Are You Having S..ual Fantasies?
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assalaaamoe 3aleykoem how are you romani ,i saw a lot of dawah channels but i want to contact you
Brother is it allowed to call your wife whore or slut during sex this is seen alot in pornogrpaghy
هل يوجد نسخة مترجمة للغة العربية
بالنسبة لكتاب المسلم الجديد . وشكرا
I don’t understand why women and men have a problem with you talking about intimacy I understand why you speak about it so much because it is not spoken about enough and you are an expert on this because you are a counselor sheikhs nowadays don’t speak about this because it is “taboo” and that’s why people end up miss informed and commit all kinds of wrong things in the first night or in the rest of their marriage may Allah bless you brother keep up the good work
You know people are too soft nowadays and want to promote dating etc
I wish I had this conversation earlier before I got married. I ruined a lot of things because of me not understanding the boundaries of roleplay etc. And making things a reality which shouldn’t be a reality I even got OCD because of this but alhamdullilah always got everything.
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A man started becoming mentally weak. Very easily falling asleep. He thought he needs to do something great to feel good. So,he did a master's degree of some nonsense. Still he has no courage to set things right with his wife who disrespects him.
A conversation with him revealed that when he was married to his previous wife,her ex husband visits that home to take his children to school. Just drop and go. This mentally weak person's weaknesses may have started from seeing this scene.
Human beings should be sensitive about emotional issues. Visiting an ex wife using some excuse and even chit chatting with her current husband is of a very lowly behavior. Or in Islam it's called no honour(izzah).
Currently,in TH-cam there are two women who are married to one husband doing vlogs and appearing as "friendly buddies". This is not possible for humans with dignity. A wife and her co wife can respect each other but they can't have fun. This is Low feminity or low female androgens as medical people call.
Similarly,another case is even weird. A man gives a job to a man who is his sister's ex husband.
These are stories of mental illnesses. If a person looks at them,his chest will be affected with ugliness
Can you listen to a Quran tafseer from a person wearing a cap like this? marriage blessings are spiritual issues
@@abusadi4742 as long as they are not promoting haram they are fine. Being stylish is okay and it’s not promoting haram
Jazakallahu khairan brother. Informative as always.
The way you explained it PERFECTLY!!!
That opening about the fantasy had me in stiches
That opening about the fantasy has me in stitches*
@@justincaseOneshut up
This was a very enjoyable lecture by this man because he was bringing in all the scientific findings in his speech .
( And I am not surprised as he is a westerner raised in the western world ) .
Wow very eye opening
Assalamualaikum brother Gabriel. Ramadhan Eid Mubarak from Malaysia.
جزاك الله خيرا وبارك الله فيك
This is true very important explanation gsbriel thankyou 😊
My only advice to all is keep it organic, these fantasies it's only a back door for the devil. Pls study or go back to the love story and guide lines of the prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. and his companions.
We don't need corrupted media (😉) to influence our marital and love life. Bros you got this, the important thing is say Bismil Allah always and finally make 💘 not War 😅
I love that sex is being discussed now,it's such a important part of being in a halaal relationship with someone,and it somehow in the past has been looked as as taboo ,it's great to have these open discussions
Sex has never been a taboo subject in Islam.
@@yasminaredzovic803 exactly it has never been taboo but the culture of people have made it a shy topic ,I happy bro Gabriel is tall talking these topics
@@yasminaredzovic803 not in Islam .. but definitely in many muslim majority communities . I am living in one of them currently .
Born in the USA 🇺🇸🎵
@Healing Misogynist no
May Allah reward you
I literally chocked on my tea when he read the question. That was soo unexpected 🥴. A great topic though, everything about intimacy should not be made taboo.
@Healing Misogynist I was not expecting the the “school girl” and the “is he a pedo” 😆
I was expecting something mild but my jaw dropped. He watches too much anime. TV as a whole brings so much Sharr to the Fitrah. I wish we could cut down on it completely or mostly.
