The loneliest feeling is to be married with someone who doesn't love you and emotionally abuses you. It's a ghost of desire....not a relationship. It's just a legal trap. I am so much happier now on my own! I love my life. I never had a problem enjoying my own company before or after him. He missed out....I believe God sent me to help him and to love him and he fumbled it. Now...I am entertaining those who value me just as much as I value myself. However, you must value yourself.❤
It’s crazy how they are- then they want to call you crazy - and you find yourself confused. Like really ! I would never do what he did to me and others because I know he is a perpetrator and a jealous man - I’ve never met someone with such horrible behavior and he’s 55. That’s double cringe 😬.
It is beyond me why anyone would take pleasure in destroying someone they claim to have loved. There are no words….if you’ve survived narcissistic abuse you know how devastating it is. However, I decided he would never get the upper hand. Go NO CONTACT and get into counseling/trauma bond…you can heal and you will, walk away dearest, walk away. Ty Lee
Sometimes it’s so difficult to leave. Went I get discarded and he goes to the new supply, I mentally go no contact. But it’s like he knows when I am in a vulnerable position and need help because I don’t have anyone else to help me. So he comes back like “Johnny on the spot” with money for bills and rent because I’m a single mother and struggling with full time work because kids have to be in school and I have a cdl to drive buses but can only work if I have someone to watch my 9 & 7 year olds. So I cave. I know the lies and pretend to believe them just to get the money. So ashamed.
Worse is when you have something tragic like losing a job, worse a miscarriage and the narcissist yells at you not cry or be sad while they sit on the other side of the room smiling and scrolling on their phone. Never felt so homicidal in my life
Imagine getting pregnant, having a miscarriage, then finding out you have been getting cheated on and she's now pregnant. Here's the Big Wammy. He tells me well @ least she can carry a baby. Whew Lord!
@@Christy-jg7ur stay far far away from him.. what a evil man! You deserve so much better. Can you imagine him being a really father to anyone’s child? Poor woman and child!
@@rosierb852 my mom passed away and all he did was tell me what I didn’t do right and how I wasn’t there enough for her.. which wasn’t true.. he showed no compassion.. said you should loss a spouse and see how that feels,he’s a widower and thinks his pain is worse than anyone else’s. I wasn’t allowed to grieve or be sad.. he criticized me for not wanting to do anything and being depressed for a few weeks.. I had to fake feelings perky and up to make him feel good.
@@Christy-jg7ur unreal. How does he afford that many children? None my business but it’s not cheap! And how could he possibly be an attentive father? I imagine he’s a miserable person!
@ I’m aware, as I’ve had one against a different ex. I didn’t get adequate justice in that case either. I pressed charges against my most recent narcie ex. He’ll get locked up if he violates the order. I’m hoping jail will be a deterrent.
My ex narc has left me so broken. It's been a year that we've broken up but we remained messing around so this is its a new woman that he left me for, stared a relationship with and now she's pregnant. I can't lie it's hurtful, devasting. He admitted yesterday that he cheated, lied, and he got someone pregnant in the mist of it it. He spends days with me spending the night etc. But when I get this urge too ride by she's their. I finally decided that I needed too choose me & my son. Not me, my son, and this toxic being. He suggested counseling but then I looked @ one of Lee's videos and he said don't do it. I also remember a time him telling me that he has been to therapy but he was smarter than his therapist so more than likely he manipulated the damn therapist. I finally choose me. It's scary but I have too. I've lost so much weight, lost myself, my happiness, my life it seems like. He always tells me I left you better off than I found you amongst another of other things. Man! These people will leave you broken, devastated, and destroyed. & it's up too You too build yourself back up!
I didn't realize how jealous my ex was until I truly faced reality!! I was shocked how much he really deep down despised me. He was truly a Dr. Jeckl and Mr Hyde!!
Every time me and my son cried he smiled he relished it he loved seeing me in pain and now a year and 3 months later I am doing sooooooooo much better and now here he comes oh no baby
It’s like the Never Ending Story. They are full of nothing, and the nothing just wants to spread. They will spread the nothing to everyone, you, the children, everyone. Run, don’t walk, away.
