Easy way to spot a covert narcissist: They always blame everybody in narcissism and ...if you calmly observe - you will notice every accusation is based on the problem that their interests are not in the highest position. Everyone who does not understand that they are the centre of universe will be punishd
I have understood in my fifties that my mother is a vulnerable victim narcissist and her power over me has been destroyed in small steps over a year or so. Every time she has lost one of her ways to control me she has doubled down and upped the ante. The latest loss was the power of her trying to guilt trip me by sounding miserable - sorry but I don't care anymore - and she sensed the change right away as she always does. This was such a huge loss that the next day she called claiming that her blood pressure was 200/110 and I thought here we go, I had been waiting for the medical blackmail to begin. I promptly called the energency room, she did not want to go of course. Turns out her blood pressure was 160/84 and she was absolutely seething when the doctor doubled her blood pressure medication. Clearly this was not at all what she had in mind when she called me. Well momma dearest If you want to play this game it's an emergency room visit every time. Which is also the right thing to do, because 160/80 really is too much.
That's why I keep my secrets to myself. He will drag it out and use it against you. Oh and I have just been reminded they make you responsible for them not being able to find their things and yell and scream at you for not paying attention to whatever they lost.
Emulating my speech caused her to tone down the screaming but it was changing me. I let it happen. She was on a tyrade and working around the house in California. Her and her mother would get up and go and like ‘keep going. I can hear you.’ Crazy making. Once the x said, ‘ Hasta la vista, baby!’ I could go on, Kenny. The 35 years, r peak years. I am destroyed but not defeated. I’m grateful for your work here.
No, you are! No, you are! No, you are! I know I am, but what are you? I am rubber, you are glue, and everything you say bounces off of me and sticks to you! Lol
True Avoid them... Once you know, do not doubt, regardless how incredibly convincing they may be. Their methodology at keeping control is cruel and deeply wounding.
Would you please do another video like this explaining they power play technique and the differences on how its deployed between different types of relationships?
Here’s how I know this. I’m in probate with a former sibling. I have provided them with personal property items they requested. However, I’ve become aware that they have not even looked through those things. They don’t care about the things. The purpose of the things, is to try to hold something over me. I don’t much care, because I continue doing what I’m doing, while they sit there, falsely satisfied with fake control.
Oh my gosh friend!! You have literally just described the last two years of my life!! My sibling was given a 30 day time frame to come and claim my folks personal affects that she deemed "Hers". Her attorney, the estate attorney, me and she ALL agreed that she would get paid for her half of my folks house on the condition that within 30 days from the date of that agreement/money transfer meeting, she would remove "her" things. Period. Well 30 days came and she never showed, never called, never made any attempt to contact me or anyone else for that matter. On day 31 I called the estate attorney and he advised me to give her 10 more days!! So i did...then 20 days passed,, 30 days, 40, 50, 60 and she never showed up. So i dispensed with many of the things because I knew she was playing games. Now, 5 months later i am getting text messages informing me that I am withholding her things and that if i do not present them to her I will end up in court!! My attitude at this point- Eff off. We had a contract, she failed to uphold her end I owe her absolutely NOTHING at this point. God I am so angry ugh!!! Thanks for letting me vent!
Thank you so much because now understand.True words n can identify being married for over 21yrs.He still never gives up.Always looking for loopholes yet ahead of him in silence.They never give up.
The word twisting! Round and round. Oh man "Questioning who we are". That is the worst part and wounds deeply amd take a while depending on how long you spent to "see clearly" its almost like they put a spell of fog over you. Be careful out there!
My husband constantly uses power control methods & manipulations, he just enjoys getting a rise (a reaction) from me. Kinda does it just to see if I’m on ball. Treats it, like it’s funny or something, not sure if it’s truly malicious, but I’m sure he does it to see if he can get away with it, kinda like a cheeky tease. But for me, it can get tiring, because what can start off as tease can get out of hand easily. Or he just doesn’t know that from the receiving end, it just starts getting boring and tiring being the but-joke of his jokes.
