I am 56 years old and still collect Breyer Horses, and I am in the process of repainting a model for the first time. Thank you for sharing all of your instruction videos. You are awesome 😊😊😊
I could have written this comment! Except I'm 54. :D I restarted my collection in 2019, and I've been dabbling with customs ever since - this year is going to be the year I do more. Weird is better!
I'm 51. I've been playing Dungeons and Dragons, creating fantasy worlds, and painting (landscape oil first) since I was 12 years old. You will continue to get judged by others for wasting time, being immature for your hobbies etc. and it won't stop. I can give you some comfort though in that I assure you that there are others like yourself out there; you just may have not met them yet. Expand your circle (as it sounds like you have) and you will find that there are people out there that can appreciate you for you and be supportive. I'm an engineer and just had to change my circle to one that eventually led me to my wife who is a fellow nerd (Masters in Music/Opera and loves fantasy worlds as much as I do). Don't let others steal the love for what brings you joy and makes you feel 'alive'. /signed Fellow Weird Person
Official weirdo adult story time here... Getting serious about collecting model horses in part got me off of a drinking habit (Not an addiction, a habit. Thankfully I was never dependent on alcohol, but gosh I liked it there for awhile. That started to wear off when I finally had medical intervention for a chronic pain issue.). I knew I needed the endorphin reward, but I no longer wanted to get that from drinking. So, instead of hitting the liquor store after work before the weekend, I ordered a Breyer online. The excitement waiting for it to arrive was good, and sure I did feel like a kid (in a good way), but after a rough few years, I was just happy to be feeling happy. And even during the dark days that we have faced lately, I have not turned back to using alcohol. I have the odd tipple now as a social thing, but for the most part the desire is gone. Plastic ponies are a FAR more healthy habit, and no one can tell me any differently. My favourite thing in the world now is to hop in the car on my day off, and hit antique stores, etc, and look for vintage models in the wild. It's far more fun than sitting around with unhealthy people, doing an unhealthy thing. So, do model horses save lives? No, probably not, but of late, they have definitely helped my outlook on life.
I'm the same way. Chickens are the only thing I talk about. My friends and family tell me can u ever talk about anything else. Yet I live with 12 chickens and am perfectly content.
Yep, at 62, my husband is really the only one whose opinion I value. He collects action figures, so... Yeah. I also raise mini Aussies, so having 12 dogs (and a new litter of 6) shocks more than a few people. Don't be embarrassed, you do you! In 10 years (even 3 years) no one unimportant to you will care or even remember your "weirdness".
This is such an inspirational video! I'm 26 and still collect beautiful models! When I first started collecting my breyers I did feel embarrassed to tell people but I quickly realised, hey it doesn't matter what they think! I enjoy it, that's all that matters and to my surprise alot of the people I told or found out I collect them, were actually quite interested! They know I have a HUGE love for horses and models, so they accepted it very easily. DO WHAT YOU LOVE 🐴♥️
I'll admit I'm jealous that your college classmates were genuinely curious about your models! I had multiple professors and students that belittled me for my collection and using my customs as projects. I stopped collecting and painting models for a while because of them. However, I ended up meeting my now husband, and he's been SO supportive of the hobby and is the reason why I'm becoming more confident in my art! Don't settle for people that belittle your hobbies, you'll always find someone that will support you ❤
I just want all the young people out there that watch DeeJayBe to know that some young people out there tell you it's weird because it might be a jealously thing. If your passionate enough to collect something don't let any one tell you your wrong. It just might be wrong for them. I just turned 54 and love my Breyer's! ❤🐎🐎❤
I am 60+. I collect horse models. Breyer, Peter Stone, Schleich, Papo, Safari are in my Collection. At one time I had over four hundred. But some of my models were stolen, the landlord helpers I think lifted them cannot prove it. So I have to be creative in hiding them in plain sight. I have some that are boxed up , and alternate between who is out or boxed. As far as people go, I tell them my money, my hobby and there is the door.
Awwww ❤️ I have a teenage daughter who collects and wants to show her models but can’t tell her friends. Lucky for her she has a spare room to “hide” her shelves of models from them. Thanks for making this video 👍
Something I started doing when someone would tell me it’s weird to collect toys, models, dolls, etc Id just ask them “why?” 90% of the time, the person would become really flustered because it’s not what they expected me to say and they don’t have a real reason why they think it’s weird. It works so well!!!
That is an eye opener for everyone who feel unsure whether their hobby is worth the time and effort! And not just model horse hobby, any particularly "different" Hobby out there! It's sad how closed minded people can be and how they turn their nasty side to the people who they find different.... Thank you for bringing it out!
Thank you so much! I kinda struggle with that because I am now a teen and collecting model horses is what I love to do in life. But only one of my friends supports it, so my shelving units are now hidden away in my closet for when the rest of my friends come over.. But after seeing this I realize I should be proud of this hobby and maybe save up for new shelving units in my room and not hidden away inside my closet waiting for the next breyer show. Thank you DeeJayBe :)
I can relate. I have been collecting since I was 4. When I was a child I only had 4 breyers and the rest were Grand Champions and Kid Kore. My friends thought it was werid. Now I have over 38 Breyers and I will still collect. I have them in a shelf in my living room closet so when we have people over I can always shut the door, but there are times it was open and I forgot to shut it, they were seen and I have got some compliments on how beautiful they were. This is how I explain it to people Breyers are like shoes, you need one in every color, Breed , size, and I also can't afford a real horse so this is the best I can get. Thank you for making this video, I hope a lot of collecter see this and get more confidence in their Breyer collecting.
I have some classmates that always say: "why do you waste your money on horses". I really love horses a lot, since I was 5 years old, and I think that collecting horses is amazing!! My real friends support me a lot on this and also my family. In the place where I live they don't sell breyer horses or schleich horses, so I always get excited when I get a new horse ❤
i love this statement because of the truth it speaks. My love for dogs and horses as a child launched my lifelong career as a writer and photographer of dogs and horses. My Breyer horses helped me dream as a child and that dreaming has never stopped. Now I am an adult with children in my life. I tell them the secret to being "cool" Be yourself. Good job DeeJay.
Oh my goodness, the purity in this video is AMAZING- thank you so much for sharing all of this! I have definitely had my bouts with "downing friends"... those who have called me "strange" or "nerdy" for my love of model horses (among multiple other things XD)... and I used to be a closet collector as well! Whenever friends or family members would come over, I would rush to hide away my models- I was nearly ashamed to have them in the house. My mom was (and still is) incredibly supportive of the hobby, and even helped me to build some literal closet shelves to store my horses on as my collection grew. I kept it hidden for a while- I'll be honest, a lot longer than I would've thought possible- until one fateful day, when my best friend came over to hang out for a few hours. There was a public pool within walking distance of my house, and after chatting for a while, we resolved to go for a swim- the only problem being, she forgot her swim suit. So, of course, I offered up one of my spare ones, thinking I could just slip into the closet and grab it! What I neglected to realize, however, was that she was much closer to the closet door than I was- and as I nearly yelled "NO, WAAAIT!!" she flung the door open... only to gasp as she discovered the 15 or so models housed within. I just stopped and stood there, stymied- heart beating in my throat, cheeks flushed red- and looked up at her, just waiting for the insults to start flying. To my surprise, however, she said nothing- just turned around and locked eyes with me, grinning from ear to ear. She picked up one of my appaloosas, pet her on the nose, and said, "I have this one, too- her name's Ryn! What did you name yours?" As it turns out, my bestie was also a closet collector- and neither of us had any idea about the other! And instead of going to the pool that afternoon, she and I grabbed a Breyer catalogue, plopped down on my bed, and made a wish list of the models we were seeking- talking for hours about the "obscure" hobby both of us just so happened to adore! My point with that story is that one should never be ashamed to collect model horses- or to collect anything, for that matter! If you love it- and it brings you joy- OWN IT... shout your adoration from the rooftops! I know it's terrifying at first- the fear of judgement is one that all of us have been taught to share. But somewhere out there- somehow- there will be someone who understands it... whether that someone be a fantastic youtuber, a classmate, or a close friend! And, you never know- that certain someone could be right next to you... you just have to take a leap of faith to let them see it!
Thank you for this Darynn. I collected as many as I could as a child and eventually gave it up as an adult. I was bullied for being different too and for being completely obsessed with horses. I'm flying my freak flag high these days with a grin on my face and have started collecting again. Your videos have helped me tremendously as I learn to customize my rather beat up herd from childhood and turn them into new treasures. I reconnected with a local artist friend from my teen years who is directly responsible for my exposure to Breyers. Like you, she has inspired me and encouraged me to stretch myself in the customizing hobby. You are so right about the online community...they have been nothing but welcoming, helpful and supportive. I feel so empowered and delighted to be back in the hobby again and letting setting that love of horses free from constraint.
I don't know why horse lovers are such a target for hate (even from other supposed horse lovers, sometimes, which is even weirder). It's wonderful that you were able to reconnect to things you loved, though.
I remember a neighborhood boy being mean and making fun of my Breyers when I was playing with them in the front yard. I was so crushed and ashamed at the time. As an adult, I know that he came from an abusive home and they never had much money for toys and I realize where his hostility was coming from. The best part about getting older as that you care less and less about what other people think. I'm so happy to be my age because I've pretty much dropped all those concerns about the opinions and judgments of others. These days I have a niece and a daughter who are both collectors and we have so much fun being weird together.
61 years old and yes I remember feeling like that. Junior high came and I changed which parent I was living with. I left my horse collection ( a brown bag of about 35 tiny mites) at my moms, and she sold them in a garage sale, and she kept the money! I had about 6 Breyer and Johnny west horses that she kept until I was 20. I still have a Breyer donkey from that. I decided I would replace my collection now. I found the stablemates to be the most fun and terrific community. I have obsessed over horses, riding, mules, my family treated me like I had a disease. I sat down with a few of them and cleared things up. At 55 then, I had a lot more tools of expression, to help them understand the value of my passion. I’m a farm wife and I’m good with the horses and cattle. I still enjoy model horses. Thank you for your videos.
I'm an italian model collector and horse racing lover. In case you don't know, both things you can't really find in my country, or at least in the region where I live: model horses aren't imported and the local horse racing industry is collapsing. You can't even imagine HOW hard it is to be "the only one in this place" to have these passions that no one cares about or that people don't even know what I'm talking about. It's a side of me I've always kept secret 'cause I know no one will ever really understand it. It shocks me to see there's someone at the other side of the world that feels exactly like me even tho model horses and horse racing are more of a thing there than here. It kinda makes me feel like "we're alone together". Keep doing what you love, your work is amazing and there's nothing to be ashamed if it's part of who you are💪🏻 Sending lots of love from Italy💕, xxEllie
@@Ilovecrystals922 OK first of all, don't say ew. Just because you don't agree with an industry doesn't mean to vocalize your hate for it, as it ruins it for someone else. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all.
