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Never ask a man what he feels but ask him what do you THInK about ...blank? Give him a problem to solve and they'll talk as a conversation starter, good tip 💥
"one aspect of pure love is choice", to recognize that we do have free will. That is real maturity and truth. Too many do not get there to understand that. "When you are loving, you are choosing". We are on "A journey to learn how to love". True
I've learned so much from this man. I love it when he expands on a subject. Relationships require a set of skills same as job interviews. A century ago+ people courted w/intent to marry, followed rituals and advice by family. Today, people date w/o advice, roles have changed. There is so much pain and hurt feelings from the social and biological confusion.
PUT MEN INTO A PROBLEM SOLVING MODE!!!❤💗❤Very good point. Instead of telling him how he failed you and what he should do ask: How can we/I achieve this(thing he also wants)?
When a man truly loves a woman he will talk there will be no silence most of the time , but if he doesn’t love her that much or remember he’s x girlfriend or just take advantage from her then there’s a lot of silence .
Where do you find these men that care enough about relationship to actually take a course to learn this stuff??? I’d love to hear one of John’s talks to men. I’d wait by the door and wait for them to come out. How about a group of men and a group of women each having their separate seminar on day one and then on day two a combined seminar? I’d go!!!
Why do we try to define forgiveness? Do we not know what it means? Or what to do with it? Seeing the good side of eventualities or looking at the positives has nothing to do with forgiveness. 22:20 People bring up forgiveness at the strangest of times. (sorry, just my rant) Wisdom and growth is knowing how and what to do at the right times.
That's why women need to stop having sex before getting to know a man. Too many women put the physical before the connection. If a man isn't connected to you and in love with you first, then don't sleep with him!! It will never end well! It's so simple but women complicate it. I've never had sex with a man that wasn't totally and completely head over heals in love with me first. And guess what? The sex is amazing and the men never ever leave. It's a beautiful thing. But women messed up men by making it too easy for them. Men don't want easy women! They NEVER STAY with an easy woman. Easy meaning giving her body/soul away before a man earns her love.
Well, I don’t see contradiction here...? A man not being into you is not personal. It can definitely FEEL personal and be interpreted as so, but is not personal. HE is not into what he perceives/sees (of you). It says about him (his interests, preferences, what he values or not in life, etc....) not about you.
Thank you both so much. My man,if he is my man? It's been 3 years this month, we don't go out on dates, he is always working so he says. The last time we saw each other was 7 days ago. He contacted me last evening asking what are you doing? I of course did not reply to him. What do I do about him? I am ready to walk away again..😊
When he has time to talk, I'd make some time to talk with him kindly with respect. Tell him how much you like him and why, then say.... it seems that you both want different things from life and that your not a match because you want more from a romantic relationship then he does. Tell him what those things are ... Only if he asks. Then wish him all the best with his future. And let him go and he needs to think. .. about what you really mean to him and if he's prepared to do what you want to keep you. Give him time to work it out. He's taken you for granted and not made you a priority because you might of just accepted it and not expressed want you want. Hope this helps you take responsibility for your future. xox
So basically give up Most men only want to date or just want friends with benifits So I am basically better of alone Why bother when it's never going to work
Why not go into it with a different attitude? From this video it challenges us to change our limiting beliefs - if you open mind & heart ❤️ it can help with your personal growth - I recommend you try w/o the fear and limiting your mind so you can be free to love wholeheartedly
That's why women need to stop having sex before getting to know a man. Too many women put the physical before the connection. If a man isn't connected to you and in love with you first, then don't sleep with him!! It will never end well! It's so simple but women complicate it. I've never had sex with a man that wasn't totally and completely head over heals in love with me first. And guess what? The sex is amazing and the men never ever leave. It's a beautiful thing. But women messed up men by making it too easy for them. Men don't want easy women! They NEVER STAY with an easy woman. Easy meaning giving her body/soul away before a man earns her love. **Men will WANT a relationship with the woman they love** Focus on friendship instead of the benefits. DO NOT GIVE BENEFITS TO FRIENDS!! ITS THAT SIMPLE!! I'm pissed at women and I am one, because they're ruining men by their stupidity!!
