it’s sometimes difficult with children to figure out if they are blind or not when i was younger i hated glasses so i just pretended like i can see for years before i gave up and told someone
I think it was my 3rd or 4th grade teacher that finally told my parents I may need glasses. I was always getting bad grades in school and being scolded for it when, in actuality, I couldn't see the bloody chalkboard. I have astigmatism, of which I believe I was born with. What's funny is, back in the day, I could see close up but not far, without glasses...today, I can see far but not close up, without my glasses. Hahaha...what a joy it is getting older!😂
@@celestialturtle6665 I have terrible night blindness. I have to let my feet do the seeing for me when I take a walk to the store at night. I DO have a cane too, which is very helpful. In the day time, I can't see real far, like say maybe 25 feet max, so I often rely on people's voices in order to identify them.
@@momvaz6613 that's so odd I've been able to take my children before school age to get their eyes checked at a children's family eye doctor. I think it's harder for the eye doctor bcuz I'm sure a lot of children aren't sure how to relay results like when they're switching between lenses to see which is better.
@@sevan4059 ye , I find out I had something wrong with my eyes at 5 and I've been getting checkups whenever I get eye strain. (Even before I got glasses)
a lot of kids from this sort of demographic and geographic region are homeschooled. Plus it's also common in "performance" families who want more time for kids to practice and have extra coaching. These kids probably don't have to look a at a whiteboard from the back of the room like most kids so something like shortsightedness wouldn't be picked up
There's no excuses. My child was being homeschooled but I knew something was wrong. She couldn't find things that were right infront of her. Or she could see stuff that I asked her to look at. If you don't spend time with your child then of course you wouldn't notice they need vision help. Too many parents are too focused on themselves and the path they're trying to force their kids on or whatever and don't actually spend time focusing on spending quality time with their children. Bottom line. The parents should've known their child had issues.
@@sevan4059 It sounds though like your child had far-sightedness. The thing is it sounds like the kids that can't see the judges have long-sightedness. Homeschooling involves reading/looking at things right in front of you, as does finding nearby objects or engaging or playing with someone in close proximity. In school kids have to read things at a distance or they do sorts classes that involves interacting with someone at a distance or playing ball sports form far away. It is very common for short-sightedness to be picked up when kids enter grade school or when they start playing sports.
I work in an eyeglass store. This doesn't surprise me at all. The number of mothers that come in hair done, nails done, fancy purses, but are shocked to find out their kids can't see. Than some let the kids make the choice about getting glasses because of how it makes the kid look. Instead of telling their child that they need glasses in order to do better in school and for their own general health.
@@rachaeleigh ye , my mom took me to checkups and I have glasses now , I always loved how they looked and she made sure I put them on ive got used to it now
Kids aren't going to say something if they don't realize they can't see & that young, there's a good chance they don't realize they aren't seeing. I'm pretty sure not all pediatricians do eye exams, especially bc most kids also have a separate eye exam. I wouldn't know, bc I don't have kids & don't remember. But I remember noticing my eyes change & after a couple months my mom took me in bc I was starting to have trouble seeing the board. At 3-5 years old kids just aren't using their eyes in ways they would notice & their parents aren't going to notice something like squinting at the TV bc they use iPads now.
"I just want to be Miss Universe and I don't need to know the days of the week". That's actually so sad. It's not her fault, but its horrifying to see these "parents" care more for appearance than having educated, kind children...
It was wrong and traumatizing and abusive and the worst part is, it's not against the law in reality TV :( Even if there wasn't cameras, she's three years old and obviously doesn't want to be there. Take the child home, let her be a child and have a nap! There is no structured set of healthy stages of growth and development to be found in this environment.
ok I did a bit of looking for context, I originally thought she was just having a toddler tantrum and was put in the room to calm down. So basically, the mum was trying to get her daughter to focus and was unsuccessful, so she brought her outside the dance studio asking "Why are you like this?" (Quick summary, the mum was being rather harsh and gave her daughter a little "time-out" and placed her in that room, shut the door, and then the 3 year old started screaming. ) Even though her mum said it's a short time-out, I think the daughter began to freak out being stuck in a room with an adult she didn't know (poor cameraman must've felt awkward though) and that her mum wouldn't come back for her. You can see how she hugs her mum tight afterwards that she seemed scared. Correct me if I'm wrong, but nobody's really in the right here. Eyo, thanks for taking the time to read this essay.
@@actuallyitske-ris I agree. Discipline is one thing but this is wrong. She needs to learn the naughty step and do it right. Explain what they did wrong. A 3 year old can only sit for 3 mins completely without getting up or time starts over. 1 minute for each year of life. Then explain what they did wrong again. Then ask for an apology. I have seen this work on the worst kids.
Contact lenses require METICULOUS hygiene, which toddlers are unable to maintain. Giving them contact lenses at this age is not safe. I got contact lenses at age 13, but I could maybe understand it for age 11. But not this young. This is not safe for the children.
Damn and I thought my mom was nuts for letting me try them at 12 lmfao. I couldn’t actually do it until I was 18 bc I wanted the kind that you could wear continuously lol but I got dailies a few years ago
My parents would never let me touch lenses. Only after I went to college that I wore it behind their backs for few weeks until I gave up because I couldn't afford the maintenance and went back to glasses again. 😅
living vicariously through their children. Basically didn't get to live their own dream so now their child, that they seem to see as an accessory not a tiny human being, needs to live it like an animated dolly.
because it is fake, it is easy. Compared to real adult world, ur kids dont really need to be pretty or talented to play this stupid competition, and everyone gets their fake ,cheap dollar store crown.
Did she ever think it was the false lashes and glue getting in the way of a 4 year old seeing?! Also, if you have a load of little kids doing an eye exam in one go they’re bound to copy each other.
“I just wanna be Miss Universe and I don’t have to know the days of the week so yeah” “I need to get a big butt like Cambrie, so it’s big and squishy and it doesn’t hurt when I get a spanking.” OMG.
The coach needs to get real and grow up herself. There is nothing wrong with glasses - in fact they are a wonderful fashion accessory - not like the old days with the "coke bottle bottom" type glasses. The world doesn't revolve around pageants either!
Compared to when I was a kid the glasses are really cool now. When I was a kid the kids had 1 choice and boys got blue frames and girls got pink frames. They were the free ones from the NHS now they have a choice of hundreds. I only need glasses for driving but I still have half a dozen pairs of glasses.
Seeing that child in the room scratching at the door really triggered me. That causes SERIOUS abandonment trauma in children. Im not saying you cant ever leave the room or put them in their room and let them cry, but that was INSANE, she was holding the door closed.. like? Is no one else seeing what I see?
