Don't Get Intimate With A Man Too Soon! Dr. John Gray
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Dr. John Gray of MarsVenus fame and author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus helps men and women experience greater love, passion, intimacy and romance in their relationships with men. Men need to feel needed and appreciated to give his best to a woman, When men and women understand the dance between masculine and feminine energy they feel greater attraction and to find romance. Women need to be able to express their needs and know how to ask a man for help or support and to be open to receiving from him. When she is in touch with her needs, is willing to receive from a man and appreciates and acknowledges him, it creates a win-win.
John shares what men and women experience in relationships and the importance for both and women to balance their masculine and feminine energy. When women can receive from a man this fosters romance and brings out the best in him. When a woman can share her thoughts and feelings with a man in a way that men can hear it creates greater intimacy. When you understand your own wants and needs and what men want and need in a relationship and how they fall in love you can find deep love and passion.
When women understand more about men they can get more of their needs met and experience greater intimacy. John Gray teaches how men connect with women and how a woman can invite attraction, get her needs met, share her feelings with a man in a way that will make him feel successful, make her feel heard and draw a man closer to her! When a woman is on the masculine side she often gives too much and her feminine energy can be depleted.
Want to know what makes a man fall in love? John Gray says a key for a woman's happiness is to be in a receptive energy and be open to what a man can give to you. If you, as a woman, are giving too much to a man, you are unlikely to attract a high-quality masculine man. This is why learning more about how to invite his attention with your feminine energy is important as is balancing giving and receiving. If you are a single woman or woman in a relationship or marriage and want to enjoy a great relationship with a man, then polarity between a man and woman are essential! If a woman is showing up with masculine energy and like she is the better man it can be very hard for a man to feel attraction. Dr. John Gray from Mars Venus fame and author of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus answers this question about men and women and what his advice is so that you can enjoy a loving, passionate, committed partnership relationship or marriage with the right man for you.
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I always give myself 3 months. Usually after a month their true character comes out. I end up not continuing the relationship. It has not failed yet. Men are so predictable
Same, they can’t keep the charade up for more than 1-3 months
They can’t 😂
*people are. Women aren't innocent of disgusting behaviours either
But it has relentlessly failed. You are single. And always will be.
excellent, no sex until he proves he's worth it.
they will tell you "I love you" just to get the sex and then they ghost or lame pexcuses such as "you deserve better" or "Let'S bE FriEnDz" which basically means he gets sex without ever mentioning the relationship or commitment.
I'm 71, married before. I met a wonderful man 2 months ago. For once, a man , this man, has not pushed for sex. We have kissed, held hands, and been very affectionate. We are both able and willing. We know it is going to happen, but getting to know each other,and the anticipation is so much better than having sex early. We hike, go to the theatre, go to a spa, out to dinner, many things, so we spend a lot of time together to talk. We live in the same city, but don't see each other everyday, and that's great to start. That is also anticipation. I have never had a relationship like this before!
At almost 57 I am so sad that I didn’t see this video sooner! It absolutely explains so much that I never understood. If God gives me with another long-term relationship, it will start out much slower than in the past. Thank you 🙏🏻
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You can wait a year and men will still leave and disrespect you.
by not having sex without commitment you stay level headed and catch his red flags and you don't stay a full year.
if you give him sex too soon your brain literally is addicted to the guy and you will not see his red flags.
Exactly. If that's what he wants to do, he'll do it regardless of how long you made him wait
Only if allow it
@@kc6810
If you let a man wait for sex for a whole year he could decide to spice up his waiting time. He'll probably have sex with lots of other women in the meantime.
And, what is more, if I'd meet a decent man I am really attracted to and I'd have to wait for a year to get physical with him.........By that time the flames of desire would be dead.
@@kc6810 you clearly don't know men
This simple trick have saved so many wasted years from abusers and guys faking love 🌺💐🌸 STAY in your POWER and do not sleep with him ladies
I pay for my needs, I don't get the nagging from a women or any commitments to make just PAYG best life, it's a cheaper lifestyle
@Somellow33 wow what a life wonder what you went through growing up
At this point, at 46, I totally give up on wanting to be married or date. It comes with too much heartache and pain. I'm a natural lover and care deeply about people. This is just too much.
Are you a man or woman?
