how to fully detach from someone you love
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.ย. 2024
- Soul Prayer:
God, thank you for being the King over the spiritual realm and the King of my heart. Thank you that you are all-knowing and you know any soul ties in my life that need to be broken.
Ask God to show you anyone you have a soul tie with that needs to be broken. Focus your prayer on one person at a time. You can pray for other soul ties with people to be broken at another time with God.
God, please forgive me for any of the ways that I opened the door for ungodly soul ties to be formed with _______________ (name of person). God, show we what sins I have not confessed regarding my relationship with this person.
Ask God to forgive you for each sin He reveals to you.
God, show me what I need to forgive ____________________ of so that I can be healed and free of the pain they caused me to experience. Remember, forgiving others is through the power of Christ within you. Ask Jesus to give you His strength and grace to forgive.
God, I forgive _________________ for _____________________(fill in the blank with whatever God shows you that you need to forgive.
Prayer for Breaking Soul Ties:
Lord, I do not want for _________________ to have control over me and I don’t want to have control over __________________. Forgive me for the sin of entangling myself with __________________in an ungodly way. Lord, I confess these ungodly ties as sin and ask that you forgive me and cleanse me of all unrighteousness.
In the power and authority of Jesus Christ, I break the ungodly soul tie between me and _____________. I surrender my heart, soul and spirit completely to Jesus Christ and His rule, authority and reign in my life. I put the Cross of Jesus Christ between me and ____________________.
Lord, I ask you to heal my heart of the effects this soul tie has had on my heart, mind, body, spirit and life. Restore my soul and my union completely with you. Make me whole and restore everything that the enemy stole from me. Free me to love you with my whole heart and love others with a Christ-like love.
In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
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I so needed to hear this. Thank you. Sometimes it’s just easier to settle and we try to trick ourselves to believe we are “compromising”. I love you, girlie ❤️
I've having the toughest time detaching from ex boyfriend, my girlfriends weren't so tough to detach from, but my ex bf, I've had the worst time doing it. Most people thought we were just friends because we hid that we were dating.
Do you still do coaching?
Some
Mmm high a J B😗😗😙😗🍓
It's not the end of me
Man's rejection is God's protection! That's the truth!
Still learning to be ok with this 😮💨🙏🏽
Wisdom
Love this quote! Definitely has been very comforting 😌
This is deep.. no greater truth than this
What if I was the one who left? I realised I keep apologizing to myself for everytime he disappoints me and I wanted better… but it’s still hard
1) block delete or rename the person
2) break the soul ties
3) keep journal of your progress
4) don’t focus on the positive of the relationship
5) self improvement !!
(6) Write down all the things you did wrong in the relationship and work on them
(7) Try therapy
Amen 😊👏 this is exactly what I'm doing and it works well... Beginning was extremely hard
How to break soul ties?
8) work on your relationship with God 😊
@@kaylabrown7045go to 22 mins in the video
I watched this for the first time back in February. I remember being so crushed I couldn’t stop crying because I just wanted to be with the man who left me. I cried all day long and suddenly this video popped up in my suggested. I remember I watched the video I stopped crying and I prayed the prayer in this video and it significantly helped me stop crying. 9 months later Im doing phenomenal and I never thought I’d get over it, yes sometimes I get triggered but I don’t cry anymore or feel depressed I’m grateful for the heartbreak and I know that prayer helped me tremendously too. If you’re in a rough situation with someone you love I promise you life will eventually be filled with joy again, this isn’t the end for you. Believe in God and he will provide you with peace again ! Sending my love and best wishes to you all❤️
How long did it take to feel normal again ?
I attach so deeply when I love someone that it feels like a death, like a divorce. My heart feels like it’s literally breaking. I was so depressed, I did not eat for 2 weeks. So it doesn’t matter how long you were with the person. Pain is pain.
same
This is what happened to me now😭😭😭 very painful no mater how many break up video i watched i still feel pain. Its painful 😭😭😭😭💔💔😭😭😭
As someone that recently broke up with someone.. the person who leaves the relationship did see your worth, they did love you. They are not always bad and there often is no need for bad feelings. Sometimes you have to acknowledge that you're not meant for each other and you're better off seperate. When you're being left be happy that you can find someone who loves you even deeper.
this is exactly where I am
I agree and going through the same. We’re both good people, just not our greatest together 💗
THIS hurts even more. Because you can‘t villafy someone and blame nobody for your pain. But it‘s the truth.
