Women want the noble, safe, predictable Batman and the dangerous, exciting, unpredictable Joker to be the same dude at the same time. That's why they're never satisfied.
Well, These man are taken in their early 20 while in college. Those are the man who run student organization on campus, lead study group; they naturally have many woman available to them. Now you are 40, most of those man are married; And the one who is not married and still exabit this trait would not have issues finding younger woman. I just wanted to leave a comment on your channel so that the algorithm picks it.
If you are a very feminin woman who likes herself in a healthy way, sporty, helps if you are good looking, caring, loving, RESPECTING, than its really not that impossible because there are really not much quallity women out there today as well. But its work. And as you know hard work pays off.
@@iamdrchristinano, older women clean and nice smelling will get the best young studs in town AND THESE WILL ADORE THEM. High testosterone young men are all into cougars.
Suits are very masculine, never wear it, unless you want be masculine and repel almost all men. Become very unique and ask yourself what men want/like/need/respect and you will be the 1%. But with all due respect, most women need to accept that there is more than themselves in the universe.
Lol, did you miss out that this is a video from a higher masuline demand from a masculine woman in suit with a career, atleast that what the good doctor Jerger think she demand and its silly yes :) so this cover 10 % of all males and it aint you ;) since you have a problem with woman suits
Being considerate has nothing to do with masculinity. In contrary, a masculine man is being pampered by female's attention and is usually more arrogant.
To my dearest most precious Christina...I have to tell you that you are an absolute, absolute, absolute genius. This is one of the most brilliant and beautiful talks that I have ever heard. You are absolutely, absolutely, absolutely...spot on. This is exactly, exactly...what a man should be. Thank you so much...and I just love you so much... Stanley ❤
The 3rd wave feminism is actually a movement born out of hate / a desire to deceive / to whitewash bad behavior. Men and women have biological needs hardwired into us, a movement doesn't change that. I.e. all those 3rd wave feminists obviously turn around and chase the bad boy 6 foot, 6 pack, billionaire womanizer if given the chance.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
The most common problem nowdays is estimating self worth. Its completely different from your own perspective (we're all beautiful beings), in the eyes of friends and family and the image of you opposite gender has. Figuring it out is a huge breakthrough in self development as well as decision making for the future.
@@iamdrchristina I'm 56 introverted, never married, no kids, average looking, 20 years of being single. Smartphones have destroyed dating. Dating is dead. Women don't look or smile anymore. All on their stupid cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. 80% of the women are trash. I've given up on women.
@@cobra8888 Everyone fucked Jesus over. He learned his lesson at some point. Each time he comes back to life, same shit. So others tell tales in his place, while making money off his blood, sweat, and tears. Truly a sacrificial figure.
This is fucking fantastic! I would like to add if you were wondering if he is a masculine man… There really isn’t much wondering… It’s kinda hard to not know that’s how clear and direct it is.
VERY GOOD! I am that way and I attract women easily. And part of it is I'm not a "player". I'm about to pick a partner and it's from all very high quality women. The "one" has never had this feeling and she has it around me. A real man projects this air of protection first. And is a product of confidence and paying attention to her and deriving fulfillment and pleasure by protecting her first. Everything else comes from that reality.
For all my men in the comments, this is actually true, you just have to know how to have rizz and respect yourself, They don't respect you when you don't even respect yourself, I'm tired of victim men, that only blaim women for their lack of success, You don't even need a lot of money You just have to make her feel save in the case of money But because you don't know how things work, you need blame some women that you have seen on internet, women are great And i'm not a feminist, i just know how interact with women, even the call boss b..., they want the same, They behave like that the first five minutes, as soon ad they realize that you know how to control the situation, she changes, from lion to a little cat
I don't disagree with your comment, and men should work on themselves to be the best they can be, but the other side can do it's part and it's fucking up epically.
