My modus-operandi is telling the bargirls that I'M looking for a wealthy Thai woman to sponsor ME back in the UK. They soon clear off and let me watch the football in peace. 🤣🤣
Like you Webby, I took a girl out of a bar, and it lasted 6 months. I got bored of the constant greed and demands, nothing was ever enough. A total waste of time and money. Never, ever again!
Mine lasted 7 weeks, hot 25 year old. Constant money pit, and then she hit me with it... " I want land, house, car in my Buriram village, if you can not no waste my time ".....big night on the drink with her and I had enough, I said " I cannot buy you land, house, car and live in the middle of nowhere "...next morning gone like the wind...😂.
Ive been to a bar on soi bukhao and bought a lady drink for a girl. Along comes a mamasan and asked me if i can buy her a drink too . I said to her ,are you going to sit with me then, she said no she is busy with her work but wants a drink so i told no because i have a nice girl here who is sitting with me now. Why would i buy her a drink anyway. Ive seen this happen a lot. The other scam is when you are sitting with a girl and she points out her best friend who hasnt had a drink all night . Time to move on.
Spot on,you can tell mates not to do it but once the bird gets her hooks into you it's hopeless,the birds are pros in more ways than 1 and can play us farangs like a violin.Cheers
Considering what it costs some blokes back home when the missus buggers off with her gym instructor & ends up with the house etc, Thailand is an absolute bargain!!
Too right Webby. These girls are off their heads. I have also done the sponsorship thing for a little bit but the 3 I helped out turned out to be lying , lazy and untrustworthy. Gave them all the benefit of doubt. They all showed their true colours. This was at the end of covid up until early this year. Never again ever. I am not an idiot with my hard earned money and now Im tighter than a ducks arse! Back in 3 weeks . I will buy you a drink though Webby cos ur pure fing class. See u soon.
I have once sponsored a girl. For me I did not feel scammed, like so many say. fpr 2 years I sponsored her between 10-20000 baht . She moved back home and stayed with her family inher rural village. and it was fine for a few years. But honostly, the reson I stopped was that I didn't want to marry her. And I feel like marriage shoud be the standard, if you want to sponsor a girl or not. And so with that I say, sponsoring a girl is a serious commitment. Don't just throw your money a way for a bit of fun.
I just came across your videos, and Im struck with your honesty and straight forward approach. Im an expat here for many years, with Thai gf that I sponsored for 15 years already. I have no regrets and I will soldier on with her.
Fellas, repeat after me: Don't. Bring. Your. Heart. To. Pattaya. That is Rule #1 of Pattaya. If you follow this rule you won't have to worry about sponsorship.
NEVER become a sponsor. With 30+ visits and more than 100 “acquaintance” experiences, I agree with you 100%. There are also positive aspects to buying another girl a drink. My lady's friend hasn't had any clients for 3 days due to an eye infection. To this day she is grateful to me for the drink I gave her, she doesn't forget it, and every time I come into the bar I am enthusiastically greeted and hugged because I helped her in a difficult situation. Certainly an exception, but positive events should also be mentioned.
I think some men forget that in a lot of cases they are using the bar girl too , so its not all one sided . Life is tough for many Thais and tougher if the have a regular job outside the bar ..
even the lady drinks arent real drinks they are empty beer bottles filled with water with the tops put back on,ive heard this from an ex bar manager,watch them they take your beer from a seperate part of the fridge to the beer they give the bar girl ,so shes only drinking water anyway 😂
You got the well educated middle class girls too. I hooked up with a local high school teacher for a time, and a high ranking government official. There all bloody skint.. Its the live for now mentality, and heavy burden to support family.
Hands up who hasn’t done it..? The reality check can be truly sobering. Love your honesty. Lady drinks, you are setting yourself up for trouble. I’m married and drink regularly in a decent bar. We often buy certain girls a drink, I often play pool with one girl. There are often clique’s, bitchiness, and jealousy issues going on which you may be completely unaware of. Which can erupt on you abruptly and it gets really ugly. You think you are doing the right thing, in reality you are merely inviting grief. Listen to what this bloke has to say…
Hi mate, if guys think they are the only sponser then they are nuts. I know girls in Pattaya that have 4 or 5 sposors and even the ugly ones have sponsors lol As for the lady drinks, it's the Thai (female) owners that tell the staff to get as many lady drinks as they can. When I was there, as soon as they asked for a LD I would ask for the check bin. Missing Pattaya. Keep up the good work. Cheers
Yes we all make mistakes but for myself my first time in Pattaya met a freelancer spent a couple nights with her continue to talk on the phone she hinted having no customers and I'm like thinking to myself sucks to be you but I am not going to even mention about sending money to help regardless I have a relationship with my money I don't give it freely but I would not get stuck into that trap I really feel sorry for the men that do this just go on holiday take it for what it is and you will go home Happy just remember the 3-day rule and for some one day I fit in that category LOL
you've been here 14 years ,I've been here another 8 ,22years and you should know don't take 'lady' to bar ,they have them already. a "lady" in bar . It's like taking a can of lager bought in the off license into your local I would imagine the wage is FA and there income is dependent on generous farrang buying lady drink Asking the question "how long have you been working here" ,I guess it was in English ,so an uneducated (most probably) young Thai can converse in a foreign language I speak pigeon Thai ,after all these years . I know you're Welsh but they are poor and the odd tip won't break the bank I'm 71 ,from London ,how come you retired so early ?
No all these girls are skint that's for sure, a lady drink needs to be earned not just expected that the problem with pattaya now, I retired early through hard work
Great rant. Totally get the idea of lady drinks. Did it a few months ago in Wonderland in Hua Hin. Had no intention of taking the young woman out of the bar. She was sitting next to me and playing on her phone. Stung me for four - but really didn't mind - I snuck out when she went to the hongnam.