Exhausting! Does he support you? Do you have healthy intimacy that satisfies you ( physical and emotional) Are you free to pursue your own interests? How does he react if you tell him you are tired/hurt by the teasing?
She will bring up stuff from 7, 8 years ago when I was 18 and paint my picture as a criminal because I was lost in the streets. I changed myself and my life but that's just one thing she'll use against me. You gotta play it cool and save money then leave
I allowed them to manipulate me at 1st cause I showed unconditional love, and gave them opportunity every time they made mistakes out of love and trying to genuinely help! But I watched my brother get absolutely destroyed by his ex wife who I told him NOT TO MERRY! And she never submitted or apologized or anything....they are 💯 all in on them. I watched her disrespect my parents, my mom (grandma) trying to show granddaughter love.....but literally getting yelled at and disrespected in criminal ways. It was hard cause I did see her unconditional love in very beginning but once I figured her out it wqs easy to handle them....its just that God askednmento more patient and supportive
They told me I'm a Narcisse. I studied what that means. I discovered that they called me evil 😈. Pure emotional abuse. I'm traumatized by the people I love for 30 years...😂
How in the world do they become registered nurses who work with mentally vulnerable inpatient's in a hospital setting?????? HOW HOW HOW??!! It is absolutely INSANE and DEMONIC
Find out the narcissist is cheating, so they say you're cheating on them or else you would be more angry at finding out they're cheating. Now you're defending yourself and trying to convince them you are not cheating so they can't use that as an excuse to cheat on you.
so no contact is really the only way? my older half sister really has it out for me, like she's not right in the head i feel. She's dangerous, and has been gaslighting me and scapegoating me for years, to the point of basically caused my dad a stroke or some sort of breakdown from screaming at him and needling him to the point of him committing suicide and he was my mom with alzheimer's caregiver. She wont acknowledge my mom's limitations and told my mom i stole all her money and had my poa revoked and had to go to attorneys and spent my moms money ( $50k )unknowingly to get it put back. she still sends my daughter birthday and christmas gifts, and it feels like a horse head. i'm no contact as of last may, snd i'm tired of people telling me to "just talk to her".
Stand your ground my friend!! DO NOT let anyone tell you what to do especially when it comes to your experiences with that psycho lunatic. Refuse the cards and gifts, remain no contact and ensure your daughter's safety in every environment she is in without your presence. I know its scary but these people are positively unpredictable and your daughter is a prime target for her to get to you. I was my momma's POA too, after my RN sister had my dementia riddled father placed in a behavioral mental unit in the local hospital where they conveniently and efficiently killed him within two weeks. Literally, no lie, they stuck him in a room to die. When I went to the hospital to take him out they were going to call the sherrif's dept on me and I said Bring it, and get an attorney because you have not heard the last from me you Killers! It was during the c19-pay for play more money for more dead ppl hospital payoff. I blame her for my father's untimely and cruel death and it takes everything in me with God's help to keep my rage under control so I don't do something stupid to her. I pray for God's grace and protection every single day. I will pray for you friend. God Bless you
@@Manyfires_BurningBrightly i'm so sorry to hear that you went through all of that but thank you for sharing your experience and what a terrible thing to have to ever encounter. It's heartbreaking how many people have similar experiences when there's this toxic family dynamic. It's literally taken over my whole life and I'm trying to figure out what I'm supposed to be learning from it and how to get stronger and protect myself and my family. It's not hard, but I know we will survive and get through it and hopefully heal it.