I've told mine the same. I told him you get on some type of high seeing me out of control. He popped up and by the time he left. I threw a candle, broke my vase, some how slipped out the couch and ended my day @ the hospital. I don't care what he says. He loved seeing me spiral out of control. That gave him control
Not even separated 2.5 years and this will be his second Christmas with new woman, in public, with my kids 😳 yet I'm so broken I won't even look at a man. I'm in therapy and made a lot of progress, but he just walked straight into another relationship...
@MarkLupson-it6xu I half hope not to be honest, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. He's still crashing with his parents so when our divorce *finally* finalises (he's been holding it up every which way) I think he'll move straight in with her... Then she'll really see what he's like... Though I hope not for her children. And mine as they are now dragged around to hers most weekends...
Got tired of the mental abuse and games….didn’t realize he was a narcissist. This dude went back to an insecure supply from 1999 she let him come back…..just crazy until I told her he was still texting me. He’s crazy! Trying to stay connected.
They told me I was worthless, not good enough, stupid etc etc and yes it was my fault😂. Then wants to offer an olive branch after saying all kinds of traumatic things to someone they say they care about. SMH.
God said he sent his word (Jesus) to end oppression. To give us liberty and freedom from our oppressors. God explained how he is there when chaos is all around and he is where there is no light. We take no vengeance on a narcissist because we understand they oppress themselves and try to oppress the people around them. We walk on still waters away from chaos, they run into the middle of the storm. Let NO character flaw or personality disorder be your oppressor. Put the Chris Brown Duces up and don't look back! ❤Peace
Yeah. My exs current plan is to not tell new partners about his kids at all or anything about his exs... which is a recipe for disaster. Imagine dating someone for months and then finding out they used to be married for 30yrs, and have 4 kids, 3 with their ex-wife, one with the mistress who is the reason for the divorce. ...
I wish someone would help me. I am so alone and no one is here for for me. I am so far past broken 💔 I don't think I will ever make it out alive. Lately I wish it would just happen already. This is just too much. The pain is so overwhelming...he does everything he can to make my life harder. I lost 12 lbs in 4 days.
@@rebeccagowens518 you gotta help yourself first before someone can help you The first step is leaving him and give that love you’re pouring into him into your self second step is to read the Bible God him self with guide you and heal you
Thank You for that...Because my Narc mother always said to me well you, you, you always...I rather be that common denominator! I also believe my ex-husband tried to break me, like he broke his baby mother to the ground...I pray for her everyday now that I understand what she went through!!
He did not want me, so why would he care if someone else does. Stupid and cruel. I dumped him. Told me if I slept with someone from another race, he could no longer be my friend. I hate racists.
I hate racists as well. In my opinion racism is a symptom of narcissism, collective narcissism as these racist aren’t horrible to those of their own group. I walk away from people whole are racist, racism is an evil spirit. I don’t care what race they themselves are, just stay away from me.
Can you explain why narcissists need to keep on talking, acting like they helping or teaching something we already know, and me and my friend keep tryna teach him more and it just doesn't click in 🤔
Got tired of the mental abuse and games….didn’t realize he was a narcissist. This dude went back to an insecure supply from 1999 she let him come back…..just crazy until I told her he was still texting me. He’s crazy!
My narcissist spit in my face and called me derogatory names got in my face blocked the way for me to exit broke up everything in the home and when I shoved him and try to get away he got me arrested for the first time in my life I’m in trouble with the law when I told him I was done .
I wonder if it would make me a narcissist when I want kind of the opposite for the narc. I want her to do well with other people... but that is so she wont bother me in any kind of way. I like my peace and understanding these mindsets has me realize what a mistake it has been allowing her to be in my life. She tried to break me, but there's no way I would want her to try fix me after the bs she did.
Mine has been in my life for 10 years, only popping in 1-2 times a year, and this time stayed for a few months and ended things after I called him out on demeaning me and won't return my personal items. Then he pretended he didn't how to mail the items to me and I still haven't received them.. after he promised he would. since he wanted nothing to do with me anymore lol.. then why keep my items?!
