Then basically all of them are for the streets…if she’s been gone for atleast a month, she slept with someone. Mine been doing that and called me from the ER and told me she got GW… 😬😬
No, when she ends it, regardless if she cheated or not, you don't take her back. If you take her back, it's only a matter of time before she breaks up again. 🤔 I got him once back. Why not a 2nd time? I learned this the hard way. The only thing women respect is a man who tells her NO, also during the relationship.
These are how narcissists try to reconnect because their ego will not allow them to give a person a sincere apology. Instead of apologizing for past pain they have caused you and admitting wrongdoing, they hope that their being nice now will come across as them changing, while they hope to avoid any mention of the terrible things they did to you in the past. Stay away from narcissists who can never take full ownership of bad things they have done.
My 18 year old son asked me " Dad I feel bad when I break up with a girl because they cry " Son dont feel bad, they are young and hot and will replace you within a heartbeat.
I'm sorry but a woman coming back to a man nowadays rarely happens. She gets on dating apps, she'll hook up with a new man the very same night. Don't believe me? Just go to any "ex back" TH-cam vids and look at the comments. 99% of them are men crawling back to women. Not the other way round. Once she breaks up with you, you know she's gone. Move on!
100% true. The best comfort is knowing the only Men pounding her don't give 2 $h!ts about her after they dump. and, you don't want that kind of vv0man in your life anyway. Her odds of being infected go up 62%. Because they can't resist the feeling of being accepted. Even if it's only for 3-4 20 minute romps.
This totally nails how relationships and reconnections can go down. You captured that weird, emotional dance people do after a breakup, you know, the little tests and the mixed signals. It's also relatable how you weighed the pros and cons of maybe getting back together versus slamming the door shut. Your personal story really adds something special-it's raw, real, and super relatable. It's clear you're speaking from experience, which makes your perspective hit home even harder. And the way you broke down the "no contact" thing? Spot on. It shows how actions can speak louder than words, especially in those situations. This kind of insight feels like advice from a friend, you know? straight-up, no BS.
What they don't tell you about getting your ex back is they still have bad memories and will hold that over your head and do stuff behind your back trying to even the score
Yes, she reached out again, but I declined. It turned out 1 of her so-called friends influenced her. That's what she told me in (crocodile) tears? Who knows 🤷♂️, but for me, it was over. I also went no-contact. In my opinion, she was not sincere, cause if she really cared, she wouldn't have broken up in the 1st place. Don't take an ex back, guys. There's always a reason why she breaks up and why she reaches out again, and it's not because she loves you!!!
Few men really care at this point. Most men don't care for the overly desirous, emotionally warped or nagging displays that they all too commonly see. They have things to do. Peace is the purest currency :)
Does tjis no contract really work? My ex is pergent aswell and the last 3 weeks.is giving me.nothing even around my son. Which i found.out though a Facebook friend didnt even tell me.
It's been my personal experience it's been more than a month and I haven't contacted her, she unblocked me and started liking my post too but I don't think so she feels anything towards me anymore or wants to be with me like c'mon it's been more than a month it would be foolish to think a woman won't loose her feelings in that long of a time, they loose feelings very quickly
Why would men take advice from a lesbian? Especially when she's contradicting what she said 2 years ago. Which was ignore likes or comments on social media unless they make it clear they miss you.
Me and my ex both rushed after 4 years... We spend together one month trying to work it out.. hang out, slept together but couldn't make love because of some toxic energy... I broke the first no contact contract.. Second time i told her we'll keep space but then the next morning she said goodbye.. I missed her and i know she does too I just don't know what to do to make her mine again..
I’m in one of those she backed off situations. Wouldn’t say we broke it off. I feel like I broke no contact by posting an Instagram story to see if she’d view it. I don’t post much so it was probably pretty obvious. Oh well
I think you offer valuable insights and I agree w a lot that you say, but in lots of your videos you say that you should probs not get back w an x. I think this perspective is way too black and white. Even if someone was toxic or made mistakes, people can change and grow into a better person. Sometimes people need to grow apart and work on themselves and the problems that lead to breakup so that they don’t repeat or had other issues that are being resolved in the meantime.
