This monk's advices made my life very peaceful. I've been following this channel for six months and I have seen so much improvement in my life . thankyou so much for making these amazing vedios .
Five questions to ask yourself before speaking: 1. Am I speaking at the proper time, i.e., is the person I wish to address open and receptive for what I want to say. 2. Am I speaking truthfully? 3. Am I speaking gently not harshly? 4. Am I speaking beneficially, i.e. with the good intention to help the other person, and not harmfully? 5. Am I speaking out of love and compassion and not with inner hate?
@@manimekhalai8256 I used your technique the other day when someone was yelling at me, I quietly said “I don’t respond to that tone. And I don’t want to change my beliefs”. It was so effective, he drove off in a quiet huff!
I have a particularly combative client, and today I worked through these steps in my reply and got a completely different response to how it usually plays out! Day 1 after listening to this amazing wisdom. Thank you 🙏
Ven accept my Vandana. Just now when I open my YT, after watching the smiling face of you my heart became full with peace. From your msg I have learned how to use my words properly and I will try from today to apply it in my practical life. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏
I am muslim but i like ur words...i am very happy and grateful being a Muslim..just wanna learn beautiful ways to live life...either the scholer is muslim or any other..no matter
Excellent advice! I have a suggestion for those who are dealing with controversy with someone. I overheard a supervisor speaking negatively about me with my direct coworkers one day, and it really hurt me and angered me. I waited until the next day and went to work early so we could speak in private without "alerting" anyone that there was "drama" happening. Lol Anyway, I told her (in a calm/gentle tone), "This is what I heard, and this is how it made me feel. Please know that this is NOT a CONFRONTATION at all. It's just a CONVERSATION ." She apologized and I replied "You're human. We all do things like that occasionally. I just wanted to know what your concerns are for me." She said she had no concerns. After our talk she thanked me and hugged me. I would call that a successful heart-to-heart talk. If I approached her with aggression or anger she would have "shut down" immediately and the conversation would have been pointless. 🤷🏼♀️
It’s not what we say, but how we say it. My family has a way of speaking harshly , without realizing how they sound. It causes a lot of hardship and pain. Thank you for your videos!
When i was young my grandfather always recited this poem to me "මහනෙල් සුවද මය කුඩමසු පිළීගද මය දෙකට එක විල මය හොඳට නරකට දෙකට කටමය." This was the only advice he repeatedly gave to me untill his last breath. And i am really grateful for his existence in my life❤
wording to others especially to the loved one is very complicated and sensitive making me afraid if she could be hurt or she could hurt me like as much as I have done, I am able to be going to take it back, on that, recently I seem to have been afraid even to try to talk to her... through this lesson, hoping to advance and go through this issue to the better in the relationship. thank you for this lesson.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom on how to use words wisely. Your teachings are a valuable reminder of the power and impact our words can have. I deeply appreciate the clarity and compassion in your message, which inspires me to be more mindful in my daily interactions. May you continue to guide and enlighten us with your teachings. Namo Buddhaya!
Wow, this channel is amazing! I love how you make Buddhism so relatable and easy to understand for young people. Your videos are not only insightful but also beautifully produced, making the teachings feel so engaging and applicable to daily life. Thank you for sharing such valuable content and helping the youth connect with mindfulness and spirituality. Keep up the incredible work
Every morning I am listening your wonderful motivational speech. It changed me a lot and I improved my knowledge also. Thank you so much my dear son❤❤❤
So True you must always be truthful and honest with yourself, but only when the time is ready for it be directed but always be patient and restless and understanding of both and the other persons emotions as well. always be honest but patient in all meaning. remember this. Namo Buddhay forever buddha lives on in all of us.
This video showed up for me at the proper time. I am feeling so angry today. Thank you for helping me to reserve my words because I would have said something I would regret later.