Nah even supernanny says that’s a no no. If they won’t stay in time out you walk them over to the time out spot and don’t talk to them. When you first put them in you say “I’m putting you in time out because-blank- xyz”
@@BasedSockHead007 Dude.... you clearly dont have children. I didnt say put your kids in a room and let them cry forever, but sometimes a kid is just over tired and will cry because they are just tired. I watch super nanny, I have children... i wasnt talking about super nanny... you are being such a right fighter, you need to feel like you are an expert.. sometimes children are in their room and they cry, its ok to walk away from your kids when they are crying if you yourself need a moment to calm down, super nanny also teaches that but I guess you didnt watch that episode.
omg so true. I hate these pageants. The moms are all karen's and they're making more karen's. Most of these kids don't even want to do this. These mom's are living through them and going too far with the beauty standards. Teaching kids right off jump that they HAVE to be PERFECT and look a certain way. This is sad. Changing their eye colors and doing hair extensions and all types of crazy shit.
@@madison3012 That may have been the case for you, and goof for you! But majority of the time children who have preformed in pageants do end up suffering from a lot of different mental illnesses in the future (eg. eating disorders, body dysphoria, anxiety etc.).
When she said she wants to be miss universe she doesn’t need to kno the days of the week ..I want my daughter to kno she’s miss universe everyday of the week
Is that a cultural thing? In Denmark I have never met anyone who took their kids, unless they thought something might be up. I had my kid checked because she was squinting, and kinda got the “look” when there was nothing wrong. A few years later she did need glasses though...
@@tiner8414 it must be or just a thing with some families vs others Idk i never was taken to an eye dr as a kid and didn’t know even going to the doctor was a thing for a random check up.. I didn’t take my kid in until I noticed issues with her eyes because even the little eye checks they do for screening vision issues in a physical are really poorly conducted.
@@tiner8414 where i live you get eye tests in school. But schools often write home to parents when they think a kid is having issues with reading too. So either they're at a shit school with no duty of care or the parents don't give a damn
When I was in 5th grade I kept telling my parents I couldn’t see the blackboard but they thought I was making excuses because I wasn’t doing well in school. Then when they finally took me to the optometrist I couldn’t even read the top line, all I saw was a big white square on the wall. I was extremely near sighted. I got contacts when I was 16.
The parents who put their kids into these pageants should be studied by psychologists. I’m curious to see what kind of neuroses they’re fostering in their kids. I’m genuinely concerned.
And then the mom told her to stop crying. Like whAt!? You never tell a distressed little kid to stop crying! She basically told her child to stop having feelings.
As someone who use to be in cheerleadering and taught gymnastics it’s literally so concerning to see her back handspring and tuck form because it’s actually horrible and can really cause her some intense pain later in life if not cause her to break something super easy. Seen one too many kids her age end up with serious problems because their parents forced them to do something the improper way with gymnastics
Yeah I've noticed gymnasts and dancers who compete in solely pageants have terrible form and technique because the pageant judges dont know that stuff and dont judge you on that. They judge more so on the performance factor I feel. These kids would be much better off with an actual teacher who knows that stuff.
They do pageants. The whole point of it is the glam, how you look, and personality etc. if you don't like it then you don't have to watch the videos. There's no need to hate! It's absolutely disgusting for an adult woman to go and put your input on something when that's how it's supposed to be.
@@autumn1766 It's ridiculous how you dont see there's something wrong with BABIES, these are toddlers and elementary schoolers, to look like adult women. They should not have seven layers of makeup on or worry about their eye colour? Pageantry is disgusting because its teaching young girls to be obsessed over their appearance all for selfish mothers to live vicariously through them. You must be a pageant mom and have no idea how to raise children properly
@@autumn1766 so your saying ruining your child's vision,self esteem is ok bc it's just a "pAeGeAnT" .the whole thing is horrible it should be should be shut down.The children have no say in this and it's mostly karen mums forcing there child to do this so they have money.
@@autumn1766 No it isnt that's all you see but behind the scenes its different when you say confident what people really do is tell you how ugly you are and you should put makeup on how is that being confident and the whole thing is based on judges judging CHILDREN AND BABIES who havent even gotten through puberty how pretty they are imagine how they feel when they dont win.How is this being confident and supporting and all the mums are supporting there children putting fake teeth,tanning etc.
I tried contacts when I was like 16 for the first time... I COULDN'T DO IT! How are these kids able to put them in and keep them in without crying and freaking out lol
My step sister is the same she can't put in contacts, I didn't switch to contacts until I was 19 but when you first start wearing them it takes forever to put them in
The contact lenses aren’t even what horrifies me the most. At the start, the MOM locked her kid in a room, SHE WAS SCREAMING! how could she do that to a child?! poor kid
Because the mom is a child herself. She is very immature and treats her daughter as a cross between a Barbie doll and a naughty puppy. Who reproduced with this woman?
there is a full clip of that. It wasn't so bad. It was just a punishment for liking the word "no" too much. Punishments aren't meant to be nice or they don't work. But the mother was good in letting the kid know she still loved her at the end and moving on. Probably the only decent parenting that has been on this show
@@MsJubjubbird The way the mother handled that situation is going to put deep psychological stress and or trauma in the kid. The child was a three year old who didn't wan't to do a couple exercises. That entire situation alone is quite alarming. The mother locked her in a room with an adult camera man because she said no to some exercises which in turn teaches the kid that her needs are not prioritized at all. This is actually horrible lmao.
@@hellobye4729 lol no it won't. Kids are resilient. She;ll forget it in a few hours. All the staff will be cleared to work with kids. She just kicked up a fuss to see if her mother would give in. Kids will go to extrees to get their own way. As much as I hate pageants, she was being punished for not participating in a class doing an activity appropriate for her age that her mother had paid for. If this was a dance class or a music class it would be the same.
@@MsJubjubbird its one thing to throw a tantrum because you want to get your way, but I feel there were better ways to handle it and maybe not stick a camera man alone w/ a little girl while she's throwing a tantrum? This kid is gonna grow up and see this like be ethical??
I agree with helping kids see better most of the kids probably need glasses in general, but COLORED? They're so young, and its a waste because they wont be able to wear them regularly unless they want grey eyes constantly.
She literally three...are you serious, they shouldn’t make her do what she doesn’t want or atleast take her home talk to her and try again another day. She depends on her mom so if she calling it’s bc she needs you for her comfort. Don’t just shut her in room she’s THREE🤨😒
I can’t wait for in about 10-15 years or so these kids are going to be ruined. The parents are horrible and the people who MAKE A LIVING OFF OF KIDS SUFFERING (reminds you of something doesn’t it?) should PAY. I’m a kid. My best friend went into the pageant world and came out emotionally scarred. They need to stop. Because there are two outcomes to this, a kid gets super bratty and spoiled and can’t survive in the real world, or they are depressed. It’s horrible, just horrible. Also making kids look like adults is just pedo fule. Not good
When you have a group of kids testing together they're going to influence each other. I wouldn't be surprised if at least one of them faked not being able to see the chart because the girl in front of her couldn't see it and she wanted the same kind of attention.
