Ladies, this is the right way of thinking. Don’t let any man (or woman) tell you that you are a threat, too much etc. If society is brainwashed, don’t let that make you brainwashed! Lisa speaks the truth, of how it should be. I was unfortunate to suffer most of my 20’s and 30’s no knowing this knowledge and thankfully through rediscovering my femininity this is now ingrained and it is the only way forward!
Yes... When my man tells me: You think too much about Yourself, I take IT as a compliement. Who, really, who will make IT if not me????!!!! If for somebody taking care about myself, taking care about my mental health and health generally etc is selfish, it's really not my problem. And yes, I was brainwashed as well.
This s so helpful for all those girls whose mothers were not emotionally available and/or never taught them anything regarding true femininity and self worth. THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS!
I really love the word “expensive” type, I remember I have always been very selective naturally. As time went by, I realized it’s a honor to have my presence. Especially these days, when I have worked pretty well on myself. Thank you for a good reminder - that I am not weird, I am expensive!
This is so true. Some of the most beautiful women in the world, models and celebrities, have the worst love lives. You set the standard, not your beauty.
Lord I need a major reset/refresh for my life. I have been depressed for some years. I am now ready to create the woman I see myself as in my mind. Love this video Lisa!
@@Elegantnost I am doing great! I have chosen not to have sex and my mind has been renewed by the Word of God. Having a man or attracting a man is no longer the center of my life, but Jesus is!!! He healed my depression! I have peace and joy and it naturally radiates from me. Which is what i prayed for. I hope this helps!!. Also, I started a career as a REal Estate Agent and I am excited about my new journey. What transformed me was reading verse Matt 6:33 and reading the Bible, praying and worship.
@@idivas_Tricia that’s not true at all. A lot of men - AND WOMEN- come back to the one who they could never fully “have.” Keeping a little of yourself FOR yourself is why these men keep coming back. The woman who wrote this isn’t wrong. A lot of my exes come back months, even years (some decades) later… even when they’re with someone else. That doesn’t mean I indulge them, especially not if they’re with someone else. But it is true and has nothin to do with the prospect of the man who wants you back as he watches you turn into the goddess you are meant to be. If this isn’t happening for you, give it time, or if you don’t want it or think it’s somehow not right for you, that’s okay… but confident women never feel the need to knock other women down a peg. Never. Even if we recognize another woman mistaking attention for love, we know (if we’re experienced and have come into our own) it’s not our place to humble anyone else. We’re too busy choosing who to spend our energy on, because in this type of life, your phone never stops ringing. It can be a bit overwhelming and tiring but you can also decide that you don’t owe anyone a response. Especially if said person ever made you feel lesser-than before. I hope you feel confident and powerful and realize it’s just not your place - nor is it useful - to try to tell anyone that she isn’t the source of power she believes she is.
I would like to add one thing : If a man wants to take you out on a date , he must put in some work to make the woman know he’s worthy for her . Don’t just straightaway walk out on a date with him , wait and let him put in some efforts before you actually go out on a date with him . Keep a balance obviously ❤❤❤
I went on a date for my birthday with a guy that was always asking me out. I finally agreed and he stood me up for a date that would put out. He didncall he just didn't show up. He finally let me know 2 days later and asked me out again. He wasn't happy when I said, "Nope".
It's all about your confidence and self-respect, femininity, posture, eye contact, and smart look. Men are attracted to smart women! A bit of charm and smile are also helpful! If you are not confident enough, then go to the gym, work on yourself! It will help with self-respect and posture as well! Good luck, girls ❤
I've been in my masculine energy for so long I miss my feminine energy so this is going to be good for me I always have people tell me that they like my energy and they tell me that I'm very beautiful and everything so I guess I'm halfway there😅
Thank you for the reminder that we desperately need these days. To understand the class and dignity of truly understanding gentlemen who completely know how to respond to a high valued woman. It's an understanding of one's self worth, and it can be practiced and obtained by anyone who wants that dignity and respect. Too often these days people have a false sense of entitlement when they have not put forth the proper effort.
I am in my 40s, having boundaries and no man dares to approach me 😁😁😁 But I put here one note: my male colleague seems crazy about me, although his partner works at the same place, too. She is everything that I am not (for some ladies this might sound familiar). That woman is with that man maybe over 15 years, she chased him, she went to live with him, they have 2 children, but she hasn't become the man's wife and I just can't watch how that man treats her 🙄 He is "a boy" and can't understand that I am not laying my eyes on him whatsoever. How could I?! I am a lady. And yes, when Henry Cavill popped up in this video - he's the man I would like to date 😉 I think a true woman seeks a true man and this works vice versa. Feminity is something to cultivate, it is not easy.
