@@Ondulado. Research suggests that children born to fathers over age 40 are more likely to be born with birth defects , autism, Down syndrome, mental illness and schizophrenia are one of them. A mans age can also impact how quickly his partner is able to get pregnant and weather she has a miscarriage.
"6'2 blonde hair blue eyes" Yeah good criteria there lol. Maybe should've rolled the dice having kids with someone you care about rather than blaming a sperm bank for poor life decisions.
This literally could gave happened no matter who the donor is. Aw poor you. Why do you have to portray having autistic children as such a sad thing. Everything else about the lies are obviously awful and something worth condemning but damnn, let's act like having autism is the end of the world some more please. Kinda gross honestly
Well..it's a genetic defect that limits their life and they'll never be independent. There's no early genetic testing to find it otherwise they would be aborted like Downs Syndrome and other genetic problems. It's a life of suffering.
@@niccolom4556 that's not true. A lot of autistic children grow up and live independently. I have an autistic son. He is behind in development but I love him he is well behaved and so good. ❤️
@@minahtheweirdo Is a spectrum disorder so one autistic child could be Elons Musk the other becomes someone who cant speak or function. Being a neurodivergent myself I hate when neurotypical see us as one and always say "that person also has *** but***"
Well yeah IVF leads to a higher risk of birth defects. 2/3 higher apparently. Out of the two people I know who’ve had IVF they both given birth to autistic children. The one friend had twins and then a single child. Two of the children have autism. The other one only had one child and they have autism. Someone with autism myself I can honestly say it’s terrible on my life is much harder. Also fun fact recent studies have shown that men are technically supposed to be sober for six months before even trying to conceive a baby. A lot of men think that because semen reproduce itself every 48 hours this isn’t true. But the truth is the help of your body and liver really Changes the semen.
@@ari-jv no that still leads to problems. If you’re not able to have a baby naturally and you have someone put someone inside of you and there’s going to be more birth defects. Even with sperm donors there’s more Berthoud fixtures from the freezing process. I can’t believe how many people don’t know this. It’s almost like the industry is trying to get us to think freezing our eggs is also safe. Almost like they make billions of dollars off of this. Which is exactly what’s happening they are not telling us the full negative effects and make it seem like one is worse than the other one really they’re both bad. They both lead to sick children. Children should be carefree and we should intentionally do a process that could make them more sick. We don’t drink while we’re pregnant and we don’t allow incest because we want healthy babies but we’re doing IVF and artificial insemination? No not ok. Meanwhile 80% of the worlds orphans are just unadopted.
It doesn't have to be genetic. It might be immune disorder. And yeah, that's a possibility, but she probably came to the conclusion it wasn't her because there were no cases of autism in her family background and because of the information she found out about the donor. Whatever the case may be, the donor just really sounds like a piece of sh*t. It wasn't enough that he'd struggled. He necessarily had to pass his condition along. Society should definitely protect its offspring against such practices.
Long time since you commented. But did you watch the full video before you wrote it? She said the man went to special school and that information was held from her.
Yet most, still pop out health babies at old aged with younger women. The same can't be said the other way around with us women addicted to makeup, hair chemicals and other unnecessary items.
This is more complicated than it sounds. Outside the children/ offspring, it is up to each individual (donor, recipient, and sperm bank) to do as much due diligence as possible. The donor should not have created a false application via omission, but a lot of the times donors are simply carriers of genetic traits and they may not know of developmental issues because it's much more complicated than just genetics. for example if a donor is an only child it's hard to really pin down if their parents had potential to have a child with whatever they have (furthermore, autism is not uncommon and is not a death sentence, and is more complex than sheer genetics) Also, the sperm bank should have done a better job verifying, and done more work regarding mental health. Again, this is complex simply because a lot of the screening for donors has changed over the years to accomodate mental health more and more, and so the process has changed, but there are donors whose specimen could be from decades ago with a different set of criteria. This is where the role of the parent/ recipient(s) come in. They have to be aware of risks with or without the father's genetic testing, whether it's things that come up prior to childbirth or developmental issues. The sperm bank can only screen donors for diseases and maybe developmental issues, but they cannot give you a perfect, issue free child, just like traditional reproduction.
@Annie Fun wishing better for the children isn't something bad. To have children with autism is Allah SWT will. A very important person in my life is autism, but they are struggling with with his behaviour. So my words will stay forever. I know that Allah SWT has a plan for this kids. Btw, sister, Ramadan Mubarak!!