Lmao he has three kids and married his third wife and destroyed everything he had. I aint the problem! The woman he married is a convicted felon! She killed someone and chopped up the body! Now they are married hahahah the narcissist and the psychopath! 😂😂😂😂 good luck to them!!! You cant make this stuff up!! I only feel bad for the kids!
Mine walked out of the icu after I had a stroke. We had been together for 16 years.when I got home from a nursing home 2years later he went to Panama.haven’t seen him other than what’s app in 5 years. I could care less. Ecstatic he’s gone!
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He told me he was going to break me. He didn’t, he made me stronger and brought me closer to God.!❤
The loneliest feeling is to be married with someone who doesn't love you and emotionally abuses you. It's a ghost of desire....not a relationship. It's just a legal trap. I am so much happier now on my own! I love my life. I never had a problem enjoying my own company before or after him. He missed out....I believe God sent me to help him and to love him and he fumbled it. Now...I am entertaining those who value me just as much as I value myself. However, you must value yourself.❤
Because they themselves and broken.
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They’re worse than broken. They’re smashed to smithereens. Can’t put that back together 😂😂😂
Man what!!!! Say that!👏🏾🙌🏾💪🏾
@@rosierb852On My Soul!💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
It’s crazy how they are- then they want to call you crazy - and you find yourself confused. Like really ! I would never do what he did to me and others because I know he is a perpetrator and a jealous man - I’ve never met someone with such horrible behavior and he’s 55. That’s double cringe 😬.
It is beyond me why anyone would take pleasure in destroying someone they claim to have loved. There are no words….if you’ve survived narcissistic abuse you know how devastating it is. However, I decided he would never get the upper hand. Go NO CONTACT and get into counseling/trauma bond…you can heal and you will, walk away dearest, walk away. Ty Lee
Sometimes it’s so difficult to leave. Went I get discarded and he goes to the new supply, I mentally go no contact. But it’s like he knows when I am in a vulnerable position and need help because I don’t have anyone else to help me. So he comes back like “Johnny on the spot” with money for bills and rent because I’m a single mother and struggling with full time work because kids have to be in school and I have a cdl to drive buses but can only work if I have someone to watch my 9 & 7 year olds. So I cave. I know the lies and pretend to believe them just to get the money. So ashamed.
I love being single and happy
Worse is when you have something tragic like losing a job, worse a miscarriage and the narcissist yells at you not cry or be sad while they sit on the other side of the room smiling and scrolling on their phone. Never felt so homicidal in my life
Imagine getting pregnant, having a miscarriage, then finding out you have been getting cheated on and she's now pregnant. Here's the Big Wammy. He tells me well @ least she can carry a baby. Whew Lord!
@@Christy-jg7ur stay far far away from him.. what a evil man!
You deserve so much better. Can you imagine him being a really father to anyone’s child? Poor woman and child!
This makes child number 8 for him.
@@rosierb852 my mom passed away and all he did was tell me what I didn’t do right and how I wasn’t there enough for her.. which wasn’t true.. he showed no compassion.. said you should loss a spouse and see how that feels,he’s a widower and thinks his pain is worse than anyone else’s. I wasn’t allowed to grieve or be sad.. he criticized me for not wanting to do anything and being depressed for a few weeks.. I had to fake feelings perky and up to make him feel good.
@@Christy-jg7ur unreal. How does he afford that many children? None my business but it’s not cheap! And how could he possibly be an attentive father? I imagine he’s a miserable person!
Not having closure is brutal.
My closure was, realizing he's a narc. There's so much to this that I wouldn't understand even if he told me.
My narc ex’s closure is about to be this restraining order✨. 🗣️STAY AWAY FROM ME🗣️‼️
@@kiasunray unfortunately the restraining order doesn’t always keep them away, it just made mine get more creative. 😣
@ I’m aware, as I’ve had one against a different ex. I didn’t get adequate justice in that case either. I pressed charges against my most recent narcie ex. He’ll get locked up if he violates the order. I’m hoping jail will be a deterrent.