There was me and there were young guys who would humble me calling me cute, but around men who own land and wealth + those who stoodd in their power î felt more comfortable...thee men these guys would he intimidated by most likely. As a receiver in light feminine î could only output what î was given which was cute to me. Having a lot of scorpionic energy powerful peiple are most relatable to me even tho people would question me or tell me who i was only because I bent down for them. Thankhû for making this video 💜
My brother is the best man by being a gentleman to me and he protects and provides because my Mom taught him to be the masculine man since our childhood so he does treat me like the princess I am I hope he becomes the great husband to his future wife
I love this video. My daughters are now in their twenties and so I hope that they have this type of mentality as it will save them a lot of trouble. In the 1950s they used to teach what this young lady is saying in Finishing School. Women who were about something went to school to become "THAT WOMAN". I love the advice because it's not something that could just be applied to seducing a man but also in business. To have a certain je ne sais quois to entice business to help you get promotions at work ect.... Blessed Be 🌛🌝🌜 Bitch is actually an acronym B*eing I*n T*total C*ontrol of H*erself It isn't necessarily a derogatory term which is why men love bitches
Love your comment. I may get attacked for stating this, but I am convinced that modern day feminism has women convinced they need to act like the she hulk and compete with men, rather then complete a man. I am extremely traditionally feminine in nature, and rather then fight it like I used to, I’ve embraced it. I was blessed with being attractive and having a nice body, but when I became self assured in my feminine power I became unbreakable. I fought like hell to get here and men notice my nurturing and feminine essence. I hate the word submissive and wish there was a better word to describe it. I let men know up front I am fine with old fashioned roles as long as I am treated as a queen, he can be the king of the castle. I don’t want to compete with men. I find joy and POWER in being the one who nurtures my man after he comes home from doing roofing all day. My gift is NOT working and trying to make it in business. My gift is that I am a feminine and calming presence and super affectionate and allow my man to rest and recharge so he can go out into the world which is extremely hard on men. Before I met my bf I had men all over me, because men are tired of being treated like trash and demonized for their natural masculinity. The funniest part of this story is I was actually born male. I’m transsexual. I met my current bf as friends, and he caught feelings. When I told him my medical/surgical history he was shocked but willing to take me on a romantic date because he already had a crush on me as a friend first. My point is that I could of let my circumstances stop me. I could of gave up. I had the whole world telling me NOT to follow what felt most innate to me. When I show my girl friends my inbox on dating apps they are shocked that so many men are totally okay with dating someone like me. I look, act, sound and even smell (hormones) just like what they are attracted to, and in todays modern day open minded world, many men are looking for other options rather then end up with a feminist indoctrinated angry bitter woman who makes them feel shamed for being a man. I love and crave masculinity and enjoy being feminine and I have been truly rewarded for it. My bf and his son are such a blessing and if I didn’t give into my feminine nature I wouldn’t have this!!! 🤷♀️
Lisa I just came across your channel and I have been binge watching and sharing. Thank you for your radiance and guidance. There’s a lot of dark feminine and femme fatal that are manipulative, thank you for NOT being that and speaking to sheer confidence and not settling.
I wish I had great self esteem when I was younger.I had a friend who was very confident, and she only went out with men who had money. Men would always flock to her. I never had self esteem. that was very confident until I was much older ,having this kind of information is really important when you’re young, I am much more confident, but I could do better. I now have the money and the wardrobe to have more confidence ,it’s constant work on yourself. 😊
This video was definitely worth my time!! That make up, those earrings (love those earrings), that little semi pink corset top hugging that oh so small waist with the flowy white skirt. You are definitely giving Princess AND Queen Vibes. Such a Vision!! I Love the other footage you showed as well in those very nice clean decadent high-end places showing off your beautiful lovely outfits presence and energy. You are really about that Life!! Everything about you exudes quality and value. I think this may be the second video I seen of you in about a six month span or so and once again I am inspired!! The advice you gave is just as valuable and qualified. For many years I use to be very very nice and overly helpful to men (and women). It took me a while to realize that there is nothing wrong with being selfish because guess what those people I was going out on a limb for were selfish and they knew I would be the perfect person to use and Not to get to know or respect. You are a very very hard target to (even) prey upon by people like that when you are (positively) selfish and are Really about Self Improvement and Self Love. I use to be perfect prey to those types of people. I also was the type to be very very easily accessible even when they weren't for me, so I didn't seem rude, inconsistent, unreliable, etc. Now I don't give a damn!! It took a very long time for me to get here but I'm never ever going back!! I also read the book "Why Men Love Bit&hes" and it wasn't what I thought it was going to be but definitely a book every woman should read at least once. Well, Good Night Mademoiselle.
I was just on a date with a man that tried to make fun of the way I ate Needless to say I was shocked by how insecure he was never responded back to his messages ever again 😂
You give very good advice and for such a pretty package of a woman, you surprised me by having a lot of substance, knowledge and eloquence. You are an excellent example to learn from!
Thank you! In my case I would like to see some movies recommendations about femenine energy (dark and light). It is good to see with examples but also they inspire me even more to move into those energies.