I love how she’s wearing sample glasses. Like during the interviews she’s wearing glasses that aren’t hers they literally still have the brand sticker in them 😂😂😂
So spend thousands on a pageant but it took the pageant coach to realize these little ones needed eye exams. Sacrificed healthcare for pageants. Only of them didn't need eyeglasses.
From someone who doesn't do pageants; Everyone's getting on her about contacts, but I had a girl in kindergarten who had contacts & that was 20yrs ago & I think those are enhancers as far as the color goes. Also the girls aren't doomed, one of her students stopped once she got to high school & got more into sports.
That mother at the beginning literally just traumtized her daughter. Locking a child in a room while she screams her mind out is creating life long anxiety scars for that poor child.
That tiny little exhausted 3 year old child was absolutely terrified locked in that strange room. She was clawing under the door screaming, “I want my Mama”, for God’s sake. I’m all for disciplining children. But that was not discipline. It was abuse.
oh most three year olds act like that when they don't get their own way. They are quite the little performers. There was a kid in the department store that was even more melodramatic last week because she wanted to go home instead of waiting for her sister to try on school shoes. By the sounds of the mother's interview it was the first time she heard the word "no" so she was probably in a bit of shock and was going to do whatever it took to have her mother reconsider this new discipline thing
I think it’s such a shame the focus was placed on contacts because I love that a pageant coach working with children notices a problem with eyesight and is happy to help address the issue - but it’s really sad to see that instead of showing glasses are beautiful she’s focused on hiding the need for them
I don’t think she has a problem with glasses per say as you can see some of the kids with glasses but I think she’s probably thinking more for the pageant where glasses aren’t going to be an option especially at pageant only judging facial beauty because then they can’t see the kids eyes I mean the coach herself had glasses on
changing eye color is so unnecessary. she already said the judges would be far away & even the close in zoom when she put the contacts in _barely_ made a difference.... i'm sure cambrie hustled these stupid parents out of more money than it was worth for these appointments lol
Yes, like the other replies say, it's not uncommon. I'm a gymnastics coach for ages 5 to 13 and we spend lots of time developing strength and shapes so they can do these sorts of moves. Every athlete progresses at their own pace though. I began competing a roundoff back handspring back tuck when I was eight, like many of my then peers.
These poor babies. They're children and they should be doing kid stuff. Not stuff that makes them cry and stuff that won't benefit them in the future. These poor kids have such horrible parents
When I was in the car and I played this without headphones my eleven year old sister had a comment she wanted me to share . “ when I saw the headshots I was like wow , Barbie’s less fake then them “ . I am dying 💀
When I was a dancer there were so many girls who had to wear glasses or their performance would suffer, but glasses are hard to keep on while you're dancing. That being said they're so young...
@@ashlynnheller8400 Anyone under the age of 12 years old is too young to be wearing contacts. If you're eyesight is already less than perfect you're going to require vision correction for the rest of your life. You're going to do more harm than good to your eyes by wearing contacts already. Wear glasses and show some self confidence in your true looks. I have fitted many beautiful young women with glasses and they look every bit as amazing wearing glasses as do without them.
Can't imagine a Coach telling me to put my three year old in time out for being tired you can't expect a child that young that hasn't fully developed a frontal lobe that helps you control your emotions to be okay with that much discipline and pressure and notbreak down you can't punisher her for that. She needed her mom to confront her and a nap not a time out. This is sad to watch. Also I can count 3 complexes that she could give these girls in just a few minutes.
My mom instincts wanted to swoop in and help that poor 3 year old who was locked in that room. I just wanted give her a hug and help her work through that emotion. Little kids don’t know what to do with big feelings.
three year olds have pretty basic feelings- I don't wanna and the whole world is going to know it until i get my own way. They just escalate their reaction to try and get what they want, especially if the discipline thing, which isn't meant to be fun, is new to them. Then why not try their luck to see how serious this new regime is? They're usually fine and it's just a performance. I just think such a structured environment is not great for a three year old. Maybe half an hour of fun interactive lessons and then there needs to be time to play and be creative. The actual pageants are the worst for kids this age because they wake up early, have to sit still for an hour and then perform all day- often into their naptime.
Thinking the same thing. I played up my poor eyesight as a kid because I wanted glasses. I really DID need them, but the Dr caught on to my BS acting like I was literally blind and I was given the correct Rx lol
Harlee:"My coach is Cambrie litterfield and i need to get a big butt just like Cambrie.. so its just squishy.. so it doesn't hurt when i get spanken" Cambrie: AHJDEGEKYGU GURL I-
When the little girl said she wanted a big butt like Cambrie that made me so sad :( Pageants are so damaging to young girls and they should be stopped.
idk why TLC doesn't post full episodes yet. The show ended years ago and the clips they post now rack up tons of views, so why not post the full episodes?
A few things: 1. Anyone notice that smooth hair flip transition from recording to individual interview with the coach at the beginning? 2. Halee’s mom gave some serious Jabba the Hut vibes in her interview
Its not the fact that Hallee doesnt know the days of the week that bothers me. She’s still young. Its the fact that she says she doesnt need to know it.
i don't think that's an issue. i used to think I didn't need to know my times tables when I was her age. Kids can't see how information and skills are connected. The concerning bit would be if her parents encouraged and reinforced that outlook.
When your mom yelled at you or your siblings(if you have any) did she tell you guys to go to your room and not come out or put you in time out and not let you come out bc it’s the same thing as leaving a child in a room
You'll never catch me putting my daughter in this joke of a life, 1 spent thousands to win a cheap prize, 3 ruin my child's childhood of growing up normal, and 3 be a controlling parent forcing my kid to do something they don't want. 🙏 I pray for these young little girls
I've only seen one mom on here who wasn't crazy... She didn't make her daughter wear fake teeth or lashes, she didn't spend thousands on everything, she tried to get her daughter to look on the brightside when her routine didn't go correctly, and her daughter actually liked doing pageants. It was dress up and spending time with her mom. That's how it should be. The mom was actually helping her daughter build confidence and self esteem. These moms are Mommie Dearest....