@@ironclad452 Igbt women voting kamala harris because they support trans men in women's sports because they think men & women are the same. they are not the same furthermore, getting dating advice from a lesbian woman (this woman) is dubious. she thinks the dynamics between 2 lesbians are the same as the dynamics between a heterosexual couple, it is not the same.
@@Tommykey07 actually her sexual orientation is not irrelevant. the dynamic between 2 women is NOT the same as a heterosexual couple. only feminists & woke people would like you to think that a lesbian woman is the same as a man, it is not. the hormones aren't the same, the sexual desires aren't at the same level. men are far more horny & sex is far more important to them which changes the whole dynamic as far as how women use men's sexual desires to manipulate men & get what they want. 2 lesbians both have PMS & they argue & fight more because of it. also when its two women, who is the "provider" ? thats another different dynamic. its not the same bro. take a lesbian's dating advice to men with a grain of salt.
@Tommykey07 actually her sexual orientation is not irrelevant. the dynamic between 2 women is NOT the same as a heterosexual couple. only feminists & woke people would like you to think that a lesbian woman is the same as a man, it is not. the hormones aren't the same, the sexual desires aren't at the same level. men are far more horny & sex is far more important to them which changes the whole dynamic as far as how women use men's sexual desires to manipulate men & get what they want. 2 lesbians both have PMS & they argue & fight more because of it. also when its two women, who is the "provider" ? thats another different dynamic. its not the same bro. take a lesbian's dating advice to men with a grain of salt.
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The only condition you accept your ex back if there's nobody else involved, if she already slept with someone, she is for the street
Then basically all of them are for the streets…if she’s been gone for atleast a month, she slept with someone. Mine been doing that and called me from the ER and told me she got GW… 😬😬
@Croy617 😅😂 That's great man. You dodged a bullet 🎉
@@joshuamac6302 lmao, only thing is she’s also the mother of my daughter. I guess hoes will be hoes?
No, when she ends it, regardless if she cheated or not, you don't take her back. If you take her back, it's only a matter of time before she breaks up again. 🤔 I got him once back. Why not a 2nd time? I learned this the hard way. The only thing women respect is a man who tells her NO, also during the relationship.
@@yvesgysel9834 If you tell her no you're not sleeping with her, which means she doesn't respect you. If you're fucking then she respects you.
*When a woman realizes she's lost you, the shift in her feelings is often a mix of regret and realization.*
If a woman backs off or disappears, that's an ex. You're no longer in a romantic relationship.
These are how narcissists try to reconnect because their ego will not allow them to give a person a sincere apology. Instead of apologizing for past pain they have caused you and admitting wrongdoing, they hope that their being nice now will come across as them changing, while they hope to avoid any mention of the terrible things they did to you in the past. Stay away from narcissists who can never take full ownership of bad things they have done.
My 18 year old son asked me " Dad I feel bad when I break up with a girl because they cry "
Son dont feel bad, they are young and hot and will replace you within a heartbeat.
Don't take anyone back, often times nothing has changed, nothing...
I'm sorry but a woman coming back to a man nowadays rarely happens. She gets on dating apps, she'll hook up with a new man the very same night. Don't believe me? Just go to any "ex back" TH-cam vids and look at the comments. 99% of them are men crawling back to women. Not the other way round. Once she breaks up with you, you know she's gone. Move on!
100%
100% true. The best comfort is knowing the only Men pounding her don't give 2 $h!ts about her after they dump. and, you don't want that kind of vv0man in your life anyway. Her odds of being infected go up 62%.
Because they can't resist the feeling of being accepted. Even if it's only for 3-4 20 minute romps.
This totally nails how relationships and reconnections can go down. You captured that weird, emotional dance people do after a breakup, you know, the little tests and the mixed signals. It's also relatable how you weighed the pros and cons of maybe getting back together versus slamming the door shut. Your personal story really adds something special-it's raw, real, and super relatable. It's clear you're speaking from experience, which makes your perspective hit home even harder. And the way you broke down the "no contact" thing? Spot on. It shows how actions can speak louder than words, especially in those situations. This kind of insight feels like advice from a friend, you know? straight-up, no BS.
