that's exactly what i am going through right now, i removed someone from my life less than 30 minutes ago and already miss that person but i know what had to be done was for the best.. the interest on eachother was getting weaker and weaker and i could predict how it was going to end so before i end up with broken heart i had to do the dirty work myself and cut the ties down myself.. but it truly does sting you painfully when that person used to care about you more often than now but things arent going the same way it used to
Yeah it suck. This year i went thru the toughest breakup i went thru. The girl i was dating just chose to walk away and left me and I accepted it but i checked her other profiles and she was talking bad about me and started dating other dudes, i totally saw her true colors and she wasn’t a good person and probably never loved me but cared for the feelings i gave her. She just ditched me and basically told me i wasnt good enough. Never had a girl do that before so it’s tough. 4 months later and i still feel hurt for being abandoned after 2 years of great memories. Life goes on so whatever ig
It's all in your head I'm gonna remember that the next time a guy shows interest in me, and he's serious, I'm gonna tell him, it's all in your head. (I'm gonna point to the head between his shoulders)
You also have to let go of the lies they told you about loving you, wanting children, marriage, etc. They said these things to inspire these feelings in you, and once you feel that way, they leave. You must see through their words and look at their actions.
Exactly. It isn't just the ideas we had. It was the hope or.lies they created that we believed. Their actions that were just breadcrumbs but not.consistent.
I needed to hear this, I'm currently going through the same thing, and have been before with other men, but this time I deleted him off all social media when he began to post himself going out on dates with someone else, or him dancing/flirting with another woman. It still hurts because I really liked him, and I know I'm a good woman, but just like all the other times, it left me feeling like what's wrong with me?!
Exactly, it hurts when you realize it, especially when you felt the feeling was mutual from their mixed signals. My current situation again unfortunately.
Hey... Don't feel bad, I'm going through the same thing! It's so good to see someone who can actually relate... Stay positive :) if he wants you bad enough, he'll make it really obvious. I believe God has a match for everyone. Stay positive!!!!
@Alireza Mfn I want to share my story. So I met this girl at work and I instantly had a crush on her as she was not only cute & hot but at the same time she was smart & a performer along with social skills. This really made me fall for her. We started talking to each other and over a period of time became close friends at workplace and everyone knew this that we are best of friends. I also used to flirt and tease her and we used to make plans to hangout. Finally we met and spend 4 hours around the city and texted for another few days. Slowly I realised that she started drifting away from me. Initially I didn't acted needy and kept cool but then finally I called her out that why we are not the same like before to which she replied that her bf doesn't like all this and hence we cant be the same friends like before(yes I already knew she had a bf but by then I already had feeling for her and I risked chasing her). Now we don't talk anymore as she didn't take initiatives in the convo and I stopped texting her. My point is you can see that not only I was physically attracted towards her but also had a good bond with her and also had spent one on one time with her. These things really make difficult to move on .
This actually makes a lot of sense. The feeling is never actually bad in the beginning. You have fresh interactions with the person in the beginning which trigger your imagination, and it genuinely feels like you have really found the person for you. The feeling only starts to become painful when it’s just left there with no reciprocation and it starts becoming clearer and clearer to you that your imaginations don’t conform to reality.
At some point you don't even think about that "person" anymore. You've just become in love with a vague representation of what that person at some (short) point in time meant to you - which could really just be a representation of deep love or wanting to be loved in general. I wish I saw this video before keeping this dream machine rolling for over a year and making myself completely addicted to it. Its been 4 years now and even moving to the other side of the globe doesn't make it go away - she shows up completely out of nowhere and I don't feel like I have conscious control over these thoughts anymore (sort of like PTSD but the loving kind?)
Feel disappointed they missed out on a good opportunity. Look at them like a homeless person, feel sorry for them but move on and don't give them change.
Besides feelings, I think it can be something with rejection. People normally can’t handle rejection very well. They will hang onto it until they accept that rejection is actually normal. Not everyone is gonna love you and care about you. You are the one who do that for yourself. I’m actually in the same situation & I’m working on self-love now. It’s hard and sometimes I felt lonely and craving for attention so much that I ended up texting my ex. It just left me heartbroken again and again. I can’t do it to myself anymore. Self-love is not an easy work but I need to do it!!!
I hate how no amount of logic or understanding can make the hurt go away. I'm in so much pain. I gave nothing but love, and yet I was left isolated by my ex.
Going through the my first heartbreak after 6 years together. I think the hardest thing to accept from all of this is the fact that she knew me better than anyone else, my true self, and she chose to walk away and that I wasn’t enough for her. It makes me feel unlovable and worthless even though I know I’m not. I miss her everyday but I still want her to be happy and live her best life. I just don’t know how to do that yet without her and I don’t want to feel this way anymore. I have to let her go
I needed to watch this video. This is exactly what happened to me. I created all these visions of me and her together in my head that I got so carried away and fell in love with the thought of us someday being a couple that I was left oh so heartbroken when she started to ignore me and began dating another guy soon after. I was addicted to the thought of us together. I need to forget her.
Hector Sanchez same here and the guy is probably not even ny calibre but I still ask myself where was I lacking? Shit hurts... Makes you feel worthless
@@t_challathagod172 i think girls are such a complicated beings though ive never been in a relationship before. Just from a few interactions i say theyre so unpredictable dont know what they want and like to manipulate guys minds, which shouldnt be done with every guy especially those who are super nice and friendly but used and abused by girls
@@t_challathagod172 im lucky if i maitain a friendship status just switch your focus to other things that will make u feel good about yourself be hardcore watch some mike tyson 😂
Sometimes the best thing you can do is accept failure and loss as a natural human being. You can love someone so much and it still doesn’t mean they will love you like that back. I had to learn the hard way watching someone i loved change and leave me behind like I meant nothing
That is what hurts. At some point you thought it was real and reciprocated and when you find out the person didn’t care enough to stay, you tell yourself it was all in your head that they ever cared to help yourself get over it and you made it all up and that is what makes it hurt that much more.
While this is true, it's not always in your head. In my case we were together and the Interest was mutual for a long period of time. Now things can change, but it is not always the case where you just imagined something happening.
I think it's because we VALUED the other person. Also the end of the relationship like they said, takes a hit on our self esteem!.. I think the trick here is to get into a relationship where the other person VALUES you more than you do them hehe!...Okay okay, EQUAL value!...
