say somehting along those lines, that can be forgiven if the case as men make mistakes too. But at times women might do this knowingly to hurt their husband or to mentally/emotionally manupilate them maybe thinking their husband will be gelous and try harder for them. In reality, it's deal breaker. I can't imagine the prophet or any companion staying with their wife after hearing they like someone else.
What's the right boundary setting for dealing with this kind of situation br Gabriel?
If my future wife said that just to taunt me, I would divorce her on the spot. No tolerance for female manipulation
Women need to be grateful.
Women feel the very same
Don’t look at or talk about women in front of us
Same feelings!!
Ofcourse, its a given. Men can do the same, describing intrest in another women to their wive(s). It's matter of character. If a man or a woman does this intentionally, harming the other spouse, it would be sinning and displeasing to Allah swt.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed
Excalty! Most if not all women value protective gelously naturally. They feel wanted and valued when they see this from their man. For the same reason, someone women will describe other men "intentionally" to invoke this trait, so that they see a reaction of gheera, get attention and feel they are wanted/valued by their husband. Women posessing this behaviour are usually disregulated, they need and seek that attention regardless of the method.
They fail to appreciate their action is displeasing to Allah and the end result. By mentioning other men...they activate this good trait of protective gelously. As the wife is the one who initiated this, the man might experience mental/emotional confusion/abuse at this point, freeze and experience shock. It's toying with the man's gheera and his honour. These traits identify him.
An individual's tolerance determines when, but a grounded man will break off the marriage to protect his manhood prescribed by Islam or it will break him, which results in a broken marriage.
Be patient brothers and sisters
Even though somehow I disagree to a certain level but still hit that like button as a support. What my journey towards marriage thought me if you straighten up yourself/ur ❤/intention, do your best towards almighty Allah and your family non of this ideologies matters and you will live happily ever after with total peace and serenity insha Allah ... Ameen 🤲
So true. Niya (intention) is key
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed that goes against the sunnah. All of the prophet wives with the exception of Ayesha were not virgins
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed some men are not like this
I'm not a Muslim, but I enjoy listening to other people's points of view. I have been married to my husband for thirty years. He is from Mexico, I am from the USA. When we met, I didn't know Spanish, he didn't know English. He was very attracted to me. I turned him down a lot before a mutual friend bet me twenty dollars to go out with him. So we went out together. Enjoyed our first date, had many more, then married a year afterwards. We have two daughters. I believe that marriage is a series of growth phases. What you don't achieve in one marriage, will be there in the next, with extra baggage. So stay in the one marriage, as much as possible. Love is a choice. Attraction is just the reward for being open to love. It comes, then leaves, then comes back again. Just respect and choose to love each other. Even in the tough times.
It’s nice to think of love as a choice but it takes two to tango. If the other isn’t on the same page or even one within the same book then it doesn’t work.
@@Marwadear512 very true, indeed.
@@janinemaldonado6806 if i knew my wife started hanging out with me over a bet in the past before we get married i would be heartbroken and maybe divorce
@@zakiaitslimane658 I was not confident in going out with him because he was/is a very handsome man. We spoke different languages and he is ten years older than I am. I didn't think, back then, that it was possible. I hadn't been in relationships because I was young. I thought that I would have been boring for him. Those were the reasons I told him "no". So his friend bet me, in front of him, and I finally agreed. I didn't think it would've worked out, but it did. Don't give up on one weird occurrence. Women have to be realistic in choosing a mate. Nobody wants to be a single parent. It may seem cruel, in your eyes, but from my naive perspective, back then, I was protecting my future. I didn't think that it was going to work out. He proved me wrong. Nothing wrong with that. We have a great relationship. I highly respect my husband.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed We are happy about it. It's not needed, in this time, in the US, because of our laws. But if society crashes, old times may return. I was a young person, back then, without romantic experience. I grew up with only brothers, with lots of sibling rivalry. A young girl doesn't know what an older woman knows. A man also must be patient for young ladies to mature a bit. Just like one must be patient with young men.
This is one thing that i fear the most, to be with a woman that sees me as a safety net. Its hard coz you expect me to give unconditional love, when deep down your love is conditional based upon things i might not even be able to change.