Because we have no proper knowledge about speaking, behaviour etc.. we face many problems with people. And in the right time we got access to your videos .. its like better late than never... We can learn good things anytime in the lifetime. If we change atleast a bit before we die, we will have better life in the next birth... i believe.. Will try to follow you sir. Thanks a ton for your valuable videos 🙏
Such a huge help to understand where we go wrong and how we can use our words in a much more gentle and kind way.Thankyou so much for your teaching and wisdom
Simple advice, which will take a lifetime to master. Time well spent, I think. Thank you so much for these videos, the people around me would thank you if they knew how much I've learned :)
To everyone reading this message, I wish you a life filled with laughter and unexpected blessings. May your troubles melt away, and may your days be as bright as the sunniest skies. Keep smiling, stay joyful, and may your journey be filled with endless positive vibes and harmony! 🙏✨
NOMO BUDDHA ♥️ NOMO BUDDHA ♥️...ABSOLUTELY CORRECT BOLECHEN 💯 👌 EXCELLENT MESSAGE TO ALL OF US NOMO MAHARAJ ❤NOMO MAHARAJ ♥️ MAHARAJ APURBO LAGLO SATOKOTI PRANAM JANYE ❤SAKOLKE BHALO RAKHUN AE PRATHANA KORI 🙏
Thank you dear Holy Monk to make myself happy and peaceful through your talk. But still I don't know what I have to do in my life. I am so worried about my life, the past life making me more sad and unhappy 💔
More than changing someone, to me acknowledgement, genuine understanding, respect or the belief of good intentions, accountability, and loving kindness creates better communication. Even when you don't agree.
1. Time
2. Truthful
3. Tone
4. Beneficial
5. Loving/compassionate from heart
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This monk's advices made my life very peaceful. I've been following this channel for six months and I have seen so much improvement in my life . thankyou so much for making these amazing vedios .
Love from Russia. When you speak I feel relaxed. Thank you for your teachings.
Five questions to ask yourself before speaking:
1. Am I speaking at the proper time, i.e., is the person I wish to address open and receptive for what I want to say.
2. Am I speaking truthfully?
3. Am I speaking gently not harshly?
4. Am I speaking beneficially, i.e. with the good intention to help the other person, and not harmfully?
5. Am I speaking out of love and compassion and not with inner hate?
Very well said
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Yes
Thank you 🙏
@@manimekhalai8256 I used your technique the other day when someone was yelling at me, I quietly said “I don’t respond to that tone. And I don’t want to change my beliefs”. It was so effective, he drove off in a quiet huff!
I have a particularly combative client, and today I worked through these steps in my reply and got a completely different response to how it usually plays out! Day 1 after listening to this amazing wisdom. Thank you 🙏
Ven accept my Vandana. Just now when I open my YT, after watching the smiling face of you my heart became full with peace. From your msg I have learned how to use my words properly and I will try from today to apply it in my practical life. Namo Buddhaya. 🙏
I am muslim but i like ur words...i am very happy and grateful being a Muslim..just wanna learn beautiful ways to live life...either the scholer is muslim or any other..no matter
Buddhism is a philosophy you don't have to be a Buddhist to understand it.and it's really easy to understand ❤❤
So nice to see. Wishing you and your family all the best.
I feel the same way. I am seeking truth more than religion.
My gradma once said"When someone hits you, the pain fades quickly, but hurtful words stick with you forever."
So true!!!👍👏🏻😍😍😍
It it true, very true
Yes correct
That so true
Very true
Excellent advice! I have a suggestion for those who are dealing with controversy with someone. I overheard a supervisor speaking negatively about me with my direct coworkers one day, and it really hurt me and angered me.
I waited until the next day and went to work early so we could speak in private without "alerting" anyone that there was "drama" happening. Lol Anyway, I told her (in a calm/gentle tone), "This is what I heard, and this is how it made me feel. Please know that this is NOT a CONFRONTATION at all. It's just a CONVERSATION ."
She apologized and I replied "You're human. We all do things like that occasionally. I just wanted to know what your concerns are for me." She said she had no concerns. After our talk she thanked me and hugged me. I would call that a successful heart-to-heart talk. If I approached her with aggression or anger she would have "shut down" immediately and the conversation would have been pointless. 🤷🏼♀️
It’s not what we say, but how we say it. My family has a way of speaking harshly , without realizing how they sound. It causes a lot of hardship and pain. Thank you for your videos!