Unless you have bucket loads of money to throw away, don't get serious with a bar girl. And if you go home and send them money to stop working in bars wake up, they usually keep working, often with at least several other suckers sending them money. Just money down the drain.
i lived in Phuket until july 2018, married too. i still come back twice a year (apart from covid) , like your content, ex Glasgow been in Sydney most of my life , we held out in the union at the weekend. I sponsored two families during covid and still sponisor one family. The only part of thailand I ahve not been to is the deep south or far north. Misconception , Isan is poor , thats crap, I now many people from there and I played in a touch union comp Jan 5 near Maha Sarakham, they were al rich Thais or in the police and army, I have been to Isan many times. The poor areas are parts of Krbi proince in the highland , southerm Nakhon Si Thammatart , Trang , and Tak near the border in central thailand clsoe to Burma
i just start the conversation by telling them porkies about how ive just found a great condo for 4500 baht a month and it usually puts them off the scent 😂
What ever advice you tell people they wont listen until they have experienced being a sponsor and cost them alot of money before they learn. But some do it time and time again and will never learn them self's.
I think you explain the sponsorship very well, and to be fair these girls are in a terrible fix a lot of the time. If you go holiday in Pattaya you are probably after a good time with some girls, and in that case maybe lady drinks are fair, especially as it gives you a chance to check out the deal you might make. It's a business! As for the bar, well they have overheads and salaries to pay, and they are not a charity so need to make a living too. Especially during the high season, since the rest of the year is probably not great business. Stay in control and don't get bullied, you can always walk away and use another bar. Even in UK if there's a confrontation it's best to leave and go somewhere else. What happened in boys town video? Did you just bail out because you can't stand to think about the going's on? If so I'm with you on that one. 97% are either boy or girl, the rest can do what they like, just don't shove it down my throat. It's one of the things wrong here in UK, I'm not against them, just keep it private, pretty much how the 97% do. Good video, well balanced talk, maybe cut the working girls a bit of slack because it's a rum trade, and try not to get scammed.
It is not just bargirls that try to scam you for money, I left Pattaya yesterday and the pretty receptionist in the hotel who continously flirted with me everytime I met her asked me to lend her 4000 baht and she promised to pay me back when I return in a couple of months.... I wonder how many Jai Dee hotel guests has she conned into giving her money
I think it's the same for most men who go there on holiday , they have spending money and they get home , they send money thinking they are helping because they get buttons for pay and think they can spare some money plus the girls need the money more than the men do , so they send money , but some men send too much money a month like the 2 , you spoke about who was with the same girl
So many Simps come to Pattaya the girls know throw 3 darts and at least one will hit the bulls eye. Been coming 34 years and the place for me now is about relaxation, far better places in the world with far better looking women if it’s sex you want and at lower,l price, eg Brazil 🇧🇷
What a lot of the men that sponsor these women dont realize is that many of these women are making more money than they are ,When they get home they need to get out of the holiday mindset and start saving there money for next time they go on holiday.
Thx for honest vdo as usual…just wish some of these simps & mugs out there watched n listened too….the bars girls n GoGo girls or LBs only there for the money…not love!! They’re becoming more blatant too asking for lady drinks wen your with your friend. If your going to have gf there make sure she has a proper job n salary and your comfortable together….they you may have a chance…forget the bar girls as only their for fun n money!!
Once you " live" here, the girls find out very fast and you will get a lot less attention because you know how it works here😊 Just tell the girls it's your first week in Pattaya and enjoy the madness😂 I go out regularly with my girl to play pool in rompho when i'm in Jomtien and me buying a Lady drink for another girl would be a big no go 😅 We have a couple of bars we play at because they know us for a long time and don't bother us, always happy to see us.
Your a sponsor if you take them out of the bar to live with you, you still have to give them money, feed them,etc, theres no difference, and they still got othetes sending them money, if you think your not there sponsor think again,
I don't see it they way at all, but j welcome your thoughts, I was married 20 years in the UK, the first 10 she don't earn anything so does that make her me sponsor
it depends what you have if you from a first world country with strong currency and good pension and properties ( well off ) and alone it might be worth while only if she puts in effort , if you can see her face to face , spend time with her and she makes you feel special , BUT if you don't have anything and need to save or live month to month and need to budget for the future its a definite no go.
@@welshboywebby You need to watch him, saying he would have to be Einstein to be able to make such stories up when i sent him my thoughts.He even offers one to one advice if you pay him..WTF
Reading the comments!! Many situations. Full-time living in pattaya Part time living pattaya Or Holiday millionaire You know the score If your not prepared to get a girl a drink!! Dont go in lady bars. Simple why do you go in there!! Free eye candy? Plenty more bars without? Crazy 😅 Thats not aiming at anybody personally yet the hassle does not amount to a quite drink 🍻 Its all a Scam!! ££££ Men in bars = £££ Girls in bars = £££
Your missing the point not one person has said they don't want to if you get service, they can't just take a drink for nothing, it's only been like this since everything opened back, as for eye candy what eye candy most of the woman are well below a 4
@@welshboywebby Webby mate you can't call the girls a 4 or rough!! Look at the shit they have to put up with middle aged out of shape fat smelly pissed up geezers seeking a lady. Yet a 4 is all they would get at home? If there lucky 🍀 Yes it may seem its gone downhill but the reality is we have seen it all before!! We're getting older the bar scene is changing. Girls for a longtime now with phones 📱 to look for dates or to engage there time!! Instead of actually working the bar looking there best!! The point is They don't give a fuck. The owners of the bar are to blame!! No disapline? And the new breed this younger generation of bar girl hasn't a clue how it works. The old saying believing every Farang has a tank of monie a suitcase.