You thought they felt the same way about you that you felt about them and they did not. When you really like someone and are excited about being with them, you feel they experience those feelings as well. So the first time you see your crush flirting with someone else right in front of you, it's a total reality check. If you wish to remain friends with this person you need to see this person as having a different role in your life instead of romantically. Otherwise, it is going to hurt too much the times you are with this person and they are checking out other people right in front of you. Also, it will be obvious that you are upset. That's the only way you can remain friends with a crush who is not interested. For your own mental and emotional health, the more you can walk away from the romantic feelings towards this person, the healthier the relationship you can have with him/her going forward. Mourn for the relationship you thought you could have and become excited about the new relationship you could have going forward.
The damn pain of having a obsession is unbearable it’s feels like it’s impossible to move on, it feels like if you do move on you will be depressed, lonely, and that person will still be on your mind. I tried moving on and it ain’t working, I can’t be happy. Why does this stuff have to hurt so bad, it isn’t fare.
Just know they potentially left someone who was the best fit for them but they selfishly chose to neglect you in the moment of choosing something else over you. They gave up on you and told themselves they can have better and now they have to lay in the bed they made forever over a spontaneous decision that costed them you as a lover. Show them with actions of how good you actually were and how they messed up and fumbled a great person!
These comments are proof (for me) that we’re wired differently. It’s not easy, again for me to just drop someone. I do exactly what he explained. I get a rush from thinking about what I think we’re going to be. He IS NOT CHECKING FOR ME.
I really appreciated this video, there is not enough on unrequited love; particularly for females who fall into the 'friendzone'/no feelings returned. I liked how this advice can be used females who are experiencing rejection. Hope to see more on the topic.
Recognizing its the imagination I’m creating with this person when in reality he doesn’t care anymore. Doesn’t express his love anymore is cold. I need to open my eyes and wake up !!!
I have to say this is probably the best concise message I have heard about this. What he is describing is sort like a love addiction. I suffered with this for 6 months after ending a toxic fling. I was creating visualizations of me and this person I could not get them out of my head. It is like you become addicted and get high on thought of this person. I think a strict no contact is the only way and to consciously be self aware that you are thinking of them and actively try not too. Think about something else or do something that occupies your mind.
Wow you are right on the money and it hit my soul so hard. Thank you so much for being a voice of reason today. I needed so badly for someone to tell me to wake up 😔
Thank you so much for this information. I think the big mistake I made was that I went through a continuation of events and wrongly let time _'just'_ be the healer. This video is really helpful. Problem I was going through and a recent event was that I tried to get over someone I really liked a lot last year, eventually all came to a crashing end and then I came across someone else whom I took a liking to, she seemed interested with all the flirtatious stuff, but turns out that was apparently just part of her nature. My anxiety and depression due to low self esteem led eventually to her deleting and blocking me on Facebook and now it's difficult because the meetings I go to she may eventually turn back up at those. She says she's not going back, probably because of me, but I ruined it because of my stupid negative thoughts and anxiety. What hurts is that she shows currently that flirtatious attitude to someone else there and she had somewhat distanced herself because I was direct in telling her I like her. I guess because of past experiences it's why my anxiety kicked in. Anyway, I began reading Psycho-Cybernetics recommended by a friend, (great book for anyone interested in how our minds tick, highly recommended) the book gave me a lot of realisation, although I can't pretend I'm still struggling to get over this person in my mind. It is true, I suppose this video brought a realisation to me that I created so much in my own mind of being with this person, that potential and that has caused me this trouble. However, in my defence the first night she saw me she hugged myself, said she was sorry for certain small thing on Facebook and asked where I was from and that she would like to see me alone sometime. Why did I let my mind run free? I guess I thought too far, too quick. Anyway the Psycho-Cybernetics thing helped me realise that we have the power to control our minds, the negative thoughts in our head are what trigger the negative feelings and it's about shutting those out and only thinking about the positive thoughts, the moments in your life that made you feel good about yourself. I'm still trying to tackle this problem. What is also tough those 'friends' at the meetings on my list are 'her' friends, you get the point, it's not healthy, I don't know what to do in that situation. I lost my previous friends so have none to turn to and the little friends in person I had were those at the meetings. Forgive me for the long comment, but I would like to think that it's helpful to others going through what I'm going through. What I learned from the book and elsewhere on TH-cam is about the self-esteem and that is what I'm working on so hard for _'myself'_, the past 10 years I let myself go because of incident, after incident and reading that book helped me look back and think _'what is it that is causing me to feel down about myself.'_ Well for me, my appearance, being out of shape, not being what I once was. From that I have now got my gym membership and this year I'm working towards a goal that will empower me to make me feel good about myself, apparently goals can trigger positivity and lift your self-esteem. So yes, having that goal makes me think positive, feel positive, resilient is probably the better word. Overall though I get my down moments where the negativity props up, it's difficult, will that die off when I'm fitter again and feeling positive about my appearance, or will that negativity still linger? Anyway, this video hits home a realisation and is true when I think about it, I was sadly letting my mind run wild helps me sit here and rethink things. Thank you!
Scott CJ McKelvie wow very interesting story ! You are a strong man. My girlfriend of 2 years recently discarded of me like I was garbage. After 2 years of having a deep relationship I'm pretty messed up mentally and emotionally depressed. I'm reading books though and I'm trying to recover. The goal isn't to dig our hole deeper but to learn and build ourselves up with positivity ❤️
Its so true that we lose all those mutual friends between us and her as we don't want to recall old memories..that is why having a crush in your group is so bad..if things don't work out, you end up losing everything..
It's sad because it took me 10 years to fall in love again after being stung before. I met someone and i fell in love. I couldn't have them because they were already in a relationship, but i felt a real connection nonetheless and we got on so well. I never planned to start an affair so didn't. I decided i just wanted to be around this person because of the incredible personality they had. I loved them, literally everything about them. I just wanted to be friends with this person and was planning for a long term friendship, but with modern social media things seem to have deteriorated. It's hurting bad. You are absolutely right about creating scenarios in your head....My dream was to spend the day with this person at a funfair or theme park the romantic 'day that never ends'...Just as friends you understand, but even that now appears a long shot. Great video though, you speak a lot of sense...I don't know where to go from here...I've known this person for 2 years and been in love for all that time. We seemed close friends but are now drifting apart.
Chris Knight wow i can relate 2 almost everything u said. u connect w them and it feels good. but sometimes u maybe just arent what their partner/friend would look like.....they just were too nice to actually say it. took me too long to realise that.