You’re free to choose that
How is being a nature lover snd deeply caring about people a hindrance to practicing abstinence?
No matter what he will want to sleep with someone else regardless man bond to porn from there secret life these strategies only work with both people being faithful on all levels
First you should love yourself in order to meet the person who will receive the amount of love you have to give.
You’re giving love in order to receive love or you have love enough to give it and walk away with it if others don’t want to receive it?
Become love so everyone will love you and you will have the power to choose…
Love doesn’t break hearts when you love yourself enough
This is so true it saves you from unnecessary attachments
This is so true. I had a best friend (male) who went on a date with a girl, he really liked her and thought this was going to go the distance. They slept together on the first date. Something changed I am not kidding - maybe a month after or so, he was not attracted to her at all. He sat her down and told her he was looking for a wife, and she was not wife material. He even went as far as to tell me she was “ugly”. I was so confused 😂 like everything seemed good but the only thing was she slept with him too soon.
This guy is an asshole with double standards.
He even told her she was ugly…. Wow!
yes, men look for sex and feel disgusted by women who give it easily
...she's clearly not wife material, if she slept so easily with him, she has done it with others ...
That’s because men if sexual they will sleep with someone who’s up to it even if the feelings aren’t truly there. The fact that she allowed him to sleep with her at the first date made him think she was easy and that killed the attraction on his side. I’ve heard it happens way to often. Not always the case but some men will “test” women to see if they bed them too quick and if they do it makes women lack self control which makes men think a woman like this isn’t “wife” material.
Ladies please have your partners tested for STDs before you have sex with them… please know that there are several diseases that can be spread orally as well so be very careful when kissing…
this is extremely important
And…..he needs to prove he got tested by showing proof from the lab results!! Don’t believe him juts because he says he’s clean. That would be foolish and playing blind. Obviously, this goes both ways. Woman needs to provide proof with documentation too.
@@spiritual2020 correct!!!!!!!!!
This was an inciteful video. Nothing is guaranteed but having sex too soon definitely clouds your judgement. It is much easier to walk away from a man when you haven't been intimate. Guard your heart yall💗💗💗
I’m 5 months into a new relationship and no sex. He can wait till our wedding day 😅
Amen. I love this. I pray for John. That he comes to salvation & reconciliation in Christ Jesus.
this is the way!
@@user-cz9dh4yy3g I’m trying 💕
I went 3 years
@@a.d.b535 u made him wait three years?!
As a woman I was the one who felt empty the next morning towards him. A day later I missed him, but I knew he would be a waste of my time.
To be honest this was NOT my experience. When i slept with my boyfriend on the first date, he was still in my apartment 3 days later and would not unstick from me.... He was stuck to me like crazy glue for the longet time holding my hand everywhere we went... That was 6 yrs ago
ok but did he marry you?
Yeah but, that’s the exception and not the rule. Same story with my husband but, he is more femininely wired, and I’m more masculinely wired.
Just because it works out for a few does not mean it will work out for most.
What happened after the 3 days? 😅
@@lousdinovembreI tried to ask him to leave and figure out if he was homeless. Haha he wasn't he had a really nice place but he just wanted to stay with me and asked if we could move in together. He basically never left my side.
@@TruePathLiving but did he marry you?
I think us Arab women especially muslim women are lucky in this area!
There’s an idea that have been sold to women in the west that they can live & love like a man! And that’s absolutely wrong because we’re wired differently and there’s no point of getting intimate with a man without any commitment!!! It’s liberating for women actually cause there’s no need to rush women into having s3x before marriage 😊
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I'm sorry, I have to disagree with envy towards Arab or Muslim culture women, they are growing up to be sold to a man, regardless of love or fancies. Most of the women of Muslim culture that I know, getting married in order just to taste the sex, except for those who had been violated by feminine mutilation, I'm sure you know what I mean! If there is anything, but those ladies my heart goes out for! There is no amount of gold that is going to be enough to cover the feeling of wanting to divorce cos your husband is cheating and not being able to, cos you would be seen as a "secondhand" woman! Oh, please! Don't envy them-woman! ❤
@@kravch5653 they have this arrogance and disdain for other cultures and yet they have been living frozen in the year 700. wherever they go they are incompatible withj the local population (India, Europe, America, Australia, NZ, Africa, East and South East Asia), they do not integrate into the local customs nor respect the local laws but expect the locals to bend over backwards for them or violence ensues...so peaceful
There's a movie called a Summer Story which shows why a woman should always wait before having sex with a man. Love takes time. It is just as easy to lose the euphoric feeling of lust as it is to gain it
I remember that movie, I wasn't very happy about the woman's actions 😂
@ZNMelowLeloNeka Right. Did you see the outcome?? Every young woman should see that movie. He wasn't a bad guy, he just took a coward's way out. That's what a man does. That's why I wouldn't give a man diddly squat unless he's open to a marriage commitment and until he PROVES it.