@@welshboywebby Fuck knows Lol!! 😂 Forger it... Times are changing. Yes bad service... But I'd make my stand as soon as I went in a bar. Mate there kids at the end of the day no fucking disapline? A different animal.
A server girl i know in Sailor bar has 4 Sponsors ,She is a pleasent girl but no way more than a 2/10 but to be fair i say good luck to her its the Dopey blokes who keep sending money perhaps they believe she is their girl friend but it is bizzare.
@@welshboywebby She had no worries in telling me,seemed genuine and very relaxed with the Situation...Good luck to her ,i have known her 2 years and never once asks for a drink btf i sometimes buy her one but at my farang cost not girly drink cost.
You should have bought a buffalo to ride around town instead of a scooter, Webster. That way, when the Isan family buffalo inevitably gets sick, you can just ride your buffalo up there to lend a helping hand. I guess you could buy your buffalo a bus ticket to Isan, but, really, that's just more baht down the drain. Jesus, what happens if your buffalo falls in love while in Isan? Total shitshow.
Sponsor what are they a football team? When I sponsor a girl, ill buy her some tshirts with my name on it. haha joking. Sponsored by Tomato Brush line...
£50 a week. Last of the big spenders 😂 Some of these girls are earning a fortune. I was talking to a girl last night in Buakhow - she is on 10k salary for 10 days. After 60 drinks she gets 60 baht a drink. She is 22 and an absolute stunner and gets about 30 drinks a day. So eight days she’ll earn 10k plus about another 14k + in drinks. She has to have two barfines at 1200 per 10 days - which she pays herself. So in a month she is probably earning 60k a month plus. Before she worked as a receptionist on 12k a month.
Second last trip I had a conversation with one of my bar fines and she was telling me her sponsor had stopped paying her the equivalent of £800 a month and she was struggling .... As the conversation turned I could tell she was setting me up for the whole I need money routine , before she could mutter another word I said why would any guy sponsor a girl here and get no "fun" from it when he is back home, when he can save that money, come to pattaya and have a different girl every single day, she stopped in her tracks when she realised I'm not going to be a mug .
@@svenw.6918 I normally lose interest about 5 o'clock in the morning as I wave them off on their Moto taxi 😂😂 . It's Pattaya, I can't understand why anyone would put up with a girl for more than a day, never mind sponsor one for months on end. Too many beautiful options and never enough time 😁
I guess feeling lonely is a massive headache for so many guys out there. I mean you coming to Pattaya for holidays, drinking and having fun every single night meeting lots of girls. Probably you will fancy someone, then suddenly is time to go back home. Where quite often you feel bored, depressed and desperate to coming back to visit Pattaya. Is only logical that many guys will keep in touch with the love one sending money trying to keep the illusion a life. In my opinion it doesn’t have any sense at all. Totally waste of money. You want to believe that girl is just yours but I’m pretty sure if is a cute one probably she got lots and lots of sponsors. Is all about MONEY. Period..! I know for fact many girls working in the most popular a Go Go bars in Walking Street and some of them are making ridiculous tones of Thai bath mainly because of guys who are sending out money. Cheers Webby. Wicked Video as usual Mate. 🙏👍👏
I first went to Phuket as a 19yo in 88' and had lots of Thai bar girl "friends" . I used to write letters for them to their sponsors mainly European guys (no internet in those days) and each of them had an average of 5 sponsors. I wrote the same letter to all of them saying send money for English lessons and I will leave the bar. The girls loved me for helping them and I got lot's of fringe benefits 555
Come on be fair you can't blame him or anyone else for these guys killing themselves most are sad lonely guys back home anyway, but thank you for the message
Do you know welsh wyn he has a cool 😎 voice I'm aussie but I have a rough course voice like you. So if you're in a bar in march and you hear a aussie who sounds like you that's me😊 !
Sponsoring and ladies drinks, the only reasons why there are drink queens resulting in empty bars. One day the penny will finally drop for the sponsors and the drink queens.
5 seconds in , answering your question and after a long deliberation I'll have to answer no ,so the option would be no but all farrangs have previous ,that's why we were here ,they would be lying if stating they never had
@@welshboywebby Webby hello mate apologies 🙏 A bit short and sweet.. Great vid by the way..interesting I just feel everybody has there own storie regarding getting caught up in Sponsor that kind of crap bar girls so forth. I've a good friend who worked in Restaurant not a bar.. who was from the north. Village life like most? First time traveled her not me..who found herself not in a good place. Out of her depth comfort zone Mistreated by her employees as well other girls didn't fit in. Always locked out of her condo of a night 6 girls nowhere to sleep not nice situations a misfit bullied. Who had nothing!! Who found it very difficult had a real bad time found it difficult to adjust. Shameless actions by so called friends bullied her really. I spent quite abit of time with her as friends great kid good heart doing her best with what little she had. Which was Nothing!! Yet always wearing a smile. For me and time spent with great pleasure i helped get on her feet I got her out of there!! Helped her get her own accommodation bought her a Scotter 🛵 Something only in her dreams never ever had anything Very poor and extremely poor background. Her Scotter she's still got today from what was around 6yrs ago. Still to this day Calls it her beautiful Scotter. She now lives samui with new friends..ive made a small sacrifice which I'm happy to do as gives myself as much pleasure as the receiver and enjoy watching her flourish. Now clothed looks great instead of being the poor geek as she used to say she looked. Webby I send help out £100 a week done it for years standard practice.. I've got absolutely no issue with it. Yes I make sacrifices I could spend the weekend in the pub getting pissed up sniffing gear talking rubbish betting and all the shit that goes with the pub. £100 mate gives me great pleasure!! And means so much to somebody else is almost life changing to them a Salary!! Of course I'm not a fool yet gives them a platform an opportunity to live alittle. Or I can piss that £100 up in 4hrs with wankers. The pubs always here mate occasionally it's a tough gig meaning I could do with that extra monie but hey mate I'm still out having a great time. Over the years yes it has caused problems arguments between family members and friends Yet these are the same people who wouldn't give a pound to charity or as said piss on you if your were on fire as they stand there pissed up talking bollocks. Mate everybody has there own storie. Weather its giving it to the betting shop on a Saturday the drug dealer or the pub...the car finance you dont need I don't go without. Short and sweet Lol!!! 😂 Mate I enjoy your platform alot and can relate especially being the same age? I believe 51 were old ffs!! Webby take care Geezer 😎 Catch up 👆 Soon! ♥ 🇹🇭 🙏 Regards stay safe@!