@@GregAbramson let's say having game with girls, body language, masculine frame, knowing how to turn the conversation from friendly into sexual, for example. All that is a step by step process, it is not easy to achieve but when we have a better understanding, everything will be easier not only with girls but with people in general
Amazing. 😂 Hey guys spend all your time desperately trying to figure out what your girl likes and do anything and everything she wants. Definitely won't seem desparate and pathetic at all. 🤦 You have a job ma'am. You are financially independent. You are not a child. So pay for your own food on a first date. There's nothing more unattractive to a sensible guy than hypocritical behaviour. 🚩🚩🚩 This is not 'cheap' or 'stingy'. Personally I will always be generous to people I know well and care about. And I always tip well too. This whole video was hilariously terrible advice for everyone everywhere. 🎉
You forgot the biggest part, he does not put up with negativity and ungratefulness. Please stay in high Vibration and have gratitude all the time. That is the minimum.
so is masculinity about beeing a womens slave? i am from europe... maybe women are more tolerant here... i am often shocked to see young american girls on social media or youtube with their expectations... i think i am not wrong on my statement entirely best regards
English Is not my first lenguaje, so I wish to trasmit my feeling in a correct way but You aré absolutely right. I think This video Will be understood just since the woman soul Thanks ❤
Hello Dr CJ. I wish you good fortune on the long term growth of your channel. The first suggestion is to improve the audio and volume of the video. Get a remote lapel microphone that can clip onto your jacket. That is the first step to improving your channel.
Next week you shoult have a type of lavaliere that makes you sound better in a more personal manner, easy to listen (the message delivered) and not that much of reverb from the room. Maybe a smaller room coated with carpet and furniture?... You get what I meant to say. Come on! UPGRADE! You say what everyone is saying. Nothing more
Curious so decided to listen. Basically you’re describing a balanced king, warrior, magician, lover archetype. Problem most men experience when striving for this ideal is disrespect.
@iAmDrChristina @2:48 No dude can nurture. Not really. I am curious - I am asking: Where did you get it from - that guys can nurture? A book? What's the name of the book?
I think this is a sad commentary on having to teach women how to be attracted to Masculine men. Women did this to themselves. Reap your Boss Babe rewards.
Like life is energy in motion (emotions) however the energy comes from the mind. The masculine energy man knows he is the source of the energy and she cools it down into form (also information for the brain just processes the sensations/feelings of being alive inside the MIND of GOD. Also min is God and the body is a extension of the mind Goddess. Can't know how you feel unless you have a body.
hear me out. you will probably not find a masculine man considering your age. those masculine guys are going to marry younger women. so my offer is: im a masculine young man from the middle east and im willing to marry you in exchange for american passport. I know french besides english. think about it
Stay in your home bro. The reason America is great is because Europeans built it. The reason your country isn't is because YOUR people built it. That's just a fact of life.
@@iamdrchristina The married man may be available and open to intimate erotic encounters b/c the couple is not monogamous and want to engage in great sex as exercise for optimum cardiovascular and neurological health/
the comments are gold! i was going to say because daddy wasn't there. Now I can't believe women are still wearing 90s shoulder pads! Obviously ruined by chad once.
4:30 I'm an international multilingual martial arts professor and I completely and fundamentally disagree with all of this. I'm watch women's behavior around me, they oggle me and my gym friends most places we go, unfortunately, women like you fill girls head full of EXPECTATIONS AND ENTITLEMENTS and it causes them to forget to be FRIENDLY, FLIRTY, and FUN. Women also don't seem to understand loyalty, they will flirt with all of us, and most of us already have girls we are seeing, when a girl flirts with all of us, it creates friction between us which is a BIG TURN OFF for guys, ESPECIALLY masculine guys, because it makes us feel like we're not special, and then we see YOU as not special.