It’s free on TH-cam, so I’m gonna watch it and see what lessons I learn! Thanks for the recommendation
@amberpalmer3708 Oh, that's awesome. The lesson that I learned from that movie is to take your time. Don't give your all to any man until he PROVES to you that he loves you. Love is so much more than a feeling.
haven't watched, it's on my list now, thanks : )
Im blessed to finally see who wrote that book, it helped my early adult state regarding relationships
I waited for three months and we formed a connection. I
even thought he was my soulmate because we liked the same things and everything about our past and present looked similar. But then we had sex and it was the most horrible sex I've ever had that i cringe everytime I remember. He then asked me out and i couldn't say yes because i can't imagine that being my future.
Thats the worse thing about waiting. I want to have a connection with someone, but I also want to have good sex, and when the sex is bad, I can’t feel connection anymore.
He didn't dump you after sex, that's the point of waiting.
This may sound shocking but, try to tell him what you enjoy and where/how to touch you. Careful on how you bring up this topic tho.
Same here, I and my guy had sex after 6 months of waiting,
I didn't like the sex... Now I can't get out
@@endisnear306 why you can't get out? out of what? is he paying your bills and you giving him sex in return?
Get a real relationship where you actually know the person for real before even considering marriage and sex. You've got to interview people and know what they're about, be friends first.
The longer you wait the better. Best if you wait 10 years.
10 years?!?!
I've only ever been sexually with 5 men in my life 3 were a mistake because I was 18 and dumb. The 4th one was my bf for 5 years and we were friends before hand. And then my now husband for 17 years. Im 37 now and have no desire to be with anyone else because being with the one you love is so much more than sex.
ladies, check out Pat Allen, she explains why as a feminine woman you should not give a man sex without commitment if you want a monogamous committed long term relationship with such man, especially marriage.
I'm saddened that J. Gray does not name this stuff being a man himself and understanding this.
There's no need of having sex before marriage, no wonder many relationships don't last long..
Lol whats a relationship without sex.. thats not living live, that's limitting your own happiness, sex is a devine blessing, if there's comittment than it's great to have sex.
That's so primitive! We should find a balance on everything. No need to have sex on the first date, but marrying someone with no previous sexual activity is crazy!
You’re not going to get any commitment if you keep having sex with men that don’t deserve it
@@fegomo191182 true it's primitive to an average person like yourself and the majority with the same mentality like yours BUT it isn't primitive to an EVOLVED man or woman..
@@fegomo191182 Only immature and people who have zero self control and no self respect think it's primitive to abstain from sex before marriage... Otherwise real people knows that sex is spiritual and secondly sex prior marriage can result to entanglement that one wasn't ready for, no wonder there's so baby mamas/ daddies dramas.. Only the wise practice self control and self discipline because they're visionary people who believe that sex isn't food, no one has ever died for luck of sex, and there's more to life than just living a careless life in the name of having sex..
WOW. The first minutes are eye-opening. There is a lot of insight that makes a lot of sense. Now I understand a lot of things that happen to me and why they happen and why I feel like I do now... this is super helpful. Wow. I feel there's hope for me now. Now, things are clearer now 😮
When there’s lots of chemistry and attraction sometimes stuff happens. Sometimes you can wait and realize you’re not sexually compatible.
This is ThE most insightful video I have ever seen.
Yes! I agree❤
This is really educative. Thank you
No sex until after marriage. It;s called self respect, get some, you;ll be happy that you did.