The sponsor thing will never change you can tell people till your black and blue in the face they just don't listen till they've been taken for a ride then they listen bit late. And the drinks well that's just a route reason I don't buy them anymore ( ridiculous prices ) or BF again silly amounts no need to so many other options.
Interesting point about no chicks coming from Pattaya, I guess local families are better off. On a different subject, have you heard what it’s like at view talay 2?
We've all given a bit of money but we learn and understand the game. Some don't though and end up losing their bar. Think it's close by where you are. You're right, you'll never find love in Pattaya. It's money, money and more money. Just pay for it when you need it. Cheaper 😂
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My modus-operandi is telling the bargirls that I'M looking for a wealthy Thai woman to sponsor ME back in the UK. They soon clear off and let me watch the football in peace. 🤣🤣
HAhah
That's Gold 555
Just say your gay not interested in girls 👭 it works back home 🏡 😂 !
I’m going to try that
Like you Webby, I took a girl out of a bar, and it lasted 6 months. I got bored of the constant greed and demands, nothing was ever enough. A total waste of time and money. Never, ever again!
Mine lasted 7 weeks, hot 25 year old. Constant money pit, and then she hit me with it... " I want land, house, car in my Buriram village, if you can not no waste my time ".....big night on the drink with her and I had enough, I said " I cannot buy you land, house, car and live in the middle of nowhere "...next morning gone like the wind...😂.
It's 2024 and with some research on the internet, you would be an idiot to get into such a problem.
@@smcyfs9477 consider yourself lucky, some guys delude themselves. But, as a golden rule, don't invest anything more than you are prepared to lose.
Haha
Agree
The bar owners are not your friends. You are their customers. 😊
Yes they are
@@welshboywebby Good 👍. (+1)
Ive been to a bar on soi bukhao and bought a lady drink for a girl. Along comes a mamasan and asked me if i can buy her a drink too . I said to her ,are you going to sit with me then, she said no she is busy with her work but wants a drink so i told no because i have a nice girl here who is sitting with me now. Why would i buy her a drink anyway. Ive seen this happen a lot. The other scam is when you are sitting with a girl and she points out her best friend who hasnt had a drink all night . Time to move on.
The other one is the ‘birthday’ scam - it’s her birthday today
They have 3 or 4 birthdays every year
@welshboywebby every week, did you mean.
Cheers, mines a Lion Brown..
I look at my Health Insurance bill, then look at my Sponsor bill. Can't afford both, so bye bye Sponsor bill.
Hahah
Really enjoy your content, unlike >90% of other Pattaya/Thailand YT it's just raw truth , no bullshit.
Cheers mate
Spot on,you can tell mates not to do it but once the bird gets her hooks into you it's hopeless,the birds are pros in more ways than 1 and can play us farangs like a violin.Cheers
That they can
Considering what it costs some blokes back home when the missus buggers off with her gym instructor & ends up with the house etc, Thailand is an absolute bargain!!
It happened to my friend he sent his misses to the gym and she left him for the trainer
Too right Webby. These girls are off their heads. I have also done the sponsorship thing for a little bit but the 3 I helped out turned out to be lying , lazy and untrustworthy. Gave them all the benefit of doubt. They all showed their true colours. This was at the end of covid up until early this year. Never again ever. I am not an idiot with my hard earned money and now Im tighter than a ducks arse! Back in 3 weeks . I will buy you a drink though Webby cos ur pure fing class. See u soon.
Hahaah cheers mate
Us guys need to sharpen up and remember we are the ones who hold all the cards 😊
100% because its not like that at the moment that I can tell you
Correct, WE are the price. Many guys forget that 😅
Watch a buzzin livestream sponsor's in waiting..... there just simps at the moment 😂
Hahaha your Ok
my thoughts also , I never have and never will send money. ... I live on my own = no dramas. short time for me different one each time
Cheers
I have once sponsored a girl. For me I did not feel scammed, like so many say. fpr 2 years I sponsored her between 10-20000 baht . She moved back home and stayed with her family inher rural village. and it was fine for a few years.
But honostly, the reson I stopped was that I didn't want to marry her.
And I feel like marriage shoud be the standard, if you want to sponsor a girl or not.
And so with that I say, sponsoring a girl is a serious commitment. Don't just throw your money a way for a bit of fun.
Thanks for sharing
I just came across your videos, and Im struck with your honesty and straight forward approach. Im an expat here for many years, with Thai gf that I sponsored for 15 years already. I have no regrets and I will soldier on with her.
Thank you for the message mate
Never ever sponsor! Lady drinks! I politely say NO! Unless i WANT to 😅😅😅
Hahaah
I spoil them when I’m there, No sponsoring when I go home, when I come back they come out the bar to greet me open arms, because I’m a handsome man
We are all handsome men
@@welshboywebby maybe so but I’m the best lover she’s ever had by far
@@Brad.whatthewe are all the best lovers she's ever had
She said she liked me alot!! Said I was different from other guys 😊
she told me i was the only one that made her look like a plasterers radio 😂
Fellas, repeat after me: Don't. Bring. Your. Heart. To. Pattaya.