@@aspiringkamikaze1894 yes the whole school girl thing is big in the Far East I heard. I have never watch anime
@King Sultan Gabriel read the question. What do you mean?
@@sarahosman9030 Japan yes, I have not watched anime apart from dragon ball z on the tv when i was a little child, other than that I dont see the fuss. I can see some watching action animes like fighting and things like that, but girls in general? Weird people.
Keep talking about this subject brother...
This was actually a good question
I would appreciate if there is spoken more about the Needs of Women. When a Man has Needs and the Wife cant fullfil it he can marry a second wife. A woman whose Needs arent fullfil has 2 Options- accepting and suffer in silence or Divorce a Man she actually loves and doesnt want to divorce.
What other solution do you want? If the man cannot satisfy his wife, then she can stay and have patience or find another husband. Islam has given her the right to divorce in that case.
If the fear of falling into something haram is great, then maybe she should consider divorce. Divorce is halal, adultery is not.
Chastity is far more important than being in a loving relationship. Chastity is a must for every believer. Being in a loving relationship is not. It’s about priorities. It’s not easy. Life is full of hardships.
It is a valid reason for a women to divorce a man in Islam if she is not satisfied but if she is patient for her kids for example or because she loves him than she will be rewarded in the hear after inshallah
Acceptance of it is a sad way to live and divorce is harsh. As Muslims we are segregated from the other gender, then we get married and are expected to know what to do. For some it comes naturally and others need to seek knowledge and have good communication in their marriage. Gabriel has videos on his channel which can be helpful for the husband. There are also books on the topic written by Muslims from an Islamic prospective.
@@moonwalkerr87haha
Communicate and discuss things with him in a normal way
Salam brother G. I wished I watched this video before separating with my wife. I did not know this is how the female system react. Allahu mustaan.
A call from Palestine
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
I am a mother from Gaza and I have orphaned children. We have no one after God. My husband died years ago and there is no one for us after God. I have a lot to do in life, but time is running out for me and my kids. Please stand by my son. The doctor told me that the child wants to have the operation on his eyes as soon as possible, but I have nothing to assign to the operation. The doctor said that the operation costs, but I do not have anything for the operation, please. I hope you won't forget me brothers in this
, the number is in Althe above , next to the flag of Palestine, written in Arabic
People for people are like a solid building
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May Allah help you sis I can’t help wallahi I am only 17 I can only make dua for you ❤️
@@celia7288
Dont fall for this, this person has been saying this for years and on other yt channels about son's operation and so on .
But do make dua for their guidance for their fraudulent behavior
@@cOnfidentialcOrp I know I don’t trust these comments but I always make dua for them
Salam sis we make dua for Palestine and pray Allah swt will destroy Israel soon Ameen. Stay strong sister may Allah swt protect u and your children and the rest of the Palestinians Ameen 🤲🤲🤲🤲
AssalamuAlaikum wa Rahmatullahi wabarakatu Ustadh I would like to know more about the Muslim alpha logo, isn't it tasweer? It has details of a lion instead of a silhouette like puma for example
This is a great taboo. How did you spoke about it? I would die from embarrassment just hearing this, and you are talking about it.
Yes you keep dying from embarrassment and the people keep divorcing and not knowing how and what to do with their wife’s and husbands when omar radia allahu anh came to the prophet peace be upon him to ask him about sex positions the prophet peace be upon him didn’t die from embarrassment when the scholars explained the Hadith and wrote it they didn’t die from embarrassment may Allah stop you from dying from embarrassment 😭 it is ok brother relax there should be no shame in talking about these matters in a respectful religious way like brother Gabriel is doing لا حياء في الدين
It's called not being a shy, effeminate fool.
@Healing Misogynist I doubt he means the good type of shy. The Prophet (صلى الله عليه وسلم) still gave a speech in front of 120,000.
