What to do if Asian girlfriend asks for money?

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  • @NecroViolator
    @NecroViolator 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    No one wants a relationship built on lies !. Definitely not I .

  • @ignatiusrajan103
    @ignatiusrajan103 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Many many many such woman asking for financial support. Too much drama. Gold diggers or Scammers

  • @xOmniCloudx
    @xOmniCloudx ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jo you're a real one. Love the wide perspective you bring on topics, how balance out reality with your own views and also ask for feedback as you acknowledge you could have missed something. Looking forward to all your videos from now on.

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤️❤️🙏

  • @JamesL411
    @JamesL411 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As the old Beatle's song says "Can't buy me love" ! No. No. No....... Can't buy me love !

  • @arnoldseay9118
    @arnoldseay9118 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good advice Miss Jo Moon. Western men need to be careful with online love. If the girl readily asks for money that is a red flag. If she asks for money often that is a red flag. My wife is Filipina Chinese and she never asked for money but when I went to visit her and I saw things in her house that she needed I bought them. She didn’t have to ask. Sometimes she might hint about things and I would usually buy them. If she need help with a plane ticket to visit me I would help. Just be careful if the girl is constantly milking you for cash. Gold diggers are in every country.

  • @anthonystanco7962
    @anthonystanco7962 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your common sense cracks me up. Just adorable to hear your opinions. Stay well.

  • @samjones3941
    @samjones3941 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great job again. I enjoy your videos. I know you’re very sad for leaving your family. I understand. Keep doing the good work on TH-cam.

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️

  • @carljackson2981
    @carljackson2981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are becoming one of my favorites!! You informed views are well received by myself. I also enjoyed the travel videos from China

  • @adriancann5056
    @adriancann5056 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    glad you made it back in one piece, your family must miss you as much as you miss them. meanwhile, very good relationship advice. Mostly what you say should be common sense but men tend to lose that when they think they are in love. a lot of what you said really applies to long-distance relationships. so many pitfalls in those relationships come about because of a lack of really knowing each other. anyway, keep up the vlogs, i really enjoy them.

  • @SimpleMansJourney
    @SimpleMansJourney ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ive talked to many asian women online in the past, mostly filipina, just a few chinese. Honestly Ive never had a chinese ask for money. The filipinas that are a scammer will always have problems that only money will solve, most will never ask directly like you said, but will have no problem telling you their lights are about to be cut off, or they need medicine for their children or old parents, and so on. I have sent a few of them money in the past but never much money, mainly 20 usd or so, just as a test to see how they react. But any of them I talked to seriously I have told I will not support your family. If a woman lives with me, she just pays her own bills or debt that she brings with her, I pay all the house hold bills because i live by myself already and I pay those bills anyway.

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How if she wants to buy a silver necklace? Who pays?🤪🤪🤪”lights are about to be cut off LMAO, are they serious?!”

    • @SimpleMansJourney
      @SimpleMansJourney ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@JoMoon ill buy silver, not gold lol. Im poor

    • @brsmsic
      @brsmsic ปีที่แล้ว

      .……do you think they want to scam you because they realise your attitude towards them?………you refer to the young women you are communicating with as Filipina….did you mean she was a young women from the Philippines….I guess you also meant a young Chinese women…..not ‘a Chinese’. Just an observation….

  • @SimpleMansJourney
    @SimpleMansJourney ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great video and good points, I would of probably never bought you a gift again if you complained about silver not being gold lol. But I also collect silver coins and bullion. I dont like gold honestly, i think silver is better looking. Congrats on being back in austrailia, hope you have a great night.

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Silver is nice indeed, honestly I don’t care if it is gold or silver and all my jewelry are lying somewhere dusted, I think I was just trying to make troubles haha

    • @SimpleMansJourney
      @SimpleMansJourney ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JoMoon soooo, youre a trouble maker? just kidding jo, enjoy your day.

  • @tedallison6112
    @tedallison6112 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Are you married Miss Moon---I'm desperately in love with your entire personality,you're the gold standard other women can be measured against.
    Too often people dont recognize that Intelligence is extremely attractive!❤❤❤❤

  • @Art_Wine_And_Anarchy
    @Art_Wine_And_Anarchy ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Well you were being a material girl to complain about receiving a nice gift. - "I don't like silver!" 🏅😆

    • @Art_Wine_And_Anarchy
      @Art_Wine_And_Anarchy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dongshengdi773 Well like I've said for a while now - In nearly 5,000 years of Chinese history the CCP has only been around for about 70 years, how much longer can they last?!

  • @thomasheuer1916
    @thomasheuer1916 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Common sense wouldn't go astray. Every case is individual and subjective.

  • @charleshann1
    @charleshann1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Extremely uncomfortable, I don’t give anyone except my Son’s and the government

  • @joedriver8771
    @joedriver8771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Miss Jo Moon, happy that you had a great time with your family & Ty for sharing your time with them, (your niece is too cute). A man dating you, money should not be a problem in sharing it with you. After all you are worthy of it as a Gf!, Peace

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Joe you have always been very nice 👍

    • @joedriver8771
      @joedriver8771 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JoMoon Ty, Maybe we should get to know each other more?

