My little sister is 7yo and she said recently "I think I might be a boy instead of a girl, I feel like a boy". If I'd jumped on that and taken her to any sort of gender specialist, I know she would have gotten affirmed as transgender. Instead I asked her "why do you feel that way?" and she said "because boys like the colour blue and like dinosaurs but I like those things too so I must be a boy". That is the level of understanding of gender children have at that age. The fact that "professionals" can take that as gospel when it is coming from someone who's brain is still developing is terrifying.
yeah, this is like when a 5 years old told her dad that she wanted to marry him is considered incestuous and the kid had to be put on medications. Adults nowadays especially in the "First World" are sick and getting worse by day
It's disgusting. I was very tom boy growing up im so glad this wasn't a thing back in my day not that my mother would've fed into it to begin with. Anyways I'm now the girliest adult woman ever, from growing up a "boyish girl" it's normal. Kids do that.... it's part of the imagination and these doctors are preying on it.
My daughter’s favorite color is blue and she totally loves dinosaurs. She is now 17 and loves being a girl and likes boys. You are right. They are so innocent when they are young and people take advantage of that to get them confused. It is sad.
😹😹😹 That’s like when anyone is saying „all women do/say/have xy“ and I answer „so you are saying I’m not a woman?“ I would never change my gender just because of that
Yea? If those words were so wise, why didn't she listen to everyone in the world who told her that same exact thing BEFORE she chose to mutilate her body to impress the internet. No sympathy here. If you can't learn to accept yourself the natural way, you are going to be FORCED to accept what you have become the irreversible unnatural way.
A ton of girls go through the tomboy phase- I certainly did for years. I wanted to be "one of the guys" and wore camo shorts and rarely even brushed my hair. I bit my nails, didn't wear makeup, made sure everyone knew I HATED pink. Sometimes I even said said to my mom that I felt like I should've been born a boy. I am so blessed to not have grown up in todays society because if my mother heard that and decided to transition me to a boy... it would've been cataclysmic after that tomboy phase wore off. By the time I entered high school, pink was my favorite color and I was a super girly girl. It's illegal for children to get tattoos because it's a permanent body modification, but we're jumping at any opportunity to get their biological sex changed? How backwards is society right now.
Listening to Chloe took me back to when I had my first periods. My grandmother and my mother told me what to expect; "A deposit of blood every 4 weeks or so," was how it was put to me. As it was in the 1960's, Mum put a "Modess" belt and two pads in a paper bag, which I was to keep in my schoolbag. When they started, I was prepared and felt no pain or fear. As my periods became regular, perhaps it will sound strange, but I looked forward to them and found them a comfort. They told me I was normal and healthy. What made me so lucky? Perhaps the attitude of the adult females in my life whom I respected. My heart goes out to Chloe whom I hope continues to heal and has suffered a grave injustice.
I definitely think knowing and understanding what's going to happen makes a huge difference. Mine started at 8 and my parents were out and it was heavy and painful and it's sort of funny now but I thought I was going to die. One minute I was playing sonic and the next my clothes were bloody and I was in pain. I had the talk with my girl really early just in case 😅
This is so true. I was excited to get my first period. Parents should explain everything to their daughters and celebrate the natural development of the human body.
TRAP THEM ALL WITH THIS: "A BATHROOM BREAK." The women on the panel head to the restroom.... GET YOUR CAMERA READY.... a Trans/Dr. Rachel Levine, speeds up in front of them and HOLDS THE DOOR OPEN FOR THEM. "ACTION!" Do they still go in knowing that A MAN is going to follow? What if Levine is already in there and they walk in? What if they are about to sit on a toilet, LEVINE STANDS IN THE NEXT STALL, SPLASHES? GET THAT ON CAMERA, SHOW IT IN A HEARING/SCHOOL BOARD/COLLEGE ADMINISTRATIORS/NCAA AND THE WOMEN WHO REFUSED TO GO IN OR LEFT! BOOM... THIS WILL END!
I’m 40 and thank god I grew up before all this happened. I know for a fact I could have easily been sucked into this. I had social anxiety and felt ugly and awkward, and as a girl in your teenage years feeling this way is devastating. I kept my hair super short, wore male skater clothes, and most of my friends were male. I was a tomboy, and that’s ok. What no one is telling today’s teens is that gender roles/stereotypes are COMPLETELY MADE UP BY HUMANS and you don’t have to change your physical body to match your personality just because it falls more under one stereotype than the other.
Anyone could! All of this push on changing our genders and how social media is seducing and impacting these kids / teenagers brains is the huge problem. Only parents can protect these kids but instead they’re failing there children and now these children will have trauma ..
@@MickeyMichaels348 Yes and the oppression women face is sex based, not identity based. So sex DOES MATTER. Trans "women" continually try to erase us and its an attack against us. But nobody is calling it out and women who question it are backed into a corner. Meanwhile other women are being moral crusaders instead of questioning it themselves.
I used to deny my gender during my puberty because I felt uncomfortable with the series of changes. I hated having a chest, hated wearing a bra, hated having menstruation cycle. What's worse is that I have gone through several sexual harassment, and this makes me wanted to be a man, because I could've protect myself if I were a male. But now I'm an adult who no longer have the trauma of sexual harassments. I'm glad that I'm still a woman and I like being one, I had happily embraced all the changes that I once denied. Teenagers need time to discover the new changes. We shouldn't be making such a huge change to theur bodies when their brains are still developing and couldn't analyse the risks entirely.
All of our kids felt strange and awkward during puberty. But they are adults now and would never think of being the opposite gender. Since when does “not liking puberty” equal “wrong gender”. Since when does a girl putting a poster of female singers or actors on their bedroom walls equal being uncomfortable as a female? Typical teen behaviours are being labeled as gender confusion. No wonder kids end up suicidal. This country is abusing its children!
I had the same experience after I had my first period at 10 years old. It was to early for me and I could cope with all the change in my body, feeling different from the others. I started hating my self and also thinking how great it would have been being a boy. I didn't tell enyone about my discomfort and when I started High-school I finally learned how to love my body and how lucky I was being healthy
A famous french feminist philosopher Simone de Beauvoir was the same plus being a tomboy her father told her "you have a man's brain" . She didn't know science very well and love sex with high schooler especially her lover and teacher the famous philosopher jean Paul Sartre . She is popular in french media but I clearly not the most important philosopher in France history like Descartes or pascal or Rousseau... The government just like the idea that everything is social construct (social determinism is not stupid am idea but it's something We should Studi without rejecting then biology and science cause unfortunately in France biological determinism and even just facts about part of ours that is from birth is seen as right wing and university being under government authority they can only be capitalist right and societal left (no= social left)
I remember when my boobs started growing,some grown women would make fun and pinch my nipples. U used to wear tight fitting gym bras and three tight t-shirts to hide my growing boobs. I remember praying to God and asking him to make me a boy. Today,I am 35 and I have small boobs(which is okay) but I wish they were bigger. I love being a woman and I would never imagine wanting to be a man. Teenagers do not know what they want please!!!
CAUSE YOU GUYS REJECT JESUS YOU WILL FOLLOW THE PATH OF DESTRUCTION SIN CAUSES, JESUS GODS SON TOLD US THAT SIN CAUSES DEATH, THE BIBLE ALSO SAYS FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH! NOT ONLY THIS BUT JESUS COMMANDS US TO BE HOLY OTHERWAYS WE CANT SEE GOD! IF WE WILL ABIDE IN OUR SINS WE WILL ENDUP IN THE ETERNAL DEATH (HELL!) WICH AFTER WE REBELLED AGAINST GOD GOD CURSED US WITH!, GOD SEND JESUS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR YOUR SINS TO MAKE A WAY TO BE SET FREE, AND GAIN ETERNAL LIFE, AFTER 3 DAYS AND NIGHTS GOD RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEATH, JESUS IS ALIVE, WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? WELL THE WORLD IS BAD ENOUGH CAUSE OF OUR REBELLION, STOP REBELLING IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORSE! ABIDE IN THE WORD OF GOD! BIBLE!
Chole, God Bless you! How very sad you suffered at the hands of the very same people that took an oath-DO NO HARM. They should have their medical licenses revoked. You are beautiful and a wonderful speaker you will go far in this world. I wish you all the very best. Your words were very powerful.
I actually low key wanted to be a boy when I was a child. Because I felt that boys could do whatever they wanted. As a girl my mum kept telling me, you can’t sit like that you are a girl. Close your legs when seated you are a girl . Learn how to cook you are a girl. You will need a husband to take care of you because you are a girl. As a teen, you can’t go out alone you are a girl. If cause I didn’t want to be a girl it didn’t seem like there was any advantage being a girl. After puberty I completely forgot about my tomboy phase and embraced my femininity. Thanks God my parents never even told me off for wanting to be a boy. Because I would have probably played the rebellious card, and do the opposite if what the wanted.
I was born in the 1950's. I liked riding my bicycle and roller skating and playing softball. I did not like playing with Barbie. I actually gave my 1962 Avon Barbie to a young relative last year. It was still in the box. We were called "Tom Boys" in those days, but everyone understood we'd morph into fully functioning females one day.
I'm guessing you signed up for the Draught like boys have to themln? You, seeing as you hate inequality and all. Na, you're full of shit like all waman
It’s totally a grass is greener thing, I didn’t want the responsibility of being a man, I thought women had it easy. It’s hard for both of us but things like this just make it harder.
My little sister-in-law is 10 and afraid of puberty, telling me she hates that she has leg hair and "a mustache" etc. I told her that what she is experiencing right now, all the girls her age are experiencing, I experienced it when I was her age, and so did her mom. I let her know that while she feels weird, it's normal, and she doesn't need to change anything. I told her that when she gets older if she wants to wax and all that, I will help her if her parents allow it, but not right now because it's okay for her to look the way she looks. I reminded her that all the concerns she's having about herself, her friends are having about themselves and therefore probably not even noticing her body the way she does. The only "affirmation" that kids need about feeling weird about their bodies at puberty is that yeah, puberty feels weird and completely changes your body and it is scary, but that they're not alone in that feeling, we all have felt it before, and they're not being weird and nothing is wrong with them.
THIS STORY hits so close to home!!! I nearly went through the same thing she did I felt uncomfortable in my own skin, and if I had just one person pushing me any father I would have became a man and regretted it for the rest of my life. The frontal cortex is not fully developed as a teen which ways risk taking. Keep fighting and never give up I believe in you and your story chloe
Sorry for your struggle but glad you made it through. Your comment about the frontal cortex is spot on. I find a blatant hypocrisy within the establishment on this issue. SCOTUS ruled we cannot commit minor children to life in prison for capital crimes because their brains have not developed fully. Yet, we are allowing and encouraging minor children to make life altering decisions regarding their body. Makes no sense.
This is a heroic young woman. Don't be afraid. The most important and first form of charity that benefits others is the insight and courage to be truthful. You are a noble one.
This is such a heartbreaking story. How could this happen, if children aren’t responsible for themselves until they turn 18, how can you allow a 12 year old to make the decision to change their gender?? Look at what this has done to her. This is a decision NO 12 yr old has the capacity to make.
@@gaspardmarnot-houdayer4768 parents don't have a say... kids are being brainwashed at schools and they can go to therapy without parents consent. Parents have not a say
This is the first time I see the testimony of a detransitioner. A part of me is angry with the parents. Why do every parent cowered when they don’t understand something? As a man of faith my beliefs are far different then that of an atheist. There needs to be more awareness from parents in how to adapt to a child’s growth and needs. I believe God gives us the grace to learn how to educate and guide our children. A simple wave of frustration due to lack of understanding, could be so destructive for the life of our children. The doctors ignorance also angers me. Psychology and morality need a bigger influence in the medical field. Parents ARE responsible for their children and their mental fortitude , until they reach and age where they progressively shown maturity and independence in understanding what they are and who they are. Every parent will be judge for their parenting or lack of. I hope this young woman grows stronger and stronger. She will be a powerful testimony of what misguidance could do to a human being. She will also be a powerful testimony of truth and strength. She knows what she is and who she is. No person will come and implant lies to her , not anymore.
God bless you sweetie. 🙏🏽 😢I am so sorry you went through that. We all must do better speaking with our children and helping them talk about their feelings and not letting outside people (doctors, therapists, etc) label them and then lead them into these irreversible procedures that will forever affect their lives. I'm a 70s baby and I remember talking to my grandmother about my awkwardness as an adolescent and she listened and then spoke wisdom to me that I share with my children and grandchildren to this day.
There are not millions of kids who want to transition. And there are only a handful who were mistakes. Beyond using more caution, and better screening cases for transitioning, I fail to see how this person is saving millions of children.
@@crispymoore Handful? Or maybe many are afraid to recognise their error or feel ashamed since you liberals are easily prone to scream at them. Shame on you!
This is an experiment, using hormones, performed by the medical establishment on mentally vulnerable children. What are they looking for? Only they know.
I am so proud of you for being so brave to talk against these terrible happenings forced on you during a very vulnerable time in your precious life. I hope the future brings you many blessings. ❤
I was sexually abused as a little girl. Over and over and over. Then when I had an early puberty at the age of 10 and my breasts grew very large. I had grown men looking at me in the hungry way that I had already seen as a tiny girl. Since this happened back in the 80s, I dealt with it quietly in my own way. I finally did get past the awkward years between the ages of 10 and 15. I was afraid of men, afraid to date boys, and treated every guy I met like a potential rapist. Between the ages of 10 to 15 I saw pretty girls and was “infatuated“ with them. As I grew older, I realized I didn’t want to date them. I wanted to be them. Pretty, confident, self accepting. All of the things I wasn’t at the time. I am not a lesbian. I never was one. I merely had some mixed up emotions for several years coupled with some inadequate acceptance of my growth and development at home. My mom was very prudish. She wouldn’t talk to me about anything. I only had three older brothers. My oldest brother was the perpetrator. I know that had I grown up in this century and were a teenager five years ago, I would definitely have questioned whether or not I wanted to be a boy. I probably would’ve been pretty sure that I wanted that. I would’ve been sure at the very least that I was a lesbian. I am so grateful that I managed through the awkward times of my childhood by reading Judy Blume books, and having weird conversations with my best friend. It’s comforting having a friend who goes similar things, the awkwardness of puberty. I am scared for the teenagers who are now dealing with something they may deeply regret, and not even have a voice to say so.
Your brother will answer in the Judgement Day to God. Hell will not be easy for these people. Look unto Jesus and remember He is a loving Father to you. He will never cast you out.
God bless you. I pray for your continued strength. God give this young lady peace, deep peace. Bless her with people around her that show her love and acceptance and kindness. Let her feel your love for her always. Thank you Jesus
When I was a young boy starting puberty, I remember not really being ready because I wanted to stay a kid. Hair started growing on my arms and hands and I remember crying to my sister “I don’t want to grow up.” It’s normal to feel that way as a child. Of course I’m okay with being an adult now, but that didn’t mean I wanted to be a girl.
As a girl who went through puberty I can relate like I had lots of growing pains that made me cry and I felt almost like a freak but thank goodness I was never did anything too stupid and was around the right people
As a woman, puberty had me confused too, I remember not wanting to have a chest and feeling EXTREMELY insecure and conscious about it, same went with the periods things, so ostracised for no reason, I remember I had very short hair, and I was the tomboy type, with a lot of girly girl characteristics, never once in my life did I consider transitioning. 10 years later, I’m obviously fine in my skin and I’m a woman, I have never understood on what basis do trans people decide that they want to be trans ? I mean litttle kids cross dress allllll the time, little boys don’t know that dresses are for girls, it’s literally the society that ingrains this in their head, how does that translate to them being trans, I have literally zero idea.
Sadly some parents use this as sn opportunity to make their kid change gender. Or some parents are misled by doctors to make their kid change gender. You are lucky to be allowed to grow normally. Imagine if you were kid born today??
@@anti_fascist i think some trans kid are due to parents themselves especially mothers with mental health issues. And some are due to medical doctors, therapists and pharma companies taking advantage.