King David's son loved his 1/2 sister Tamar, but after he stole her virginity, he hated her. Hang onto your's until after marriage, I did, not sorry either.
no sex before wedding, otherwise the guy will park his car in whichever state the relationship was when the sex happened and then we are trapped in the cycle of waiting forever for his proposal + proving ourselves as marriage worthy and dubting ourselves we are + walking on eggshells aka "not pressuring him".
no sex before marriage and Pat Allen says so, this guy should say it
sex is part of a fullfilling passionate relationship, not having sex at all is unhealthy and restricting the bond
@@lolelyn1Marrying for the person, not the carnal knowledge is a much better foundation for marriage.
do whatever you want @@lolelyn1the guy who had sex with you and never called you back certainly had a dose of health...also be careful and dont become a public toilet letting many men in. Check yourself for diseases, you may have some and you dont know. Good luck.
how that has been working out for you? I dont know why so many women want to be unpaid s...ex workers @@a.d.b535
Wow! Great analogy of parking the car at the state the relationship was in! 🤯😮💨
I will let you know..PERIOD 😊
This has been absolutely helpful thank you so much!🎉😊
I’ve been celibate for 4 years and my mind is so much more clear without sex I also took time to get to know men their nature how they truly are and how to better vet men sex makes everything so confusing
Wow I am glad I came across this video. Thank you 🙏🏻
The thing is I have a very old fashioned traditional man and he definitely is not for sleeping around. However, because we have such a great bond and he pursued me.
men who want to find a long-term relationship consciously abstain from casual sex, that way they filter out women who don't know what they want or do not respect themselves enough.
Once you give sex to a man without commitment, it forever stays in his brain and he thinks "if she did it with me, she'll do it with the next guy", "if I/other men got it for free (sex without commitment) why do I have to pay (give commitment) now?"
or he has a small pene/finishes too early and waits when you fall inlove and it will be late...
these things happen as well
you can check the merchandise without letting it into your body like a public toilet @@Sky10811
Thank you for this interview 🌸 I do think there are exceptions as well but it seems quite solid what Dr Gray is saying about timing for sex & importance of intimacy. I’ve been single 17 years & sometimes women just want pleasure and it’s ok to between two consenting adults. All is about authenticity in all relationships.
Interesting information but please explain what celibacy does for a woman?
How about don’t play games?
I didn’t finish the video but in the beginning he is generalising the situation where the man gets bored or discussed if the woman sleeps with him too soon, he didn’t mention the emotional availability of both of them and jumped up right to the conclusions without deep explanation
It depends what you INTENTION is. What is your INTENTION behind every thing that you do?
I mean a tiger has the intention to eat, why the gazelle has to die?
I agree the right intent is powerful. The intent will align us with our best interests.
@@ShadaeMastersAstrology why are you single, then?
@@user-cz9dh4yy3g Who says I am lol?
@@ShadaeMastersAstrology are you married?
So I've had to endure this for a woman which i thought was respectable of her. However, i found out she was seeing other men while making me wait for it. I'm honestly really not even interested in dating anymore... I obviously can not tell good women apart from bad ones. However, it would seem there is a disproportionately large amount of bad ones....
Maybe she doesn’t think that she is in a committed relationship with you yet but is serious about you so not sleeping around with you. Still though no one wants the behaviour that you describe
but were you friendzoned? are you promiscuous? do you want a relationship with her or just the sex? do you shower? are you overwheight/balding?
Is the other guy offering her a relationship? did he arrive before you? did they become exclusive?
we need info my boy
Cause too many females open their legs taking feminism to far!! Which then trickles down decade after decade tearing the family unit apart and society. The longer it goes on the worse a society becomes. That’s why.
He’s right!
Another great presentation! Thank you!!!
Great communication, great way of communicating 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 well done welll said
Great talk, thank you!
Yes dont give your body find out what his intentions are
What about men who call you a teaser for not sleeping with them?
these men have no value, discard them immediately.
they want to use you and drop you and are trying to manipulate with such degrading words. A guys like that is full of red flags.
Sounds like a little boy 😌
Why give those men your time then?
Making them wait like this article said . I guess if they call you a teaser and leave it means they were only after sex anyway, so there's no loss.
God's blessings to all Amen 🍀🤗😇😇🍀💚💛
What do you think to the latest research showing testosterone in a woman is higher than her other female hormones? That keeping a woman's testosterone higher especially as she ages is actually healthy in so many ways physically and mentally?