    • @joedriver8771
      @joedriver8771 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dongshengdi773 Ty, Peace

  • @osmanakman
    @osmanakman ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Free ATM ? It is a wonderful word. thank you

  • @dcole7092
    @dcole7092 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love your video's Joe. Humorous. When you say the word "sometimes" it sounds like someone from the American Southern States.

  • @thomasheuer1916
    @thomasheuer1916 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Welcome back Jo.

  • @artford8674
    @artford8674 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Men I know who bought jewelry for their wives or girlfriends almost always found out she did not like the choice. And never made that mistake again.

  • @micheljtremblay4890
    @micheljtremblay4890 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Appreciated watching you and hearing your comments, its good to learn about other culture in woman man relationship vs money. Thanks again

  • @francois-xavieresperance5007
    @francois-xavieresperance5007 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is also the guy's responsability to date the right woman at the very beginning. It is not hard to check whether she is superficial.
    I met here in Europe a super nice girl from Shanghai 10 years ago, young but down to earth, sweet, very smart, kind of artist. We used to talk a lot, to get along very well. Never dated, however. After that, we kept in touch during years through Facebook, and then .... she disaperead. I feel kind of nostalgic when i think about her charming personality.
    If you get to know the person for a while, you take far less risk.

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      “What you can’t get is always the best” 🙂

    • @Saltymen
      @Saltymen ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You simp hard my boy !

  • @wileyfox3436
    @wileyfox3436 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loaned the same Chinese woman money on several occasions $2000 was the most. First time was a lockdown and she was struggling. She always paid it back. A couple of times she gave me more than I loaned her. She said thats for putting your trust in me.

  • @josephregallis3394
    @josephregallis3394 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have a sharp wit and are funny! I like that!

  • @mobinkarimi8396
    @mobinkarimi8396 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very nice advice

  • @sampletaster5093
    @sampletaster5093 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes a girl friend of about 3 weeks asked for money and got pissed when I said no. Never talked to her again.funny how pissed she got.

  • @nighthawk2634
    @nighthawk2634 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We can meet. We are both in your city 🙂😄
    Yes few Asian and Western women are truly sincere now without motives unfortunately and Ive dated many Asian and Chinese women

  • @martijnheijstek
    @martijnheijstek 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Run run run and dont look back. Sadly i have bin there and run like hell

  • @mouss4037
    @mouss4037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    谢谢 … enjoyed it again! I’m learning a lot from u

  • @CarlCutts
    @CarlCutts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    7000 miles away and asking for money? Don't be a fool

  • @adrianlatham7462
    @adrianlatham7462 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “I’m just a small TH-camr. Who cares, right?” Ha! Back to the topic, there’s a bit of a simp-epidemic going on. So many men with more money than sense handing over hard earned cash. And I swear a lot of women try it on too, not just Asians. The irony is that if you call them out and refuse (not shaming too much, just turning it into a joke so they don’t lose too much face), they often respect you…a little bit more.

  • @micheleciccolella1281
    @micheleciccolella1281 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Come on. It's so clear. Why would anyone send money anywhere in the world in a distant relationship?
    Much better to spend money on a vacation while paying a visit to her home country. That would work out cheaper. After she said that in the video: no money no honey

  • @DigitalRick
    @DigitalRick ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice job Jo

  • @mycapitain843
    @mycapitain843 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think all you mentioned is not a problem at all

  • @nathonlalonde9615
    @nathonlalonde9615 ปีที่แล้ว

    No you don't give her large amounts of money and if she tells you that she will leave you then you tell her to leave and ps most girls can't finish me because I'm last to long and they all say that I'm so strong

  • @aussietaipan8700
    @aussietaipan8700 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm in Melbourne too, lets meet up for coffee and a chat, I have asked you out so I will pay.

  • @oldsachem
    @oldsachem ปีที่แล้ว

    My gf asked money for her colporraphy for her wedding night, She said it was a one-time expense.

    • @2Cerealbox
      @2Cerealbox ปีที่แล้ว

      Wedding... to you, right?

  • @georgelindsay1629
    @georgelindsay1629 ปีที่แล้ว

    4 years and we never met 😅

  • @brimoton
    @brimoton 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤔...😂...I like your style...😉...👍

  • @Mcclain-he9mv
    @Mcclain-he9mv ปีที่แล้ว

    OK, I'm just trying to figure out what advantage it is me as a man to spoil these women. What do I get out of it. Sex is free. I never had a problem with that. But spending money on one like spoiling them. What's the point. She has a job. I'm lost. What am I missing.

  • @ekonkante
    @ekonkante ปีที่แล้ว

    You need some money? LOL

  • @drdecker1
    @drdecker1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jo Moon what I have discovered in life, is when we make demands of others. It leads to fights and quarrels. This is not to say we should not help one another. But when individuals have a lot of pressure. It can open doors for a lot of quarreling with one another. This is not the mature way in love. Like building a home together. Where should your focus be in life ? When you come to really realize this in life. You will have the most beautiful life together. When you are both pulling in the same direction. You will both acheive your destination much faster and with little struggle. I can see you are a very beautiful person. God Bless !