My ex narc has left me so broken. It's been a year that we've broken up but we remained messing around so this is its a new woman that he left me for, stared a relationship with and now she's pregnant. I can't lie it's hurtful, devasting. He admitted yesterday that he cheated, lied, and he got someone pregnant in the mist of it it. He spends days with me spending the night etc. But when I get this urge too ride by she's their. I finally decided that I needed too choose me & my son. Not me, my son, and this toxic being. He suggested counseling but then I looked @ one of Lee's videos and he said don't do it. I also remember a time him telling me that he has been to therapy but he was smarter than his therapist so more than likely he manipulated the damn therapist. I finally choose me. It's scary but I have too. I've lost so much weight, lost myself, my happiness, my life it seems like. He always tells me I left you better off than I found you amongst another of other things. Man! These people will leave you broken, devastated, and destroyed. & it's up too You too build yourself back up!
I didn't realize how jealous my ex was until I truly faced reality!! I was shocked how much he really deep down despised me. He was truly a Dr. Jeckl and Mr Hyde!!
Every time me and my son cried he smiled he relished it he loved seeing me in pain and now a year and 3 months later I am doing sooooooooo much better and now here he comes oh no baby
It’s like the Never Ending Story. They are full of nothing, and the nothing just wants to spread. They will spread the nothing to everyone, you, the children, everyone. Run, don’t walk, away.
I told him those exact words, that he is trying to destroy me.
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I've told mine the same. I told him you get on some type of high seeing me out of control. He popped up and by the time he left. I threw a candle, broke my vase, some how slipped out the couch and ended my day @ the hospital. I don't care what he says. He loved seeing me spiral out of control. That gave him control
They are destroying you throughout the relationship.
Yup and he said that “no one is gonna believe you my reputation helps me get away with it” wow
Not even separated 2.5 years and this will be his second Christmas with new woman, in public, with my kids 😳 yet I'm so broken I won't even look at a man. I'm in therapy and made a lot of progress, but he just walked straight into another relationship...
Do not worry. He will do the same to her.
%100.
@MarkLupson-it6xu I half hope not to be honest, I wouldn't wish it on anyone. He's still crashing with his parents so when our divorce *finally* finalises (he's been holding it up every which way) I think he'll move straight in with her... Then she'll really see what he's like... Though I hope not for her children. And mine as they are now dragged around to hers most weekends...
I Have Faith God Will Redeem and Restore me
But I can absolutely tell you when you heal from the inside out there is no greater feeling of happiness
Got tired of the mental abuse and games….didn’t realize he was a narcissist. This dude went back to an insecure supply from 1999 she let him come back…..just crazy until I told her he was still texting me. He’s crazy! Trying to stay connected.
Survivor!!Im Living and Thriving!No More Toxicity!!🙏
Because if they break you they think no one else will want you.
Just crazy but definitely true just unfair just leave us alone you evil broken person
They told me I was worthless, not good enough, stupid etc etc and yes it was my fault😂. Then wants to offer an olive branch after saying all kinds of traumatic things to someone they say they care about. SMH.
I'm always the common denominator, I never go a long to get along 😂😂
God said he sent his word (Jesus) to end oppression. To give us liberty and freedom from our oppressors. God explained how he is there when chaos is all around and he is where there is no light. We take no vengeance on a narcissist because we understand they oppress themselves and try to oppress the people around them. We walk on still waters away from chaos, they run into the middle of the storm. Let NO character flaw or personality disorder be your oppressor. Put the Chris Brown Duces up and don't look back! ❤Peace
The problem with "I'm the only one who doesn't like him" is, I'm the only one who knows what he's really like.
What...no way....that's a shitty feeling....
You know that's not true
Yeah. My exs current plan is to not tell new partners about his kids at all or anything about his exs... which is a recipe for disaster. Imagine dating someone for months and then finding out they used to be married for 30yrs, and have 4 kids, 3 with their ex-wife, one with the mistress who is the reason for the divorce. ...
He feels like he made a mistake by sharing his life with me... and that he would have been better off if I only knew the fake him... 🙄
I wish someone would help me. I am so alone and no one is here for for me. I am so far past broken 💔 I don't think I will ever make it out alive. Lately I wish it would just happen already. This is just too much. The pain is so overwhelming...he does everything he can to make my life harder.
I lost 12 lbs in 4 days.