Factsssss & perfectly said
I believe so 😔
'Do not make permanent decisions on temporary feelings, trust me it ends in disaster' LOUDER sis thank you!
“There’s nothing like a break-up that sends you into the arms of the Lord”
OKAY!! I legitimately could not talk to people about my feelings. God was the only thing that brought me ease and peace and wiped my tears.
I thoroughly enjoyed your take on this topic!
I love you Breeny. Last night I saw my ex of 4 years after going no contact for about 3 months, he was with another girl and at the moment I was acting tough because I'd been praying, doing my journal work, etc., and had believed that I was very close to letting go. Seeing him in another relationship after getting out of ours broke my heart all over again. I cried to God and he listened because everything you said in this video was meant for me. I thank you Breeny, you're like a big sister to me.
Be strong sweet lady
this happend to me
@@Shesestefany 😪😔 i feel you, we’re in this together
Awe💕😢but it should make you stronger cuz you had to see that he moved on with someone else and it was supposed to hurt for you to get a dose of reality that it’s over between you two. Stay strong, try not to text or call him. ⚠️
This happened to me too. We were together for 4 years, engaged and within a month and a half he was with someone else.
Don’t focus on rejection, focus on protection. Noted ✍🏾
You’re one of my favourite TH-camrs Breeny🤍
When you said “it’s ok to cry” I just started bawling. I really need this. Thank you.
Me too I’m crying now while listening…the tears instantly started to flow when she said that
I like how gentle and graceful this video is. Sometimes when I watch “healing” “break up” and “relationship” content on social media, I feel attacked and leave the video feeling more hurt. Just a harsh reminder of how badly I was treated and how unloved I was. I actually felt healed watching this. Thanks Breeny
I agree with you💯
Awwww❤❤
I needed this… I had to set both of my parents free from my life & it’s one of the most excruciating things that I’ve ever had to deal with in my life but by the grace of God I’m doing it & I’m reinforcing some boundaries in my life.
I'm also on this journey. As grim as it's been, it's been the most liberating chapter of my life. I'm present and I'm happy. Healing is a journey. Wishing you the best❤
Ditto. 3 years now. Very hard but a decision I wish I made earlier in life. Wishing you the best too 🫶🏾
I’m glad I’m not the only one going through this.
Same situation - 😔 ( wish there could be a support group
I’m going through something similar and not really where you are now 😢
This!!! If it's over for real...then we just have to cut the communication and give our self time and space to heal. We must allow our heart to break in peace without fighting to hold back what needs to be release. In that broken state a lot will be revealed. You will move forward with the strength you've gained. You will become resilient. You will gain clarity. You will be more informed and equipped for what's next. As Breeny said 'Trust the process'...I did just that and I am amazed with everything that is unfolding.
Thank you for this ❤
lol this has to be a sign. Two nights ago I cried asking God why my relationship with someone had to end the way it did, then i remembered I once prayed to God to take away every distraction between us (me and God) and boy was he a distraction😅 It hurts so bad but i'll get through it.
Same thing with me actually.
The Lord will take away what’s not meant to be in our life but we have to trust him, even if you love that dude but God knows who is best for us.
Sending you a lot of love and hope you get through it with strength and the blessings of God over your life. You’re blessed and highly favored.
I needed this today! I have been feeling so rejected and so anxious ! I keep wondering if I someday I will feel a real connection with anybody! It’s so hard! Specially as a black woman in Europe 🥺
Hope better days will come for all of us 🤎
Better days are coming
I can relate 🥺
The right person for you is out there. Be patient in the process. That’s easier said than done. In hindsight you’ll realize the waiting was the best thing you could’ve done. When the heart that’s meant to love you eventually comes into your life it’ll be so beautiful. You are ENOUGH. You MATTER. You are LOVED. You are BEAUTIFUL. 🤍
As a Black woman in America. Same!