@@goodpony1971 I was literally blindsided when the reality finally hit me about five months after my folks had passed. It was like my entire world had been viciously ripped and shredded then tossed to the winds. My big sister...my only sibling who's approval and love I had spent my entire life trying to obtain, in capable of being the "big sister" everyone else in my family with daughters had lots of. My own mom and her three sisters were inseparable and I often questioned why my relationship with sis was anything but that. I blamed myself,, all of my life I wasn't good enough...and she promoted my feelings of inadequacy.. but because i loved her because she was my sister i was blind to the manipulation and terror hidden behind her "golden child" exterior. UGH!! The real kicker for me, I am a trained behavioral specialist with BS degree in clinical psychology and a Master's degree in community counseling...and i NEVER picked up on it!! When reality hit me I cried for at least a month, couldn't eat, sleep or function very well at all. And then I got angry...righteous anger that gave me strength to put an end to her abuse and tyranny in my life. I lost my only son to her lies, every aunt uncle and cousin who( prior to my folks dying) assured me of their support and availability to help me cope with both folks dying within a month of each other.. yeah just empty promises because my momma's body wasn't even cold when sister began her trash campaign against me with every member of the family who would listen to her....Its hard at first, mainly just accepting the illusion of your family and history...but when you honor yourself- your needs, your limits, your boundaries to protect yourself from further abuse- everyday is better. I don't miss those people anymore...not a bit because they never truly loved me to begin with. and i'm okay with that. I have found the youtube channel @KrisReese to be very helpful in my healing journey. I know you will get through this, and you will be a very strong force to behold!❤🙏
Dead on the money. I know at least three of them, but I haven't seen a-one of them since 2022. Life has been peaceful ever since. Don't bother calling either, guys. Enough is enough.
They work so hard to mess things up when everyone could be working towards a common good. They're so extinctionist it's worse than "it sucks to be around" . They leave you like Brad Pitt at the end of Se7en it's worse than just "Jack's wasted life"...
Oh yeah this is what they do twist the words and gaslight and I'm sticking to my you know honestly and make sure that they take accountability but they don't but I know that in my heart that I'm going to be take and I heard what they said
I even snapped a picture of it and sent it to everyone last night to prove this is happening and NOT A WORD ABOUT IT FROM ANYONE. Woke up to an insulting text by a daughter instead. Nothing said about the picture of my bank card in my texting bar. Or keyboard. Total weirdness and a little scary. Last night it felt super scary on the dark unpopulated streetm
Stay safe and vigilant darlin. If you have a trusted friend who can stay with you ask them to. Document everything- I mean everything, times dates, texts, voicemails etc any attempts of contact with you. Write it all down, screen shot messages and keep them in a file separate from your phone if you can. The documentation will be so very helpful for you if/when you may need to involve law enforcement. The response you got after "outting" the bad behavior doesn't surprise me. Most support people in your orbit have already been well gaslit by this demonic monster. Don't dwell on it, chuck it and them aside and focus on you. If they want to believe lies and absolute insanity that's on them and they obviously didn't care that much about you to begin with. I'm sorry, I know it sounds cruel but its the truth. I discovered just how "much"lol my extended family really cared about me, not a damn bit. They are all more consumed with keeping the "norm" with my abusive sister and not ruffling any feathers. Eff them. They can have her. My life is my own and I am finally becoming happy on a regular basis. God bless you!
Please get counselling support from womens domestic violence support or whatever is available. Vulnerable people can go into psychosis from this kind of this toxic relationships. It will take hard work to untangle things. You do deserve love and safety, but they are not caring about you. You dont have to play their game. And i wouldnt tell them you are having counselling, they will likely use that to intensify abuse.
It's pure evil.... it's scary
Wait…they’ve infiltrated religions
they are IGLY AND TOXIC! beware
Absolutely, you nailed it
Easy way to spot a covert narcissist:
They always blame everybody in narcissism and ...if you calmly observe - you will notice every accusation is based on the problem that their interests are not in the highest position.
Everyone who does not understand that they are the centre of universe will be punishd
"Every engagement with them is about extracting something from you." Going no contact is the only way to deal with what has happened to you.
Yup
spot on... you'll begin to feel as though you are losing your own mind from all of the gaslighting
That's EXACTLY what they hope for. You doubt yourself, so you NEVER doubt them. You feel crazy and they get off on their contol.
That's why Narc told me " I enjoy confusing others"
They don't care unless they feel slighted in some way... then suddenly they care a lot. Nothing but games, lies, manipulation and abuse.
