I find it quite interesting that the same exact abuse, or negative life experience, can result in very different personality disorders, most likely due to their perception of the negative experience. In a child who experiences too many negative life experiences, the outcome can manifest in so many different ways that can span all 3 of the clusters. I find this absolutely fascinating! I've learned much from you Dr. Grande, thank you for lending your knowledge and experience!
I have a sad awareness that generally exploiting emotional pain has become a cottage industry. Funerals and family deaths are often thought of by narcissists as a time of financial exploitation by the commercial industries. This was once a real social taboo and it should have stayed that way. Bullying grieving people and families should stay beyond the norm.
I find myself addicted to your videos! You are further helping me understand my ex-husband and why I stayed much longer than I should have. I'm learning more about myself as I learn about his disorder. Thanks for being so informative and making these great videos. Now, how do I become unaddicted??? LOL
I've turned Autism and mental health issues into my latest special interest, obsessively so, my need to understand is primal. All I really have to differentiate between them in my very early childhood, is I never crawled and walked on my tiptoes BEFORE my father died when I was 2yo. Being the youngest of five I was treated like " The Fifth Child" and my family took great delight in telling me so, how life was so wonderful before the changeling, I see my issues with cluster C as being the perfect storm of nature and nurture.
I am still very curious about avpd vs avoidant attachement style. I have no insurance or health care provider, but I am pretty confident based on dsm criteria that I have avpd. I started looking into avoidant attachment because there's just so much more coverage on the topic though, and I find most of what is said to be very relate-able.
Love your work Dr Todd Grande! I had avoidant personality disorder. Iam now Cured from therapy and live a great life. Thank you so much for your research! So helpful. ✨
i started chewing the inside of my cheeks out just watching this. i think i have apd and some traits of ocd. i need help but im too scared to ask out of fear people i wont be understood. i love your videos they provide so much insight, thank you
When you say EARLY childhood experiences or events how early are we talking here? Like, before being able to have memories or after when as an adult you're able to look back to an early age, say around 4 and recall being that age and doing something or being somewhere?
Comment 48: 10,979 views, 491 likes, 2 dislikes. Just a waymark, for myself personally. I’m amazed at how Dr. Grandes older videos with fewer views and comments actually speak more than some of the current ones, they lay the foundations. For example ay 3:16 he speaks of events being different from experience (ie an event is what actually happens: an experience is what someone perceives). Many of us build castles in the air, that is where they shoul$ be; whoever heard of a castle underground. 😂. The problem is how to get your foundation under your castle in the air, so that it can stand upon the earth.....this is the difference between experience - castle in the air, event being standing on the earth. Avoidant is somehow being fearful of fantasm...
I find it quite interesting that the same exact abuse, or negative life experience, can result in very different personality disorders, most likely due to their perception of the negative experience. In a child who experiences too many negative life experiences, the outcome can manifest in so many different ways that can span all 3 of the clusters. I find this absolutely fascinating! I've learned much from you Dr. Grande, thank you for lending your knowledge and experience!
I have a sad awareness that generally exploiting emotional pain has become a cottage industry. Funerals and family deaths are often thought of by narcissists as a time of financial exploitation by the commercial industries. This was once a real social taboo and it should have stayed that way. Bullying grieving people and families should stay beyond the norm.
I find myself addicted to your videos! You are further helping me understand my ex-husband and why I stayed much longer than I should have. I'm learning more about myself as I learn about his disorder. Thanks for being so informative and making these great videos. Now, how do I become unaddicted??? LOL
I've turned Autism and mental health issues into my latest special interest, obsessively so, my need to understand is primal. All I really have to differentiate between them in my very early childhood, is I never crawled and walked on my tiptoes BEFORE my father died when I was 2yo. Being the youngest of five I was treated like " The Fifth Child" and my family took great delight in telling me so, how life was so wonderful before the changeling, I see my issues with cluster C as being the perfect storm of nature and nurture.
I am still very curious about avpd vs avoidant attachement style. I have no insurance or health care provider, but I am pretty confident based on dsm criteria that I have avpd. I started looking into avoidant attachment because there's just so much more coverage on the topic though, and I find most of what is said to be very relate-able.
Omg. I definitely am avoidant and dependant. Makes a lot of sense
Love your work Dr Todd Grande! I had avoidant personality disorder. Iam now Cured from therapy and live a great life. Thank you so much for your research! So helpful. ✨
You are most welcome!
Lina Vera Sjöberg what therapy worked for you if you don’t mind me asking?
Dr. Todd Grande do you know what therapy is most useful for APD?
i started chewing the inside of my cheeks out just watching this. i think i have apd and some traits of ocd. i need help but im too scared to ask out of fear people i wont be understood. i love your videos they provide so much insight, thank you
I love your videos. You're doing a great thing.
When you say EARLY childhood experiences or events how early are we talking here? Like, before being able to have memories or after when as an adult you're able to look back to an early age, say around 4 and recall being that age and doing something or being somewhere?
I have obsessive compulsive personality disorder and avoidant personality disorder. :( I don’t know what to do
Comment 48: 10,979 views, 491 likes, 2 dislikes. Just a waymark, for myself personally. I’m amazed at how Dr. Grandes older videos with fewer views and comments actually speak more than some of the current ones, they lay the foundations. For example ay 3:16 he speaks of events being different from experience (ie an event is what actually happens: an experience is what someone perceives). Many of us build castles in the air, that is where they shoul$ be; whoever heard of a castle underground. 😂. The problem is how to get your foundation under your castle in the air, so that it can stand upon the earth.....this is the difference between experience - castle in the air, event being standing on the earth. Avoidant is somehow being fearful of fantasm...
Great information. ❤️
Wonderful video.
Thank you, good doctor. You taught me something about myself
Is it possible to have social anxiety and avoidant personality disorder? I feel like I have both.
It is technically possible to have both.
@@DrGrande thank you for answering that question. Applies to me also
Thank u for making this video. I find it very helpful... keep making videos 👍🏻
You’re welcome! Thank you for the encouragement!
Dig the new intro👌
Thank you so much!
Life saver.
Could OCD seem to be a type of anxiety/tic disorder ?
Is it possible to have Apd or Dpd or both without significant negative experiences or traumas?
Yes, it is possible. The link between trauma and personality disorders does not explain all of the etiology.
@@DrGrande Thank you for answering. If I may ask, what other causes are possible?
Hi doc, is it safe to leave a minor child with the person having type C personality disorder?
I feel like avoidant and obsessive compulsive PD is my issue. Im a mess
Av low extro high neurot. Av low greg low assertiv low excitement seeking. High anxiety self consciousness. Schizoid low extraversion low neuroticism - coldness dispassionate apathy, detached. Schizoid is passively detached. Avoidant actively detached. Different themes. Comorbidity.
I’m so fk up