That is Rule #1 of Pattaya. If you follow this rule you won't have to worry about sponsorship.
Great message
Thai's always try it on lol. Sneaky & cheeky
Most are
NOT you're girl ...just your turn ......NOW REPEAT AFTER ME ...😂
Hahaha 😆
NEVER become a sponsor. With 30+ visits and more than 100 “acquaintance” experiences, I agree with you 100%.
There are also positive aspects to buying another girl a drink. My lady's friend hasn't had any clients for 3 days due to an eye infection. To this day she is grateful to me for the drink I gave her, she doesn't forget it, and every time I come into the bar I am enthusiastically greeted and hugged because I helped her in a difficult situation. Certainly an exception, but positive events should also be mentioned.
Cheers
I think some men forget that in a lot of cases they are using the bar girl too , so its not all one sided . Life is tough for many Thais and tougher if the have a regular job outside the bar ..
Yeah I get that and thanks for sharing
even the lady drinks arent real drinks they are empty beer bottles filled with water with the tops put back on,ive heard this from an ex bar manager,watch them they take your beer from a seperate part of the fridge to the beer they give the bar girl ,so shes only drinking water anyway 😂
Love the honesty! You have a new subscriber here.
Thank you mate
You’re bang on mate I’ve got sick of it these days , and you’re right some bars don’t let up with it , bring back the old times
I loved the old times
You got the well educated middle class girls too. I hooked up with a local high school teacher for a time, and a high ranking government official. There all bloody skint.. Its the live for now mentality, and heavy burden to support family.
Agree they are all skint
Hands up who hasn’t done it..?
The reality check can be truly sobering. Love your honesty.
Lady drinks, you are setting yourself up for trouble. I’m married and drink regularly in a decent bar. We often buy certain girls a drink, I often play pool with one girl. There are often clique’s, bitchiness, and jealousy issues going on which you may be completely unaware of. Which can erupt on you abruptly and it gets really ugly. You think you are doing the right thing, in reality you are merely inviting grief. Listen to what this bloke has to say…
Thanks for sharing 👍
Hi mate, if guys think they are the only sponser then they are nuts. I know girls in Pattaya that have 4 or 5 sposors and even the ugly ones have sponsors lol As for the lady drinks, it's the Thai (female) owners that tell the staff to get as many lady drinks as they can. When I was there, as soon as they asked for a LD I would ask for the check bin. Missing Pattaya. Keep up the good work. Cheers
Thanks for sharing
Yes we all make mistakes but for myself my first time in Pattaya met a freelancer spent a couple nights with her continue to talk on the phone she hinted having no customers and I'm like thinking to myself sucks to be you but I am not going to even mention about sending money to help regardless I have a relationship with my money I don't give it freely but I would not get stuck into that trap I really feel sorry for the men that do this just go on holiday take it for what it is and you will go home Happy just remember the 3-day rule and for some one day I fit in that category LOL
Thanks for sharing
you've been here 14 years ,I've been here another 8 ,22years and you should know don't take 'lady' to bar ,they have them already. a "lady" in bar . It's like taking a can of lager bought in the off license into your local
I would imagine the wage is FA and there income is dependent on generous farrang buying lady drink
Asking the question "how long have you been working here" ,I guess it was in English ,so an uneducated (most probably) young Thai can converse in a foreign language
I speak pigeon Thai ,after all these years . I know you're Welsh but they are poor and the odd tip won't break the bank
I'm 71 ,from London ,how come you retired so early ?
No all these girls are skint that's for sure, a lady drink needs to be earned not just expected that the problem with pattaya now, I retired early through hard work
With all the information technology there's no excuses, I mean back in the days of letters, maybe fall for it, keep pushing Webby
Cheers mate 👍
Great rant. Totally get the idea of lady drinks. Did it a few months ago in Wonderland in Hua Hin. Had no intention of taking the young woman out of the bar. She was sitting next to me and playing on her phone. Stung me for four - but really didn't mind - I snuck out when she went to the hongnam.
Thanks for sharing
why buy 4 drinks if u had no intention of taking her out the bar? Its mugs like you that Webby is talking about lol
@@dixienormus7452 Fair call - I was guilted into by a mate I was with - the woman didn't actually ask for a single drink!!
Unless you have bucket loads of money to throw away, don't get serious with a bar girl. And if you go home and send them money to stop working in bars wake up, they usually keep working, often with at least several other suckers sending them money. Just money down the drain.
Thanks for sharing 👍
i lived in Phuket until july 2018, married too. i still come back twice a year (apart from covid) , like your content, ex Glasgow been in Sydney most of my life , we held out in the union at the weekend. I sponsored two families during covid and still sponisor one family. The only part of thailand I ahve not been to is the deep south or far north. Misconception , Isan is poor , thats crap, I now many people from there and I played in a touch union comp Jan 5 near Maha Sarakham, they were al rich Thais or in the police and army, I have been to Isan many times. The poor areas are parts of Krbi proince in the highland , southerm Nakhon Si Thammatart , Trang , and Tak near the border in central thailand clsoe to Burma
Thanks for sharing
Well said Webby
Cheers
They are like vultures when it comes to lady drinks or money 555
I'm not going to buy another lady girl ever
i just start the conversation by telling them porkies about how ive just found a great condo for 4500 baht a month and it usually puts them off the scent 😂
What ever advice you tell people they wont listen until they have experienced being a sponsor and cost them alot of money before they learn. But some do it time and time again and will never learn them self's.
