DATING FOR DATA by RC Blakes
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Come with it Uncle. Thank you for your wisdom!
Very wise words from a very wise man!
I sometimes can't put into words all I want to say, you always come thru and make things crystal clear for me. This video really blessed me. Intelligently comparable thats it!!!!!! Exactly this, thank you.🙂 Yah bless You!
If a man slows down to a snail's pace, a woman should slow down to a rock's pace✨✨
How deep !!!!!
Soo true girl! xx
AMEN...
True!!
That's deep en true.
KEY POINTS:
1. Friendly interrogation.
2. Feel for positive intuition.
3. Comparable intelligence.
4. Mutual interest.
5. Personal inspiration.
6. Clean inspection.
7. Hear, see & know their intentions.
Thank you
Thanks I appreciate it
Thank you 🙏🏾
So kind of you to make notes for everyone. God bless you ♡
@Tracy Ty - You're welcome. 🙂🙏💙
Don’t ignore red flags during dating because you want to get married. It will cost you. Turn your emotions off and your brain on! Ask yourself: Do I like this person or am I tolerating them? Do I enjoy being with them or Do I just not want to be lonely? Will this person help or hinder my purpose? I'll do a TH-cam video on this soon.
YESSS PLEASE!!!
Can't wait love!
I know..im not dating but I have new male friends..and I dont feel like they want to hear me out really..one guy I asked to check his painting and it was great and I commented on it for example , said how good it was and when I showed my art and its cute..he had nothing to say really..but I did have friends and a bf in the past who would comment on how great it is...and when I told him about my purpose..I want to change careers and lost my job last year..want to study one more year..he d be aloof and asked if I could find a job already..and when I explained there s still barely any job due to covid..and there s a lot of competition..he was aloof..so for that I dont think I could marry someone like this..it made me feel bad somehow..but yeah I realise there is no connection deep inside..someone should encourage you..I dont want to encourage a man and he has nothing to say about me
I have dated out of being lonely before😔
Lawd Jesus Krystle well said sista!!! Come on now sista!!! Amen Amen Amen
When emotions are high, logic is low.😣
Straight facts on facts
That's definitely a fact!!!!!
Sadly growing up I always thought dating=sex. It may have been because that's all I seen growing up between men and women. Now at 35 I'm figuring out what dating truly is, collecting data. Thank you Mr. Blakes 🙂
Do not ignore their energy! Open your eyes and ears. Bow out if necessary. Your spirit will tell you the whole truth and nothing but the truth.
yep of course
Amen
Amen
Why do people have negative energy??
Yes the spirit it right
My biggest lesson is stop lying to yourself no longer lie.
Red Flag when a person leaves u🙄 confused!!!Please ladies just exit👉. 🙅🏿♀️Don't set yourself up for heart break and stupidity.Its comman sense.When they cant explain themselves 🥱🚩🚩🚩
THANK YOU PASTOR BLAKES FOR THIS VERY IMPORTANT INFORMATION!!!!!!! GOD BLESS YOU AND FAMILY.
Why are people so over the place??
Ive learned more from you in one video than my 4 years of college
yep
Real talk💯
100% agreed!
Facts
That is because The Holy Spirit is Higher Learning. He Is The Ultimate Teacher. He has so much more to teach us if we just tune in
Narcissists ask alot of questions and want to know ALL about you too... ,stay woke ladies.👁
They sure do, they use it as ammunition against you at a later date when they want to put you down & condemn you. Especially if it’s something about your past that you confided in them about. They pretend to care & want to know you but they are really just looking for dirt on you to use against you & bury you emotionally in that dirt.
@@MeIBell7 facts sis!
Be aware of the Narcissist
Study to show yourself approved with these disordered demons! Test them with questions before you divulge any of your personal business. These types of Men don’t like questions, as they are showing you their representative. Study how they move so you can play “CHESS” and not “CHECKERS” with these fools. 💯
Straight facts sister but that's why we always need to test people's spirit and their energy. Vibes and energy never failed to show us the truth . Pay attention to your gut intuition it will never fail you
I wish my father had the wisdom to school me with such information in my 20's, alot of mistakes could have been avoided.
I was a dating mess before I started watching you last year.
FISH for CLEAR INTENTIONS. It is my responsibility to make certain that I know their clear intentions.- Matt 5:37.