Oh my gosh exact same situation..had a crush on someone and became close friends with someone only to realise that she is already in a relationship..only difference is I still gave it a shot and asked her out..we spent 4 hours together and one week later I expressed my feelings ..she told me politely that she is already in a relationship..and it won't be righteous for her to meet me again..slowly and slowly we started drifting apart ..she never ghosted or ignored me but the convo were not like before and at last I offered her friendship..she said now its not possible to be friends like before as her bf is getting insecure about it.
Sometimes it happens when the person you were in a relationship with, was highly manipulative and just used you for example money, favours and in order to hook you, they love bomb you with compliments and faking the future, they tell you they will marry you, travel the world with you and will describe in details how your life will be with them etc and deep down you hope that the imagination created by that person will come to pass. But then they never stick to their words and you believe that you did something wrong because their actions are not matching their words. Sometimes it is very hard to see, that the person you love so much doesn't care a tiny bit about your well-being. So we tend to rather day dream about their fake promises instead of facing the truth and move on. I fell for a scammer and took me four years to realize that he pursued me out of his own interest. It was after I listened to my gut instinct that I finally broke up and now with some distance I realized I have made myself a fool believing his beautiful lies.
@@bessk8847 I first met him on Facebook, he sent me a friend request, but I also met him in person and travelled to Africa twice. The first 8 months he sent daily text messages, video chats etc, very charming and romantic and he was a good listener. He didn't even ask for money, but then he started to complain about money and guilt tripped me to help him out. Small amounts at first, later on, he demanded more and more money and he was never satisfied , it was never enough for him. He ignored or insulted me whenever I couldn't sent more money.. If you think of someone in particular coming from Jamaica, there are websites where you can find romance scammers. Be careful when money or favors come into play, he might not be serious about you.
@@Mina-tt9kd This sounds familiar he was trying to.get u attached and earn his trust they listen to learn about u especially if ur vulnerable. You visited him how was in person my scammer turned out to be abusive crazy !we should have a chat !☕
It really does hurt . So fucking much. To me it hurts even more when you know that person is capable of love , you know they can love someone else, but that someone just isn’t you. 4 billion people on earth and for some reason, you’re not the one. That’s what hurts me. It hurts me that there’s someone out of those 4 billion people that she’ll be willing to give a chance. That she’ll hug, kiss, and talk about her deepest thoughts. That someone isn’t me. Why do I have to have these feelings? Why did I ever have to meet her? She’s out there probably looking for that person and I’m over here crying like a pathetic loser . I do my best not too, yet my heart always wins. I hate this so much.
@@cristian9447 Hey man thanks for asking. Thankfully I’ve gotten a lot better; she still comes to mind but not as bad as when I wrote this comment. What’s helped is immersing myself in hobbies, joined dating apps ( for me it’s helped to see how many more fish are in the sea), and meet new people through meetup. In hindsight it’s kinda good it didn’t work out lol
Happened to me now, I fell in love with a guy, chased him a bit until I saw him hitting on another lady, whhich made let it go and break contact. But I miss seeing him, cant deny.
“It hurts even more when you know that person is capable of love. You know they can love someone else, but that someone just isn’t you.” Hits so hard. 😞
Ive like this guy for 3 years he never ones like me back and he knows i like him i even asked him if he likes me and he doesnt he’s such a nice guy snd sent me a sweet paragraph telling mr he doesnt like me but he didnt sugar coated me he just said he didnt like me in the a good way he didnt straight up said i dont like you (hard to explain)he’s in my class this year he tries to talk to me but i feel uncomfortable bc im trying to stop liking him but ik that if i start talking to him i’ll fall even more it’s like there’s a wall between us and i cant break that wall neither can he.for so many years ive like him there are times i think i dont like him but i still think of him so like idk if i still like him or if i dont like him and just miss the idea of him...
EXCELLENT! you should have the most subs for a dating channel because you get straight to the point, no other stuff, you are intelligent! I'm unsubbing all other relationship channels!!!
This video has helped me a lot and relating to me 100%. The question for me is. Can you be friends with someone who doesn't care about you if you do let go of these feelings?
Amazing advice, seriously I was in Rusty's dilemma an thnk God I'm over it. It took me time to get over those emotions an sometimes memories of feeling those powerful thoughts etc will try too come back but I overpower it better. It does take time an effort to overcome those heartbreaking feelings but it can be done, I'm a witness to it. Thnks for your advice in explaning why those heartbreak feelings come about! Thumbs up!👍👍
I actually kept telling myself exactly what you're saying. I was waiting for my ex to be this person who gave their all to me but I was left with not even partial. Very little phone calls, only saw him once a week if lucky and in text I tried so hard to get to know, him asking him so many questions cause I was excited but he didn't do the same, it was like he wasn't even interested. I guess the thing that confuses me is that after I broke it off, he wanted me back but then he wasn't doing anything to even win me back. He said he loved me and he liked the way I was and that I was there for him... I don't understand because he wasn't there for me and that's why I wanted to be friends, so I could still be there for him cause I care about him. It's over now because I explained everything that went wrong or that was wrong from the beginning and he said that he was done because I made a big deal over something small, I didn't like his response so I just let him have the "I had let that person go" moment I had to be the dramatic one because he wasn't going to change. Guess we're not even friends now, I just feel bad because I care about him, I wish I didn't but I do and I hope time will heal me. And I hope he changes and doesn't hurt anyone else.
if he does the same things to u to other people as well, he's just being friendly. if he focuses on you only every time, it means he likes you or just trying to get in your pants, depends.
If a guy loves he will tell you ,and if he loves you and doesn't tell you ,you still don't want him because that means that he is unable to step up and that will significantly affect your relationship and your attraction towards him.You can't be attracted to him if you have to drag him,you can't feel secure with him if he gives mixed signals and one of the strongest foundation of a long lasting relationship is trust,a sense of feeling secure So If u can't tell if he does...run...chances are if it happens it would end without you being able to tell why it ended.
side chick is similar to friends with benefit meaning that your relationship is a secret and just to get in each others pants. if he is really into you. he would introduce u to all his friends and family and try to make it official that you are girlfriend boyfriend
Thanks! So many videos talking abt. unfollow him from social media and nonesense. I just realized in my case I did not want to accept that they didn't/don't want me. I have to stop telling myself different.