Agree 👍
Unless she can run a 10-yard split in less than 1.5 seconds no girl is worth sponsoring.
Agree
I think you explain the sponsorship very well, and to be fair these girls are in a terrible fix a lot of the time. If you go holiday in Pattaya you are probably after a good time with some girls, and in that case maybe lady drinks are fair, especially as it gives you a chance to check out the deal you might make. It's a business!
As for the bar, well they have overheads and salaries to pay, and they are not a charity so need to make a living too. Especially during the high season, since the rest of the year is probably not great business. Stay in control and don't get bullied, you can always walk away and use another bar. Even in UK if there's a confrontation it's best to leave and go somewhere else.
What happened in boys town video? Did you just bail out because you can't stand to think about the going's on? If so I'm with you on that one. 97% are either boy or girl, the rest can do what they like, just don't shove it down my throat. It's one of the things wrong here in UK, I'm not against them, just keep it private, pretty much how the 97% do.
Good video, well balanced talk, maybe cut the working girls a bit of slack because it's a rum trade, and try not to get scammed.
Thank you so much for a great message, I honestly am on the bar girls side its the bloody bar owner not telling them what the drink is for
It is not just bargirls that try to scam you for money, I left Pattaya yesterday and the pretty receptionist in the hotel who continously flirted with me everytime I met her asked me to lend her 4000 baht and she promised to pay me back when I return in a couple of months.... I wonder how many Jai Dee hotel guests has she conned into giving her money
Tell me about it
They are all in the game
🤣@@Rodderz1
I think it's the same for most men who go there on holiday , they have spending money and they get home , they send money thinking they are helping because they get buttons for pay and think they can spare some money plus the girls need the money more than the men do , so they send money , but some men send too much money a month like the 2 , you spoke about who was with the same girl
thanks for sharing
You so rite webby mate was told you was in palmys other nite bar keep up with the great videos 😁
Was in there lastnight
So many Simps come to Pattaya the girls know throw 3 darts and at least one will hit the bulls eye.
Been coming 34 years and the place for me now is about relaxation, far better places in the world with far better looking women if it’s sex you want and at lower,l price, eg Brazil 🇧🇷
thanks for sharing
What a lot of the men that sponsor these women dont realize is that many of these women are making more money than they are ,When they get home they need to get out of the holiday mindset and start saving there money for next time they go on holiday.
Agree some or these girls are having crazy money for nothing
Why would you even bother? You say your smart, but really, your caught up in it. Who cares about them???
What I'm not caught up in anything I'm loving my life, I keep saying the same thing on here I make entertainment videos I edit what I want to put out
Thx for honest vdo as usual…just wish some of these simps & mugs out there watched n listened too….the bars girls n GoGo girls or LBs only there for the money…not love!! They’re becoming more blatant too asking for lady drinks wen your with your friend. If your going to have gf there make sure she has a proper job n salary and your comfortable together….they you may have a chance…forget the bar girls as only their for fun n money!!
Thanks for sharing mate
Well done Webby.
Starting burn your boxer shorts movement.
The ladies are to aggresive now for money.
Cheers
Once you " live" here, the girls find out very fast and you will get a lot less attention because you know how it works here😊
Just tell the girls it's your first week in Pattaya and enjoy the madness😂
I go out regularly with my girl to play pool in rompho when i'm in Jomtien and me buying a Lady drink for another girl would be a big no go 😅
We have a couple of bars we play at because they know us for a long time and don't bother us, always happy to see us.
So true
With the greatest respect....you gotta be a bit of a mug to do that.
Totally agree
That's a great shirt. What team is it?
Buriram united cost 280 baht that was with the shorts, that's about £7
Your a sponsor if you take them out of the bar to live with you, you still have to give them money, feed them,etc, theres no difference, and they still got othetes sending them money, if you think your not there sponsor think again,
I don't see it they way at all, but j welcome your thoughts, I was married 20 years in the UK, the first 10 she don't earn anything so does that make her me sponsor
it depends what you have if you from a first world country with strong currency and good pension and properties ( well off ) and alone it might be worth while only if she puts in effort , if you can see her face to face , spend time with her and she makes you feel special , BUT if you don't have anything and need to save or live month to month and need to budget for the future its a definite no go.
Thanks for sharing
Yup you’re definitely sponsorship material,these predators would be all over over you like a rash!
Man they will smell u arriving at the airport 😂😂😂
Would you sponsor a prostitute in your home country if you were well off? Didnt think so lol
A ladydrink is for their time, if you don't want their time why would you buy them a drink :D
Mate they honestly don't see that anymore.
Peter From Thailand bound shall be using your Story soon saying it has been sent to him.
Hahaah
@@welshboywebby You need to watch him, saying he would have to be Einstein to be able to make such stories up when i sent him my thoughts.He even offers one to one advice if you pay him..WTF
Or "everything pattaya": His "hairdresser" doesn't exists, he makes the stories up himself.
@@jermaines.9275 Yes and their is a captive audience for the rubbish also offers a one to one talk for advice if you pay him..Bizzare
Reading the comments!!
Many situations.
Full-time living in pattaya
Part time living pattaya
Or Holiday millionaire
You know the score
If your not prepared to get a girl a drink!! Dont go in lady bars.
Simple why do you go in there!!
Free eye candy?
Plenty more bars without?