“I gotta see the papers from the doctor” 😂
And anyone in their right mind, will have them to show. Even I have it all pertaining mind and body. It's called records, sweety.😁
Factssss clean inspectionnnn
signed by a doctor🤣🤣
signed by a doctor🤣🤣
60 year young wish I would have learned these lessons early in life dating for data, waiting for one real love not lust or be someone’s mother or build man no more, thanks again
Let’s get some wisdom from a servant of God!!🙏🏾🕊❤️
Bishop you just don't know how many lives of women u impact with your candid messages.. I honour God for your life. Iam an ardent follower of you. God bless you and live long! ❤
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Myself and others included rather male to female are simply blessed by your presence as A man of God and a father to many. God bless U and 1st Lady Blake's
And you are so right true word
That’s deep in true
Thank you and May God bless this man, his family and his ministry, in Jesus’s name. Amen.
Thank you for the Designed and Dynamic Teaching for Dating.
Ladies I know we're ALL ready💕
Happy belated Father’s Day, RC, your actually right, I don’t have a man on earth that brings out the best in me. That’s why God is my main inspiration, the same way a man needs inspiration, a woman needs it too.
This is the wisdom that us queens need! Thank you father Blakes! 🙏🏻💞
BISHOP BLAKES THANK YOU FOR REMINDING US TO KEEP ADJUSTING OUR CROWNS!!!!
My Bishop don’t tell one lie!!!!! I am better because of this man and I praise God for this man, his wife, his brother and the new home family.
You are a gem!!! Literally the father all young women need ♥️
Spirit and intuition never lies In my 60’s I can tell you all of this is truth !
In order to let this sink deep within, I’m listening to this a couple times. Thank you sir.
If only I could have heard this message 19 years ago! 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏽
I thought the same. But, you know what? Let's stop regretting and do it better. We are wiser now. God bless you🌺
A woman can only feel safe with a man if she can 1) admire, 2) respect, 3) and doesn't want to change that man -- only then she can feel safe, at peace, and only then she can love that man. Also, every woman is different so the practical examples of these conditions are not the same for everyone.
Gosh I love this I'm Dating/ Talking to a man now and it seems that he gets Uncomfortable about questions maybe it's me so thanks for the word "Friendly interrogation."
How’s it going now?
I love you RC!!!!
You have done more for me than you could imagine. Got me through an awful heartbreak. Thank you ❤️❤️
Am always educated by your contents, may God add you more wisdom to help many ladies. Representing Kenya!!
We are camped here.
Grt content, also Kenyan here
Me too
Tuko wengi. Rich teaching in every video whihch I share fellow women. You are a great blessing Bishop. Keep it real teaching about smart love and healthy relationships.
Blessings Pastor! May God continue to direct, protect and bless you and Lisa! I am encouraged by every video that has helped me heal from past trauma from a 26 year marriage 😊🙏 Tonight's message is additional wisdom that will prepare me for the future! I've been asking God for wisdom and he sent you along with others. I can never have enough wisdom in my "storehouse." Thank you!
We need more men like Pastor Blake’s in the world. I’m glad I found this channel.
People may want a relation but not a relationship! That was powerful 😳
Been watching RC for now almost 2 years. Watched all his videos and man he turned my mess of a love life and self perspective to a queens perspective and helped me mend my broken consciousness. Now a man can’t get anything away with me. I thank God for your help and I will continue to watch for advice.
I don't have a Father, big brothers nor Uncles, but I thank God that I now have you 🙏🏽
Thank you you helped me so much and I waited. He came! Everything I needed in my life.
Congrats dear
My friends thought I was being a prude when I said that one of the dates with a man I think is the one, would be a trip to my doctor for a blood draw and a skin scrape. Glad to know there is a man on the planet who sees that as a good thing. It means there’s at least one more out there and maybe he’s my ‘one’!
Blood draw?? That's usually when you are about to marry, not dating.
@@ButterCookie1984 Usually. These are unusual times though, haha!
@@kelliam1975 Lol. True.
I wish I would have had this information 36+ years ago... most of all, listening to the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment!! 🙏✝️
Pastor coming with the gems as usual. I am here for it! 💎💎💎💎
I laughed out loud when he talked about women going half on dates and said “Sit down honey. Please sit down.” 🤣🤣🤣
Me too 😂
Me too🤣
I laughed so hard as well
😂🤣
This has truly been enlightening and empowering on all levels. I will be sharing with my women's ministry.
I just LOVE the way he talks 😂. It’s so smoooth haha
Pastor Blakes you’re a real blessing in my life and truly opened my eyes to SO much! God is using you in a necessary way for so many. I was married to a narcissist 24 yrs then got engaged to another but realized and it broke that off. Currently at 53 , not dating but hopeful God brings a good one my way.