Why is it always the shortest relationship/situationships that are the hardest to get over, so so true. like we didnt even spend that much time together!!!
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Facts! It makes you contemplate your whole existence!
I swear like wtffff 😭😭
@@Dekthagr8 Literally like i spend no time with this man but my mind created a while world smh.
@@dejapearson9569 literally wtf.
I think this may have tipped the scale... there's only so many times you can chase someone who doesn't want you. Thank you for this. Your empathy really shows we're not alone 💗💗
What hurts the most is when you chased so much that you lost yourself and all you’ve got where “left on read” and “ghosting” and you’re like “Did they even care?”
My boyfriend broke up with me and we live in the same compound I see him bring ladies home, it hurts so much but I believe I will get through this. Thanks for the video
You can do this. I love you. ❤
i am so sorry :( praying that things are at least a little better so far
Needed to hear this so much! A few days ago I said to myself I've got to change. I've got to stop depending on other people to make me happy. It really hurts to cut someone loose and let go of the expectation of having a relationship. Sending you all my love. Thank you❤
Listen to Home by Najwa Zabian on audible xx
How are u doing? Are you better?
I feel like I’m over the situation but him, I don’t think I’m quite over him yet. And I think it’s because I don’t think ima find somebody like him again. No matter what he did to me at the end of the day I truly loved him. And I miss the way he was constantly there for me. I’m not even gone lie I had my fair share of faults as well. And sometimes I truly feel like this was the true definition of right person wrong time.
This!!
As a couples therapist myself who has just walked (well,crawled really) away from a 6 year relationship...I approve this message.Thankyou ❤
As long as you trust yourself in wanting better for yourself, you got to learn to let go. And in the process of becoming a better version of yourself, you’ll attract the same energy you’re putting into your future self. You’re always going to attract authenticity if you’re being true with yourself and your intentions.
“We don’t see the world for how it is, we see the world for how we are” thanks girl ❤
I needed to hear this as someone recently walked out of my life without explanation and it's kind of my first rodeo so of course it hurt me a lot and I am hurting. But I needed this, it was comforting. Thank you. I pray that this passes and I can detach over time. I'll always remember that the universe is here to protect you, and what leaves is meant to leave! Especially if it was on it's own. Let it. What's meant for you will stay.
I feel like the hardest part, is feeling like nobody understands how bad it feels.
Breaking up with someone you really loved and have so many good memories with, because you know its not best for you, is one of the biggest mountains 😥😮💨😩😞
don’t focus on the rejection, focus on the protection 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 that’s a word sis GOD bless you in Jesus name❤
You are a woman of integrity Breeny! I was watching a video you made 3 years ago about how to LOVE, you talked about loving without expecting anything in return and how love is all about giving. I love the fact that when your ex didn’t help you to move to your new apartment it’s only then a friend made you to realise that you are on your own in your relationship. I love that fact that you shared your story and didn’t pretend that giving, giving and not getting anything back doesn’t work. Much love
Needed this..wonder about the title of the video..
Wow you’ve lost so much weight…Hope everything is good at your end 🙏🏽❤️
Finally got out of my toxic relationship and it ain’t easy but it’s necessary 🙂❤️
I swear, I’m trying to let go n not go bakk
Update ?
Look I’m a guy and this applies to girls breaking up as well! Girl‘s rejection is gods protection. I’m a very sensitive guy and all you say definitely is true for me as well. Thank you! This was really helpful! At the moment I’m still pretty hopeless but I hope that I’ll be able to improve and get better.
I can relate as a man and I really hit rock bottom contemplated suicide at one point but I’m over that now and incredibly I’m feeling like I’m finally getting over her now and don’t want her back now. I’m thinking of the future and meeting someone else in the future who is much better than she ever was for me and I know she is out there and coming to me really soon in addition I feel better things in general are coming my way. So believe me after being in darkness for so long I can attest there is light at the end of the tunnel.