Thank you. I don't feel bad about myself anymore. I wondered why some guy I like chose the girl who tends to make maowing voice to him, and stick her part of body with his infornt of me and everyone. Because they likes it and feels comfortable. And that girl left her ex for him because his appearance and money, although she knew he was dating with me. On the other hands, I always take care of him unconditionally, and never touch him without any respect. I think I see something. He judged and didn't know me enough. He thought that my values were boring, but that girl who ran to him was more interesting and worthy because...he told me once that he didn't want to try. He wanted easy life progress and no need to be classy. Classy was a lie to him. But my teacher told me once and I remember for all my life that "Be the best version of yourself and you'll love your life. For anyone who is fake, one day their true skin will be shown." But same type of people always attached each other. All I'm doing now is to finish everything before I leave to let him be with her. 1 year of getting to know him and 6 months of dating, makes me know my own worth. And make me know other human who never care for what's right or wrong, but the only happiness of the outer shell. However, I'm sure that they'll be happy ever after because they are just the same. I need to fly away to practice my soft and elegant self which I always wanted to be.
Not always coming here for the content. When I’ve been over doing, with my goals and I just need to pamper I play your vids to add in to my feminine energy experience❤
It's so sad that the new culture tells women and men that the bigger their body count, the better the cooler they are..but it's the opposite. It cheapens you and makes u less desirable. Why would anyone want leftovers when they can have someone who kept their standards high.
I’m a fan of Mae West! She had game! Quote by the Goddess Mae West! “It isn't what I do, but how I do it. It isn't what I say, but how I say it, and how I look when I do it and say it.” Boom!!!
Love this reinforcement!! Off topic, but do you have a video on how to look feminine and classy in outfits that have pants involved? I don’t always feel comfortable in skirts and dresses. I appreciate your time and videos💜
Loved the video! I love how you expanded more on boundaries. It can be hard to put them out there for others, but in the end, it is important to look after yourself and think about yourself in those situations, otherwise you may be taken advantage of and that's not good, though those bad experiences that we face make us all the more stronger for ourselves. I loved the movie clips that were played throughout your video especially the one at 13:46. Very curious to know what movie it's from. Also, I would love to hear more about any self-care or femininity books that you have read or recommend. The one featured in your video sounds very intriguing. Looking forward to your next video!
Lisa! I absolutely love your videos. They make me so confident, thank you. I was wondering if you could make a video about how to help bring out more masculine qualities in your man? I love my husband, but I think he’s not sure of how to be masculine in some ways because of upbringing. Can you make a video about this?
Could it be the case that in certain cultures a beautyful feminine women seems *too hard* to get? The feedback I get is that men are too afraid to talk to me, here in Germany. In Italy its different. I'm single since a long long time and my ex boyfriends were italian and croatian, never a german. 🧐🤔
I understand completely ! Yes you have some culture where men are more masculine, or men approach more easily. I noticed that as well 😂 In France and in the UK men approach less than in Italy or the US for example. My exes were never French 😂 Also have in mind that some men are intimidated by feminine women, but that is a good thing, because there is a selection that is made. But you can appear more approachable with eye contact and a smile ! I have a video about it if you want 😘
@@Lisaglamour Oh, thank you that you always reply! I appreciate your help so much! Yes, I should play more with the eyes.Thank you again, for taking my problem serious, I'm in troubble indeed. LOVE YOU and your channel!
Omg I just love you ❤ we need more ladies like you great great content for girls and women thank you so much!! I'm going to make my daughter watching you 😊
I'd love for you to list the boundaries you think any woman should have. No one else has touched upon this subject in depth. Yes, they all agree a woman needs boundaries, but then they don't say what they are! Would you do a list?