So now I know that it can be caused by sperm cells my other question is can it also be caused by a mutation within the egg? Because even though autism isn’t a bad thing in my eyes I just want to know what exactly made me autistic true you’re born autistic and all that is a supposed “cure” is learning the world around you but is it also possible that a genetic mutation could also cause it? Lets say two people who don’t have autism decide to have a kid what are the chances that kid could have autism? I have so many questions but not a lot of research
It's situations that are difficult to solve. On one hand, you have the right for people with disabilities and mental illness to have children but on the other, you have the livelihood of their children. To deny people the right to have kids is discriminatory and wrong but to have parents unexpectedly have a disabled child with mental troubles is definitely an issue. I think people should be thoroughly checked for any mental or neurological related disorder inheritance risks when applying and to have it labelled on their papers rather than to ban them from having kids outright. That way, it is up to the parents as to whether or not they want to accept that risk of their child inheriting the man's disorder.
Studies show that children with older fathers are at a greater risk for certain disorders, specifically autism, mental illness etc.
The female age factor has a MUCH greater risk
Both, the father and the mother have a risk, but I find it is also genetic.
After the mother is 30 iits risky but for the guys it's not until 50
@@Ondulado. women after 30 in your family is risky.
@@Ondulado. Research suggests that children born to fathers over age 40 are more likely to be born with birth defects , autism, Down syndrome, mental illness and schizophrenia are one of them.
A mans age can also impact how quickly his partner is able to get pregnant and weather she has a miscarriage.
A child is not a defective product.
I doubt she's saying that! Her children are lost in their minds and she loves them. It's painful to see her boys going through this.
"6'2 blonde hair blue eyes"
Yeah good criteria there lol. Maybe should've rolled the dice having kids with someone you care about rather than blaming a sperm bank for poor life decisions.
Well she’s gay so that’s the first challenge.
I’m 6 foot four, blonde but have green eyes so I guess I’m out.
"he was a perfect sperm donor 6'2 blonde hair blue eyes" sounds kinda eugenicsy dawg.
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Yep. And now she's upset that he really wasn't what she thought was "perfect".
So????
This literally could gave happened no matter who the donor is. Aw poor you. Why do you have to portray having autistic children as such a sad thing. Everything else about the lies are obviously awful and something worth condemning but damnn, let's act like having autism is the end of the world some more please. Kinda gross honestly
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Well..it's a genetic defect that limits their life and they'll never be independent. There's no early genetic testing to find it otherwise they would be aborted like Downs Syndrome and other genetic problems. It's a life of suffering.
@@niccolom4556 yeah but thats the risk with any kid.. she is kinda being at best ignorant
@@niccolom4556 that's not true. A lot of autistic children grow up and live independently. I have an autistic son. He is behind in development but I love him he is well behaved and so good. ❤️
@@minahtheweirdo Is a spectrum disorder so one autistic child could be Elons Musk the other becomes someone who cant speak or function. Being a neurodivergent myself I hate when neurotypical see us as one and always say "that person also has *** but***"
Well yeah IVF leads to a higher risk of birth defects. 2/3 higher apparently. Out of the two people I know who’ve had IVF they both given birth to autistic children. The one friend had twins and then a single child. Two of the children have autism. The other one only had one child and they have autism. Someone with autism myself I can honestly say it’s terrible on my life is much harder. Also fun fact recent studies have shown that men are technically supposed to be sober for six months before even trying to conceive a baby. A lot of men think that because semen reproduce itself every 48 hours this isn’t true. But the truth is the help of your body and liver really Changes the semen.
She should’ve just done regular artificial insemination without IVF
@@ari-jv no that still leads to problems. If you’re not able to have a baby naturally and you have someone put someone inside of you and there’s going to be more birth defects. Even with sperm donors there’s more Berthoud fixtures from the freezing process. I can’t believe how many people don’t know this. It’s almost like the industry is trying to get us to think freezing our eggs is also safe. Almost like they make billions of dollars off of this. Which is exactly what’s happening they are not telling us the full negative effects and make it seem like one is worse than the other one really they’re both bad. They both lead to sick children. Children should be carefree and we should intentionally do a process that could make them more sick. We don’t drink while we’re pregnant and we don’t allow incest because we want healthy babies but we’re doing IVF and artificial insemination? No not ok. Meanwhile 80% of the worlds orphans are just unadopted.
@@peppergomez6905 you can still do artificial insemination w out freezing sperm. Semen lasts w out dying for a while
Oh please, women think that too. We don't care because we know they replenish fast. So this is new to me too. Time for me to do some reading.
Why would the doctors let him donate???
Sue them ASAP!!! You can use that money for your future to raise the boys🙏🏽
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Blame the sperm bank and the donor, and not the woman.
Maybe it was her genes.
It doesn't have to be genetic. It might be immune disorder. And yeah, that's a possibility, but she probably came to the conclusion it wasn't her because there were no cases of autism in her family background and because of the information she found out about the donor.