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Funny this video just pops up after I bumped into my ex on the beach this morning. We said hello and it felt horrible. Like two strangers with memories and a massive wall between the two of us. And then going back home and your video appearing on my screen. Thank you.
“Two strangers with memories.” Take care of yourself babes
Really needed to hear this. Sometimes I just stay in bed all day just thinking about my relationship and I just find myself losing the will to do anything productive. I’ve lost family and friends through not being my own person but I’ve realised I need to get myself back. It’s been difficult even working when I start overthinking and worrying about the future. I will be trying to make that list in the afternoon and really just try to start focusing on ME ❤️
I just want to say I have never commented on a video before but today I opened up youtube and the first thing I saw was "its time to let go" and I knew that God was leading me to let go of that someone in my life, it wasn't going anywhere but I kept trying to force something that just wasn't. I want to say thank you for carrying Gods message, I was able to message him and call it quits and I'm feeling okay, cried a bit but God has settled my heart and emotions. I Pray that God blesses you with abundance and with all your needs and wants in life bre, In Jesus name I pray Amen!!! I love you too!!
I have been having a hard time letting go of someone for a long time and it’s so hard for me to move on and I have been praying to find a way to detach myself from this person. And when I opened up TH-cam and saw this video popped up…I knew it was a sign from God that you would help me try to take these steps from now on. Thank you so much❤️🥺
I feel the same. My heart still hurts and I am trying hard to let go, but, it has been hard...So hard, but it is time for me to let go
Same for me it’s agonizing 😢
GOD REALLY SAID TIMING ON THIS ONE! i need to let go on a relationship that ive been trying to save. we decided to be friends and then ur notification popped up ❤ GOD IS GOOD
When you said “God cares about you” I was on my prayer rug.. I felt like God spoke to me through you 😢
This video was definitely a sign from God. Thank you Lord for bringing me what I needed to hear at exactly the right moment. And thank you Breeny for being God’s vessel and sharing these words for us who really needed a sign to let go and move on. Will definitely be rewatching this when I need to hear this wisdom again 🥹💕
Going through this with a friend. Friendship breakups are hard too 😢 I’ve had to realize one of my best friends of six years hasn’t supported me in the last couple of them, and you cannot be the one carrying things.
Just found the strength to finally leave a toxic relationship yesterday. I’m filled with doubts, what-ifs and a lot of pain.
This video & all the comments below have brought me comfort and relief.
Hugs and kisses🩷
I don’t usually comment. I watch your videos a lot and I just want to say thank you for choosing to come on here and give hope to us women even when you’re feeling down. You are amazing!!!
I needed this today! I’ve been dating a man 3 months but as the time progressed even though we enjoyed each others company I just felt as though I couldn’t get close to him emotionally. I couldn’t understand him or put my finger on it. His actions fluctuate which caused me to be so confused. He was also a very inconsistent communicator. Communication is big for me. I expressed to him that I’d prefer to hear from him twice a day (morning & night)….he said he’d try…. I went out of the country and he didn’t even call or check in on me . That really broke me….I ended things. He had all the excuses why he didn’t call for a day but it’s obvious he didn’t care for me like that. I miss the routine calls but I deserve someone excited about me and someone who shows they care about my safety etc
This video was one I needed to her. We often think that acceptance is the last step to healing, but there is still work that needs to be put in. I’m learning to not focus on the rejection. And understand that actually him letting me go even when I wasn’t ready of it is just God protecting me through him. May 2023 be a year of healing, and relearning to love self, and draw closer to God, while e wait for the one.