Same my family
Same in my family
Thank you 🙏
You are always immensly helpful and wise 🥰
When i was young my grandfather always recited this poem to me "මහනෙල් සුවද මය
කුඩමසු පිළීගද මය
දෙකට එක විල මය
හොඳට නරකට දෙකට කටමය."
This was the only advice he repeatedly gave to me untill his last breath. And i am really grateful for his existence in my life❤
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These videos has a positive imapct in my life. Thank you so much for giving advices by relating to the Buddhism
wording to others especially to the loved one is very complicated and sensitive making me afraid if she could be hurt or she could hurt me like as much as I have done, I am able to be going to take it back, on that, recently I seem to have been afraid even to try to talk to her... through this lesson, hoping to advance and go through this issue to the better in the relationship. thank you for this lesson.
sir you are a great person in my life , because of sir those sentences you say i will apply to speak it , it is creat a magic
Your words are very helpful to me and encourage my life to grow better as I grow I am blessed to live across a Buddhism temple
Every teaching in Buddhism has practical value. Thank you for providing insightful and useful content.
Love from Colombia. I have learned so much from you. Thank you for your wise words.
Thnku so much for this message...Nammo budhhaya🙏🙏
Thank you❤❤❤
Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your wisdom on how to use words wisely. Your teachings are a valuable reminder of the power and impact our words can have. I deeply appreciate the clarity and compassion in your message, which inspires me to be more mindful in my daily interactions. May you continue to guide and enlighten us with your teachings. Namo Buddhaya!
Wow, this channel is amazing! I love how you make Buddhism so relatable and easy to understand for young people. Your videos are not only insightful but also beautifully produced, making the teachings feel so engaging and applicable to daily life. Thank you for sharing such valuable content and helping the youth connect with mindfulness and spirituality. Keep up the incredible work
I am christian but love listen your words
Your dedication to spreading Buddha’s wisdom is truly commendable. Thank you for your efforts
One of the best ever video , I have ever watched in my entire life
Guruji ..love from INDIA
Must have a inner peace mind and a kind heart to practice these 5 things. Thank You so much.
beautiful advice. Always look forward to you posting. Wishing you and the team all the best
Every morning I am listening your wonderful motivational speech. It changed me a lot and I improved my knowledge also. Thank you so much my dear son❤❤❤
Thanks for your lesson to built a right Buddhist 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you dear bhanthe ! Your words clean my mind. May Lord Buddha bless you !
So True you must always be truthful and honest with yourself, but only when the time is ready for it be directed but always be patient and restless and understanding of both and the other persons emotions as well. always be honest but patient in all meaning. remember this. Namo Buddhay forever buddha lives on in all of us.
Namo Buddhaya.... ❤❤❤❤
This is so use full 😊 it gives reasons and examples.
So inspiring Sir, while watching you I am smiled...❤❤❤ thank you do much🥰🥰🥰
This video showed up for me at the proper time. I am feeling so angry today. Thank you for helping me to reserve my words because I would have said something I would regret later.
💜 speech is frequency/vibration
Thank you for teaching us about proper speech. Namo Buddhaya
Absolutely the True Supreme Dhamma
Love from Bangladesh🇧🇩
Because we have no proper knowledge about speaking, behaviour etc.. we face many problems with people.
And in the right time we got access to your videos .. its like better late than never...
We can learn good things anytime in the lifetime. If we change atleast a bit before we die, we will have better life in the next birth... i believe..
Will try to follow you sir.