Crazy 😅 Thats not aiming at anybody personally yet the hassle does not amount to a quite drink 🍻
Its all a Scam!! ££££
Men in bars = £££
Girls in bars = £££
Your missing the point not one person has said they don't want to if you get service, they can't just take a drink for nothing, it's only been like this since everything opened back, as for eye candy what eye candy most of the woman are well below a 4
@@welshboywebby Webby mate you can't call the girls a 4 or rough!! Look at the shit they have to put up with middle aged out of shape fat smelly pissed up geezers seeking a lady. Yet a 4 is all they would get at home? If there lucky 🍀 Yes it may seem its gone downhill but the reality is we have seen it all before!! We're getting older the bar scene is changing. Girls for a longtime now with phones 📱 to look for dates or to engage there time!! Instead of actually working the bar looking there best!! The point is They don't give a fuck. The owners of the bar are to blame!! No disapline? And the new breed this younger generation of bar girl hasn't a clue how it works.
The old saying believing every Farang has a tank of monie a suitcase.
@@welshboywebby Fuck knows Lol!! 😂 Forger it... Times are changing. Yes bad service... But I'd make my stand as soon as I went in a bar. Mate there kids at the end of the day no fucking disapline? A different animal.
So you won’t buy a lady drink but you want someone to send you money as a sponsor! !!!
Are you serious with that comment
If you dont sponsor girls in your home country why do it overseas.
Agree
If you dont have game to find a good girl in a country of 70 million people, then its probably more on you. (You, as in a general term)
Cheers
A server girl i know in Sailor bar has 4 Sponsors ,She is a pleasent girl but no way more than a 2/10 but to be fair i say good luck to her its the Dopey blokes who keep sending money perhaps they believe she is their girl friend but it is bizzare.
It is strange
@@welshboywebby She had no worries in telling me,seemed genuine and very relaxed with the Situation...Good luck to her ,i have known her 2 years and never once asks for a drink btf i sometimes buy her one but at my farang cost not girly drink cost.
@@Rodderz1 Yes the guys are goons,thinking they have gfs or God knows what....
One day will tell you my story.but not on here.
Look forward to it
You should have bought a buffalo to ride around town instead of a scooter, Webster. That way, when the Isan family buffalo inevitably gets sick, you can just ride your buffalo up there to lend a helping hand. I guess you could buy your buffalo a bus ticket to Isan, but, really, that's just more baht down the drain. Jesus, what happens if your buffalo falls in love while in Isan? Total shitshow.
What ? I don't get any of that message
@@welshboywebby Just a joke. Nothing serious.
i would not sponsor a bar girl with my favourite meat pie, you got to be a complete jerk to do so
Loads put there
Sad people doing it no harm treating girls well while your there but sending money is for mugs
True
Sponsor what are they a football team? When I sponsor a girl, ill buy her some tshirts with my name on it. haha joking. Sponsored by Tomato Brush line...
Hahaha 😆
Pattaya soi simp
Haha
How u get on boy town how you’re hole 🕳️ only gay in village
Hhaha I was a lot smaller then before a load of clubs were closed down
@@welshboywebby enjoy mate see in April
£50 a week. Last of the big spenders 😂 Some of these girls are earning a fortune. I was talking to a girl last night in Buakhow - she is on 10k salary for 10 days. After 60 drinks she gets 60 baht a drink. She is 22 and an absolute stunner and gets about 30 drinks a day. So eight days she’ll earn 10k plus about another 14k + in drinks. She has to have two barfines at 1200 per 10 days - which she pays herself. So in a month she is probably earning 60k a month plus. Before she worked as a receptionist on 12k a month.
Hahaah what's £50 a week
@@welshboywebbyyour sponsorship 😉
Second last trip I had a conversation with one of my bar fines and she was telling me her sponsor had stopped paying her the equivalent of £800 a month and she was struggling .... As the conversation turned I could tell she was setting me up for the whole I need money routine , before she could mutter another word I said why would any guy sponsor a girl here and get no "fun" from it when he is back home, when he can save that money, come to pattaya and have a different girl every single day, she stopped in her tracks when she realised I'm not going to be a mug .
Awesome mate
Once they figure out the scamming will not work , you become not interesting anymore 😂
@@svenw.6918 I normally lose interest about 5 o'clock in the morning as I wave them off on their Moto taxi 😂😂 . It's Pattaya, I can't understand why anyone would put up with a girl for more than a day, never mind sponsor one for months on end.
Too many beautiful options and never enough time 😁
Youuuuu butterfly 😂😂
@@E_O_S_ nahhhh, I'm a helicopter 😂
Sponsorship.. Mugs game.
It is mate and it's crazy how many men are doing it
I guess feeling lonely is a massive headache for so many guys out there. I mean you coming to Pattaya for holidays, drinking and having fun every single night meeting lots of girls. Probably you will fancy someone, then suddenly is time to go back home. Where quite often you feel bored, depressed and desperate to coming back to visit Pattaya. Is only logical that many guys will keep in touch with the love one sending money trying to keep the illusion a life. In my opinion it doesn’t have any sense at all. Totally waste of money. You want to believe that girl is just yours but I’m pretty sure if is a cute one probably she got lots and lots of sponsors. Is all about MONEY. Period..! I know for fact many girls working in the most popular a Go Go bars in Walking Street and some of them are making ridiculous tones of Thai bath mainly because of guys who are sending out money. Cheers Webby. Wicked Video as usual Mate. 🙏👍👏
That's the best message I've ever had, thank you
The trouble is these new bar owners are pimping these women.
I have been going to pattaya for 17 years and buying drinks is getting worse.
Thanks for sharing
Webby weve all done it mate until we know the score.the best teacher in life is your last mistake.
Awesome mate, just some don't learn
Even when they go back to villages they have thai boyfriends that's just the way it is mate,I always bin the sim card at airport when I'm going home.