My boyfriend and I broke up nearly 2 years ago, mainly because we had different ideas about marriage. We still saw each other regularly, we didn’t tell our families we broke up so nothing changed. A few days ago we had an argument and there’s nothing to go back to now. We’re are very different people, some things I do offended him and he bottled it up and it all came out in the argument. I was upset by something he did, (not cheating) but still disrespectful of him. I know I need to move on, but after over 7 years of being with him and envisioning a future with him it was heartbreaking to think about taking those steps. I know I need to though, this video helped me massively! Thank you Breeny. I agree that there’s nothing like a breakup to bring you closer to God! Your prayers are great, can’t wait to continue using them
It’s a tough journey, I went through my heartbreak 3 years ago in my late teens and I’ve been doing all the work but honestly from the bottom of my heart this journey has torn me apart in the most unimaginable way. I've left with more pain/trauma than feeling like I'm seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. I don't think I will ever testify or live to say I'm finally free from this but I wish the absolute upmost healing, freedom and wholeness for anyone who is on this journey. Lots of love
I went through the most devastating breakup of my life and I resonate when you said left with more pain/trauma than seeing a light. I felt the same way. And for the past year, until now, I'm trying to work on it every single day and practicing being gentle with myself. It feels less isolating to know someone else has felt the same way as me. I wish you all the best on your healing journey 🤍
@@angelicalartista I’m glad my message makes you feel less alone, this journey is not easy and knowing others relate can bring some ease. Wishing you all the best on this healing journey too 🤍
Can we take a moment for how good she looks!!!!!
I needed this so much I broke up with my boyfriend three days ago when I found out he was cheating on me with another girl when he was abroad so that really broke me but this video was so helpful thank you for this!!!❤️
Aww I’m so sorry to hear that! It has to be hard. I hope you’re taking care of yourself and feeling what you need to feel. Sending you strength 💗
I resonate with you! Hardest time for me was when I found out he cheated as well and it was during a time my dad was in the hospital and dying of cancer
@@kuro_mimi_ thank you!❤️❤️❤️
@@dianayeung7798 that’s horrible!! But thank you for your kind massage❤️❤️
Continue to glow and grow sis. Sending you lots of love and know that no matter how imperfect we are, we’re still someone’s perfect partner and that person will come when the time is right.
You'll find someone don't worry. Just keep your heart open, be judicious but not overly judgemental, and stay looking nice. Good job losing your weight.
Breeny, this was truly chicken soup for my poor aching heart. Needed this so much and I might just listen to it every morning as a comforting reminder that things will get better and I will get through this. Thank you!
The quality of the video is on point ☺
Thank you for this, I'm 1-month out of a 3-year relationship and the timing of this video further affirms that it was the right decision. I always knew I was settling and the narcissist in him made me doubt and question myself even though I did everything in the relationship, trying to make it work/right.
God bless you for this video 💞 Sendling love and light from South Africa 🇿🇦
Leaving my comment here for when my testimony is complete! Thank you for an encouraging video, Breeny!
Hows it going boo 🥰
This video is the most relatable video to me! I’ve related to the others but the nail was hit on the head throughout the whole 40 mins! I feel like I can begin to find peace and break the chain of this soul tie! I pray that everyone reading this will do the same. Thank you and God bless 🙏🏾❤️
God bless you as well
@@zubaaentertainment3903 thank you 🙏🏾
Thank you Breeny for your generosity. It's very powerful when you say; "Don't focus on the rejection, focus on the protection."
Sending you love and light from Canada 🇨🇦 ✨🤍
Currently going through a split up from a situationship that was very short lived and it’s hurt as much as my long term relationships. Right before I watched this video I wrote down I felt the Devil was trying to get to me because I’ve been so depressed about this. I actually just had one of my worst nights last night with it and it’s been a couple of months. With all that being said, I truly believe this video was sent through God and you are sent from God! This was the first video to come up when I opened TH-cam and I really needed it. You said everything I needed to hear. I was crying last night asking God to remove my soul tie just to find you had a prayer for soul ties. I blocked him yesterday and heard you mention to block as the first step. I know you were sent by God. Two years ago I went through a split up where I felt this same way and thought I was gonna die but I’ve made it through that and your words have me realize I can most definitely get through this. Thank you so much Breeny, I hope to come back to this video healed from this one day and will continue to pray these prayers and do the needed work to move on. God Bless you ❤️❤️
You're not alone. Most of us here are going through heartache. I, personally, an broken and trying to hang in there. We've got this. Just focus on yourself and hang on to God's hand for dear life. Sending hugs.