Nobody expects a husband to love unconditionally. Your love will be conditional and based on your wife's ability to satisfy you and bare your children. The only love between humans that's unconditional is the love between parent and child
You should never unconditionaly love something except Allah and his messengers.
Good question
Why love someone else unconditionally other than ALLAH, his messengerﷺ and your parents?
@@sweettea1193 We can love someone unconditionally. What’s conditional is staying in the relationship.
Don't marry a non practising woman who has been freemixing then. Marry a practising woman so she will see you as something more valuable
Wow that was very great advice for women, you are truly an intellectual regarding matters which involve psyches, may Allah bless you
what gabriel said about married women thinking of another man than her husband being a huge nono for the husband is true
imagine if your husband the father of your kid talked about another woman he saw or ecountered in the past (not a relationship he just saw her and she stayed in his mind after all these years even after meeting you) and described how pretty she is to HIS family while holding YOUR kid(lets say the kid is 2 years old) behind your back (you are not with them) how would feel as a woman ?
imagine the same for a man if his wife did that describing a man she saw
it didnt happen to me im 19 years old but i saw and heard a certain someone i know do that i had high respect for her but after that im scared to get married and experience that it broke my heart and i felt sad for him cause he is a good guy
a husband and wife should honor eachother especially when one of them is absent
Absolutely true. It’s an absolute no no. Can’t understand how couples can have “celebrity crushes” it’s so stupid
@@96muslimgirl i agree my only crush would be my wife if she calls MY parents mom and dad seriously i dont know if its every man but if my wife calls my parents mom and dad like her own parents i would faint from cuteness and have hearts on my eyes
@@96muslimgirl it's very shallow, even some nisa who really appreciate the husband will want their man to do nika again, because they like strong men and respect them & sometimes even with their girlfriend to bond, this is real life vs. celebrity stuff is very childish... its the issue with secular people, they don't grow up adn act like they will live forever when thats only in jannah...
Only for the sake of Allah.
Just to add that women dislike men looking at other women just as men dislike women looking at other men; we are no different
Thank you
question, what does it mean if she has a celebrity crush?
@@ulama7828 she admires a male celebrity basically a male famous person for whatever he does which is inappropriate in both genders , if he’s known or unknown doesn’t make it better
not all nisa agree, many nisa like polygynous men who are in nika or want to nika again as they like strong men & find that a sign... it's usually secular bollywood Muslima that think different, or not like strong men who they considered bad for being different then the secular types due to media, if its a defeatist mentality thats the issue then they need to grow up, other than that natural jelousy can be replaced with respect and familial ties.
Ungratefulness/unappreciative is what will make many women go into hell fire .its a hadith
Very informative vid
JzkAllahu khayran
Feminism supports 'hard to get' and goes against this fitrah
They are hard to get in marriage but easy to get in zina
Hasbuna Allah wanimal wakeel.
Absolutely true!!!
Wow my ex had it so good, he didn’t even know
I'm telling you as a woman, women feel like this. It's linked to fitra: human. Jealousy. Not knowing you're not centre of world.
As Salam ale Kum. I found his super confusing. I feel like many women wish they married up, but realistically, they ended up marrying down because men are deceitful in their intentions
Mashallah brother
Gabriel this is weird. If Allah swt thought men could not be satisfied with one woman why did Allah swt create Adam AS with one wife and his children had one wife.
“And we created you in pairs” He didnt say in quadruplets lol
When did did Allah say that he thought men could not be satisfied with one women wheres the source for this.
@@mehmet20003 thats my point lol Gabriel said that. Islam did not
@@lillyypondsxz8027 when did he say that.
It's nice to see that you are advising women.Man wants best for himself but when woman wants best for herself men have problem.We are same.Woman will not forgive man if he is doing something wrong.I agree that women should not say everything in front of her husband because most of them are psycho's who will hate her and can kill her but both of them shouldn't lie to each other.Not all men are polygamous by nature.Hur is mate(not only women) which means that every woman will have same as man in paradise.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed according to what women have to say and WHO statistics women are abused mostly by their husbands and their male family members.4/5 are cheaters and I haven't seen any (happy)marriage that was for whole life(except marriage of Muhammad a.s and Khatija pbuh).Men left (or get second wife)their wife when she is ill or have more weight,older etc.Men don't know what love is and they are mostly cowards but only brave towards women.
