I watched it years ago, but didn't understand its significance until now, after getting married and going through various circumstances. Today, I realize how crucial this discussion is. Listen carefully: Haram is haram. It will hurt and shatter you if you engage in it. Don't deceive yourself. Please end the haram relationship. It's difficult, but trust me, it causes more harm later on. Stop haram immediately. Repent (make tauba) and focus on worship (ibadah). Purify your intentions and think rationally. Do what is halal, no matter how big or small. Don't burden yourself. Don't rush. Seek Allah's help and make dua for me too.
Dr, Nouman has a really goofy side to him, it's adorable and quite refreshing. I really like the seriousness and the gentle personality of Dr. Omar Suleiman as well. May Allah bless you all.
@@saimaamin5212 yes I agree with u O.suliman is has very sober mature and logical way of explaining, and NAK is just funny guy with his own ways of explanation
I really like Omar Suleiman's opinion, the stepping back after or while in long term relationship to pursue or question your intention logically seems very beneficial. It's just like a break within 'regular modern' relationship, but taken with extreme & careful consideration cuz after this you want to pursue it the halal way. I'm really enlightened by his opinion
I agree with nouman ali because u no doubt how intellect u r u are not going go know is that person is right or wrong for u . Marriage is a contract u have to work on it and its a life time contract .As different things of life needs to work on them its the same u both have to work together .
I am too late to listen to it. I wish they could've arranged such discussion forteen years ago. I'm about to marry this person I know for forteen years now and since now our families are involved and we are officially engaged for four years, I cannot step back now. I was blinded with my own emotions all these years. Pray for me that it turns out to be good, compatible and happy marriage. I just can hope for best now because I don't see any good. May Allah SWT have mercy on us all.
@@thepath6904 I spoke to my mother and she is really happy with this engagement and upcoming marriage. She is saying that Shetaan is trying to manipulate me. And my father is also very happy with this. Both of my parents are so happy. And I think when my parents are happy it means there is something good in it.
I sort of get what Nouman Ali Khan was trying to say, cause in this side of world, like south Asian, some people aren't that religious and really don't, like care much about doing wrong in this regard, so when they think they should at least make some sort of commitment and get married, they should get married cause they aren't going to do the right thing anyway, and taking take a step back doesn't really matter to them, to those people, they really should get married. but overall, I definitely agree with Omar Suleiman, because I have seen people who were so blinded by love that they ended up getting married and are now miserable.
I disagree with Omar Suleiman. Getting married is better for the couple instead of continuously being in a relationship they the couple themselves feel guilt and shame but at the same time angry pf why they can't just marry. Them going in a halal way of a nikah. Anf they don't have to decide to live together but being aware and taking the relationship more seriously will help the couple with their spirituality. And if they separate that is better than being in a haram relationship ship for years and feeling shame, it will cause harm their soul. But divorce is not an end of the world. I think Omar Suleiman sees divorce as something shameful, but in islam there is no saying that Allah would not like people to divorce. It's only that people are putting this idea into the religion. Divorce is nore good nore bad. Islam guide us on everything, and divorce is one of them.
@@zainabumar7832 Where is the manners? Muslim Ummah is facing a very hard time what've they done? I don't follow & want to follow moderate islam that is a fitnah. Scholars like Nouman Ali Khan, Yasir qadi, Menk or others I don't follow them for the sake of Allah. I want to be clear cut & like those scholarship of Islam who spread 'Gourib Islam' who are trying to establishing Islam in society not like living in west & saying Islam is a very peaceful religion but never say Islam is a religion of Truth & Justice.
Whom do you follow then ? Coz I don’t see any other scholars doing their best to preach and teach Islam other than these guys … So I don’t quite agree with your moderate scholar comment
I watched it years ago, but didn't understand its significance until now, after getting married and going through various circumstances. Today, I realize how crucial this discussion is. Listen carefully: Haram is haram. It will hurt and shatter you if you engage in it. Don't deceive yourself. Please end the haram relationship. It's difficult, but trust me, it causes more harm later on. Stop haram immediately. Repent (make tauba) and focus on worship (ibadah). Purify your intentions and think rationally. Do what is halal, no matter how big or small. Don't burden yourself. Don't rush. Seek Allah's help and make dua for me too.
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Omar Sulaiman with the mature advice.
Oh really? Minute 14:39 he throws a fellow Muslim under the bus. No thanks
@ no he doesn't bro. U misunderstood😂 stop the slander
Assalamu alaikum everyone.
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Thanks for discussion
Dr, Nouman has a really goofy side to him, it's adorable and quite refreshing. I really like the seriousness and the gentle personality of Dr. Omar Suleiman as well. May Allah bless you all.
@@saimaamin5212 yes I agree with u O.suliman is has very sober mature and logical way of explaining, and NAK is just funny guy with his own ways of explanation
Thank you again for great discussion, Omar's insights are always well informed.
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@@nadiaislamtedoldi9950 I feel like what i said is self explanatory? He seems to be a well read, well educated person?