Just sharing my perspective here as someone who used to have no boundaries, to now having them. Boundaries are individual for each person. Boundaries stem from understanding what you’re comfortable with, and not comfortable with. Boundaries protect you from getting in situations where you allow another person to do things that makes you uncomfortable or hurts you. Everyone is so unique, that what hurts them or makes them uncomfortable will be different from person to person… by you asking this question, I wonder if perhaps you don’t quite know what makes you uncomfortable/upset? I used to be like this, because I would deny my natural feelings, because I used to be a people pleaser. This stems from childhood. If you were raised in an environment where you were not allowed to express your needs, like I was, it can be difficult to get in touch with what makes you uncomfortable versus uncomfortable. This is because you’re used to silencing your voice and your needs to make other people happy. However, once you get in touch with your own emotions, and ask yourself how you feel about some thing that someone does to you (do you feel good or do you feel bad about what they’re doing?), this helps you to understand your boundaries. If someone does some thing that makes you feel bad, that is when you put down your foot. If someone does something that makes you feel good, you understand that this is what you’re looking for in a relationship. Once you understand what you are comfortable with, versus not comfortable with, when you encounter things that you’re not comfortable with, it allows you to verbalize it to that person. If they don’t respect that boundary, then that is when you walk. People that don’t respect boundaries, don’t have the capacity to love and accept you for who you are. And because they don’t respect those boundaries, they will continue to hurt you again, and again. The more you allow someone to hurt you, the less respect you have for yourself. Allowing someone to do some thing that hurts you (which again is personal for everyone), will erode your happiness and your self-esteem. And this is why it’s important to understand your feelings, and make sure anyone you’re in a relationship with is meeting those needs.… Again, boundaries are personal to every person, because we all have different triggers. What is a boundary for her, probably won’t be a boundary for you… If I were you, trying to understand my boundaries, I would keep a journal where I write down what I like, and didn’t like about the way someone treated me. You’ll start to see a pattern with things you like, versus things you don’t like. The things you don’t like are your boundaries, and once they become a boundary, you don’t let people cross them. Journaling this way is also great if you regularly deny your own feelings, because it helps you to get to know yourself better. Often we don’t pay enough attention to ourselves to really understand how we feel about life and about the things that happened to us. We just pushed through the feelings, to get on with our day. But it is important to understand how things affect you emotionally, because then you can understand yourself better. And in the case of boundaries, it helps you to figure out what your own boundaries are.… One last thing. Boundaries might change over time as you grow and develop. for example, sometimes boundaries are there because of past trauma, and once you heal, you no longer have that boundary. Or as you grow in develop, something that bothered you in the past, no longer bothers you… I hope this helps!
"You think the man's a clown, but your still buying tickets to the circus" amazingly put!
Lol point taken , walk away ladies
Yes! Yeah, I stopped buying clown tickets long ago, lol.
Same, we've all done it, but we live and we learn 💖
Hilarious!
I was about to say same
For a woman in her 20s, you carry yourself like a woman much older. I mean that as a genuine compliment.
Ladies, this is the right way of thinking. Don’t let any man (or woman) tell you that you are a threat, too much etc. If society is brainwashed, don’t let that make you brainwashed!
Lisa speaks the truth, of how it should be.
I was unfortunate to suffer most of my 20’s and 30’s no knowing this knowledge and thankfully through rediscovering my femininity this is now ingrained and it is the only way forward!
Yes... When my man tells me: You think too much about Yourself, I take IT as a compliement. Who, really, who will make IT if not me????!!!!
If for somebody taking care about myself, taking care about my mental health and health generally etc is selfish, it's really not my problem.
And yes, I was brainwashed as well.
If they think you’re too much, tell them to go find less. 💕
This s so helpful for all those girls whose mothers were not emotionally available and/or never taught them anything regarding true femininity and self worth. THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THIS!
I really love the word “expensive” type, I remember I have always been very selective naturally. As time went by, I realized it’s a honor to have my presence. Especially these days, when I have worked pretty well on myself. Thank you for a good reminder - that I am not weird, I am expensive!
Yes girl 🥰 💎!
When we realize our power as a woman the whole game changes 🔥
Yep! 👑
What power??
This is so true. Some of the most beautiful women in the world, models and celebrities, have the worst love lives. You set the standard, not your beauty.
Yes Exactly !!
Setting boundaries and applying it is definitely important. I am still working on this myself.
Lord I need a major reset/refresh for my life. I have been depressed for some years. I am now ready to create the woman I see myself as in my mind. Love this video Lisa!
How are you doing with this?
@@Elegantnost I am doing great! I have chosen not to have sex and my mind has been renewed by the Word of God. Having a man or attracting a man is no longer the center of my life, but Jesus is!!! He healed my depression! I have peace and joy and it naturally radiates from me. Which is what i prayed for. I hope this helps!!. Also, I started a career as a REal Estate Agent and I am excited about my new journey. What transformed me was reading verse Matt 6:33 and reading the Bible, praying and worship.
This video came at the perfect time for me. I'm upgrading every part of my life and this mindset is essential. Thank you Lisa!
Same here
sending you love and wishing you luck and strength on your journey! it is not always easy to keep going. but it surely worth the effort and wait
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Men always come back to me. I'm unforgettable even many decades later. ❤️
Great! The same x
@Riselle As it should be sis same here 💅🏽
Same with me. But. They tend to appreciate me when I am gone and they hit hard head first with reality
If you love someone, let them go, If he comes back to you, let him go again. You are not "unforgettable". It just means that no one else wanted them.
