Why I stayed single for 13 years and don't regret a second of it

I’ve been single for 13 years and even though I was desperate to get into a relationship for many years, I’m so glad I’ve stayed single for so long. In this video, I share my story of why staying single was better for me in terms of my own healing, helping me seek them out for the right reasons and being happy. I also offer a different way to look at love that is actually making us feel incomplete and unloved. I hope my story helps you understand your own experience whether you’re single or in a relationship. Love, Matt
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T I M E S T A M P S
00:00 intro
00:28 seeking love for the wrong reasons
05:15 why i don’t need an other half
09:45 hot take!! (from previous point)
10:51 souls mates isn’t just about romance
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S T A Y C O N N E C T E D
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I N Q U I R I E S
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M U S I C
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[@ieatnoapples]

I also love your point towards the end that when we put romantic love on a pedestal, we automatically dismiss non-romantic soulmates and de-prioritize them, which in turn deprives us of such a deep love!

[@NYKIRA]

"We reduce the person to a set of checklists" Matt I love this ❤ truly I've felt very similarly, it's as if a modern relationship is simply a status update or an accolade

[@mindfulnesswithmatt]

right! gotta start seeing people as people again

[@blisstogo]

the second point, wow. I haven't heard anyone been so real with this yet. I agree, we really don't need to be in relationships just for others to feel comfortable, great point.

[@mindfulnesswithmatt]

Truly, only get into a relationship when it's appropriate!

[@ieatnoapples]

I would love to see a video of how you progressed so far on your self-healing journey without a therapist. I think this could be very useful for a lot of people who can't afford it or don't want to see a therapist for a variety of reasons.

[@lemongrassbb6483]

The relationship advice we all need to hear! ❤

[@mindfulnesswithmatt]