An extraordinarily brave and beautiful young woman who should have been celebrating her successful arrival at adulthood has had her identity compromised by utterly inhumane ideologues following a sinister agenda.
Thank you, Chloe, for being so brave and speaking out on your birthday when you should be home with your parents and friends celebrating. I'm truly sorry for what you went through. I'm sorry that you don't feel beautiful, and I'm deeply sorry that you had to endure so many horrible surgeries and weren't protected as you should have been as a child. I apologize that your parents didn't have someone to turn to. But I want you to know that you are a beautiful young lady, and I hope that somehow you'll be able to heal from this terrible experience. I also hope that other children who are going through similar struggles hear what you have to say because you're incredibly brave for speaking out. I know it must have been terrifying, but your voice is important.
teenagers are too emotional and mentally unstable to be allowed to make such an irreversible decision I started to really become mature and reasonable since the age of 20! sex change surgery and hormones should be illegal for people younger than 21
Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned against the absolute reality of hell. Jesus doesn’t only reference hell, he describes it in great detail. He says it is a place of eternal torment (Luke 16:23), of unquenchable fire (Mark 9:43), where the worm does not die (Mark 9:48), where people will gnash their teeth in anguish and regret (Matt. 13:42), and from which there is no return, even to warn loved ones (Luke 16:19-31). He calls hell a place of “outer darkness” (Matt. 25:30), comparing it to “Gehenna” (Matt. 10:28), which was a trash dump outside the walls of Jerusalem where rubbish was burned and maggots abounded. Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned about the absolute reality of hell
Her parents, the doctors and everyone involved should be held accountable. I don’t understand how this is not child abuse?!!!!!! (I’m a Mother to a 13 year old Son and as much as I would support him, no matter what. He would have to wait until he’s 18 for any surgery that isn’t required to stay alive. I would have switched doctors, took my kid and ran, fast! Speaking from experience!)
I'm not sure if the parents should be held accountable for trusting what are supposed to be professionals, you're more or less supposed to. These "professionals" however are completely ideologically brainwashed or simply motivated by greed, getting paid exuberant amounts of money to sell these drugs or do these sex-change operations.
But let any of us miss a kid's Doctors Appointment they'll be ready to say we're unfit lock me up and throw away the key and get DHS involved too take your kids but these doctors are doing way worse than missing a doctor's appointment the same doctor's that can sit up here and get to legally mutilate kid's I'm sorry it's so evil I can't stand it 😞😭 this is awful thank you so very much young lady Mrs Chloe for putting the truth out there and not being afraid to speak 🗣️ up in the face of this evil.......
Well, her parents were not the ones planting the idea into her head. They were just going along with her. If anything, the doctor should be the one held accountable.
As long u mess up your child’s life it’s not abuse but yes the moment u don’t go to the doctor to SPEND MONEY it’s a crime. It’s never been about the kids or humans but money greed and messing up ppl bc it leads to more money
Chloe is incredibly brave for sharing her story and encouraging people to acknowledge the truth, especially today in which you cannot express this without being called transphobic or bigoted. I spoke out about de-transitioners and only getting surgery after the age of 18 once, and I was completely shut down by the TQ+ community, saying that the number of de-transitioners is less than 1% in the world and that I should be affirming one's gender at any age. This agenda has gotten dangerous and whether the numbers are 1% or more, it's still 1 too many, and it provides further evidence and facts that having gender dysphoria is a very rare mental disorder. It is not cool or quirky and should not be considered without counselling and mental development first. Doctors and adults need to tell these kids the truth instead of trusting the woke agenda, which gives them complete false hope. I hope more inspiring people like Chloe find the courage to speak out, so more vulnerable children exposed to this agenda are not brainwashed into thinking something that is not true in the long-run.
1% of 8 billion (# of people alive in the world today) is EIGHT MILLION! That’s a LOT of people. And it may be even more, if the percentage given is skewed by bias.
I dont have kids nor do I particularly want any. When i heard Chloe say the line "Would you rather have a dead daughter, or a living transgender son" I started tearing up. It is sick what is being done in a misguided attempt of expectance.
@treehugger3615 Exactly. The parents obviously should've known better, like cmon. It's like they didn't even bother doing their own research before blindly going through with the operation
I see a lot of children who want to be 'trans' use that line as emotional blackmail. A good retort would be 'No I want a living daughter who realises she is going through puberty and the dysphoria will pass'.
I am just baffled at how any American can believe a minor is not mature enough or responsible enough to vote, join the military, drink alcohol or drive, yet is capable of deciding to change their gender... And the fact we have a whole industry around this is terrifying
That’s the problem in the first place. Humans can’t change their gender, they can mutilate their body parts to resemble the looks of the opposite gender but that’s as far as it goes. It’s like cutting your own throat in multiple areas so you look like you have gills, yet you surely can’t breathe under water, right? It’s the same thing. I feel sad for these kids and at the same time feel disgusted by parents allowing such atrocities done to their children.They should protect them at all times. Shame on them.
@@chaseleif regardless of your beliefs, if an adult wants to do that to themselves then that's whatever, their life and all, but to allow minors to make that decision is absolutely insane and dangerous
This is really heartbreaking. I once was one of those cis women who said, "If I ever have children, I will allow them to transition." Now I see that the trans advocates are so biased that they are endangering children. For these trans people, their own puberty was so horrible because they are truly trans. So they are now denying children puberty just so those children don't have to go through the same thing they did. But for many children, puberty is uncomfortable. And that's a good thing, because it's part of growing up. What we need is for everyone to be able to afford psychotherapy and go to therapy "even if they are well and don't need it". Because psychotherapy solves the problems that you don't want to admit to yourself or that you don't even know you have. cheers from someone who has borderline personality disorder and knows exactly what body dysphoria and a distorted self-image are
This needs to be talked about more. I'm left-leaning, but my side does an appalling job with this issue when it comes to children. I'm very pro trans rights and protections, but most of these "trans" children are simply not trans. They are experimenting with their identity, which is normal and age-appropriate, but ultimately, this is a cultural fad and will pass with time for most of these kids. I don't care if they dress like the opposite gender or go by the pronouns of their choice, because this is easily reversible. But kids should NOT medically transition. Kids are nowhere near mature enough to decide to permanently alter their bodies and sterilize themselves! That is a choice for an ADULT.
This is the purest proof that we have a mental health crisis in America, and It's mostly prominent in public schools for young ones. Depression, Anxiety, Self-Worth and Bullying issues are absolutely rampant in public schools. We need to completely redo the entire public schooling system. It's absolute garbage right now.
Take the stupid phones away and watch out quick, that all subdides. The problem is, parents today are pushes. And don't have the guts not to give their children a mind. Control tool in their hand every year. A new one to for another $1000. While they cry, they don't have enough money to pay the fucking bills.
@@SomeReturn It is a part of the issue. A symptom. The people running the country, the adults in charge of schools, have the wrong priorities to the detriment of developing children and teens looking to have a head-start into adulthood or help getting caught up when they struggle. "The Children are the future" but everywhere we look, it seems the government, the media, and delusional individuals seem to be dead set on making sure the children won't be able to carry that future.
Sometimes, the best thing to do is to do it yourself. Letting the world conform to you is a pitiful wish, albeit an relatable dilemma. I won't be surprised if more and more parents sent their kids to private school or just homeschooled them; away from all that unnecessary drama. We all hate it, but the best we can do is demand that from those with power. But those with power tend to be the least qualified when trying to use it.
absolutly! the "now i cant find any man anymore" - 🌽 stars and onlyfans girls are already crawling out of the woodworks. people like her will get damaged for life, at an age, where they dont even know how to feel about anything
Chloe ...you are a very BEAUTIFUL and BRAVE young WOMAN to speak publicly about your experience. I pray your message is heard by millions and that they are spared the devastation and heartache you have! With your spirit and determination I have no doubt you will have a wonderful future!!❤
I went through something similar during puberty because I got my period early when I was 10 and I wasn't ready at all (I didn't even know what a period was) and when i got my period my mum said something about "joining the biggest group of women". I felt disgusted with myself and cringed so hard because I didn't want to be seen as a woman, I still wanted to feel like a child so I went to extreme lengths for around 3 years to make myself feel smaller and more secure in myself by wearing layers on my clothes, trying to physically shrink myself and wearing tight clothes/straps around my boobs so I looked flat and less feminine. I've always been very sensitive to change in general so when something feels different in my body i tend to catastrophise (in the moment its very dramatic and can seem like the end of the world, but to act on it would've be a huge mistake). I also tried to make myself appear less feminine/stereotype because i didn't want to be seen as a woman, i wanted to be me and to be seen as a person with a sense of humour (which boys in my class had and i looked up to), to the point i was so uncomfortable with the colour pink and rejected any stereotypes of girls. I would have done anything back then to get rid of my boobs, height reduction surgery or any trace of feminine figure i had but now I am so glad I didn't have a chance to because I'm fine my height, the size of my boobs and my figure. Most of the time it's not because children are "born in the wrong body" they simply aren't ready or comfortable with the changes! I heard a 7 year old trans girl say something like "ew i don't want a beard or boy parts" like as if everyone else is completely ready!! There are kids who do know they're trans from a very young age and don't regret it, but this type of surgery should only be done in exceptional circumstances bearing in mind how easily identity can change at this age.
CHILDREN HEAR ME: The truth is that many children feel uncomfortable during puberty as they witness the rapid changes taking place in their bodies. I remember feeling very uncomfortable with my body during puberty. Going from a child to developing as a woman was scary and awkward. It was like my childhood was being stripped away from me. Now, I love being a woman and embrace who I am. That is just how MANY children fee when they are going through puberty. I'm sure many of us know some tomboys who grew up to be very feminine women. This is all natural and part of life, it does NOT mean you were born in the wrong body. Just hold on, it will pass.
Yes I still remember the fear and awkwardness I felt when my breasts started developing and after one class of karate one of the boys was angry at me and was laughing at me and my breasts saying soon I won't be able to beat him at hahaha I have breasts and he will become stronger and started pushing me, even though I was more skilled I just couldn't fight back, I was feeling good humiliated 😢. But I would not accuse him for saying this at all because it was the truth just the way of saying it was humiliating, nevertheless he was just a kid after all and a girl was always winning in front of everyone 😂
I started having my period around the same time my mom was going through menopause. When she came home from her surgery and handed me all her leftover pads and tampons, I asked, "don't you need them?" She explained that because of the surgery, she no longer has a period and didn't need them. ALL throughout my adolescence, I begged my mom for that surgery. I hated my period. I hated it so much, that I would complain about being female. Every time I started to complain, my mom would laugh and say "that time of the month, huh?" Then.. something amazing happened. I GREW UP. I am SO thankful that I was raised by a Mother who actually looked out for my well being, instead of giving in to my every demand. It terrifies me to think, that had I been born a few decades later to some of these people who barely qualify as parents - these child abusers - my life would have been forever ruined.
A bit off topic, and maybe even controversial, but I think boys should be taught about periods as well. Boys become men and fathers and we still get weirded out by it no matter if we're adults or teens. I don't think it's right.
@@DJ-yh8hm Aren't they being taught that though? And besides, as long as it's not actual disdain, I don't expect men or my husband to be not a little weirded out by how the body of the opposite sex works. Apart from head knowledge on it, witnessing it first hand is still foreign to them, so it's pretty natural response if you ask me. Things weird me out a little about the male body too because it's just that different from mine, but it's not a disgust towards them since it's just nature and more of a fascination than anything. Your point is valid though.
Shivers… Tears… Well spoken, brave young lady. I am so sorry for all you’ve been through. You are no monster, but a beautiful, compassionate, articulate individual! Please know that you are loved as you are, not as you “would have been” or sometimes “wish to be”… You are so beautiful & precious, right now. {Hugs}
Thank you so much for speaking up, and hopefully, this will help others not to go through this horror! God bless you, you are beautiful young lady!! ♥🙏
Beautiful girl, you are SO incredibly brave to speak out. On your 19th birthday, you're trying to save others instead of celebrating with your family. You are NOT a monster....you are an ANGEL! I cried watching this video. I hope the next time you look in the mirror, you see your beautiful soul, your light!
Thank you so much for sharing your story so bravely !!! May G-D bless you a thousand times and May all your trauma be transformed into blessings and joy !! Wishing you complete healing and a bright and beautiful future !!
I feel her completely. I even dressed like a boy and cut my hair short. I'm so glad I went through this before the trans hype and was able to find comfort in my body. It seriously scares me to think other girls and children go through this and see the trans craze and hop on in hopes of making sense of their sexual and gender trauma
I feel you. I have a older brother and all of my cousins are boys. I've been around boys since I could remember. I always wanted to be a boy when I was young so I could be just like them. Thank God the Trans shit didn't happened yet.
CAUSE YOU GUYS REJECT JESUS YOU WILL FOLLOW THE PATH OF DESTRUCTION SIN CAUSES, JESUS GODS SON TOLD US THAT SIN CAUSES DEATH, THE BIBLE ALSO SAYS FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH! NOT ONLY THIS BUT JESUS COMMANDS US TO BE HOLY OTHERWAYS WE CANT SEE GOD! IF WE WILL ABIDE IN OUR SINS WE WILL ENDUP IN THE ETERNAL DEATH (HELL!) WICH AFTER WE REBELLED AGAINST GOD GOD CURSED US WITH!, GOD SEND JESUS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR YOUR SINS TO MAKE A WAY TO BE SET FREE, AND GAIN ETERNAL LIFE, AFTER 3 DAYS AND NIGHTS GOD RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEATH, JESUS IS ALIVE, WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? WELL THE WORLD IS BAD ENOUGH CAUSE OF OUR REBELLION, STOP REBELLING IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORSE! ABIDE IN THE WORD OF GOD! BIBLE!
I think the problem with this still lies in society's expectations and standards. I am a cis person myself, and the amount of times I have gotten told that my clothes are not "feminine" is insane. It's just CLOTHING, a piece of fabric, how is it gonna be feminine or masculine? It doesn't HAVE to be called crossdressing, people should be able to wear whatever they like. Honestly.
I used to be ftm. I told my gender therapist that I didn't want to rush into hormones and that I was fine as I was. He proceeded to tell me how much better testosterone would make me feel and told me I was ready for this next phase of my journey. I tried to tell my mom the same thing and she yelled at me "If you don't want to do hormone therapy, then you're not really transgender!" I caved and did it for 8 months. The changes are permanent. And I'm so mad because these were changes I tried to avoid as precaution for myself and I was coerced into it. Like why. Hormone therapy should be treated as a last resort, not the expectation
You are a wonderful creation just as You are. Thank God. Or whatever; Thank Goodness you have that strength in you to be yourself and to know not let people way less smart than you put these stunts on you
When I was going through puberty I was uncomfortable with my body and boys constantly pointing out about my “growing” figure parts. I hated being a girl because of the perverted attention as a little girl. I would cover up and dress more like a Tom boy. my best friend at the time was going through the same thing. We both thought maybe we should be boys. It’ll be easier. Truly we were just awkward going through changes! Were learning to be comfortable with our bodies and setting boundaries with people and telling people to eff off for being perverts. We are now proud confident women.
I have always been a tomboy and enjoyed more male orientated subjects. When I was going through pubity, I grew large breasts already at around 14 and I had a lot of male attention in school. I was an awkward shy girl and this made me afraid of men. I thought there was something wrong with me. It did not help that in british schools they scream at you for showing skin. I hated my body. I then saw social media and how women look confident with their breasts and I felt alone as if there was something wrong with me. I did question at the time if I was a boy or not. I then went to SCOUTS and really enjoyed hanging out there as I was treated equally to boys. Being equally treated saved my life. If I was treated different I think I would have thought I was a boy and gone down a dark path.