The reason nice guys get friend zoned is because they are always supplicating to the woman counterpart, trying to change themselves to fit her desires. They dont really lead and they are low level emotional blackmailers because in many cases they seem to feel that they should get sexual attraction in exchange for "respecting her" (i.e. being a wet blanket and putting her in charge). Thats the opposite of what the Dr is saying. She's just saying it from a female perspective on how it feels to them. Lead. Have a strong frame. Make sure your girl feels safe as long as shes around you so that shes free to play in the environment in her natural state without worry because your vibe is that you have everything under control. Unphasable. Relaxed. Altruistic. Solid. She doesnt have to think about much other than feeling good because you know how to steer the ship and have both your best interests in mind. That allows her to be more feminine unlike with the nice guy who makes her do all that work. And when a woman is allowed to safely be feminine and fall into your lead because you are strong and competent, you get wild awesome snu snu as a side effect of the respect and appreciation she feels watching you be a boss with her on the team and playing at life. Boom. Done. Like, Would you feel good riding in a plane with a pilot that keeps asking you for instructions on how to fly? Nah. Youd be freaking out and stressed. Probably try to find another pilot. But when the pilot knows his stuff, youre free to break out the stripper pole on the private jet with no worry of crashing.
@@Tim666-o5n You're rationalizing, she's talking about women in general. This is literally all female dating coaches talk about: how to exploit men by training them to become their slave who supports, protects, provides for and cater to them 24/7 even though they can financially provide for themselves, and somehow they always manage to make it sound like they're doing the man a favor, because if they don't exploit him this way then how is he ever going to feel needed?
I am a masculine man. I attracted myself.
😂
Real men like their own comments
Hahahah yeah mate this is the way 🤝
🏆
Women want the noble, safe, predictable Batman and the dangerous, exciting, unpredictable Joker to be the same dude at the same time. That's why they're never satisfied.
Men feel the same way about feminine women. Unfortunately they are very rare and it makes for a very tawdry society.
Well, These man are taken in their early 20 while in college. Those are the man who run student organization on campus, lead study group; they naturally have many woman available to them. Now you are 40, most of those man are married; And the one who is not married and still exabit this trait would not have issues finding younger woman. I just wanted to leave a comment on your channel so that the algorithm picks it.
I agree, it gets trickier when being older as a woman, but it's not impossible!
Love you 😘😘😘😘😘@@iamdrchristina
If you are a very feminin woman who likes herself in a healthy way, sporty, helps if you are good looking, caring, loving, RESPECTING, than its really not that impossible because there are really not much quallity women out there today as well. But its work. And as you know hard work pays off.
"taken"?! Masculine men ARE NEVER TAKEN.
@@iamdrchristinano, older women clean and nice smelling will get the best young studs in town AND THESE WILL ADORE THEM. High testosterone young men are all into cougars.
masculine men have all been told we are toxic and have seen all the consequences of being so- it's over
He has no life of his own and exists only to cater to you.
Yet somehow is in shape and rich
Suits are very masculine, never wear it, unless you want be masculine and repel almost all men.
Become very unique and ask yourself what men want/like/need/respect and you will be the 1%. But with all due respect, most women need to accept that there is more than themselves in the universe.
Lol, did you miss out that this is a video from a higher masuline demand from a masculine woman in suit with a career, atleast that what the good doctor Jerger think she demand and its silly yes :) so this cover 10 % of all males and it aint you ;) since you have a problem with woman suits
Being considerate has nothing to do with masculinity. In contrary, a masculine man is being pampered by female's attention and is usually more arrogant.
Have you ever met this man?
Hahahaha😅.
in her imagination , he's living on a unicorn farm
She mentionned a whole laundry list that said that's the bare minimum
Clearly shes in heat.
To my dearest most precious Christina...I have to tell you that you are an absolute, absolute, absolute genius.
This is one of the most brilliant and beautiful talks that I have ever heard.
You are absolutely, absolutely, absolutely...spot on. This is exactly, exactly...what a man should be.
Thank you so much...and I just love you so much...
Stanley ❤
Why u all dislike feminine men when it was what women had created themselves ?