What an important message- thank you so much for sharing! I definitely experienced this growing up, and I absolutely agree that it gets better as you get older. I'm extremely lucky to have a supportive boyfriend who also has a miniature-based hobby that involves painting and collecting. I definitely wouldn't be where I am in the hobby today without his support. Find the people that support your passions and don't let them go!
Your right -kids are mean! They don't understand other kids that don't fit the mold,follow the crowd. "Normal" means liking the newest fad,wearing what others wear. And honey ,normal is BORING!. Good for you being strong enough,courageous enough to be you. That 'friend ' today is jealous of you now..You are so awesome. I love your work! This winter I started making costumes for some of the Breyers Arabians I had sitting around.Then I bought more. Then I wanted to paint one and I found your videos. Oh so much to say,not enough room. The eyes you do,the hair ...all of it! You helped me so much. I do feel awkward at times when telling friends or family but I too get excited about getting a new horse or one of the horses turn out fairly good,I can't help but share the joy. Thank you for this video for the younger ones going through the teasing. I learned a long time ago what you are learning in how to handle judgement of others. You see,I am going to be 61 years old in September.And just this year I started playing with toy horses..But the reactions I get from others is nothing compared to when I tell them what I do in the summer months..For the last 10 years I've been doing research on Mt.St.Helens. Researching,getting to know the same clan or tribe of Sasquatch. No kidding,I camp in the same spot,coming home every week to catch up on chores and refresh,reload and back up I go. Life is great when you can do what moves you...keep it up, I think you are awesome!....Melissa in Oregon
I'm 53, I made models when I was a kid, I have just come back to it and came here through your first airbrush video, its great and I enjoy it from the technical viewpoint, the artistic viewpoint, the research viewpoint, the the challenge and the constant improvement and development viewpoint, now I make model aircraft and if that makes anybody laugh or smile then good for them, I don't care, I'm doing it for me.
This is such a good vibe for the younger generation finding themselves. You're such a good person! That friend was just jealous. I'm glad you flourished into the artist you are. I'm blessed that my sister understands how I feel about my models. She's told me that SHE cares nothing for them, but it matters to me so she tolerates the 2 bookcases of models in her living room.
I appreciate both your passion for Breyers model horses and the acknowledgment that it fulfills you and enables you to grow with it, to make you more excited about it.
I’ve been collecting models for almost 11 years and I have only told a handful of people. I used to be terrified to talk about the hobby in public and to my friends. One of my good friends who I’m still friends with today told me to do what I love and never stop. I didn’t stop collecting. I can agree that I would not be here if I didn’t have models in my life. Thank you for putting this video out here for non collectors to hear as well 💞
Thank you. This is definitely something that needed to be said. I too have been embarrassed of my collecting for years. I hate to admit that but I was bullied for this too. Mind you, I am also not a girl and I am gay. Not that, that is necessarily all that important, but, I became even more of a target for people. Every day I worry about what people have to say about my collecting and interest because I don't want to be bullied like was in school. I don'ttalk about my collecting, nor do give people many details about my collection when asked. You can tell when someon is genuinely interested and wants to know more about why you love it so much, and when someone is just trying to get some juicy details to gp spread behind your back. Which unfortunately has happened to me a few times. One particular coworker told other people I was a "baby" and that my interests are too childish. That I need to grow up. And that baffles me. How could someone be so cruel about something you are passionate about? I really could be doing worse things with my life. So why bully me for something that isn't harming me or even making any difference in other people's lives?
This video has really helped thank you! At first my mom was just like most people and thought it was a waste of money and time but once she saw how successful I’ve become I’m it she has become a lot more supportive. She’ll go around telling people about the hobby and how proud she is of me and it makes me feel normal being in this hobby. So thank you do this video
I collect model horses and heavy haul memorabilia. I talk about my model horses to other pilot cars and they don’t get it. They did think it was weird. But I’ve helped transport some of the biggest loads in Houston Texas. So whatever. 🤣🤣🤣 I’m absolutely thrilled you’ve shared your love. I’ve learned a lot. I wish I had more time to do more customizing.
I adore you I am 49 years old and my breyers are my passion! I want to adopt you.I still get excited for the breyer deliveries. You are inspiring me to do my beautiful customs. I get just as excited now as I did as a small child don't ever stop what you love.
Thank you for making that video! I think it is important to know, that horse collecting isn't just some stupid kids thing. I live in a very small town were everybody knows each other and "toy" collection is considered weird and seen as childish. As a kid I didn't have access to Breyer models, so I got my first one when I was about 18 years old. I was so proud of it and constantly talked about it. Most of my friends (at that time) honestly judged and belittled me and I really felt ashamed. So I stopped collecting them and never mentioned them again. Until I saw how many beautiful models are out there and how many people collect them. So I got myself some more horses. The friends that belittled me, were never really my friends, I now know that. I have friends now that really seem to care and a boyfriend that supports me. We are both really weird. I collect dinosaurs and Breyers and he collects Lord of the Rings stuff ^-^
I've been extremely thankful to be with friends who genuinely enjoy hearing about my hobby talk. They think that as long as it makes me happy then that's what matters and I agree. I'm still pretty new to the hobby but I've been so happy with the time that I have spent here.
This made my day. As a 23 yr. old just getting into collecting, I receive alot of ridicule when people find out about my collection. They say it's childish and weird. It hurts, it brings me down. Some days I want to quit. But at the end of the day, we have to do what we love and ignore the haters. Someday they will realize they've run out of time to enjoy the things they really love, while we are ready to leave this world with no regrets. 😊
I am 50+, and I love my collection of toy animals, especially my horses. I think it's a awesome way to have the animals I love from nature that I can't have in a living form as pets. Plus it is my way of showing how much I love nature.
Thank you for making this video - says everything I wish I could have told my younger self! I'm now 26 and have just got back into the hobby a year ago after a long 10 year break - mainly because I was made to feel I was too old to collect model horses. However since I've been back I'm lucky to have a supportive boyfriend who actually helps out on projects and shows a genuine interest in my collection. I have a stressful job which doesn't allow me to have time for a horse of my own yet so having models is my way of connecting with horses when I can't physically be with them as well as encouraging me to get creative in tack making etc which is such good stress relief! I have even taken my models out in public for photoshoots (albeit trying to take them on the sly to minimise attention)! I've realised that the only person who you should please is yourself so if model horses make you happy don't let anybody else tell you it's stupid or a waste of money/time!
My first Breyer was at age 13. And I've been collecting them for 43 years. DJ don't let others put you down for what you like. I've seen what you are doing you help others by showing them how to make customs in the model horse world, you teach and you seem to enjoy showing others how to do it themselves.
I am at this point in my life where I’m embarrassed to have friends come upstairs because they will see all of my Breyers. My husband was supportive in the sense that it’s something that I enjoy, but he doesn’t really appreciate the amount of money that has gone into my hobby. Thank you for making this video because it made me feel a little better about my collection.
Ahh. So true and so sad 😥 People think it's so strange but the social media community has been so supportive of the hobby, so finding this community was a biggie for me. Some people are so unkind, and some people are so supportive. I only have 2 friends who don't think I'm comfortable telling about the hobby. I've learned, don't listen to the haters. Thank you Darynn for this wonderful video 😊 Its so sad that people can be so mean about someone's interest. If someone thinks you are weird for what you love, they aren't good friends.
I love my Breyers and have tried to find ones I had as a kid that I lost 😢 I'm 54 and still love them! If it makes you happy who cares what they think! You are very lucky to have so many beautiful models! I'm not embarrassed about collecting them and since I can't have a real horse these guys are the next best thing.
I’ve happily and openly collected Breyers since I was 5. I never had anyone give me any guff about it, since a lot of my close friends had them too. It was no big deal. Those friends in fact eventually gave me their horses when they no longer wanted them. When I was a young adult, my collection really grew, and I had well over 300 horses total, along with several porcelains, resins, and other collectibles. I was crushed to lose 90% of my collection in the Camp Fire in 2018. The bulk of my collection was in storage at my parents house for safe keeping while my own young family grew and moved around. But my parents house, along with most of the town of Paradise, CA, burned to the ground, and my collection a was effectively gone. I actually managed to find a single broken Porcelain in the ash of the house, confirming the location of the models. In the nearly 3 years since the fire, I’ve begun to rebuild my collection, slowly buying all the most beautiful versions of my favorite models. I’ve even found a random box or two during a move to a new house with a few horses, and my dad recently brought me a box with 9 of the most precious horses in my collection, that he found after tearing some cabinets out of the garage of his moms house. Her condo was one of the few houses spared, so they’ve been living there. He found this box shoved back into an obscure corner, and in it was a one-of-a-kind Riverside Storm resin by the artist Jennifer Kistler, which my dad molded and cast for her in the early 90’s. It’s one of only 25 ever made, and he’s the crown of my collection. And he survived, through random happenstance. Don’t ever apologize for loving these hunks of plastic and paint. Everybody has something random they love, and for us horse lovers, these are ours. Keep doing amazing things, you’re an inspiration to us. Many of the horses I lost were customized and painted by myself, and I have always wanted to do what you do, it’s a passion of mine to resculpt and repaint models. Keep it up. We need more peeps like you in the hobby.💕
Ahhh that story is so sad 😥 but it's really inspirational to hear about how well it worked out for you later in life ❤️ I guess I consider myself lucky because I started after I was already past age 20, and friends and family have been supportive (most of the time 🙄) anyway, I hope that I can encourage teens and young adults by letting them see that older collectors love and enjoy the model horse hobby and we are here to support them ❤️🐎
I relate to you a lot. In middle school, I was bullied for my love of horses. It even continued a bit in my freshman year. In sophomore year, it got better. I’m a junior now, I’m going to trade/vocational school for equine science so now, I’m surrounded by people who also love horses. I haven’t told many people about my hobby of collecting model horses. When did tell people, some didn’t mind and others did call it “childish”. I love collecting them and making videos with them. It’s what I love. Horses are my life and I want to make them my whole life. This is a hobby that I’m passionate about and I’m not gonna let them tear me down. ❤️ I shouldn’t be ashamed of something I love and I won’t! ❤️
I know this way done a while ago. You are an artist and there is nothing to be ashamed of. I'm in my 50s and think it's great I do this sort of stuff. I even work with babies.