This actually brought me to fucking tears. I watched my mother go through a double mastectomy in her thirties and it was hell. She suffered and eventually infection grew in her chest. If the doctor hadn't put her in for another surgery due to a gut feeling, she would be dead. Shit like this is serious and nobody should have to suffer and take those kinds of risks through it unless it's a life or death situation, especially not a child. It breaks my heart that so many youths are being manipulated, only to end up trapped in a body that's falling apart thanks to doctors who promised they would help them. I pray that a change will happen soon and that these poor angels get the help and treatment they need and deserve.
But children aren’t regretting it tho, 98% of people who get trans affirming care don’t regret it. And those surgeries are only done for young adults over 18. Medications under 18 are only puberty blockers which are totally irreversible and don’t cause any damage. In fact their aren’t just used for trans kids. My cousin showed signs of starting her puberty when she was 7 so she had puberty blockers until she felt ready to go through puberty (about 12ish). Kids aren’t deteriorating their bodies. Children who are trans that don’t get gender affirming care are 50% more likely to commit suicide. This health care is so important and we need to protect children. It’s been proven gender affirming care works, if u don’t agree with it how do u suppose we help these children struggling with body dysmorphia.
@bumblebee2372 None of what you just said is true. Chole stated in the video that she got surgery at 15, and she's far from being the only one. Upwards of 80% of kids who express gender dysphoria grow out of it if they are allowed to go through a normal puberty. Of kids who do go on puberty blockers or hormones, 0% of them ever grow out of their dysphoria, and that's when they are more likely to commit suicide. Gender affirming care has not been proven to work. There is little follow-up study, and stories like Chloe's and so many others indicate the opposite. Changing your body does not solve your problems.
@@Rebecca_Taylor well I would like to know where u got ur facts because some of that is just wrong as well. My 1% regret rate from SURGICAL transitioning came from the article “Postoperative Regret Among Transgender and Gender-Diverse Recipients of Gender-Affirming Surgery” written by Harry Barbee, PhD1; Bashar Hassan, MD2; Fan Liang, MD2 which u can read about and talks about how low the regret rate is. For the 18+ surgeries I live in the UK so laws like that don’t allow children under 18+ to medically transition. So I am not familiar with the US laws and the statistics. But I do know that children and adults that get hormonal treatment have shown to reduce risk of suicide, improved mental health, lowered levels of anxiety, stress and overall have created a higher level of social support and quality of life. “The Effects of Hormonal Gender Affirmation Treatment on Mental Health in Female-to-Male Transsexuals” written by Colt St. Amand , MA*, Kara M. Fitzgerald , MA*, Seth T. Pardo , MA & Julia Babcock , PhD. I am very curious what studies you have read to show these statistics
@@bumblebee2372the only thing that we need to protect the children’s from…is that stupid ideology created and supported by doctors in order to treat mental disorders with pills and surgery. That what they make it a thing, so you can justify it. Children’s need to be love and guided, not FIXED.
@@bumblebee2372 Body dysmorphia isn't erased, making us better and/or more human and loved by surgical "corrections". BUT for sure, by making children think they should actually hate themselves as they are, the BDD will only increase til we all look exactly the same and never stop. What's important will never be an actual question about human existence and true value when it seems to be more like an issue trying to find labels like race/gender/weight//lenght/shoesize/ AS IF that ever should have been thought of as matters. Everyone everywhere everytime has the greatest value of all - no matter how completely misunderstood someone might be. Everyone deserves to be loved and love. We are living creatures from a nature with tremendeous beauty, being the only one of your actual kind - creating yourself through life and through meetings with other indiviuals and experience. There is no true evil. Not by nature. To blame a lion as if he'd be some kind of evil masterpshycopath- killer-narci-blahblah doesn't seems all fair because of the zebra they had for dinner? However there will always grow up lonely, depressed, scared people together actually building up the evil-ness just because we loose the connection to eachother. To nature.By thinking that someone has come to life with a meaning of being anti-life as if they live only for a point of being "evil for evil's sake".
@@tiffanyandco4156 i'm 30 and i have two kids. the closest i ever got to transitioning was straightening my hair as an emo skateboarder at age 15. why u ask that lol
Oh my goodness Chloe, I am heartbroken and in tears for the lies and bodily struggles you went through and continue with. You are a beautiful, courageous and strong young lady. Thank you for sharing the truth and speaking out against this evil work. Happy Belated Birthday. The Lord sees you and knows who you are. Big hugs to you
These was a great speech. She shared all her testimony and made her plea in 5 minutes, that is incredible. Thank you Chloe for your braveness. I wish you wouldnt have gone through all this..
Wow! I am 22 and still feel like a kid often times. How can a 12 year old make a decision that will change her whole life irreversibly? The parents that allow this are braindead💀 EDIT: After thinking about it and reading the replies. Shouldn't this surgery be ILLEGAL? Like how is this even allowed legally at that age, blows my mind
have you watched the video? the entire point was that the doctors suggested the operation because the parents thought their daughter would commit suicide if it wasn't done
@@alb1432The doctors are the ones that told the parents there child would commit suicide. The parents didn’t think anything until the doctors drilled that fear into their heads.
Somebody made a good point (forgive me for forgetting who so i can cite them) that when you ask a child who wants to be identified as a gender other than the one they were born with, they’ll tell you things like “well girls are treated more nicely” or “i want long hair like girls” “i want to play with the toys that girls play with” and vice versa. I personally wanted to be a girl as a young boy but realized i just wanted the long hair that girls had. Children will be children.
This woman is so brave to go against the mainstream lies and stand for truth. Hopefully this will help other kids to not have to go through this same hell.
Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned against the absolute reality of hell. Jesus doesn’t only reference hell, he describes it in great detail. He says it is a place of eternal torment (Luke 16:23), of unquenchable fire (Mark 9:43), where the worm does not die (Mark 9:48), where people will gnash their teeth in anguish and regret (Matt. 13:42), and from which there is no return, even to warn loved ones (Luke 16:19-31). He calls hell a place of “outer darkness” (Matt. 25:30), comparing it to “Gehenna” (Matt. 10:28), which was a trash dump outside the walls of Jerusalem where rubbish was burned and maggots abounded. Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned about the absolute reality of hell
CAUSE YOU GUYS REJECT JESUS YOU WILL FOLLOW THE PATH OF DESTRUCTION SIN CAUSES, JESUS GODS SON TOLD US THAT SIN CAUSES DEATH, THE BIBLE ALSO SAYS FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH! NOT ONLY THIS BUT JESUS COMMANDS US TO BE HOLY OTHERWAYS WE CANT SEE GOD! IF WE WILL ABIDE IN OUR SINS WE WILL ENDUP IN THE ETERNAL DEATH (HELL!) WICH AFTER WE REBELLED AGAINST GOD GOD CURSED US WITH!, GOD SEND JESUS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR YOUR SINS TO MAKE A WAY TO BE SET FREE, AND GAIN ETERNAL LIFE, AFTER 3 DAYS AND NIGHTS GOD RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEATH, JESUS IS ALIVE, WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? WELL THE WORLD IS BAD ENOUGH CAUSE OF OUR REBELLION, STOP REBELLING IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORSE! ABIDE IN THE WORD OF GOD! BIBLE!
@@johanneshartman4618Nobody wants to hear the whole entire bible man.. I agree that gender change is bad but please don’t flood the comment section with your holy book where there are other people from different places.
I remember when I had puberty I hated the way my boobs moved and bought boob bands to flatten my chest. I was also insecure of my body and growing curves that I started hunching my back, wearing oversized tees and acting manly. I soon went over that phase and today I like wearing skirts and blouses. I resonate so much with this speaker it’s unfortunate that she grew up in a generation where nonsense like this is entertained
Thank you for sharing your experience. I think it's possible to allow teenagers/children to explore these things but not be coerced into permanent changes.
It is not nonsense, just because for most people its a phase doesnt mean there are no trans people. But normally a therapy and an expert can help see the difference.
The fact that this conversation is even being had makes me feel like I am in an alternate reality. Never did I expect in my wildest dreams that adults would be doing this to children with the consent and assistance of the government. This should be the worst kind of child abuse imaginable and all those involved in doing these operations to children should be jailed.
What a message!!! Full of truth & courage. Thank you for sharing your experience and humbly affirming that you were just going through a rite of passage that all teenagers will go through as well. Thank you for voicing the truth about the lie. God bless you!
I don't understand how people can see something like this, and get angry at her, or not see what's wrong with gender affirmation care. It's truly terrible
Maybe instead of taking her daughter to a medical doctor, they really should have taken her to a therapist? There's no doubt that some doctors and surgeons will sell gender reaffirming treatments and surgeries purely for monetary gain and without caring about the patients/victims. The easiness with which all that happened to her is a problem, especially at such a young age. But for every one of these detransition cases, there's at least five cases where the gender dysphoria wasn't misdiagnosed and where the treatments helped the patients live a better life.
I love how she is putting the reality out as it is. I lost a friend to suicide because of his gender switch. Mainly because he only learned that he can’t have children after the damage was already done. But I think if society wouldn’t have pushed him so far as to go through with the operation despite him questioning if he’s doing the right thing, then he might still be alive. I myself was always a tomboy and sometimes dressed up as a boy, but I would never have chosen to switch my gender just because of that.
So brave to speak out at the cruelty that is this ideological cult. Thousands of detransitioners in a similar place and everyone of them suffering like Chloe. What the hell is wrong with this world when our most precious children are used in medical experiments. This has got to end and those responsible made to answer.
the problem isn't that is what done to us. It the way media has shown the message. 5 years ago trans was accepted, almost encouraged by everyone in the youtube videos. So many did this 'changes' or did it to their children. Now 5 years later we don't look at it the same say. it should stop. we're sorry we told you the wrong information. Instead its lots of hate and disgust thrown at transgendered people from the public, the public see teens that transitioned years ago as the worst people on the world, when in fact just 4 years ago it was accepted. Instead of taking a stand, and inform people like Chole does and inform others. We attack the ones who been targeted and bully them on the media, in the public, it is children you bully, remember that. Take a stand against the medical practice and unlawful methods and surgery, and drugs medical professionals persuade children & parent to use. and treat your victims with care and respect too. This will help both sides. As example, in my country, the ruling how medicine & treatment giving to people suffering from "gender dysphoria" has complete changed. Doctors aren't allowed to give drugs, or advice of transcare. Instead they look at these people as any patients and try to treat the things they're really suffering from. Why can't america follow suit? and just change the core of the problem, and not fight the victims with their fist and words? ---- If for instance, Chole hadn't got "such fame" or been taking care by a medical professional who seen her issues and given proper help. None of this would've happen to her.
They need to find the people who started this false science that spread thru the medical community and prosecute them and jail them, suspend their license and take all of their monet abd possesions away.
@@somerandomchannel382 the issue is that for one kid like chloe, there is 99 ruined lives from the opposite experience. These testimonies are performance in the face of 100x more lives.
@@SomeKataI don’t believe that the children who are taking hormones and hormone blockers are going to be better off than if they are helped through the process of a changing body. Womanhood used to be revered. Now it has become a sign of weakness to want to be a wife and mother.
I went through the same discomfort when puberty hit me. I wasn’t ready for breasts and I wore my older cousins hoodies to hide my developing body and asked my mom to braid my hair in boy styles. I also hated getting stared at by creepy older men. After a few months I began to understand my breasts were normal and made for nourishing my future children. I came out of that tomboy stage and embraced my emerging womanhood. I’m glad my parents let me go through my tomboy phase until I had a better understanding of what what happening to my body. Like…. Going from playing with dolls and playing fairies to having to wear a bra was alot as a preteen. This makes a lot of sense and glad she’s speaking out
I agree, tomboy stages are normal, I went through mine. I wanted my parents to call me Alex and I joined the wrestling team. lol. Although I never wanted to physically change my body to be a male, I am glad there were no pressures like there are today on young people to change their sex. Today I am a happy mother of 5 married to a wonderful man. I think people should mature to adulthood before deciding on such permanent changes. They are still getting to know and discover themselves.
Yeah, I'm thirteen and I hate my breasts so I cover them up with a hoodie. I used to think that I wanted to be a boy but I know now that I am just a tomboy who has chest dysphoria and would like them removed someday but i still want to be a girl.
@@sageofsixnuggies Boobies are amazing. Live with them if you can. If you eventually decide that you can't, make that decision when you are much older. 13 is still very young. Don't decide on something that will affect you your entire life. Puberty is difficult, but everyone goes through it. It gets better.
This is something I cannot relate to. I couldn't wait to get breasts and my period. I remember walking around the house with a stuffed bra just so I could imagine my future breasts. I used to wear a pillow under my shirt to mimic pregnancy at 12! I couldn't wait to become a woman. I wonder what creates these differences between us?
Wow! So sorry for your pain. I learned a lot from your testimony. You are a very brave woman and I’m proud of you!😊Keep speaking up because you are a beacon of hope!
Chloe, I hope you will come to know one day how beautiful you really are. You truly embody what it means to be a woman with your grace, strength, beauty, and compassion. You are so courageous for speaking up on this issue despite the pain it clearly causes you. Thank you so much.
If she ever sees this comment I want her to know that she is beautiful, strong and brave. I applaud her for speaking out to help other children not have to go through this pain. ❤️
Absolutely. She is beautiful. I hate that she went through this torture. I'm grateful that she is wiling to share in attempts to prevent others from making this mistake.
In US, medical system is a business. It doesn’t matter that you’re too young to fully understand what such a heavy procedure will permanently do to your body. They wanna bill you pills and surgery. « wanna be a boy?. Sure thing!!. Hell I can turn you into whatever you whant!. You’re 11?. Don’t worry about that! » of course they don’t tell you that you will not be a real boy, cause that would scare you away from giving them money. The right thing to do would be to make it illegal to perform sex change on minors.
The parents leave it up the medical professionals thinking that what they were told about the child committing suicide if they didn’t transition to be true. They shouldn’t be blamed if they cared this much, but only forgiven.
@@user-sw2wv1zx1t That is the biggest argument against Democracy ever. People are literally too stupid to make decisions for the most part. They need to be told to do, and when to do. That's why Putin will win in the end.
The parents are mostly at fault here. If a "doctor" told me that my daughter needs to take hormone blockers because of a stupid teenage phase, something everyone has gone through in their lives, that "doctor" would need an actual doctor after I was done with them.
Wow what a powerful message! You are a very brave woman and I agree with you 100%. I wish you all the best and hope that you find peace within yourself ❤
Chole is a Hero. Her story is powerful. That man on the panel said he "transitioned" at 35. So he/she whatever had already had the body to grow naturally. Than as a 35 years old made a decision. Not being pushed into something at 12 like Chole! You can only go through puberty once, stoping it, altering it can damage bodies permanently. This is sad, and sick and profit driven and needs to stop.
where is Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt and Shiloh Jolie-Pitt (17) ? that couple did damages too Shiloh entire childhood is in suits and boy clothes. and as a teen she is in hot shorts and dresses. Chloe is 19 that the same age range. noway her parents did not take the lead from celebs
She isn't a hero. She's a person with profound regret and there is nothing heroic about it. She is doing to the gender affirming care medical industry what she did to normal everyday people like you and I when the world told her that transitioning is wrong: She is trying to shut them down. I have been called an "intolerant bigot" for rallying against this stuff. I didn't know that the secret for my beliefs to be respected was to chop my balls off. This female gets no sympathy from me.
@cinnamonstar808 not quite the same thing. Letting your daughter wear traditionally male clothes and use short haircuts is not the same as mutilating a child's body with medicine and surgery. The fact that Shiloh is wearing more feminine clothes now is the entire point. She has the ability to change her mind because no permanent damage was done.
came from youtube recommend because i requested google to suggest videos opposite of my views (currently on english college class as a freshman, i am doing this to ensure that i hear the full perspective of the critics before entering the discussion; as a way of supplemental learning for the class) - mico
You’re so brave, Chloe! God bless you on this healing journey. Please keep sharing your sorry. It’s NORMAL to be uncomfortable during puberty. Puberty is not an option. It’s part of the human experience.
Whoever the "medical professional" is that told her parents that they could have a dead kid or a "trans" kid should be named. It's time to start naming names.
