how to BEAT self sabotage once and for all!
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“Self sabotage is literally self hate” this hit hard.
For real🥺
That spoke out to me too!
Girl this hit me hard as hell. Too hard. The truth is always bitter
We was a
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I am worthy of succeeding
I have the ability to overcome self sabotage
I am worthy of all good things in life
I am powerful enough to beat self sabotage
I am fully confident within myself
I am excited and confident when starting new projects
I am successful in everything I do!
In Jesus name Amen 🙏
Yes believe it🙏🏾 amen
Yaaaassss YES 😎👏🙌
I love to repeat affirmations to myself at least once (but preferably twice a day in front of a mirror). I would highly encourage all of you ladies to do it on a consistent basis. We GOT this!!!
Yes, yes and yes 🙌🏾
*Succeeding is easy for me ..*
Negative self talk will keep you living below your potential. Your thoughts are not you. Take a step back, acknowledge the thoughts and give yourself grace instead of being hard on yourself.
Love that!!
Screenshotted this
If I am procrastinating about something, I think "What would I do if I loved myself?" and I do that. It bypasses the need to actually love yourself already and it gets stuff done, to my advantage.
That’s so sweet
I’m going to give this a try!
so sweet yet so powerful, this phrase hit me hardddd
Breeeeeny! The way the Lord is using you to speak into my life in this season is CRAZY! Keep it up woman of God you are touching many many of us!
♥️♥️♥️
Literally 😩🤌🏽
Girl , I swear !!!!! I thought exactly the same !
Truth. ✨
Yes I’m obsessed now lol 😭🕊🕊
Some of my favourite words to live by are "if you believe it will work out you will only see opportunities, if you believe it won't, you will only see obstacles". Thank you again Breeny for helping us further heal through the truth! So much love xxx
Absolutely true
Y’all are dropping gems in these comments
Wow that’s on point
Self sabotage is an indication of low self esteem. This is why it’s important to be in-tune with yourself and get to know yourself better. Learn your values, strength and weakness. Knowing you are worthy will not only stop you from self sabotaging but it will also exude confidence and attract others on the same frequency!
From a self love content creator to another - Great video Breeny! ❤️
Definitely working on learning who I am and transforming into the woman God has called me to be
Self sabotage, for me, looks like avoiding the things that help me. I think it’s been a few months since I’ve watched one of your videos in full, despite how much you’ve helped me for the past few years. It feels like there’s a part of me that doesn’t want to get better.
But I rebuke that, & i thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us yet again. You’re like my internet big sis that just wants everyone to be okay.♡
2 Tim 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
Whew. This was for me. I definitely struggle with negative internal thoughts. I’ve been jealous, judgmental, procrastinated, haven’t loved myself, and been lazy sometimes. I’ve had low self esteem my entire life since childhood. I’m back in therapy to help me with this. I always feel like I take steps forward and then steps back.
Wow you've lost soo much weight already!! Will you do a video on what ur doing?? 🧡🧡🧡
Yes ☺️ make sure you’re following my lifestyle IG: @allthingsbreeny
Right she's looking stunning 😍
When I think negatively, I tell myself, " stay in the present". Its helps so much!
I am worthy of having the best of life.
I’m loving the fact that since you’ve sorted your relationship with God and ended the bad relationship with a man, you’re now on fire and wise like never before. Lady speaking fire 🔥
Yessss!!!❤️👏🏻
At first, I couldn’t watch Breeny Lee because you spoke to much truth that I couldn’t handle. The truth it was hard for me to watch you, I didn’t use to like the feeling of someone actually speaking the truth. Now, I can tell you I am a forever subscriber and I will continue to watch you because you are helping expand my mental health, so I am forever grateful, thank you Breeny ❤️!!!
THIS 🙏🏾♥️ thank you for being honest ❤️🔥
I've been self sabotaging since I was a teen and I still do it, I honestly don't know how to stop. But I'll follow what you suggested.