All men are polygamous, and women are monogamous.
That's something that stays true in this life and the other:
"And ˹they will have˺ maidens with gorgeous eyes,"
Women will not have Hoor al Ayn because they don't want them, no women will desire more than 1 man.
@@mansou20012 who said that?? I lot of men are monogamous and I have read about lot of women who are polygamous.Maid is someone who is serving others not having sex with them.There would be male servants too not only female.Hur is mate(not only woman) and woman and men will have partner there.Woman want man in this and afterlife,they have desires and some of them have desire for more men.What do you think,that paradise would be brothel for men haha.
@@XYz-ce9oi No.
Men are polygamous by nature, and women are monogamous.
Does it sound like a good idea to you to marry/have 3 slave men, even if you were to have $150M in your bank account?
Of course not, but if you ask the same to a man, most of them they will say yes (to 3-4 women).
That's our Fitra, men marry women, and women look for a MAN.
P.S. If a woman have desires for more than 1 man, she's probably hypermasculine/dominant or is struggling with some issues.
Don't take my word though, I'm not a Doctor.
But Islamically, Scientifically even Historically it is bad for the woman to have that because is not in their nature.
@@XYz-ce9oi nisa being polygynous is not normal, not even healthy, this is why their waiting period is longer, not all men are polygynous but its normal for them. Hur are mature, the servants are kids...
We'll never be the best for anyone because there's always someone better, and that is precisely why some women destroy their marriages; they feel entitled to better, so they go out there and seek it at the expense of their existing relationship. Another good reason not to invest too heavily emotionally into a relationship, especially as a man
That's why marrying a women for their deen and character is so important.
@@alghurraba I understand where you are coming from, but not all men do this simply because of the fact that getting a woman whos out of their league is more difficult than it is for a woman to get a man out her league. Women would only downgrade as a result and if some are entitled, will dump the guy if they get the chance for a better one.
It goes both ways regardless of the statistics. Even some men feel this way. I don’t like to generalise and stereotype so I hate putting blanket statements like that on any one.
Yup, never ever compromise on character, deen and a woman's past
@@alghurraba -men are allowed to marry more than one woman. so your point is baseless
-men are Polygamous and they are less likely to idealize other women and destroy their own marriage afterwards. different to women, who often try to get someone better instead of their current husband
- men really hate to be compared to other men, as stated from gabriel. leading to harsh feelings inside the man and resentment. Women are less likely to feel so jealous.
so we are speaking in generals. its not okay for both parties to show their affection towards people outside their marriage and share it with their spouse in a unsuitable way. Nethertheless their are differences between both genders.
Why lie? In fact, no need to bring up the topic with your spouse at all. Men know that they themselves aren't the best, because there's always someone richer and taller than you, so, if husband's know this, why would you think your wife doesn't know it too? If she can accept that you desire prettier women than her, why can't you accept she desires men better than you? No one says you must like it, but hypergamy is part of women's fitrah just like polygyny is part of men's. We should be able to accept each others fitrah and move on
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed I would. I wouldn't ask hubby about all the women he's probably looked at and fantasised about at work because that's his fitrah and I have to accept it 🤷
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed you're talking about zina which obviously isn't ok. I'm talking about one's natural fitrah, and not zina
@King Sultan I know. I'm not saying it's halal to do that, all I'm saying is it's in a man's fitrah to look at women, even though it's haram to do so. But it's still in his fitrah regardless, and that's what I meant
@@sweettea1193 that's the point. It's a test from Allah. A man must avoid free mixing and must lower his gaze.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed the second sentence of my post already answers that question...you shouldn't be bringing that stuff up with your spouse in the first place
can you revert someone to islam if they have dementia as i want to try revert my grandad before he passes away
So true. I am female and I concur
As a man, I can confirm what he said to be 100% true. BarakAllah feekum
First of all, nice camera and nice angle.
What if I disclosed my past initially and 7 years later he still brings it up and we have small kids. I despise him he despises me and speaks to another woman but he still won't divorce me
“They want Brad Pitt but they settle for Adam Sandler” 🤣🤣🤣
Because they said no to sharing Brad Pitt.
@@taym2720 Exactly! 🤣
Whats wrong with Adam Sandler? He's succesful.