@@idivas_Tricia that’s not true at all. A lot of men - AND WOMEN- come back to the one who they could never fully “have.” Keeping a little of yourself FOR yourself is why these men keep coming back. The woman who wrote this isn’t wrong. A lot of my exes come back months, even years (some decades) later… even when they’re with someone else. That doesn’t mean I indulge them, especially not if they’re with someone else. But it is true and has nothin to do with the prospect of the man who wants you back as he watches you turn into the goddess you are meant to be. If this isn’t happening for you, give it time, or if you don’t want it or think it’s somehow not right for you, that’s okay… but confident women never feel the need to knock other women down a peg. Never. Even if we recognize another woman mistaking attention for love, we know (if we’re experienced and have come into our own) it’s not our place to humble anyone else. We’re too busy choosing who to spend our energy on, because in this type of life, your phone never stops ringing. It can be a bit overwhelming and tiring but you can also decide that you don’t owe anyone a response. Especially if said person ever made you feel lesser-than before. I hope you feel confident and powerful and realize it’s just not your place - nor is it useful - to try to tell anyone that she isn’t the source of power she believes she is.
From the bottom of my heart, thank you Lisa. You have no idea what this means, coming from someone who is on her way to becoming THAT woman.
So happy to hear that it helps you❤️
I would like to add one thing : If a man wants to take you out on a date , he must put in some work to make the woman know he’s worthy for her . Don’t just straightaway walk out on a date with him , wait and let him put in some efforts before you actually go out on a date with him . Keep a balance obviously ❤❤❤
Pov: this channel is very addictive ❤️🥺
I knoww🤗
Riiight?!
I went on a date for my birthday with a guy that was always asking me out. I finally agreed and he stood me up for a date that would put out. He didncall he just didn't show up. He finally let me know 2 days later and asked me out again. He wasn't happy when I said, "Nope".
You did the right thing
he’s using “pick up artist” tricks on you!! don’t fall for it
That is why you did not want to date him in the first place... he is not for you.
Way to go girl. We ain't wasting our feminine life no more.🎉
@@itsrxbinwhat technique is that?
I already know I'm gonna LOVE THIS. The femme fatale and dark femininity videos are my favorite ever 🖤🖤
Me too❤❤❤❤
Mine too. It creates so much polarity with the light feminine.
I am 18 and turning my future self into ✨ Her ✨
Glad you're learning earlier in life! 💝
@@sakuraqueen1734 omggg- I am now 19 💅🧚♀️ Progressed so much now
I think I struggle with I like the guy too much and then sacrifice my own boundaries and give in I need to work on self respect. Thanks for this
"too bad I can't give out samples!" 😂
It's all about your confidence and self-respect, femininity, posture, eye contact, and smart look. Men are attracted to smart women! A bit of charm and smile are also helpful! If you are not confident enough, then go to the gym, work on yourself! It will help with self-respect and posture as well! Good luck, girls ❤
Omg 'the midnight calls and chill" ive blocked so many for that- its pure cheek- they may as well say am coming to use you lol .....
The boundary setting even in things like when you allow a man to call you; noted. ♥️
I looove this channel, so safe and allowing to be soft & to learn
I've been in my masculine energy for so long I miss my feminine energy so this is going to be good for me I always have people tell me that they like my energy and they tell me that I'm very beautiful and everything so I guess I'm halfway there😅
I’ve been thinking too about masculine energy and wanting to explore this side of myself more.
Resonated the most with the tea cup!! I love buying things that make me feel like a Barbie💖
Thank you for the reminder that we desperately need these days. To understand the class and dignity of truly understanding gentlemen who completely know how to respond to a high valued woman. It's an understanding of one's self worth, and it can be practiced and obtained by anyone who wants that dignity and respect.
Too often these days people have a false sense of entitlement when they have not put forth the proper effort.
Okay but Mrs Lisa I need a dress haul because your dresses are gorgeous 😍😍. Another wonderful video 💕
This felt like a FaceTime with a beautiful friend. So helpful. ❤
my bf & i are expecting an unplanned child & i can really feel that he’s turning from a boy into a man.. i love it
I am in my 40s, having boundaries and no man dares to approach me 😁😁😁
But I put here one note: my male colleague seems crazy about me, although his partner works at the same place, too. She is everything that I am not (for some ladies this might sound familiar). That woman is with that man maybe over 15 years, she chased him, she went to live with him, they have 2 children, but she hasn't become the man's wife and I just can't watch how that man treats her 🙄
He is "a boy" and can't understand that I am not laying my eyes on him whatsoever. How could I?! I am a lady. And yes, when Henry Cavill popped up in this video - he's the man I would like to date 😉 I think a true woman seeks a true man and this works vice versa. Feminity is something to cultivate, it is not easy.
There was me and there were young guys who would humble me calling me cute, but around men who own land and wealth + those who stoodd in their power î felt more comfortable...thee men these guys would he intimidated by most likely. As a receiver in light feminine î could only output what î was given which was cute to me. Having a lot of scorpionic energy powerful peiple are most relatable to me even tho people would question me or tell me who i was only because I bent down for them. Thankhû for making this video 💜
My brother is the best man by being a gentleman to me and he protects and provides because my Mom taught him to be the masculine man since our childhood so he does treat me like the princess I am I hope he becomes the great husband to his future wife
I love this video. My daughters are now in their twenties and so I hope that they have this type of mentality as it will save them a lot of trouble. In the 1950s they used to teach what this young lady is saying in Finishing School. Women who were about something went to school to become "THAT WOMAN". I love the advice because it's not something that could just be applied to seducing a man but also in business. To have a certain je ne sais quois to entice business to help you get promotions at work ect....