I’m literally failing in school, in health, in life ON PURPOSE for no reason. This is so timely thank you 🙏🏾
Phrases I use to silence fearful and destructive thoughts are: “I was born a winner and was created to dominate the earth.” “I’m a daughter of a king. I can do all things.”
“I’m worthy of highest quality of life” Also I practice the art of self-compassion which I learnt through counselling. Very very helpful.
Thank you. Since lockdown and bad relationship I developped huge social anxiety, I feel isolated, depressed and bad about myself and your channel help me a lot! ❤️ I decided to start the self-improving journey
Well done and keep going. One step at a time.
@@ChristianaSenibo thank you 🙏🏼💗
Good for you babe ! Keep it up 💕 unlock your greatest self 💕💕
Same I’ve been experiencing those same things but for about 2 years now. I want to get out of this dark pit and experience happiness, I have a little bit of faith that I will. I hope this video helps me some 🥺💕
@@reyaalexistv164 I hope you'll find happiness 💕! I suggest you to read Neville Goddard (the law of assumption), there is a lot of conference of him on Yt. He changed my life !
When negative thoughts stumble across my mind I say, 'That is not who I am.'
The phrase that I am using to stop self-sabotage is “I am in control of MY LIFE”
My phrase is: I will not let peoples opinions about me and what I am doing ruin my day, week,month or year, knowing it’s a reflection of their insecurities and failure due to their own self sabotaging thoughts. I will be an example of the result of what persistence and patience can get you in life and they will look up to me as an inspiration and hopefully follow their dreams as well 😁🤞
THIS IS LITERALLY WHAT IHE NEEDED! Its my biggest blockage in my whole life and I’ve lost a lot bc of it and I really needed this! Thank you Breenie!!
I am capable of completing what I started.
I am worthy of winning. 😩🤝💕
“I am on my team” ♥️
“What you’re doing is not going to fail. It will succeed.”
Amen!
I neeeedddeedd this! I am the most self sabatoging person I know! It's exhausting! Thank you for this 🙏🏾
I am extremely tired of being negative. Always talk crap about myself. Always think I'm stuck in my boring life. I feel like I'm not smart enough to get a better high paying job. I'm Always at entry level jobs. I'm learning new things at my job and anxiety kills me and will always tell myself I can't learn a new task or I'm too dumb. I'm just so tired of Always thinking this way 😪
Honestly as a teenager living in such a social media influenced and just the falls of growing up in an environment with alot of toxic minded people I've taught myself and humbled myself to take responsibility and accountability of the fact that some of the bad things happening in my life are my fault and that I should be to learn from my mistakes develop myself instead of painting myself as a victim because in the eyes of people I'll be seen as prey easy to pick on. I'm proud of myself for being able to find comfort in myself and space alone without seeking validation from anyone not even my parents or friends. As much as they hurt me I've learnt to live with the fact that I only need myself and always choose my own peace over anyone's call me selfish but at the end of the day the only person who care about you is you.
ayyy good job girl ,🥺
Wow girl 🙏🏾
Proud of you girl.. You have learned a very important life lesson so early in your life which most people learn so damn late.. Take care of yourself n you don't need anyone to take care of you.. ❤🌼
omg i love your mindset i wish i had more friends like you
Wait I just saw another comm3with the same info. Which one of you are stealing comments
Breeny is literally the best TH-camr
This was the most eye-opening video I've seen about self sabotaging and felt so much from it. I need to allow myself to feel and be calm and relaxed within myself and not allow external events to govern my internal condition.
I literally love how you broke this down I’ve been struggling with this for years and I’m finally ready to combat it and live the life I know I deserve
I always attract mean people and situations where people are rude to me and humiliate me. I never understood why because I would never be rude just because, only if someone had it coming I admit. But now I understand life just shows me how my internal life looks like and how hard and mean I am towards myself. This journey trying to love yourself is so tiring and I often give up. But in order to live a happy life we have to learn self compassion.