I really needed to hear this out, I've imagined stuff for 6 years now. It's gonna be really hard cuz I still truly really like her and she's never been bad to me we've always been really good friends. I still am lost and have no idea what to do
I'm really thankful for this video tbh I was really depressed I was in love with my gf and she didn't care and she left me for some other dude and I hoped that one day she'd come back but she won't and now thanks to this video I'm grateful that I can finally move forward and hopefully I can find a gf that will feel the same for me
I recently got out of a 3 year relationship I know it may not be long but it’s hard for me to get over her. Idk it’s hard for me to let go of everything and it’s been a few months now since we broke up. This video was very helpful
Answer to question: because they were so close to you and now they’re different. You were best friends, real honest, a wonderful relationship, and then she left because she’s a fake. She’s terrified of broken, human men. She wants a independent avoider like herself. Not a committed, honest, man. She thinks that is clingy and needy.
Thanks man i got rejected by this girl i like she was the first girl i ever asked out, and i was so upset, and i hated the fact that she could carry on with her life without any care for hurting me. But i am more thoughtful, caring, and attractive than her and i am not allowing her to bring me down.
That's exactly what I'm going through right now. I believe that the first thing to let go of someone you really care about is not to be near them, to be far away from them as possible and not seeing them. But I see this girl every week, as she is in my class. It's even harder, as I can clearly see how she doesn't give a shit about me - she doesn't even look at me when we meet in the hallway, even if we're alone, nothing, it's like I'm not there, she just ignores me all the time. The way I'm trying to get through this is doing the same: I started to ignore her too. Honestly I feel like a moron, but MAN IT'S SO HARD EVEN TO LOOK AT HER. Anyone out there with same story?
Juwani 90 o had this old friend that i have have a crush on ever since i told her that i loved her she treats me like shit she said that she likes me but she chose another boy over me so when we graduate since we are 12th graders im going to cut her off it really hurts because we had a lot of fub times together.
Yes, it's the hardest thing to do - it's probably even harder for you, because you two are so close to each other, as you said. As I'm writing this, I don't see this girl anymore, as we finished the study - but she's still on my mind all the time. When you tell a girl you like her and she still doesn't even care, there's nothing more you can do. We just have to let go, no matter how hard it is
I’m watching this, just as WFH is ending, just after the pandemic and, yep. As much as I have only rarely thought about this man, suddenly, I feel an obsession. It wasn’t because we were ever actually in a relationship either. There was just all sorts of potential in stares, other behaviors and what he said to me, years back. As I am older now and with this return to the workplace, and also after leaving my family, due to attempts at narcissistic abuse from my mother, it’s as if the return to the workplace magnifies and concretizes just how dull my life is. So, thinking back on what that was and what it could’ve been is not really good as, it wastes my time. The only good thing about it is that I’ve embarked on a diet and I’m doing well at it, so far, which is better than I ever have, in the past. But, I’m aware of the reality of the situation and all I can really hope for, is that it leads to more hope, with someone else.
So I ignored this dude that I supposedly was dating bc he never had time for me and always cancelled dates. My friend told me a couple days ago that she seen a vid of him hugging and kissing his bbymama in Nov of last year. And he msg me Dec trying to talk to me, I never replied until now. I told him I knew about the vid and told him off he msged me bk saying that he tried to get back with me but I wasn't available so he moved on... Idk y I'm heartbroken now but I am. He's moved on and I haven't... I still love the guy. Any advice?
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so true. sometimes fantasy makes us forget the person's true colour.
I agree..glad i found it now
Elissa R 😪
So true
Can't deny the truth 💔💯
Yessss
and sometimes we stick with the memories of when they cared before they stopped caring
that's exactly what i am going through right now, i removed someone from my life less than 30 minutes ago and already miss that person but i know what had to be done was for the best.. the interest on eachother was getting weaker and weaker and i could predict how it was going to end so before i end up with broken heart i had to do the dirty work myself and cut the ties down myself.. but it truly does sting you painfully when that person used to care about you more often than now but things arent going the same way it used to
If they can just stop caring just like that it means they NEVER really cared to begin with!
When they pretended to care.
Actually we just remember the good, period. ._. .... like wtf mind??
Yeah it suck. This year i went thru the toughest breakup i went thru. The girl i was dating just chose to walk away and left me and I accepted it but i checked her other profiles and she was talking bad about me and started dating other dudes, i totally saw her true colors and she wasn’t a good person and probably never loved me but cared for the feelings i gave her. She just ditched me and basically told me i wasnt good enough. Never had a girl do that before so it’s tough. 4 months later and i still feel hurt for being abandoned after 2 years of great memories. Life goes on so whatever ig
wow so true. we create this fantasy of what could've been even though there was no guarantee in the first place.
Jaimi Gray preach
it's all in your head
😐🤦👎
Rachelle Balan moron
It's all in your head
I'm gonna remember that the next time a guy shows interest in me, and he's serious, I'm gonna tell him, it's all in your head.
(I'm gonna point to the head between his shoulders)
Agreed , we love the stories we made in our heads and got attached to lies
Comedian you are
You also have to let go of the lies they told you about loving you, wanting children, marriage, etc. They said these things to inspire these feelings in you, and once you feel that way, they leave. You must see through their words and look at their actions.
Exactly. It isn't just the ideas we had. It was the hope or.lies they created that we believed. Their actions that were just breadcrumbs but not.consistent.
tosca donna People who lead others on in that way are major losers and in some ways, the world would be better off without them.
Wow this happened to me
True af
He wanted to marry me to early wtf
I needed to hear this, I'm currently going through the same thing, and have been before with other men, but this time I deleted him off all social media when he began to post himself going out on dates with someone else, or him dancing/flirting with another woman. It still hurts because I really liked him, and I know I'm a good woman, but just like all the other times, it left me feeling like what's wrong with me?!
I know how you feel
- had exact same experience yesterday .. Realizing I was only being played for a fool all these months
Exactly, it hurts when you realize it, especially when you felt the feeling was mutual from their mixed signals. My current situation again unfortunately.
Hey... Don't feel bad, I'm going through the same thing! It's so good to see someone who can actually relate... Stay positive :) if he wants you bad enough, he'll make it really obvious. I believe God has a match for everyone. Stay positive!!!!
+Marco Polo thanks Marco, your right, and I agree, you keep your head up as well!
+steven white keep your head up, the pain won't last forever, eventually we overcome it, learn from it, and move on to better!
So me right now ... So so me.... It's been more than a year....I hate that I'm not the one who just doesn't give a fk
sardonyxz me too 😢
How do you feel about it now? Did you move on?!
sardonyxz this excatly how I feel
I'm in the Year Club now too. Why did this one hurt so bad?
@Alireza Mfn I want to share my story. So I met this girl at work and I instantly had a crush on her as she was not only cute & hot but at the same time she was smart & a performer along with social skills. This really made me fall for her.