Definitely a SPIRITUAL component to this
It’s exhausting
so exhausting my god😢
Game's 🔪mind control, power, control and they ❤to use people too.
The guilt trips, twisting your words & always misunderstanding what you're trying to convey.
Thats so true they don't have the ability to care. They watch movie and mimic the actors
Yes speak dialogues and act like those actors. They're good at mirroring. Hollow empty inside.
All while being our best friends
As the only daughter, I went through this.
Never treated like a little human. The scars I carry show the craziness I endured
Me too
I pray that God heals all your wounds and frees you from the pain of your past❤
I have understood in my fifties that my mother is a vulnerable victim narcissist and her power over me has been destroyed in small steps over a year or so. Every time she has lost one of her ways to control me she has doubled down and upped the ante. The latest loss was the power of her trying to guilt trip me by sounding miserable - sorry but I don't care anymore - and she sensed the change right away as she always does. This was such a huge loss that the next day she called claiming that her blood pressure was 200/110 and I thought here we go, I had been waiting for the medical blackmail to begin. I promptly called the energency room, she did not want to go of course. Turns out her blood pressure was 160/84 and she was absolutely seething when the doctor doubled her blood pressure medication. Clearly this was not at all what she had in mind when she called me. Well momma dearest If you want to play this game it's an emergency room visit every time. Which is also the right thing to do, because 160/80 really is too much.
Wow you did good. You should be proud of yourself! I am lol.
Getting the silent treatment every time id talk to another person was wild! I couldn't understand because u never met someone so manipulative
Thank you I keep trying to present my pain and he flips it on me every time
That's why I keep my secrets to myself. He will drag it out and use it against you. Oh and I have just been reminded they make you responsible for them not being able to find their things and yell and scream at you for not paying attention to whatever they lost.
So true been there done that!
Thank you so much for responding.
They just don't "KNOW HOW TO" care!
Take the high road and walk away. The longer karma waits, the harder it hits.
I know for a fact Miss Karma is going to give HIM a long visit without a 💋🫣
Ridiculing you in front of their friends then saying "can't you take a joke"
Oh how fun that was!!!!! I'm getting a divorce but I'm fearful
The best thing to do when divorcing a narcissist is to go completely No Contact. Have your attorney handle everything.
Perfectly said !
They claim you're the narcissist 🤣🤣🤣
It's so creepy but true
They have NO INCENTIVE to change when what's always worked for tgem keeps working.
They can have a special way of making you feel small and unimportant
My mother told me that l "didn't deserve anything" as a child & teenager. Sadly she made her favourism obvious too. Some people shouldn't be parents.
They always try & keep you
"off balance"
This is sooooooo true and you can't tell them anything in confidence about others either it will come out against you at some point.
Emulating my speech caused her to tone down the screaming but it was changing me. I let it happen. She was on a tyrade and working around the house in California. Her and her mother would get up and go and like ‘keep going. I can hear you.’ Crazy making. Once the x said, ‘ Hasta la vista, baby!’ I could go on, Kenny. The 35 years, r peak years. I am destroyed but not defeated. I’m grateful for your work here.
No, you are! No, you are! No, you are! I know I am, but what are you? I am rubber, you are glue, and everything you say bounces off of me and sticks to you! Lol
True
Avoid them...
Once you know, do not doubt, regardless how incredibly convincing they may be.
Their methodology at keeping control is cruel and deeply wounding.
Always God is with me
Would you please do another video like this explaining they power play technique and the differences on how its deployed between different types of relationships?
Nothing but facts
Many of them genuinely believe they're more deserving, smarter, etc
It's like evil is putting thoughts in their heads and words in their mouths
Here’s how I know this. I’m in probate with a former sibling. I have provided them with personal property items they requested. However, I’ve become aware that they have not even looked through those things. They don’t care about the things. The purpose of the things, is to try to hold something over me. I don’t much care, because I continue doing what I’m doing, while they sit there, falsely satisfied with fake control.