@Healing Misogynist That is exactly my point
@@dhuss14 اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ
Can you please make dua for me to Allah to accept all my dua's. Can you please make dua particularly for helping me complete learning a lot of necessary medical topics in less time.
One big issue i feel is that mothers do not teach their daughters to accept and appreciate their sexuality, rather to hate it and repress it, that any desire or sexual act is dirty. Because of this even after marriage many girls are extremely prudish when it comes to exploring their sexuality - so much so that even some harmless fun innocent roleplaying like this is horrifying for them. This has been the case with so many of my friends from all different ethnicities and nationalities who come from extremely strict conservative families (which is generally a good thing). It can cause soo many problems within the marriage
@Gyxu Euehr you think muslim men don’t want to have sex or explore sex with their wives?
Edit to add- the issue with many muslim men is that they don’t know HOW to explore or please their wives, and if the wife is not able to communicate or be comfortable to explore herself, then they eventually just focus on themselves. I’m not blaming only women or even all women (I myself am a woman), I was mentioning one issue that is very common amongst women.
Thats very true unfortunately. Its been like this with my mother aswell.
@@mrmaly9861 it’s very unfortunate and difficult isn’t it? i was raised that way as well. I truly believe it is possible to teach your children modesty and yet at the same time teach them that their sexuality is a precious gift from Allah and a huge source of barakah and happiness for a marriage. The same way we cover our hair yet are not ashamed of it, that same way we should cover our body and control our actions but shouldn’t be ashamed of desire or think any sexual act is disgusting. It is only disgusting if it is haram or outside of the marriage. I think we are so scared of over sexualizing our children (a legitimate fear due to today’s society) we go to the other extreme of demonizing it.
@@yogalates23 so true. I've heard of stories where the girls don't fully undress during the act because they were raised believing being fully naked is dirty and that's just wild to me 💀
@@yogalates23 I am pretty sure I will have some sort of vaginismus because of this fear of sexuality and such. It can physically hurt thinking about penetration or sex. I cant even put on a tampon. Apparently, muslim women are the most at risk of having vaginismus because of the extreme fear and shame we are taught :(.
When i talk to my husband. He doesn't listen what roleplay i want.
It is true what you said, but she can't call someone father, dad, or daddy if he is not her father that is oppression to the father this is wrong that why women are not supposed to change their name when they get married. It is fine to change clothes, but it should go both ways. She wears what he likes and He wears what she likes, so both are happy. She would not be that uncomfortable if he did this. Also it is true if she finds that it is leading him to bad things then she should close this door. She should also be comfortable because she is the one consenting to this and they can dress up nice and have it like they normally have it. Clothes are not really that important. He only cares if she looks nice. He will enjoy it no matter what. What he needs to do is focus on making sure she enjoys it. She can just wear a pretty dress and smell good and she is fine. It is best not to act these things out because it will also lead to the worst things. The Daddy part is a red flag. She should refuse. She can just wear a short dress that will do the trick. If the man was asking for example I don't like me on you I'd rather have it from the side ( both of them are facing each other and they have it) then this is fine. Asking to change a part of making love is fine for example during foreplay he wants her to whisper in his ear and he does the same then it is fine. This should also go both ways. She should not do it because he might lead him to other things and she does not even know where he got this from , I am just saying you would rather be safe than sorry. This request is insane why would you call anything who is not your father, daddy. Stick to the sunnah at all times of your life and lower your gaze/ turn a way from things that are made to look good. What she should do is refuse the request and explain to him why and then both can come to a middle ground. For example instead of the school uniform she can wear pretty short dresses or outfits that match with 2 colors ( a white long shirt and black skirt or whatever 2 colors). She can change the word daddy to my king, your majesty, your highness, my man, etc. Be careful not to say anything that is similar to the names of Allah. Then it will be halal and Allah know best.
السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
Brother, how would men and women protect themselves from fantasies etc in the western world esp (specifically uk)
Dont watch weird stuff like anime
Never Watch porn
@Healing Misogynist Animes that dont even try and get you, albeit that is their outward stance, affect you, so what of the animes that have been designed to satisfy the raging lusts of useless, weak incels and weirdos?