This video is awesome ❤ I'm a person where I don't care if people think I'm weird, but I still get slightly embarrassed when my friends ask me, "What did you get for Christmas?" and my response is "model horses." You are super inspiring, keep being awesome ❤😊
This is such an Important message to anyone who is afraid to show what their hobby is! i know this all too well , i suffer with Depression and Anxiety and have had my fair share of so called ''Friends'' who think it's so childish and a waste of money but yet go out drinking and smoking ...my mum was very Against me collecting breyers after a certain age , about 15 i think ... so each day after school i would notice my collection getting smaller and smaller . I later found out that my mum was selling my models behind my back, and i eventually had to give it all up for about 10 years ....i then recently got back into the hobby slowly when i moved in with my best friend who was the only person to love what i collected , my mum slowly let me collect Breyers again and she could see that it helped mentally with my depression and Anxiety and that i was a much happier person because this was an Escape from reality for me . thanks DeeJayBe
Great video!! You’re absolutely right that friends who don’t care about your passions and interests.. aren’t real friends. And it’s just SO important to find your passions and run with them! Because life is just too short not to. I know it’s easier said than done, but don’t let others ruin things for you!! I’m 40something and just started collecting again (I collected as a kid and teen and absolutely LOVED my models!) I have zero f’s to give about what anyone thinks of it 😂 Until I can have real horses again (🙏) this is scratching an itch. I’m incredibly impressed by your talent. You’re an art hero of mine! And I’m so grateful to you for making these videos! Thank you ☺️❤️
I'm gonna be 38 and I was disconnected from my first collection and now I've been building my second and looking for originals I had. I don't care what anyone else says, I'm still a kid at heart!!!!
I so understand...I love to sculpt horses...usually horse head busts...I always kept it secret because of what one relative (an uncle) he smirked and said something rude when I was younger...your videos are awesome and I look to you when I want to paint one...so thank you...my dad used to buy me plastic horses and my love for their features and strength began. I am now much much older and am sculpting my heart out and love it. Keep up the good work...your hobby is fabulous
Everything you just said is so true! Everyone says that about me because I like horses. People in my school don’t know about me loving Breyer horses because I know that if they found out they would tease me about collecting These models. The good thing is that my best friend that loves breyers and horses so I can talk to her. The only problem is to at she lives like 2 hours away so it’s hard for us. She supports me. I support her as well. My family is very very supportive of me collecting. I think people should like you for what you love. I honestly felt exactly the same as you. I’ve just so far have learned who is my friend and who isn’t. Thank you for this video!
When I was growing up I was pretty poor. I always wanted Breyer and schleich horses but couldn’t afford them. But when I was 11 I got a couple of models and was so happy I took my favourite leopard Appaloosa Breyer with me everywhere and she never broke or got scuffed. But my “friend” broke off its leg after making fun of my horses. I’m so glad that now I have friends who have a couple of Breyer and schleich and stuff like that. I’m just so happy that I still decided to collect these little models because they’re really cute and I like to paint them! Breyer horses and schleich are so much fun for honestly everyone of any age.
I’m 24 next month and I bought my first model a while ago so for my birthday I’ve treated myself to loads of paint and tools so I can have a go at painting my model, I’m actually really excited as I’ve never done it before but I love crafts so much so I think it would be a fun hobby to get into 💛 I’m so happy I found your channel I love your videos!! You have helped me so much already - letting me know what tools and materials are needed to start so thank you so much!! And never stop doing what you love! ❤️
Thank you for making this video, I always felt like I was weird about having my models and riding horses in general but watching this makes me feel much better ❤️❤️
Girl I'm over thirty and I still collect toys. And play video games. I work and all the adult things but Im a kid at heart. Dont let it get you down. Some people dont understand and who cares. Do what makes you happy as long as it doesnt hurt anyone do what you like. I love breyer horses. I cant afford them but every now and again I find one at a flea market or something. I get just as excited for that old plastic horse as I did the first breyer horse I got. It was a friesian Stallion. You are an amazing artist. Thanks for being real.
I love this video. I’ve had breyers for many years but I only just started collecting. I’m a teenager and my dad is just not very supportive. He just always says I’m too old to be doing something childish, I need to grow up and get a job, and that I need to think about finances cause it’s a waste of money. I finally stood up to him last year about something else and I felt so proud that I did cause it was hard and I’ve struggled with my confidence. It didn’t go well at all. He quilt tripped me the entire time, which he’s always done, and I’m just scared to say hey this is me, this is what I enjoy.
Well, I'm going to be 70 in a few weeks, and I have 75 Breyer horses, mostly traditionals. I'm not rich, but I spent $985.00 on an Alborozo. I have painted about a dozen Breyers, again, mostly traditionals, and sold half a dozen of those. The most was for $143.00. Most of my friends are supportive, especially when the horses started to sell. Some of my friends don't get it, but are fine with it. One or two people have seen my horse collecting as a waste of money, but they are not people I have much to do with. Good video. Good for people to hear about. I'm guessing that it's helpful to many.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with bullies like this. I have had my share of those exact bullies. Now most of them that made fun of me are living their lives and karma has caught up to them! I’ll always support your hobby and collection because it’s mine and it’s very many others!
I'm 50 now, and while I disappointed my mom after 2 brothers that I didn't fall for the dolls and dresses and went more towards the horses, animals, bugs, fishing and mud LOL (guess that's what you get growing up with 2 brothers? :) ) My first ever model was the bay QH yearling..or Man O War, can't exactly remember but I was hooked after that and I was probably in 1st grade because I was addicted to horses as far back as I can remember in Pre K, possibly even before that because I remember my mom and dad always having to pull me off the concrete donkey in the neighbors yard because I liked to pretend it was a real donkey and it was the perfect size for me to ride on..that and obsession with riding carousels. Everyone called me the horse girl through school. I got my first horse in 4th grade and I had the shirt with the 3/4 sleeves with glittery horse iron ons and then my horse's name in letters down the sleeves.. I had one for every single day of the week. I had jeans with horses embroidered on the side seams going up my legs. I was obssessed, I didn't care what every one thought, I wasn't in to what the other girls were in to (boys, make up, clothes, fashion) and was called a freak made fun of a lot but I didn't care, I had my own little bubble world that I loved. Now of course as I got older I got out of the models and out of the horses because the funds weren't there and life happens kids, family etc. I remember I used to try and paint my models and make tack for them and now I watch all this stuff on TH-cam and think dang!!! I could've put all my stuff on TH-cam!!!!! LOL Now at 50, with grown kids.. collecting breyers again I almost kinda feel guilty but don't? I mean now I have grown friends who don't understand it.. hell I think my grown kids aren't really understanding it because I've pulled down all my models as a child out of the attic and started placing them out on the shelves again and buying some here and there. Each horse I've pulled out of boxes makes me smile. It brings me back to when life was simple and easy and such great memories. I can even remember for what reason I got most of them and who gave what as a gift for Christmas and birthdays. It also brings back great memories of a childhood friend who also collected them and we'd take turns staying at each other's house playing all weekend long super late at night even with our horses who sadly passed away 6 years ago. I remember Sitting in the livingroom or out in the back yard or even just my room on the floor playing with my models, treating them like real horses. I've tried getting my 5 yr old grand daughter to play with them because they're scratched up enough already kids don't get it today like then, it's like NO imagination. I think everyone gets bullied for one thing or another through school, because yes kids are mean. My kids were bullied but unfortunately the difference between now and back then is when I went to school, the bullying was only at school, now it's 24/7 in person and online and it's sad. What's worse is the parents that refuse to deal with their child that is doing the bullying :(
I know this is an older vid. I certainly hope you've made new friends who at least appreciate, and ideally share you enthusiasm for your models! There are certainly many of us out there that would LOVE to share that with you!
I just recently started watching your videos...and honestly it was everything I was looking for as techniques on customizing breyer horses. I’m a guy. And I’ve been collecting them since i was 11.. and was always teased about my collection as it grew especially by my male cousins and friends because that’s just not what “normal” guys do. So I’ve always tried not to talk about it to anyone and was always embarrassed when friends would come over and see my horses on my shelf...they would just laugh and be like “what the heck are these???” So I’ve always tried to keep my hobby to myself. I’ve always wished I had a friend who collects but that never happened. When I met my wife I was terrified of her finding out about them, she one day showed up at my house before i came home from work to surprise me and was just sitting in my room looking at them😳 and to my surprise she was in awe over them and is the first person to take so much interest in them. She even bought me a few! Didn’t mean to be this long with this but I just wanted to thankyou and to let you know that your not alone and please don’t stop collecting!👍
I was bullied growing up and it was hard. The bullies target people who are different. But being different is a good thing. When I got to high school I knew who I was and what I wanted to do with my life. That was horses specifically raceing. I also trained my colt as a racehorse. I also collected Breyer horses, books, and cats. Durring high school the bullies thought to mess with me because I would go to school smelling like horses. I told them "smelling like horses is better that what you do". The friends who are my friends even now we're the ones who are horse people. Model horses is an amazing hobby because you can buy a horse that in real life you would never be able to get near them. Also you can repaint then any color you want. Makeing tack for the models is a fun part of collecting. I have not been able to go to Breyerfest. And I do not care that I am 55 years old and love horses both real and models. And I hope I could have another horse to be friends with. Never let bullies get the better of you. Just turn it back on them. They are really envious of you. So own it and stand up tall and tell them you do not care what they think and do not matter at all.
I got bullied for a lot of things in the past. I know what it does with you and I don't care if other people try to tell me that the people who bully other's just reflect that they are hurt by someone else, because to bully someone is no excuse for your own problems. I think that this issue should be discussed more in schools. Everyone should apreciate each other for being different.