The prayer you put in the description was exactly what I needed. A pivotal part was saying out loud what my past person did to hurt me. What kept me from moving on was not acknowledging what he had done. Once I did this, I instantly knew that God would have someone of better character for me. Thank you Breeny ❤️ Amen Jesus🙏
This was wholesome.. You're literally God's sent to me rn.. thank you Bree Love you
I’ve watched you for years and it’s truly amazing to see how through everything, you’re still this genuinely strong woman that wants the best for others. You have a magnetic energy that not many people possess and it’s truly admirable. You look amazing and I hope 2023 brings you nothing but pure happiness, peace and love ❤️
I needed this because I got out of a bad relationship back in August 2022. I'm still depressed even though I know it was the best for me.
I have been talking to a man for almost two months now, but over time I have been able to realize that he is not considering anything serious so even before there is a separation I mentally prepare myself for this . We women are much stronger than them, know that! ❤️
I really appreciate you for making this video. So much emotion and having someone to speak from a place of a grounded place is sooo important thank you.
Thank you for delivering God’s message to me today. I needed to communicate with him. This was that for me ❤️
I needed this rn. I left a really great man but during that relationship, I realized I have so many issues to work though and messed us up (self-sabotage, no cheating involved). I beat myself up for hurting him bc he really was my best friend…but right now, he deserves better while I work on myself. He taught me so much. It hurts like hell, but I wish him the best. 💔 I, on the otherhand, got a dog to cope and she’s truly the best thing that ever happened to me. 💖
Even though you’re imperfect, you’re still someone’s perfect partner. Sending you love and light.❤️
@@leahjohn7175 thank you so much…and even if I’m not, I’m feeling plenty fulfilled by my dog :3
@@SharkWitchMeruna Hope you have a great holiday.❤️❤️❤️
@@leahjohn7175 you too!! ☃️
Exactly the devil you know isn’t better than the Angel you don’t know. The devil you know is tormenting you.
Thank you so much for this Breeny🥺❤️ Currently going through a break up and my anxiety is all over the place. I've also been beating me up because the Holy spirit warned me about him but I chose to ignore the red flags. I feel like I know better and should have done better but your loving and kind words really meant alot❤️
Alsoooo, I've been following you since 2021 and you're honestly a role model to me. Love and appreciate you so much❤️❤️
33:20 I am in Ukraine, so it felt as it was said straight to me😂
Oh, Breeny, I appreciate your content so much. I went through a super painful breakup 4 months ago, and since then your videos have been helping me build up my confidence and trust that the future holds something better for me. I moved, found a therapist, started a new job and built a plan on achieving my goals and dreams next year. I still catch myself asking why did he do that and how was I so blind all of the time, but each time the tears dry up quicker. So I wish everyone here to find our inner peace and rediscover how to trust and respect ourselves during this wonderful new season of being single.
Man's rejection is GODS PROTECTION
Love the energy in this video! Great job!
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It was the toe up from the flo’ up for me! 🤣😭 Us Americans do love to say that 🤣🤣🤣
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Breeny!!! Omg!! I had to pause the video at 1:08 cuz I thank God for Holy Spirit within us and I thank God for u and u being a believer!!!! That’s why ur context be ministering to me super hard throughout these different seasons. I’ve been following you since 2016 and I tell ya, this video was much much needed for me!!!! Thank u immensely for ur consistent love, encouragement, wisdom, transparency and advice!!! Ur such a gem darling!!! My lil big sis!!! 😂🌹💎🤎🤗🙏🏾🕊️🔥
You’re welcome 🤗❤ thank you for your loyalty 🙏🏾♥️
Beyond blessed to come across your video. Definitely a sign from God. I was hesitant on watching it, but it was exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been knowing I need to break a soul tie for about 2 years, and with your help I now am. Thank you so much for helping me and everybody who watched. I love you❤️
Sis you are truly God sent, these are the exact thoughts and emotions I’m going through right now😔 😭thank you for these words 🙏🏾 I needed to hear this and I’m truly grateful ❤️
Yes a break 💔 up can feel like death. Sadly my marriage of 11 years have come to an end. I had a whole funeral okay where I journal, remove pics and etc. It's hard when you have to co parent but I find parallel parenting method the best. Keep the videos coming 👏🏾
My relationship of 10 yrs ended back in October of this yr. I'm still sad and messed up. 😞 I understand the feeling. Let's pray for each other. God bless.
