I left my husband when he chose his parents. The father hated me and the mother ignored me. I never harmed anyone. I didn’t even speak Hindi. Through no fault of my own I was judged and punished. My husband had to choose his parents as they are his gods. The mental gymnastics I went through were outrageous. I never wanted a divorce. I did want to be safe and loved though. So I saved me.
My husbund choosed also his family his sister! You cant do nothing. The best way is to go away and to start a new life. I have two children and i went away. May Allah protect all women
We have only been hearing abt the rights of men since eternity...this talk... sons and sons' mothers and their families should be made to listen esp in india...ignorance is costing heavily and destroying families.
How about when my husband's mother has hit me. Physically hit me. As well as her orphans she adopted. She also said that her daughter was going to poison him and I with a smile on her face. However she's the one who sends her adopted kids to do certain things like spy. She smiled so happily when she said she was very happy his dog of 14 years died. She also told me she told her adopted daughter to call the cops on her own son and due to that he went to jail for a whole year. Then she disowned her adopted daughter. Her adopted kids almost jumped me if it weren't for the youngest adopted daughter. They put their hands on me. Then she tries calling the cops on me. They all ganged up on me and had me hospitalized to a mental hospital. They used and the mother manipulates and gaslights.. and I know you say be careful with psychology however I feel now I am the crazy person and I feel like a terrible person. I had a very abusive childhood and they all knew that and it's obvious. My ace score is a 10 and they were well aware due to being open about it. And they stole my things. I would catch my husband mom sneaking into my room when she thinks I'm not there. She was also spying before and when I opened the door I guess it hit her on the side of the head. She lies and gossips about my looks. The way I dress etc etc etc etc to her little children. How is it that those traits aren't evil? I am so confused. She laughs at my pain. Who would do that??? I believe I have an extreme case. Yes I have eventually went off on her and I didn't feel bad and that's highly unlikely me due to carrying much guilt around even about the things I didn't do. However I exploded because I felt like I couldn't take anymore. Not saying that's an excuse However she has really affected me and my marriage. I am no longer there and I have to go pick my things up However I was going to yesterday and my body was shaking uncontrollably and I almost fainted.
I’m sorry you are going through that. If someone is physically abusive, you need to get out. Either with your husband or by yourself. Do not waste your whole life with abuse.
Nowadays people are using Allah name for their purpose,In real they're involved behind the scenes, they tell every one.do this that ect,and motivate wrong way and they use Allah name because we're believers, then we trust Allah that's why we believe after self respect 🙏 when we last every think then , they said it's your fault you have to keep your relationship good,when we feel alone they put us in bed situation some people last their life some are gone to dipration some of last their love once ❤️ because of them, they love us ,then trying to find in TH-cam ,we lost everything some people have a real life problem ,I agree 👍 this but sometimes small problems they make a big throw the brain 🧠 washing ,Allah grant us and give those peoples,hadayt,amen
I was waiting for man's wives (not wife's) right. This should be understood by women as man's physical needs. Women don't want to share her husband. But Allah knows men's needs.😊
Sometime now it’s the other way around ! Women are abuse tot their parent in-laws ! And parents in-laws have to keep quite bcos she has their grand children
I left my husband when he chose his parents. The father hated me and the mother ignored me. I never harmed anyone. I didn’t even speak Hindi. Through no fault of my own I was judged and punished. My husband had to choose his parents as they are his gods. The mental gymnastics I went through were outrageous. I never wanted a divorce. I did want to be safe and loved though. So I saved me.
My husbund choosed also his family his sister! You cant do nothing. The best way is to go away and to start a new life. I have two children and i went away. May Allah protect all women
Ya Allah! I'm a sister myself and I can't believe these boys.
We have only been hearing abt the rights of men since eternity...this talk... sons and sons' mothers and their families should be made to listen esp in india...ignorance is costing heavily and destroying families.
@@imtiazsm7111 this is also in turkish families so
You choose what you hear.
Alhamdulilah may ALLAH persevere this brother needed this
jazakAllah Khair for sharing useful knowledge well said
Excellent MashaAllah!
Subhannallah Alhamdullilah allahu akbar this speech is directly from Allah for all if us. Jazakallah, barakallah Tabarakallah brother Noman Ali Khan.
Jazak Allah khair for this brother. Needed to hear this. Allah Hu Akbar ❤
Alhamdulillah. Excellent statement.
Jazak Allah khairan katheerah
SUBHAN ALLAH ALHUMDULILLAH ALLAH AKBAR.
Amiiin yaa rabi
How about when my husband's mother has hit me. Physically hit me. As well as her orphans she adopted. She also said that her daughter was going to poison him and I with a smile on her face. However she's the one who sends her adopted kids to do certain things like spy. She smiled so happily when she said she was very happy his dog of 14 years died. She also told me she told her adopted daughter to call the cops on her own son and due to that he went to jail for a whole year. Then she disowned her adopted daughter. Her adopted kids almost jumped me if it weren't for the youngest adopted daughter. They put their hands on me. Then she tries calling the cops on me. They all ganged up on me and had me hospitalized to a mental hospital. They used and the mother manipulates and gaslights.. and I know you say be careful with psychology however I feel now I am the crazy person and I feel like a terrible person. I had a very abusive childhood and they all knew that and it's obvious. My ace score is a 10 and they were well aware due to being open about it. And they stole my things. I would catch my husband mom sneaking into my room when she thinks I'm not there. She was also spying before and when I opened the door I guess it hit her on the side of the head. She lies and gossips about my looks. The way I dress etc etc etc etc to her little children. How is it that those traits aren't evil? I am so confused. She laughs at my pain. Who would do that??? I believe I have an extreme case. Yes I have eventually went off on her and I didn't feel bad and that's highly unlikely me due to carrying much guilt around even about the things I didn't do. However I exploded because I felt like I couldn't take anymore. Not saying that's an excuse However she has really affected me and my marriage. I am no longer there and I have to go pick my things up However I was going to yesterday and my body was shaking uncontrollably and I almost fainted.
I’m sorry you are going through that. If someone is physically abusive, you need to get out. Either with your husband or by yourself. Do not waste your whole life with abuse.
Nowadays people are using Allah name for their purpose,In real they're involved behind the scenes, they tell every one.do this that ect,and motivate wrong way and they use Allah name because we're believers, then we trust Allah that's why we believe after self respect 🙏 when we last every think then , they said it's your fault you have to keep your relationship good,when we feel alone they put us in bed situation some people last their life some are gone to dipration some of last their love once ❤️ because of them, they love us ,then trying to find in TH-cam ,we lost everything some people have a real life problem ,I agree 👍 this but sometimes small problems they make a big throw the brain 🧠 washing ,Allah grant us and give those peoples,hadayt,amen
I was waiting for man's wives (not wife's) right. This should be understood by women as man's physical needs. Women don't want to share her husband. But Allah knows men's needs.😊
That comes with responsibilities, if you can go ahead!
SubhanAllah, that's the only thing you took away from this lecture, that women don't like to 'share' their husband's?
Sometime now it’s the other way around ! Women are abuse tot their parent in-laws ! And parents in-laws have to keep quite bcos she has their grand children
If she’s abusive then stop talking to her simple. No need to interact with abusive people.