The Buddha saved my life at age 45 when I read his words, "I lost myself trying to please everyone else. Now I'm losing everyone while I'm finding myself." Three years of solitude has given me self-love, understanding & peace that I wish for all.
7 signs 1. He give what is hard to give. ( time, effort, dedication, listening, helping hand, care and kindness) 2. He does what is hard to do, be there for you. ( show up) 3. He endure tough times and difficult times with you. 4. Protect your secrets. (trustworthy) 5. Stand with you with tough times. Be there with good and bad days. 6. Respectful and Never look down but Honest
@@yin_xing That's true.But I think being alone & close to God is better than toxic friends.Somehow God will surely help you in your need,just have faith in him & keep doing good😊
I dont have any friend to sacrifies their time, dedication, patient or anything to me. Most of the time I do my work alone. I dont know the reason but Im finding a friend yet. But when I listen to this, I realized that Im giving these all 7 qualities or the things for one of my friends. I am really happy about myself because honestly Im giving my full dedication and any help for that friend . 💫
Chose years ago to step away from toxic friendships... Have a couple of people in my life now and am pleased I put myself first, wasn't easy but inner peace is better than none
Give Time Hard to do- dedications sacrifice Endures the hardship Protect your secrets-Trustworthy Stands in tough times Never looks down on you Will show you the truth - good or bad
This video kind of confirmed what I knew for many years. I've never had true friends as these friends tend to disappear as soon as any difficult arises.
This is very true.. I was influenced by those I associated with in my youth and I didn't like myself. I woke up one day and left that life and those people behind me. It has taken a good few years to realize my worth. I am alone, but I am not lonely. And I please myself and no longer live my life to please others.
Surely a true friend is a gem. Ideally, a true friend embodies the qualities as what was shared here. Realistically, it is hard to meet such a friend although it is not impossible. People come and go in our life and can reach to the point where the friendship no longer exists. As if we don't know each other or never meet before. Sadly, but this is how life is. Also, we can be a true friend but not everyone regards us or wants it that way. Sadly, but this is how life is. On a positive note, we can always be a friend to ourselves. To care and do the best for ourselves.
hi my name MUDIT BHATI i am seen this video it purpose i learn to english and understand to english but i fill all so good life habits increase in me and thank for namo buddhay 🙏🙏
Sad but true, it's hard to find a true friend in this world. Mostly people only come and be nice when they need you, they make you as an option when no one else there for them. Sometimes I feel as a friend in need only, but that's life. There are always good people instead. Thank you for your video, always makes me feel better❤
Since i came to know what is good or bad i thought all of them are my friends but still a empty space in life. It took many years to find a good friend finally i am having the one who filled my empty space and am happy having her.
You became my true friend almost instantly. I wasn't looking for a friend. The more I came to know you the more I realized you are a very True Friend😊😊❤❤
It is true....finding true friend is hard to find...but one thing for sure be a friend to yourself and you will never be felt alone....search happiness within yourself first.....
My dr. once said, "You don't have to be friends with everyone." That saved me. I was always trying to be a friend to my coworkers. So - you don't need to be friends with everyone, especially your coworkers.
Thankyou for this video so much it is so hard to find real friends people come people go for whatever reason my best freind was. My baby girl who I lost 8 years ago through suicide it is always hard for me especially this time of year when people want to have fun but for me it is always a sad time I. Miss her so much no one can fill her shoes people have thei own lives to live ❤️😊
This makes my eyes wet😢 mind blowing ❤ Every words are true. When he explaining every signs, it makes me remember how my best friend treats me. This video made my day ❤🎉 Ty
Today is my Continuation Day; I went to my first Sangha Meeting in 2019. Changed my life, and I’ve practiced Mindfulness each day since ❤🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜 May you Be well everyone! Thank you for this inspiring video!! 😊
Kindly upload a video on how to be positive like u and how to worship budha And how is life of a Buddhist monk And how anyone can become monk like u And what is daily routine of Buddhist monk
I lost the beautiful person of my life , we were just classmate .His name was Mubashir , he was extraordinary in academics .whenever I went to him for my help he never dissappointed me a single time . I prayed my lord to make us best friends but unfortunately we were not calling each other friends. It has been 9 months when we separated after our 10th finals. It was really absurd from my side. I'm missing him so badly 😣😔😔😔😔😔 Mubashir I am sorry for what I have done. I LOVE you so much Mubashir.