4:33 genuinely why 😭😭what the hell do they do that to the photos of the kids for ... such a shame they're being raised this way ... not good for their relationship with their bodies and looks :((
She's calling a 3-year-old a hot mess? They have trouble expressing their emotions and feelings at that age. The mother to keep the door shut on her is horrible.
at least the mom admitted that rolling your eyes and cussing at the judges was disrespectful some mom be like" yeah oh girl you tell em, you shoulda won girl"
@@thatotherchannel7945 I said “I’m glad he’s doing better” and he was having a rough time a few years ago. So I was basically saying I’m happy for him because he’s come a long way.
I guarantee most if not all of those kids can see just fine. They’re just pretending to not see that well when they see all the others saying the same & getting contacts or eyeglasses
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It's concerning when a dance coach has to be the one to figure out your child needs glasses.
it’s sometimes difficult with children to figure out if they are blind or not when i was younger i hated glasses so i just pretended like i can see for years before i gave up and told someone
@@kawaiicaity1413 that makes sense, im surprised the kids would even wear contacts I feel like most kids have a hard time with glasses and such.
I think it was my 3rd or 4th grade teacher that finally told my parents I may need glasses. I was always getting bad grades in school and being scolded for it when, in actuality, I couldn't see the bloody chalkboard. I have astigmatism, of which I believe I was born with. What's funny is, back in the day, I could see close up but not far, without glasses...today, I can see far but not close up, without my glasses. Hahaha...what a joy it is getting older!😂
@@StyxNyx1 I have astigmatism too it’s fun I can’t drive at night even with glasses 🙃
@@celestialturtle6665 I have terrible night blindness. I have to let my feet do the seeing for me when I take a walk to the store at night. I DO have a cane too, which is very helpful. In the day time, I can't see real far, like say maybe 25 feet max, so I often rely on people's voices in order to identify them.
The fact that none of these children's parents never took their kids to am eye doctor is so concerning
@@momvaz6613 that's so odd I've been able to take my children before school age to get their eyes checked at a children's family eye doctor. I think it's harder for the eye doctor bcuz I'm sure a lot of children aren't sure how to relay results like when they're switching between lenses to see which is better.
@@sevan4059 ye , I find out I had something wrong with my eyes at 5 and I've been getting checkups whenever I get eye strain. (Even before I got glasses)
a lot of kids from this sort of demographic and geographic region are homeschooled. Plus it's also common in "performance" families who want more time for kids to practice and have extra coaching. These kids probably don't have to look a at a whiteboard from the back of the room like most kids so something like shortsightedness wouldn't be picked up
There's no excuses. My child was being homeschooled but I knew something was wrong. She couldn't find things that were right infront of her. Or she could see stuff that I asked her to look at. If you don't spend time with your child then of course you wouldn't notice they need vision help. Too many parents are too focused on themselves and the path they're trying to force their kids on or whatever and don't actually spend time focusing on spending quality time with their children. Bottom line. The parents should've known their child had issues.
@@sevan4059 It sounds though like your child had far-sightedness. The thing is it sounds like the kids that can't see the judges have long-sightedness. Homeschooling involves reading/looking at things right in front of you, as does finding nearby objects or engaging or playing with someone in close proximity. In school kids have to read things at a distance or they do sorts classes that involves interacting with someone at a distance or playing ball sports form far away. It is very common for short-sightedness to be picked up when kids enter grade school or when they start playing sports.
The kids can’t see? How much money going into these pagents and the parents aren’t taking their children to Doctors apts for eye checkups?!?
They’ve clearly never even been to a pediatrician either because they do eye checkups during yearly appointments....
I work in an eyeglass store. This doesn't surprise me at all. The number of mothers that come in hair done, nails done, fancy purses, but are shocked to find out their kids can't see. Than some let the kids make the choice about getting glasses because of how it makes the kid look. Instead of telling their child that they need glasses in order to do better in school and for their own general health.
@@rachaeleigh ye , my mom took me to checkups and I have glasses now , I always loved how they looked and she made sure I put them on ive got used to it now
Kids aren't going to say something if they don't realize they can't see & that young, there's a good chance they don't realize they aren't seeing. I'm pretty sure not all pediatricians do eye exams, especially bc most kids also have a separate eye exam. I wouldn't know, bc I don't have kids & don't remember. But I remember noticing my eyes change & after a couple months my mom took me in bc I was starting to have trouble seeing the board. At 3-5 years old kids just aren't using their eyes in ways they would notice & their parents aren't going to notice something like squinting at the TV bc they use iPads now.
There pageant coach did that for them
"I just want to be Miss Universe and I don't need to know the days of the week". That's actually so sad. It's not her fault, but its horrifying to see these "parents" care more for appearance than having educated, kind children...
That got me too😢 so sad
@Aidann Gruwell absolutely
every kid is like that though... what 3rd grader wants to know “ school things” when they are doing something else thats is extremely more exciting
@@tate3673 Dude even back when I was 5 I knew how many days of the week there were.
@@katmorgandontcare3367 well some kids do learn slower than other
The title of this should be: "How to ruin a child's self esteem before puberty"
ikr- so sad
Agree
Sooo true and hilarious
@Royaly Dove :0
@Royaly Dove you’re too young I’m guessing at most 8? You learn it in school
She’s a hot mess? She’s THREE! Let her be a child... Jesus
Exactly 💯
so true
right
Exactly
My thoughts exactly. Like what?😂
Y’all judging that three year old but she was legit locked in a room with a stranger (the camera man) while her mum held the door shut.
It was wrong and traumatizing and abusive and the worst part is, it's not against the law
in reality TV :(
Even if there wasn't cameras, she's three years old and obviously doesn't want to be there. Take the child home, let her be a child and have a nap!
There is no structured set of healthy stages of growth and development to be found in this environment.
Sweet thing was crying her eyes out and the mom didn't freaking nothing to comfort her. Screw that witch of a woman!
ok I did a bit of looking for context, I originally thought she was just having a toddler tantrum and was put in the room to calm down. So basically, the mum was trying to get her daughter to focus and was unsuccessful, so she brought her outside the dance studio asking "Why are you like this?"
(Quick summary, the mum was being rather harsh and gave her daughter a little "time-out" and placed her in that room, shut the door, and then the 3 year old started screaming. )
Even though her mum said it's a short time-out, I think the daughter began to freak out being stuck in a room with an adult she didn't know (poor cameraman must've felt awkward though) and that her mum wouldn't come back for her. You can see how she hugs her mum tight afterwards that she seemed scared. Correct me if I'm wrong, but nobody's really in the right here. Eyo, thanks for taking the time to read this essay.
1:01 tho...
@@actuallyitske-ris I agree. Discipline is one thing but this is wrong. She needs to learn the naughty step and do it right.
Explain what they did wrong.
A 3 year old can only sit for 3 mins completely without getting up or time starts over. 1 minute for each year of life.
Then explain what they did wrong again.
Then ask for an apology.
