Detransition: School Indoctrination, Bullying, Testosterone Damage, and Healing - Jade Martin

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ส.ค. 2023
  • I speak with Jade about her unique and tumultuous journey into womanhood.
    You can follow her on X: jaderants?s=21&t=...
    If you like this interview or want to support my cause to end childhood transition, You can donate here: donorbox.org/chloe-cole

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  • @eatsleepv
    @eatsleepv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +591

    Chloe, you’re an amazing interviewer. You give people the grace to gather themselves when they aren’t able to find the right words. You don’t interject your own opinions. You don’t lead. Your questions are pointed and appropriate. Your balanced approach makes it easy to follow along. When you do share, you don’t do it in an overbearing manner. Keep going.

    • @NickyM_0
      @NickyM_0 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Exactly!

    • @elsadapcher8346
      @elsadapcher8346 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Only maybe don't start questions with 'but'. Great job !

    • @harmonygordon6901
      @harmonygordon6901 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Chloe, you are EXCELLENT at interviewing. Huge respect for you.

    • @TheInformerAllyCurtis
      @TheInformerAllyCurtis 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Idea:
      The old religion and Greek figures are all controlling our bodies and are the voices. They are getting in our bodies to rape, murder and speak thoughts that are not our own. They have long term evil intentions and a very long past to cover up.
      The narcissism you see is the religious figures controlling from afar and entering the form. Schizophrenia is them. They give mental/physical diseases both through magic and through the medical community.
      Religion has been used against the human population and the fear of hell for a long term purpose of keeping us controllable. This is beyond full body/mind control they can do magic style.
      The old religious figures and Greek have put people in genders of bodies that are not their own with an evil purpose. This is why trans exist. And surgery is a basic human right. They are also responsible for detransitioners existing. They abuse on gender and sexuality and control in these areas to attempt to confuse and change souls from who they are.
      The old religious/Greek figures are arranging the marriages/relationships of the populace without consent. The psychic rapes are from old religious/Greek figures not a human person. It’s not kundalini as well.
      Twin flame is very dangerous. It’s a fate based system where everything is chosen for you on birth. That life is just planned and it actually is by the old religious/Greek figures to be honest. But truly if you think about extreme poverty and acid attacks you’d have to see life is not fated. It’s a mess. The universe couldn’t know you at 0.
      I would never try to take the idea of love or potential of love from someone. It's the idea it was created on birth your lover and it's very fate based. The world and you was done the day you were born.
      And it can be used against you the idea of a match up that is chosen in advance of you becoming you by the universe (but is the old religious figures). And that things are set in stone and you don’t choose your partner. It sets you up to not see abuse and to accept any treatment because they are the one. It’s so dangerous. You have a forever someone who will have to work to remain your forever just like you will but it’s not set in stone and no one knows who it is besides you. You just will have a lover.
      And it’s the religious and Greek figures trying to control people to get together. By forcing souls to be with one another without consent through manipulation and control.
      Trying to get in the idea that the universe knows your partner or yourself better than you.
      Trying to plant signs of something that is not. They do this with all sorts of topics. They are the one touching you and talking to you. Evil Cupids. Evil People.
      We all will win though. And people will know that control exists. Who is truly at fault. And love will be found. If you want it. And there is unlimited food/drink in heaven.
      I wish you all the best.
      😅😮😢…😂❤🎉

    • @wingedinfinity6715
      @wingedinfinity6715 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel the same. Great comment !

  • @Ariel-ck9he
    @Ariel-ck9he 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +195

    This girl was relentlessly bullied because people were jealous. She’s so beautiful- like head-turning beautiful- and she has a calm, graceful, gentle presence. People tore her down because they wanted to be like her. And it breaks my heart that she took any of their nonsense as truth.

    • @davidjones8043
      @davidjones8043 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I agree. She's beyond gorgeous. That's so messed up

    • @youtube__handle
      @youtube__handle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I know, right?
      And I can't take my eyes off of Chloe, too, since the moment I saw her ❤

    • @LettucePrey001
      @LettucePrey001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Stop talking about their looks, even if it’s positive. That is what contributed to this in the first place.

    • @youtube__handle
      @youtube__handle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@LettucePrey001 we can see positives everywhere, looks, character, etc. You can't deny that people want to be attractive, do you know anybody who doesn't want to be attractive?
      We aren't encouraging changing who you are and how you naturally look, we are endorsing it!
      We live in a physical world, our character and brain are also part of the physical. When we like someone, we like them whole... we can feel some connection with them.

    • @mizzhelloo
      @mizzhelloo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@LettucePrey001I don’t think they’re talking about their looks just to “talk about their looks”.
      When kids are jealous or feel insecure,
      some tend to bully their “pretty” or “handsome” classmates which is an important aspect to discuss.
      We shouldn’t run away from this.

  • @marydantu1102
    @marydantu1102 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +190

    Dearest Chloe, I am a mother from Africa with precious grown children. Please know that I pray for you daily. I pray for strength, for courage and that you will remain steadfast in the truth. Please remind yourself that there are thousands like me, praying for you, especially when your God-given mission is challenging and difficult. Truth will always triumph, no matter how hard it is knocked or how long the battle is. Be blessed sweet girl ✝️❤️

  • @lati_da
    @lati_da 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +410

    Love to all the people detransitioning. You are supported, deserving of love and happiness. It is criminal what the medical establishment has done to you,

    • @nuclearmantis666
      @nuclearmantis666 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Every theme the gouvernement has to offer

  • @rittersebastian5695
    @rittersebastian5695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +286

    I am so stunned by this interview. As a father of a girl, who went through almost the same thing, it just brought me to tears to hear this poor disilusioned young woman talking about her pain and feelings. I was lucky enough to catch onto what was going on, so i prevented the worst. You ladies are soooo unbelievably brave. Thank you so very much. I wish nothing but the best for both of you going forward.