Whatever the case may be, the donor just really sounds like a piece of sh*t. It wasn't enough that he'd struggled. He necessarily had to pass his condition along. Society should definitely protect its offspring against such practices.
Long time since you commented. But did you watch the full video before you wrote it? She said the man went to special school and that information was held from her.
That is what I was thinking
Could be a lot of things. How many and what vaxes did she give the baby
The problem is the father was probably older.
Sperm decreases in quality as a man ages
Yet most, still pop out health babies at old aged with younger women. The same can't be said the other way around with us women addicted to makeup, hair chemicals and other unnecessary items.
This is more complicated than it sounds. Outside the children/ offspring, it is up to each individual (donor, recipient, and sperm bank) to do as much due diligence as possible. The donor should not have created a false application via omission, but a lot of the times donors are simply carriers of genetic traits and they may not know of developmental issues because it's much more complicated than just genetics. for example if a donor is an only child it's hard to really pin down if their parents had potential to have a child with whatever they have (furthermore, autism is not uncommon and is not a death sentence, and is more complex than sheer genetics)
Also, the sperm bank should have done a better job verifying, and done more work regarding mental health. Again, this is complex simply because a lot of the screening for donors has changed over the years to accomodate mental health more and more, and so the process has changed, but there are donors whose specimen could be from decades ago with a different set of criteria. This is where the role of the parent/ recipient(s) come in. They have to be aware of risks with or without the father's genetic testing, whether it's things that come up prior to childbirth or developmental issues. The sperm bank can only screen donors for diseases and maybe developmental issues, but they cannot give you a perfect, issue free child, just like traditional reproduction.
Dude, the fertility clinic ONLY care about money. Trust me. They lie all the time
Bless their family be strong... Everything happens for reason..
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Omg... I'm speechless 🤷🏾♀️
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She should take them to court
She shouldn't have gotten pregnant.
She should have adopted
Sperm bank name not mentioned to help ppl not do same thing so wht is the point of video
May Allah SWT bless the family with all their wishes. Ameen ❤️
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😂😂😂 who knows Lucifer? Blessed them 😂
@Annie Fun wishing better for the children isn't something bad. To have children with autism is Allah SWT will. A very important person in my life is autism, but they are struggling with with his behaviour. So my words will stay forever. I know that Allah SWT has a plan for this kids. Btw, sister, Ramadan Mubarak!!
I’d be angry Af
how you discovered later, why you did not discover before ?
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Ohh the sperm bank was wrong
"Three generations of imbeciles are enough."
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.,
Justice of U.S. Supreme Court
Bring back Buck v. Bell 1927.
I don’t think autism can be genetic or hereditary
It can. My nieces and nephews have autism. All from my mom's side of the family. I sh*t you not.
Ohh
@@dumpling3309 same. I have autism and so do all my cousins
"Three generations of imbeciles are enough."
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr.,
Justice of U.S. Supreme Court
Bring back Buck v. Bell 1927.
that’s something I didn’t think of same donor
The sperm bank can detect that
Praying for a cure.
Can’t ‘cure’ autism. It’s not a disease.
There’s a slight chance you may be related to the doe
Y’all acting like autism is a burden
Haha, she got what she deserved. She denied her kids a father - these women are sick.
U hate your own life so much u put down strangers? She clearly states in the video that she and her partner.....so her partner prob was infertile.
Agreed! Look at the statistics. Kids from single m0ns are MUCH much likely to have negative health and educational outcomes and do poorly in life.
Were the children vaxxinated?
So now I know that it can be caused by sperm cells my other question is can it also be caused by a mutation within the egg? Because even though autism isn’t a bad thing in my eyes I just want to know what exactly made me autistic true you’re born autistic and all that is a supposed “cure” is learning the world around you but is it also possible that a genetic mutation could also cause it? Lets say two people who don’t have autism decide to have a kid what are the chances that kid could have autism? I have so many questions but not a lot of research
If you're autistic and your partner too your children will likely to be autistic, if your partner is neurotypical chances are high, but not necesary.
It's situations that are difficult to solve. On one hand, you have the right for people with disabilities and mental illness to have children but on the other, you have the livelihood of their children. To deny people the right to have kids is discriminatory and wrong but to have parents unexpectedly have a disabled child with mental troubles is definitely an issue. I think people should be thoroughly checked for any mental or neurological related disorder inheritance risks when applying and to have it labelled on their papers rather than to ban them from having kids outright. That way, it is up to the parents as to whether or not they want to accept that risk of their child inheriting the man's disorder.
which bank?
Curious when did you get shots ?? I’m super very wtf ????? Special need HS oh hell
Sorry😢😢😢
May Allah bless the family and make things easier for the parents Amin
Its gods will. Accept it lol
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