  • @asifbhai5906
    @asifbhai5906 ปีที่แล้ว

    So beautiful ❤

  • @johnp.johnson1541
    @johnp.johnson1541 ปีที่แล้ว

    How do I meet an Asian female who would ask me for bank credits?

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว

      There are plenty of ways to spend your money John

    • @johnp.johnson1541
      @johnp.johnson1541 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@JoMoon HA HA.
      But I like women. I have always. They have been good to me over my years. Very few have ever crossed me.
      In what region in China dp intelligent farm girls live?

    • @brsmsic
      @brsmsic ปีที่แล้ว

      @@johnp.johnson1541…… ..really!

  • @YAgyeman003
    @YAgyeman003 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So much to chew on here, Ms. Moon.🤔 No money, no honey indeed. I think you identified a lot of the obvious reasons, beginning with the economic disparities. But I've only dated women from the West, and it is the same story, always finding ways to burn the wallet.🙂I think there is an evolutionary component that is less discussed.
    From a species-survival viewpoint, the female has always had to choose the male with the combination of genes and resources to protect and provide for their offspring. There was an interesting DNA research that showed that across history, only about 40% of men have reproduced, while 80% of women have, meaning, bluntly speaking, that the majority of men in any generation are unable to acquire the resources to attract a mate. So you get this asymmetry, where few men father most of the children. If, as a man, you are born with exceptional genes that make you very tall and handsome, you can get to reproduce, but that is obviously not the majority, since by definition the majority are average. But a man's resources have always been a near-guarantee that he will successfully reproduce and pass on his genes.
    It's different for women. No matter how much resources a woman acquires, almost universally, they desire a man who has more resources. Social media displays the "ugliness" of this rampant desire, but I think it's rooted in evolution. Of course it can be taken too far. Our morals and values can be the filter by which we ensure that we are not prisoners to evolutionary instinct. In addition, societies have come up with so many rules and constraints to curb our worst evolutionary instincts, in attempts to keep society relatively harmonious.
    But, like you said, at the end of the day, the male of the species must strive to built himself up and show that he can thrive. Or be born looking like Brad Pitt, Idris Elba, Huang Xiaoming or Prabhas!😀If not, then no money, no honey, baby. "Let's all be single together!"

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Huangxiaoming?! LMAO how did you know him? Such a refreshing point of view, I hope your wallet is fine and fat nowadays😂

    • @YAgyeman003
      @YAgyeman003 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JoMoon It made it out of the intensive care unit, but it is still in recovery!🤣

    • @JoMoon
      @JoMoon  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@YAgyeman003 lol must be a professional gold digger

    • @YAgyeman003
      @YAgyeman003 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dongshengdi773 Very interesting perspective. Thank you for sharing.

    • @YAgyeman003
      @YAgyeman003 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@JoMoon Haha! She was definitely not an amateur. I mean, she almost drove me to bankruptcy in like 3 years! I was ever so stupid. 🤦🏽‍♂

  • @shepherddlamzo2217
    @shepherddlamzo2217 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I like Chinese women

  • @darrelllang5211
    @darrelllang5211 ปีที่แล้ว

    Money scammer

  • @Kawka1122
    @Kawka1122 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok?

  • @craigjackson8898
    @craigjackson8898 ปีที่แล้ว

    JO I UNDERSTAND BUT AFTER YOU HAVE ESTABLISHED TO YOUR WOMAN A DEEP LOVE WHAT DOES HE HAVE TO PROVE TO HER PARENTS? MONEY DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU LOVE HER? MONEY DOES NOT KEEP A MAN FROM NOT PLAYING ON HIS WIFE. I DO AGREE THE MAN HAS THE PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITY OF SUPPORTING THE FAMILY! I AM A GIVER SO GIVING IS NOT A PROBLEM FOR ME. BUT IF I FEEL I AM BEING USED...THIS IS A DIFFERENT SITUATION!
    WOMEN REALLY DO NOT WANT A MAN WHO THEY FEEL THEY CAN STEP ON! THERE ARE TIMES SHE WANTS TO HER HIM SAY NO TO HER. BUT HE NEEDS TO KNOW WHEN TO SAY YES. COMMUNICATION and RESPECT IS KEY.

    • @craigjackson8898
      @craigjackson8898 ปีที่แล้ว

      JO EXPLAIN TO ME THIS FROM YOUR PERSPECTIVE. Why do women seem to like the BAD GUY MORE THAN THE GOOD GUY?

    • @craigjackson8898
      @craigjackson8898 ปีที่แล้ว

      TYPO There are times she wants him to say "NO" to her.

    • @craigjackson8898
      @craigjackson8898 ปีที่แล้ว

      the above typo should have been in the second paragraph of my initial comments.

  • @humanconnectionflores
    @humanconnectionflores ปีที่แล้ว

    get a job