Oh my gosh friend!! You have literally just described the last two years of my life!! My sibling was given a 30 day time frame to come and claim my folks personal affects that she deemed "Hers". Her attorney, the estate attorney, me and she ALL agreed that she would get paid for her half of my folks house on the condition that within 30 days from the date of that agreement/money transfer meeting, she would remove "her" things. Period. Well 30 days came and she never showed, never called, never made any attempt to contact me or anyone else for that matter. On day 31 I called the estate attorney and he advised me to give her 10 more days!! So i did...then 20 days passed,, 30 days, 40, 50, 60 and she never showed up. So i dispensed with many of the things because I knew she was playing games. Now, 5 months later i am getting text messages informing me that I am withholding her things and that if i do not present them to her I will end up in court!! My attitude at this point- Eff off. We had a contract, she failed to uphold her end I owe her absolutely NOTHING at this point. God I am so angry ugh!!!
Thanks for letting me vent!
I needed this 2 years ago prior to my most recent relationship.
They always seem to have you in defence mode.
Thanks for knowing this!!
☀️💛Gaslit for 20 years now. But God in control of my life for sure
Guess I won't be in the sacred circle anymore.😂😮
Yes. You are a lamp or a vase to them. TRANSACTIONAL
You probably won't have much PEACE until you can leave & relax more
They laugh at other people's misfortunes
I had to leave by degrees, plan my exit carefully so he didn't feel threatened
I have never been so cyber stalked in my life.
Thank you so much because now understand.True words n can identify being married for over 21yrs.He still never gives up.Always looking for loopholes yet ahead of him in silence.They never give up.
I'm comfortably separated because of a problem at his home, and it's a nice time to make it a permanent divide.
The word twisting! Round and round. Oh man "Questioning who we are". That is the worst part and wounds deeply amd take a while depending on how long you spent to "see clearly" its almost like they put a spell of fog over you. Be careful out there!
Thats why never confront them. Just Go.! Run.
This is true.
They can make themselves invaluable to you
That’s sad is there really no way for them to heal?
He was describing my mother
Eg "The devil wears prada"
a less subtle example
Well said!
Yep!! I was apparently abusing him 😮 so typical! I kicked him while he was down…. Nope! I stood up for myself and my daughter! Big difference!
They want you to be SO distracted that you can't function properly
Yep, they're never really interested in your life, only gleaning info to manipulate
I am sick with people narcissistic honesty I can see the face anymore the make me sick. Working place you find people like that.
☀️💛You’re absolutely right
KENNY THE JET WEISS❤😊 LOVE YOUR WORK KEEP PUSHING 2024
My husband constantly uses power control methods & manipulations, he just enjoys getting a rise (a reaction) from me. Kinda does it just to see if I’m on ball. Treats it, like it’s funny or something, not sure if it’s truly malicious, but I’m sure he does it to see if he can get away with it, kinda like a cheeky tease.
But for me, it can get tiring, because what can start off as tease can get out of hand easily.
Or he just doesn’t know that from the receiving end, it just starts getting boring and tiring being the but-joke of his jokes.
Exhausting! Does he support you? Do you have healthy intimacy that satisfies you ( physical and emotional) Are you free to pursue your own interests? How does he react if you tell him you are tired/hurt by the teasing?
My mother, I am so fed up of this situation, and I am tired, very tired, I just don't know how to deal with it anymore.
Mine is too. She will start a fight in the house and instigate problems with family members when she wants money. Years of this
She will bring up stuff from 7, 8 years ago when I was 18 and paint my picture as a criminal because I was lost in the streets. I changed myself and my life but that's just one thing she'll use against me. You gotta play it cool and save money then leave
I allowed them to manipulate me at 1st cause I showed unconditional love, and gave them opportunity every time they made mistakes out of love and trying to genuinely help! But I watched my brother get absolutely destroyed by his ex wife who I told him NOT TO MERRY! And she never submitted or apologized or anything....they are 💯 all in on them. I watched her disrespect my parents, my mom (grandma) trying to show granddaughter love.....but literally getting yelled at and disrespected in criminal ways. It was hard cause I did see her unconditional love in very beginning but once I figured her out it wqs easy to handle them....its just that God askednmento more patient and supportive
They told me I'm a Narcisse. I studied what that means. I discovered that they called me evil 😈. Pure emotional abuse. I'm traumatized by the people I love for 30 years...😂
Power..its their drug..totally addiction to this self entitled authority...they want something..they will gaslight to do this..