We started talking to each other and over a period of time became close friends at workplace and everyone knew this that we are best of friends. I also used to flirt and tease her and we used to make plans to hangout.
Finally we met and spend 4 hours around the city and texted for another few days. Slowly I realised that she started drifting away from me.
Initially I didn't acted needy and kept cool but then finally I called her out that why we are not the same like before to which she replied that her bf doesn't like all this and hence we cant be the same friends like before(yes I already knew she had a bf but by then I already had feeling for her and I risked chasing her).
Now we don't talk anymore as she didn't take initiatives in the convo and I stopped texting her.
My point is you can see that not only I was physically attracted towards her but also had a good bond with her and also had spent one on one time with her.
These things really make difficult to move on .
This actually makes a lot of sense. The feeling is never actually bad in the beginning. You have fresh interactions with the person in the beginning which trigger your imagination, and it genuinely feels like you have really found the person for you.
The feeling only starts to become painful when it’s just left there with no reciprocation and it starts becoming clearer and clearer to you that your imaginations don’t conform to reality.
At some point you don't even think about that "person" anymore. You've just become in love with a vague representation of what that person at some (short) point in time meant to you - which could really just be a representation of deep love or wanting to be loved in general.
I wish I saw this video before keeping this dream machine rolling for over a year and making myself completely addicted to it. Its been 4 years now and even moving to the other side of the globe doesn't make it go away - she shows up completely out of nowhere and I don't feel like I have conscious control over these thoughts anymore (sort of like PTSD but the loving kind?)
Something tells me that we have all been "Rusty" at one point or another. And if you haven't felt this way before...well lucky for you.
ITS SO HARD TO MOVE ON
Kiel Anderson STFU Bolshevik.
It is
I fucking know😭😖
Nyro Ackz It is,,, It hurt so much😢💔
ARVIE VVV I know, the damn pain is unbearable it feels like it’s impossible to move on. 🤧😓
You knocked that out of the park 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Feel disappointed they missed out on a good opportunity. Look at them like a homeless person, feel sorry for them but move on and don't give them change.
:(
It's funny they rather be homeless than be wit you.
That makes so much sense. Thank you
Besides feelings, I think it can be something with rejection. People normally can’t handle rejection very well. They will hang onto it until they accept that rejection is actually normal. Not everyone is gonna love you and care about you. You are the one who do that for yourself. I’m actually in the same situation & I’m working on self-love now. It’s hard and sometimes I felt lonely and craving for attention so much that I ended up texting my ex. It just left me heartbroken again and again. I can’t do it to myself anymore. Self-love is not an easy work but I need to do it!!!
It's worse when the person sold you the dream
it's hard when you find out they only like the things you do, but not you 😔
I hate how no amount of logic or understanding can make the hurt go away. I'm in so much pain. I gave nothing but love, and yet I was left isolated by my ex.
Going through the my first heartbreak after 6 years together. I think the hardest thing to accept from all of this is the fact that she knew me better than anyone else, my true self, and she chose to walk away and that I wasn’t enough for her. It makes me feel unlovable and worthless even though I know I’m not. I miss her everyday but I still want her to be happy and live her best life. I just don’t know how to do that yet without her and I don’t want to feel this way anymore. I have to let her go
I needed this 4 years ago! he is so right!
I needed to watch this video. This is exactly what happened to me. I created all these visions of me and her together in my head that I got so carried away and fell in love with the thought of us someday being a couple that I was left oh so heartbroken when she started to ignore me and began dating another guy soon after. I was addicted to the thought of us together. I need to forget her.
Hector Sanchez same here and the guy is probably not even ny calibre but I still ask myself where was I lacking? Shit hurts... Makes you feel worthless
@@t_challathagod172 i think girls are such a complicated beings though ive never been in a relationship before. Just from a few interactions i say theyre so unpredictable dont know what they want and like to manipulate guys minds, which shouldnt be done with every guy especially those who are super nice and friendly but used and abused by girls
@@brahimlh2909 how do you manage to stay away from relationships
@@t_challathagod172 im lucky if i maitain a friendship status just switch your focus to other things that will make u feel good about yourself be hardcore watch some mike tyson 😂
@@brahimlh2909 🤣🤣🤣 true that
Sometimes the best thing you can do is accept failure and loss as a natural human being. You can love someone so much and it still doesn’t mean they will love you like that back. I had to learn the hard way watching someone i loved change and leave me behind like I meant nothing
That is what hurts. At some point you thought it was real and reciprocated and when you find out the person didn’t care enough to stay, you tell yourself it was all in your head that they ever cared to help yourself get over it and you made it all up and that is what makes it hurt that much more.
While this is true, it's not always in your head. In my case we were together and the Interest was mutual for a long period of time. Now things can change, but it is not always the case where you just imagined something happening.
you hit everything spot on. really good advice.
Bear down!
I think it's because we VALUED the other person. Also the end of the relationship like they said, takes a hit on our self esteem!.. I think the trick here is to get into a relationship where the other person VALUES you more than you do them hehe!...Okay okay, EQUAL value!...
Who still watching these videos today 2020?! So clear, sincere,direct ,true and to the point. I like your talks and they helped me alot. Thank's 🙏👌👍
Wow! Thank you I’ve been struggling it’s like a battle but very painful experience. I know GOD will restore me
You thought they felt the same way about you that you felt about them and they did not. When you really like someone and are excited about being with them, you feel they experience those feelings as well. So the first time you see your crush flirting with someone else right in front of you, it's a total reality check. If you wish to remain friends with this person you need to see this person as having a different role in your life instead of romantically. Otherwise, it is going to hurt too much the times you are with this person and they are checking out other people right in front of you. Also, it will be obvious that you are upset. That's the only way you can remain friends with a crush who is not interested. For your own mental and emotional health, the more you can walk away from the romantic feelings towards this person, the healthier the relationship you can have with him/her going forward. Mourn for the relationship you thought you could have and become excited about the new relationship you could have going forward.
This is so true. I need your videos to survive the dating world 🙌🏽
The damn pain of having a obsession is unbearable it’s feels like it’s impossible to move on, it feels like if you do move on you will be depressed, lonely, and that person will still be on your mind. I tried moving on and it ain’t working, I can’t be happy. Why does this stuff have to hurt so bad, it isn’t fare.
You’re right. It isn’t fare. It’s fair. Fare is what you pay to ride a bus.
