I left my husband when he chose his parents. The father hated me and the mother ignored me. I never harmed anyone. I didn’t even speak Hindi. Through no fault of my own I was judged and punished. My husband had to choose his parents as they are his gods. The mental gymnastics I went through were outrageous. I never wanted a divorce. I did want to be safe and loved though. So I saved me.
My husbund choosed also his family his sister! You cant do nothing. The best way is to go away and to start a new life. I have two children and i went away. May Allah protect all women
My wife chose her sister and family and treated me bad for long time and they were very disrespectful and abusive towards me. I think there are too many women who think the worst of a husbands relationship with his parents. Parents love their son and no wife will ever love a man more than his mother . There are too many Pakistani dramas that continue to stereotype the evil mother in law / good daughter in law relationship . Women today are not submissive passive humans. They are spiteful vengeful and manipulative and controlling and narcissistic. Everything wrong in life is not the husband’s fault and most women try to put a wedge between in-laws and wife over small comments or hypersensitivity.
We have only been hearing abt the rights of men since eternity...this talk... sons and sons' mothers and their families should be made to listen esp in india...ignorance is costing heavily and destroying families.
Dear brothers and sisters please include me in your prayers .make dua for me. My husband is emotionally torturing me he is never fair with me. His family was absent when he need the most (when he financially down) . I stood with him did everything to bring him to a good position. Now his mother bain washing him and creating problems between us . My mother in law needs only money. My husband listens to what they say and hurts me . They made my life a living hell they don't want me to live a happy life thay need only money. Please make dua for me to protect my family.
How about when my husband's mother has hit me. Physically hit me. As well as her orphans she adopted. She also said that her daughter was going to poison him and I with a smile on her face. However she's the one who sends her adopted kids to do certain things like spy. She smiled so happily when she said she was very happy his dog of 14 years died. She also told me she told her adopted daughter to call the cops on her own son and due to that he went to jail for a whole year. Then she disowned her adopted daughter. Her adopted kids almost jumped me if it weren't for the youngest adopted daughter. They put their hands on me. Then she tries calling the cops on me. They all ganged up on me and had me hospitalized to a mental hospital. They used and the mother manipulates and gaslights.. and I know you say be careful with psychology however I feel now I am the crazy person and I feel like a terrible person. I had a very abusive childhood and they all knew that and it's obvious. My ace score is a 10 and they were well aware due to being open about it. And they stole my things. I would catch my husband mom sneaking into my room when she thinks I'm not there. She was also spying before and when I opened the door I guess it hit her on the side of the head. She lies and gossips about my looks. The way I dress etc etc etc etc to her little children. How is it that those traits aren't evil? I am so confused. She laughs at my pain. Who would do that??? I believe I have an extreme case. Yes I have eventually went off on her and I didn't feel bad and that's highly unlikely me due to carrying much guilt around even about the things I didn't do. However I exploded because I felt like I couldn't take anymore. Not saying that's an excuse However she has really affected me and my marriage. I am no longer there and I have to go pick my things up However I was going to yesterday and my body was shaking uncontrollably and I almost fainted.
I’m sorry you are going through that. If someone is physically abusive, you need to get out. Either with your husband or by yourself. Do not waste your whole life with abuse.
Nowadays people are using Allah name for their purpose,In real they're involved behind the scenes, they tell every one.do this that ect,and motivate wrong way and they use Allah name because we're believers, then we trust Allah that's why we believe after self respect 🙏 when we last every think then , they said it's your fault you have to keep your relationship good,when we feel alone they put us in bed situation some people last their life some are gone to dipration some of last their love once ❤️ because of them, they love us ,then trying to find in TH-cam ,we lost everything some people have a real life problem ,I agree 👍 this but sometimes small problems they make a big throw the brain 🧠 washing ,Allah grant us and give those peoples,hadayt,amen
I was waiting for man's wives (not wife's) right. This should be understood by women as man's physical needs. Women don't want to share her husband. But Allah knows men's needs.😊
Sometime now it’s the other way around ! Women are abuse tot their parent in-laws ! And parents in-laws have to keep quite bcos she has their grand children
I left my husband when he chose his parents. The father hated me and the mother ignored me. I never harmed anyone. I didn’t even speak Hindi. Through no fault of my own I was judged and punished. My husband had to choose his parents as they are his gods. The mental gymnastics I went through were outrageous. I never wanted a divorce. I did want to be safe and loved though. So I saved me.
My husbund choosed also his family his sister! You cant do nothing. The best way is to go away and to start a new life. I have two children and i went away. May Allah protect all women
Ya Allah! I'm a sister myself and I can't believe these boys.
My wife chose her sister and family and treated me bad for long time and they were very disrespectful and abusive towards me.