    • @gypsygirl9
      @gypsygirl9 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @rittersebastin5695..I too see this as really sad. To me, a child born in the late 60s, we all went through this type of "bullying". Prime difference is our parents taught us to ignore that BS and not feed into it. My dad lways said "Sticks and stones may reak my bones but words will never harm me". Because we took that stance, we had a backbone and did not react in such an extreme way. This new way is scary because it is being indoctrinated as you mention by schools but..also many parents are also vested in this weak ideology. They do not take it upon themselves like you did, to just stop the BS. I do blame those parents for their lack of parenting skills. Which isba whole other discussion as to why they "choose" to opt out of actual parenting. Your daughter is blessed.

    • @tarstarkusz
      @tarstarkusz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This is one of the MANY prices we pay for cell phones that NOBODY wants to acknowledge. I was 12 in 1982. I couldn't go on my phone and have people tell me tales about how there is this new cure-all problem for social anxiety or self doubt. If you wanted a "community" you had to literally go outside to find it. There were no phonies faking it behind a screen name. No 30 year old men who think it funny to troll a group of tween girls by pretending to be one of them and encouraging this crap.
      There are MANY, MANY other costs that we simply refuse to discuss as a society. NOBODY needs a computer with them at all times.

  • @Max-ht9hf
    @Max-ht9hf 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    You know it's a "Cult" when you try to leave the "Cult" and the rest of the Cult turns on you for daring to leave. That's sadly the tragedy of many who de-trans. They get all this support when they trans, but... the moment they change their mind, they're now the devil. Stay stong!

    • @Suzette-gb7uj
      @Suzette-gb7uj 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I was just thinking the same thing. The more I see, and hear these young people’s stories, I believe the truly radical trans community is nothing more than a cult. And it’s massive, sprawling, and very dangerous. What can we do to protect these innocent, vulnerable children? I feel that I have to figure out a means to help them.

  • @berserkerbard
    @berserkerbard 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +292

    The evils of our sex obsessed culture are affecting the young and vulnerable the most. I’m so sorry for what you both went through, thank you for doing this interview and speaking out for those like you who are lost, confused and in pain x

    • @pancakegamer335
      @pancakegamer335 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      👏 true

    • @iraqiimmigrant2908
      @iraqiimmigrant2908 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ✝️

    • @user-sl7ym1zq3n
      @user-sl7ym1zq3n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      As a girl this is how I felt growing up in such a messed up society. Labeled a prude and slut at 13. Like what?

    • @user-sl7ym1zq3n
      @user-sl7ym1zq3n 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She’s so pretty….. idk why people can be so cruel? Idk. I guess that’s why I don’t like being online

    • @berserkerbard
      @berserkerbard 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-sl7ym1zq3n that’s awful, I’m so sorry you went through that! I feel so blessed by my upbringing without being exposed to much of what young people are exposed to nowadays, despite it being on my doorstep. I’m pregnant with my first and I plan to raise my kid with full knowledge of their intrinsic dignity and right to be treated with respect and love no matter what wider society says. I wish you all the best in your future ❤️

  • @No_name860
    @No_name860 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Sue, sue, sue. These horrible “professionals “ won’t stop this until the law suites start rolling in and I can’t wait to sit back and watch them get sued into oblivion.

    • @littlefoxx333
      @littlefoxx333 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I wish i was a lawyer right now, what a interesting time to be one

    • @Plantlady-bf6cq
      @Plantlady-bf6cq 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think you are right. Only being sued and losing money will make them rethink this.

    • @tarstarkusz
      @tarstarkusz หลายเดือนก่อน

      1) They won't get sued. At best their insurance companies will be sued.
      2) The legal defense will be done (financed) by volunteers and 5013c organizations who advocate for this stuff. There are HUNDREDS and THOUSANDS of various legal aid societies.

  • @user-lb4yp4sl4y
    @user-lb4yp4sl4y 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +499

    I perceive a fairly consistent theme of young women feeling uncomfortable with puberty. Perhaps this is commonplace. If so, it just emphasizes the danger in a false diagnosis of gender dysphoria.

    • @radicalmoderate2730
      @radicalmoderate2730 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

      I'm not a woman nor do I ever want to pretend to be one. But i'm wondering when did Puberty become bad thing. Now I'm and older man in my 50's but I spoke to some of my former JR High School Girl Friends and they're wondering the same thing. I mean boobs were coveted by girls back then.

    • @user-lb4yp4sl4y
      @user-lb4yp4sl4y 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@radicalmoderate2730 I emphatically agree.

    • @arwenstrong2818
      @arwenstrong2818 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +90

      As a girl, it's hard. Periods are painful, especially at first. You worry about leaking. Your moods fluctuate randomly. Your body is changing fast & suddenly boys won't stop staring at you and treating you different. There's pressure to conform to beauty standards you can't actually reach, but feel like you're expected to try. Theres's pressure to be sexually active to fit in and be desirable and loved.
      Add to that the way women are portrayed in porn and it's not surprising many young girls are just giving up because they feel like they can never be enough as a woman. To me, that's possibly the saddest part of Chloe's story.