I am 50 and I still buy Breyer horses. I collect Schleich, CollectA and Papo and whatever figurines I can find and I customize my stuff as well. I play Sims and I am weird. I think buying shoes and makeup is a waste of time and money. I have never cared what others say and think and this is a brilliant video you made. Thank you ♥️
Truly, what is anyone supposed to do to be normal? You get into makeup, you are told you’re vain; you love animals, you need to grow up; you are into art, you need to find something more substantial. There was a meme that is so true, it said something along the lines of “So what if I collect ____, you have an entire china cabinet full of plates no is allowed to use.” 😂
i can only say THANK U ❣️ It‘s so cool That you decided to Tell us that it doesn‘t matter what others are saying We are like resins!!!!!🥰❤️ we are all different!!!!!!! we have quirks, blisters, cracks and cast seams. (google translater idk if it‘s right 🙈) You‘re so great!!!! You make us stronger!!!! Keep it up ❣️❤️❤️❤️
I was always called weird because of my horse addiction since I was a little kid... Now I have a big collection of plastic horses (even My Little Ponies omg!!) and people still call my childish. I'm 33 years old and I don't care. I know what makes me happy and as long as it's not hurting me or other people why would it be a problem? In my country we still don't have Breyer horses in the stores so people have no idea what these horses are or what's the value of them. They are just "Barbie horses" and toys. I got used to the bad reactions over the years, but anybody who is interested I can explain why is it good why this hobby keeps me in for so long and why I will not give it up until something big and seious happens in my life... And a lot of times people who is willing to listen they understand and they see the beauty in it. Even if they wouldn't do the same as I do they accept it. And that's the most important thing in life. We are all different and we have to accept each other so everybody can be happy in their own unique way. Thank you for the video
Collecting breyer isn't something bad. Heck people collect video game figures. And posters. Collecting horse models are dope. And honestly I got into breyer cuz my mom handed down her models. And I've started painting some....its really fun😊😊 btw I love watching your videos. If you ever sell your breyers. I would definitely buy one from you. Your my favorite youtubers and I live your vids. Keep up the good work and your amazing. Also my bf is the most supportive person I have with my breyers....he's always asking if I'm painting a new one or if I got some new pretty horses and I get so exited...he's so sweet and amazing....and honestly the breyer horses and star stable online is the closest I can get to owning a horse...so it means a lot to me...and I can tell it means so much to you. I support you 100%
True words! It was so good to watch your video because you got the point! Really great.💗 I've now reached a point where I don't tell everyone about the models, but if someone asks me, I can proudly tell them about it. 🥰
Never be afraid to let your flag fly.... I've added "model horses" to the bottom of my CV (resume) in the 'interests' section when applying for jobs. Why? Because it's memorable. It makes me unique, rounded and demonstrates openness and curiosity. The fact I run a live show that's raised over £1500 for charity shows ingenuity, organisational skills, communication... It also gives an interviewer something light-hearted to bring up.... one guy even said "you mean like Breyer? My daughter loves them!" Well, you could've knocked me off my chair! Bearing in mind I'm in the UK and Breyer are by no means easily available or a known toy company... Both interviewers were fascinated to hear more! If you hide it away and feel embarassed/ashamed by it, your reaction only serves to reinforce the negativity/mocking/lack of understanding. It gives those who bully or accuse on the basis that they are ignorant and cannot understand validity; it PROVES to them that you are silly, you should be ashamed. It's no different than saying to someone who is gay that they are correct in feeling ashamed and embarrassed about their sexuality and should hide it away. No sensible, feeling, open-hearted human would DREAM of saying that to someone. So why do you (whoever "you" are out there) feel it's ok to say that to yourself? Hopefully you understand what I'm trying to say...? By hiding, you AGREE your hobby, your passion, the things that make you happy are wrong and worthy of feeling ashamed. So let your flag fly! Be proud of yourself! If you can't be proud, you can't expect others to be... To paraphrase a well-known song: "Look out 'cause here I come . And I'm marching on to the beat I drum. I'm not scared to be seen. I make no apologies, this is me."
Send you the virtual hugs! I know exactly how it feels and people may be so annoying. I had close friends I shared about my collection with and several of them were just “I don’t care”. And yes, we’re not friends anymore. I’m not so communicative person and it was hard times but step by step later I found myself surrounded by other collectors and artists. Sometimes we need some time to find our place under the sun. And also I have to mention that collecting and customizing plastic models is still young hobby and not all people can understand it yet. Anyway it is important to keep in my mind that i-don’t-care-persons probably do not really care about your personality. Such reaction or pressure may be justified if you do something not safe to yourself or all your surroundings. But plastic animals... Why is it counted as something weirder than other hobbies as sports, chess, golfing, watching TV? Do people search a deep meaning in it? Ok, maybe they tell us what meaning is in art itself or in watching birds? All hobbies give us joy. And many amazing model artists and sculptors have grown from the collecting of cheap toys. Also collecting may link to many other hobbies as well: for example, photographing and many others.
Everyone is weird in their own way so that makes no one normal. People tell me that to and it hurts but it’s what I love so I still collect them and repaint them.
Im 18 and i will collect them forever❤️ because i love it. I dont care what others say. I hope you dont care too. Because it is important do what you love❤️
This has been very inspirational thank you!! I'm an overly optimistic person that until watching this video I never realized people may find it weird I collect models or the other strange things I like.
Wow what a fantastic video! 😍 This is actually the first video of yours I’ve come across (probably because I’ve been obsessively watching Breyer unboxing videos! 🤦♀️😆👍) I’m 40. I recently bought some of the re-released My Little Ponies like the ones I had as a child. I was going to hide them away in a bedroom because, yeah, I thought people would think it was weird. Husband (who is a lot, lot older than me!) actually said ‘no, they’re really pretty and I like them. They should stay in the living room’. So I thought about it, and realised that he was absolutely right. Why should I be embarrassed? Other people have China dolls etc on display? These are much prettier!! So I cleared a cupboard of random stuff that didn’t mean anything to me and got some more to form a proper display and they really do look beautiful. Then I found Breyer models, CollectA models and Schleich models..... so I’ve got some of those and have ordered a new cupboard to display them. Some will go in a bedroom (very small flat!) but some will be proudly on display. I may even do a whole ‘realistic’ Scheich display in one room..... I have a great imagination and I don’t think it’s changed since I was a child. I can’t have a real horse.... so why not? Good for you and I was nodding away. You are spot on and I’m soooo pleased you said this. 😀 (Oh and your eye makeup is amazing, you have lovely eyes.) Thank you for making this. 😊💕
I have a few friends but only one knows about my hobby and she also likes breyers! But I’m kinda embarrassed to tell the rest them that i collect them but maybe one day I’ll tell them! Thank you for this it made me feel better!!💙
I get picked on by my parents and sometimes friends for collecting model horses, as well as bjds. It’s discouraging when as an adult, you can’t just be allowed to enjoy things other adults don’t see as ‘age appropriate’. Keep doing you, if they bring you joy, then stick with it
I grew up as the “animal girl” in elementary school, and was ostracized by my peers for it. My family even made fun of me for it because it was “weird” as well. I am still a closet collector. While going to university, I told my art teacher because he was a sculptor, and showed him how detailed they can get and some handmade tack and he was blown away. I have a handful of friends who support it, but I’m still very much a closet collector. I totally agree with you about how you could be into drugs and alcohol instead of horses, because that’s how I see it. Funnily enough, my name is Daryn too, but just one N. This was the first video of yours I have seen or heard of so I was surprised to hear you say that, I thought I was hallucinating at first because how many girl daryns do you know, you know? My count is up to 5 including myself now haha.
I am 43 and I’ve been collecting Breyers for a year now and I am proud of it. My teenage kids are embarrassed but I shout it from the roof tops. No difference in collecting anything else in my opinion 😊
I went through the same problem!! I was the only person that rode horses and collected horses in my class. I would go to school dressed up in western clothing and I would get made fun of! I also could not talk a lot about horses or rodeo because they just didn’t care!! I still collect to this day and ride and rodeo to this day! I still plan to continue to collect models till the day I die!
That chick was not your friend. Real friends listen and CARE. I would have been excited for you. I'm excited by your beautiful art, now. Proud of you for staying strong in who you are. For knowing their opinions don't matter. You rock, girlo!
Tbh my friends don't really have a thing for horses either but they are always just like "cool" or "mhmm" I can tell that they don't really care that much but they are still supportive they just don't take interest in it but I still love my friends!
One of the biggest truths I think I've discovered as I've grown up (and older) is this: THERE IS NO NORMAL. "normal" is a construct, a falsehood, a way to separate "us" from "them". I first started collecting models in my teens. My mother was supportive of my hobby and I lucked out and found some people who were also "horse crazy" and so I had someone to talk to about my passion. I would say to anyone who is made fun of or talked down to because they love horses and collect models don't listen to the negativity. Most people have some kind of hobby they're into. People who put others down simply don't understand. I have friends who think my collection is wonderful. I have at least one friend who feels I have too many but she doesn't run me down about it. And I know there are people that I've told about my hobby that don't understand but I really don't care. Enjoy what you enjoy. Find other people that share your joy of horses and don't let anybody steal your joy away from you.
Sad but true. I wish I didnt let people's comments about my collecting get to me. I would still have my huge herd, but oh well. Maybe I can get most of them back again.
I love telling people I collect model horses even now that I’m 22 I’ve never had the issue of being shunned for collecting them. tho I was extremely bullied for my dyslexia so my models where really the only friends I had. When you’ve been called dumb your entire life by teachers and students my models where the only things that kept me together
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I am 56 years old and still collect Breyer Horses, and I am in the process of repainting a model for the first time. Thank you for sharing all of your instruction videos. You are awesome 😊😊😊
I could have written this comment! Except I'm 54. :D I restarted my collection in 2019, and I've been dabbling with customs ever since - this year is going to be the year I do more. Weird is better!
You can do it!
I'm 51. I've been playing Dungeons and Dragons, creating fantasy worlds, and painting (landscape oil first) since I was 12 years old. You will continue to get judged by others for wasting time, being immature for your hobbies etc. and it won't stop. I can give you some comfort though in that I assure you that there are others like yourself out there; you just may have not met them yet. Expand your circle (as it sounds like you have) and you will find that there are people out there that can appreciate you for you and be supportive. I'm an engineer and just had to change my circle to one that eventually led me to my wife who is a fellow nerd (Masters in Music/Opera and loves fantasy worlds as much as I do). Don't let others steal the love for what brings you joy and makes you feel 'alive'. /signed Fellow Weird Person
Official weirdo adult story time here... Getting serious about collecting model horses in part got me off of a drinking habit (Not an addiction, a habit. Thankfully I was never dependent on alcohol, but gosh I liked it there for awhile. That started to wear off when I finally had medical intervention for a chronic pain issue.). I knew I needed the endorphin reward, but I no longer wanted to get that from drinking. So, instead of hitting the liquor store after work before the weekend, I ordered a Breyer online. The excitement waiting for it to arrive was good, and sure I did feel like a kid (in a good way), but after a rough few years, I was just happy to be feeling happy. And even during the dark days that we have faced lately, I have not turned back to using alcohol. I have the odd tipple now as a social thing, but for the most part the desire is gone. Plastic ponies are a FAR more healthy habit, and no one can tell me any differently. My favourite thing in the world now is to hop in the car on my day off, and hit antique stores, etc, and look for vintage models in the wild. It's far more fun than sitting around with unhealthy people, doing an unhealthy thing. So, do model horses save lives? No, probably not, but of late, they have definitely helped my outlook on life.