Blessed Be 🌛🌝🌜
Bitch is actually an acronym
B*eing
I*n
T*total
C*ontrol of
H*erself
It isn't necessarily a derogatory term which is why men love bitches
Oh man! I really wish I could go to a finishing school😆 It sounds so fun🤩🤩
Blessed be
Love your comment. I may get attacked for stating this, but I am convinced that modern day feminism has women convinced they need to act like the she hulk and compete with men, rather then complete a man. I am extremely traditionally feminine in nature, and rather then fight it like I used to, I’ve embraced it. I was blessed with being attractive and having a nice body, but when I became self assured in my feminine power I became unbreakable. I fought like hell to get here and men notice my nurturing and feminine essence. I hate the word submissive and wish there was a better word to describe it. I let men know up front I am fine with old fashioned roles as long as I am treated as a queen, he can be the king of the castle. I don’t want to compete with men. I find joy and POWER in being the one who nurtures my man after he comes home from doing roofing all day. My gift is NOT working and trying to make it in business. My gift is that I am a feminine and calming presence and super affectionate and allow my man to rest and recharge so he can go out into the world which is extremely hard on men. Before I met my bf I had men all over me, because men are tired of being treated like trash and demonized for their natural masculinity. The funniest part of this story is I was actually born male. I’m transsexual. I met my current bf as friends, and he caught feelings. When I told him my medical/surgical history he was shocked but willing to take me on a romantic date because he already had a crush on me as a friend first. My point is that I could of let my circumstances stop me. I could of gave up. I had the whole world telling me NOT to follow what felt most innate to me. When I show my girl friends my inbox on dating apps they are shocked that so many men are totally okay with dating someone like me. I look, act, sound and even smell (hormones) just like what they are attracted to, and in todays modern day open minded world, many men are looking for other options rather then end up with a feminist indoctrinated angry bitter woman who makes them feel shamed for being a man. I love and crave masculinity and enjoy being feminine and I have been truly rewarded for it. My bf and his son are such a blessing and if I didn’t give into my feminine nature I wouldn’t have this!!! 🤷♀️
@tula1433 I agree with all of this and you are amazing! ❤
* could of= could have
* could of gave up = could have given up
I started changing my energy and the way I dress. I feel more feminine now, but now no man approaches to me 😅
I’m already married to a wonderful guy, but this is still solid stuff right here.
Lisa I just came across your channel and I have been binge watching and sharing. Thank you for your radiance and guidance. There’s a lot of dark feminine and femme fatal that are manipulative, thank you for NOT being that and speaking to sheer confidence and not settling.
You give off such an expensive vibe ❤
Thank you dear ❤️
She’s speaking facts ❤
I wish I had great self esteem when I was younger.I had a friend who was very confident, and she only went out with men who had money. Men would always flock to her. I never had self esteem. that was very confident until I was much older ,having this kind of information is really important when you’re young, I am much more confident, but I could do better. I now have the money and the wardrobe to have more confidence ,it’s constant work on yourself. 😊
You are that woman, so are we! Thanks for reassuring us with your video.
This video was definitely worth my time!! That make up, those earrings (love those earrings), that little semi pink corset top hugging that oh so small waist with the flowy white skirt. You are definitely giving Princess AND Queen Vibes. Such a Vision!! I Love the other footage you showed as well in those very nice clean decadent high-end places showing off your beautiful lovely outfits presence and energy. You are really about that Life!! Everything about you exudes quality and value. I think this may be the second video I seen of you in about a six month span or so and once again I am inspired!! The advice you gave is just as valuable and qualified. For many years I use to be very very nice and overly helpful to men (and women). It took me a while to realize that there is nothing wrong with being selfish because guess what those people I was going out on a limb for were selfish and they knew I would be the perfect person to use and Not to get to know or respect. You are a very very hard target to (even) prey upon by people like that when you are (positively) selfish and are Really about Self Improvement and Self Love. I use to be perfect prey to those types of people. I also was the type to be very very easily accessible even when they weren't for me, so I didn't seem rude, inconsistent, unreliable, etc. Now I don't give a damn!! It took a very long time for me to get here but I'm never ever going back!! I also read the book "Why Men Love Bit&hes" and it wasn't what I thought it was going to be but definitely a book every woman should read at least once. Well, Good Night Mademoiselle.
I was just on a date with a man that tried to make fun of the way I ate Needless to say I was shocked by how insecure he was never responded back to his messages ever again 😂
I saw this yesterday and couldn’t wait to get to my pampering time this morning to watch it! ❤❤🎉🎉🎉❤🎉❤🎉❤
You give very good advice and for such a pretty package of a woman, you surprised me by having a lot of substance, knowledge and eloquence. You are an excellent example to learn from!