Such good advice, John. Wish you were my husband, ha ha, as bold as that sounds, you understand me and give me so much wonderful, astute advice! I'm older in a relationship which is complicated. How do I get personal counciling with you? I am very interested in doing so! Please give me the info to obtain this counciling. I will do the research to try and connect to obtain this counciling. Thank you.
Thank you. This was a very beautiful and thoughtful piece. Wisdom and maturity is choosing to love thru the fear, and the the mess. Both theirs and ours ❤😊
My man is a less talker esp now we're kn a long distance relationship. Hw's acting weird. Doesnt even wants me to sew his face cuz he said there's no change anyways. He's actually dumping me to find another one that cud love me more than he does. It was noy his choice to leave me alone bur bcuz he losr his job 2yrs ago and that gradually change him. He went far away to find another job but he said he's not happy with his life now. I jst tried to understand his situatiins right now. He said he couldnt promise me anything rigbt now. No clear future plans for us atm. We've been together for 14yrs and he jst wsnt to throw that away😔 I dobt want to give up on us still trying to make this work. I knw its kind of impossible.
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"learning from every experience without taking it personally", yes that's right
Never ask a man what he feels but ask him what do you THInK about ...blank? Give him a problem to solve and they'll talk as a conversation starter, good tip 💥
"one aspect of pure love is choice", to recognize that we do have free will. That is real maturity and truth. Too many do not get there to understand that. "When you are loving, you are choosing". We are on "A journey to learn how to love". True
I've learned so much from this man. I love it when he expands on a subject. Relationships require a set of skills same as job interviews. A century ago+ people courted w/intent to marry, followed rituals and advice by family. Today, people date w/o advice, roles have changed. There is so much pain and hurt feelings from the social and biological confusion.
PUT MEN INTO A PROBLEM SOLVING MODE!!!❤💗❤Very good point. Instead of telling him how he failed you and what he should do ask: How can we/I achieve this(thing he also wants)?
John is the only man I will listen to on giving advice on relationships!! Forget all the others!!!
Ladies. Just make sure you never give up your friends and stop trying to maks your man into a girlfriend.
I love John's advice! I was told rejection is redirection so totally agree with what you're saying
When a man truly loves a woman he will talk there will be no silence most of the time , but if he doesn’t love her that much or remember he’s x girlfriend or just take advantage from her then there’s a lot of silence .
This is a great message! Gratitude, forgiveness, mistakes and mishaps all lead us to where we need to be.
This has to be on replay non-stop for me.
Wow, thank you Dr. John 🥲🙏
He just keeps getting better, great interview, thank you!
Dr Gray& Michelle I love this it's so helpful
Where do you find these men that care enough about relationship to actually take a course to learn this stuff??? I’d love to hear one of John’s talks to men. I’d wait by the door and wait for them to come out. How about a group of men and a group of women each having their separate seminar on day one and then on day two a combined seminar? I’d go!!!
just the same when parents complain about their kids...... it's their fault, not the kids. We all have to take accountability
So, so good! For both men and women. The title does not do this video justice.
No demands.
This makes perfect sense why I slipped into my masculine logical sense when he was emotional
That just felt so natural
Why do we try to define forgiveness? Do we not know what it means? Or what to do with it? Seeing the good side of eventualities or looking at the positives has nothing to do with forgiveness. 22:20 People bring up forgiveness at the strangest of times. (sorry, just my rant) Wisdom and growth is knowing how and what to do at the right times.
😂 he says if a man doesn’t call you back (even after sex) it’s because he’s not into you, yet continues to say that’s not personal 🥴
@Brittany Burnam yes, that’s why it’s best to really know the person for a long time before anything
That's why women need to stop having sex before getting to know a man. Too many women put the physical before the connection. If a man isn't connected to you and in love with you first, then don't sleep with him!! It will never end well! It's so simple but women complicate it. I've never had sex with a man that wasn't totally and completely head over heals in love with me first. And guess what? The sex is amazing and the men never ever leave. It's a beautiful thing. But women messed up men by making it too easy for them. Men don't want easy women! They NEVER STAY with an easy woman. Easy meaning giving her body/soul away before a man earns her love.
Well, I don’t see contradiction here...?
A man not being into you is not personal. It can definitely FEEL personal and be interpreted as so, but is not personal.