From your advise to be a good friend of people if I try to be every one use me on need but after fullfill their need they behave like I am...............
At the Age of 60....i discovered a big friend was next to me Just for opportunyties..After 25 years all dissolved ....so i try to be the best version of me more and more....but i' m tired of materialistic peo ple....ciao❤ at the end , i realize that the real Friends were my parents ...
I love this, there is a checklist of how to be a true friend for me now 🧡 I believe once you are a true friend yourself you will find your reflection in the right people Edit: didn’t know he would say that in the end 😅
The Buddha saved my life at age 45 when I read his words, "I lost myself trying to please everyone else. Now I'm losing everyone while I'm finding myself." Three years of solitude has given me self-love, understanding & peace that I wish for all.
Love that! Ty for sharing!!! 😊❤
Namo Bhudhaya 🙏🙏🙏
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Thank you Lord Buddha 🤍
7 signs
1. He give what is hard to give. ( time, effort, dedication, listening, helping hand, care and kindness)
2. He does what is hard to do, be there for you. ( show up)
3. He endure tough times and difficult times with you.
4. Protect your secrets. (trustworthy)
5. Stand with you with tough times. Be there with good and bad days.
6. Respectful and Never look down but Honest
Unfortunately, I have no true friends except myself🙂.But I believe that God is always stand with me❤️
same with me
@@roemahoyens2884 🙂🙂
But God can't pay your bills or confort you with words or a hug or an advice when necessary though
@@yin_xing That's true.But I think being alone & close to God is better than toxic friends.Somehow God will surely help you in your need,just have faith in him & keep doing good😊
I dont have any friend to sacrifies their time, dedication, patient or anything to me. Most of the time I do my work alone. I dont know the reason but Im finding a friend yet.
But when I listen to this, I realized that Im giving these all 7 qualities or the things for one of my friends. I am really happy about myself because honestly Im giving my full dedication and any help for that friend . 💫
I understand youuu!!
they are rare, the best we can do is try to be true friends to ourselves and to others
when found, they must be cherished
I find me to myself as good and true friend thanks with Buddha teachings 🙏
Chose years ago to step away from toxic friendships... Have a couple of people in my life now and am pleased I put myself first, wasn't easy but inner peace is better than none
Give Time
Hard to do- dedications sacrifice
Endures the hardship
Protect your secrets-Trustworthy
Stands in tough times
Never looks down on you
Will show you the truth - good or bad
"True friendship is like sound health. The value of it is seldom known until it be lost."
-Charles Caleb Colton
This video kind of confirmed what I knew for many years. I've never had true friends as these friends tend to disappear as soon as any difficult arises.
And what u gonna do now?
Namo bhuddaya❤.....i am blessed with that one true friend 😊💙🌸
I never got friends as shared in videos.
I moved forward.
I changed my life from Buddha's teachings
Your dedication, guidance and helpfulness to all of us makes you our true friend… THANK YOU ❤
I have not so many friends but i have one friend he is equal to so many friends thank you God .Om Namo bhudhaya🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I am having a true friend since last 14 yrs with all these signs ❤❤❤❤
My true frends mom and dad ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is very true.. I was influenced by those I associated with in my youth and I didn't like myself.
I woke up one day and left that life and those people behind me.
It has taken a good few years to realize my worth.
I am alone, but I am not lonely.
And I please myself and no longer live my life to please others.