Wow I literally somehow clicked on this. I have been frustrated because I feel soo many of my family, ex husband and more have changed me. I'm naturally ambitious and I like to do things to the best of my ability. Being a single mum I feel like I want to do soo much I'm just sick of even at 33 people constantly getting involved in my life. I don't know how to stop it, I was really depressed last year for the last 3 months of the year. I find it a positive thing that I always want to better myself and every area in it. I've noticed that I feel because some around me arent like that it bothers them that I am. I'm not sure anymore, it's frustrating when you are trying to be positive and have self love and be your best self and others are your cause of self sabotage
This is so encouraging! Those limited beliefs and self sabotaging thoughts are the enemy God didn’t create us to think negatively about ourselves. Memorizing scripture and denouncing the negativity with Gods words and truths help me. Thank you for shedding light to this topic
Can we PLEASE get a makeup tutorial? My GOD you look stunning 😭🥰❤️
Crying on the inside because I needed to hear it ALL! On the outside, gotta be put together because I’m having an interview and don’t want to keep self sabotaging! I am fully capable of completing of what I’ve started!
Thank you for this! Another word for self-sabotage is imposter syndrome. It’s basically where even when someone compliments you on something you brush it off as if it’s nothing. That’s what I battle with but this year I made a promise to myself to stop sleeping on my talents. I will stop letting fear hinder me from elevating even more than I have. I will also elevate financially too.*
💕🙌🏾✨
My phrase will be: Philippians 1:6 ‘He who started a good work in me will see to come lit until the day of Christ Jesus’ thanks Breeny!!🥰 on time video for meeee, God bless you gorgeous😍!!
Love the video! I just spoke to someone about this a couple days ago. Ive definitely learned to replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts and align with the Word.
The enemy told me that my new job was going to be hard and I wouldnt catch on. I shut that down and said, " that's a lie cause I'm smart, I can do all things through Christ, and I have knowledge, wisdom, and understanding."
I haven't always thought like this I asked the Holy Spirit to nudge me when & if I let myself get caught up in those negative thoughts so I can shut them down asap. Its not easy but I practice saying positive things to myself so I can unlearn the bad things Ive said for so long.
I am capable of being successful and I deserve to progress in life.
Such a great talk, a lot of people changed careers in the last couple of years and all the rejections you get at the beginning causes this issue where it didn’t exist before
Thank you for this message. I felt it on 10,000 levels. It’s time to live the life we deserve.
Honestly, you were speaking to me directly. I’ll say to myself ‘I’m fully capable of completing what I started’ thank you Breeny
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
Breeny you uploaded here at the right time because this video is extremely relevant to what I'm going through. Thanks for your presence and word.
Always delivering the right message on the right time Breeny! I went through therapy years ago, learnt a lot about myself and my limiting beliefs, but old habits die hard, they live under your skin and you should always remind yourself of them again and again!
needed to hear this. I’ve been self sabotaging myself so much even people around me are starting to notice & I’ve dug myself into a hole. Having anxiety makes it so much harder to fight this but I’m gonna beat this.
Thank you for this. 💕
When you said “ain’t shit funny!” I literally sat up straight in my chair ! Thanks so much.
I keep a note on my desk that I took last year from one of your videos and I quote
“ I gain when I give….I do not lose!” - Breenylee 💕5-4-2021
Man im so happy I found your podcast. It has helped me really self reflect.
I really have a fear of failing to where I try but let self doubt will get the best of me. I am working my mindset and will not let these thought hinder my future!
Wow thank you for this, I needed it❤️❤️❤️ self sabotage has ruined so many things in my life but I’m ready to make the change and take charge in my life!