This gives me goosebumbs. She is so brave for speeking up. What she went through is insane, and it is horrorfying to think about how many more kids are going through the exact same thing right now, because this is getting more and more popular. 💔
For a trans person puberty is the consequence of being born with a birth defect in your sexual chromosomes that causes a sex organ structure of one biological sex and a brain structure that is more similar to the opposite sex’s (aka existing as a trans-person) Therefore, the natural puberty needs to be blocked in a trans person and they need to be given cross sex hormones alongside it to go through the puberty of their opposite biological sex to match the brain structure hardwired for a body of the literal opposite sex. I can’t change that, you can’t change that and no movement in society can change that biology.
That's very interesting. However, how can one know that's the case and not something more related to the feeling of inadequacy, or neurodivergence, typical of a teenager? Not being hostile - I'm just wondering how one can establish with absolute certainty that is the consequence of a biological defect rather than a perhaps a temporary phase
@@theeperson3764I'm actually looking at the "born into the wrong body" thing in a critical way. Who's telling people that the problem's indeed in the body, and not in the brain?
God bless you,Chloe! You are a Hero! You are speaking up for those victims who don't yet realize what a deep pit they have gotten themselves into, I applaud your bravery and sense of morality that wants to inform innocent, children who are getting sucked into this Hell never realizing the full extent of what will happen to them. A Hell they can never fully escape once they go there. I pray for your healing from this experience, and that God will stand beside you in your journey to help others, and speak sanity where insanity is running rampant! You are not a monster as you say you sometimes feel, You are still a beautiful woman, inside and out!! ( I'd like to add to that last statement, as I looked you up on google......You are a VERY beautiful woman! )
@@MrCine4d you talking about them priests that butchered themselves? Was a cult then, is a cult now I guess. Funny that in humanity no matter how weird, there’s a group out there that practices it. Pedo rings, trans rings, cannibals, whatever it is, it exists. Some freaks even eat their own feces. Crazy world.
Omg...this has me in tears...the pain, the emtion in her voice...i have never heard so powerful a testimony. Please, please listen to her. Dont any of you remember puberty? The confusion, the ups and downs emotionally, the questions that don't have immediate answers because your mind was flooded with changing body, thought and hormones? Its time we begin to listen, to hear our children's confusion and tackle it for what it truly is...growth, maturing and trying so damned hard to find their own place inside of themselves as well as in the world.
It is truly sad and captures your heart. I think we have done immeasurable damage to a large population of children and sadly, it's going to continue until laws are passed to protect children.
I'm so sorry she didn't get the proper help she needed, and I'am so proud of her/him for coming forward about her mistake and hopes to help others from making the same mistake. The parents need to be more involved in their childrens lives and listen more, watch for signs at all times if they notice any slight change...address it !
As a transgender adult, I stand by this message. Transitioning is a huge decision and it’s one that can only be made as an adult, after years of therapy. The fact is that even if a child does actually turn out to still be transgender as an adult, it still doesn’t mean they can consent to sterilizing themselves at age 13. Their brains are simply not mature enough to properly comprehend the long term risks. I wish more people in our community would condemn what’s being done to kids because I believe it hurts the progress of those who are actually transgender. To the general public, this is all I and many others ask of you: please understand that there are so many of us out there who don’t condone this. Despite what the media would have you believe, the vast majority of us understand that we can’t change our biology and just want to be left alone so we can live relatively normal lives. You can recognize that being transgender is a real, scientifically substantiated medical condition while also understanding that transitioning is no decision a child can make.
Really agree : the progress of understanding transgender as a humanity fact is blocked with this non-sense of medical treatment for children. As you say, years of therapy and capacity to understand the consequences should be the basis before any medical treatment. I really don't understand how doctors can do that to children. Hi from France
I know this is thrown around loosely all the time but you really are brave to say this. The backlash on the internet can be really nasty and doxxing is becoming more common. As a GNC woman who thought she was a boy as a kid, I'm so happy I wasn't on social media to have some external influence determine the trajectory of my life. Puberty for girls is hard. Its so hard and breeds insecurity, but you overcome it just like every other woman has in times past. The ones who actually have gender dysphoria, like you, will be apparent after therapy and constant questioning.
Very much agree with you. Unfortunately, transgenderism is also becoming a fad among tweens and teens, where they will claim to be transgender because it makes them seem or feel special. There are also communities online that target lonely, confused, disaffected, or outcast youths and convince them that they are trans and shower them praise for going down that path.
"You can recognize that being transgender is a real, scientifically substantiated medical condition while also understanding that transitioning is no decision a child can make." Scientific? The medical professionals mentioned did not seem to have done the transitioning scientifically, can you please tell me how it should have been done scientifically so that she should have been "helped"?
What a very brave and courageous young woman, to share her own heartbreaking life’s experience with many. I believe that we must Never affirm that our children and grandchildren are anything different than what our loving Creator God made them to be. To do so would be to claim that God makes mistakes and wishes us to suffer for them. God never makes mistakes. He has made our children beautiful in their rightful form/ in His own image and likeness. What we can do when we see them struggling is love them, be there for them and get them sound medical and mental treatment that will help them grow into the fully mature and unique person that they were made to be. Our Prayers and unchanging love play a vital role in helping these loved ones of ours become healthy, contented people, grateful to our Heavenly Father and to the people who truly care. This young lady will remain in my prayers of gratitude because of her courage .🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🌟
I'm so glad I grew up in the 80s and 90s. This is so horrific. I never thought I'd hear conversations about how many genders, what is a woman, preferred pronouns, and mutilating kids.
I almost went through with the idea of transitioning. I always thought that Im better as a guy than a girl. After one huge heartbreak from an ex-gf, I decided to take a break from being lesbian - took a lot ofnyime to evaluate my life and friends - and decided to try and embrace my feminity. I cut many friendships and stopped hanging out in lgbtq establishments. I focused on my career and waited patiently for my hair to get longer. BEST DECISION I MADE. Apparently, I am beautiful inside and out. That being a woman has its pros and cons and I felt free from lying about my name and gender. I am a female human being. Fast forward in time, now as a first-time mom, wife to an adorable dorky husband, a woman of faith - I'm living the best time of my life. I can't thank God enough for being in my life. And I thank my ex gf for the break up that set me up on this path. People change their minds and hearts with enough time and evaluation. What more with kids? I wish detransitioners peace and blessings.
Fantastic. Just accept yourself, love who you are. People are born ugly or beautiful, people are born poor or rich, people are born with a gender. Just live the life with tools you have received and make the best out of it.
i have seen Chloe Talk before and i saw her interview with with Jordan Peterson , She Is Strong And Brave , She Has my Respect too Makes me cry every time i hear her speak out about the pain she is Still going through ,
What about the children who feel the same way about their bodies but are actually trans and want the treatment? Many trans adults that were unable to transition as youth struggle more with gender dysphoria because they look less like the gender they identify with. Oddly enough there is more transphobia against those who don’t pass as cis than there us for those who can easily pass as cis. So they end up being treated poorly by the same people who prevented them from doing something about it when they were able to. The same reason this is tragic for this girl, it is tragic for trans teens to not be allowed gender reaffirming care. You don’t need to choose which kids to care about. You just need a better system and barriers in place that prevent misdiagnosis which is pretty rare. Those who regret transitioning as youth are the minority because most genuinely are trans.
@@rafaellarena If someone wants to mutilate their own body then that's their choice, but medical professionals should not be assisting them with drugs or surgery. People with gender dysphoria need psychological treatment.
As part of my grieving process, I've been listening to these stories. I'm grieving because my friend's daughter, who decided to transition to male at the age of three, just passed away the other day at 11 years old from a massive heart attack. I'm trying to make sense of it all, and I guess for me, this is the only way I can - by watching these videos and hearing what others are going through. I have no idea. At the age of three, my friend's daughter decided that she was male. I don't remember the exact age she started taking hormones, but I believe my friend felt like she was being supportive of her daughter and accepting of what the child wanted. I feel like that's where we go wrong. I feel like as adults, we need to be adults, not friends with our kids. If a child wanted a tattoo at 4 years old, you would make them wait until they were old enough. Why are tattoos not okay, but taking male hormones before a child is old enough to even understand their body is okay? It's really appalling to me; it's just so upsetting. And that's not the only friend I have with a transitioning child, and they're transitioning so young. Like you said, there's so much that gets taken away when you do that.
Doctors like the one who diagnosed her should be held accountable for the pain and suffering he put on her and her family. My heart goes out to you chloe and thank you for having the courage to tell every parent your message i just hope this opens everyones eyes and realize there is nothing wrong with our kids , there is only 2 genders and for the love of god let the kids grow up and then as adults they can make up there minds about there bodies and who they are. Doctors that would tell parents to do this to a child should be disbarred and never be able to do this to another child.
I am a 70 year old woman. Please do not think that this issue is one of these days only. I also went thru such emotions in my youth, but changing gender was not an option we had, thank goodness. Now, I am still different. I am happily married, have 4 children and 6 grandchildren. I am still divinely different with much stronger ‘male’ tendencies and personality traits than ‘female’ tendencies. I have come to realise that the lessons I have learnt by accepting my ‘female’ gender has taught me things I never would have, had I been a male, and I am glad of this tho some of the lessons were brutal. Puberty is a Bitch of a period, which I hated! I have only immense and intense sympathy for people undergoing pubescence in this era. But all teenagers must realise that every person older than themselves also went thru this torment, and somehow survived. Take heart, accept who you were born as, and then make the most of Life!🥰
@@myview5840 Regrettably we are supposed to ‘conform’ to whatever standards are currently in ‘fashion’. Remember the standards women have had to live by for hundreds of years? Owned by men, not entitled to vote, not entitled to own property, is the property of the man……and the list go,es on. It concerns me that girls and boys are currently encouraged to alter their gender and yet when a true Hermaphrodite is born, this is also not accepted and the child is medically and physically mutilated, in order to Conform…. My deepest request is to just leave people alone! Surely parents also went thru the dilemmas that the daughter went thru? Why then did they make such decisions? This world has truly become irrational
Hi Anita! Thank you for your contribution. If it is not too personal, can you expand further on the lessons you learnt from accepting your female gender?
My little sister is 7yo and she said recently "I think I might be a boy instead of a girl, I feel like a boy". If I'd jumped on that and taken her to any sort of gender specialist, I know she would have gotten affirmed as transgender. Instead I asked her "why do you feel that way?" and she said "because boys like the colour blue and like dinosaurs but I like those things too so I must be a boy". That is the level of understanding of gender children have at that age. The fact that "professionals" can take that as gospel when it is coming from someone who's brain is still developing is terrifying.
yeah, this is like when a 5 years old told her dad that she wanted to marry him is considered incestuous and the kid had to be put on medications.
Adults nowadays especially in the "First World" are sick and getting worse by day
It's disgusting. I was very tom boy growing up im so glad this wasn't a thing back in my day not that my mother would've fed into it to begin with. Anyways I'm now the girliest adult woman ever, from growing up a "boyish girl" it's normal. Kids do that.... it's part of the imagination and these doctors are preying on it.
Thanks for being mature anough
My daughter’s favorite color is blue and she totally loves dinosaurs. She is now 17 and loves being a girl and likes boys. You are right. They are so innocent when they are young and people take advantage of that to get them confused. It is sad.
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That’s like when anyone is saying „all women do/say/have xy“ and I answer „so you are saying I’m not a woman?“ I would never change my gender just because of that
Wow " puberty is a rite of passage into adulthood, not a disease to be mitigated". Such powerful wise words.
Well said
Yea? If those words were so wise, why didn't she listen to everyone in the world who told her that same exact thing BEFORE she chose to mutilate her body to impress the internet.
No sympathy here. If you can't learn to accept yourself the natural way, you are going to be FORCED to accept what you have become the irreversible unnatural way.
@@WaldoBagelTopperbecause she was a child and people DIDN'T tell her that? Adults actually indoctrinated her against that belief.
Puberty is normal, it is Natural. Every single thing these left wing activists do is Against nature
@@WaldoBagelToppershe was 12 years old…. She’s not mentally capable to make those decisions, she needed PARENTAL GUIDANCE
A ton of girls go through the tomboy phase- I certainly did for years. I wanted to be "one of the guys" and wore camo shorts and rarely even brushed my hair. I bit my nails, didn't wear makeup, made sure everyone knew I HATED pink. Sometimes I even said said to my mom that I felt like I should've been born a boy. I am so blessed to not have grown up in todays society because if my mother heard that and decided to transition me to a boy... it would've been cataclysmic after that tomboy phase wore off. By the time I entered high school, pink was my favorite color and I was a super girly girl.
It's illegal for children to get tattoos because it's a permanent body modification, but we're jumping at any opportunity to get their biological sex changed? How backwards is society right now.
Me too I have 4 brothers I was a total tomboy but I wouldn't ever do what they did.
Sorry to hear you got the "love pink" side effect 😕
same here
Listening to Chloe took me back to when I had my first periods. My grandmother and my mother told me what to expect; "A deposit of blood every 4 weeks or so," was how it was put to me. As it was in the 1960's, Mum put a "Modess" belt and two pads in a paper bag, which I was to keep in my schoolbag. When they started, I was prepared and felt no pain or fear. As my periods became regular, perhaps it will sound strange, but I looked forward to them and found them a comfort. They told me I was normal and healthy. What made me so lucky? Perhaps the attitude of the adult females in my life whom I respected. My heart goes out to Chloe whom I hope continues to heal and has suffered a grave injustice.
I definitely think knowing and understanding what's going to happen makes a huge difference. Mine started at 8 and my parents were out and it was heavy and painful and it's sort of funny now but I thought I was going to die. One minute I was playing sonic and the next my clothes were bloody and I was in pain. I had the talk with my girl really early just in case 😅
This is so true. I was excited to get my first period. Parents should explain everything to their daughters and celebrate the natural development of the human body.
@@Theworstaltinthesystemdamn it sounds like you had precocious puberty! Congratulations for making it through that!
@TheInsane104 Thanks 😅 On to the menopause! 🤣🤣🤣 I'm 44 so that'll come knocking soon I'm sure 🫠
You just talk about stuff, that’s all.
Doing unnecessary surgery and giving drugs to kids who aren't sick is insane
Mhm, I think both sides agree on that.
Money, nothing else.
@@hgd794 Agreed, more than insanity, it's pure malevolence.
Other generations in america: First time?
@@nicholas3141 totally! ☹
“My parents almost got the dead daughter promised to them by my doctors.” This line broke me. I’m so sorry Chloe. Children deserve to be protected.
It's child abuse!
Yeah doctors are human. They're also greedy as 💩
TRAP THEM ALL WITH THIS: "A BATHROOM BREAK." The women on the panel head to the restroom.... GET YOUR CAMERA READY.... a Trans/Dr. Rachel Levine, speeds up in front of them and HOLDS THE DOOR OPEN FOR THEM. "ACTION!" Do they still go in knowing that A MAN is going to follow? What if Levine is already in there and they walk in? What if they are about to sit on a toilet, LEVINE STANDS IN THE NEXT STALL, SPLASHES?
GET THAT ON CAMERA, SHOW IT IN A HEARING/SCHOOL BOARD/COLLEGE ADMINISTRATIORS/NCAA AND THE WOMEN WHO REFUSED TO GO IN OR LEFT! BOOM... THIS WILL END!
And she is such a beautiful/flawless female ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ , with superior Wisdom & courage
Another proof that the rights to make decision about how to raise children should be returned to their parents.
This woman should have way more exposure. Her message should be spread everywhere.
One of the many stories that the mainstream media refuse to report 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿 hopefully we will see more in the future
This is pertinent - the media is absolutely to blame for the normalizing of things that are harmful and the cancellation of all things useful.