He said that a focus on clitoral stimulation is "dangerous" and "addictive." But he didn't really explain WHY. Sure, it raises the woman's testosterone level and makes her want to have sex. What's wrong with that? Not attacking, just curious. 😀
He also said in one of his books it can be great for women that are too far on their feminine side (having a lack of testosterone)
The way this doctor speaks about women is vile and vulgar. He’s reduced women to a clitoris and vagina. Saying clitoral stimulation is addictive is just ridiculous. Women are constantly being degraded by men and we have allowed it. Just look at all the rights that women are losing in our society. 😢
My thoughts as well..
I mean, perhaps it could be counter-productive if youre trying to focus on making babies or being a mother.. but what if you're not?
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Men get direct stimulation but women shouldn't? Is this the Middle Ages?
Thankyou for this!
We did sleep together on the first date. If I could do it over again, I definitely would have waited for the bonding purposes that John talks about. But we are still together almost 4 years later and are engaged. So is it true that I will still become unattractive to him since we didn’t wait?? Worried…
Testosterone to testosterone and any other hormones, man to man or woman to woman, woman to man. Most everyone wants love to be in the lead. It’s not as clear cut as you’re saying. And in terms of desire: Many women don’t love to be “penetrated” and many men do. Let’s not be too dichotomous.
broe this channel and interview are for heterosexual relationships.
@@user-cz9dh4yy3g Pride yourself, it only took you 23 hours to attempt to smash this comment. Do you know that heterosexuality is a fluid category? Look it up and WAKE the H up.
@@ToddDouglasFox yah I'm not glued to internet like you, I talk to real people and go outside and have a job and a life, unlike you.
I dont care about your place in the spectrum bro, don't drag me into your victim vortex.
Go find a job, get sunlight and stop living off momys credit card.
I'm out of this "conversation". Talk to your usual imaginary friend.
@@user-cz9dh4yy3gI’m 70 and a physician. I started my first successful business when I was 13 so I could help my parents buy their first home. They are no longer with us. I’m not on the “spectrum”, although many are on it, likely you are as well. However you have no, zero relationship skills or self reflection skills but you do make a lot of incorrect assumptions to try to make up for it and to just attempt to defend yourself b/c you think that is what social media is for. Your coping skills mean you’ve been on social media a lot and are projecting. You get so many assumptions wrong, I’m surprised you have been allowed by anyone to relate with anyone. Meanwhile I’ll continue to speak about the rest of us who may want to be honest, appreciated, respected, and yes, for both our individuality and diversity. You can hide your head inside another man’s ideas about love and relationship but you have no idea what it is or how to go about it. Get humble and get some assistance. You need it as much as anyone does.
@@user-cz9dh4yy3gnot wanting penetration is still possible
How long should we wait before getting intimate?
when he clearly and explicitly commits to be in a monogamous exclusive long term relationship with you. Marriage has the paperwork that will reduce the chances he will bail the moment a small thing bothers him about you.
I love his teachings 💯💯❤️
How to reconect to a man if the sex was in the 3 date?
lmao same question 🤣
Pull back and give him space. Don’t be available for the next date (suggest another date that’s more convenient) and don’t text or call him. Wait on him to reach out to you. If you get another date absolutely DO NOT DO IT AGAIN. Tell him you made a mistake and you’re not willing to go there again until you’re ready. If he comes around good if not you avoided dragging things along and you see what he was really about. A woman’s power is in her “NO”.
If you liked, just do it again! 😊🎉
@@ReginaMcNeish 😘
Noooo. God made sex for marriage.
If married, it is part of the deal for both to have sex, unless there is illness.. It is cruel to with hold sex
Waoh. The ending part.
I'm not sure that the man goes off her like your saying.... where do u get this from??
How soon is too soon?
soon is anything before he clearly and explicitly commits to be in a monogamous exclusive long term relationship with you. Marriage has the paperwork that will reduce the chances he will bail the moment a small thing bothers him about you.