    • @albin2232
      @albin2232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      ​@@arwenstrong2818I agree 👍

    • @user-lb4yp4sl4y
      @user-lb4yp4sl4y 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@arwenstrong2818 I am just an old, retired widower but appreciate your statement. Looking back on life I can't help but feel there is so much wrong we do to one another. The pressure to fit in is immense. Please don't feel pressured to be sexually active if you do not wish to be. If you don't want to wear makeup please don't let anyone pressure you, or if you feel there are circumstances where you must just do the minimum that used to be called the "natural look" when I was younger. One thing I emphatically encourage is to avoid drugs entirely or drinking to excess. Thank you for replying and I hope you find peace.

  • @trevormichael4906
    @trevormichael4906 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    THIS is some bravery. Going against that crazy cult takes guts ladies. Keep telling your stories.

  • @elliemitchell3078
    @elliemitchell3078 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    At the 32 minute, 50 second mark, when they're discussing the statement of people only 'detransitioning due to being in danger', I felt like crying. I, and countless others I have spoken to in support groups, detransitioned as we realised we had made a mistake. As a detransitioner, of four years, it honestly feels so difficult to find understanding around this topic and therefore, I am so glad it has been brought up in this interview. Thank you both for bringing your experiences to light. x

    • @intrusive-th0t
      @intrusive-th0t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There are also other reasons to detransition. For myself (FTMTF) I had severe bottom dysphoria that only got worse the further I got into my transition (because I looked and perceived myself more as a man with no penis)…. At a certain point I realized that there was no surgery in existence that would give me the genitals I wanted and that if I was going to have to learn to work with what I had.
      Well, once I decided that I would have to learn to accept and enjoy having a vagina I realized that I could apply the same mentality to accepting and getting enjoyment out of the other parts of my body that I hated and couldn’t change- my height, my hips, my feminine jawline, my fertility as a woman… from that point it became easier and easier to accept and even enjoy the physical traits that I could change (but didn’t have to). And now I even enjoy many stereotypical social aspects of femininity.
      I’m still a lesbian, that will never change, and I’m still a tomboy, but I no longer feel any desire to outright reject womanhood or femininity

  • @greenstair
    @greenstair 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +96

    Chloe and Jade, I have landed here, by that wretched TH-cam algorithm, from having watched your interview with Jordan Peterson. I'll not watch all of this, because as a 63 year old man, somehow it doesn't seem right to.
    However I do want to wish both of you all the very best. I'm a dad and, while I can see that you're both very capable and are obviously courageous, please do watch out for the TH-cam fame / ego danger. Please stay grounded, stay honest, stay true.
    Big Dad type love to you both and thank you very much, from (I hope) a grandad to be, who appreciates you starting the fight for truth and honesty.
    Footnote, even as a 63 year old, it's simple truth to say that you're both lovely and beautiful and brave.

    • @virtuallyme2518
      @virtuallyme2518 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @greenstair that was the MOST heartwarming comment I have EVER read on TH-cam!! Bless your precious, kind heart.. If only the world was full of fathers and men like you…

    • @Suzette-gb7uj
      @Suzette-gb7uj 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I very much appreciate you being protective of these two beautiful women. Their mission to tell their stories is to help others. They are selfless, and giving, and courageous. They are brave. I know you will make a wonderful grandfather.

  • @EllaAndrophobia
    @EllaAndrophobia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +100

    I forced myself to stop playing with dolls, too. I never realized how sad that made me. I loved pretending to be a mommy.

    • @LauraAnn1980
      @LauraAnn1980 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Me too. And a teacher. And a pediatrician. I think I was still playing with dolls well into 7th grade because I had no friends to play with.

    • @gwjsbm
      @gwjsbm 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You can always play the Sims!

    • @sharonstevebrooks985
      @sharonstevebrooks985 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      I got myself an adults dolls house at the age of 62! I love every minute of creating and making things and it brings me great joy

    • @tiggzr9744
      @tiggzr9744 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I didn't stop playing dolls till I was 16 to play with my younger cousins.

    • @desertrose0601
      @desertrose0601 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      My best friend liked playing with dolls well into middle school. At the time I thought it was weird but I never said so and continued playing Barbies with her. I’m so glad now that I did. It’s perfectly okay to play with dolls, even when a little “too old”. It’s our way of acting out what we want from life… friends, boyfriends, children, a home and family, etc. Now as an adult I still love playing games like The Sims. It’s just a natural inclination women have to want to role play family life like that.

  • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
    @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    My wish is that in the process of suing Kaiser-Permanente, Chloe can obtain the rate of detransition in their female patients. You are giving the world truth and honesty.

    • @emmy-kz1pj
      @emmy-kz1pj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Good point. One thing that will need to be put into consideration also is that some will take some years before they detransition. It sounds like a difficult process in itself to socially admit making a mistake, losing the social trans network of friends and then accept the damage that has been done to their bodies. So glad to see these women come out the other side with bright futures

    • @tubester4567
      @tubester4567 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      A real study just came out and they said 30% detransition within 4 years. They followed a bunch of trans kids that were on hormones (at least), at an official gender clinic, and 30% stopped hormones and detransitioned within 4 years. I suspect the numbers are even higher with more time.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great! Citations are really worth it if you have names, institutions and dates. The other side constantly quotes bad science and low quality studies, so our data has to be water tight. I hope a detransitioner gets together a survey and collects good responses, as I did with trans widows, YT channel, Trans Widow Ute Heggen
      Also, Denmark has come forward about their change of policy and that now only 6% of kids with dysphoria get "affirmation." @@tubester4567

  • @pinklady7184
    @pinklady7184 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    There are many adults in schools bullying kids into transitioning and some kids who reject gender affirming care are being called "bigots" or "transphobic."