@@goldenemitte2245 It's the looks. Brad Pitt is better looking than Sandler.
@@Marwadear512 LOL sure. I totally believe that (not). 🤣
Who is dumb to say to her husband/wife that they like the physical appearance of someone else ?These thoughts should be kept for him/herself!Allah already allowed us to lie to our spouses about how much we like them how best they are ...how we love them more than our children ...etc..how to say we admire other women /men??
I divorced my wife... she lied through her teeth and disclosed bedroom secrets to her mum.
SubhanAllah, this is so true! Ladies, never ever compliment another man while you are with your husband. Regardless of whether it's his looks or his personality. It's a knife to the heart.
And of course never talk about your earlier romances/relationships/engagments and so on.
Likewise same goes for women
Did anyone think we are any different
It just exposes how she doesn't lower her gaze. Why would you still be married with that woman. Also don't freemix it's haram
@@meghdirlynda5366 Yes of course I agree. I just feel that it goes without saying that men should not compliment other women when they are with their wives.
@Miss Kaylor [Foid Hate Account] Sorry sister I dont know what you ment by obsess over him?
Brother this looks like you're driving in Dammam!
“Whatever Khan, Khan bhai” 😂
Brother ,I heard somewhere that women should allow their men to make mistakes rather than criticizing them , that way they will learn from their own mistakes , It doesn't work . Hasn't in my case ...blunders keep happening by the man in question which are,could have been rectified...this disparity is hurtful ,and difficult for a woman ,who is dealing with this situation. The fact is "grade up " and "grade down" in both genders exist ....I want to write so much ,but won't.
A lot of fragile egos in here. #weakmen
Fragile Ego?
Do you you even understand what that means, clown?
Brother can u please talk about situation in Iran about hijab issues and women that are cutting there hair burning hijab how shaytan tricking
What is there to talk about? They're shia. Nothing of value was lost
Idk if yall saw the CCTV footage ....but the whole thing abt morality police beating the woman looks like a lie. ..
It is a shia regime, a secular regime is far less harmful to both islam and muslims. Without that shia goverement, the sunnis in iran can start to control and expand in the country again. As the brother said, nothing of value was lost.
Either way, Iran is located at the heart of the muslim world, behind it is islamic lands in central and south asia and before it is the levant, mesopotami and arabia. It cannot escape anywere, even if it becomes secular and falls it will eventually return to the hands of the true muslims and the troublemakers will be dealt with swiftly, inshallah.
Nothing to worry about.
The burning of hijab and cutting hair is programmed by their white liberal masters who they love to obey. I'm glad more and more muslims are waking up to the fact, that these liberals masquerading as muslims are our true enemy and we must target them and forget about US, Israel etc.
@@exsinner Based.
Couples should not be discussing other people, past relationships or any third party. That’s asking for trouble.
Basically this whole video was “protect mens fragile ego” as he can’t take knowing you did not go blind the day he married you 😂.
Women are far more jealous regarding their husband than a man can ever be. However it’s a know fact that many men believe that getting another wife or even suggesting remarrying will create competition in your wife. They see this as a benefit and argue it improves their marriage. What about those women’s feelings and mental health?
Yes. I can only become attracted to a man if I see that he’s into me me me me, and only me. (I mean I’m sure he has other thoughts in his head but he doesn’t show them in the least lol.)
When I met with a brother last month we went to a coffee shop and there was a beautiful young barista in this tight top showing her midriff and she was google-eying at him and she was about 20 years younger than me and they actually looked like they’d make a good couple.
I was thinking, “Ok let’s see what he does.”
He showed no inclination toward her whatsoever even though with the energy in the air you couldn’t help but feel that this was obviously an attractive very young woman who was showing that she liked him and he could have probably liked her if in a different situation. He just ordered and paid without smiling or showing interest and then we sat down and he went out of his way to turn his back toward her and fully face me despite the seating making it a bit awkward to do that. And he leaned forward toward me.
I was like, “Yep that’s right. He knows what to do. Ok, now I can like him.”
Lol
My husband checking out other women would be the biggest turn-off imaginable.
Exactly sis, that brother sounds like a keeper. Him lowering his gaze and not interacting is so uncommon in society now.
@@Marwadear512 you are breaking the rules of islam by freemixing and expecting him to be practising when you aren't yourself?