How in the world do they become registered nurses who work with mentally vulnerable inpatient's in a hospital setting?????? HOW HOW HOW??!! It is absolutely INSANE and DEMONIC
Don't feel bad, they do things by degrees ,seeing how much you'll tolerate
YES!!!!!!.....
definitely 100%👍
Nothing is ever his fault. Always a game, always my cheap fault and always extracting something. Almost done with it. Thank God.
💯 on 🎯!!
When you leave ,make it seem like you're doing them a favour. Even hire a love ❤️ interest or distraction of some sort ?
I still don't understand how I fell for a narcissist and allowed a million red flags at my watch...
Yes.
So true ❤❤
TRUE THAT 💯
NARC: "No I'm not. No you are." 🦜
True..
Well I will never practise into stupidity. Not quite right. Just do the right thing😅
Ty. Uncle. Kindly tell selg, my heart is in painful situation, bleeding, suffering, crying. I ❤ selg...bcs ❤ is super universal.
Find out the narcissist is cheating, so they say you're cheating on them or else you would be more angry at finding out they're cheating. Now you're defending yourself and trying to convince them you are not cheating so they can't use that as an excuse to cheat on you.
Yup....😢
so no contact is really the only way? my older half sister really has it out for me, like she's not right in the head i feel. She's dangerous, and has been gaslighting me and scapegoating me for years, to the point of basically caused my dad a stroke or some sort of breakdown from screaming at him and needling him to the point of him committing suicide and he was my mom with alzheimer's caregiver. She wont acknowledge my mom's limitations and told my mom i stole all her money and had my poa revoked and had to go to attorneys and spent my moms money ( $50k )unknowingly to get it put back. she still sends my daughter birthday and christmas gifts, and it feels like a horse head. i'm no contact as of last may, snd i'm tired of people telling me to "just talk to her".
Stand your ground my friend!! DO NOT let anyone tell you what to do especially when it comes to your experiences with that psycho lunatic. Refuse the cards and gifts, remain no contact and ensure your daughter's safety in every environment she is in without your presence. I know its scary but these people are positively unpredictable and your daughter is a prime target for her to get to you. I was my momma's POA too, after my RN sister had my dementia riddled father placed in a behavioral mental unit in the local hospital where they conveniently and efficiently killed him within two weeks. Literally, no lie, they stuck him in a room to die. When I went to the hospital to take him out they were going to call the sherrif's dept on me and I said Bring it, and get an attorney because you have not heard the last from me you Killers! It was during the c19-pay for play more money for more dead ppl hospital payoff. I blame her for my father's untimely and cruel death and it takes everything in me with God's help to keep my rage under control so I don't do something stupid to her. I pray for God's grace and protection every single day. I will pray for you friend. God Bless you
@@Manyfires_BurningBrightly
i'm so sorry to hear that you went through all of that but thank you for sharing your experience and what a terrible thing to have to ever encounter. It's heartbreaking how many people have similar experiences when there's this toxic family dynamic. It's literally taken over my whole life and I'm trying to figure out what I'm supposed to be learning from it and how to get stronger and protect myself and my family. It's not hard, but I know we will survive and get through it and hopefully heal it.