I’m 40 and thank god I grew up before all this happened. I know for a fact I could have easily been sucked into this. I had social anxiety and felt ugly and awkward, and as a girl in your teenage years feeling this way is devastating. I kept my hair super short, wore male skater clothes, and most of my friends were male. I was a tomboy, and that’s ok. What no one is telling today’s teens is that gender roles/stereotypes are COMPLETELY MADE UP BY HUMANS and you don’t have to change your physical body to match your personality just because it falls more under one stereotype than the other.
Absolutely spot on my friend
I am 34 and I was the same way. I was very much a tomboy, and I still am in a lot of ways, but the meaning doesn’t have to go any deeper than that.
Anyone could! All of this push on changing our genders and how social media is seducing and impacting these kids / teenagers brains is the huge problem. Only parents can protect these kids but instead they’re failing there children and now these children will have trauma ..
Sorry bu5 gender roles have been an important part of how humans have survived this long.
@@MickeyMichaels348 Yes and the oppression women face is sex based, not identity based. So sex DOES MATTER. Trans "women" continually try to erase us and its an attack against us. But nobody is calling it out and women who question it are backed into a corner. Meanwhile other women are being moral crusaders instead of questioning it themselves.
I used to deny my gender during my puberty because I felt uncomfortable with the series of changes. I hated having a chest, hated wearing a bra, hated having menstruation cycle. What's worse is that I have gone through several sexual harassment, and this makes me wanted to be a man, because I could've protect myself if I were a male. But now I'm an adult who no longer have the trauma of sexual harassments. I'm glad that I'm still a woman and I like being one, I had happily embraced all the changes that I once denied. Teenagers need time to discover the new changes. We shouldn't be making such a huge change to theur bodies when their brains are still developing and couldn't analyse the risks entirely.
All of our kids felt strange and awkward during puberty. But they are adults now and would never think of being the opposite gender. Since when does “not liking puberty” equal “wrong gender”. Since when does a girl putting a poster of female singers or actors on their bedroom walls equal being uncomfortable as a female? Typical teen behaviours are being labeled as gender confusion. No wonder kids end up suicidal. This country is abusing its children!
I had the same experience after I had my first period at 10 years old. It was to early for me and I could cope with all the change in my body, feeling different from the others. I started hating my self and also thinking how great it would have been being a boy. I didn't tell enyone about my discomfort and when I started High-school I finally learned how to love my body and how lucky I was being healthy
A famous french feminist philosopher Simone de Beauvoir was the same plus being a tomboy her father told her "you have a man's brain" . She didn't know science very well and love sex with high schooler especially her lover and teacher the famous philosopher jean Paul Sartre .
She is popular in french media but I clearly not the most important philosopher in France history like Descartes or pascal or Rousseau...
The government just like the idea that everything is social construct (social determinism is not stupid am idea but it's something We should Studi without rejecting then biology and science cause unfortunately in France biological determinism and even just facts about part of ours that is from birth is seen as right wing and university being under government authority they can only be capitalist right and societal left (no= social left)
I remember when my boobs started growing,some grown women would make fun and pinch my nipples. U used to wear tight fitting gym bras and three tight t-shirts to hide my growing boobs. I remember praying to God and asking him to make me a boy. Today,I am 35 and I have small boobs(which is okay) but I wish they were bigger. I love being a woman and I would never imagine wanting to be a man. Teenagers do not know what they want please!!!
CAUSE YOU GUYS REJECT JESUS YOU WILL FOLLOW THE PATH OF DESTRUCTION SIN CAUSES, JESUS GODS SON TOLD US THAT SIN CAUSES DEATH, THE BIBLE ALSO SAYS FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH! NOT ONLY THIS BUT JESUS COMMANDS US TO BE HOLY OTHERWAYS WE CANT SEE GOD! IF WE WILL ABIDE IN OUR SINS WE WILL ENDUP IN THE ETERNAL DEATH (HELL!) WICH AFTER WE REBELLED AGAINST GOD GOD CURSED US WITH!, GOD SEND JESUS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR YOUR SINS TO MAKE A WAY TO BE SET FREE, AND GAIN ETERNAL LIFE, AFTER 3 DAYS AND NIGHTS GOD RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEATH, JESUS IS ALIVE, WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? WELL THE WORLD IS BAD ENOUGH CAUSE OF OUR REBELLION, STOP REBELLING IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORSE! ABIDE IN THE WORD OF GOD! BIBLE!
Chole, God Bless you! How very sad you suffered at the hands of the very same people that took an oath-DO NO HARM. They should have their medical licenses revoked. You are beautiful and a wonderful speaker you will go far in this world. I wish you all the very best. Your words were very powerful.
There is absolutely NO better way to have said this and bring awareness.. tears at the end! So proud of her. ❤️
I actually low key wanted to be a boy when I was a child. Because I felt that boys could do whatever they wanted. As a girl my mum kept telling me, you can’t sit like that you are a girl. Close your legs when seated you are a girl . Learn how to cook you are a girl. You will need a husband to take care of you because you are a girl.
As a teen, you can’t go out alone you are a girl. If cause I didn’t want to be a girl it didn’t seem like there was any advantage being a girl.
After puberty I completely forgot about my tomboy phase and embraced my femininity.
Thanks God my parents never even told me off for wanting to be a boy. Because I would have probably played the rebellious card, and do the opposite if what the wanted.
Boys are also told what they can and cannot do.
I was born in the 1950's. I liked riding my bicycle and roller skating and playing softball. I did not like playing with Barbie. I actually gave my 1962 Avon Barbie to a young relative last year. It was still in the box. We were called "Tom Boys" in those days, but everyone understood we'd morph into fully functioning females one day.
I'm guessing you signed up for the Draught like boys have to themln?
You, seeing as you hate inequality and all.
Na, you're full of shit like all waman
@@EyeofValor yeah but don’t men have it figured out? They’re telling you the right things.
It’s totally a grass is greener thing, I didn’t want the responsibility of being a man, I thought women had it easy. It’s hard for both of us but things like this just make it harder.
My little sister-in-law is 10 and afraid of puberty, telling me she hates that she has leg hair and "a mustache" etc. I told her that what she is experiencing right now, all the girls her age are experiencing, I experienced it when I was her age, and so did her mom. I let her know that while she feels weird, it's normal, and she doesn't need to change anything. I told her that when she gets older if she wants to wax and all that, I will help her if her parents allow it, but not right now because it's okay for her to look the way she looks. I reminded her that all the concerns she's having about herself, her friends are having about themselves and therefore probably not even noticing her body the way she does. The only "affirmation" that kids need about feeling weird about their bodies at puberty is that yeah, puberty feels weird and completely changes your body and it is scary, but that they're not alone in that feeling, we all have felt it before, and they're not being weird and nothing is wrong with them.
She is lucky to have a caring sister-in-law like you ❤
@@JaneCrossan thank you for sharing. Such an important message for young chirldren
You're an incredible influence on her. I applaud you. You're smarter than those Drs.
THIS STORY hits so close to home!!! I nearly went through the same thing she did I felt uncomfortable in my own skin, and if I had just one person pushing me any father I would have became a man and regretted it for the rest of my life. The frontal cortex is not fully developed as a teen which ways risk taking. Keep fighting and never give up I believe in you and your story chloe
Sorry for your struggle but glad you made it through. Your comment about the frontal cortex is spot on. I find a blatant hypocrisy within the establishment on this issue. SCOTUS ruled we cannot commit minor children to life in prison for capital crimes because their brains have not developed fully. Yet, we are allowing and encouraging minor children to make life altering decisions regarding their body. Makes no sense.
This is a heroic young woman. Don't be afraid. The most important and first form of charity that benefits others is the insight and courage to be truthful. You are a noble one.
As someone who grew up as a tomboy, I can empathize with this person deeply
I was an effeminate young man. Now that I'm older, I realize that the problem wasn't who I was, but how other ignorant people tried to make me feel.
Tomgirl. If you're a girl with boyish traits/appearance/behavior, you're a tomgirl. Tom=male, like tom turkey or tomcat.
@MoonWalker0004 exactly girl
A lot of this is common sense , you can't turn a cat into a dog dummy
@@spacep0d
No one has ever called it a tomgirl. Tomboy is an actual word in the dictionary and it refers to girls who are more masculine.
This is such a heartbreaking story. How could this happen, if children aren’t responsible for themselves until they turn 18, how can you allow a 12 year old to make the decision to change their gender?? Look at what this has done to her. This is a decision NO 12 yr old has the capacity to make.
We don't own our children. They belong to the state. Not many persons realize this.
Nor can they...it's all BS. No such derive exists, parents always have a say
@@gaspardmarnot-houdayer4768 parents don't have a say... kids are being brainwashed at schools and they can go to therapy without parents consent. Parents have not a say
It's not heartbreaking these dumb f****** people deserve what they've done because no one forced him to do it.. it's their own decision
$$$$ customer for life.
This is the first time I see the testimony of a detransitioner.
A part of me is angry with the parents. Why do every parent cowered when they don’t understand something? As a man of faith my beliefs are far different then that of an atheist. There needs to be more awareness from parents in how to adapt to a child’s growth and needs. I believe God gives us the grace to learn how to educate and guide our children. A simple wave of frustration due to lack of understanding, could be so destructive for the life of our children.
The doctors ignorance also angers me. Psychology and morality need a bigger influence in the medical field. Parents ARE responsible for their children and their mental fortitude , until they reach and age where they progressively shown maturity and independence in understanding what they are and who they are.
Every parent will be judge for their parenting or lack of.
I hope this young woman grows stronger and stronger. She will be a powerful testimony of what misguidance could do to a human being. She will also be a powerful testimony of truth and strength. She knows what she is and who she is. No person will come and implant lies to her , not anymore.
God bless you sweetie. 🙏🏽 😢I am so sorry you went through that. We all must do better speaking with our children and helping them talk about their feelings and not letting outside people (doctors, therapists, etc) label them and then lead them into these irreversible procedures that will forever affect their lives. I'm a 70s baby and I remember talking to my grandmother about my awkwardness as an adolescent and she listened and then spoke wisdom to me that I share with my children and grandchildren to this day.
She will save millions of children by her courage...
unless the people she presented her speech to don't care, since, you know, she isn't paying as much as the medical industry will.
No she won’t
There are not millions of kids who want to transition. And there are only a handful who were mistakes. Beyond using more caution, and better screening cases for transitioning, I fail to see how this person is saving millions of children.
Oh look, you have a yiddish name, too. How quaint you also hold this opinion, @@crispymoore
@@crispymoore Handful? Or maybe many are afraid to recognise their error or feel ashamed since you liberals are easily prone to scream at them. Shame on you!
I have a lot of respect for Chloe. Takes gut to do this
Dylan Mulvaney has a lot of balls to do what he did.
@@user-hz7xc1xw6u what did he do? He's still a male
@@user-hz7xc1xw6u No, he's a crossdresser. He is not trans.
This is an experiment, using hormones, performed by the medical establishment on mentally vulnerable children.
What are they looking for?
Only they know.
@@RickSteffanwerwatching1955 Dylan Mulvaney has accumulated a net worth of $1.5 million as of 2023 for acting.
I am so proud of you for being so brave to talk against these terrible happenings forced on you during a very vulnerable time in your precious life. I hope the future brings you many blessings. ❤
Saved millions of kids !! Thank you.❤
I was sexually abused as a little girl. Over and over and over. Then when I had an early puberty at the age of 10 and my breasts grew very large. I had grown men looking at me in the hungry way that I had already seen as a tiny girl. Since this happened back in the 80s, I dealt with it quietly in my own way. I finally did get past the awkward years between the ages of 10 and 15. I was afraid of men, afraid to date boys, and treated every guy I met like a potential rapist. Between the ages of 10 to 15 I saw pretty girls and was “infatuated“ with them. As I grew older, I realized I didn’t want to date them. I wanted to be them. Pretty, confident, self accepting. All of the things I wasn’t at the time. I am not a lesbian. I never was one. I merely had some mixed up emotions for several years coupled with some inadequate acceptance of my growth and development at home. My mom was very prudish. She wouldn’t talk to me about anything. I only had three older brothers. My oldest brother was the perpetrator.
I know that had I grown up in this century and were a teenager five years ago, I would definitely have questioned whether or not I wanted to be a boy. I probably would’ve been pretty sure that I wanted that. I would’ve been sure at the very least that I was a lesbian. I am so grateful that I managed through the awkward times of my childhood by reading Judy Blume books, and having weird conversations with my best friend. It’s comforting having a friend who goes similar things, the awkwardness of puberty.
I am scared for the teenagers who are now dealing with something they may deeply regret, and not even have a voice to say so.
May the Lord bless you and keep you.
Family are some of the most common rspists.. Thank you for sharing this truth.
May god bless you. You are very strong❤
Your brother will answer in the Judgement Day to God.
Hell will not be easy for these people.
Look unto Jesus and remember He is a loving Father to you.
He will never cast you out.
God bless you. I pray for your continued strength. God give this young lady peace, deep peace. Bless her with people around her that show her love and acceptance and kindness. Let her feel your love for her always. Thank you Jesus
When I was a young boy starting puberty, I remember not really being ready because I wanted to stay a kid. Hair started growing on my arms and hands and I remember crying to my sister “I don’t want to grow up.” It’s normal to feel that way as a child. Of course I’m okay with being an adult now, but that didn’t mean I wanted to be a girl.
As a girl who went through puberty I can relate like I had lots of growing pains that made me cry and I felt almost like a freak but thank goodness I was never did anything too stupid and was around the right people
Exactly 💯
As a woman, puberty had me confused too, I remember not wanting to have a chest and feeling EXTREMELY insecure and conscious about it, same went with the periods things, so ostracised for no reason, I remember I had very short hair, and I was the tomboy type, with a lot of girly girl characteristics, never once in my life did I consider transitioning. 10 years later, I’m obviously fine in my skin and I’m a woman, I have never understood on what basis do trans people decide that they want to be trans ? I mean litttle kids cross dress allllll the time, little boys don’t know that dresses are for girls, it’s literally the society that ingrains this in their head, how does that translate to them being trans, I have literally zero idea.
Sadly some parents use this as sn opportunity to make their kid change gender. Or some parents are misled by doctors to make their kid change gender. You are lucky to be allowed to grow normally. Imagine if you were kid born today??
@@anti_fascist i think some trans kid are due to parents themselves especially mothers with mental health issues. And some are due to medical doctors, therapists and pharma companies taking advantage.
An extraordinarily brave and beautiful young woman who should have been celebrating her successful arrival at adulthood has had her identity compromised by utterly inhumane ideologues following a sinister agenda.
Thank you, Chloe, for being so brave and speaking out on your birthday when you should be home with your parents and friends celebrating. I'm truly sorry for what you went through. I'm sorry that you don't feel beautiful, and I'm deeply sorry that you had to endure so many horrible surgeries and weren't protected as you should have been as a child. I apologize that your parents didn't have someone to turn to.
But I want you to know that you are a beautiful young lady, and I hope that somehow you'll be able to heal from this terrible experience. I also hope that other children who are going through similar struggles hear what you have to say because you're incredibly brave for speaking out. I know it must have been terrifying, but your voice is important.
teenagers are too emotional and mentally unstable to be allowed to make such an irreversible decision I started to really become mature and reasonable since the age of 20! sex change surgery and hormones should be illegal for people younger than 21
They should be Fully illegal If Not medical necessary
The brain doesn’t stop developing until 25🤔
@@bjorneisenseite9025 agreed
@@WannabeAGYEEHEE it never stops developing, sexual puberty is around 13,15 but mental maturity is around 18 to 25
Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned against the absolute reality of hell.
Jesus doesn’t only reference hell, he describes it in great detail. He says it is a place of eternal torment (Luke 16:23), of unquenchable fire (Mark 9:43), where the worm does not die (Mark 9:48), where people will gnash their teeth in anguish and regret (Matt. 13:42), and from which there is no return, even to warn loved ones (Luke 16:19-31). He calls hell a place of “outer darkness” (Matt. 25:30), comparing it to “Gehenna” (Matt. 10:28), which was a trash dump outside the walls of Jerusalem where rubbish was burned and maggots abounded. Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned about the absolute reality of hell
Her parents, the doctors and everyone involved should be held accountable. I don’t understand how this is not child abuse?!!!!!!