Such a hypocrite
@@sarahosman9030 feminist should repent and return to islam.
Feminist women wanting practising men. How typical
I get the pain men get from experiencing this but i dont think women have it easier. At least men can look forward to the hoors in jannah who are only for them, whereas we women will always have to share our husbands and never rlly get their complete love. Their gazes will always be on other women and we have to suck it up and accept that we will never be enough for our husbands. That kills us women too. And i know people will say jannah is going to be good for everyone and you wont feel anything, but the issue is in this dunya we have emotions and its extremely hard to just imagine our emotions disappearing. Men get their fantasies written in the quran but we women have to just trust that itll be okay. Its just very painful and honestly makes me not look forward to jannah if allah has even written jannah for me. And ive spoke to other women about this it breaks them as much as it breaks me.
Please guys dont leave negative comments i am honestly just venting about what i feel daily and i could use some words of encouragement
1. There are no negative emotions in jannah so you wont feel it.
2. Its possible in 1000 different universes, humans can be conditioned to like or dislike things different things from how we are conditioned on earth. In jannah the set of rules and conditions will change and you will like it or atleast wont hate it.
3. You are imposing your limited experience of this world to paradise this is the where the error is stemming from.
4. Our natures can be programmed in 10000s of different ways so we experience one set of conditions but Allah can always change that.
5.Why do humans get emotional?
The action results in an emotion.
Can Allah create a scenario where a specific action results in a different emotion or no emotion ?
Yes
so think of it like that.
I know its quite rational what I have said and maybe hard to internalize emotionally.
No need to be negative.
I can completely understand where you are coming from.
You'll have whatever you want in Jannah but because of woman's modesty, Allah wouldn't say you can have 3 husbands for example cos it would make a mockery of us woman in the dunya. Look how society talks about Muslim men in this regard. Believe, it was a favour to us that Allah did not reveal anything like that explicitly but yeah, be a good woman and if you want 10 husbands when you get there then you are promised you'll have whatever you desire. I bet you'll only want one though 😉 May Allah give you Jannah sister, don't lose hope sweetheart. Men and women are created differently and Allah knows what He created and His Wisdom behind these things.
@@abdullahahmad9300 جزاك الله خيرا و احسن الجزاء في الدارين
Appreciate the reply :)
You're right in your points. emotions do get in the way of me rationalizing things. But something that also bothers me is women will change in their negative emotions but men wont change in their desires. Our emotions will change in jannah but allah will keep mens desires. I havent found anything really comforting about it. I try to rationalize it by saying women were created for men and not the other way around so women will need to change and not men. Still makes me feel like a second class citizen but someone will have to give the sacrifice I guess. I dont know if i am making sense 🤔
@@Anita1984isuponus loool i definitely dont want more than 1 husband. الحمدلله I love my husband dearly its just sad to know he'd honestly get another woman if it was an option. :/
Khair everything is for the best and has wisdom, the truth just tends to hurt.
''Khan bhai'' 💀💀
Marriages are so much stronger and easier when the spouse really is close to our ideal - and we love them so much that we’re fine with them not literally being the ideal.
But for the other’s sake, we shouldn’t settle too much. Because they’ll feel it, there will be a bit more distance, and the marriage won’t flow as smoothly.
Muslims need to be ok accepting that emotions really are HUGE in marriage and love matters. (Not infatuation, not just lust, but love.)
I don’t know why it’s so difficult for so many people to say this.
Marry the one that you feel really, really lucky/blessed to have.
@Swiftie Troll Point was it’s all much easier and smoother when we don’t have to try so hard to love him.
@Miss Kaylor [Foid Hate Account] I was married for 16 years, I understand the concept, and still believe marriage and relationships are infinitely easier when we don’t have to try so hard and it comes more naturally.
It doesn’t always become easier with practice. In fact sometimes it gets harder, once we can’t help but be faced with reality instead of trying to live in a fantasyland.
Also, having one partner will love can’t keep a marriage together forever. It takes two to tango. What the other one is or isn’t doing becomes increasingly significant over time.
@Miss Kaylor [Foid Hate Account] Ya, they have to at least try to love you too. All of you guys who say this stuff are too idealistic and naive. Not every spouse even cares a whit about trying to love the other. They just don’t care. Please stop trying to shame people who have been through it. You don’t help.