Thank you! In my case I would like to see some movies recommendations about femenine energy (dark and light). It is good to see with examples but also they inspire me even more to move into those energies.
Yesss!!!
I would like to confirm that magnetism is my thing 😅
Same here it’s awesome ☺️
Thank you. I don't feel bad about myself anymore. I wondered why some guy I like chose the girl who tends to make maowing voice to him, and stick her part of body with his infornt of me and everyone. Because they likes it and feels comfortable. And that girl left her ex for him because his appearance and money, although she knew he was dating with me. On the other hands, I always take care of him unconditionally, and never touch him without any respect.
I think I see something. He judged and didn't know me enough. He thought that my values were boring, but that girl who ran to him was more interesting and worthy because...he told me once that he didn't want to try. He wanted easy life progress and no need to be classy. Classy was a lie to him.
But my teacher told me once and I remember for all my life that "Be the best version of yourself and you'll love your life. For anyone who is fake, one day their true skin will be shown."
But same type of people always attached each other. All I'm doing now is to finish everything before I leave to let him be with her. 1 year of getting to know him and 6 months of dating, makes me know my own worth. And make me know other human who never care for what's right or wrong, but the only happiness of the outer shell. However, I'm sure that they'll be happy ever after because they are just the same. I need to fly away to practice my soft and elegant self which I always wanted to be.
Not always coming here for the content. When I’ve been over doing, with my goals and I just need to pamper I play your vids to add in to my feminine energy experience❤
this video couldn't have come at a better time for me! thank you
I will never forget you, no-one ever does!! I love you my darling
"What do you want to do drive me to a mad house??" 12:14
"No, I'll call you a taxi!" 🤣🤣🤣
girl you are amazing. millions of blessings your way
I just LOVE the "old hollywood" movie clips. ❤❤❤
It's so sad that the new culture tells women and men that the bigger their body count, the better the cooler they are..but it's the opposite. It cheapens you and makes u less desirable. Why would anyone want leftovers when they can have someone who kept their standards high.
I’m a fan of Mae West! She had game! Quote by the Goddess Mae West!
“It isn't what I do, but how I do it. It isn't what I say, but how I say it, and how I look when I do it and say it.” Boom!!!
You've picked up the topic that I exactly wanted to sort out in my life 👌💞
“je ne sais quoi” 😽
Love this reinforcement!! Off topic, but do you have a video on how to look feminine and classy in outfits that have pants involved? I don’t always feel comfortable in skirts and dresses. I appreciate your time and videos💜
One of the clips is Mae West in I’m no Angel (1933) ❤
Your channel is SAVING my life❤️❤️
My energy is expensive but also finite
Hey Lisa! Can you please make a list of movies we can watch to learn fro the actresses, please? I love you and your channel ❤
be yourself
Just stumbled on this video,the first thing that ever caught my attention is the calm cool and welcoming voice,am gonna watch more of your video 😊
The next level is having a consistent fulfilling passion in your life and then thinking about having a quality partner.
Every Video of this chanel is a Master piece! 😎 thank you very much my darling!
You look SO pretty
These videos would have been very helpful in reinforning my inner confidence when goin thru a vary toxic relationship 18 and pregnant 😂
Your outfits in this 🔥🔥🔥 gorgeous
Tickets to the circus I’m stealing that one this is great!
Your hair 👑 looks amazing!!
God! Where was she 20 yrs ago when I needed her advice 😢
What can you do if you have depression/apathy and you can't tap into that high-vibing "energy"?
Become yourself
Lisa, could you please make a video recommending books and movies?
Hair tutorial, please 🥺 it’s so voluminous 💕
Love listening to your videos, I always feel empowered after ❤ xxx
WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES my current fave book❤️
Your video gave me so much insight! Thank you for posting.❤
I'm so glad to've found this channel! Thank you!
I’m so excited to show my daughters your content as they grow 🥲
Always Always rewatching this video ❤
Thank you so much for this!
I really need some time to improve myself. 💖🥺
Loved the video! I love how you expanded more on boundaries. It can be hard to put them out there for others, but in the end, it is important to look after yourself and think about yourself in those situations, otherwise you may be taken advantage of and that's not good, though those bad experiences that we face make us all the more stronger for ourselves.
I loved the movie clips that were played throughout your video especially the one at 13:46. Very curious to know what movie it's from.
Also, I would love to hear more about any self-care or femininity books that you have read or recommend. The one featured in your video sounds very intriguing.
Looking forward to your next video!
Please a haul video of your clothes, specially your soft pink top, dear Lisa. 💓
Lisa! I absolutely love your videos. They make me so confident, thank you. I was wondering if you could make a video about how to help bring out more masculine qualities in your man? I love my husband, but I think he’s not sure of how to be masculine in some ways because of upbringing. Can you make a video about this?