    • @bojan353
      @bojan353 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      things that didn't happened: adults in schools bullying kids into transitioning... Get fuc*ed with your lies.

  • @deecocoa
    @deecocoa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Chloe you seem more and more comfortable and confident in yourself! Such a wonderful thing to see.
    Despite all the trauma you have been through, you have a bright future ahead.

  • @rlb983
    @rlb983 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    You're a fantastic interviewer. You have a gentle way of guiding people through telling their stories at their own pace.

  • @anneecagleakaringrock7679
    @anneecagleakaringrock7679 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    My heart goes out to both of you beautiful brave women. Jade your story about approaching and going through puberty is so familiar. Children should be taught to be proud of and embrace the changes they go through puberty and not let the negatively from others influence them. We all felt awkward in puberty. You were clearly groomed by misguided people who’s need for validation has them preying on the vulnerable and confused. You are an extremely beautiful young woman, Jade. Thank you both for sharing your stories so that this madness inflicted on children and adolescents may end.

    • @greenhomestead6305
      @greenhomestead6305 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But now the schools are also encouraging kids to detest their natural body and halt puberty with pills.

    • @tinyiko2311
      @tinyiko2311 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I must say the school system also failed her, I was lucky enough to be in a primary school were they not only taught us about but also provided us with pads from third grade and explained that some start early others start late but it is normal and don't compete with others just take it slow.
      I'm actually heartbroken for her it just sounds like the internet strangers groomed her into it.

  • @theophilus46
    @theophilus46 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Chloe's testimony before congressional committee was succinct and powerful. She will be among the many who speak out loud and clear with reason to bring truth to so many who have been lied to at every level. This interview shows her kind strength to discuss the subject that will take her to many places to be a voice (amen)

  • @veronicaherrera771
    @veronicaherrera771 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    Very powerful episode. As an educator, I learned that staying silent is not always the best option. Plenty to think about…. Thank you both.

  • @rpink8531
    @rpink8531 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    ‏‪14:44‬‏ ‏‪ You guys blow me away. The guts to put yourself out there to literally save lives- at such a high cost to your own- it's heroic. We stand by you Chloe & Jade. All my respect!

  • @anikadelabajo759
    @anikadelabajo759 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Jade has such a feminine and delicate look. And such a calm and beautiful energy. Truly like a princess, makes me wanna hug and protect her as the most precious human being. Thanks for being so courageous and strong and speaking out ladies! You’re doing an important job. I wish you all your dreams coming true and you finding peace within yourselves ❤

  • @rebeccalecomte3770
    @rebeccalecomte3770 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I am a 66 year old woman. I was all tomboy till 11 years old and quite unhappy with my parents definition of a nice/good young lady. I am glad I didn't have to deal with the gender dysphoria choice. I grew into myself, did what I needed to respect my parents... and chose my career direction. Those seven years of adjusting to my post puberty self were so valuable; living inside my parents guidance before I launched. I have loved being a women, a wife, a Momma, now a Grandma all while being a grown up rough n tumble 'feminine' tomboy. My heart aches for the angst of today's youth; you're beautiful both inside and out. My good friend's eldest son is now her only daughter; it was a profound journey. Live, love, forgive, and move forward as best you can!! ~Many Many Blessings❣️

  • @kerrymeadows
    @kerrymeadows 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hard to believe such a sweet beautiful girl could have been bullied for anything. Makes me afraid for my grandchildren. So sad that she felt that it was her only recourse. These are both beautiful,brave women.

  • @blerfblarfson
    @blerfblarfson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Jade, thank you for speaking out. It was hard enough to make some peace with yourself, I'm sure, but to share your story is going above and beyond - you don't have to do this, but you know someone out there needs to hear it. Chloe, you are just continually crushing it with these interviews and speeches. All my love to you ladies. ❤

  • @sdauggie
    @sdauggie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Jade, Chloe, you are two princesses making all the difference in this world. Speaking the truth with honesty but boldness is what this generation needs.
    Good for you!!! It is so true, there is still so much to live for!!!

  • @alwaysamber4960
    @alwaysamber4960 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Chloe, we saw you on a major primetime TV show called "spotlight" in Australia. Thank you so much for bravely sharing your story with the world; it matters so much!!!

    • @Mel.H_
      @Mel.H_ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I saw that episode, too! More people need to watch it❤

  • @michellehudson6865
    @michellehudson6865 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Oh Chloe, watching you grow from strength to strength has been an inspiration. Thankyou ❤

  • @xyenyas
    @xyenyas 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I follow Jade on Twitter and it makes me so sad how many anonymous accounts go after her for just existing. U have a lot of empathy for her, she reminds me a lot of myself & what I went through as a child. Love you both. ❤

  • @ruigen8046
    @ruigen8046 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    its rare to see an interview where questions are asked and the answers are listened to
    Really enjoyed this.

  • @rpink8531
    @rpink8531 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    ‏‪57:08‬‏ Crying with you. You experienced the inhumane. I pray for you. And at the very least, you deserve to win a multi-million dollar lawsuit.
    Thank you for your courage.
    Thank you for being a voice.
    You are a true hero.