I can’t thank you enough for what you are doing. I am so very thankful to have came across your Chanel and learn about some of the best things I needed to hear as a little girl but I believe nothing happens by accident and it’s a reason you were brought into this season on my life. I can’t wait to join in on your podcast. ❤
You’ve dropped some serious insight & knowledge here, thank you! The way you broke this down from a deep subconscious psychological level, this video is on another level. As you level up, we have the chance to level up with you ✨
I really needed this today Breeny 🥺 thank you for always creating great content for us. I’ve been inspired to start my own channel because of you
Breeny thank you SO MUCH for literally explaining my biggest life problem in one video so clearly and precisely like I’ve never heard anywhere else before! I needed this so bad without even knowing and let me tell you that the truth of your words hit me so hard and pushed me into deep thinking and reassessing. God bless you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us and helping us improve ourselves and our lives 🙏🏼💕
You are literally the big sister we all need, keep growing and glowing everyone. One day we’ll look up and realize we no longer get in our own way! ☺️🦋❤️
I didn't think I needed this video, but I then only realized self-sabotage is one of my biggest problems! thank you so so much breeny. you can't even imagine how much your videos help.
Thank you Breeny! I can always count on your content to give me a an extra boost of confidence and motivation.. as requested my words to counter act negative thoughts will be “I am allowed to have good things happen for me because I deserve it” .
This is so timely breeny!! I could absolutely relate. I'm honestly constantly struggling with this even til now..I'm very thankful for this ❤
Hey breeny I'm 16 and I've just committed to my self love journey, I've been watching your videos for the past days and I'm very that you make these videos. Because they help me realize alot of things and now I have the opportunity to work on them. Thank u so much breeny
Recently, I had an epiphany that I was in the process of self-sabotaging. I’m so glad I was led to this video. You really put into perspective so many things, and I felt my anxiety and self-sabotage just leave my body. The affirmation I will use when I am having a negative moment will be, “I deserve good things,” because I do. I deserve good things to happen to me, and I deserve good people in my life. Thank you again!
Brenny's make up is just flawless and her accent is to die for and so soothing
I haven’t watched breenys videos in ages n it’s SOO GOOD TO BE BACK! This video has my name on it
I loved your examples you used for the limiting belief exercise, I relate so much I wrote them down 😭 in this season of learning to love myself I've decided I'm going to commit to myself and start being on my own team instead of self-sabotaging and feeling powerless in my life. This video was just what I needed! 💛
BREENYLEE!!!!! Always coming through with the right lessons at the right time.
Your emotional intelligence is exceptional, Breeny. Thank you for sharing your insight and education with us.
I am in tears Breeny! God is using you to change my life sister. 🙏🏾💙💙
I’ve been self sabotaging my own amazing relationship and now I know it’s because of my low self esteem, literally crying from this video because of how right you are
It’s the weight loss for me ❤️
Oh dear. This came on the right day let me tell you Breeny.
Girllll! You are always preaching 👏🏽every thing that you said was so true
Thank you for making this video. I have been self sabotaging for years and this has triggered me to actually make changes and get the help I need to beat this xx
Thank you for ministering to me. I’m in therapy, I’m going through the healing process, but still found my self stuck in self sabotaging. I thank God for you and the way he used you this completely changed my life ❤️💯
i needed this, i tend to be shocked when good things happen to me. a phrase i would like to start incorporating is “i am deserving of good things in life”.
I see people comment this a lot but I seriously have never subscribed so fast haha, this is THE exact thing i’ve been battling, and you articulated it in such an incredible way. fear of success, self sabotage, shame & self harm- chasing the success but feeling so inadequate once you get it that you throw it away. and that verse in James?!! PHEW GIRL YOU BETTER PREACH 👏🏻👏🏻💕💕
My God Breeny. This came right on time. This is God speaking to me through you. I'm definitely going through a season right now fighting self-sabotage. I even losted about it on my platform. This is something that I truly believe that I need and will heal drom and maybe can set others free from this too. I pray that all of us fighting this will be delivered from it in Jesus name... Amen.
This video came at the proper time. I am on a self love journey and I know I self sabotage. I just recently went through a tough break up and I’m determined to get myself back and better myself and my #1, better my relationship with God. Thank you for these beautiful reminders I needed to here and learning more in-depth about self sabotage.