(I’m a Mother to a 13 year old Son and as much as I would support him, no matter what. He would have to wait until he’s 18 for any surgery that isn’t required to stay alive. I would have switched doctors, took my kid and ran, fast! Speaking from experience!)
I'm not sure if the parents should be held accountable for trusting what are supposed to be professionals, you're more or less supposed to. These "professionals" however are completely ideologically brainwashed or simply motivated by greed, getting paid exuberant amounts of money to sell these drugs or do these sex-change operations.
But let any of us miss a kid's Doctors Appointment they'll be ready to say we're unfit lock me up and throw away the key and get DHS involved too take your kids but these doctors are doing way worse than missing a doctor's appointment the same doctor's that can sit up here and get to legally mutilate kid's I'm sorry it's so evil I can't stand it 😞😭 this is awful thank you so very much young lady Mrs Chloe for putting the truth out there and not being afraid to speak 🗣️ up in the face of this evil.......
@@Kaleida652 doctor in america is crazy af, even the price is crazy expensive
Well, her parents were not the ones planting the idea into her head. They were just going along with her.
If anything, the doctor should be the one held accountable.
As long u mess up your child’s life it’s not abuse but yes the moment u don’t go to the doctor to SPEND MONEY it’s a crime. It’s never been about the kids or humans but money greed and messing up ppl bc it leads to more money
Chloe is incredibly brave for sharing her story and encouraging people to acknowledge the truth, especially today in which you cannot express this without being called transphobic or bigoted. I spoke out about de-transitioners and only getting surgery after the age of 18 once, and I was completely shut down by the TQ+ community, saying that the number of de-transitioners is less than 1% in the world and that I should be affirming one's gender at any age.
This agenda has gotten dangerous and whether the numbers are 1% or more, it's still 1 too many, and it provides further evidence and facts that having gender dysphoria is a very rare mental disorder. It is not cool or quirky and should not be considered without counselling and mental development first. Doctors and adults need to tell these kids the truth instead of trusting the woke agenda, which gives them complete false hope.
I hope more inspiring people like Chloe find the courage to speak out, so more vulnerable children exposed to this agenda are not brainwashed into thinking something that is not true in the long-run.
1% of 8 billion (# of people alive in the world today) is EIGHT MILLION! That’s a LOT of people. And it may be even more, if the percentage given is skewed by bias.
Courage beyond words! I am so grateful for this testimony and pray that the seeds of truth spoken in this video spread for generations to come.
I dont have kids nor do I particularly want any. When i heard Chloe say the line "Would you rather have a dead daughter, or a living transgender son" I started tearing up. It is sick what is being done in a misguided attempt of expectance.
A bit naive of the parents don't you think?
This is the emotional blackmail the parents are being subjected to and they fall prey to it.
@treehugger3615 Exactly. The parents obviously should've known better, like cmon. It's like they didn't even bother doing their own research before blindly going through with the operation
Imagine believing a "gender specialist" would tell you something different.
I see a lot of children who want to be 'trans' use that line as emotional blackmail. A good retort would be 'No I want a living daughter who realises she is going through puberty and the dysphoria will pass'.
I am just baffled at how any American can believe a minor is not mature enough or responsible enough to vote, join the military, drink alcohol or drive, yet is capable of deciding to change their gender... And the fact we have a whole industry around this is terrifying
And so much propaganda, it's so scary.
That’s the problem in the first place. Humans can’t change their gender, they can mutilate their body parts to resemble the looks of the opposite gender but that’s as far as it goes. It’s like cutting your own throat in multiple areas so you look like you have gills, yet you surely can’t breathe under water, right? It’s the same thing. I feel sad for these kids and at the same time feel disgusted by parents allowing such atrocities done to their children.They should protect them at all times. Shame on them.
Its not about them being mature enough. Its about them being young, naive, and easier to manipulate.
@@chaseleif regardless of your beliefs, if an adult wants to do that to themselves then that's whatever, their life and all, but to allow minors to make that decision is absolutely insane and dangerous
@@chaseleif I’m confused what are you even talking about this has nothing to with the comment
This is really heartbreaking. I once was one of those cis women who said, "If I ever have children, I will allow them to transition." Now I see that the trans advocates are so biased that they are endangering children. For these trans people, their own puberty was so horrible because they are truly trans. So they are now denying children puberty just so those children don't have to go through the same thing they did. But for many children, puberty is uncomfortable. And that's a good thing, because it's part of growing up. What we need is for everyone to be able to afford psychotherapy and go to therapy "even if they are well and don't need it". Because psychotherapy solves the problems that you don't want to admit to yourself or that you don't even know you have.
cheers from someone who has borderline personality disorder and knows exactly what body dysphoria and a distorted self-image are
This needs to be talked about more. I'm left-leaning, but my side does an appalling job with this issue when it comes to children. I'm very pro trans rights and protections, but most of these "trans" children are simply not trans. They are experimenting with their identity, which is normal and age-appropriate, but ultimately, this is a cultural fad and will pass with time for most of these kids. I don't care if they dress like the opposite gender or go by the pronouns of their choice, because this is easily reversible. But kids should NOT medically transition. Kids are nowhere near mature enough to decide to permanently alter their bodies and sterilize themselves! That is a choice for an ADULT.
I completely agree...
This is the purest proof that we have a mental health crisis in America, and It's mostly prominent in public schools for young ones. Depression, Anxiety, Self-Worth and Bullying issues are absolutely rampant in public schools. We need to completely redo the entire public schooling system. It's absolute garbage right now.
There is no way I'll let my child step foot into a public shool
Take the stupid phones away and watch out quick, that all subdides. The problem is, parents today are pushes. And don't have the guts not to give their children a mind. Control tool in their hand every year. A new one to for another $1000. While they cry, they don't have enough money to pay the fucking bills.
@@SomeReturn It is a part of the issue. A symptom. The people running the country, the adults in charge of schools, have the wrong priorities to the detriment of developing children and teens looking to have a head-start into adulthood or help getting caught up when they struggle. "The Children are the future" but everywhere we look, it seems the government, the media, and delusional individuals seem to be dead set on making sure the children won't be able to carry that future.
Sometimes, the best thing to do is to do it yourself. Letting the world conform to you is a pitiful wish, albeit an relatable dilemma.
I won't be surprised if more and more parents sent their kids to private school or just homeschooled them; away from all that unnecessary drama.
We all hate it, but the best we can do is demand that from those with power. But those with power tend to be the least qualified when trying to use it.
Publik skool is deliberately designed to create mentally broken revolutionary change agents.
I have a feeling we're going to see a lot more stories like these in the future.
its sad but I hope they are less brutal than this
absolutly!
the "now i cant find any man anymore" - 🌽 stars and onlyfans girls are already crawling out of the woodworks. people like her will get damaged for life, at an age, where they dont even know how to feel about anything
There is already loads but the media dont like to show the truth, you have to find youtube videos or uncut videos of interviews
@@thegameboyshowor more brutal, we already have some case of suicide.
Let’s be thankful this person wasn’t angry… we could find ourselves fighting a lot more crazy trans school shooters
Chloe ...you are a very BEAUTIFUL and BRAVE young WOMAN to speak publicly about your experience. I pray your message is heard by millions and that they are spared the devastation and heartache you have! With your spirit and determination I have no doubt you will have a wonderful future!!❤
I went through something similar during puberty because I got my period early when I was 10 and I wasn't ready at all (I didn't even know what a period was) and when i got my period my mum said something about "joining the biggest group of women". I felt disgusted with myself and cringed so hard because I didn't want to be seen as a woman, I still wanted to feel like a child so I went to extreme lengths for around 3 years to make myself feel smaller and more secure in myself by wearing layers on my clothes, trying to physically shrink myself and wearing tight clothes/straps around my boobs so I looked flat and less feminine. I've always been very sensitive to change in general so when something feels different in my body i tend to catastrophise (in the moment its very dramatic and can seem like the end of the world, but to act on it would've be a huge mistake). I also tried to make myself appear less feminine/stereotype because i didn't want to be seen as a woman, i wanted to be me and to be seen as a person with a sense of humour (which boys in my class had and i looked up to), to the point i was so uncomfortable with the colour pink and rejected any stereotypes of girls. I would have done anything back then to get rid of my boobs, height reduction surgery or any trace of feminine figure i had but now I am so glad I didn't have a chance to because I'm fine my height, the size of my boobs and my figure. Most of the time it's not because children are "born in the wrong body" they simply aren't ready or comfortable with the changes! I heard a 7 year old trans girl say something like "ew i don't want a beard or boy parts" like as if everyone else is completely ready!! There are kids who do know they're trans from a very young age and don't regret it, but this type of surgery should only be done in exceptional circumstances bearing in mind how easily identity can change at this age.
CHILDREN HEAR ME: The truth is that many children feel uncomfortable during puberty as they witness the rapid changes taking place in their bodies. I remember feeling very uncomfortable with my body during puberty. Going from a child to developing as a woman was scary and awkward. It was like my childhood was being stripped away from me. Now, I love being a woman and embrace who I am. That is just how MANY children fee when they are going through puberty. I'm sure many of us know some tomboys who grew up to be very feminine women. This is all natural and part of life, it does NOT mean you were born in the wrong body. Just hold on, it will pass.
Agreed. You should do the transition ONLY if you have 18+ and have sure of who you are, and the consequences
Yes I still remember the fear and awkwardness I felt when my breasts started developing and after one class of karate one of the boys was angry at me and was laughing at me and my breasts saying soon I won't be able to beat him at hahaha I have breasts and he will become stronger and started pushing me, even though I was more skilled I just couldn't fight back, I was feeling good humiliated 😢. But I would not accuse him for saying this at all because it was the truth just the way of saying it was humiliating, nevertheless he was just a kid after all and a girl was always winning in front of everyone 😂
@@El_GungasI've always felt that way
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Goodpreciousdaughters...U said it so right
I started having my period around the same time my mom was going through menopause. When she came home from her surgery and handed me all her leftover pads and tampons, I asked, "don't you need them?" She explained that because of the surgery, she no longer has a period and didn't need them. ALL throughout my adolescence, I begged my mom for that surgery. I hated my period. I hated it so much, that I would complain about being female. Every time I started to complain, my mom would laugh and say "that time of the month, huh?"
Then.. something amazing happened. I GREW UP. I am SO thankful that I was raised by a Mother who actually looked out for my well being, instead of giving in to my every demand. It terrifies me to think, that had I been born a few decades later to some of these people who barely qualify as parents - these child abusers - my life would have been forever ruined.
A bit off topic, and maybe even controversial, but I think boys should be taught about periods as well. Boys become men and fathers and we still get weirded out by it no matter if we're adults or teens. I don't think it's right.
@@DJ-yh8hm Aren't they being taught that though? And besides, as long as it's not actual disdain, I don't expect men or my husband to be not a little weirded out by how the body of the opposite sex works. Apart from head knowledge on it, witnessing it first hand is still foreign to them, so it's pretty natural response if you ask me. Things weird me out a little about the male body too because it's just that different from mine, but it's not a disgust towards them since it's just nature and more of a fascination than anything. Your point is valid though.
@@DJ-yh8hm I buy pads and tampons with my son and give him a lesson on menstruation whenever I can. Boys need to be educated.
@@Steph6McI love that!! As a girl, that doesn’t make me feel awkward at all. I look up to you, thank you for educating your son ❤
@@rat._crustzz Aaaw thanks🥰 You’re right! There’s nothing to be ashamed! You Go Girl!!!✊🏻🥳🎉✨
Shivers… Tears… Well spoken, brave young lady. I am so sorry for all you’ve been through. You are no monster, but a beautiful, compassionate, articulate individual! Please know that you are loved as you are, not as you “would have been” or sometimes “wish to be”… You are so beautiful & precious, right now. {Hugs}
Thank you so much to this girl for sharing this. She is so strong and brave.
People need to wake up, please 🙏
You will forever be female - and a very Brave one. Respect.
she looks like a dude still tbh
Amen.
And very beautiful too, good luck in life young lady
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Amen.
Courageous testimony. This was total child abuse.
source?
@@bTrLOL. Why are you asking for source for an opinion, idiot?
@@bTrLOL. It is common sense
@@bTrLOL. are you a troll or just woke ?
@@je7553 i requested a source and i never got one, so i've come to the conclusion that you are disabled (maybe)
Thank you so much for speaking up, and hopefully, this will help others not to go through this horror! God bless you, you are beautiful young lady!! ♥🙏
This is so outrageous! My heart goes out to you! Many thanks for your work!
Beautiful girl, you are SO incredibly brave to speak out. On your 19th birthday, you're trying to save others instead of celebrating with your family. You are NOT a monster....you are an ANGEL!
I cried watching this video. I hope the next time you look in the mirror, you see your beautiful soul, your light!
This should be told on every MSM outlet - the truth needs to be known.
Children need to see this and adults too.
Agreed but you know that major news outlets are quietly censoring this video as sick and sad as that is
It won’t be. There have been thousands of detransitioners on TH-cam (podcasts, guests on TH-cam shows, etc) for years now.
"MSM" and "truth" should not be in the same sentence 😐
😂yeah don’t hold your breath
WE THE PEOPLE don't need the main stream media anymore. But, I understand you.
My prayers go out to you, Chloe. Thank you for your courage to speak out!
Thank you so much for sharing your story so bravely !!! May G-D bless you a thousand times and May all your trauma be transformed into blessings and joy !! Wishing you complete healing and a bright and beautiful future !!
I feel her completely. I even dressed like a boy and cut my hair short. I'm so glad I went through this before the trans hype and was able to find comfort in my body. It seriously scares me to think other girls and children go through this and see the trans craze and hop on in hopes of making sense of their sexual and gender trauma
I feel you. I have a older brother and all of my cousins are boys. I've been around boys since I could remember. I always wanted to be a boy when I was young so I could be just like them. Thank God the Trans shit didn't happened yet.
Yes. So many of us
Yes exactly. I also did use my brother's hoodies while in puberty.... Didn't like to show my body at all.
But never felt like a boy. Thanks God
CAUSE YOU GUYS REJECT JESUS YOU WILL FOLLOW THE PATH OF DESTRUCTION SIN CAUSES, JESUS GODS SON TOLD US THAT SIN CAUSES DEATH, THE BIBLE ALSO SAYS FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH! NOT ONLY THIS BUT JESUS COMMANDS US TO BE HOLY OTHERWAYS WE CANT SEE GOD! IF WE WILL ABIDE IN OUR SINS WE WILL ENDUP IN THE ETERNAL DEATH (HELL!) WICH AFTER WE REBELLED AGAINST GOD GOD CURSED US WITH!, GOD SEND JESUS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR YOUR SINS TO MAKE A WAY TO BE SET FREE, AND GAIN ETERNAL LIFE, AFTER 3 DAYS AND NIGHTS GOD RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEATH, JESUS IS ALIVE, WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? WELL THE WORLD IS BAD ENOUGH CAUSE OF OUR REBELLION, STOP REBELLING IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORSE! ABIDE IN THE WORD OF GOD! BIBLE!
I think the problem with this still lies in society's expectations and standards. I am a cis person myself, and the amount of times I have gotten told that my clothes are not "feminine" is insane. It's just CLOTHING, a piece of fabric, how is it gonna be feminine or masculine? It doesn't HAVE to be called crossdressing, people should be able to wear whatever they like. Honestly.
I used to be ftm. I told my gender therapist that I didn't want to rush into hormones and that I was fine as I was. He proceeded to tell me how much better testosterone would make me feel and told me I was ready for this next phase of my journey.
I tried to tell my mom the same thing and she yelled at me "If you don't want to do hormone therapy, then you're not really transgender!"
I caved and did it for 8 months. The changes are permanent. And I'm so mad because these were changes I tried to avoid as precaution for myself and I was coerced into it. Like why. Hormone therapy should be treated as a last resort, not the expectation
You are a wonderful creation just as You are.