@@user-cz9dh4yy3g but what if after all the paperwork you find him trashy in bed? Just asking
Depends on the guy. I know women won’t hesitate to sleep with a guy they are extremely attracted to. For example, the rules of waiting go out the window if a guy like Chris Hemsworth were to make himself available to most women. So that tells me women do have sex early on, just for the right guy. Meaning, if she doesn’t have sex with me early on, she’s likely not that interested, and seeing as interest tends to only decline as time marches forward, it’s probably a good idea to go ahead and cut things off now.
it depends how feminine you are and what type of woman are you after @ryanbailey8588
are you overwheight and expect model-tyoe looking women or at least women who keep themselves healthy to give you the time of day?
are you short and expect average women to be attracted to you?
are your teeth stained, broken or missing?
do you have decent hygiyene or you smell and don't know it? (this is sad and disgusting and quite common with men)
do you shower daily?
do you use clean clothes?
do you shave or have a mess of a "beard" and think is "chad" ?
is your hair groomed or unkempt?
are you bald?
are you dressing like a 20 year old and you're 40?
do you smoke and smell like the stuff you smoke? (yikes)
do you have inconsistent employment and expect a decent woman (not a hooker type) to feel attracted to you?
do you watch porn and have other addictions?
do you play videogames consistently?
is your skin clear or heavily sunspotted and/or with acne (if you're young)?
do you have savings?
do you live with your parents?
do you have a bachelors/masters/phd or none?
what's your vision for your future? your future with your partmer?
are you online fantasizing instead of meeting people in real life?
I mean you gotta do some self reflection my guy.
You don't want an easy woman, that's not relationship material.
You want a decent woman and you need to come to terms with what you have.
Decent women do not give sex easily, hoo..kers do.
You can always hire a pros...titute.
Not true. Safety is number one for most others
@@jfaustin1742 yeah but I'm talking about after a guy has been deemed safe. If a woman doesn't sleep with a guy she deems "safe" early on, she's 9 times out of 10 just not attracted to him.
Oh my gosh you don't understand the nature of women, Goodluck man, you will only attract the ones that will divorce you
@@Didi-fr5ic 100%
Wow.
Dr Gray sounds like a super evolved man
Eh. I’m not so sure about that. He’s educated in some things but I wouldn’t go as far as using the word evolved.
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Easy. No sex before marriage. Nothing. Not even kissing.
lol. Maybe if you’re a fundamentalist Christian.
As a man, from my perspective, this seems like terrible advice. If my GF would make me wait months for sex I would certainly breakup if I had optionality with other women.
Well, then you are not looking for a wife, just a girlfriend. If you want a wife, you will make sure she is the one.
You have sex a few times a week for some minutes, but you interact with her personality for the rest of your life.
As a woman I have no desire to have sex with someone who is not husband material.
@@HieronymusBosch229 correct
he's looking for a woman who will give him the girlfriend/wife experience without him giving her his full commitment. He wants the companionship, sex, housekeeping benefits of a relationship while he still being single.
women please, do not give sex without commitment, that way you filter out these vampires who will abosorb your best fertile years and leave you as soon a small thing is bothering him or as soon as he gets bored of you and he sees someone younger/sexier/who gives him "better" sex.
That "better" sex is a never reachable end goal so you'll never be able to compete with the porn image he has in his mind and he'll always be actively looking for a younger/sexier/"gives me sex" woman.
If he's not committing to you and expects sex from you sure thing he's looking at you as temporary.
As women we need to collectivelly unite and weed out these vampires.
so when are you marrying the girlfriend who's giving you sex? @wepopew
And a women like me who is looking for a husband , I would let you go, you are not a man yet but a grown boy
@@Didi-fr5ic yass man-boys
the one you will have to mother during the relationship and will drain you.
You will be the one who will have to do the heavy lifting because they have the expectation that you should give him sex, give him x, give him y.
It will be a total drain.
I've seen it too many times, after she did all the work the moment the girl wants to know "what are we" these man-boys bail with a cheap "I love you but I'm not in love with you"/"you deserve better"/"let's stay friends" (which means sex whenever he wants without ever talking about commitment).
These man-boys are a **massive** energy and time drain for decent women.
bears repeating: ladies, check out Pat Allen.
Pat explains from the start why as a feminine woman you should not give a man sex without commitment if you want a monogamous committed long term relationship with such man, especially marriage.
I'm saddened that J. Gray does not name this stuff being a man himself and understanding this.
Good advice but the options are so abundant out there and easy to get That’s the issue 😮
are you a man or a woman?
how old are you? you sound mentally in your 20s
do you want to hook up or have a long term, monogamous relationship?
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