🤣 SubhanAllah brother Gabriel, ✅
I'm not married yet! I would like to get married again.But when I was married I did choose someone that was a 10 in my eyes anyway so your not wrong, and I considered my self a 7. You make a good point 😅
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed salam alaykum wa Rahmatullah brother, this statement was for before I became a practicing Muslim. So Deen and character is a 10 still with some beauty of course.
@sabbir_bam12_pstu ahmed I'm not hurt Alhamdulillah you are aloud to make your point. May Allah bless you and reward you for your kindness and Hiqmah.⭐
@Gxyu Exhob I was not aware of my religion, untill I read the Qur'an, I was born in a Muslim family but nobody was practicing because we just didn't know much about our religion just followed thing with no understanding. But Alhamdulillah Allah Guided me to know him. Ameen 😊
@Gxyu Exhob oh and he did become Muslim but we both didn't understand what was happening just obeying my mother.
@Gxyu Exhob SubhanAllah brother, don't judge me on how pious you think I am only Allah knows. May Allah SWT reward you and give you Hiqmah
I believe maturity is key because a man shouldn’t ask his woman did you love him😂. It just seems so girly. First off if you trust in ALLAH then both husband and wife should not go opening up such things and if something comes up change the subject and take it with a grain of salt
as nisa are emotional why isn't husband no. 1, sahabiyat offer nisa to the husband, even sisters to bond! some when re-did nikah wanted their 1st husband, nisa are monogamous & men polygynous, if a nisa is weak he should be shy but never apologize for being polygynous! it's like a bint apologizing for wanting to wear hijab, you just don't do it. nisa being over masculine is wrong like a guy being over feminine is wrong, thats the difference.
and of course iman first, fact that this might be an issue maybe due to an overindulgence in dunya and maybe they might want a partner who is coming off the weak for dunya lifestyle so they can relate and bond by helping each other stay on the straight path. This should be why men should get virgins as well... sorry but truth is truth. maybe tell your son not to go for virgins but thats on you.
Dude you will bump into someone and crash. How about getting the car parked first.
Al huur al ain are not women please update your information it is a misunderstanding in islam it has a total different meaning , and by the way females look at men but the society does not allow it and the mike is always with men , it will be absolute unfair for women to be created with desire and sensuality for men yet allah created females in jannah for men only logically there should be awards for females too , it's like saying indirectly that allah is not fair please sir look for the definition of huur al ain , the true one , not the famous promoted one
Bring forward your evidence. I want evidence from the Salaf Us Saliheen. Not Omar Sulayman.
@Gxyu Exhob i know don't forget that these rules apply for both genders not only females
Search for the evidence on your own i was manipulated too thinking tha huur al ain are beautiful ladies for men in jannah and i belived in it until i was sitting watching a deen show on tv talking abt misunderstandings and the topic was huur al ain and i was shocked it's not only that apparently men liked this idea since it gives them peace and joy and even if they discover that it has diffence in the meaning it pisses them off and they don't want to lose the beauty of thinking abt it one thing i have to say is that women are for men in the dunia and in jannah is another level faaaar away from dunia stuff ( most men think of sex only and the quantity of flesh ) and that's a shame , in jannah allah changes us completely ( perfection) and what was provided for humans in dunia is not going to repeated in heaven yet because of the simplicity of the human mind and the reliance on their ears to get information abt their deen from other people ( without personal effort ) makes them easily manipulated over the years in sooooooooo many cases i met people using wrong hadiths from the sunnah in their lifes and it is disappointing (without asking questions or at least try to uderstand ) allah is fair and filled with justice if huur al ain exist they should be for both not for those who think that allah categories them because they are special ( all of us are humans and we have needs and nobody is more special than the other )
And the word al huur al ain is a general word , allah did not say gorgeous females or used a specific expression that hints abt the gender , thankfully some men are using their efforts to understand their deen and things are developing
@@chaimathebti4017 So you have no evidence from the Salaf Us Saliheen.
Just as I thought, I suggest you keep quiet on matters that you have no knowledge of. That is better and safer for you.
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The message of islam isn't for the whole world, sorry
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So you're just teaching men to be lied to. Now I cannot believe anything women say
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