I have seen this work on the worst kids.
Contact lenses require METICULOUS hygiene, which toddlers are unable to maintain. Giving them contact lenses at this age is not safe. I got contact lenses at age 13, but I could maybe understand it for age 11. But not this young. This is not safe for the children.
I got night lenses at age 8
I was 9 or 10. A 5 year old will not able to wear them without something happening.
@@dareelpeeps290 right
Damn and I thought my mom was nuts for letting me try them at 12 lmfao. I couldn’t actually do it until I was 18 bc I wanted the kind that you could wear continuously lol but I got dailies a few years ago
My parents would never let me touch lenses. Only after I went to college that I wore it behind their backs for few weeks until I gave up because I couldn't afford the maintenance and went back to glasses again. 😅
These woman need to get a job and stop playing dress-up with these children and let them play insted.
They do have jobs how do you think they pay for all of this
@@mrs.johnson1304 yea makes sense
@@mrs.johnson1304 With all that pagent money💸
@@mrs.johnson1304 husbands.
@@heidihoffman3250 husbands don't always have to pay for everything women can do stuff on their own too, women can do just as much as a man can do
All eye colours are beautiful. Also, a child’s eyesight matters way more than their looks.
Also might I add glasses can be very cute!
Facts
I am more concerned with the fact that their pageant coach, had to take them to an eye doctor because their moms didn't have enough sense to do so.
100%
If the parents did not know it is fine bc the lady helped them out
@@rowenwilkins2982 How is it fine for a parent to not even notice her own child needs glasses?
It's sad, but the parents paid for it, lol
i still don’t understand why people would do this to their children smh
living vicariously through their children. Basically didn't get to live their own dream so now their child, that they seem to see as an accessory not a tiny human being, needs to live it like an animated dolly.
For clout and recognition 🤧
dude... you are saying that like it’s abuse. this little girl wants to do pageants no one is making her
@@tate3673 girl how? These kids all look depressed. Kids are meant to be kids and play in dirt. This is right at all
because it is fake, it is easy. Compared to real adult world, ur kids dont really need to be pretty or talented to play this stupid competition, and everyone gets their fake ,cheap dollar store crown.
They are literally toddlers, this is ridiculous. Terrible, coach
Agree
Ikr, they’ll be soo grumpy smh
@@1hannies my parents are too lazy to take care of my kids, and now my kids are fucking spoiled!
Terrible parents, too . Horrible adults
@@phoenixxam5812 why are your parents raising your kids?
Did she ever think it was the false lashes and glue getting in the way of a 4 year old seeing?!
Also, if you have a load of little kids doing an eye exam in one go they’re bound to copy each other.
She probably told them all to say they can’t see so she can get them coloured contacts
Exactly my thoughts
You can’t even tell when you have fake lashes on the glue doesn’t get into your eye if you do it right and the lashes are fit for your eyes
Right arent these eye exams usually done individually?
As a 25 mm lash user since 15 years old , I can say that if you can’t see due to the lashes/glue you’re putting them wrong .
“I just wanna be Miss Universe and I don’t have to know the days of the week so yeah”
“I need to get a big butt like Cambrie, so it’s big and squishy and it doesn’t hurt when I get a spanking.”
OMG.
Ikr
That poor poor girl.
i was the same way when i was little lol.
@chillaz1344I guess practically everyone has been abused then
No offense but why does a nine year old not know how many days are in a week, that's like the 3rd grade.
Too busy doing pageants I guess. Sad.😞
EXACTLY, she literally said she doesn't need to know😂 like listen babe I think ya do
Going on 4th
when they turn 9 they r about to go into 4th, ye their parents clearly don't give them a good education
Kindergarten*
The coach needs to get real and grow up herself. There is nothing wrong with glasses - in fact they are a wonderful fashion accessory - not like the old days with the "coke bottle bottom" type glasses. The world doesn't revolve around pageants either!
Yeah and some kids don’t have good eyesight so they need glasses too
Compared to when I was a kid the glasses are really cool now. When I was a kid the kids had 1 choice and boys got blue frames and girls got pink frames. They were the free ones from the NHS now they have a choice of hundreds. I only need glasses for driving but I still have half a dozen pairs of glasses.
lol coke bottle glasses seem to be very fashionable right now. just with a bit of a modern touch to them
In beauty pagents ur not allowed to wear glasses mostly cause kids dance in the talent part and they won’t want them to break
@@madison3012 they need to see so it is a must
Seeing that child in the room scratching at the door really triggered me. That causes SERIOUS abandonment trauma in children. Im not saying you cant ever leave the room or put them in their room and let them cry, but that was INSANE, she was holding the door closed.. like? Is no one else seeing what I see?
Nah even supernanny says that’s a no no. If they won’t stay in time out you walk them over to the time out spot and don’t talk to them. When you first put them in you say “I’m putting you in time out because-blank- xyz”
@@BasedSockHead007 Dude.... you clearly dont have children. I didnt say put your kids in a room and let them cry forever, but sometimes a kid is just over tired and will cry because they are just tired. I watch super nanny, I have children... i wasnt talking about super nanny... you are being such a right fighter, you need to feel like you are an expert.. sometimes children are in their room and they cry, its ok to walk away from your kids when they are crying if you yourself need a moment to calm down, super nanny also teaches that but I guess you didnt watch that episode.
Oh well. Gentle parenting is for losers. You can’t let a kid get their way.
@@whitneypaige2038 she was stuck in a room with a STRANGER.
@@whitneypaige2038 I just know your children don't want to talk to you.
I work for an eye care practice and NO doctor would put contacts into kids this young! shame on everyone!
Mine did so like
Its nornal shes 9
Shows what’s important to these parents forget about their kids eye sight as long as they win trashy titles 😎
I have to a get with that. I got my first pair of glasses in second grade yes they were ugly lol
Exactly what I was thinking
maybe they didn't know their kids couldn't see why do people always assume the worst. shows what's important to you karen
You have a point but there’s nothing trashy about pageants
@@Literallyarealhuman girl how is pageant trashy? Wtf 💀
Futures Karen’s being made. This show is all Karen’s
omg so true. I hate these pageants. The moms are all karen's and they're making more karen's. Most of these kids don't even want to do this. These mom's are living through them and going too far with the beauty standards. Teaching kids right off jump that they HAVE to be PERFECT and look a certain way. This is sad. Changing their eye colors and doing hair extensions and all types of crazy shit.
Hhhh best comment. OMG so true
Karens* Karens*
Especially the kids
Says the one who is one
This is so sad
And psychologically so damaging for the children
I used to do pagents and trust me it’s not damaging at all it boost ur confidence to high
@@madison3012 That may have been the case for you, and goof for you! But majority of the time children who have preformed in pageants do end up suffering from a lot of different mental illnesses in the future (eg. eating disorders, body dysphoria, anxiety etc.).