I first went to Phuket as a 19yo in 88' and had lots of Thai bar girl "friends" . I used to write letters for them to their sponsors mainly European guys (no internet in those days) and each of them had an average of 5 sponsors. I wrote the same letter to all of them saying send money for English lessons and I will leave the bar. The girls loved me for helping them and I got lot's of fringe benefits 555
Come on be fair you can't blame him or anyone else for these guys killing themselves most are sad lonely guys back home anyway, but thank you for the message
Thanks for sharing
Sponsoring isn't really any different to the simps who pay for onlyfans
I was talking to a girl 2 nights ago who I was seeing, bloody hell the money they get is crazy
Do you know welsh wyn he has a cool 😎 voice I'm aussie but I have a rough course voice like you. So if you're in a bar in march and you hear a aussie who sounds like you that's me😊 !
I'll look put for you lol
Sponsoring and ladies drinks, the only reasons why there are drink queens resulting in empty bars. One day the penny will finally drop for the sponsors and the drink queens.
We will see
5 seconds in , answering your question and after a long deliberation I'll have to answer no ,so the option would be no but all farrangs have previous ,that's why we were here ,they would be lying if stating they never had
Thanks for sharing
Also it has to be said to those who seek Love with a hotty half their age; Look in the mirror.
That doesn't matter at all in Thailand, but i know what you mean
A fool and his money are soon departed. :) Thanks for the video.
Agree mate
£100 a week western 4k Baht issan not a bar girl.
Can you explain mate I honestly don't understand what your trying to say cheers
@@welshboywebby Webby hello mate apologies 🙏 A bit short and sweet.. Great vid by the way..interesting I just feel everybody has there own storie regarding getting caught up in Sponsor that kind of crap bar girls so forth. I've a good friend who worked in Restaurant not a bar.. who was from the north. Village life like most? First time traveled her not me..who found herself not in a good place. Out of her depth comfort zone Mistreated by her employees as well other girls didn't fit in. Always locked out of her condo of a night 6 girls nowhere to sleep not nice situations a misfit bullied. Who had nothing!! Who found it very difficult had a real bad time found it difficult to adjust. Shameless actions by so called friends bullied her really. I spent quite abit of time with her as friends great kid good heart doing her best with what little she had. Which was Nothing!! Yet always wearing a smile. For me and time spent with great pleasure i helped get on her feet I got her out of there!! Helped her get her own accommodation bought her a Scotter 🛵 Something only in her dreams never ever had anything Very poor and extremely poor background. Her Scotter she's still got today from what was around 6yrs ago. Still to this day Calls it her beautiful Scotter. She now lives samui with new friends..ive made a small sacrifice which I'm happy to do as gives myself as much pleasure as the receiver and enjoy watching her flourish. Now clothed looks great instead of being the poor geek as she used to say she looked. Webby I send help out £100 a week done it for years standard practice.. I've got absolutely no issue with it. Yes I make sacrifices I could spend the weekend in the pub getting pissed up sniffing gear talking rubbish betting and all the shit that goes with the pub. £100 mate gives me great pleasure!! And means so much to somebody else is almost life changing to them a Salary!! Of course I'm not a fool yet gives them a platform an opportunity to live alittle. Or I can piss that £100 up in 4hrs with wankers. The pubs always here mate occasionally it's a tough gig meaning I could do with that extra monie but hey mate I'm still out having a great time. Over the years yes it has caused problems arguments between family members and friends Yet these are the same people who wouldn't give a pound to charity or as said piss on you if your were on fire as they stand there pissed up talking bollocks. Mate everybody has there own storie. Weather its giving it to the betting shop on a Saturday the drug dealer or the pub...the car finance you dont need I don't go without. Short and sweet Lol!!! 😂 Mate I enjoy your platform alot and can relate especially being the same age? I believe 51 were old ffs!! Webby take care Geezer 😎 Catch up 👆 Soon! ♥ 🇹🇭 🙏 Regards stay safe@!
The sponsor thing will never change you can tell people till your black and blue in the face they just don't listen till they've been taken for a ride then they listen bit late. And the drinks well that's just a route reason I don't buy them anymore ( ridiculous prices ) or BF again silly amounts no need to so many other options.
Thanks for sharing
Just started watching your TH-cam videos and already hooked. David in Scotland
Cheers mate 👍
Interesting point about no chicks coming from Pattaya, I guess local families are better off. On a different subject, have you heard what it’s like at view talay 2?
I was in view talay 5 the other day, big rooms amazing views , haven't been in view talay 2 sorry
Skipped to the last 4 mins. Walk around and show us some sights when making thesevideos. Kind of boring just looking at tbe sky
Sorry mate its not going to happen
I live here now and advise Pay Only for what's in front of you; girl, beer or pizza lol
Hahaha
Never understood why people would send money to bar girls.
You tell me mate, crazy 🤪
I think its a great idea being a sponsor as long as its not my money 😂😂😂
Hahaah I love it 😀
Back in the day it was all about money now its all about more money 💰 cheers chok dee
Awesome message
Why the Fuck would you ?????? Get real 🤔
Haha
100% Steve, lady drinks i caught myself on about that
cheers
UK punters tend to be the main sponsors of these girls 😭
Everyone is sending these days from all over the world
been going to pattaya for around 18 years ,stopped buying ladydrinks on my 3rd trip
be back in July for 3 weeks cant wait
Bet your counting the days down
You must be popular 😂
👍🏼
Love to see you in Pattaya for a drink webby a working class Geordie & welshman we would put the world to right 😂😂🍻🍻
Hope so mate
@@welshboywebby 👍👍🍻🍻
We've all given a bit of money but we learn and understand the game. Some don't though and end up losing their bar. Think it's close by where you are.
You're right, you'll never find love in Pattaya. It's money, money and more money. Just pay for it when you need it. Cheaper 😂
Hahaha
Brian the Losser, heeeee
A Sucker fella.
Lost the bar and a Lot More....