@@goodpony1971 I was literally blindsided when the reality finally hit me about five months after my folks had passed. It was like my entire world had been viciously ripped and shredded then tossed to the winds. My big sister...my only sibling who's approval and love I had spent my entire life trying to obtain, in capable of being the "big sister" everyone else in my family with daughters had lots of. My own mom and her three sisters were inseparable and I often questioned why my relationship with sis was anything but that. I blamed myself,, all of my life I wasn't good enough...and she promoted my feelings of inadequacy.. but because i loved her because she was my sister i was blind to the manipulation and terror hidden behind her "golden child" exterior. UGH!! The real kicker for me, I am a trained behavioral specialist with BS degree in clinical psychology and a Master's degree in community counseling...and i NEVER picked up on it!! When reality hit me I cried for at least a month, couldn't eat, sleep or function very well at all. And then I got angry...righteous anger that gave me strength to put an end to her abuse and tyranny in my life. I lost my only son to her lies, every aunt uncle and cousin who( prior to my folks dying) assured me of their support and availability to help me cope with both folks dying within a month of each other.. yeah just empty promises because my momma's body wasn't even cold when sister began her trash campaign against me with every member of the family who would listen to her....Its hard at first, mainly just accepting the illusion of your family and history...but when you honor yourself- your needs, your limits, your boundaries to protect yourself from further abuse- everyday is better. I don't miss those people anymore...not a bit because they never truly loved me to begin with. and i'm okay with that. I have found the youtube channel @KrisReese to be very helpful in my healing journey. I know you will get through this, and you will be a very strong force to behold!❤🙏
My evil sister told me l was evil when l (stupidly) confronted her.
All about his own benefits, I call him Narcissist, because I true believe he was, 😢
Dead on the money.
I know at least three of them, but I haven't seen a-one of them since 2022. Life has been peaceful ever since. Don't bother calling either, guys. Enough is enough.
They work so hard to mess things up when everyone could be working towards a common good. They're so extinctionist it's worse than "it sucks to be around" . They leave you like Brad Pitt at the end of Se7en it's worse than just "Jack's wasted life"...
Oh yeah this is what they do twist the words and gaslight and I'm sticking to my you know honestly and make sure that they take accountability but they don't but I know that in my heart that I'm going to be take and I heard what they said
Tick, tick and tick.
Everything!!!!!!!!!!!! Like goofy Chris lol
I even snapped a picture of it and sent it to everyone last night to prove this is happening and NOT A WORD ABOUT IT FROM ANYONE. Woke up to an insulting text by a daughter instead. Nothing said about the picture of my bank card in my texting bar. Or keyboard. Total weirdness and a little scary. Last night it felt super scary on the dark unpopulated streetm
Stay safe and vigilant darlin. If you have a trusted friend who can stay with you ask them to. Document everything- I mean everything, times dates, texts, voicemails etc any attempts of contact with you. Write it all down, screen shot messages and keep them in a file separate from your phone if you can. The documentation will be so very helpful for you if/when you may need to involve law enforcement. The response you got after "outting" the bad behavior doesn't surprise me. Most support people in your orbit have already been well gaslit by this demonic monster. Don't dwell on it, chuck it and them aside and focus on you. If they want to believe lies and absolute insanity that's on them and they obviously didn't care that much about you to begin with. I'm sorry, I know it sounds cruel but its the truth. I discovered just how "much"lol my extended family really cared about me, not a damn bit. They are all more consumed with keeping the "norm" with my abusive sister and not ruffling any feathers. Eff them. They can have her. My life is my own and I am finally becoming happy on a regular basis. God bless you!
Please get counselling support from womens domestic violence support or whatever is available. Vulnerable people can go into psychosis from this kind of this toxic relationships. It will take hard work to untangle things. You do deserve love and safety, but they are not caring about you. You dont have to play their game. And i wouldnt tell them you are having counselling, they will likely use that to intensify abuse.
My ex didn’t have empathy, can’t live with it a life time
Same here. No love, no empathy, no heart - nothing to grow the relationship.
💯% facts!
I married one!
I was so desperate back then,
I turned away from the Lord
I'm back now, no contact is best
If they claim you are the narcisist….is cause they know they are one?
Wondering if they believe their own lies is just playing their game too...
@@guyincognito7211 i think so. But my question still need an answer
Narc told me I like to play dual characters😢😢
@@guyincognito7211they gaslight themselves also.
Games at every turn. 😮
Its evil. Indeed. Period.
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