@@AntwhaleNearfar You know what I meant…… Typos happen. 😑😒
I know I have to let go but it's so hard😭😭😭
I let go😭😭😭
Cindy Mohammed good for you
Just know they potentially left someone who was the best fit for them but they selfishly chose to neglect you in the moment of choosing something else over you. They gave up on you and told themselves they can have better and now they have to lay in the bed they made forever over a spontaneous decision that costed them you as a lover. Show them with actions of how good you actually were and how they messed up and fumbled a great person!
Its been two years how was it? Did u make it??? 💙💙
Black don’t crack!!! This guy hasn’t aged at all
These comments are proof (for me) that we’re wired differently. It’s not easy, again for me to just drop someone. I do exactly what he explained. I get a rush from thinking about what I think we’re going to be. He IS NOT CHECKING FOR ME.
I’m going through a very deep crush and this is just what I needed to hear...I definitely don’t wanna be heartbroken!
I really appreciated this video, there is not enough on unrequited love; particularly for females who fall into the 'friendzone'/no feelings returned.
I liked how this advice can be used females who are experiencing rejection. Hope to see more on the topic.
Recognizing its the imagination I’m creating with this person when in reality he doesn’t care anymore. Doesn’t express his love anymore is cold. I need to open my eyes and wake up !!!
practising non attachment helps look at situation rather than sinking into The Emotions
Needed this great advice today after realizing I was dealing w a player yesterday ...thank you for your compassionate advice
I have to say this is probably the best concise message I have heard about this. What he is describing is sort like a love addiction. I suffered with this for 6 months after ending a toxic fling. I was creating visualizations of me and this person I could not get them out of my head. It is like you become addicted and get high on thought of this person. I think a strict no contact is the only way and to consciously be self aware that you are thinking of them and actively try not too. Think about something else or do something that occupies your mind.
Wow you are right on the money and it hit my soul so hard. Thank you so much for being a voice of reason today. I needed so badly for someone to tell me to wake up 😔
You are freaking amazing
This is exactly what happened to me.
Thank you
Wow a good comment.
Kiel Anderson if u ain't got anything better to say fuck off
Thank you so much for this information.
I think the big mistake I made was that I went through a continuation of events and wrongly let time _'just'_ be the healer. This video is really helpful. Problem I was going through and a recent event was that I tried to get over someone I really liked a lot last year, eventually all came to a crashing end and then I came across someone else whom I took a liking to, she seemed interested with all the flirtatious stuff, but turns out that was apparently just part of her nature. My anxiety and depression due to low self esteem led eventually to her deleting and blocking me on Facebook and now it's difficult because the meetings I go to she may eventually turn back up at those. She says she's not going back, probably because of me, but I ruined it because of my stupid negative thoughts and anxiety.
What hurts is that she shows currently that flirtatious attitude to someone else there and she had somewhat distanced herself because I was direct in telling her I like her. I guess because of past experiences it's why my anxiety kicked in.
Anyway, I began reading Psycho-Cybernetics recommended by a friend, (great book for anyone interested in how our minds tick, highly recommended) the book gave me a lot of realisation, although I can't pretend I'm still struggling to get over this person in my mind. It is true, I suppose this video brought a realisation to me that I created so much in my own mind of being with this person, that potential and that has caused me this trouble. However, in my defence the first night she saw me she hugged myself, said she was sorry for certain small thing on Facebook and asked where I was from and that she would like to see me alone sometime. Why did I let my mind run free? I guess I thought too far, too quick.
Anyway the Psycho-Cybernetics thing helped me realise that we have the power to control our minds, the negative thoughts in our head are what trigger the negative feelings and it's about shutting those out and only thinking about the positive thoughts, the moments in your life that made you feel good about yourself. I'm still trying to tackle this problem. What is also tough those 'friends' at the meetings on my list are 'her' friends, you get the point, it's not healthy, I don't know what to do in that situation. I lost my previous friends so have none to turn to and the little friends in person I had were those at the meetings.
Forgive me for the long comment, but I would like to think that it's helpful to others going through what I'm going through. What I learned from the book and elsewhere on TH-cam is about the self-esteem and that is what I'm working on so hard for _'myself'_, the past 10 years I let myself go because of incident, after incident and reading that book helped me look back and think _'what is it that is causing me to feel down about myself.'_ Well for me, my appearance, being out of shape, not being what I once was. From that I have now got my gym membership and this year I'm working towards a goal that will empower me to make me feel good about myself, apparently goals can trigger positivity and lift your self-esteem. So yes, having that goal makes me think positive, feel positive, resilient is probably the better word.
Overall though I get my down moments where the negativity props up, it's difficult, will that die off when I'm fitter again and feeling positive about my appearance, or will that negativity still linger? Anyway, this video hits home a realisation and is true when I think about it, I was sadly letting my mind run wild helps me sit here and rethink things. Thank you!
Scott CJ McKelvie wow very interesting story ! You are a strong man. My girlfriend of 2 years recently discarded of me like I was garbage. After 2 years of having a deep relationship I'm pretty messed up mentally and emotionally depressed. I'm reading books though and I'm trying to recover. The goal isn't to dig our hole deeper but to learn and build ourselves up with positivity ❤️
Its so true that we lose all those mutual friends between us and her as we don't want to recall old memories..that is why having a crush in your group is so bad..if things don't work out, you end up losing everything..
It's sad because it took me 10 years to fall in love again after being stung before. I met someone and i fell in love. I couldn't have them because they were already in a relationship, but i felt a real connection nonetheless and we got on so well. I never planned to start an affair so didn't. I decided i just wanted to be around this person because of the incredible personality they had. I loved them, literally everything about them. I just wanted to be friends with this person and was planning for a long term friendship, but with modern social media things seem to have deteriorated. It's hurting bad. You are absolutely right about creating scenarios in your head....My dream was to spend the day with this person at a funfair or theme park the romantic 'day that never ends'...Just as friends you understand, but even that now appears a long shot. Great video though, you speak a lot of sense...I don't know where to go from here...I've known this person for 2 years and been in love for all that time. We seemed close friends but are now drifting apart.
Chris Knight wow i can relate 2 almost everything u said. u connect w them and it feels good. but sometimes u maybe just arent what their partner/friend would look like.....they just were too nice to actually say it. took me too long to realise that.
Oh my gosh exact same situation..had a crush on someone and became close friends with someone only to realise that she is already in a relationship..only difference is I still gave it a shot and asked her out..we spent 4 hours together and one week later I expressed my feelings ..she told me politely that she is already in a relationship..and it won't be righteous for her to meet me again..slowly and slowly we started drifting apart ..she never ghosted or ignored me but the convo were not like before and at last I offered her friendship..she said now its not possible to be friends like before as her bf is getting insecure about it.
