My Coming Out Story

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  • @livinginlux
    @livinginlux 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who knew that butt dialing your mom in the heat of the moment could be a blessing in disguise. It's great she turned out to be so supportive. She sounds like a fighter anyone would want to have in their corner.

  • @ifsaica
    @ifsaica 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, I too can relate to checking out the underwear section of newspapers, magazines. Then it got to where I’d follow the models around, since a lot of them worked for others. I’m glad things worked out for you and your family. Most often it takes time and understanding/educating oneself before they can really know what’s it like. Like you mentioned and I totally agree, most of us won’t hate ourselves, we simply need to come to come to a point of acceptance, that this is who we are, and God doesn’t make mistakes! It’s like a badge we wear during out lifetime here on earth, and in the end we all will need to atone for how we lived our life. “ Did we play the victim, and blame others or did we use our God given gifts to help others and our families?” Be well, we come from similar backgrounds as well...Mexican dads! Ay, they can be stubborn, but when they come around, they really got our backs. Take care brother. Alex from Los Angeles.

  • @Joethomasjr
    @Joethomasjr 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Those hands! OMG they are amazing. (Sorry, lost my train of thought for a moment) Your Coming Out story is touching, and, in so many ways similar to many of us. You are right though, IT DOES GET BETTER. Stay Strong, Stay You.

  • @garygreely5578
    @garygreely5578 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for being so honest and forthcoming. I feel that your story will help others.

  • @marissaaguirre4244
    @marissaaguirre4244 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marc this was amazing!!! You’ve always been one of my favs and I absolutely loved this video! You are very brave for sharing your story! Hope all is well! Keep being the gem you are!

  • @johnbarber6368
    @johnbarber6368 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m in the U K but you have made me cry again. Share more stories please

  • @democraticpatriot2657
    @democraticpatriot2657 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marc, I watch a lot of these coming out videos. They are all very courageous. Your story will help many, many people come out, because of the brutally candid way you tell it. The drama of your story would make a great movie treatment. I laughed at the part about your phone being on to your Mom while making out in the car. And your father’s struggle to understand what having a gay son means. Be strong, your video can’t help but make your TH-cam followers love you. You are living proof that true beauty is more than skin deep.

    • @MsHandsomedevil
      @MsHandsomedevil  6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don Bing Thank you so much! Truly means a lot to me. ❤️

    • @bigmannjunior9349
      @bigmannjunior9349 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Marc Alday are you single?

  • @rachelmungaray2220
    @rachelmungaray2220 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you Markie! You are such a brave man to put this out there for other people to hear. You are doing a great thing for others suffering. Love you kid :)

  • @thomasbonifacio4009
    @thomasbonifacio4009 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a strong person. I'll be posting my own video soon! Good luck to you, and I am sure many people going through this experience will see this video and really appreciate your genuine demeanor. Much love!!

  • @garyjsimm
    @garyjsimm 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s tough. As a fellow anxiety sufferer, hang in there brother. Good vid

  • @Abbyjesse11
    @Abbyjesse11 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    MARC!!!!!! You've always been such an amazing handsome guy. Seeing you happy makes me so happy. LOVE YOU!!! 😘

  • @AndrewMefford
    @AndrewMefford 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I realized my feeling around 12 but I think I knew something was different around 10ish. I never had my first experience until about 16 but I finally came out. Thankfully my family and friends were accepting.

  • @foreverking4705
    @foreverking4705 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found your channel by accident. Can't wait to see you grow. 🙌

  • @AndrewMefford
    @AndrewMefford 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    A beautiful soul! Be you! :)

  • @JoseMendoza-kt8je
    @JoseMendoza-kt8je 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Marc! I guess I will be the first one to comment on your video.
    I have said this to you before on IG and I’ll say it again here. Thank you for being yourself! In the short time that I came across your page you have inspired me to me more true with myself and although I am not “out” yet, I have hope that my life can turn out like yours. Keep up the good work and God bless!