  • @kimwiser445
    @kimwiser445 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I hated middle school years with my children. It was sad to see the other kids that they grew up with and even my children start acting like they think they are supposed to act not who they are. Middle school kids are so worried about being the one picked on that they will join in with the bullying.

    • @SusySEGA
      @SusySEGA 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes everyone got bullied and bullied other people too. Its normal behavior. Kids can be mean period!

  • @riccardorolandi6263
    @riccardorolandi6263 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm so glad that the super-sweet Jade came in touch with Chloe, a.k.a. The Bravest Woman Alive, I really hope that you can be true friends, stay in touch and support each other.
    You make every single dad around soo proud of you.
    Please go on helping others, that also is a nice way to drive your attention away from your wounded body, wich leads to faster mental/emotional healing.
    All the best to you both.
    Love and respect.
    A big hug!

  • @kayceelee5379
    @kayceelee5379 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Incredible that as a young person, confused; and knew you wanted to be pregnant one day- yet the medical professionals didn't "pause" to investigate further before prescribing cross sex hormones. I had no idea this could even happen. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @pathacker4963
      @pathacker4963 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah that raised all sorts of red flags for me also.

  • @danaethompson167
    @danaethompson167 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I'm learning so much from these interviews. Thank you. I wonder if you might get together with a few female detransitioners and make some public service announcement type videos targeting young girls who start puberty early, are experiencing bullying, are struggling with the sexual expectations and/or female stereotypes. I wonder if it might help them to know they are not alone in their struggles. It might help combat the only solution they are being offered online right now.
    I'm not sure these young girls will be looking for detransitioners. Instead they are probably looking for information about their discomfort.

  • @claudialertora5418
    @claudialertora5418 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hello from Spain. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I imagine it isn't easy to expose yourselves like this.
    Big hug!

  • @alisongladden1331
    @alisongladden1331 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    You both are beautiful souls ❤ a lot of girls -if not all - go through body issues so young and this transgender idea is getting them before they have a chance to work through it.. your videos will help these girls to see they don’t have to change everything on the outside to find their true selves on the inside, It will naturally happen. Thanks for all you do

  • @rnr4224
    @rnr4224 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is a lovely example of one autistic woman interviewing another about the struggle they face living in our disgusting and distorted world.

  • @crocodilegrundee4514
    @crocodilegrundee4514 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    You both are beautiful young ladies, and courageous for what you are doing. Thank you for all you do.

    • @crocodilegrundee4514
      @crocodilegrundee4514 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@rachelforshee6014
      Amen, they are beautiful souls, and doing a very important thing.

  • @jqnliz
    @jqnliz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    You two are beautiful and brave. Thank you for all that you are doing, Chloe to stand up for children! You are so gracious and kind in your interviews. Thank you for what you shared, Jade! It breaks my heart that people bullied you. You are a beautiful woman, and besides that you are made in God’s image and deserve to be loved simply for who you are. Your kind and tender heart is obvious in this video and I thank you for sharing your story in order to help others. Bravo to both of you.

  • @sydneyloli5849
    @sydneyloli5849 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Around 22:00 is part of why I dropped out of teaching.
    We were subliminally taught at Uni that the education system knew better than the parents,
    that we must rescue the kids from their parents and
    eventually when we graduated and entered the field as teachers, we unwittingly manipulated the students/children into gender issues and other unnecessary topics.
    Coupled with modern films, series and social media, the children are easily tricked into these horrible transitions and surgeries.
    Meanwhile in Russia and China, children still learn the important subjects, reading, writing, arithmetic, science, etc.
    What does a viral vid on Chinese Tiktok look like?
    Science, Tech, Engineering & Math.
    What does a viral vid on U.S (& all nations in the west) look like?
    A man dressed up like a tooth fairy playing with dolls.
    So who will rule the world if the U.S falls?

    • @jennylhenry78
      @jennylhenry78 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said. And that's why Ch-ina made the ⏲️ app bc they know what trash our culture allows and they can take over after they have won the battle of mind manipulation, ruining our next generation.

    • @porkchoppeaches
      @porkchoppeaches 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Psychology these days is just as bad. I really hope people see these stories and start waking up to the damage this is all doing. Thanks for being human.

    • @truthhurts2879
      @truthhurts2879 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You nailed it. This agenda even has a name for it, it's called "silent weapons for silent wars". This is a carefully crafted, multi pronged attack on the largest nation in the western world to bring about the demise of America as we know it & from within, without so much as a single bullet fired, explosion detonated or a pair of boots on the ground.

    • @mattymox86
      @mattymox86 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      The fact that the Chinese version of TikTok only allows normal things unlike the American version and that nobody sees that as odd is baffling to me.
      Those conspiracy theorists who stated that Tik-Tok was created by China so that they could watch us destroy ourselves doesn't seem very far fetched. Because we're doing a damn good job.

    • @Heavyisthecrown
      @Heavyisthecrown 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mattymox86they are playing the king game. They will destroy and de masculine the next generation. 90% of the time America has exits we’ve been at war. This is the lul. The are destroying the generation that will fight WW3 and they will crush them if we keep this up. We are seriously fighting for America right now.