1. He gives what is hard to gives(time ,dedication,efforts)
2. he gives what is hard to do
It's meant i have no true friends..😢❤
Be one!
I'm a Catholic but we're not far away in our religious beliefs ❤ 4:29
All religion preaches the same, we are not paying attention to it. We stay at surface level instead of going deep in our religion
But the problem is these all can not be right. Only one have to be correct and the other one must be wrong somehow. So try to find the truth
Thanks for lighting the path ape hamuduruwane.
The qualities you have mentioned are absolutely correct. I am so lucky that I have a friend like that.
Namo Buddhaye.
Surely a true friend is a gem. Ideally, a true friend embodies the qualities as what was shared here. Realistically, it is hard to meet such a friend although it is not impossible. People come and go in our life and can reach to the point where the friendship no longer exists. As if we don't know each other or never meet before. Sadly, but this is how life is. Also, we can be a true friend but not everyone regards us or wants it that way. Sadly, but this is how life is. On a positive note, we can always be a friend to ourselves. To care and do the best for ourselves.
Now i realise the meaning of true frienship... I have no true friend 😢 Thank you Sir for your amazing teschings. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
hi my name MUDIT BHATI i am seen this video it purpose i learn to english and understand to english but i fill all so good life habits increase in me and thank for namo buddhay 🙏🙏
Sad but true, it's hard to find a true friend in this world. Mostly people only come and be nice when they need you, they make you as an option when no one else there for them. Sometimes I feel as a friend in need only, but that's life. There are always good people instead. Thank you for your video, always makes me feel better❤
Since i came to know what is good or bad i thought all of them are my friends but still a empty space in life.
It took many years to find a good friend finally i am having the one who filled my empty space and am happy having her.
Now, I am in toughest time and thankfully I found a true friend accurately described in this video.
💯💯💯True indeed...True friends are like gold...precious and rare.Thankyou so much for the valuable words. ❤🙏
Supreme Buddha the Great. Thank you Thero. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
🙏😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇😊🙏
Thank you ❤❤❤
Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤
Thank you. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
You became my true friend almost instantly. I wasn't looking for a friend. The more I came to know you the more I realized you are a very True Friend😊😊❤❤
I miss you😊
It is true....finding true friend is hard to find...but one thing for sure be a friend to yourself and you will never be felt alone....search happiness within yourself first.....
Thank you so much for All that you give to me and to this Beautiful WORLD.
Blessed Beloved Divine Most High Lord Buddha 🤍🌹✝️♾️🕉️☯️☮️
Om namo buddhaya 🙏
No one is bad...When u hv no expectations! The nude truth of all the living beings is - "Ultimately we all r alone"
Thank you bhante jee...namo Buddhaya..🙏🙏🙏🙏
🙋🏻♀️💐🌹❤❤❤❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️❣️💞💞💞
Thank youuu my dear teacher
Loka Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu
Namo Buddhaya ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Great teaching for ALL. Thank you Sir.
Om Namo bhudhaya🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Namo Buddha ❤
My dr. once said, "You don't have to be friends with everyone." That saved me. I was always trying to be a friend to my coworkers. So - you don't need to be friends with everyone, especially your coworkers.
Wow! Coworkers are an excellent point! Thank you, that is a wonderful awareness to practice.
Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m so grateful to have a true friend ❤❤❤!
තෙරුවන් සරනයි පින්වත් ස්වාමින්වහන්ස.
God is so humble with me . I have a true friend ❤
Namo Buddhaaya... 🙏🙏🙏
Thankyou for this video so much it is so hard to find real friends people come people go for whatever reason my best freind was. My baby girl who I lost 8 years ago through suicide it is always hard for me especially this time of year when people want to have fun but for me it is always a sad time I. Miss her so much no one can fill her shoes people have thei own lives to live ❤️😊
Thanks a lot , Namo buddhaya
Thank you Budhism to give me a beautiful mine..Thank you so much to relaxing me🙏
I also have 2 people like this ❤❤❤ one my man another my school friends 😍🥰
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much sir 🙏
You are the greatest, wisest, brilliant, super and the purest person of the world. May god bless you.