The 3rd wave feminism is actually a movement born out of hate / a desire to deceive / to whitewash bad behavior.
Men and women have biological needs hardwired into us, a movement doesn't change that.
I.e. all those 3rd wave feminists obviously turn around and chase the bad boy 6 foot, 6 pack, billionaire womanizer if given the chance.
So you need a well-trained Santa Claus. He triggers the little girl in you and is your wish fulfiller. What emotional age are you at?
42 😁
Hahahaha
Like all woman the erotic emotional age aint 18 to vote (unless its on Trump)
If Santa was also an on-call therapist/life coach/motivational speaker/personal body guard. With a bottomless ATM in the sleigh.
4:17 This point is so overlooked by many these days but i think so important. Thanks for explaining it.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
The most common problem nowdays is estimating self worth. Its completely different from your own perspective (we're all beautiful beings), in the eyes of friends and family and the image of you opposite gender has. Figuring it out is a huge breakthrough in self development as well as decision making for the future.
She described a prince character she made up while lying in her bedroom alone.
She makes him feel like a superman
He makes her feel like a princess
Perfectly said, he gets the appreciation and she the love.
@@iamdrchristinawhy don't they both get the appreciation and the love??
Love you😘😘😘😘@@iamdrchristina
Princesses are overrated. Empress is all the rage.
@@iamdrchristina I'm 56 introverted, never married, no kids, average looking, 20 years of being single. Smartphones have destroyed dating. Dating is dead. Women don't look or smile anymore. All on their stupid cell phones 24/7. No one talks face to face anymore. 80% of the women are trash. I've given up on women.
What you're describing is just a regular dad.
You are describing Jesus Christ. Don’t worry He is Coming Soon
Jesus is coming is low-key kinda sus gang
Jesus is already here. The matrix is real.
Jesus is going to stand you guys out. No one is coming.
@@cobra8888 Everyone fucked Jesus over. He learned his lesson at some point. Each time he comes back to life, same shit. So others tell tales in his place, while making money off his blood, sweat, and tears. Truly a sacrificial figure.
Soon, eh? yeah, been saying that for 2,000 years. Ok, maybe in a few thousand more..
im telling you: i had to pause the video to laugh. i didnt want to miss one sec of this unhinged nonsense!
Man she can go on and on can't she?! 😅
This is fucking fantastic! I would like to add if you were wondering if he is a masculine man… There really isn’t much wondering… It’s kinda hard to not know that’s how clear and direct it is.
VERY GOOD! I am that way and I attract women easily. And part of it is I'm not a "player". I'm about to pick a partner and it's from all very high quality women. The "one" has never had this feeling and she has it around me. A real man projects this air of protection first. And is a product of confidence and paying attention to her and deriving fulfillment and pleasure by protecting her first. Everything else comes from that reality.
For all my men in the comments, this is actually true, you just have to know how to have rizz and respect yourself, They don't respect you when you don't even respect yourself,
I'm tired of victim men, that only blaim women for their lack of success, You don't even need a lot of money You just have to make her feel save in the case of money
But because you don't know how things work, you need blame some women that you have seen on internet, women are great
And i'm not a feminist, i just know how interact with women, even the call boss b..., they want the same, They behave like that the first five minutes, as soon ad they realize that you know how to control the situation, she changes, from lion to a little cat
I don't disagree with your comment, and men should work on themselves to be the best they can be, but the other side can do it's part and it's fucking up epically.
What the hell is "rizz"?
@@GregAbramson let's say having game with girls, body language, masculine frame, knowing how to turn the conversation from friendly into sexual, for example.
All that is a step by step process, it is not easy to achieve but when we have a better understanding, everything will be easier not only with girls but with people in general
@@GregAbramson Short for "charisma". See? cha - rizz - ma
This sort of content deceives women, leading to horrible results.
you mean funny results. she is the example.