  • @angelaegan7511
    @angelaegan7511 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Chloe will go far, she's an exceptional person. ❤

  • @teria7703
    @teria7703 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    5:28 Thank you both for returning to the course of the beauty of being "woman". You both have great courage to share your hurt and path to healing. Being a tomboy when I was a young girl was no big deal and I played softball until I was 42yrs old. Not once was there an issue about my broad shoulders and 5'8 height because there was a time when a tough old bird was a fine virtue. It is tragic that there is so much pressure on young girls today to be something specific instead of just live and let live. You both are in my prayers. Stay strong and beautiful as "born woman" no matter what your voice sounds like (I had a deep voice all through my 20's) - stay lovely and humble 🎉

  • @dianee8010
    @dianee8010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Chloe, you and Jade are both beautiful and amazing young people. Thank you for sharing your stories because more young people need to know about the possible dangers of transitioning. It is huge decision to transition and not one that should be taken lightly. I do believe that there are many trans people that made the decision to transition who are happy with their choice. However, I really think a person needs to be an adult before they begin the physical process of transitioning. The decision to share your de-transitioning stories shows how courageous you both are. Thank you again!

  • @aalliaandreadis5109
    @aalliaandreadis5109 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Chloe you're beautiful inside and out. You still look so feminine despite what these demons tried to do to you. You are doing a wonderful service to your generation, warrior princess ❤

  • @frusia123
    @frusia123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Yes, I think "being on display" comes with being a girl. It goes away, kind of, as we age, and by then many women find it difficult to come to terms with, because all of a sudden they feel "invisible". But when we're young people seem to pay a lot of attention to our looks, I don't think they realise how deeply uncomfortable they make girls feel.

    • @BombshellElf
      @BombshellElf 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It's hard being a woman

    • @frusia123
      @frusia123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@BombshellElf I agree, but it's hard being a man too, just in a different way. Young men feel this enormous pressure to prove themselves, or to be "successful", and the ideals of success they're being sold, are just as unrealistic as the ideals of beauty that are being sold to women and girls.

    • @pathacker4963
      @pathacker4963 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great insight.

    • @AsurmenHandOfAsur
      @AsurmenHandOfAsur 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beauty usually equals less emotional baggage and fertility which men desire in a partner.

  • @tandysaysyoucandoanything6758
    @tandysaysyoucandoanything6758 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Chloe thank you for standing up to this craziness ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

  • @MrSheepishLion
    @MrSheepishLion 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    One thing that needs said over and over is that no bullying is about the thing the bully is making fun of. It's never about you. It is always about the bully and their issues.

    • @Gil2727
      @Gil2727 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Life Lesson: They are not doing it TO you, they are JUST doing it... and you are there...

  • @dianeleone1634
    @dianeleone1634 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Turning point for both of these women .... The Internet... In hindsight... How cruel..
    God bless Chloe and Jade. Great interview💙💜💚

  • @slowzhu
    @slowzhu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So many times, I watch these young girls going through a difficult period of life and thinking, what can I do as a woman comfortable with being myself. I feel the healthy and confident female images are missing from these girls’ lives.

    • @UrbanomicInteriors
      @UrbanomicInteriors 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Absolutely agree - having healthy role models is important and something that is largely missing from our culture.

    • @youtube__handle
      @youtube__handle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very much so

  • @winsomewife7112
    @winsomewife7112 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My grandmother never stopped playing with dolls. She was born in 2011. As an adult she learned to MAKE dolls with real ceramics she made herself, and sewed the clothes and painted the faces & hands she made. She sold some too, very good home based business while raising kids and beyond.
    I have one of them, and another old lady's ceramic doll from her collection.
    I like our kids' old dolls too that they don't play with anymore. I also love my baby goats and other farm animals, especially now that our youngest child of 4 is 17 1/2. You don't have to stop playing with dolls. And when you have kids, either homeschool or co-op or private Christian school that is very very very careful to prevent and stop bullying.

  • @Leann68
    @Leann68 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You’re a truly amazing young woman.. you’ll be so happy as you grow.. don’t let anyone give you a hard time.. you’ve proven how strong you’re.

  • @OM-or3im
    @OM-or3im 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Can’t imagine being in their parents’ shoes. Both of these women are amazing young ladies and i wish them both only the very best.

  • @voices_vary
    @voices_vary 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Chloe can grow into a great interviewer. She shows great maturity and a good sense of connection with her interviewees. There may be a great career ahead for her--and on expanded topics!

  • @TruthAboveAll08
    @TruthAboveAll08 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Two truly lovely young ladies. I'm so sorry that you suffered the most awful experience growing more common in our world today. God bless you both, and help you find your way to a better future.

  • @tombombadill22
    @tombombadill22 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    What a sad story ..... I hope you realise Jade that, like everyone, you CAN play, until the day you die, with dolls, and trucks, and planes, and trains, and toys etc etc. and whatever :-) And there are people out there just like you....

  • @marya9039
    @marya9039 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This is a beautiful interview Chloe, with 2 beautiful, brave women.

  • @izzieluv
    @izzieluv 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I wanna say I kind of understand missing your period! I had a very different experience, but when I got an IUD my periods became super irregular. I was always worried it was messing up my fertility. I felt like my period let me know my body was healthy and functioning properly.

    • @BetaLantean
      @BetaLantean 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      This resonated with me too! I went through a period of anorexia and didnt have a period for two years. I had so much anxiety and depression thinking my body was broken and I would never have children.