Wonderful story. I am so happy for you.
I'm 30. I'm too old to care what other people think about my hobbies. Most people think my passion for chickens is weird, but I honestly don't care.
That's awesome!
I'm the same way. Chickens are the only thing I talk about. My friends and family tell me can u ever talk about anything else. Yet I live with 12 chickens and am perfectly content.
Chickens are so cute 🥰 🐣
Yep, at 62, my husband is really the only one whose opinion I value. He collects action figures, so... Yeah.
I also raise mini Aussies, so having 12 dogs (and a new litter of 6) shocks more than a few people. Don't be embarrassed, you do you! In 10 years (even 3 years) no one unimportant to you will care or even remember your "weirdness".
This is such an inspirational video! I'm 26 and still collect beautiful models! When I first started collecting my breyers I did feel embarrassed to tell people but I quickly realised, hey it doesn't matter what they think! I enjoy it, that's all that matters and to my surprise alot of the people I told or found out I collect them, were actually quite interested! They know I have a HUGE love for horses and models, so they accepted it very easily.
DO WHAT YOU LOVE 🐴♥️
I'm 34. 🤘 Still collecting proudly.
I'll admit I'm jealous that your college classmates were genuinely curious about your models! I had multiple professors and students that belittled me for my collection and using my customs as projects. I stopped collecting and painting models for a while because of them. However, I ended up meeting my now husband, and he's been SO supportive of the hobby and is the reason why I'm becoming more confident in my art! Don't settle for people that belittle your hobbies, you'll always find someone that will support you ❤
I just want all the young people out there that watch DeeJayBe to know that some young people out there tell you it's weird because it might be a jealously thing.
If your passionate enough to collect something don't let any one tell you your wrong. It just might be wrong for them.
I just turned 54 and love my Breyer's! ❤🐎🐎❤
I am 60+. I collect horse models. Breyer, Peter Stone, Schleich, Papo, Safari are in my Collection. At one time I had over four hundred. But some of my models were stolen, the landlord helpers I think lifted them cannot prove it.
So I have to be creative in hiding them in plain sight. I have some that are boxed up , and alternate between who is out or boxed.
As far as people go, I tell them my money, my hobby and there is the door.
Awwww ❤️
I have a teenage daughter who collects and wants to show her models but can’t tell her friends. Lucky for her she has a spare room to “hide” her shelves of models from them. Thanks for making this video 👍
Something I started doing when someone would tell me it’s weird to collect toys, models, dolls, etc Id just ask them “why?” 90% of the time, the person would become really flustered because it’s not what they expected me to say and they don’t have a real reason why they think it’s weird. It works so well!!!
That is an eye opener for everyone who feel unsure whether their hobby is worth the time and effort! And not just model horse hobby, any particularly "different" Hobby out there! It's sad how closed minded people can be and how they turn their nasty side to the people who they find different.... Thank you for bringing it out!
Thank you so much! I kinda struggle with that because I am now a teen and collecting model horses is what I love to do in life. But only one of my friends supports it, so my shelving units are now hidden away in my closet for when the rest of my friends come over.. But after seeing this I realize I should be proud of this hobby and maybe save up for new shelving units in my room and not hidden away inside my closet waiting for the next breyer show. Thank you DeeJayBe :)
I’m 73 and recollecting Breyer after a 50 year hiatus. Even 50 years ago I was never told it was “weird”.
I'm glad I'm not the only one getting back into it over the age of 50!!!! Yes!!! :)
I didn't start getting back into collecting and now CM till five years ago. I'm 54 now and love it!
My Step Dad got me back into it befor he passed.
I can relate. I have been collecting since I was 4. When I was a child I only had 4 breyers and the rest were Grand Champions and Kid Kore. My friends thought it was werid.
Now I have over 38 Breyers and I will still collect. I have them in a shelf in my living room closet so when we have people over I can always shut the door, but there are times it was open and I forgot to shut it, they were seen and I have got some compliments on how beautiful they were.
This is how I explain it to people Breyers are like shoes, you need one in every color, Breed , size, and I also can't afford a real horse so this is the best I can get.
Thank you for making this video, I hope a lot of collecter see this and get more confidence in their Breyer collecting.
I have some classmates that always say: "why do you waste your money on horses". I really love horses a lot, since I was 5 years old, and I think that collecting horses is amazing!! My real friends support me a lot on this and also my family. In the place where I live they don't sell breyer horses or schleich horses, so I always get excited when I get a new horse ❤
i love this statement because of the truth it speaks. My love for dogs and horses as a child launched my lifelong career as a writer and photographer of dogs and horses. My Breyer horses helped me dream as a child and that dreaming has never stopped. Now I am an adult with children in my life. I tell them the secret to being "cool" Be yourself. Good job DeeJay.
Most of my friends thought it was kinda weird but accepted me for it, and now they think it’s cool! 😂
Same xD
Oh my goodness, the purity in this video is AMAZING- thank you so much for sharing all of this! I have definitely had my bouts with "downing friends"... those who have called me "strange" or "nerdy" for my love of model horses (among multiple other things XD)... and I used to be a closet collector as well! Whenever friends or family members would come over, I would rush to hide away my models- I was nearly ashamed to have them in the house. My mom was (and still is) incredibly supportive of the hobby, and even helped me to build some literal closet shelves to store my horses on as my collection grew. I kept it hidden for a while- I'll be honest, a lot longer than I would've thought possible- until one fateful day, when my best friend came over to hang out for a few hours. There was a public pool within walking distance of my house, and after chatting for a while, we resolved to go for a swim- the only problem being, she forgot her swim suit. So, of course, I offered up one of my spare ones, thinking I could just slip into the closet and grab it! What I neglected to realize, however, was that she was much closer to the closet door than I was- and as I nearly yelled "NO, WAAAIT!!" she flung the door open... only to gasp as she discovered the 15 or so models housed within. I just stopped and stood there, stymied- heart beating in my throat, cheeks flushed red- and looked up at her, just waiting for the insults to start flying. To my surprise, however, she said nothing- just turned around and locked eyes with me, grinning from ear to ear. She picked up one of my appaloosas, pet her on the nose, and said, "I have this one, too- her name's Ryn! What did you name yours?" As it turns out, my bestie was also a closet collector- and neither of us had any idea about the other! And instead of going to the pool that afternoon, she and I grabbed a Breyer catalogue, plopped down on my bed, and made a wish list of the models we were seeking- talking for hours about the "obscure" hobby both of us just so happened to adore!
My point with that story is that one should never be ashamed to collect model horses- or to collect anything, for that matter! If you love it- and it brings you joy- OWN IT... shout your adoration from the rooftops! I know it's terrifying at first- the fear of judgement is one that all of us have been taught to share. But somewhere out there- somehow- there will be someone who understands it... whether that someone be a fantastic youtuber, a classmate, or a close friend! And, you never know- that certain someone could be right next to you... you just have to take a leap of faith to let them see it!
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Thank you for this Darynn. I collected as many as I could as a child and eventually gave it up as an adult. I was bullied for being different too and for being completely obsessed with horses. I'm flying my freak flag high these days with a grin on my face and have started collecting again. Your videos have helped me tremendously as I learn to customize my rather beat up herd from childhood and turn them into new treasures. I reconnected with a local artist friend from my teen years who is directly responsible for my exposure to Breyers. Like you, she has inspired me and encouraged me to stretch myself in the customizing hobby. You are so right about the online community...they have been nothing but welcoming, helpful and supportive. I feel so empowered and delighted to be back in the hobby again and letting setting that love of horses free from constraint.
I don't know why horse lovers are such a target for hate (even from other supposed horse lovers, sometimes, which is even weirder). It's wonderful that you were able to reconnect to things you loved, though.
I remember a neighborhood boy being mean and making fun of my Breyers when I was playing with them in the front yard. I was so crushed and ashamed at the time. As an adult, I know that he came from an abusive home and they never had much money for toys and I realize where his hostility was coming from. The best part about getting older as that you care less and less about what other people think. I'm so happy to be my age because I've pretty much dropped all those concerns about the opinions and judgments of others. These days I have a niece and a daughter who are both collectors and we have so much fun being weird together.
61 years old and yes I remember feeling like that. Junior high came and I changed which parent I was living with.
I left my horse collection ( a brown bag of about 35 tiny mites) at my moms, and she sold them in a garage sale, and she kept the money!
I had about 6 Breyer and Johnny west horses that she kept until I was 20. I still have a Breyer donkey from that.
I decided I would replace my collection now. I found the stablemates to be the most fun and terrific community.
I have obsessed over horses, riding, mules, my family treated me like I had a disease.
I sat down with a few of them and cleared things up. At 55 then, I had a lot more tools of expression, to help them understand the value of my passion.
I’m a farm wife and I’m good with the horses and cattle.
I still enjoy model horses. Thank you for your videos.
I'm an italian model collector and horse racing lover.
In case you don't know, both things you can't really find in my country, or at least in the region where I live: model horses aren't imported and the local horse racing industry is collapsing.
You can't even imagine HOW hard it is to be "the only one in this place" to have these passions that no one cares about or that people don't even know what I'm talking about.
It's a side of me I've always kept secret 'cause I know no one will ever really understand it.
It shocks me to see there's someone at the other side of the world that feels exactly like me even tho model horses and horse racing are more of a thing there than here.
It kinda makes me feel like "we're alone together".
Keep doing what you love, your work is amazing and there's nothing to be ashamed if it's part of who you are💪🏻
Sending lots of love from Italy💕,
xxEllie
Eww you are disgusting, horse racing is horrible
Thares tack stores that ship breyers se of they have international shipinh
@@Ilovecrystals922 OK first of all, don't say ew. Just because you don't agree with an industry doesn't mean to vocalize your hate for it, as it ruins it for someone else. If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it at all.
@@mo0onsh0t horses die all year long and suffer....and you want me to be nice about that?
What an important message- thank you so much for sharing! I definitely experienced this growing up, and I absolutely agree that it gets better as you get older. I'm extremely lucky to have a supportive boyfriend who also has a miniature-based hobby that involves painting and collecting. I definitely wouldn't be where I am in the hobby today without his support. Find the people that support your passions and don't let them go!