1 thing Breeny - I've always felt fulfilled and content on my own as a guy. I love women, and have good relations with them. But don't know how to deal with women who are very needy. It's best if two whole persons come together to make a relationship/team - a 3rd entity together. Not when 1 whole has to sacrifice half of themself to complete a women. Us guys often talk about this stuff. But it's not a gender thing. It's a people thing. Love is born out of union not loss. A video on this topic would be great! I can call you :)
I find that today's modern society is hypermasculine and eats away at a woman's femininity and overall sense of esteem. But its particularly worse for those who didn't see a good example of a woman that is whole and content with herself growing up.
This is a good topic and point.
THIS IS RIGHT ON TIME FOR ME
Thank you for your video today it came to me at the right time and thank you for your kind words of support and affirmations for your sisters. I would wish that some men would stop taking women on these repeated cycles of toxicity. Some men would leave one woman high and dry and then jump to the next and continue the same same cycle over and over. Still never really learning anything during the whole journey. Those who do not learn from their own mistakes will continue to repeat it.
This could not have come at a better time. Thank you for the support
Your so right! Im in the 1st step. It hurts so much. Im hiding my crying so my family doesn't know. I'm praying to get past this part soon. Ill check back in when im close to the other side. Thank you I love you to for this video.
Recently, I asked God to get rid of what no longer serves me. It’s been painful. He took someone I thought was the love of my life. It’s been tearing me up but your videos are helping. It was nothing but God! And I’m just trying to see the light ❤
@whatsapphim5568 I said God removed them - I don’t need them back.
When I first saw this video pop up, I wasn't ready to receive it, now is the time for me to watch the whole way through and commit. Thank you Breeny ❤️
Amen and Amen 🙌💜💜💜. God wants us whole as His daughters. Sometimes people who have soft hearts do love deeply and are hurt bad through a relationship ending but God is the mender of broken hearts.
May God bless you Breeny and I'm so thankful that you are giving God glory with Your life!
Happy holiday season
I’m the same. I get really attached and I lost myself because just being with him made me happy. Now it’s time to focus on me. I like how you said get through it and not over the person.
The brown looks stunning on you sis ❤️
Thank you sis ❤
I'm 19 yrs old, and thank you for this vid. He was my first boyfriend and well I recently sent him a message regarding how bad he made me feel when we used to be together not to point blame, it's just for me to let go about those actions that he did. For me it feels like closing a chapter because at the end I told him I forgive him and he messaged me back explaining why it happened and he was sorry too and that he also forgives me. I just don't want to be in a state where when we see each other I would remember the worse
e of him but rather, knowing that we forgave and we did love each other and that it's just time for us to grow apart. Well, he is my classmate, so you know how that goes. But thank you for this video,it helps me build an idea of how I want myself to become even to my future children and now that I am out of that RS I can see why he is not fit to be my partner in life. He is right for me at that moment but he is not right for me forever.
Breeny thank you so much for share with us this amazing content! Your videos help me so much through my healing process! You are amazing inside and our side!
Besos from Barcelona 🇪🇸
I went through a breakup of 12 years in September. I've felt like 1/3 of my life is gone and it wasn't worth it to continue. I'm having to relearn how to be a whole woman again. Very few understood my devastation but I'm starting to realize something. My ex had to move on for me to realize there's no going back to him. I've now got a sweet dog and am working through the pain to focus on myself again because it's been a really long time since I've been able to do that without upsetting my partner. In fact, the right man for me will love that I take time for myself. Being better individually should make us better together. Thank you Breeny for lifting my spirits with HIS word and your wisdom. A lovely duo💕
I had to look this up. I needed to learn how to move on. I love too hard... 😢 I have to go back doing me and stay focus
I needed this sm u are an absolute godsend ❤️❤️
Just know God definitely uses you and when I get married I will invite you ❤
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@@BreenyLee I’m inviting you to my wedding tooo 🥰🥰 ur part of the reason my standards are so high and I have such a high self esteem and self confidence >> I LOVE U!