@@oblive4623 no one has and if they have people like u caused it
@@madison3012 You're very obviously either a child or demented, narcissistic adult. Piss off.
@@oblive4623 I’m actually a anesthesiologist who preforms epidural everyday lolll
When she said she wants to be miss universe she doesn’t need to kno the days of the week ..I want my daughter to kno she’s miss universe everyday of the week
Yaaas sus!!!!
Yeah
I would want all my kids to know that lmfao
I didn’t know the days of the week at 9, catholic school didn’t teach us that
@@ChrisannaKemp I think it’s common sense not your school….
As an optician it is really scary to see that this parent didn't take her kid to an eye doctor her ENTIRE life??!! Really sad actually...
Is that a cultural thing? In Denmark I have never met anyone who took their kids, unless they thought something might be up. I had my kid checked because she was squinting, and kinda got the “look” when there was nothing wrong. A few years later she did need glasses though...
@@tiner8414 it must be or just a thing with some families vs others Idk i never was taken to an eye dr as a kid and didn’t know even going to the doctor was a thing for a random check up.. I didn’t take my kid in until I noticed issues with her eyes because even the little eye checks they do for screening vision issues in a physical are really poorly conducted.
@@tiner8414 where i live you get eye tests in school. But schools often write home to parents when they think a kid is having issues with reading too. So either they're at a shit school with no duty of care or the parents don't give a damn
When I was in 5th grade I kept telling my parents I couldn’t see the blackboard but they thought I was making excuses because I wasn’t doing well in school. Then when they finally took me to the optometrist I couldn’t even read the top line, all I saw was a big white square on the wall. I was extremely near sighted. I got contacts when I was 16.
@tiner8414 I'm from UK and we take ours every 6 months same as the dentist
“I don’t have to know the days of the week.” God damn that’s terrifying
I don’t blame Selyse at all imagine leaving your 3 year old child in a room with a grown adult filming her that’s just creepy
yea like what?
The parents who put their kids into these pageants should be studied by psychologists. I’m curious to see what kind of neuroses they’re fostering in their kids. I’m genuinely concerned.
They're all very very immature.
Children raising children.
The producers should jump on that as anew show, can you imagine
That poor little girl was scared in that room all alone. This is shit. If the kid wants to do it, fine, but don't force them.
And then the mom told her to stop crying. Like whAt!? You never tell a distressed little kid to stop crying! She basically told her child to stop having feelings.
Right
She wasn’t alone she had a stranger filming her 😮😢which makes it worse 😢
As someone who use to be in cheerleadering and taught gymnastics it’s literally so concerning to see her back handspring and tuck form because it’s actually horrible and can really cause her some intense pain later in life if not cause her to break something super easy. Seen one too many kids her age end up with serious problems because their parents forced them to do something the improper way with gymnastics
Yeah I've noticed gymnasts and dancers who compete in solely pageants have terrible form and technique because the pageant judges dont know that stuff and dont judge you on that. They judge more so on the performance factor I feel. These kids would be much better off with an actual teacher who knows that stuff.
The over photoshopped pictures are just ridiculous what’s the point of editing it so much ?
RIGHT
Title should be like: toddlers and chaos.
Chaos and tiaras?
or toddlers and tantrums
@@bethanycohu5089 yeaa
She made them wear contacts over glasses, but yet when she was chatting, she was wearing glasses. 🤔
She means for the pageant she doesn’t want them wearing glasses
@@audrianatehehee2391 yea but Contacts ruin your eyes at such a young age :( they don't care about their health
@@Hello-nt2dj well what if they break the glasses they they are blind
@@rowenwilkins2982 just get more glasses? If you ruin your eyes with wearing contacts too young you cant just go get new eyes can you?
@@acorns269 you can trade eyes i think
This is disgusting! Making babies look like adult women! You should be ashamed of yourself as well as all the moms
They do pageants. The whole point of it is the glam, how you look, and personality etc. if you don't like it then you don't have to watch the videos. There's no need to hate! It's absolutely disgusting for an adult woman to go and put your input on something when that's how it's supposed to be.
@@autumn1766 It's ridiculous how you dont see there's something wrong with BABIES, these are toddlers and elementary schoolers, to look like adult women. They should not have seven layers of makeup on or worry about their eye colour? Pageantry is disgusting because its teaching young girls to be obsessed over their appearance all for selfish mothers to live vicariously through them. You must be a pageant mom and have no idea how to raise children properly
@@kumakumab no it's about confidence and support if you don't know about it then you have no reason to talk about it!!
@@autumn1766 so your saying ruining your child's vision,self esteem is ok bc it's just a "pAeGeAnT" .the whole thing is horrible it should be should be shut down.The children have no say in this and it's mostly karen mums forcing there child to do this so they have money.
@@autumn1766 No it isnt that's all you see but behind the scenes its different when you say confident what people really do is tell you how ugly you are and you should put makeup on how is that being confident and the whole thing is based on judges judging CHILDREN AND BABIES who havent even gotten through puberty how pretty they are imagine how they feel when they dont win.How is this being confident and supporting and all the mums are supporting there children putting fake teeth,tanning etc.
I tried contacts when I was like 16 for the first time... I COULDN'T DO IT! How are these kids able to put them in and keep them in without crying and freaking out lol
Same here. Tried them about 15 or 16 but I got the "soft" contacts when I started college and it was still an effort.
My step sister is the same she can't put in contacts, I didn't switch to contacts until I was 19 but when you first start wearing them it takes forever to put them in
@@kat35lulu88 same, seven years later and I still use the soft contacts
I started using them when I was 13 and it was hard at first but now I’m 17 so it’s really easy l
I was 13 because I'm legally blind and my glasses were thick.
The contact lenses aren’t even what horrifies me the most. At the start, the MOM locked her kid in a room, SHE WAS SCREAMING! how could she do that to a child?! poor kid
Because the mom is a child herself. She is very immature and treats her daughter as a cross between a Barbie doll and a naughty puppy.
Who reproduced with this woman?
there is a full clip of that. It wasn't so bad. It was just a punishment for liking the word "no" too much. Punishments aren't meant to be nice or they don't work. But the mother was good in letting the kid know she still loved her at the end and moving on. Probably the only decent parenting that has been on this show
@@MsJubjubbird The way the mother handled that situation is going to put deep psychological stress and or trauma in the kid. The child was a three year old who didn't wan't to do a couple exercises. That entire situation alone is quite alarming.
The mother locked her in a room with an adult camera man because she said no to some exercises which in turn teaches the kid that her needs are not prioritized at all. This is actually horrible lmao.