@@rebeccagowens518 you gotta help yourself first before someone can help you
The first step is leaving him and give that love you’re pouring into him into your self second step is to read the Bible God him self with guide you and heal you
Thank You for that...Because my Narc mother always said to me well you, you, you always...I rather be that common denominator! I also believe my ex-husband tried to break me, like he broke his baby mother to the ground...I pray for her everyday now that I understand what she went through!!
Yes. This is really a good question. To me this is the evil behavior and unacceptable
They just mad cuz you got away
He did not want me, so why would he care if someone else does. Stupid and cruel. I dumped him. Told me if I slept with someone from another race, he could no longer be my friend. I hate racists.
I hate racists as well. In my opinion racism is a symptom of narcissism, collective narcissism as these racist aren’t horrible to those of their own group. I walk away from people whole are racist, racism is an evil spirit. I don’t care what race they themselves are, just stay away from me.
@@Nancy-yu2zx because he knows you’re a good catch and can’t imagine you with another man! He knows you’re the best supply he’s ever had!
@@sherrislocumb9244 You are absolutely right. Best supply he ever had or ever will have. Thanks for the reminder.
Really Good Talk Lee!
My son is destroying the mother of my grandchild by manipulating a three year old to keep them trapped in an untenable situation……
Great video!🎉
Like that song back in the day by Mokenstef...."He's mine, you may have had him once but I got him all the time"🥴
Can you explain why narcissists need to keep on talking, acting like they helping or teaching something we already know, and me and my friend keep tryna teach him more and it just doesn't click in 🤔
Got tired of the mental abuse and games….didn’t realize he was a narcissist. This dude went back to an insecure supply from 1999 she let him come back…..just crazy until I told her he was still texting me. He’s crazy!
Am😊 cause I know I am a sexy woman and I thank God for me yet I know who truly appreciate me I know who i amazing
100% facts .
My narcissist spit in my face and called me derogatory names got in my face blocked the way for me to exit broke up everything in the home and when I shoved him and try to get away he got me arrested for the first time in my life I’m in trouble with the law when I told him I was done .
Ignore all the Nay-sayers Lee, your a good valiant Man, with a Great sense of humor!!!!💯💯💯💯🌟👑😇⭐
I wonder if it would make me a narcissist when I want kind of the opposite for the narc.
I want her to do well with other people... but that is so she wont bother me in any kind of way.
I like my peace and understanding these mindsets has me realize what a mistake it has been allowing her to be in my life.
She tried to break me, but there's no way I would want her to try fix me after the bs she did.
Mine has been in my life for 10 years, only popping in 1-2 times a year, and this time stayed for a few months and ended things after I called him out on demeaning me and won't return my personal items. Then he pretended he didn't how to mail the items to me and I still haven't received them.. after he promised he would. since he wanted nothing to do with me anymore lol.. then why keep my items?!
Why do you allow this? 10years? Go no contact, you want to waste your life being a slave to this person?
They are the ones who are and always will be broken!! Do you know what life will be like for them as they aged. You WILL BE SHOCKED 😲
She tried to break me, but she missed or miscalculated. Either way life is better now
Mines took pleasure in it too
Your intro music always kills me Lol like a movie or something
Lee why don't you make a video on why narcissist act like clowns 🤔
What they do not know is that God restores , renews , recompenses , re- aligns and rewrites the victims' life stories . . .
EGO! SMH
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Hes calling me and say hes in sickness and need me ,😅and i say IM not doctors if he happy with my friends so why he still think IM still care 😅
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Lmao he has three kids and married his third wife and destroyed everything he had. I aint the problem! The woman he married is a convicted felon! She killed someone and chopped up the body! Now they are married hahahah the narcissist and the psychopath! 😂😂😂😂 good luck to them!!! You cant make this stuff up!! I only feel bad for the kids!
Now that’s a scary pair‼️
That’s why you should never be jealous of the new supply. Look at what they get
Mine walked out of the icu after I had a stroke. We had been together for 16 years.when I got home from a nursing home 2years later he went to Panama.haven’t seen him other than what’s app in 5 years. I could care less. Ecstatic he’s gone!