Thank God. Or whatever; Thank Goodness you have that strength in you to be yourself and to know not let people way less smart than you put these stunts on you
This is crazy!! 😮😮
😢❤️🩹
❤❤❤ I’m sorry no one listened to you
But wow! So smart! Much smarter than anybody around you. Keep that knowledge.
(And I wish HELL for them!!!)
I am so sorry this was your experience.
When I was going through puberty I was uncomfortable with my body and boys constantly pointing out about my “growing” figure parts. I hated being a girl because of the perverted attention as a little girl. I would cover up and dress more like a Tom boy. my best friend at the time was going through the same thing. We both thought maybe we should be boys. It’ll be easier. Truly we were just awkward going through changes! Were learning to be comfortable with our bodies and setting boundaries with people and telling people to eff off for being perverts. We are now proud confident women.
I have always been a tomboy and enjoyed more male orientated subjects. When I was going through pubity, I grew large breasts already at around 14 and I had a lot of male attention in school. I was an awkward shy girl and this made me afraid of men. I thought there was something wrong with me. It did not help that in british schools they scream at you for showing skin. I hated my body. I then saw social media and how women look confident with their breasts and I felt alone as if there was something wrong with me. I did question at the time if I was a boy or not. I then went to SCOUTS and really enjoyed hanging out there as I was treated equally to boys. Being equally treated saved my life. If I was treated different I think I would have thought I was a boy and gone down a dark path.
This actually brought me to fucking tears. I watched my mother go through a double mastectomy in her thirties and it was hell. She suffered and eventually infection grew in her chest. If the doctor hadn't put her in for another surgery due to a gut feeling, she would be dead. Shit like this is serious and nobody should have to suffer and take those kinds of risks through it unless it's a life or death situation, especially not a child. It breaks my heart that so many youths are being manipulated, only to end up trapped in a body that's falling apart thanks to doctors who promised they would help them. I pray that a change will happen soon and that these poor angels get the help and treatment they need and deserve.
But children aren’t regretting it tho, 98% of people who get trans affirming care don’t regret it. And those surgeries are only done for young adults over 18.
Medications under 18 are only puberty blockers which are totally irreversible and don’t cause any damage. In fact their aren’t just used for trans kids. My cousin showed signs of starting her puberty when she was 7 so she had puberty blockers until she felt ready to go through puberty (about 12ish). Kids aren’t deteriorating their bodies. Children who are trans that don’t get gender affirming care are 50% more likely to commit suicide. This health care is so important and we need to protect children.
It’s been proven gender affirming care works, if u don’t agree with it how do u suppose we help these children struggling with body dysmorphia.
@bumblebee2372 None of what you just said is true.
Chole stated in the video that she got surgery at 15, and she's far from being the only one.
Upwards of 80% of kids who express gender dysphoria grow out of it if they are allowed to go through a normal puberty. Of kids who do go on puberty blockers or hormones, 0% of them ever grow out of their dysphoria, and that's when they are more likely to commit suicide.
Gender affirming care has not been proven to work. There is little follow-up study, and stories like Chloe's and so many others indicate the opposite. Changing your body does not solve your problems.
@@Rebecca_Taylor well I would like to know where u got ur facts because some of that is just wrong as well.
My 1% regret rate from SURGICAL transitioning came from the article “Postoperative Regret Among Transgender and Gender-Diverse Recipients of Gender-Affirming Surgery” written by Harry Barbee, PhD1; Bashar Hassan, MD2; Fan Liang, MD2 which u can read about and talks about how low the regret rate is.
For the 18+ surgeries I live in the UK so laws like that don’t allow children under 18+ to medically transition. So I am not familiar with the US laws and the statistics. But I do know that children and adults that get hormonal treatment have shown to reduce risk of suicide, improved mental health, lowered levels of anxiety, stress and overall have created a higher level of social support and quality of life. “The Effects of Hormonal Gender Affirmation Treatment on Mental Health in Female-to-Male Transsexuals” written by Colt St. Amand , MA*, Kara M. Fitzgerald , MA*, Seth T. Pardo , MA & Julia Babcock , PhD.
I am very curious what studies you have read to show these statistics
@@bumblebee2372the only thing that we need to protect the children’s from…is that stupid ideology created and supported by doctors in order to treat mental disorders with pills and surgery. That what they make it a thing, so you can justify it. Children’s need to be love and guided, not FIXED.
@@bumblebee2372 Body dysmorphia isn't erased, making us better and/or more human and loved by surgical "corrections". BUT for sure, by making children think they should actually hate themselves as they are, the BDD will only increase til we all look exactly the same and never stop.
What's important will never be an actual question about human existence and true value when it seems to be more like an issue trying to find labels like race/gender/weight//lenght/shoesize/ AS IF that ever should have been thought of as matters.
Everyone everywhere everytime has the greatest value of all - no matter how completely misunderstood someone might be. Everyone deserves to be loved and love.
We are living creatures from a nature with tremendeous beauty, being the only one of your actual kind - creating yourself through life and through meetings with other indiviuals and experience.
There is no true evil. Not by nature. To blame a lion as if he'd be some kind of evil masterpshycopath- killer-narci-blahblah doesn't seems all fair because of the zebra they had for dinner?
However there will always grow up lonely, depressed, scared people together actually building up the evil-ness just because we loose the connection to eachother. To nature.By thinking that someone has come to life with a meaning of being anti-life as if they live only for a point of being "evil for evil's sake".
As a fellow detransitioner, it gives me great hope that this brave young woman has had the chance to share her story. x
good luck on recovering from that. it sounds really fucked up, the processes to "transition" are so brutal
Sorry to be super nosey but what made you detransition?
What’s your story? How are you doing. This is a safe space to share.
@@tiffanyandco4156 i'm 30 and i have two kids. the closest i ever got to transitioning was straightening my hair as an emo skateboarder at age 15. why u ask that lol
Good for you 💪 hang in there
Chloe, you are beautiful..please love yourself. I care. Very brave for speaking today. Thank you for hopefully saving others.
Oh my goodness Chloe, I am heartbroken and in tears for the lies and bodily struggles you went through and continue with. You are a beautiful, courageous and strong young lady. Thank you for sharing the truth and speaking out against this evil work. Happy Belated Birthday. The Lord sees you and knows who you are. Big hugs to you
These was a great speech. She shared all her testimony and made her plea in 5 minutes, that is incredible.
Thank you Chloe for your braveness. I wish you wouldnt have gone through all this..
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Lol bet she got paid alot by churches
Wow! I am 22 and still feel like a kid often times. How can a 12 year old make a decision that will change her whole life irreversibly? The parents that allow this are braindead💀
EDIT: After thinking about it and reading the replies. Shouldn't this surgery be ILLEGAL? Like how is this even allowed legally at that age, blows my mind
have you watched the video? the entire point was that the doctors suggested the operation because the parents thought their daughter would commit suicide if it wasn't done
@@alb1432 So? You just proved my point
@@alb1432The doctors are the ones that told the parents there child would commit suicide. The parents didn’t think anything until the doctors drilled that fear into their heads.
and the doctors are criminals
it's the system not the parents unfortunately. Kids are talked about this crap in school and slowly get brainwashed when they are only KIDS
Chloe I'm sorry for all you've been through. You're very brave to speak out. Thank you for trying to help others.
Somebody made a good point (forgive me for forgetting who so i can cite them) that when you ask a child who wants to be identified as a gender other than the one they were born with, they’ll tell you things like “well girls are treated more nicely” or “i want long hair like girls” “i want to play with the toys that girls play with” and vice versa. I personally wanted to be a girl as a young boy but realized i just wanted the long hair that girls had. Children will be children.
This woman is so brave to go against the mainstream lies and stand for truth. Hopefully this will help other kids to not have to go through this same hell.
Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned against the absolute reality of hell.
Jesus doesn’t only reference hell, he describes it in great detail. He says it is a place of eternal torment (Luke 16:23), of unquenchable fire (Mark 9:43), where the worm does not die (Mark 9:48), where people will gnash their teeth in anguish and regret (Matt. 13:42), and from which there is no return, even to warn loved ones (Luke 16:19-31). He calls hell a place of “outer darkness” (Matt. 25:30), comparing it to “Gehenna” (Matt. 10:28), which was a trash dump outside the walls of Jerusalem where rubbish was burned and maggots abounded. Jesus talks about hell more than he talks about heaven, and describes it more vividly. There’s no denying that Jesus knew, believed, and warned about the absolute reality of hell
CAUSE YOU GUYS REJECT JESUS YOU WILL FOLLOW THE PATH OF DESTRUCTION SIN CAUSES, JESUS GODS SON TOLD US THAT SIN CAUSES DEATH, THE BIBLE ALSO SAYS FOR THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH! NOT ONLY THIS BUT JESUS COMMANDS US TO BE HOLY OTHERWAYS WE CANT SEE GOD! IF WE WILL ABIDE IN OUR SINS WE WILL ENDUP IN THE ETERNAL DEATH (HELL!) WICH AFTER WE REBELLED AGAINST GOD GOD CURSED US WITH!, GOD SEND JESUS TO BE SACRIFICED FOR YOUR SINS TO MAKE A WAY TO BE SET FREE, AND GAIN ETERNAL LIFE, AFTER 3 DAYS AND NIGHTS GOD RAISED JESUS FROM THE DEATH, JESUS IS ALIVE, WHY DOES THIS HAPPEN? WELL THE WORLD IS BAD ENOUGH CAUSE OF OUR REBELLION, STOP REBELLING IT WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE WORSE! ABIDE IN THE WORD OF GOD! BIBLE!
@@johanneshartman4618Nobody wants to hear the whole entire bible man.. I agree that gender change is bad but please don’t flood the comment section with your holy book where there are other people from different places.
@@johanneshartman4618Jesus was LGBTQ+ 😂
@@daghul4785 Which tumblr-blog imparted that nugget of wisdom onto you :D ?
I remember when I had puberty I hated the way my boobs moved and bought boob bands to flatten my chest. I was also insecure of my body and growing curves that I started hunching my back, wearing oversized tees and acting manly. I soon went over that phase and today I like wearing skirts and blouses. I resonate so much with this speaker it’s unfortunate that she grew up in a generation where nonsense like this is entertained
Thank you for sharing your experience. I think it's possible to allow teenagers/children to explore these things but not be coerced into permanent changes.
It is not nonsense, just because for most people its a phase doesnt mean there are no trans people. But normally a therapy and an expert can help see the difference.
@@Sirius16161 delusional😭God bless you😭
That doesn’t make you trans, Einstein.
@@dragonemery I think that's her point like the person in the video.
The fact that this conversation is even being had makes me feel like I am in an alternate reality. Never did I expect in my wildest dreams that adults would be doing this to children with the consent and assistance of the government. This should be the worst kind of child abuse imaginable and all those involved in doing these operations to children should be jailed.
What a message!!! Full of truth & courage. Thank you for sharing your experience and humbly affirming that you were just going through a rite of passage that all teenagers will go through as well. Thank you for voicing the truth about the lie. God bless you!
EVERYONE SHOULD HEAR THIS!
Thank you Chloe! ❤
I don't understand how people can see something like this, and get angry at her, or not see what's wrong with gender affirmation care. It's truly terrible
Because they're among the biggest hypocrites on the entire planet. They are filled with hatred, murder, are volatile, and mentally unstable.
Please stop using their language, there is nothing "gender affirming" about this
It's evil in an evil country.
@@Memphian1000 I know right, it's the exact opposite
It's because the queer movement is a cult and acts like a cult, and so blames the people for leaving to cult, and not the cult itself.
Maybe instead of taking her daughter to a medical doctor, they really should have taken her to a therapist? There's no doubt that some doctors and surgeons will sell gender reaffirming treatments and surgeries purely for monetary gain and without caring about the patients/victims. The easiness with which all that happened to her is a problem, especially at such a young age.
But for every one of these detransition cases, there's at least five cases where the gender dysphoria wasn't misdiagnosed and where the treatments helped the patients live a better life.
Of course they took her to a therapist. The therapist set them on this path.
I love how she is putting the reality out as it is. I lost a friend to suicide because of his gender switch. Mainly because he only learned that he can’t have children after the damage was already done. But I think if society wouldn’t have pushed him so far as to go through with the operation despite him questioning if he’s doing the right thing, then he might still be alive.
I myself was always a tomboy and sometimes dressed up as a boy, but I would never have chosen to switch my gender just because of that.
So brave to speak out at the cruelty that is this ideological cult. Thousands of detransitioners in a similar place and everyone of them suffering like Chloe. What the hell is wrong with this world when our most precious children are used in medical experiments. This has got to end and those responsible made to answer.
the problem isn't that is what done to us. It the way media has shown the message. 5 years ago trans was accepted, almost encouraged by everyone in the youtube videos. So many did this 'changes' or did it to their children. Now 5 years later we don't look at it the same say. it should stop. we're sorry we told you the wrong information. Instead its lots of hate and disgust thrown at transgendered people from the public, the public see teens that transitioned years ago as the worst people on the world, when in fact just 4 years ago it was accepted.
Instead of taking a stand, and inform people like Chole does and inform others. We attack the ones who been targeted and bully them on the media, in the public, it is children you bully, remember that.
Take a stand against the medical practice and unlawful methods and surgery, and drugs medical professionals persuade children & parent to use. and treat your victims with care and respect too. This will help both sides.
As example, in my country, the ruling how medicine & treatment giving to people suffering from "gender dysphoria" has complete changed. Doctors aren't allowed to give drugs, or advice of transcare. Instead they look at these people as any patients and try to treat the things they're really suffering from.
Why can't america follow suit? and just change the core of the problem, and not fight the victims with their fist and words?
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If for instance, Chole hadn't got "such fame" or been taking care by a medical professional who seen her issues and given proper help. None of this would've happen to her.
They need to find the people who started this false science that spread thru the medical community and prosecute them and jail them, suspend their license and take all of their monet abd possesions away.
@@somerandomchannel382 the issue is that for one kid like chloe, there is 99 ruined lives from the opposite experience. These testimonies are performance in the face of 100x more lives.
@@SomeKataI don’t believe that the children who are taking hormones and hormone blockers are going to be better off than if they are helped through the process of a changing body.
Womanhood used to be revered. Now it has become a sign of weakness to want to be a wife and mother.
@@Famr4evr you can thank new wave feminism for that. Feminism has gone to a really dark place.
I went through the same discomfort when puberty hit me. I wasn’t ready for breasts and I wore my older cousins hoodies to hide my developing body and asked my mom to braid my hair in boy styles. I also hated getting stared at by creepy older men. After a few months I began to understand my breasts were normal and made for nourishing my future children. I came out of that tomboy stage and embraced my emerging womanhood. I’m glad my parents let me go through my tomboy phase until I had a better understanding of what what happening to my body. Like…. Going from playing with dolls and playing fairies to having to wear a bra was alot as a preteen. This makes a lot of sense and glad she’s speaking out
I agree, tomboy stages are normal, I went through mine. I wanted my parents to call me Alex and I joined the wrestling team. lol. Although I never wanted to physically change my body to be a male, I am glad there were no pressures like there are today on young people to change their sex. Today I am a happy mother of 5 married to a wonderful man. I think people should mature to adulthood before deciding on such permanent changes. They are still getting to know and discover themselves.
Yeah, I'm thirteen and I hate my breasts so I cover them up with a hoodie. I used to think that I wanted to be a boy but I know now that I am just a tomboy who has chest dysphoria and would like them removed someday but i still want to be a girl.
@@sageofsixnuggies Boobies are amazing. Live with them if you can. If you eventually decide that you can't, make that decision when you are much older. 13 is still very young. Don't decide on something that will affect you your entire life. Puberty is difficult, but everyone goes through it. It gets better.
This is something I cannot relate to. I couldn't wait to get breasts and my period. I remember walking around the house with a stuffed bra just so I could imagine my future breasts. I used to wear a pillow under my shirt to mimic pregnancy at 12! I couldn't wait to become a woman. I wonder what creates these differences between us?