Namo Buddhaya 🧡🙏🙏
Namo buddhaya❤❤❤
Interesting and inspiring words.... 🙏🏻
Namo budhaya.. 🙏🏻
Thank you .... 🙏🏻
Wooooooooooooooooow sooooo true 🤌🏻❣️ Namo buddhaya 🙏🏻❤️🥰
After listening to these words i feel that friend i consider as my bestie isn't a true friend 🙂 "never look down on you "💔
Very good advice! I love hearing your voice. Namaste
Thank you! Genuinely needed this SO MUCH! Sending my love always ❤️
Those qualities ❤❤❤❤
This makes my eyes wet😢 mind blowing ❤ Every words are true. When he explaining every signs, it makes me remember how my best friend treats me. This video made my day ❤🎉 Ty
THANK YOU
Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏
Tqvm for Sharing 🙏🙏..
A true friend is but A Gift from God.. Namobudaya 🙏🙏..
Namo buddhaya 🙏😊
Thank u for your enlightment
Very inspiring words Thank you
Thank you so much namo budhaya🙏🙏🙏
Really Very true and heartful words sir Namo Budhdhay
Namobuddhaya .Theruwansaranai .
🙏🏻 Namo Buddhaya.
😊😊❤❤ thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Amazing advice very true.
Namo buddhaya...
You are right ❤namo budhaya ❤❤
Namo Buddhaya! Sir can you please do a another meditation series about vipassana meditation
Today is my Continuation Day; I went to my first Sangha Meeting in 2019. Changed my life, and I’ve practiced Mindfulness each day since
❤🧡 💛 💚 💙 💜
May you Be well everyone!
Thank you for this inspiring video!! 😊
I earnestly request you to make a complete guide about VIPASANA .
Namo buddaya 🎎🎎
Give and take
Only give but not take it toxic
They honest with you don't lie
Choice matches 👍
Kindly upload a video on how to be positive like u and how to worship budha
And how is life of a Buddhist monk
And how anyone can become monk like u
And what is daily routine of Buddhist monk
Namo budhhaya 🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊
God bless me with such good friends to me❤🙏
Valuable lines ❤
Thank for this !!! Namo Buddhaya !!🙏
Me too have a true friend😊
If this is really true ,then I m the luckiest coz I think now, people hardly find one but I think I have two of those gems.🤗
I lost the beautiful person of my life , we were just classmate .His name was Mubashir , he was extraordinary in academics .whenever I went to him for my help he never dissappointed me a single time . I prayed my lord to make us best friends but unfortunately we were not calling each other friends. It has been 9 months when we separated after our 10th finals. It was really absurd from my side. I'm missing him so badly 😣😔😔😔😔😔 Mubashir I am sorry for what I have done. I LOVE you so much Mubashir.
Thank you🍃🪷💎
Namo Buddhaya
I don't have any friends.As soon as their job is over they go away.i feel sad
Thank you❤❤❤
☸️ NAMO ☸️ BUDDHAYA ☸️
Thank you dear 💗
Hope I find someone like this one day….❤
Sadu Sadu Sadu anumodami
නමෝ බුද්ධාය 🙏
From your advise to be a good friend of people if I try to be every one use me on need but after fullfill their need they behave like I am...............
At the Age of 60....i discovered a big friend was next to me Just for opportunyties..After 25 years all dissolved ....so i try to be the best version of me more and more....but i' m tired of materialistic peo ple....ciao❤ at the end , i realize that the real Friends were my parents ...
❤️
I love this, there is a checklist of how to be a true friend for me now 🧡 I believe once you are a true friend yourself you will find your reflection in the right people
Edit: didn’t know he would say that in the end 😅
It’s a good thing you already know 💪🏿
Good thinking