Could it be the case that in certain cultures a beautyful feminine women seems *too hard* to get? The feedback I get is that men are too afraid to talk to me, here in Germany. In Italy its different. I'm single since a long long time and my ex boyfriends were italian and croatian, never a german. 🧐🤔
I understand completely ! Yes you have some culture where men are more masculine, or men approach more easily. I noticed that as well 😂 In France and in the UK men approach less than in Italy or the US for example.
My exes were never French 😂
Also have in mind that some men are intimidated by feminine women, but that is a good thing, because there is a selection that is made.
But you can appear more approachable with eye contact and a smile ! I have a video about it if you want 😘
@@Lisaglamour Oh, thank you that you always reply! I appreciate your help so much! Yes, I should play more with the eyes.Thank you again, for taking my problem serious, I'm in troubble indeed. LOVE YOU and your channel!
Omg! I was talking about this! I need to make my presence more expensive 😇
She is absolutely 💯 stunning 😍
I love your videos. I would love it if you would make a video showing how to be a more feminine/submisive wife to a husband. How to be THAT wife ❤️
Thank you, beautiful!❤ Another great video!
Omg I just love you ❤ we need more ladies like you great great content for girls and women thank you so much!!
I'm going to make my daughter watching you 😊
I'd love for you to list the boundaries you think any woman should have. No one else has touched upon this subject in depth. Yes, they all agree a woman needs boundaries, but then they don't say what they are! Would you do a list?
Just sharing my perspective here as someone who used to have no boundaries, to now having them. Boundaries are individual for each person. Boundaries stem from understanding what you’re comfortable with, and not comfortable with. Boundaries protect you from getting in situations where you allow another person to do things that makes you uncomfortable or hurts you. Everyone is so unique, that what hurts them or makes them uncomfortable will be different from person to person… by you asking this question, I wonder if perhaps you don’t quite know what makes you uncomfortable/upset? I used to be like this, because I would deny my natural feelings, because I used to be a people pleaser. This stems from childhood. If you were raised in an environment where you were not allowed to express your needs, like I was, it can be difficult to get in touch with what makes you uncomfortable versus uncomfortable. This is because you’re used to silencing your voice and your needs to make other people happy. However, once you get in touch with your own emotions, and ask yourself how you feel about some thing that someone does to you (do you feel good or do you feel bad about what they’re doing?), this helps you to understand your boundaries. If someone does some thing that makes you feel bad, that is when you put down your foot. If someone does something that makes you feel good, you understand that this is what you’re looking for in a relationship. Once you understand what you are comfortable with, versus not comfortable with, when you encounter things that you’re not comfortable with, it allows you to verbalize it to that person. If they don’t respect that boundary, then that is when you walk. People that don’t respect boundaries, don’t have the capacity to love and accept you for who you are. And because they don’t respect those boundaries, they will continue to hurt you again, and again. The more you allow someone to hurt you, the less respect you have for yourself. Allowing someone to do some thing that hurts you (which again is personal for everyone), will erode your happiness and your self-esteem. And this is why it’s important to understand your feelings, and make sure anyone you’re in a relationship with is meeting those needs.… Again, boundaries are personal to every person, because we all have different triggers. What is a boundary for her, probably won’t be a boundary for you… If I were you, trying to understand my boundaries, I would keep a journal where I write down what I like, and didn’t like about the way someone treated me. You’ll start to see a pattern with things you like, versus things you don’t like. The things you don’t like are your boundaries, and once they become a boundary, you don’t let people cross them. Journaling this way is also great if you regularly deny your own feelings, because it helps you to get to know yourself better. Often we don’t pay enough attention to ourselves to really understand how we feel about life and about the things that happened to us. We just pushed through the feelings, to get on with our day. But it is important to understand how things affect you emotionally, because then you can understand yourself better. And in the case of boundaries, it helps you to figure out what your own boundaries are.… One last thing. Boundaries might change over time as you grow and develop. for example, sometimes boundaries are there because of past trauma, and once you heal, you no longer have that boundary. Or as you grow in develop, something that bothered you in the past, no longer bothers you… I hope this helps!
Beautifully said. Thank you! @@SweetHeavensSunshine
Hello 🖤 Could you share the list of movies that appear in the video? Thank you!
Dear Lisa, may I ask where is the pink satin top you’re wearing from? It’s super cute and I’d like to add it to my wardrobe too, please 🥺🙏🏼💖
Yes same🎉
Love from Philippines 💖
Loveddd the comments on Cleopatra!!🤩🤩🤩 such a good video 🥰
Thank you so much for this video!! It helped me immensely ❤
I really do know who I really am glad am more feminine and less Masculineand more giddy and optimistic
Amazing video!! Thank you ❤
Yes, thank you so much.xoxo😇