Ive had fantasies before even being exposed to p-rn and such. Especially r-pe ones, and i havent been assalted...as far as I know.
Does this role plays has any effect on your nikah??
so in short: no to bondage?
The profhet of Allah peace and blessings op him was explaining an issue to a sahabiya about menstruation. she kept on asking until he got Shai .so our mother 3isha may Allah be pleased whit her finished explaining. I don't think this is the way of the salaf akhi baraak Allah oe fik. Our Deen is about h7aya . taboe is good for you.
is dirty talk also haram? (by that i mean between married couple while copulating)
There is difference of opinion ask a scholar or search what multiple sheikhs say here on TH-cam and on the internet and choose what is the more authentic opinion
@King Sultan dirty talk does not have to include swear words or degrading words. I think Gabriel has an old video on this on his channel.
@King Sultan I’m quite sure most scholars agree that it is halal. There is probably a limit you shouldn’t cross however which is degrading or anything similar.
As long as you don’t degrade each other
Be respectful that’s all
@King Sultan did you not hear Gabriel say that women require foreplay which a big part of that is words. What words did you think he meant, telling her the dinner she cooked was nice. Men are physical and women are physiological.
Salam, please be aware that christian missionaries are advertising on this channel. JZK
I feel I am in a death battle with men my own age and I have had romantic fantasy since I was 20 years old about being in a relationship with a man old enough to be my father but it is always non-sexual. It is important that it is not just an older man he has to be at least 20 years older and I prefer military men not intellectuals. I feel I am working my way through life to get to him or to get his love.
You're not alone. I've created an entire fictional husband in my head and I've given him a whole personality and everything. He's called Samuel and he's this tall, mixed race businessman who owns 2 restaurants and I create these long, detailed conversations with him that can last up to an hour. It started when I was 15 and wanted a relationship so bad but couldn't have one so my brain just made one up instead
@Healing Misogynist it is good now but it was not growing up. My father felt abandoned by my mother because she was busy taking care of all of her babies I am the firstborn out of four.
@@sweettea1193 I have done the exact same thing I retreated from dating life for years at a time the first time was 5 years the second time was 3 years and I go into this fantasy world about Luke Skywalker and I basically stop communicating with the outside world.
@@schatje18 same. I change the plot all the time but Sam always looks the same along with his personality. Glad I'm not the only one lol
@Healing Misogynist idk, it just suited him since he's half Italian, half Filipino 🤷
Maybe he have daddy issues but I don't I only 1 daddy and that my father sorry. When we have kids ur gonna hear alot daddy so wait until that happens
Or he just likes being in control 🤷♂️
Its okay to spell out sexual fantasies. Why is sex so taboo in islam? Im a muslim but the more we try to hide this natural part of life, the more itll be shocking or weird for muslims to be intimate with their partner.
It’s not Islam. Islam is a sex positive religion. Muslims have got it wrong and therefore taboo for all the wrong reasons.
@King Sultan subhanallah… that’s so exaggerated… she doesn’t mean that way; why do we build more appropriate environments to discuss formally these things?
@King Sultan
You are crazy.. your majesty 😆 🤣 😂
The reason it is not so explicit is because we Don want to end up like shameless people who talk about it without u know, shame
@King Sultan
Lol yeah
Weird. How do you not discuss that before marriage to see if she's even into that 💀 though that's probably not possible with the wali always present. I mean, yeah, not all kinks are bad, but if she's uncomfortable, definitely respect her no and forget about it
Discuss s3xual fantasies before marrying? 😅
One kink leads to the other.. so I’ve learned with my wife. I wish I knew about this earlier so I could put a stop to it. But things like kinks are all fun and games until it goes to far and there is no way back.