Thanks a ton for your valuable videos 🙏
This was perfectly timed for the events in my life. Thank you. 🌷
Thanku you🙏🏻🙏🏻
Namo Budhhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Such a huge help to understand where we go wrong and how we can use our words in a much more gentle and kind way.Thankyou so much for your teaching and wisdom
Supreme Buddha the Great. Namo Buddhaya. Thank you Thero. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
Your videos are very helpful for Life improvement and English ❤
Thank you, Sifu! Namo amitofu☸️!
sometimes its really hard but i learned too not to care a lot thats mades my life bit easier
Simple advice, which will take a lifetime to master. Time well spent, I think. Thank you so much for these videos, the people around me would thank you if they knew how much I've learned :)
To everyone reading this message, I wish you a life filled with laughter and unexpected blessings. May your troubles melt away, and may your days be as bright as the sunniest skies. Keep smiling, stay joyful, and may your journey be filled with endless positive vibes and harmony! 🙏✨
🙏🏻😊😇||नमो बुद्धाय|| 😇😊🙏🏻
It's amazing, I can't stop watching videos like this
Words decided character of person.. ❤️ Really Helpful Thank you
I always watch your viðeo it helps me a lot. Thank you❤❤❤
Namo Buddhaya! From Cambodia
NOMO BUDDHA ♥️ NOMO BUDDHA ♥️...ABSOLUTELY CORRECT BOLECHEN 💯 👌 EXCELLENT MESSAGE TO ALL OF US NOMO MAHARAJ ❤NOMO MAHARAJ ♥️ MAHARAJ APURBO LAGLO SATOKOTI PRANAM JANYE ❤SAKOLKE BHALO RAKHUN AE PRATHANA KORI 🙏
Thankyou Namobudhaya
I really appreciate your efforts in educating us. It has been of great help to change my heart and mind.
love from India North East 🇮🇳🙏🏻❤
Thank you for your valuable words. Namah Buddhaya🙏
Thanks to Monk 🙏🙏🙏❤️
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏❤
Sir, This is good lesson for day. I will practice to follow this. How should we behave when some one is hurting me to core.
much gratitude for your teachings. Thank you.❤❤❤
Amen. Thank You Lord
Buddha Is Life 🙏🙏
What a helpful video! Thank you for your kindness and guidance.
Very very worthfully teaching .may tripple gem bless you .
Thank you dear Holy Monk to make myself happy and peaceful through your talk. But still I don't know what I have to do in my life. I am so worried about my life, the past life making me more sad and unhappy 💔
Thank you for sharing and inspiring us, your motivational words, ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!!❤️❤️
More than changing someone, to me acknowledgement, genuine understanding, respect or the belief of good intentions, accountability, and loving kindness creates better communication. Even when you don't agree.
Tq Namo Buddhaya
This is the most important video i want
ཐུགས་རྗེ་ཆེ་དགེ་སློང་མཆོག
Namo་Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏
Namo Buddhay❤❤❤Love From India❤
Thanks fr ur advice... I will try to analyse my speech more.
❤❤❤Thanks Namo Buddhaya🙏🙏🙏😍
Nammobuddyha ❤️😊🙏
Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏
Thanks dear💗
Thankyou bhanteji, i was really in need of this video Namo budhaya
Bhante, thanks 🙏🏻
Very essential and helpful words... Great... Thank you sir ❤❤
❤Namo Buddhaya!!!❤
Namo Buddhaya! 🙏 Thank you
Namo buddhaya😊
Thanks from Ukraine!
Hi guys l am from nepal l listen all videos
நன்றி என்ற ஒரு வார்த்தை போதாது தங்களுடைய கருத்திற்கு. இருப்பினும் எங்களால் அதை மட்டுமே உரைக்க இயலும் 🙏😊
Namo buddhay🙏
Brilliant words from this monk
I do not sleep, worring all time. Now I am free from ruin life. And living truly happy life.Present beautiful life.नामोबुध्दाय 🙏(INDIA)
Thank you for sharing this good information for us sir 🙏 lNDIA Kerala
❤❤❤thanks from good advices !!!!
Thank you for the wisdom 🙏
ස්තූතියි 😊
This video is so precious ! 5 wised rules to follow ! Thank you .🙏🪷
Exactly true 💯%😊😊
A little wisdom goes a long way
Beautifully explained..thank u Sir..