HE is not into what he perceives/sees (of you). It says about him (his interests, preferences, what he values or not in life, etc....) not about you.
Thank you,😊
Thank you! honestly!
Thank you both so much. My man,if he is my man? It's been 3 years this month, we don't go out on dates, he is always working so he says. The last time we saw each other was 7 days ago. He contacted me last evening asking what are you doing? I of course did not reply to him. What do I do about him? I am ready to walk away again..😊
When he has time to talk, I'd make some time to talk with him kindly with respect. Tell him how much you like him and why, then say.... it seems that you both want different things from life and that your not a match because you want more from a romantic relationship then he does. Tell him what those things are ... Only if he asks. Then wish him all the best with his future. And let him go and he needs to think. .. about what you really mean to him and if he's prepared to do what you want to keep you. Give him time to work it out. He's taken you for granted and not made you a priority because you might of just accepted it and not expressed want you want. Hope this helps you take responsibility for your future. xox
Thank you for sharing this👍🏻
So basically give up
Most men only want to date or just want friends with benifits
So I am basically better of alone
Why bother when it's never going to work
Why not go into it with a different attitude? From this video it challenges us to change our limiting beliefs - if you open mind & heart ❤️ it can help with your personal growth - I recommend you try w/o the fear and limiting your mind so you can be free to love wholeheartedly
Change your mindset, first be happy without a partner and then you can be happier with others
That's why women need to stop having sex before getting to know a man. Too many women put the physical before the connection. If a man isn't connected to you and in love with you first, then don't sleep with him!! It will never end well! It's so simple but women complicate it. I've never had sex with a man that wasn't totally and completely head over heals in love with me first. And guess what? The sex is amazing and the men never ever leave. It's a beautiful thing. But women messed up men by making it too easy for them. Men don't want easy women! They NEVER STAY with an easy woman. Easy meaning giving her body/soul away before a man earns her love. **Men will WANT a relationship with the woman they love** Focus on friendship instead of the benefits. DO NOT GIVE BENEFITS TO FRIENDS!! ITS THAT SIMPLE!! I'm pissed at women and I am one, because they're ruining men by their stupidity!!
I agree. Why bother!
Most men are demanding liars!
I love being alone! It's so much easier...
Thank you. I´d love to see a video about female type of man.
God bless
Such good advice, John. Wish you were my husband, ha ha, as bold as that sounds, you understand me and give me so much wonderful, astute advice! I'm older in a relationship which is complicated. How do I get personal counciling with you? I am very interested in doing so! Please give me the info to obtain this counciling. I will do the research to try and connect to obtain this counciling. Thank you.
Amazing ❤️
Thank you. This was a very beautiful and thoughtful piece. Wisdom and maturity is choosing to love thru the fear, and the the mess. Both theirs and ours ❤😊
I was in that trap: a guy was talking non stop, 😂! Now I know what to do. 😊
Me 2. It’s a pity they are usually better at talking and not so much at listening😁
@@Danielle-eb2zh 😅
Synthesize different points of view . Love that
Can you make a video about men realizing they are falling in love and how do we as a partner can sense it without asking? Lol
@belle7437 a man will tell you. No guess work required at all
I can’t get him to shut up 😂
Where are logical men? I have met many men Totally illogical in their attitudes and behaviors of severe immaturity. M arr
You haven't met me lol
@@chrisadams2813where do you live? I'd like to meet you!
Our grand parents taught this. M arr
Reciprocal, easy + fun. Otherwise, move on.
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If he talk too much I just lose my interest so quickly there is no come back. 😁
My man is a less talker esp now we're kn a long distance relationship. Hw's acting weird. Doesnt even wants me to sew his face cuz he said there's no change anyways. He's actually dumping me to find another one that cud love me more than he does. It was noy his choice to leave me alone bur bcuz he losr his job 2yrs ago and that gradually change him. He went far away to find another job but he said he's not happy with his life now. I jst tried to understand his situatiins right now. He said he couldnt promise me anything rigbt now. No clear future plans for us atm. We've been together for 14yrs and he jst wsnt to throw that away😔 I dobt want to give up on us still trying to make this work. I knw its kind of impossible.