Your right -kids are mean! They don't understand other kids that don't fit the mold,follow the crowd. "Normal" means liking the newest fad,wearing what others wear. And honey ,normal is BORING!. Good for you being strong enough,courageous enough to be you. That 'friend ' today is jealous of you now..You are so awesome. I love your work! This winter I started making costumes for some of the Breyers Arabians I had sitting around.Then I bought more. Then I wanted to paint one and I found your videos. Oh so much to say,not enough room. The eyes you do,the hair ...all of it! You helped me so much. I do feel awkward at times when telling friends or family but I too get excited about getting a new horse or one of the horses turn out fairly good,I can't help but share the joy. Thank you for this video for the younger ones going through the teasing. I learned a long time ago what you are learning in how to handle judgement of others. You see,I am going to be 61 years old in September.And just this year I started playing with toy horses..But the reactions I get from others is nothing compared to when I tell them what I do in the summer months..For the last 10 years I've been doing research on Mt.St.Helens. Researching,getting to know the same clan or tribe of Sasquatch. No kidding,I camp in the same spot,coming home every week to catch up on chores and refresh,reload and back up I go. Life is great when you can do what moves you...keep it up, I think you are awesome!....Melissa in Oregon
I had a "secret drawer" of orc models and paints in college, but it's all good now! :-)
Look where that got you today. Your one of my favorite channels, Deejaybe is one of my new ones. You also have your own yeti that looks just like you.
So THIS is why I'm seeing her videos in my feed. God damn you, Brent from Goobertown Hobbies! Kidding, of course. I am glad I found this channel.
@@AHRavnsborg Heheheheh
I'm 53, I made models when I was a kid, I have just come back to it and came here through your first airbrush video, its great and I enjoy it from the technical viewpoint, the artistic viewpoint, the research viewpoint, the the challenge and the constant improvement and development viewpoint, now I make model aircraft and if that makes anybody laugh or smile then good for them, I don't care, I'm doing it for me.
This is such a good vibe for the younger generation finding themselves. You're such a good person! That friend was just jealous. I'm glad you flourished into the artist you are. I'm blessed that my sister understands how I feel about my models. She's told me that SHE cares nothing for them, but it matters to me so she tolerates the 2 bookcases of models in her living room.
I appreciate both your passion for Breyers model horses and the acknowledgment that it fulfills you and enables you to grow with it, to make you more excited about it.
I’ve been collecting models for almost 11 years and I have only told a handful of people. I used to be terrified to talk about the hobby in public and to my friends. One of my good friends who I’m still friends with today told me to do what I love and never stop. I didn’t stop collecting. I can agree that I would not be here if I didn’t have models in my life. Thank you for putting this video out here for non collectors to hear as well 💞
Thank you. This is definitely something that needed to be said. I too have been embarrassed of my collecting for years. I hate to admit that but I was bullied for this too. Mind you, I am also not a girl and I am gay. Not that, that is necessarily all that important, but, I became even more of a target for people. Every day I worry about what people have to say about my collecting and interest because I don't want to be bullied like was in school. I don'ttalk about my collecting, nor do give people many details about my collection when asked. You can tell when someon is genuinely interested and wants to know more about why you love it so much, and when someone is just trying to get some juicy details to gp spread behind your back. Which unfortunately has happened to me a few times. One particular coworker told other people I was a "baby" and that my interests are too childish. That I need to grow up. And that baffles me. How could someone be so cruel about something you are passionate about? I really could be doing worse things with my life. So why bully me for something that isn't harming me or even making any difference in other people's lives?
This video has really helped thank you! At first my mom was just like most people and thought it was a waste of money and time but once she saw how successful I’ve become I’m it she has become a lot more supportive. She’ll go around telling people about the hobby and how proud she is of me and it makes me feel normal being in this hobby. So thank you do this video
I collect model horses and heavy haul memorabilia. I talk about my model horses to other pilot cars and they don’t get it. They did think it was weird. But I’ve helped transport some of the biggest loads in Houston Texas. So whatever. 🤣🤣🤣 I’m absolutely thrilled you’ve shared your love. I’ve learned a lot. I wish I had more time to do more customizing.
I adore you I am 49 years old and my breyers are my passion! I want to adopt you.I still get excited for the breyer deliveries. You are inspiring me to do my beautiful customs. I get just as excited now as I did as a small child don't ever stop what you love.
Thank you for making that video! I think it is important to know, that horse collecting isn't just some stupid kids thing.
I live in a very small town were everybody knows each other and "toy" collection is considered weird and seen as childish. As a kid I didn't have access to Breyer models, so I got my first one when I was about 18 years old. I was so proud of it and constantly talked about it. Most of my friends (at that time) honestly judged and belittled me and I really felt ashamed. So I stopped collecting them and never mentioned them again. Until I saw how many beautiful models are out there and how many people collect them. So I got myself some more horses. The friends that belittled me, were never really my friends, I now know that. I have friends now that really seem to care and a boyfriend that supports me. We are both really weird. I collect dinosaurs and Breyers and he collects Lord of the Rings stuff ^-^
I've been extremely thankful to be with friends who genuinely enjoy hearing about my hobby talk. They think that as long as it makes me happy then that's what matters and I agree. I'm still pretty new to the hobby but I've been so happy with the time that I have spent here.
This made my day. As a 23 yr. old just getting into collecting, I receive alot of ridicule when people find out about my collection. They say it's childish and weird. It hurts, it brings me down. Some days I want to quit. But at the end of the day, we have to do what we love and ignore the haters. Someday they will realize they've run out of time to enjoy the things they really love, while we are ready to leave this world with no regrets. 😊
Exactly! Plus it’s way better to be a kid than an adult anyways
I am 50+, and I love my collection of toy animals, especially my horses. I think it's a awesome way to have the animals I love from nature that I can't have in a living form as pets. Plus it is my way of showing how much I love nature.
Thank you for making this video - says everything I wish I could have told my younger self! I'm now 26 and have just got back into the hobby a year ago after a long 10 year break - mainly because I was made to feel I was too old to collect model horses. However since I've been back I'm lucky to have a supportive boyfriend who actually helps out on projects and shows a genuine interest in my collection. I have a stressful job which doesn't allow me to have time for a horse of my own yet so having models is my way of connecting with horses when I can't physically be with them as well as encouraging me to get creative in tack making etc which is such good stress relief! I have even taken my models out in public for photoshoots (albeit trying to take them on the sly to minimise attention)! I've realised that the only person who you should please is yourself so if model horses make you happy don't let anybody else tell you it's stupid or a waste of money/time!
My first Breyer was at age 13. And I've been collecting them for 43 years. DJ don't let others put you down for what you like. I've seen what you are doing you help others by showing them how to make customs in the model horse world, you teach and you seem to enjoy showing others how to do it themselves.
Kids are tough. I’m glad you have a supportive group of friends now :)
I am at this point in my life where I’m embarrassed to have friends come upstairs because they will see all of my Breyers. My husband was supportive in the sense that it’s something that I enjoy, but he doesn’t really appreciate the amount of money that has gone into my hobby. Thank you for making this video because it made me feel a little better about my collection.
Ahh. So true and so sad 😥 People think it's so strange but the social media community has been so supportive of the hobby, so finding this community was a biggie for me. Some people are so unkind, and some people are so supportive. I only have 2 friends who don't think I'm comfortable telling about the hobby. I've learned, don't listen to the haters. Thank you Darynn for this wonderful video 😊 Its so sad that people can be so mean about someone's interest. If someone thinks you are weird for what you love, they aren't good friends.
I love my Breyers and have tried to find ones I had as a kid that I lost 😢 I'm 54 and still love them! If it makes you happy who cares what they think! You are very lucky to have so many beautiful models! I'm not embarrassed about collecting them and since I can't have a real horse these guys are the next best thing.
So good to hear that you keept your courage to follow your heart. ✨
Good friendships are rare, I feel you.
I’ve happily and openly collected Breyers since I was 5. I never had anyone give me any guff about it, since a lot of my close friends had them too. It was no big deal. Those friends in fact eventually gave me their horses when they no longer wanted them. When I was a young adult, my collection really grew, and I had well over 300 horses total, along with several porcelains, resins, and other collectibles. I was crushed to lose 90% of my collection in the Camp Fire in 2018. The bulk of my collection was in storage at my parents house for safe keeping while my own young family grew and moved around. But my parents house, along with most of the town of Paradise, CA, burned to the ground, and my collection a was effectively gone. I actually managed to find a single broken Porcelain in the ash of the house, confirming the location of the models. In the nearly 3 years since the fire, I’ve begun to rebuild my collection, slowly buying all the most beautiful versions of my favorite models. I’ve even found a random box or two during a move to a new house with a few horses, and my dad recently brought me a box with 9 of the most precious horses in my collection, that he found after tearing some cabinets out of the garage of his moms house. Her condo was one of the few houses spared, so they’ve been living there. He found this box shoved back into an obscure corner, and in it was a one-of-a-kind Riverside Storm resin by the artist Jennifer Kistler, which my dad molded and cast for her in the early 90’s. It’s one of only 25 ever made, and he’s the crown of my collection. And he survived, through random happenstance. Don’t ever apologize for loving these hunks of plastic and paint. Everybody has something random they love, and for us horse lovers, these are ours. Keep doing amazing things, you’re an inspiration to us. Many of the horses I lost were customized and painted by myself, and I have always wanted to do what you do, it’s a passion of mine to resculpt and repaint models. Keep it up. We need more peeps like you in the hobby.💕
Ahhh that story is so sad 😥 but it's really inspirational to hear about how well it worked out for you later in life ❤️ I guess I consider myself lucky because I started after I was already past age 20, and friends and family have been supportive (most of the time 🙄) anyway, I hope that I can encourage teens and young adults by letting them see that older collectors love and enjoy the model horse hobby and we are here to support them ❤️🐎
I relate to you a lot. In middle school, I was bullied for my love of horses. It even continued a bit in my freshman year. In sophomore year, it got better. I’m a junior now, I’m going to trade/vocational school for equine science so now,
I’m surrounded by people who also love horses. I haven’t told many people about my hobby of collecting model horses. When did tell people, some didn’t mind and others did call it “childish”. I love collecting them and making videos with them. It’s what I love. Horses are my life and I want to make them my whole life. This is a hobby that I’m passionate about and I’m not gonna let them tear me down. ❤️ I shouldn’t be ashamed of something I love and I won’t! ❤️
I know this way done a while ago. You are an artist and there is nothing to be ashamed of. I'm in my 50s and think it's great I do this sort of stuff. I even work with babies.