@@bangbangthatawefulsound That's what informational data is for/
I thought she was describing the perfect guy already until she mentioned it's just the bare minimum 😂
This whole video can be summed up in 5:05 - 5:07
Never experienced that, but sounds so good.
Amazing. 😂 Hey guys spend all your time desperately trying to figure out what your girl likes and do anything and everything she wants. Definitely won't seem desparate and pathetic at all. 🤦
You have a job ma'am. You are financially independent. You are not a child. So pay for your own food on a first date. There's nothing more unattractive to a sensible guy than hypocritical behaviour. 🚩🚩🚩
This is not 'cheap' or 'stingy'. Personally I will always be generous to people I know well and care about. And I always tip well too.
This whole video was hilariously terrible advice for everyone everywhere. 🎉
facts.
The advice is "as a woman prefer masculine men over feminine men". Why is this a bad advice? Do you recommend the opposite?
You forgot the biggest part, he does not put up with negativity and ungratefulness. Please stay in high Vibration and have gratitude all the time. That is the minimum.
so is masculinity about beeing a womens slave? i am from europe... maybe women are more tolerant here... i am often shocked to see young american girls on social media or youtube with their expectations... i think i am not wrong on my statement entirely
best regards
She low-key sounds like she's describing a man whom doesn't exist low-key
Yeah she's in fucking la la land still looking for a fucking princess charming like she's 12 years old.
Those eyebrows and this microphone is not working for you
😆Yeah,sort your sound out love!
@@animal79thecat/ Also the way she looks and dresses up.
@@Dolce-Rose Those eyebrows are CRAAAZY 🤣
Tf is wrong with y’all.
@@michaelcelovsky3136 They are correct in a way.
English Is not my first lenguaje, so I wish to trasmit my feeling in a correct way but You aré absolutely right.
I think This video Will be understood just since the woman soul
Thanks ❤
Bla...bla...bla ...blaaaaaa..
i love masculine man
Shane❤❤❤❤❤❤
And we love feminine women. Keep up being your sexy self. ;)
The volume has issues, is much too low and it echoes.
Hello Dr CJ. I wish you good fortune on the long term growth of your channel. The first suggestion is to improve the audio and volume of the video. Get a remote lapel microphone that can clip onto your jacket. That is the first step to improving your channel.
W Take
To respect everyone else is to know all is one but many. When you serve one you serve all. Lead by example.
Next week you shoult have a type of lavaliere that makes you sound better in a more personal manner, easy to listen (the message delivered) and not that much of reverb from the room. Maybe a smaller room coated with carpet and furniture?... You get what I meant to say. Come on! UPGRADE!
You say what everyone is saying. Nothing more
This is reverse psychologie guys, think and you'll understand why she is saying all this bs, just leave her channel
How is this reverse psycholgie?
Maybe she’s drunk.
Accept the truth
@@RaylonK2 open your eyes, i warn you twice now, if you can't think for yourself, do whatever you want with your life ...
@@NeoXSpirit okay appriciate it i will watch it again
Bravo 🎉 well said!
Why is this comments section full of male spy's?! Oh yeah cause its good isht. Nice Vid. Take my like woman creature.
Curious so decided to listen. Basically you’re describing a balanced king, warrior, magician, lover archetype. Problem most men experience when striving for this ideal is disrespect.
@iAmDrChristina
@2:48
No dude can nurture.
Not really.
I am curious - I am asking: Where did you get it from - that guys can nurture? A book? What's the name of the book?
Hahah, the man you describe does not exist except in fantasy novels.
I think this is a sad commentary on having to teach women how to be attracted to Masculine men. Women did this to themselves. Reap your Boss Babe rewards.
Volume too low
Way too low!