@Healing Misogynist Ur right, also i dont think its even allowed to discuss these so called fantasies in marriage meetings, her dad would kik the guy out, I think this is where trust in Allah comes in, becuz no matter how many meetings, its not rly possible to know everything about that person until you live with them.
@Healing Misogynist yes, I agree. Good message 👍
@King Sultan 😅🤣
If someone this is shameful you should have shame
Most likely the Muslim Ummah is most targeted by p••nography Alhamdolillah this brother promote young marriage
Since I was 14 ... ALL the wet dreams I had were ...
TOTALLY HARAAM .
@Healing Misogynist lol no I didn't mean it in that way . Wet dreams are not haraam .
The random women in those dreams . Will be haraam in real life .
Is music haram right please tell us how we can stop listen alhamdulilah allah swt protec me my problem is listening music please brother and sisters pray for may allah swt stop
It is haram
A lot of evil stem from it. There r studies that prove this. Also, islamic ally it is haram. I was addicted to it too. Do this: for 7 days straight, hold Ur want to listen to it. Don't give up. After that it'll become easier in Sha Allah. Also avoid environments that have it.
After 2 years of doing all this alhamdulillah I'm no longer a music addict. In fact, my heart doesn't accept it too well. I feel sick when I hear it.
Also, u need to replace it with Qura'an.
There's a lot of conflicting evidence out there regarding certain instrumentals so idk. I listen to music like as background noise or just to relax and I don't over do it so yeah 🤷
@@sweettea1193 Conflicting evidence aside, for muslims it is haram
@@skywa7183 idk. I'm still going to listen to music and I know everyone has their own opinions but I'm just not so sure so yeah
@@sweettea1193 this is not everyone has their own opinions. If something is haram in islam, you don't do it. Expect punishment otherwise. May Allah remove arrogance from our hearts.
Assalamualaikum is there a problem in islam if a man likes his wife to be in naughty underwear for his eyes only.? And what if the feels uncomfortable is there anything wrong with the bro wanting that?
He wants her to call him daddy!?....that's just...that sounds wierd 🥺😔
@Healing Misogynist I think men who haven't been brainwashed won't appreciate that 😇 because how does that even enter a man's mind.....🤷🏻♀️🙅♀️
Na
@@johnnydeclanbarnes116 that was so detailed & insightful, may Allah reward u 🤦🏻♀️😹😹
@Healing Misogynist yes I did reply to u...I hate when yt does this 😕
@Healing Misogynist what I said was I think men who haven't been br@inwashed won't appreciate that😇because how does that even enter a man's mind....🤷🏻♀️🙅🏻♀️
I'm hired to fulfill your Deep dark fantasies
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Would you find such a muslim man that would do foreplay?
Sweet talk while being intimate ???
Inform me of such species
Why do you expect people will share their personal details with you?
Those that follow the Sunnah of the Messenger (صلى الله عليه وسلم) and commit to his orders and stay away from what he has forbidden.
This is real trust me
If you don’t know it that doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist
Uhm
Beta
mirza ghulam ahmad is the imam mahdi and masih!.
Astaghfirullah what kufr
Give shahadah and repent before its too late
Mirza is circling around in jahnmm he loved it while working for the Brits
@@stepstojannah8173 let me ask u questions
no prophet whether new or old can come after prophet muhammad saw because he is the last...
so do u believe isa ibn maryam will return?
will he return as a prophet or not?
what need is there for isa ibn maryam to return if the holy prophet is the last prophet?
@@MohammedAlAmriki baseless allegation
@@maroonda8891
You completely didn't understand
OK yes we muslims belive in the coming of isa jesus عليه سلام
But prophet Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم was sent to mankind to guide us to deliver the message from Allah and to teach us the Quran the guidence
If you belive in the Quran then Allah says clearly that the prophet Muhammad is the last sealed prophet
Prophet isa will come at the end times when everything this world will be over so he isn't coming for guidance as he did already when Allah sent him injeel (bible) but his return before the day of judgment on earth is completely for different reasons
Hope that's clear