I’ve shared your videos to my daughter, family and fb groups I’m a part of. Thank you and keep preaching it❤️
Thank you Bishop for every video you posted on TH-cam. The last few days i unfortunately did catch a big cold. I started binge watching a show on Netflix but did quickly realize that all the drama and cussing is not something i want to listen to. So instead I'm laying in bed and listening to all your videos. It's all about micro decisions that will elevate us in 2024. I'm watching your videos since 4 years now and in this time you changed my life so much for the better. I'm growing closer to God each day. I'm staying abstinent and I'm properly vetting men in dating. Thank you for all you're doing.
Bishop is simply my relaxation me time at this point 😭😄
Everything you teach us can never be taught in any institution,may God always bless you and your ministry for this kind of dedication to save So many ladies from all over the world.
Thank you Bishop Blakes! Your wise counsel, common sense that is God directed, and spirit led intuition is spot on. I’m somewhat new to your teaching but have been binge watching your videos and your Soul Ties and Queenology books arrived today. I’m diving in to those next. Thank you for keeping it Godly and real. 🙏🏻
Hi Shari!
@@shariash1537 Hello 👋🏻 another Shari! Great name and both have a great appreciation for excellent teaching by Bishop Blake’s! Blessings! 🙏🏻
Thank you for this free game, with the word and straight, no chaser!! Where were you 20 years ago Pastor!! I am so grateful for you and I will share with everyone I come in contact with!
What are some of the questions we should be asking when dating to find out what type of person you are interviewing and interacting with .Can that be your next part series.
If i'm correct, he already did videos for this context. Now, I don't remember the title, so you'll have to search.
Amen , Amen , Amen. Greeting pastor Blake. Im Vickie from Atlanta . May God continue to bless you and your family .May he continue to help you guide your online family as well cause lord knows I nee it . Im so happy to be apart of your live audience today cause it fills my heart with joy. Hello First Lady, Mrs.
Lisa
Thank you for accepting me.😊🙏🏽♥️
Engaging and deep conversation is a must.
Thank you Pastor for this message. It was well needed.
Thank u sooo much RC Blakes. You like the father I never had.
🙏🏽😊♥️ Honored-Thank you
You are a blessing for the women! Your advices are GOLD! Thank you so much for your service in restoring the soul of so many women !
I love all the content of RC Blakes Jr. I am a Ph.D. student, and that is the process we apply to embark on our research processes; findings are key! Even if those findings reveal statements that contradict our initial hypothesis, we have to believe in the process; as you mention, I think it is our responsibility to be rigorous, meticulous, and disciplined in the dating process since we are opening up to a new person. This new stage either can elevate us or leave us doubting ourselves; we can not afford that, especially if, as women, we are building our careers and our empires, which takes a lot of time and energy. Men who are not contributing to that process should be left behind.
That intro music is fye. So relaxing and prepares my mind to receive this good teaching.
I thought I was the only one that noticed is that piece of music is awesome...
Loved every second! The whole interlude and intro plus the precious content! What a blessing🤯🙏🏽
Proverbs 27:17 IRON SHARPENS IRON ❤️
Watching from the UK....Always and ever deep inspirational
There is an ocean of people over 60 on dating sites and a video on advices to them would be appreciated.
My daughters and I have been listening to you for the last few years, and you're wisdom has touched our hearts and lives - thank you. Love from London, UK!
thank you so much .. I am 45 and out in the " Piss Pool " of the dating game ... this is what I have tried to explain this to men ...
Asking for all of your prayers saints !!! My birthday is tomorrow and I would like to for prayers of protection and discernment as I enter the new age in life . 🙏🏾
A blessed and happy birthday in advance to you Latrice. May the Lord who does not withhold any good thing meet you at your point of need and grant your most earnest prayers💞
Happy Birthday. May the Almighty cover you with his hand and grant you peace and prosperity. Your eyes will be as sharp as an eagle’s and the best of your life will be the rest of your life.
Prayers sent ♥️
Thank you so much for taking the time out of your day to speak into my life, I really appreciate your kind words and prayers..🥰
Thank you men get upset when you say i need you to go to the doctor with me or is nothing.
You are really a Blessing may god you and Lisa. You all are really helping me and other women's.
Good Morning ,You are very powerful. Such an Anointed Man of God. I am learning so much form You. God Bless You and Your Wife. Thank you for sharing Your knowledge.