    • @Kattydid19
      @Kattydid19 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The sad part is, that’s a valid fear, if the IUD contains hormones. If it doesn’t, there’s the risk of some other, rather side effects. Witnessed a close friend dealing with complications from a Paragard(?) and I was concerned for her health and safety until she was finally able to get it out. (She passed out at least once, maybe twice; and had to go to the ER, among other things.)

  • @UrbanomicInteriors
    @UrbanomicInteriors 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is so important.
    Thank you for your willingness to have these conversations for others to get insight. I have known this intuitively but since I am not trans, or detrans, or young, people just think I’m hateful for raising the alarms about the trans trend.
    Thank you for your strength, perseverance, vulnerability and for just being you.
    You are worthy of love just as you are, and I am amazed by your wisdom and courage.
    Keep going. Keep shining.
    Also, Chloe - your insight is astounding, and it’s evident that you’ve had an incredible, proper, skilled, therapist to help you untangle the complex factors surrounding your transition/detransition. Please continue to pass it on. You are a gift.

  • @Taylor-bee
    @Taylor-bee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Sharing these personal and vulnerable experiences is by far the most powerful testimony in this movement. Thank you both SO much for speaking. Your bravery is truly inspiring. ♥️

  • @quentinquentin6752
    @quentinquentin6752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Chloe you really have a gift for interviewing. Your empathy and openness, your questions are simply excellent and keep the entire conversation fluid and never repetitive. You really have a gift!! Thank you for doing everything you are doing to shine a much needed light into this frankly troubling world.

  • @JMandMore
    @JMandMore 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I want cry so much. It's moments like this that I feel a
    strong support system is what everyone needs from
    time to time. Close friends and family can go along way.

  • @monachericevollbracht7604
    @monachericevollbracht7604 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You both are gorgeous ladies , thank you for sharing your stories that will help many women that have struggled with these same issues growing up.

  • @albin2232
    @albin2232 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Thank you, beautiful Chloe and beautiful Jade. ❤ These interviews are golden.

  • @jonno777
    @jonno777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a beautiful respectful interview between 2 very strong people. Thank you both 🙏🙌

  • @PBJ979
    @PBJ979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is such a good video....... these two young women have suffered so much. Both are absolutely beautiful inside and out! Wish I could give both of them hugs. I am so incredibly proud of their poise, intelligence, honesty........ as a mother my heart breaks thinking about what they went through and are still going through.

  • @lisaloo715
    @lisaloo715 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Jade, you are so beautiful and well spoken. So glad you are standing up to all the bullying and manipulation. You are also wise to protect yourself and your business. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for speaking up! It's part of your healing.

  • @catherinelittlebear9863
    @catherinelittlebear9863 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    We love you, Chloe! You’re the best!

  • @caraalex7880
    @caraalex7880 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So charming, candid and genuine. A wonderful interview! 💜💜 From Canada

  • @chriskdayton
    @chriskdayton 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you again for a great interview. You are both Beautiful young women. I admire your strength and courage. Praying many young women will watch and hear your stories and get hope for their futures. God Bless you both.

  • @callie.envoyage
    @callie.envoyage 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Wow Chloe.. you have such a special gift. Thank you for using it so well for the greater good. Proud of you both.

  • @myultimatemixedtape
    @myultimatemixedtape 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    New subscriber here! Much Love to you Chloe from Australia. I love your work and what you are doing! Parents here are worried sick about their kids and voices like yours are bringing the truth to light and are so powerful and inspiring - you rock!!!

  • @danielmahoney1546
    @danielmahoney1546 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you both, Chloe and Jade.
    Your voices are very much needed.
    Ryan has a channel now where she calls herself Supervillain Salty.
    Another powerful voice that very much needs heard. This is the first time I've seen you on the other side of the interview, Chloe. You're doing great!

  • @Basedbrulee
    @Basedbrulee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    We hear you. I’m so sorry you guys went through this. You guys are So brave and beautiful ❤️ You inspire me and probably so many others to speak up against what’s happening!!

  • @mistermizzle420
    @mistermizzle420 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You're really good at this chloe. More content like this is what we need

  • @MissLeighS
    @MissLeighS 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Amazing interview - thank you Chloe for brining these stories to light! They are so needed. You are a wonderful interviewer.

  • @Jenwinter85
    @Jenwinter85 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The message I've been hearing from most if not all detransitioners is the young children and teens using the internet. Instagram, Facebook, tiktok etc. Are influencing these impressionable young minds that being trans is the answer to their personal feelings of not fitting in or socially excepted. Parents need to talk to their children be involved and know how they are feeling. Plus these kids should not have social media and should be closely monitored.

    • @boxermom9
      @boxermom9 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Starting in middle school, kids are on the Internet every day. It is impossible to monitor everything. You can check their TH-cam and browser history. Also, BoredPanda, Reddit and Tumblr are very open about LGBQT+ issues. You don't even need an account to see stuff on there. BoredPanda makes it almost impossible to delete an account with them.

  • @hkhenry01
    @hkhenry01 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this was fantastic, you asked all the right questions to give us the true perspective of a detransitioner and their experience. Deep, clear, and you showed great empathy Chloe

  • @bgone4265
    @bgone4265 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jade, your story and what you went thru will inspire someone or more going thru the same thoughts feelings, and turmoil, your sharing your experience has saved or helped others. Thank you and God Bless

  • @Dilldough.
    @Dilldough. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s insane to be bullied by the ones who claim to be bullied the most. That community is filled with hypocrisy. In the end I genuinely wish them the best.