This video is awesome ❤ I'm a person where I don't care if people think I'm weird, but I still get slightly embarrassed when my friends ask me, "What did you get for Christmas?" and my response is "model horses." You are super inspiring, keep being awesome ❤😊
I was always shy abut talking abut my toy horses but once you find good people that really care it make's you feel better
This is such an Important message to anyone who is afraid to show what their hobby is! i know this all too well , i suffer with Depression and Anxiety and have had my fair share of so called ''Friends'' who think it's so childish and a waste of money but yet go out drinking and smoking ...my mum was very Against me collecting breyers after a certain age , about 15 i think ... so each day after school i would notice my collection getting smaller and smaller . I later found out that my mum was selling my models behind my back, and i eventually had to give it all up for about 10 years ....i then recently got back into the hobby slowly when i moved in with my best friend who was the only person to love what i collected , my mum slowly let me collect Breyers again and she could see that it helped mentally with my depression and Anxiety and that i was a much happier person because this was an Escape from reality for me .
thanks DeeJayBe
You should try customizing them.
It's so relaxing!
Great video!! You’re absolutely right that friends who don’t care about your passions and interests.. aren’t real friends. And it’s just SO important to find your passions and run with them! Because life is just too short not to. I know it’s easier said than done, but don’t let others ruin things for you!!
I’m 40something and just started collecting again (I collected as a kid and teen and absolutely LOVED my models!) I have zero f’s to give about what anyone thinks of it 😂 Until I can have real horses again (🙏) this is scratching an itch.
I’m incredibly impressed by your talent. You’re an art hero of mine! And I’m so grateful to you for making these videos! Thank you ☺️❤️
When you walk into walmart..
Mom: Lets go get the milk.
Me: Lets go get the Breyers
Dad: Dont you have enough Breyer horses?
Me: NEVER :D
WHAT?? what Walmart sells Breyers??? Mine doesn't! :(
@@bethhairelynchard2154 I've been to a couple.Try looking on the website,see if they have any that are in-store.
This a great video at school I’m bullied for liking model horses and liking music so this made me feel not as alone❤️
I'm gonna be 38 and I was disconnected from my first collection and now I've been building my second and looking for originals I had. I don't care what anyone else says, I'm still a kid at heart!!!!
I so understand...I love to sculpt horses...usually horse head busts...I always kept it secret because of what one relative (an uncle) he smirked and said something rude when I was younger...your videos are awesome and I look to you when I want to paint one...so thank you...my dad used to buy me plastic horses and my love for their features and strength began. I am now much much older and am sculpting my heart out and love it. Keep up the good work...your hobby is fabulous
Everything you just said is so true! Everyone says that about me because I like horses. People in my school don’t know about me loving Breyer horses because I know that if they found out they would tease me about collecting These models. The good thing is that my best friend that loves breyers and horses so I can talk to her. The only problem is to at she lives like 2 hours away so it’s hard for us. She supports me. I support her as well. My family is very very supportive of me collecting. I think people should like you for what you love. I honestly felt exactly the same as you. I’ve just so far have learned who is my friend and who isn’t. Thank you for this video!
Thank you for making this, if made me much more confident
When I was growing up I was pretty poor. I always wanted Breyer and schleich horses but couldn’t afford them. But when I was 11 I got a couple of models and was so happy I took my favourite leopard Appaloosa Breyer with me everywhere and she never broke or got scuffed. But my “friend” broke off its leg after making fun of my horses. I’m so glad that now I have friends who have a couple of Breyer and schleich and stuff like that. I’m just so happy that I still decided to collect these little models because they’re really cute and I like to paint them! Breyer horses and schleich are so much fun for honestly everyone of any age.
I’m 24 next month and I bought my first model a while ago so for my birthday I’ve treated myself to loads of paint and tools so I can have a go at painting my model, I’m actually really excited as I’ve never done it before but I love crafts so much so I think it would be a fun hobby to get into 💛 I’m so happy I found your channel I love your videos!! You have helped me so much already - letting me know what tools and materials are needed to start so thank you so much!!
And never stop doing what you love! ❤️
Thank you for making this video, I always felt like I was weird about having my models and riding horses in general but watching this makes me feel much better ❤️❤️
Girl I'm over thirty and I still collect toys. And play video games. I work and all the adult things but Im a kid at heart. Dont let it get you down. Some people dont understand and who cares. Do what makes you happy as long as it doesnt hurt anyone do what you like. I love breyer horses. I cant afford them but every now and again I find one at a flea market or something. I get just as excited for that old plastic horse as I did the first breyer horse I got. It was a friesian Stallion. You are an amazing artist. Thanks for being real.
I love this video. I’ve had breyers for many years but I only just started collecting. I’m a teenager and my dad is just not very supportive. He just always says I’m too old to be doing something childish, I need to grow up and get a job, and that I need to think about finances cause it’s a waste of money. I finally stood up to him last year about something else and I felt so proud that I did cause it was hard and I’ve struggled with my confidence. It didn’t go well at all. He quilt tripped me the entire time, which he’s always done, and I’m just scared to say hey this is me, this is what I enjoy.
Well, I'm going to be 70 in a few weeks, and I have 75 Breyer horses, mostly traditionals. I'm not rich, but I spent $985.00 on an Alborozo. I have painted about a dozen Breyers, again, mostly traditionals, and sold half a dozen of those. The most was for $143.00. Most of my friends are supportive, especially when the horses started to sell. Some of my friends don't get it, but are fine with it. One or two people have seen my horse collecting as a waste of money, but they are not people I have much to do with.
Good video. Good for people to hear about. I'm guessing that it's helpful to many.
I’m so sorry you had to deal with bullies like this. I have had my share of those exact bullies. Now most of them that made fun of me are living their lives and karma has caught up to them! I’ll always support your hobby and collection because it’s mine and it’s very many others!
I'm 50 now, and while I disappointed my mom after 2 brothers that I didn't fall for the dolls and dresses and went more towards the horses, animals, bugs, fishing and mud LOL (guess that's what you get growing up with 2 brothers? :) ) My first ever model was the bay QH yearling..or Man O War, can't exactly remember but I was hooked after that and I was probably in 1st grade because I was addicted to horses as far back as I can remember in Pre K, possibly even before that because I remember my mom and dad always having to pull me off the concrete donkey in the neighbors yard because I liked to pretend it was a real donkey and it was the perfect size for me to ride on..that and obsession with riding carousels. Everyone called me the horse girl through school. I got my first horse in 4th grade and I had the shirt with the 3/4 sleeves with glittery horse iron ons and then my horse's name in letters down the sleeves.. I had one for every single day of the week. I had jeans with horses embroidered on the side seams going up my legs. I was obssessed, I didn't care what every one thought, I wasn't in to what the other girls were in to (boys, make up, clothes, fashion) and was called a freak made fun of a lot but I didn't care, I had my own little bubble world that I loved. Now of course as I got older I got out of the models and out of the horses because the funds weren't there and life happens kids, family etc. I remember I used to try and paint my models and make tack for them and now I watch all this stuff on TH-cam and think dang!!! I could've put all my stuff on TH-cam!!!!! LOL Now at 50, with grown kids.. collecting breyers again I almost kinda feel guilty but don't? I mean now I have grown friends who don't understand it.. hell I think my grown kids aren't really understanding it because I've pulled down all my models as a child out of the attic and started placing them out on the shelves again and buying some here and there. Each horse I've pulled out of boxes makes me smile. It brings me back to when life was simple and easy and such great memories. I can even remember for what reason I got most of them and who gave what as a gift for Christmas and birthdays. It also brings back great memories of a childhood friend who also collected them and we'd take turns staying at each other's house playing all weekend long super late at night even with our horses who sadly passed away 6 years ago. I remember Sitting in the livingroom or out in the back yard or even just my room on the floor playing with my models, treating them like real horses. I've tried getting my 5 yr old grand daughter to play with them because they're scratched up enough already kids don't get it today like then, it's like NO imagination.
I think everyone gets bullied for one thing or another through school, because yes kids are mean. My kids were bullied but unfortunately the difference between now and back then is when I went to school, the bullying was only at school, now it's 24/7 in person and online and it's sad. What's worse is the parents that refuse to deal with their child that is doing the bullying :(
A great video! If someone ever feels bad for being in the hobby or struggle with it in any way, they should definitely watch this.
I know this is an older vid. I certainly hope you've made new friends who at least appreciate, and ideally share you enthusiasm for your models! There are certainly many of us out there that would LOVE to share that with you!
I just recently started watching your videos...and honestly it was everything I was looking for as techniques on customizing breyer horses. I’m a guy. And I’ve been collecting them since i was 11.. and was always teased about my collection as it grew especially by my male cousins and friends because that’s just not what “normal” guys do. So I’ve always tried not to talk about it to anyone and was always embarrassed when friends would come over and see my horses on my shelf...they would just laugh and be like “what the heck are these???” So I’ve always tried to keep my hobby to myself. I’ve always wished I had a friend who collects but that never happened. When I met my wife I was terrified of her finding out about them, she one day showed up at my house before i came home from work to surprise me and was just sitting in my room looking at them😳 and to my surprise she was in awe over them and is the first person to take so much interest in them. She even bought me a few! Didn’t mean to be this long with this but I just wanted to thankyou and to let you know that your not alone and please don’t stop collecting!👍
I was bullied growing up and it was hard. The bullies target people who are different. But being different is a good thing. When I got to high school I knew who I was and what I wanted to do with my life. That was horses specifically raceing. I also trained my colt as a racehorse. I also collected Breyer horses, books, and cats. Durring high school the bullies thought to mess with me because I would go to school smelling like horses. I told them "smelling like horses is better that what you do". The friends who are my friends even now we're the ones who are horse people. Model horses is an amazing hobby because you can buy a horse that in real life you would never be able to get near them. Also you can repaint then any color you want. Makeing tack for the models is a fun part of collecting. I have not been able to go to Breyerfest. And I do not care that I am 55 years old and love horses both real and models. And I hope I could have another horse to be friends with.
Never let bullies get the better of you. Just turn it back on them. They are really envious of you. So own it and stand up tall and tell them you do not care what they think and do not matter at all.
I got bullied for a lot of things in the past. I know what it does with you and I don't care if other people try to tell me that the people who bully other's just reflect that they are hurt by someone else, because to bully someone is no excuse for your own problems. I think that this issue should be discussed more in schools. Everyone should apreciate each other for being different.
I think almost every hobbyist can relate to the is video. Great work!