I think there are too many women who think the worst of a husbands relationship with his parents. Parents love their son and no wife will ever love a man more than his mother . There are too many Pakistani dramas that continue to stereotype the evil mother in law / good daughter in law relationship . Women today are not submissive passive humans. They are spiteful vengeful and manipulative and controlling and narcissistic. Everything wrong in life is not the husband’s fault and most women try to put a wedge between in-laws and wife over small comments or hypersensitivity.
We have only been hearing abt the rights of men since eternity...this talk... sons and sons' mothers and their families should be made to listen esp in india...ignorance is costing heavily and destroying families.
@@imtiazsm7111 this is also in turkish families so
You choose what you hear.
I am single (man) but I like to listen this type of topics so that i can trat my future wife well according to Islam
Jazak Allah khair for this brother. Needed to hear this. Allah Hu Akbar ❤
Alhamdulilah may ALLAH persevere this brother needed this
Subhannallah Alhamdullilah allahu akbar this speech is directly from Allah for all if us. Jazakallah, barakallah Tabarakallah brother Noman Ali Khan.
jazakAllah Khair for sharing useful knowledge well said
I wish every spouses in this world can watch this video 😭
Alhamdulillah. Excellent statement.
Excellent MashaAllah!
Dear brothers and sisters please include me in your prayers .make dua for me. My husband is emotionally torturing me he is never fair with me. His family was absent when he need the most (when he financially down) . I stood with him did everything to bring him to a good position. Now his mother bain washing him and creating problems between us . My mother in law needs only money. My husband listens to what they say and hurts me . They made my life a living hell they don't want me to live a happy life thay need only money.
Please make dua for me to protect my family.
Jazak Allah khairan katheerah
Wow clap 👏 👏.
SUBHAN ALLAH ALHUMDULILLAH ALLAH AKBAR.
any video of how a women should behave? the following khutba that sir mentioned
Why is the video weird?
Amiiin yaa rabi
Please don't edit the footage upload a raw video. it's really annoying the filters and edit
How about when my husband's mother has hit me. Physically hit me. As well as her orphans she adopted. She also said that her daughter was going to poison him and I with a smile on her face. However she's the one who sends her adopted kids to do certain things like spy. She smiled so happily when she said she was very happy his dog of 14 years died. She also told me she told her adopted daughter to call the cops on her own son and due to that he went to jail for a whole year. Then she disowned her adopted daughter. Her adopted kids almost jumped me if it weren't for the youngest adopted daughter. They put their hands on me. Then she tries calling the cops on me. They all ganged up on me and had me hospitalized to a mental hospital. They used and the mother manipulates and gaslights.. and I know you say be careful with psychology however I feel now I am the crazy person and I feel like a terrible person. I had a very abusive childhood and they all knew that and it's obvious. My ace score is a 10 and they were well aware due to being open about it. And they stole my things. I would catch my husband mom sneaking into my room when she thinks I'm not there. She was also spying before and when I opened the door I guess it hit her on the side of the head. She lies and gossips about my looks. The way I dress etc etc etc etc to her little children. How is it that those traits aren't evil? I am so confused. She laughs at my pain. Who would do that??? I believe I have an extreme case. Yes I have eventually went off on her and I didn't feel bad and that's highly unlikely me due to carrying much guilt around even about the things I didn't do. However I exploded because I felt like I couldn't take anymore. Not saying that's an excuse However she has really affected me and my marriage. I am no longer there and I have to go pick my things up However I was going to yesterday and my body was shaking uncontrollably and I almost fainted.
I’m sorry you are going through that. If someone is physically abusive, you need to get out. Either with your husband or by yourself. Do not waste your whole life with abuse.
Ya Allah, good info, but it’s waaaay too fast
Nowadays people are using Allah name for their purpose,In real they're involved behind the scenes, they tell every one.do this that ect,and motivate wrong way and they use Allah name because we're believers, then we trust Allah that's why we believe after self respect 🙏 when we last every think then , they said it's your fault you have to keep your relationship good,when we feel alone they put us in bed situation some people last their life some are gone to dipration some of last their love once ❤️ because of them, they love us ,then trying to find in TH-cam ,we lost everything some people have a real life problem ,I agree 👍 this but sometimes small problems they make a big throw the brain 🧠 washing ,Allah grant us and give those peoples,hadayt,amen
I was waiting for man's wives (not wife's) right. This should be understood by women as man's physical needs. Women don't want to share her husband. But Allah knows men's needs.😊
That comes with responsibilities, if you can go ahead!
SubhanAllah, that's the only thing you took away from this lecture, that women don't like to 'share' their husband's?
Sometime now it’s the other way around ! Women are abuse tot their parent in-laws ! And parents in-laws have to keep quite bcos she has their grand children
If she’s abusive then stop talking to her simple. No need to interact with abusive people.