you look so stunning! you inspire me to be better. so inspired by the woman you are. i look up to u😘😘
Thaaaank you so much for this!!!! May you continue to be a light in this world! Stay Blessed ❤️
All hail her majesty, Queeny Lee!!!!!👑
Thanks for another great video Breeny. Happy Holidays!!! 🎁✨🎄✨
Happy holidays! ❤
I'm going through this with the father of my kids. We have two young children together and we live together which makes it harder because it's a constant reminder that our relationship failed. I'm straddling the fence about whether it is for the best or if I could've done more because I know I also had my faults. I'm hoping to get through this no matter the outcome, and hopefully soon. I hate feeling this way. I will update you all when I feel it's fitting.
Girl stick it out ! As a single mom of 3 I wish I had at least stayed with my kids father , cause dad get to go on a make a new family when we have kids as a women men look at us as extra baggage salvaged goods because they don’t want to come into a ready made family it’s weird . Trust me stay with the father of your kids unless he is mentally or physically abusing you
@@haircode504 but isn't that just settling because you feel no one wants a woman with kids? There are plenty of happy blended families. Men are entitled to have a preference on if they want a woman with kids but there are a lot of mature men out there that would love you and your kids. It's unfortunate that you feel that way. There's always someone out there for you.
You can do this. If you truly know that the relationship is toxic it's best to end it. You are beautiful and worthy of a healthy love. You can encourage him to get his own place and you guys co-parent. Set boundaries about your relationship going forward. Don't settle for less in the mindset of "my babies need their dad" I know from personal experience that your babies much rather want a healthy mom, and environment. May God give you courage to do what you know is right. Bless you.
@@iamalyshaj it would be consider settling in a way . I guess I’m just being fearful of other women because of my situation I’m sorry 😩. I just know what I’ve encountered these past 7 years my kids father and I been split . By all means if your truly unhappy do what makes you happy for better environment for the kids especially if you feel y’all can co parent . 😊 I hope the best for you and your family 🥰
@@haircode504 i wish i could agree as a mother of 4 and divorced from all my kidsz father i did my best to stick it out but unfortunately it wasnt me that wanted to move on and no matter how bad u try to stick it out if he wanna go let him go if he willing to work it out then yall submit to God and let him lead yall family if not ylu got this and in time you will look back and say I did it although i thought i couldnt i moved on im healing and im becoming a better woman.. either way im rooting for yuu,,, PRAY
Thank you for this message! I am so glad I ended the relationship. Man’s rejection is truly God’s protection🙌🏾
Thank you! I'm going through a break up. I met this guy when I was at my worst- I was depressed and not myself. He brought me back to life & we fell in love. We actually were long distance and never met, sounds crazy but when you know you know. our relationship faded from the distance and he moved on after a month. I'm still not over it- I feel like he was my angel who saved me. This video comforted me. ❤
Thank you for showing up on my Explore feed. I recently came out of a 4 year long relationship. I got cheated on 6 months ago and kept in touch with that POS. I still cry and was crying before watching this video. This whole video was so cathartic.
"when you're in it it's hard to see past it". makes sense..
Been a fan since 2019.... Started this video crying and feel a little better toward the end. I am 3 weeks post and it was an awful betrayal but I hope to have a testimony and will come back to this video 1 July to hopefully share. Breeny your touching lives dont stop.
The fact that this video came at the right time 😭 I really appreciate you for this video this was really needed ❤️😊
Thanks for sharing. I love that you're sharing this very authentic experience of the impact that even having a crush or a new dating relationship not pan out as we might have hoped for can have. It can be incredibly painful, and at the same time seems not to get acknowledged in that way when it was a shorter relationship, or just a secret crush. Thank you for lifting everyone here up with gratitude and refocusing on what was learned.