I also believe we hold on tighter because the thought of never experiencing it again… Even though we know it’s no good or not even going to work.
You have no idea how much i appreciate being able to listen to this
Such words of wisdom… another term I’ve come to learn is trauma bonding.
Sometimes it happens when the person you were in a relationship with, was highly manipulative and just used you for example money, favours and in order to hook you, they love bomb you with compliments and faking the future, they tell you they will marry you, travel the world with you and will describe in details how your life will be with them etc and deep down you hope that the imagination created by that person will come to pass. But then they never stick to their words and you believe that you did something wrong because their actions are not matching their words. Sometimes it is very hard to see, that the person you love so much doesn't care a tiny bit about your well-being. So we tend to rather day dream about their fake promises instead of facing the truth and move on. I fell for a scammer and took me four years to realize that he pursued me out of his own interest. It was after I listened to my gut instinct that I finally broke up and now with some distance I realized I have made myself a fool believing his beautiful lies.
Which country was he from ?
@@bessk8847 he was from Ivory Coast
@@Mina-tt9kd ok i thought maybe jamaican!you ment him online or in person.
@@bessk8847 I first met him on Facebook, he sent me a friend request, but I also met him in person and travelled to Africa twice. The first 8 months he sent daily text messages, video chats etc, very charming and romantic and he was a good listener. He didn't even ask for money, but then he started to complain about money and guilt tripped me to help him out. Small amounts at first, later on, he demanded more and more money and he was never satisfied , it was never enough for him. He ignored or insulted me whenever I couldn't sent more money..
If you think of someone in particular coming from Jamaica, there are websites where you can find romance scammers. Be careful when money or favors come into play, he might not be serious about you.
@@Mina-tt9kd This sounds familiar he was trying to.get u attached and earn his trust they listen to learn about u especially if ur vulnerable. You visited him how was in person my scammer turned out to be abusive crazy !we should have a chat !☕
It really does hurt . So fucking much. To me it hurts even more when you know that person is capable of love , you know they can love someone else, but that someone just isn’t you. 4 billion people on earth and for some reason, you’re not the one. That’s what hurts me. It hurts me that there’s someone out of those 4 billion people that she’ll be willing to give a chance. That she’ll hug, kiss, and talk about her deepest thoughts. That someone isn’t me. Why do I have to have these feelings? Why did I ever have to meet her? She’s out there probably looking for that person and I’m over here crying like a pathetic loser . I do my best not too, yet my heart always wins. I hate this so much.
you doing better, bro?
@@cristian9447 Hey man thanks for asking. Thankfully I’ve gotten a lot better; she still comes to mind but not as bad as when I wrote this comment. What’s helped is immersing myself in hobbies, joined dating apps ( for me it’s helped to see how many more fish are in the sea), and meet new people through meetup. In hindsight it’s kinda good it didn’t work out lol
Happened to me now, I fell in love with a guy, chased him a bit until I saw him hitting on another lady, whhich made let it go and break contact. But I miss seeing him, cant deny.
“It hurts even more when you know that person is capable of love. You know they can love someone else, but that someone just isn’t you.”
Hits so hard. 😞
Thank you handsome,,, You're so right,,, So true,,, It's painful but it's the truth we must face😢
Ive like this guy for 3 years he never ones like me back and he knows i like him i even asked him if he likes me and he doesnt he’s such a nice guy snd sent me a sweet paragraph telling mr he doesnt like me but he didnt sugar coated me he just said he didnt like me in the a good way he didnt straight up said i dont like you (hard to explain)he’s in my class this year he tries to talk to me but i feel uncomfortable bc im trying to stop liking him but ik that if i start talking to him i’ll fall even more it’s like there’s a wall between us and i cant break that wall neither can he.for so many years ive like him there are times i think i dont like him but i still think of him so like idk if i still like him or if i dont like him and just miss the idea of him...
omg! this is exactly what is happening to me! I feel your pain girl!
EXCELLENT! you should have the most subs for a dating channel because you get straight to the point, no other stuff, you are intelligent! I'm unsubbing all other relationship channels!!!
This video has helped me a lot and relating to me 100%. The question for me is. Can you be friends with someone who doesn't care about you if you do let go of these feelings?
Best answer and advice ever!! This is really helping me, thank you so much!!
I´m noticing many of the most liked questions have already been answered in previous videos.
All so true! Hard pill to swallow, but crucial in order to move on
Amazing advice, seriously I was in Rusty's dilemma an thnk God I'm over it. It took me time to get over those emotions an sometimes memories of feeling those powerful thoughts etc will try too come back but I overpower it better. It does take time an effort to overcome those heartbreaking feelings but it can be done, I'm a witness to it. Thnks for your advice in explaning why those heartbreak feelings come about! Thumbs up!👍👍
Actions speaks louder than words.
Facts After Facts Glad I Found this Channel helps a lot
i dated someone for 2 yrs then he suddenly dropped and ghosted me. he was always the one who never wanted to break up then just left
I actually kept telling myself exactly what you're saying. I was waiting for my ex to be this person who gave their all to me but I was left with not even partial. Very little phone calls, only saw him once a week if lucky and in text I tried so hard to get to know, him asking him so many questions cause I was excited but he didn't do the same, it was like he wasn't even interested. I guess the thing that confuses me is that after I broke it off, he wanted me back but then he wasn't doing anything to even win me back. He said he loved me and he liked the way I was and that I was there for him... I don't understand because he wasn't there for me and that's why I wanted to be friends, so I could still be there for him cause I care about him. It's over now because I explained everything that went wrong or that was wrong from the beginning and he said that he was done because I made a big deal over something small, I didn't like his response so I just let him have the "I had let that person go" moment I had to be the dramatic one because he wasn't going to change. Guess we're not even friends now, I just feel bad because I care about him, I wish I didn't but I do and I hope time will heal me. And I hope he changes and doesn't hurt anyone else.
Thank you so much. This is the kind of content I was looking for and exactly what I needed to hear right now
Why does this hit home soo hard
Raijin - idiot
How can you tell if he likes your or if he's just being very friendly
if he does the same things to u to other people as well, he's just being friendly. if he focuses on you only every time, it means he likes you or just trying to get in your pants, depends.