@@hellobye4729 lol no it won't. Kids are resilient. She;ll forget it in a few hours. All the staff will be cleared to work with kids. She just kicked up a fuss to see if her mother would give in. Kids will go to extrees to get their own way. As much as I hate pageants, she was being punished for not participating in a class doing an activity appropriate for her age that her mother had paid for. If this was a dance class or a music class it would be the same.
@@MsJubjubbird its one thing to throw a tantrum because you want to get your way, but I feel there were better ways to handle it and maybe not stick a camera man alone w/ a little girl while she's throwing a tantrum?
This kid is gonna grow up and see this like be ethical??
8:07 nobody is gonna talk about that hello kitty toaster? 😍 is so cute
“I just want to be Miss Universe. I don’t have to know how many days of the week there are!”. Good grief! 🙄
🤣🤣🤣
My best friend competed in Miss Universe and she had to know the days of the week because they have a fully packed schedule.
The nine year old and here mum are so determined to win they don’t even care about the school work
Why don’t the mom’s just enter in pageants themselves instead of living vicariously through their daughters?
I agree with helping kids see better most of the kids probably need glasses in general, but COLORED? They're so young, and its a waste because they wont be able to wear them regularly unless they want grey eyes constantly.
Making a child wear contacts, your basically saying she isn't beautiful do you know how that could affect a child mentally. Smh
There is nothing wrong with wearing glasses because they are cool as well!
They could break
She literally three...are you serious, they shouldn’t make her do what she doesn’t want or atleast take her home talk to her and try again another day. She depends on her mom so if she calling it’s bc she needs you for her comfort. Don’t just shut her in room she’s THREE🤨😒
I can’t wait for in about 10-15 years or so these kids are going to be ruined. The parents are horrible and the people who MAKE A LIVING OFF OF KIDS SUFFERING (reminds you of something doesn’t it?) should PAY. I’m a kid. My best friend went into the pageant world and came out emotionally scarred. They need to stop. Because there are two outcomes to this, a kid gets super bratty and spoiled and can’t survive in the real world, or they are depressed. It’s horrible, just horrible. Also making kids look like adults is just pedo fule. Not good
these are old videos, the kids are fine.
@@elle.r4698 there not really some are but a lot still don’t act thier age and all
@@ellerussell9452 so true
exactly what i was thinking
@@elle.r4698 tell that to Kailia posey…
Jesus this is so messed lol. Eye contacts at a young age can r really mess with your corneas.
Fr
how
@@amor7886 you are literally putting shit in your eyeball.
@@teehee5700 ok so
Wearing them for short periods of time is fine.
2:05 - gotta love how the coach is perfectly fine wearing GLASSES but wants a bunch of CHILDREN to put contacts in their eyes.. makes a lotta sense!
When you have a group of kids testing together they're going to influence each other. I wouldn't be surprised if at least one of them faked not being able to see the chart because the girl in front of her couldn't see it and she wanted the same kind of attention.
I love how she’s wearing sample glasses. Like during the interviews she’s wearing glasses that aren’t hers they literally still have the brand sticker in them 😂😂😂
the hello kitty toaster at 8:09 is just something i need
So spend thousands on a pageant but it took the pageant coach to realize these little ones needed eye exams. Sacrificed healthcare for pageants. Only of them didn't need eyeglasses.
From someone who doesn't do pageants; Everyone's getting on her about contacts, but I had a girl in kindergarten who had contacts & that was 20yrs ago & I think those are enhancers as far as the color goes. Also the girls aren't doomed, one of her students stopped once she got to high school & got more into sports.
Girl: "I want to be miss universe"
Miss universe: "So you have chosen death"
That mother at the beginning literally just traumtized her daughter. Locking a child in a room while she screams her mind out is creating life long anxiety scars for that poor child.
That tiny little exhausted 3 year old child was absolutely terrified locked in that strange room. She was clawing under the door screaming, “I want my Mama”, for God’s sake. I’m all for disciplining children. But that was not discipline. It was abuse.
oh most three year olds act like that when they don't get their own way. They are quite the little performers. There was a kid in the department store that was even more melodramatic last week because she wanted to go home instead of waiting for her sister to try on school shoes. By the sounds of the mother's interview it was the first time she heard the word "no" so she was probably in a bit of shock and was going to do whatever it took to have her mother reconsider this new discipline thing
I think it’s such a shame the focus was placed on contacts because I love that a pageant coach working with children notices a problem with eyesight and is happy to help address the issue - but it’s really sad to see that instead of showing glasses are beautiful she’s focused on hiding the need for them
If that makes sense
I don’t think she has a problem with glasses per say as you can see some of the kids with glasses but I think she’s probably thinking more for the pageant where glasses aren’t going to be an option especially at pageant only judging facial beauty because then they can’t see the kids eyes I mean the coach herself had glasses on
changing eye color is so unnecessary. she already said the judges would be far away & even the close in zoom when she put the contacts in _barely_ made a difference.... i'm sure cambrie hustled these stupid parents out of more money than it was worth for these appointments lol
so is no one gonna talk about how this 9 year old literally did backhand springs and backflips??
no?
just me?
ok
I got my back tuck at 6 it’s not hard to believe lol
It’s not that unusual.
Yes, like the other replies say, it's not uncommon. I'm a gymnastics coach for ages 5 to 13 and we spend lots of time developing strength and shapes so they can do these sorts of moves. Every athlete progresses at their own pace though. I began competing a roundoff back handspring back tuck when I was eight, like many of my then peers.
Nah the tItle of this show should be “top 1 ways to torture ur children: pageants”
These poor babies. They're children and they should be doing kid stuff. Not stuff that makes them cry and stuff that won't benefit them in the future. These poor kids have such horrible parents
I use to work with Cambrie as a kid and I remember her being the epitome of tough love
When I was in the car and I played this without headphones my eleven year old sister had a comment she wanted me to share . “ when I saw the headshots I was like wow , Barbie’s less fake then them “ . I am dying 💀
You’re really going to risk your child’s EYESIGHT for a beauty pageant.. wow the lengths people will go for vanity smh
They can’t see so thanks for not caring
3:31- what a cute little pumpkin with her new glasses ❤️
I love how the coach isn’t thinking of costume colors or even some make up to enhance her eyes on stage it’s contacts
Let them be children. This is sick
Ok it is canceled by me
Some of them actually enjoy doing it. U aren’t their mother. Keep ur mouth shut
When I was a dancer there were so many girls who had to wear glasses or their performance would suffer, but glasses are hard to keep on while you're dancing. That being said they're so young...
You put a strap on the glasses so they stay on. It's not rocket science. Get these kids some glasses and let them be kids.