I am 50 and I still buy Breyer horses. I collect Schleich, CollectA and Papo and whatever figurines I can find and I customize my stuff as well. I play Sims and I am weird. I think buying shoes and makeup is a waste of time and money. I have never cared what others say and think and this is a brilliant video you made. Thank you ♥️
Wonderful! I am so glad you still channel your inner child. It’s healing.
Thank you for talking about this, I love you and your videos
Truly, what is anyone supposed to do to be normal? You get into makeup, you are told you’re vain; you love animals, you need to grow up; you are into art, you need to find something more substantial.
There was a meme that is so true, it said something along the lines of “So what if I collect ____, you have an entire china cabinet full of plates no is allowed to use.” 😂
Well said. It is very similar to the miniature wargaming community. Enjoying life is the most important. Your work is helping me pain Rohan Horses.
i can only say THANK U ❣️
It‘s so cool That you decided to Tell us that it doesn‘t matter what others are saying
We are like resins!!!!!🥰❤️
we are all different!!!!!!! we have quirks, blisters, cracks and cast seams. (google translater idk if it‘s right 🙈)
You‘re so great!!!!
You make us stronger!!!!
Keep it up ❣️❤️❤️❤️
I was always called weird because of my horse addiction since I was a little kid... Now I have a big collection of plastic horses (even My Little Ponies omg!!) and people still call my childish. I'm 33 years old and I don't care. I know what makes me happy and as long as it's not hurting me or other people why would it be a problem?
In my country we still don't have Breyer horses in the stores so people have no idea what these horses are or what's the value of them. They are just "Barbie horses" and toys.
I got used to the bad reactions over the years, but anybody who is interested I can explain why is it good why this hobby keeps me in for so long and why I will not give it up until something big and seious happens in my life... And a lot of times people who is willing to listen they understand and they see the beauty in it. Even if they wouldn't do the same as I do they accept it. And that's the most important thing in life. We are all different and we have to accept each other so everybody can be happy in their own unique way.
Thank you for the video
Dóra Soós
I’m 73 and recollecting after a 50 year break.
Collecting breyer isn't something bad. Heck people collect video game figures. And posters. Collecting horse models are dope. And honestly I got into breyer cuz my mom handed down her models. And I've started painting some....its really fun😊😊 btw I love watching your videos. If you ever sell your breyers. I would definitely buy one from you. Your my favorite youtubers and I live your vids. Keep up the good work and your amazing. Also my bf is the most supportive person I have with my breyers....he's always asking if I'm painting a new one or if I got some new pretty horses and I get so exited...he's so sweet and amazing....and honestly the breyer horses and star stable online is the closest I can get to owning a horse...so it means a lot to me...and I can tell it means so much to you. I support you 100%
True words! It was so good to watch your video because you got the point! Really great.💗
I've now reached a point where I don't tell everyone about the models, but if someone asks me, I can proudly tell them about it. 🥰
Never be afraid to let your flag fly.... I've added "model horses" to the bottom of my CV (resume) in the 'interests' section when applying for jobs. Why? Because it's memorable. It makes me unique, rounded and demonstrates openness and curiosity. The fact I run a live show that's raised over £1500 for charity shows ingenuity, organisational skills, communication...
It also gives an interviewer something light-hearted to bring up.... one guy even said "you mean like Breyer? My daughter loves them!"
Well, you could've knocked me off my chair! Bearing in mind I'm in the UK and Breyer are by no means easily available or a known toy company... Both interviewers were fascinated to hear more!
If you hide it away and feel embarassed/ashamed by it, your reaction only serves to reinforce the negativity/mocking/lack of understanding. It gives those who bully or accuse on the basis that they are ignorant and cannot understand validity; it PROVES to them that you are silly, you should be ashamed.
It's no different than saying to someone who is gay that they are correct in feeling ashamed and embarrassed about their sexuality and should hide it away. No sensible, feeling, open-hearted human would DREAM of saying that to someone. So why do you (whoever "you" are out there) feel it's ok to say that to yourself? Hopefully you understand what I'm trying to say...?
By hiding, you AGREE your hobby, your passion, the things that make you happy are wrong and worthy of feeling ashamed.
So let your flag fly! Be proud of yourself! If you can't be proud, you can't expect others to be...
To paraphrase a well-known song: "Look out 'cause here I come
. And I'm marching on to the beat I drum. I'm not scared to be seen. I make no apologies, this is me."
Send you the virtual hugs! I know exactly how it feels and people may be so annoying. I had close friends I shared about my collection with and several of them were just “I don’t care”. And yes, we’re not friends anymore. I’m not so communicative person and it was hard times but step by step later I found myself surrounded by other collectors and artists. Sometimes we need some time to find our place under the sun. And also I have to mention that collecting and customizing plastic models is still young hobby and not all people can understand it yet.
Anyway it is important to keep in my mind that i-don’t-care-persons probably do not really care about your personality. Such reaction or pressure may be justified if you do something not safe to yourself or all your surroundings. But plastic animals... Why is it counted as something weirder than other hobbies as sports, chess, golfing, watching TV? Do people search a deep meaning in it? Ok, maybe they tell us what meaning is in art itself or in watching birds? All hobbies give us joy. And many amazing model artists and sculptors have grown from the collecting of cheap toys. Also collecting may link to many other hobbies as well: for example, photographing and many others.
Everyone is weird in their own way so that makes no one normal. People tell me that to and it hurts but it’s what I love so I still collect them and repaint them.
Im 18 and i will collect them forever❤️ because i love it. I dont care what others say. I hope you dont care too. Because it is important do what you love❤️
This has been very inspirational thank you!!
I'm an overly optimistic person that until watching this video I never realized people may find it weird I collect models or the other strange things I like.
Wow what a fantastic video! 😍
This is actually the first video of yours I’ve come across (probably because I’ve been obsessively watching Breyer unboxing videos! 🤦♀️😆👍)
I’m 40. I recently bought some of the re-released My Little Ponies like the ones I had as a child. I was going to hide them away in a bedroom because, yeah, I thought people would think it was weird.
Husband (who is a lot, lot older than me!) actually said ‘no, they’re really pretty and I like them. They should stay in the living room’. So I thought about it, and realised that he was absolutely right. Why should I be embarrassed? Other people have China dolls etc on display? These are much prettier!! So I cleared a cupboard of random stuff that didn’t mean anything to me and got some more to form a proper display and they really do look beautiful.
Then I found Breyer models, CollectA models and Schleich models..... so I’ve got some of those and have ordered a new cupboard to display them. Some will go in a bedroom (very small flat!) but some will be proudly on display. I may even do a whole ‘realistic’ Scheich display in one room..... I have a great imagination and I don’t think it’s changed since I was a child. I can’t have a real horse.... so why not?
Good for you and I was nodding away. You are spot on and I’m soooo pleased you said this. 😀
(Oh and your eye makeup is amazing, you have lovely eyes.)
Thank you for making this. 😊💕
I have a few friends but only one knows about my hobby and she also likes breyers! But I’m kinda embarrassed to tell the rest them that i collect them but maybe one day I’ll tell them!
Thank you for this it made me feel better!!💙
I get picked on by my parents and sometimes friends for collecting model horses, as well as bjds. It’s discouraging when as an adult, you can’t just be allowed to enjoy things other adults don’t see as ‘age appropriate’. Keep doing you, if they bring you joy, then stick with it
I grew up as the “animal girl” in elementary school, and was ostracized by my peers for it. My family even made fun of me for it because it was “weird” as well. I am still a closet collector. While going to university, I told my art teacher because he was a sculptor, and showed him how detailed they can get and some handmade tack and he was blown away. I have a handful of friends who support it, but I’m still very much a closet collector. I totally agree with you about how you could be into drugs and alcohol instead of horses, because that’s how I see it.
Funnily enough, my name is Daryn too, but just one N. This was the first video of yours I have seen or heard of so I was surprised to hear you say that, I thought I was hallucinating at first because how many girl daryns do you know, you know? My count is up to 5 including myself now haha.
Oh my gosh! I’ve never met a girl Darynn before! That is so cool. You’re the first one I’ve heard of.
I am 43 and I’ve been collecting Breyers for a year now and I am proud of it. My teenage kids are embarrassed but I shout it from the roof tops. No difference in collecting anything else in my opinion 😊
YES! Always stay true to yourself!
I went through the same problem!! I was the only person that rode horses and collected horses in my class. I would go to school dressed up in western clothing and I would get made fun of! I also could not talk a lot about horses or rodeo because they just didn’t care!! I still collect to this day and ride and rodeo to this day! I still plan to continue to collect models till the day I die!
That chick was not your friend. Real friends listen and CARE. I would have been excited for you. I'm excited by your beautiful art, now. Proud of you for staying strong in who you are. For knowing their opinions don't matter. You rock, girlo!
We are no longer friends. All my current friends are supportive! Ah the growing pains of life. ❣️
Tbh my friends don't really have a thing for horses either but they are always just like "cool" or "mhmm" I can tell that they don't really care that much but they are still supportive they just don't take interest in it but I still love my friends!
THIS!! So glad you made this video!!
One of the biggest truths I think I've discovered as I've grown up (and older) is this: THERE IS NO NORMAL. "normal" is a construct, a falsehood, a way to separate "us" from "them".
I first started collecting models in my teens. My mother was supportive of my hobby and I lucked out and found some people who were also "horse crazy" and so I had someone to talk to about my passion. I would say to anyone who is made fun of or talked down to because they love horses and collect models don't listen to the negativity. Most people have some kind of hobby they're into. People who put others down simply don't understand. I have friends who think my collection is wonderful. I have at least one friend who feels I have too many but she doesn't run me down about it. And I know there are people that I've told about my hobby that don't understand but I really don't care. Enjoy what you enjoy. Find other people that share your joy of horses and don't let anybody steal your joy away from you.
I had a friend that didn't care. But it what makes me happy to collect breyers and I still love them. I am also going to NaMoPaMo this coming year.
Sad but true. I wish I didnt let people's comments about my collecting get to me. I would still have my huge herd, but oh well. Maybe I can get most of them back again.
Do what makes YOU happy
thank you so much for all your motivational speech! you ate amazing and I look up to you for all the amazing work and everything.
I love telling people I collect model horses even now that I’m 22 I’ve never had the issue of being shunned for collecting them. tho I was extremely bullied for my dyslexia so my models where really the only friends I had. When you’ve been called dumb your entire life by teachers and students my models where the only things that kept me together
thank you! this needs to be said and you said it perfectly!