I think people should check his old videos, this question has been answered already, in many videos.
if he likes you, he's gonna ask out out.period
Rosa
Not necessarily. Some guys are very shy
If a guy loves he will tell you ,and if he loves you and doesn't tell you ,you still don't want him because that means that he is unable to step up and that will significantly affect your relationship and your attraction towards him.You can't be attracted to him if you have to drag him,you can't feel secure with him if he gives mixed signals and one of the strongest foundation of a long lasting relationship is trust,a sense of feeling secure
So If u can't tell if he does...run...chances are if it happens it would end without you being able to tell why it ended.
I'm 13 I can't believe I've been falling for him for 5 yrs I just love him so much he always ditches me but still stares at me 😭
How to know if you're just a side chick or he is really into you?
Good question. but if you haven't met mom and he freinds
+Butterfly Queen you are the side chick
My side nigga haven't met anyone but my bed. if you are asking this question you are not the gf.
side chick is similar to friends with benefit meaning that your relationship is a secret and just to get in each others pants. if he is really into you. he would introduce u to all his friends and family and try to make it official that you are girlfriend boyfriend
Congratulations gloriaa0214! Your question got the most likes. Watch for a video response to your question in my next video.
Because we choose not to let go of what you thought they were to you.
....you just described someone that is delusional ... maybe I'm (he) just not his type....acceptance of truth is always key.
START LETTING GO OF THAT FEELING 💯.
Luke do u ever be wrong about anything??? Every video u are so right on point.
lol omg rusty shackleferd thats from king of the hill dale grible lol
Thanks! So many videos talking abt. unfollow him from social media and nonesense. I just realized in my case I did not want to accept that they didn't/don't want me. I have to stop telling myself different.
What does it mean when a guy says they are intimidated by you ?
I really needed to hear this out, I've imagined stuff for 6 years now. It's gonna be really hard cuz I still truly really like her and she's never been bad to me we've always been really good friends. I still am lost and have no idea what to do
I need to watch this video every day just to help me get through something personal
I see you watch vanoss gaming
but i didnt imagine anything he was telling me that we would do so many things in the future and i believed him
hate and smile right! Sometimes they lie and you realize they're not going to follow through.
Omg so dead on...thank you for shedding some light!
Dude!!!!!!, really i love you , i loved your way to explain and convey
Amazing explanation ! Love your videos really helpful
Your right the feeling felt soooo good.
Yea i decided to let that feeling go. Becuase I felt theses things on my own. And if my needs aren't. Met ita no point. I needed this thank you!!!!!
Because we keep on living in a fantasy world of our own because of the happiness that we get from there and almost forgot what's happening in reality.
Thank you! Exactly how I've been feeling, and it's time to move on
yaaayy!! i thought you stopped making videos!! Glad to see you.. love your work!!
Just had this happen. This is straight forward. Thank you so muchz
Kimochi Warui much
Posted in 2016
Now its 2019
Saved me.
I'm really thankful for this video tbh I was really depressed I was in love with my gf and she didn't care and she left me for some other dude and I hoped that one day she'd come back but she won't and now thanks to this video I'm grateful that I can finally move forward and hopefully I can find a gf that will feel the same for me
I recently got out of a 3 year relationship I know it may not be long but it’s hard for me to get over her. Idk it’s hard for me to let go of everything and it’s been a few months now since we broke up. This video was very helpful
You're right . thank you Have a great weekend
Thank you, thank you so much this video opened my eyes a little better now 😢
Answer to question: because they were so close to you and now they’re different. You were best friends, real honest, a wonderful relationship, and then she left because she’s a fake. She’s terrified of broken, human men. She wants a independent avoider like herself. Not a committed, honest, man. She thinks that is clingy and needy.
Thanks man i got rejected by this girl i like she was the first girl i ever asked out, and i was so upset, and i hated the fact that she could carry on with her life without any care for hurting me. But i am more thoughtful, caring, and attractive than her and i am not allowing her to bring me down.
That's exactly what I'm going through right now. I believe that the first thing to let go of someone you really care about is not to be near them, to be far away from them as possible and not seeing them. But I see this girl every week, as she is in my class. It's even harder, as I can clearly see how she doesn't give a shit about me - she doesn't even look at me when we meet in the hallway, even if we're alone, nothing, it's like I'm not there, she just ignores me all the time. The way I'm trying to get through this is doing the same: I started to ignore her too. Honestly I feel like a moron, but MAN IT'S SO HARD EVEN TO LOOK AT HER. Anyone out there with same story?
Juwani 90 o had this old friend that i have have a crush on ever since i told her that i loved her she treats me like shit she said that she likes me but she chose another boy over me so when we graduate since we are 12th graders im going to cut her off it really hurts because we had a lot of fub times together.
Yes, it's the hardest thing to do - it's probably even harder for you, because you two are so close to each other, as you said. As I'm writing this, I don't see this girl anymore, as we finished the study - but she's still on my mind all the time. When you tell a girl you like her and she still doesn't even care, there's nothing more you can do. We just have to let go, no matter how hard it is
I’m watching this, just as WFH is ending, just after the pandemic and, yep. As much as I have only rarely thought about this man, suddenly, I feel an obsession. It wasn’t because we were ever actually in a relationship either. There was just all sorts of potential in stares, other behaviors and what he said to me, years back.
As I am older now and with this return to the workplace, and also after leaving my family, due to attempts at narcissistic abuse from my mother, it’s as if the return to the workplace magnifies and concretizes just how dull my life is. So, thinking back on what that was and what it could’ve been is not really good as, it wastes my time. The only good thing about it is that I’ve embarked on a diet and I’m doing well at it, so far, which is better than I ever have, in the past. But, I’m aware of the reality of the situation and all I can really hope for, is that it leads to more hope, with someone else.
What really sucks is I have to see this guy at work. Things would be easier if i didn't have to see him.
CatLady71 it would be grate if i didn't have to see her at school everyday
@@keyshawnscott12 Me too man me too
That’s the worst 😄I use to feel his eyes staring at me
So I ignored this dude that I supposedly was dating bc he never had time for me and always cancelled dates. My friend told me a couple days ago that she seen a vid of him hugging and kissing his bbymama in Nov of last year. And he msg me Dec trying to talk to me, I never replied until now. I told him I knew about the vid and told him off he msged me bk saying that he tried to get back with me but I wasn't available so he moved on... Idk y I'm heartbroken now but I am. He's moved on and I haven't... I still love the guy. Any advice?
Amazing talk. Thank you for this video :) it helped.
Great great video this helped me so much
I needed to hear this. Thank you!
Great video! I just subed, keep making helpful videos. Thank you :)