Thanks so much for this video Breeny. .. I had so much self doubt and it reflected in almost all areas of my life.. Before attending an interview today, I chanced upon this video this morning, I watched it and I prayed. I felt so confident and full of power.. After the interview, my interviewer told me that he’s glad he wasn’t given my CV before meeting me.. I didn’t have any solid working experience on my CV and that would have just thrown him off. But after meeting me, he really liked my persona and my confidence especially. I went home and received a call from the company with an offer!.. I’m so grateful to God🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
This is school of life right here 💜 Thank you Breeny 😊
Breeny I honestly don't know what I would do without you. I'm so lucky I found you. When I'm down you bring me up. You're the sister, friend, mother I never had. You save me.
This was so good!! Where was this 5 years ago when I needed it? I could have saved myself a lot of drama, pain and trials...Lol 😂 Well, thanks for the refresher! Knowledge is POWER, but applying it is the thing that pulls the shift switch. 🙌🏾
Thank you for the vid. I noticed a few months ago that there were a few instances in my life where I felt I had sabotaged an opportunity for myself, but I never understood what it was rooted in. You really hit home with the low self esteem because when I did commit some type of act of sabotage it was because I wasn’t secure in myself. I always felt out of place so I would quit...jobs, projects, school. I recently did it but the turn around to notice it was rather quick. Now I’m just trying to work on myself to where this does not continue to happen. ❤️💕
I needed this, so many evil thoughts in my head, i m so scared of myself....against all of these i m gonna succes, i m gonna pay my living and go to singing lessons and get the help that i deserve, and get close to God more than ever....and nothing is gonna stop me not even myself
CAN WE GET A MAKEUP TUTORIAL ON THIS LOOK...WOOOOOW ..SIS THIS LOOK OMG 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
I love your content so much you would not believe! You have definitely helped inspire me to become a better person this year. I admit, I still don't love myself 100% yet, but I am getting there. I am learning my self-worth and what I stand for and your videos definitely help me recognize how I am a queen.
God bless you Breeny and may the Lord continue to inspire you to create new content and inspire your viewers to become better versions of themselves.
One other thing, can you make a video on how to view yourself as an adult when you've been infantilized by your parents for 20+ years. I am in my mid-20s and when someone refers to me as a woman, I feel weird inside. Like, I don't deserve that title, but I also get pissed on the inside when someone calls me a 'girl'. I generally just refer to myself as a lady because that seems like a good balance between the two. I know that what I just explained my sound stupid, but I guess that's just the effects of being infantilized for your whole life.
thank you so much! when I repeated “I am worthy of winning” I felt a shift in my being.
I needed this soo much !!! You hit the spot of everything I have been feeling lately. Keep it up Breeny !!
Breeny is blessed. I am unlearning learn and relearning consistently from you. Gotta kick this foolishness outta me and be free. Thanks Breeny, following from Kenya
Although this was created two years ago, I needed this and your voice. I hope where you are in the New Year brings you more opportunities to share your message. Thank you
Please never stop to post videos, literally love you
Thankyou for this Breeny. I love how articulate and precise you are.
“Alhamdulilah” & “AstagfurAllah” are the two phrases I use which are in Arabic and translate to “All praise is to Allah” and “I turn to Allah in repentance” 🤍 nothing is more comforting than taking all that weight off & handing it to the lord in all humility.
Ameen sister! El7amdoulilah
I happened up on your videos and this is the first one that I watched on self sabotage, which is what I was looking for. This is the most powerful video on self sabotage. Thank you.
You are stronger than you may believe right now, calm down, you got this🌱
I’m praying that you’re ok sweet sis. I don’t know why but you’ve come to mind severally the past two weeks. I pray that you’re thriving wherever God has you right now!! You’re so loved❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
She has no idea how helping this is for me and many people like me. Thank you so much for this beautiful content.
Thats true it felt like “wow”
i really needed this❤️ the way you explained this was very clear to understand 100 percent. no more self sabotage!! #teamyou
Not me just spiraling and just seeing you up loaded 😭 tysm breeny 💓
This video came on time and so glad you're doing affirmations on your podcast 👍🏾
I’m a teenager getting over a break up. You’ve really spoke all facts. You opened my eyes !!!
This video has comforted me so much and I feel so much better... And on a different note YOU LOOK AMAZING.