  • @Lenny_Sinpablo
    @Lenny_Sinpablo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are two really strong, very wonderful characters... such potent content, so authentic, transparent and honest. Very emotional, extremely relatable watch. Thank you so much for your efforts. This content will prevent children from suffering. You are both pioneers.

  • @draperone371
    @draperone371 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    You young ladies are true warriors
    Strong, beautifull, and so very brave
    God bless you keep strong.
    If you save just one you are a sucess.
    You are my hero's

  • @elonr1018
    @elonr1018 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I love the way Chloe dresses

  • @flowerpower3618
    @flowerpower3618 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou so much . I really learned a lot in this interview. My 38 year old son transitioned one year ago. We haven’t seen him in 6 years. He was a boys boy growing up but very awkward . He had a lot of big crushes on girls but was rejected over and over. Was diagnosed with major depressive disorder in his late 20’s. He was really into technology. Video games, and anime . It’s absolutely surreal.

  • @dantespimp
    @dantespimp 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    To me: you two are the true faces of brave and empowered individuals; you're sharing your voices and personal experiences in a time where we need to hear it the most. Jade, know that you stand out beautifully. That was why the bullies in your childhood picked on you back then, and that is why the bullies today pick on you now. The more you shine, the more these disgruntled folks will want to bury your light. Continue shining. Your light will help someone else lost in similar darkness find their way forward.

  • @CodeRage13
    @CodeRage13 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Phenomenal interview! Jade has a truly beautiful personality, the kind I gravitate towards as I LOVE deep, intuitive, mature,, and introspective kinds of conversations about anything and everything. I really liked the depth of honesty, insight, and humbleness she spoke with on a deeply personal and highly impactful, albeit sensitive topic. I applaud her courage and brave stance speaking up about something that is so volatile throughout the world and educating people about the processes she went through and how people in general really truly need to think things through and be absolutely sure about what they want to commit to regardless of what it 8s before they actually do it. Jade and the interviewer would definitely be people I'd enjoy having conversations with, unlike most people who I just walk away from back to my social isolation because most people just don't have the depths of conversational fortitude that I like. Thanks to both of you for doing what you do. You DO make a difference. Keep at it!

  • @TheBullFather_ofAll
    @TheBullFather_ofAll 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Chloe, Im 59 and I think what you have done to protect kids is inspiring and beautiful... happy to subscribe.

  • @Christinasawick
    @Christinasawick 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I watched your interview on Newsmax. I tried to search you on Instagram, but your profile is not coming up. I also typed in Chloe to get a link to your interview on pragerU ... NO luck. I looked at your messages, and it's been 6 weeks since anyone commented on your Edify post. YOUR CENSORSHIP IS HARD CORE!!!!!
    You are a true WARRIOR!!!! It must be so difficult for you to continue to share your story and to open communication and alternatives to these life changing mutilations being imposed on young children. Your message is soooo important, and you continue to be opposed at every turn, but you are a light of hope at this moment because your story is valued and embraced. Thank you for sharing. You are a beautiful soul!!!! 🥰🙌🙏💛

  • @YA-ms1xw
    @YA-ms1xw 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My heart goes out to you both. Your bravery as you manage the everyday struggles of what you've been through is so incredible to see. God bless you and everyone going through this. My prayers are with you all.

  • @Ceibhfhionn
    @Ceibhfhionn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much to Jade for sharing her experience and hard-won wisdom - and her plans and optimism for the future. I so appreciate you and Chloe for educating us.

  • @nancycameron9760
    @nancycameron9760 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Lovely strong young women. So inspiring. So sorry that these awful things happened to you. Live your beautiful life now.

  • @LorePetter
    @LorePetter 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This interview is amazing Chloe. Espesially your reactions and microexpressions are just so heartwarming. What you two have been through, and the people you are now impressed me to the core.

  • @ClaytonHardee
    @ClaytonHardee 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, Jade, for your courage and for being so vulnerable in sharing your personal story with us. The medical professionals failed you. From the doctor to the nurse and especially the therapist, all failed you. Had the therapist been doing her job, she would have thoroughly explored the obvious signs of cognitive dissonance that you were experiencing, as well as how the early onset of puberty was negatively affecting you. There was so much here that they failed to notice or to discover. I hope that you have made peace with yourself and are enjoying your life as a beautiful young lady with a kind and gentle heart. Wishing you all the best!

  • @Jane-Doe.1126
    @Jane-Doe.1126 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Both of you are beautiful and very brave. Don't let anyone tell you different.

  • @hansaugustsson7288
    @hansaugustsson7288 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Chloe and Jade: Thank you! You are great. I wish you the very best in life.

  • @janszoke
    @janszoke 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for your courage to get your message out! My heart aches for your generation. I pray that truth will prevail! ❤

  • @abbydarling7973
    @abbydarling7973 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chloe, you are so intelligent, compassionate and a wonderful person. Please continue to get your voice out there so others will learn from your journey. Children and young adults need to hear your story.

  • @kateywelch6771
    @kateywelch6771 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You both are so brave!! I'm praying for you! 🩷🩷🙏🙏

  • @Parchita79
    @Parchita79 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You two are bloody adorable! So calm, clear and graceful not to mention courageous in speaking about this topic. With gratitude 🙏🌻

  • @susannerobbins
    @susannerobbins 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Chloe, I cannot tell you how much I appreciate the work you’re doing. You told Jade she was beautiful, and I agree, but I want you to know you are also beautiful. Your relaxed smile is very lovely. Thank you for your courage and hard work.