Blessings to you as well PASTOR & first lady Blakes
Awesome!!! Thx Dad as alwsys very inspiring... Happy be-lated Fathers Day.. hope it was great!!! Many Blessings
Ten mins in to this video , I totally understand what you are saying . This is a game changer and should be the place we always operate out of in dating.
I only wish that what im learning from you i only knew back in my younger years. We are only at fault cause we dont know or how we be taught. But i can move on. Now knowing what i know and do ir right thank you god bless you you are a blessing to me
I really have to be more feminine.. my mother was so masculine it was kinda odd but she was lol.. my mom played the dad role bc dad was not around a lot.. I can be tough .. I’m learning, I’m praying a lot to be quiet and just listen and be more soft.. I can intimidate a man lol.. God bring me a man who can relate with me..I want a leader with a vision..😇💘🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Luv your content. Thanks for sharing your knowledge. God bless. 🙏🏽
Am so grateful for you pastor Blakes. I was never taught dating principles. Am guilty of being in the masculine energy and pursuing man but that's all in the past. I am now 27 and in the season of singleness. I gain so much knowledge and wisdom from the videos you put out. Thank you so much. Love from Nairobi, Kenya
Dating is for data - I love it. It should be intentional. We only get one shot at this thing called life. 😂 at the ax murderer comment. I watched part of this last night, now I'm rewatching it. Great information Pastor Blakes. You are the best!!! Thanks.
I want a part two to this🙏🏼 This was gold👌🏽
I love the music in the beginning very relaxing! :)
I've been told that when God awakens you in the wee hours of the morning he has either a message for you or something he wants you to do🙏🙏
SO AS I TRY TO BE MORE INTENTIONAL IN MY LIFE.
I AM HERE FOR MY MESSAGE!!
40 years; 2 kids; never knew nothing about dating. About me; about men...
I "meet" you sir some days ago and in these few but significant days, I solved situations that I should have solved 10 years ago.
You can't even imagine what you are doing in my life. God bless you and your family.
Good to know that some man of God can speak the truth as it is and not bend it. Thank you so much
You kill me hahahaha “you’re supposed to figure out if this person is an axe murderer before you have sex with them…” lol I love you!!!
A summary of RC Blake’s to me (listen to your spirit everything else will follow of you listen to God!) that goes for most videos it really is that simple.
This man of God is a good example of what a father and a husband should be like. This is one blessed ministry. Pastor may you never lack a thing in your life. You are such a blessing and are doing a wonderful job.
Thank you for this father given instructions!! I find that I'm not to far off from my Boaz!!! 🙂Amen
The inspire part is true dated a man in the past, sweet, caring but he did not push me to be my best ( inspired I know that’s on ME) but I almost dated this one man and he inspired me to go harder in the gym, get back into running and turn into real estate I could tellI would of been completely different with either man and Mr. Blake’s is preaching truth!
This was so good, I was prompted to revisiting this message. Ask and answer questions. Keeping it real 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I just love your little laugh it makes me smile
this video is my story. i cried at the end but thank God i learnt a lot from it
This was so so full of wisdom. Thank you for what you do, and bringing it straight!
I’m thankful for your teaching !! I like how you tie it into scripture and make it make sense. I’ve learned so much from you and your wife ❤️. Everything you had taught me I have implied and it has saved me from wrong thinking and relationships ❤️
Bishop Blakes I cannot get enough of your teachings 2023 it still speaks volumes into my spirit!!!! Thank you so much!!!
Best video I have ever seen. 👏👏👏
I'm usually lazy and on a go but I felt the need to sit through this video and write notes. I felt blessed and I learned if I don't take the time to watch these videos I won't find the hidden gems. If I can sit through an hour movie then I can watch a video of wisdom that will help me for a lifetime.
I thank God for you; who else is enlightening women in such a real way. Why would anyone give thumbs down to this information.
Verify what they are projecting to be. Take no one at face value. Trust, but Verify. 1Cor 4:2-3. Come back with FINDINGs, not with hope and wishes. Wow... True RC. Spot-on !
Thank you my spiritual parents love you guys. Excellent advise
Bishop, that teaching was phenomenal! I can't comment on one aspect because ALL of it was sound, practical, and inspiring. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for what you poured out, I'm completely FULL!!! Massachusetts 🙏
Amen 🙏 thank you Bishop God bless you and your family ❤ 👪 🙏
Absolutely true, it is important for us women take every note. Fill in the blanks
True Pastor
And it should be done sober gathering data because under the influence of alcohol we don't see the truth
At 57 min mark, that’s exactly how they act and pretend like they don’t know what U getting at. But do not fall victim. Cause these men will really play with U if U let them.