@@asaiya705 the comment wasn’t meant for you. My bad
Definitely agree marriage should not be an emotional decision!! Emotions are too fleeting. Logic is so important
Ustad Nouman Ali Khan and Omar Suleiman ahhhhhhhhhhh these two together ♥️♥️ mashallah
its really nice to see them together
Omar suleiman is my favorite imam ever. Like really he’s so reasonable & knows how to handle the youth
Like him throwing Noumin under the bus at minute 14:39?
lol chill out, that wasn't him throwing nouman under the bus. He was asking how much experience nouman has, not accusing him😂 comprehension skills.
@@eflow4786dude. What the hell are you talking about. I just like omar suleiman more. Everybody has preference 💀
I love the humour 😄 ma shaa ALLAH...JAZA'AKALLAHU KHAIRAN guys..more of ALLAH's Rahma and Noor upon you all. People need to listen to this
Wow. That was actually a really nice discussion. Good valid points raised by all three speakers
I really like Omar Suleiman's opinion, the stepping back after or while in long term relationship to pursue or question your intention logically seems very beneficial. It's just like a break within 'regular modern' relationship, but taken with extreme & careful consideration cuz after this you want to pursue it the halal way. I'm really enlightened by his opinion
The most most mature answer by Sir Omar , this tym he surpasses NAK sir..
it's so different watching this when i was 18 and watching it back now that i'm 25
Oh tell me what’s different
I agree with nouman ali because u no doubt how intellect u r u are not going go know is that person is right or wrong for u . Marriage is a contract u have to work on it and its a life time contract .As different things of life needs to work on them its the same u both have to work together .
I am too late to listen to it. I wish they could've arranged such discussion forteen years ago. I'm about to marry this person I know for forteen years now and since now our families are involved and we are officially engaged for four years, I cannot step back now. I was blinded with my own emotions all these years. Pray for me that it turns out to be good, compatible and happy marriage. I just can hope for best now because I don't see any good. May Allah SWT have mercy on us all.
Please speak to someone sister and seek advice.
@@thepath6904 I spoke to my mother and she is really happy with this engagement and upcoming marriage. She is saying that Shetaan is trying to manipulate me. And my father is also very happy with this. Both of my parents are so happy. And I think when my parents are happy it means there is something good in it.
Everything is with Allah, insha'Allah it all works well for you sister. Keep making duah for peace and patience.
@@thepath6904 thank you, and make a dua for me and my future.
I just have sister.
Assalam alykum ww am a Muslim from Rwanda. Alhamdulilah for such a good video❤
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I sort of get what Nouman Ali Khan was trying to say, cause in this side of world, like south Asian, some people aren't that religious and really don't, like care much about doing wrong in this regard, so when they think they should at least make some sort of commitment and get married, they should get married cause they aren't going to do the right thing anyway, and taking take a step back doesn't really matter to them, to those people, they really should get married. but overall, I definitely agree with Omar Suleiman, because I have seen people who were so blinded by love that they ended up getting married and are now miserable.
I Love it
I kinda agree with both nauman and omar sir
11:30
Psychologically Nauman is correct, religiously omar is right..
محسن ظافر ..i see you
"How many marriages of boys and girls have you done?" 😂😂😂
With all humility please don’t joke about our scholars like this everyone makes mistakes
Omar Suleiman is givena good advice
Where i can watch full video and the dua i wanna hear from nouman?
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Love vanish after marriage cz u get that satisfaction of accomplishment for that person
It only when you love a woman or man because of their body you should also love them because of their personality, good character
14:45 *"How many marriages and divorces have you done?"* 😂🔥
Rude. Extremely disrespectful of Omar
@@eflow4786 calm down babygirl, it was a joke!!
Not meant to be rude or offensive/ disrespectful in any way...
Your sense of humor is dead
I disagree with Omar Suleiman. Getting married is better for the couple instead of continuously being in a relationship they the couple themselves feel guilt and shame but at the same time angry pf why they can't just marry. Them going in a halal way of a nikah. Anf they don't have to decide to live together but being aware and taking the relationship more seriously will help the couple with their spirituality. And if they separate that is better than being in a haram relationship ship for years and feeling shame, it will cause harm their soul. But divorce is not an end of the world. I think Omar Suleiman sees divorce as something shameful, but in islam there is no saying that Allah would not like people to divorce. It's only that people are putting this idea into the religion. Divorce is nore good nore bad. Islam guide us on everything, and divorce is one of them.
Exactly. He was extremely disrespectful to Noumin
13:25😂
We don't follow moderate scholars.
Come on don’t talk like that at least speak differently with manners
@@zainabumar7832 Where is the manners? Muslim Ummah is facing a very hard time what've they done?
I don't follow & want to follow moderate islam that is a fitnah. Scholars like Nouman Ali Khan, Yasir qadi, Menk or others I don't follow them for the sake of Allah. I want to be clear cut & like those scholarship of Islam who spread 'Gourib Islam' who are trying to establishing Islam in society not like living in west & saying Islam is a very peaceful religion but never say Islam is a religion of Truth & Justice.
Whom do you follow then ? Coz I don’t see any other scholars doing their best to preach and teach Islam other than these guys … So I don’t quite agree with your moderate scholar comment
Omar Sulaiman was right
The most most mature answer by Sir Omar , this tym he surpasses NAK sir..