@@bsg4338 well…. I went from a training bra to a full C-cup and it attracted a lot of old man creeps. That’s what made it so uncomfortable
Wow! So sorry for your pain. I learned a lot from your testimony. You are a very brave woman and I’m proud of you!😊Keep speaking up because you are a beacon of hope!
Chloe, I hope you will come to know one day how beautiful you really are. You truly embody what it means to be a woman with your grace, strength, beauty, and compassion. You are so courageous for speaking up on this issue despite the pain it clearly causes you. Thank you so much.
If she ever sees this comment I want her to know that she is beautiful, strong and brave. I applaud her for speaking out to help other children not have to go through this pain. ❤️
Absolutely. She is beautiful. I hate that she went through this torture. I'm grateful that she is wiling to share in attempts to prevent others from making this mistake.
Absolutely heartbreaking. These so called medical officials should be put in prison for what they are doing to these kids and their families.
In US, medical system is a business. It doesn’t matter that you’re too young to fully understand what such a heavy procedure will permanently do to your body. They wanna bill you pills and surgery. « wanna be a boy?. Sure thing!!. Hell I can turn you into whatever you whant!. You’re 11?. Don’t worry about that! » of course they don’t tell you that you will not be a real boy, cause that would scare you away from giving them money. The right thing to do would be to make it illegal to perform sex change on minors.
Parents too
The parents leave it up the medical professionals thinking that what they were told about the child committing suicide if they didn’t transition to be true. They shouldn’t be blamed if they cared this much, but only forgiven.
Not only put them in jail. Also put all those blockers and hormones to them too and for ever!
@@user-sw2wv1zx1t That is the biggest argument against Democracy ever. People are literally too stupid to make decisions for the most part. They need to be told to do, and when to do. That's why Putin will win in the end.
The parents are mostly at fault here. If a "doctor" told me that my daughter needs to take hormone blockers because of a stupid teenage phase, something everyone has gone through in their lives,
that "doctor" would need an actual doctor after I was done with them.
Wow what a powerful message! You are a very brave woman and I agree with you 100%. I wish you all the best and hope that you find peace within yourself ❤
Chole is a Hero. Her story is powerful.
That man on the panel said he "transitioned" at 35.
So he/she whatever had already had the body to grow naturally. Than as a 35 years old made a decision.
Not being pushed into something at 12 like Chole!
You can only go through puberty once, stoping it, altering it can damage bodies permanently.
This is sad, and sick and profit driven and needs to stop.
where is Angelina Jolie, Brad Pitt and Shiloh Jolie-Pitt (17) ? that couple did damages too
Shiloh entire childhood is in suits and boy clothes. and as a teen she is in hot shorts and dresses.
Chloe is 19 that the same age range. noway her parents did not take the lead from celebs
She isn't a hero. She's a person with profound regret and there is nothing heroic about it.
She is doing to the gender affirming care medical industry what she did to normal everyday people like you and I when the world told her that transitioning is wrong: She is trying to shut them down. I have been called an "intolerant bigot" for rallying against this stuff. I didn't know that the secret for my beliefs to be respected was to chop my balls off. This female gets no sympathy from me.
@cinnamonstar808 not quite the same thing. Letting your daughter wear traditionally male clothes and use short haircuts is not the same as mutilating a child's body with medicine and surgery. The fact that Shiloh is wearing more feminine clothes now is the entire point. She has the ability to change her mind because no permanent damage was done.
came from youtube recommend because i requested google to suggest videos opposite of my views (currently on english college class as a freshman, i am doing this to ensure that i hear the full perspective of the critics before entering the discussion; as a way of supplemental learning for the class)
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You’re so brave, Chloe! God bless you on this healing journey. Please keep sharing your sorry. It’s NORMAL to be uncomfortable during puberty. Puberty is not an option. It’s part of the human experience.
Please let me be your final warning... Children should be the only protected class in our societies. These doctors need to be locked in
I think they should be "transitioned
@@josephbloggs163 They should be punish, but you don't solve a wrong by another wrong
Her parents should be locked in. They wouldn’t do anything without their permission.
Whoever the "medical professional" is that told her parents that they could have a dead kid or a "trans" kid should be named. It's time to start naming names.
@@zeyseventhey were told their kid would kill herself, so what could they have done?
This gives me goosebumbs. She is so brave for speeking up. What she went through is insane, and it is horrorfying to think about how many more kids are going through the exact same thing right now, because this is getting more and more popular. 💔
For a trans person puberty is the consequence of being born with a birth defect in your sexual chromosomes that causes a sex organ structure of one biological sex and a brain structure that is more similar to the opposite sex’s (aka existing as a trans-person)
Therefore, the natural puberty needs to be blocked in a trans person and they need to be given cross sex hormones alongside it to go through the puberty of their opposite biological sex to match the brain structure hardwired for a body of the literal opposite sex.
I can’t change that, you can’t change that and no movement in society can change that biology.
That's very interesting. However, how can one know that's the case and not something more related to the feeling of inadequacy, or neurodivergence, typical of a teenager? Not being hostile - I'm just wondering how one can establish with absolute certainty that is the consequence of a biological defect rather than a perhaps a temporary phase
@@theeperson3764 detrans deserve a voice too. Let them speak stop making it all about your opinion
They aren’t, detransitioning is rare, you can’t use the less than 1% against the 99% and act like they’re the majority.
@@theeperson3764I'm actually looking at the "born into the wrong body" thing in a critical way. Who's telling people that the problem's indeed in the body, and not in the brain?
God bless you,Chloe! You are a Hero! You are speaking up for those victims who don't yet realize what a deep pit they have gotten themselves into, I applaud your bravery and sense of morality that wants to inform innocent, children who are getting sucked into this Hell never realizing the full extent of what will happen to them. A Hell they can never fully escape once they go there. I pray for your healing from this experience, and that God will stand beside you in your journey to help others, and speak sanity where insanity is running rampant! You are not a monster as you say you sometimes feel, You are still a beautiful woman, inside and out!! ( I'd like to add to that last statement, as I looked you up on google......You are a VERY beautiful woman! )
Congratulations on your bravery in speaking and having begun to recover your normality. Well spoken. I wish you happiness!
These people must be prosecuted and locked up for crimes against humanity
They won't until society wakes up from their current delusions
Hopefully, all parents and medical and schools where a trans child k*ll themselves will be prosecuted too.
@MrCine4d if trans kid are committing suicide its the people who told them to go trans’ fault
@@ryanfraser1131 no one told them to go trans, trans identity exist since the dawn of time. Crack a book.
@@MrCine4d you talking about them priests that butchered themselves? Was a cult then, is a cult now I guess. Funny that in humanity no matter how weird, there’s a group out there that practices it. Pedo rings, trans rings, cannibals, whatever it is, it exists. Some freaks even eat their own feces.
Crazy world.
Omg...this has me in tears...the pain, the emtion in her voice...i have never heard so powerful a testimony. Please, please listen to her. Dont any of you remember puberty? The confusion, the ups and downs emotionally, the questions that don't have immediate answers because your mind was flooded with changing body, thought and hormones? Its time we begin to listen, to hear our children's confusion and tackle it for what it truly is...growth, maturing and trying so damned hard to find their own place inside of themselves as well as in the world.
It is truly sad and captures your heart. I think we have done immeasurable damage to a large population of children and sadly, it's going to continue until laws are passed to protect children.
My heart goes out to you young lady. You’re very brave. God Bless you for speaking out. Much love…
I'm so sorry she didn't get the proper help she needed, and I'am so proud of her/him for coming forward about her mistake and hopes to help others from making the same mistake. The parents need to be more involved in their childrens lives and listen more, watch for signs at all times if they notice any slight change...address it !
Salutes.
Testimony like this needs to be heard on national TV more often.
Mainstream media will never cover this cause they support it. They support this evil.
As a transgender adult, I stand by this message. Transitioning is a huge decision and it’s one that can only be made as an adult, after years of therapy. The fact is that even if a child does actually turn out to still be transgender as an adult, it still doesn’t mean they can consent to sterilizing themselves at age 13. Their brains are simply not mature enough to properly comprehend the long term risks. I wish more people in our community would condemn what’s being done to kids because I believe it hurts the progress of those who are actually transgender.
To the general public, this is all I and many others ask of you: please understand that there are so many of us out there who don’t condone this. Despite what the media would have you believe, the vast majority of us understand that we can’t change our biology and just want to be left alone so we can live relatively normal lives. You can recognize that being transgender is a real, scientifically substantiated medical condition while also understanding that transitioning is no decision a child can make.
Really agree : the progress of understanding transgender as a humanity fact is blocked with this non-sense of medical treatment for children.
As you say, years of therapy and capacity to understand the consequences should be the basis before any medical treatment.
I really don't understand how doctors can do that to children.
Hi from France
I know this is thrown around loosely all the time but you really are brave to say this. The backlash on the internet can be really nasty and doxxing is becoming more common. As a GNC woman who thought she was a boy as a kid, I'm so happy I wasn't on social media to have some external influence determine the trajectory of my life. Puberty for girls is hard. Its so hard and breeds insecurity, but you overcome it just like every other woman has in times past. The ones who actually have gender dysphoria, like you, will be apparent after therapy and constant questioning.
Very much agree with you.
Unfortunately, transgenderism is also becoming a fad among tweens and teens, where they will claim to be transgender because it makes them seem or feel special. There are also communities online that target lonely, confused, disaffected, or outcast youths and convince them that they are trans and shower them praise for going down that path.
I agree. Therapy works if anyone is interested in my message.
"You can recognize that being transgender is a real, scientifically substantiated medical condition while also understanding that transitioning is no decision a child can make." Scientific? The medical professionals mentioned did not seem to have done the transitioning scientifically, can you please tell me how it should have been done scientifically so that she should have been "helped"?
What a very brave and courageous young woman, to share her own heartbreaking life’s experience with many. I believe that we must Never affirm that our children and grandchildren are anything different than what our loving Creator God made them to be. To do so would be to claim that God makes mistakes and wishes us to suffer for them. God never makes mistakes. He has made our children beautiful in their rightful form/ in His own image and likeness. What we can do when we see them struggling is love them, be there for them and get them sound medical and mental treatment that will help them grow into the fully mature and unique person that they were made to be. Our Prayers and unchanging love play a vital role in helping these loved ones of ours become healthy, contented people, grateful to our Heavenly Father and to the people who truly care. This young lady will remain in my prayers of gratitude because of her courage .🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️🌟
I'm so glad I grew up in the 80s and 90s. This is so horrific. I never thought I'd hear conversations about how many genders, what is a woman, preferred pronouns, and mutilating kids.
I almost went through with the idea of transitioning. I always thought that Im better as a guy than a girl. After one huge heartbreak from an ex-gf, I decided to take a break from being lesbian - took a lot ofnyime to evaluate my life and friends - and decided to try and embrace my feminity. I cut many friendships and stopped hanging out in lgbtq establishments. I focused on my career and waited patiently for my hair to get longer. BEST DECISION I MADE. Apparently, I am beautiful inside and out. That being a woman has its pros and cons and I felt free from lying about my name and gender. I am a female human being. Fast forward in time, now as a first-time mom, wife to an adorable dorky husband, a woman of faith - I'm living the best time of my life. I can't thank God enough for being in my life. And I thank my ex gf for the break up that set me up on this path. People change their minds and hearts with enough time and evaluation. What more with kids? I wish detransitioners peace and blessings.
So happy for you 👏 👏
Fantastic. Just accept yourself, love who you are. People are born ugly or beautiful, people are born poor or rich, people are born with a gender. Just live the life with tools you have received and make the best out of it.
Wow this is an amazing testimony!!
Thank you for sharing your amazing testimony!
You are an amazing person ❤️❤️❤️
This makes me nearly tear up, I don’t care what a fully grown adult wants to do with themselves …I care about the children
That’s how it starts. Adults doing what they want and then push it to kids. It doesn’t matter. It needs to stop. Both adults and especially kids.
@@chydi10How could you stop a full grown adult from taking their own decisions, without interfering in their personal freedoms?
i have seen Chloe Talk before and i saw her interview with with Jordan Peterson , She Is Strong And Brave , She Has my Respect too Makes me cry every time i hear her speak out about the pain she is Still going through ,
What about the children who feel the same way about their bodies but are actually trans and want the treatment? Many trans adults that were unable to transition as youth struggle more with gender dysphoria because they look less like the gender they identify with. Oddly enough there is more transphobia against those who don’t pass as cis than there us for those who can easily pass as cis. So they end up being treated poorly by the same people who prevented them from doing something about it when they were able to.
The same reason this is tragic for this girl, it is tragic for trans teens to not be allowed gender reaffirming care. You don’t need to choose which kids to care about. You just need a better system and barriers in place that prevent misdiagnosis which is pretty rare. Those who regret transitioning as youth are the minority because most genuinely are trans.
@@rafaellarena If someone wants to mutilate their own body then that's their choice, but medical professionals should not be assisting them with drugs or surgery. People with gender dysphoria need psychological treatment.
As part of my grieving process, I've been listening to these stories. I'm grieving because my friend's daughter, who decided to transition to male at the age of three, just passed away the other day at 11 years old from a massive heart attack. I'm trying to make sense of it all, and I guess for me, this is the only way I can - by watching these videos and hearing what others are going through. I have no idea. At the age of three, my friend's daughter decided that she was male. I don't remember the exact age she started taking hormones, but I believe my friend felt like she was being supportive of her daughter and accepting of what the child wanted. I feel like that's where we go wrong. I feel like as adults, we need to be adults, not friends with our kids. If a child wanted a tattoo at 4 years old, you would make them wait until they were old enough. Why are tattoos not okay, but taking male hormones before a child is old enough to even understand their body is okay? It's really appalling to me; it's just so upsetting. And that's not the only friend I have with a transitioning child, and they're transitioning so young. Like you said, there's so much that gets taken away when you do that.
Doctors like the one who diagnosed her should be held accountable for the pain and suffering he put on her and her family. My heart goes out to you chloe and thank you for having the courage to tell every parent your message i just hope this opens everyones eyes and realize there is nothing wrong with our kids , there is only 2 genders and for the love of god let the kids grow up and then as adults they can make up there minds about there bodies and who they are. Doctors that would tell parents to do this to a child should be disbarred and never be able to do this to another child.
I am a 70 year old woman. Please do not think that this issue is one of these days only. I also went thru such emotions in my youth, but changing gender was not an option we had, thank goodness.
Now, I am still different. I am happily married, have 4 children and 6 grandchildren. I am still divinely different with much stronger ‘male’ tendencies and personality traits than ‘female’ tendencies. I have come to realise that the lessons I have learnt by accepting my ‘female’ gender has taught me things I never would have, had I been a male, and I am glad of this tho some of the lessons were brutal.
Puberty is a Bitch of a period, which I hated! I have only immense and intense sympathy for people undergoing pubescence in this era. But all teenagers must realise that every person older than themselves also went thru this torment, and somehow survived. Take heart, accept who you were born as, and then make the most of Life!🥰
We are all individuals and no one every feels the same, no matter how they appear.
@@myview5840 Regrettably we are supposed to ‘conform’ to whatever standards are currently in ‘fashion’. Remember the standards women have had to live by for hundreds of years? Owned by men, not entitled to vote, not entitled to own property, is the property of the man……and the list go,es on.
It concerns me that girls and boys are currently encouraged to alter their gender and yet when a true Hermaphrodite is born, this is also not accepted and the child is medically and physically mutilated, in order to Conform….
My deepest request is to just leave people alone! Surely parents also went thru the dilemmas that the daughter went thru? Why then did they make such decisions?
This world has truly become irrational
I bet you don’t accept gay people for who they are
Ditto...and that was beautiful
Hi Anita!
Thank you for your contribution.
If it is not too personal, can you expand further on the lessons you learnt from accepting your female gender?