@@soundmanpt exactly I can’t fathom being a parent who wouldn’t
@@soundmanpt
I luckily could see decently enough that I just went without them. Id wear them backstage though.
@@ashlynnheller8400 Anyone under the age of 12 years old is too young to be wearing contacts. If you're eyesight is already less than perfect you're going to require vision correction for the rest of your life. You're going to do more harm than good to your eyes by wearing contacts already. Wear glasses and show some self confidence in your true looks. I have fitted many beautiful young women with glasses and they look every bit as amazing wearing glasses as do without them.
@@soundmanpti had them at 11
Can't imagine a Coach telling me to put my three year old in time out for being tired you can't expect a child that young that hasn't fully developed a frontal lobe that helps you control your emotions to be okay with that much discipline and pressure and notbreak down you can't punisher her for that. She needed her mom to confront her and a nap not a time out. This is sad to watch. Also I can count 3 complexes that she could give these girls in just a few minutes.
It’s crazy that they’re only going to the eye doctor because they’re concerned they won’t be seen during comp and not that THEIR CHILD CANT SEE WHAT
I hate the way parent's push their kids into this shit. That last little girl seems like she wants nothing to do with any of it too...poor thing.🥺
My mom instincts wanted to swoop in and help that poor 3 year old who was locked in that room. I just wanted give her a hug and help her work through that emotion. Little kids don’t know what to do with big feelings.
three year olds have pretty basic feelings- I don't wanna and the whole world is going to know it until i get my own way. They just escalate their reaction to try and get what they want, especially if the discipline thing, which isn't meant to be fun, is new to them. Then why not try their luck to see how serious this new regime is? They're usually fine and it's just a performance. I just think such a structured environment is not great for a three year old. Maybe half an hour of fun interactive lessons and then there needs to be time to play and be creative. The actual pageants are the worst for kids this age because they wake up early, have to sit still for an hour and then perform all day- often into their naptime.
Kid: "I don't need to know the days of the week!"
Me: Ohhh honey.... 😖😖😖😖
I wonder if the girls were just saying they are blind just because it was the new thing for them? Hopefully it Doesn’t mess with their eyes.
Thinking the same thing. I played up my poor eyesight as a kid because I wanted glasses. I really DID need them, but the Dr caught on to my BS acting like I was literally blind and I was given the correct Rx lol
yueah especially because Cambrie was wearing glasses at the appointment and they look up to her
It’s sad the coach noticed something wrong with the kids eyes sights and not the mothers 🙄
Harlee:"My coach is Cambrie litterfield and i need to get a big butt just like Cambrie.. so its just squishy.. so it doesn't hurt when i get spanken"
Cambrie: AHJDEGEKYGU GURL I-
The names Harlee and Cambrie are kinda tacky it's like the Brandy & Krystle & Destinee of the 80s.
It's hallee
@@cocoleexoxo hallee
I’m legally blind and if I was in the pageant I would wear my glasses and walk on stage with my white cane 🦯🥰
That girl can put contacts and me, I can’t even!
I hate this damn shows u can’t force a 3 years to do damn pageants it’s dumb wait intill they are 9 or 10 to do the pageants
Exactly! If they wanna start young, the youngest should be like 7 or 8
When the little girl said she wanted a big butt like Cambrie that made me so sad :( Pageants are so damaging to young girls and they should be stopped.
It’s actually kind of good that Cambrie was concerned about there eyesight
idk why TLC doesn't post full episodes yet. The show ended years ago and the clips they post now rack up tons of views, so why not post the full episodes?
They have them up for sale right under the title if you wanna watch so badly
4:25 😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂 LMAO and after ghat the photos were BEAUTIFUL
A few things:
1. Anyone notice that smooth hair flip transition from recording to individual interview with the coach at the beginning?
2. Halee’s mom gave some serious Jabba the Hut vibes in her interview
Its not the fact that Hallee doesnt know the days of the week that bothers me. She’s still young. Its the fact that she says she doesnt need to know it.
i don't think that's an issue. i used to think I didn't need to know my times tables when I was her age. Kids can't see how information and skills are connected. The concerning bit would be if her parents encouraged and reinforced that outlook.
I know she did not just call a toddler a "sassy supreme mess"
As soon as that pink Jeep came out I’m like here we go again Karen’s
How horrible to lock a child in a room alone that’s not time out that’s traumatizing .
When your mom yelled at you or your siblings(if you have any) did she tell you guys to go to your room and not come out or put you in time out and not let you come out bc it’s the same thing as leaving a child in a room
It’s not the child’s fault she can’t even decide
You'll never catch me putting my daughter in this joke of a life, 1 spent thousands to win a cheap prize, 3 ruin my child's childhood of growing up normal, and 3 be a controlling parent forcing my kid to do something they don't want. 🙏 I pray for these young little girls
All these girls are teenagers now and living normal lives. Most are in high school or college
@@Afmedic85 I hope but it can affect how they grow up act and see life with different values
I've only seen one mom on here who wasn't crazy... She didn't make her daughter wear fake teeth or lashes, she didn't spend thousands on everything, she tried to get her daughter to look on the brightside when her routine didn't go correctly, and her daughter actually liked doing pageants. It was dress up and spending time with her mom. That's how it should be. The mom was actually helping her daughter build confidence and self esteem. These moms are Mommie Dearest....
YES. Was it the girl who wasn’t spoiled and had cute pink glasses loved what she was doing and had a nice mom.
6:36 what did she say?! 😂
“she’s a hot mess” she’s 3 like what do you expect 😭
4:33 genuinely why 😭😭what the hell do they do that to the photos of the kids for ... such a shame they're being raised this way ... not good for their relationship with their bodies and looks :((
She's calling a 3-year-old a hot mess? They have trouble expressing their emotions and feelings at that age. The mother to keep the door shut on her is horrible.
Cambrie is actually a pretty good coach, good on her for taking her team to the eye doctor, should be the parents job though
The beginning had me dead asf 😂😂😂💀💀 did not expect that
at least the mom admitted that rolling your eyes and cussing at the judges was disrespectful some mom be like" yeah oh girl you tell em, you shoulda won girl"
The fact that she’s 9 years old and doesn’t know the days of the week or how many there are…
Lost me at the beginning 😭😂
These pageant moms are something else!
6:57 did you notice Mark (Halle’s dad) missing limb? I’m glad he’s doing better ❤️🙏🏾
Limbs don’t grow back... what do you mean “hope he’s doing better”???
@@thatotherchannel7945 I said “I’m glad he’s doing better” and he was having a rough time a few years ago. So I was basically saying I’m happy for him because he’s come a long way.
I guarantee most if not all of those kids can see just fine. They’re just pretending to not see that well when they see all the others saying the same & getting contacts or eyeglasses