  • @SamiiMacChan
    @SamiiMacChan 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marc.. I’m so proud of you! It takes so much to come out. Your story is so touching.. you had me tearing up!
    Stay Strong❤️

  • @benth162
    @benth162 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're quite correct young man, you don't need those types of individuals. When I came out and wanted to bring my boyfriend down from Oregon to the Bay Area in California, my mother didn't want us to come down because she thought we would swish around town. Believe me I an no queen so what it boiled down to was that she thought it ruin her reputation around our small town of Martinez. I basically told her to fuck off and I didn't speak to her for three years, and would have until I died. Eventually she wanted to have a relationship with her son, so it was she who made overtures to start communicating again. But then it was on MY TERMS, NOT HERS AND I DID MAKE HER TOW THE LINE IN DEALING WITH ME AS AT THE TIME I WAS 33.

  • @themaushpit9791
    @themaushpit9791 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG! Your story has some tragically funny parts and some very real, challenging parts. 5:17 - I know I need to tell her, just don't know how. 5:46 - I had butt-dialed [my mom] while [my bf and I] were doing some nasty stuff. Wow, that's a helluva way to get yourself caught haha. I'm so glad all worked out for you with your family! Best!

  • @EmelyAguino
    @EmelyAguino 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️🤗😘 so awesome that you are sharing this.

  • @caseyjmarkovich
    @caseyjmarkovich 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    YESS I HAVE DONE THAT!!! And yes that done the same thing. And I’m a senior in high school yes my mom and I have a close relationship my mom

  • @chillbrutha82
    @chillbrutha82 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    "There's a certain point in your life to where you pretty much just say 'fuck it'.
    I think I am at that point.

  • @05Sun08OlympiaLuna
    @05Sun08OlympiaLuna 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your channel came up on recommendation. I couldn't be happier. Pleased to meet you, Marc.😁
    Sometimes I did more than look at those men's underwear ads. 🙈😅
    Thank you for sharing your coming out story. This video will surely help others who are struggling to coming out.
    I'm sorry but I kept getting distracted by your biceps and tattoo.🤤😍🙈😅

  • @leslieurquides172
    @leslieurquides172 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're amazing marc ❤

  • @yettobseen
    @yettobseen 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yup

  • @edqv3266
    @edqv3266 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yupp, I can totally relate to the male underwear section 😂💀 the Calvin Klein briefs we’re my favorite haha.
    Wow! That’s a crazy story about butt dialing your mom while have sex with a guy. Idk what I would of done in that situation 😭. Thanks for sharing your story, Marc!

  • @dramac333
    @dramac333 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You aren't the only one to look at men's underwear ads - there was nothing I loved more than when the new Sears catalogue showed up in the mail.

  • @paulandrews298
    @paulandrews298 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nothing like outing yourself to your mom. My best friend at the time outed me to my parents, but they were totally cool with it. They weren't so receptive learning I was atheist. Are you still with the same guy?

  • @codywong4400
    @codywong4400 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did the underwear thing too, Burlington, Target etc.

  • @paulmcmichael7157
    @paulmcmichael7157 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think we all looked at underwear guys! It's No. 1 sign.

  • @giselleaalvarez4345
    @giselleaalvarez4345 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you pa😘

  • @yettobseen
    @yettobseen 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ahhh...first love, so painful at times

  • @EleazarEspinozaLeal
    @EleazarEspinozaLeal 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww Marc idky at all I Just saw your video on my recommendations and I’m so proud of you. You are making others feel more comfortable about there sexuality and even though idky I love you so much and I’ll always be here for you even though I’m a teen and your probably like 18-20 I’ll always support you and yes I have done that where you talk about looking at guys cloths and underwear hahaha but ilysm and I just subscribed text me so I can talk about stuff insta-@young.starboy

  • @bigmannjunior9349
    @bigmannjunior9349 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have did that before look at the package