These eyebrows ain't it m'am with all due respect
Hahahahahaha
Facts
The suit and the nails aint helping either
"I'm nice men." --Han Solo
the bare minimum is being masculine me who have not grown a beard yet
Like life is energy in motion (emotions) however the energy comes from the mind. The masculine energy man knows he is the source of the energy and she cools it down into form (also information for the brain just processes the sensations/feelings of being alive inside the MIND of GOD. Also min is God and the body is a extension of the mind Goddess. Can't know how you feel unless you have a body.
Masculine men can't keep a commitment. 😅
hear me out. you will probably not find a masculine man considering your age. those masculine guys are going to marry younger women. so my offer is: im a masculine young man from the middle east and im willing to marry you in exchange for american passport. I know french besides english. think about it
And what does she get?
@@kapsi she gets me
lol
You must be Lebanese then.
Stay in your home bro. The reason America is great is because Europeans built it. The reason your country isn't is because YOUR people built it. That's just a fact of life.
I met a masculine man but he us married!😢
Don’t give up, if there is one there are many! The next one will be for you, not married and ready to get to know you!
@@iamdrchristina The married man may be available and open to intimate erotic encounters b/c the couple is not monogamous and want to engage in great sex as exercise for optimum cardiovascular and neurological health/
the comments are gold! i was going to say because daddy wasn't there. Now I can't believe women are still wearing 90s shoulder pads! Obviously ruined by chad once.
I what you said you could say in 1-2min.
Prove it
Good luck with that.
All good except the texting part, all the others are saying don’t do that
4:30 I'm an international multilingual martial arts professor and I completely and fundamentally disagree with all of this.
I'm watch women's behavior around me, they oggle me and my gym friends most places we go, unfortunately, women like you fill girls head full of EXPECTATIONS AND ENTITLEMENTS and it causes them to forget to be FRIENDLY, FLIRTY, and FUN.
Women also don't seem to understand loyalty, they will flirt with all of us, and most of us already have girls we are seeing, when a girl flirts with all of us, it creates friction between us which is a BIG TURN OFF for guys, ESPECIALLY masculine guys, because it makes us feel like we're not special, and then we see YOU as not special.
J
Stop clapping your hands en get a microphone near to you. Audio is terrible!
All wrong, this is what women hates : a nice guy, you will friendzone him!
The reason nice guys get friend zoned is because they are always supplicating to the woman counterpart, trying to change themselves to fit her desires. They dont really lead and they are low level emotional blackmailers because in many cases they seem to feel that they should get sexual attraction in exchange for "respecting her" (i.e. being a wet blanket and putting her in charge).
Thats the opposite of what the Dr is saying. She's just saying it from a female perspective on how it feels to them. Lead. Have a strong frame. Make sure your girl feels safe as long as shes around you so that shes free to play in the environment in her natural state without worry because your vibe is that you have everything under control. Unphasable. Relaxed. Altruistic. Solid. She doesnt have to think about much other than feeling good because you know how to steer the ship and have both your best interests in mind. That allows her to be more feminine unlike with the nice guy who makes her do all that work.
And when a woman is allowed to safely be feminine and fall into your lead because you are strong and competent, you get wild awesome snu snu as a side effect of the respect and appreciation she feels watching you be a boss with her on the team and playing at life. Boom. Done.
Like, Would you feel good riding in a plane with a pilot that keeps asking you for instructions on how to fly? Nah. Youd be freaking out and stressed. Probably try to find another pilot. But when the pilot knows his stuff, youre free to break out the stripper pole on the private jet with no worry of crashing.
Those eyebrows are incredible.
Incredibly terrible
If you listen closely about how she describes a "masculine man"it sounds like a poor man or even a man who isn't poor but not rich can't be masculine.
Since she is targeting successful business women, they then target an even more succesful business man.
@@Tim666-o5n You're rationalizing, she's talking about women in general. This is literally all female dating coaches talk about: how to exploit men by training them to become their slave who supports, protects, provides for and cater to them 24/7 even though they can financially provide for themselves, and somehow they always manage to make it sound like they're doing the man a favor, because if they don't exploit him this way then how is he ever going to feel needed?