What they don't tell you about getting your ex back is they still have bad memories and will hold that over your head and do stuff behind your back trying to even the score
Yes, she reached out again, but I declined. It turned out 1 of her so-called friends influenced her. That's what she told me in (crocodile) tears? Who knows 🤷♂️, but for me, it was over. I also went no-contact. In my opinion, she was not sincere, cause if she really cared, she wouldn't have broken up in the 1st place. Don't take an ex back, guys. There's always a reason why she breaks up and why she reaches out again, and it's not because she loves you!!!
Truth
Few men really care at this point. Most men don't care for the overly desirous, emotionally warped or nagging displays that they all too commonly see. They have things to do. Peace is the purest currency :)
Amen brother, peace is all I'm after. After the last mess I sucked into all I won't is peace
A woman who tests the waters first is a coward and lacks decisiveness and directness. It shows a complete lack of effectively communicating her needs.
Does tjis no contract really work? My ex is pergent aswell and the last 3 weeks.is giving me.nothing even around my son. Which i found.out though a Facebook friend didnt even tell me.
It's been my personal experience it's been more than a month and I haven't contacted her, she unblocked me and started liking my post too but I don't think so she feels anything towards me anymore or wants to be with me like c'mon it's been more than a month it would be foolish to think a woman won't loose her feelings in that long of a time, they loose feelings very quickly
I told my ex I was done. She has been seeing someone. Any chance of us getting back together is gone?
You are such a great woman. I got your book. Thanks for your help.
Why would men take advice from a lesbian?
Especially when she's contradicting what she said 2 years ago.
Which was ignore likes or comments on social media unless they make it clear they miss you.
Me and my ex both rushed after 4 years...
We spend together one month trying to work it out.. hang out, slept together but couldn't make love because of some toxic energy...
I broke the first no contact contract..
Second time i told her we'll keep space but then the next morning she said goodbye..
I missed her and i know she does too
I just don't know what to do to make her mine again..
she was never yours, it was just your turn
Grow some balls. Move on.
My ex just started parking her car nearly next to me after a while of breaking up hahah
Thanks with much love (heart)
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I’m in one of those she backed off situations. Wouldn’t say we broke it off. I feel like I broke no contact by posting an Instagram story to see if she’d view it. I don’t post much so it was probably pretty obvious. Oh well
Should we accept when she reaches out again?
No bro! If she would have found you enough attractive she wouldn't have left.
She is just alone and bored, don't be a life jacket
no. just string her along, give her hope of reconciliation & give her 1 word answers like they do to men.
@@evrenc.2874don't be a life jacket. That's golden
No way, bro. She wants your wallet back.
@@yvesgysel9834 Don't pay for sex yo.
This girl literally just recycles Corey Wayne
I think you offer valuable insights and I agree w a lot that you say, but in lots of your videos you say that you should probs not get back w an x. I think this perspective is way too black and white. Even if someone was toxic or made mistakes, people can change and grow into a better person. Sometimes people need to grow apart and work on themselves and the problems that lead to breakup so that they don’t repeat or had other issues that are being resolved in the meantime.
Vulture.
we're in Trump's America now. tbh idc how a woman feels.
How is Trump relevant to this topic in any way?
@@ironclad452 Igbt women voting kamala harris because they support trans men in women's sports because they think men & women are the same. they are not the same
furthermore, getting dating advice from a lesbian woman (this woman) is dubious. she thinks the dynamics between 2 lesbians are the same as the dynamics between a heterosexual couple, it is not the same.
I support this lmao
Trust me, I’m sure they feel the same way about you.
@@vv0sans693the problem is they’ve always felt this way about men lmao.
You are also a woman
your ex was 'she' ?? Are you lesbian?
then why you're giving advice to men specifically
Because her mentor is Coach Corey Wayne.
Because she can still give a woman's perspective. Her sexual orientation is irrelevant.
@@Tommykey07 actually her sexual orientation is not irrelevant. the dynamic between 2 women is NOT the same as a heterosexual couple. only feminists & woke people would like you to think that a lesbian woman is the same as a man, it is not. the hormones aren't the same, the sexual desires aren't at the same level. men are far more horny & sex is far more important to them which changes the whole dynamic as far as how women use men's sexual desires to manipulate men & get what they want. 2 lesbians both have PMS & they argue & fight more because of it. also when its two women, who is the "provider" ? thats another different dynamic. its not the same bro. take a lesbian's dating advice to men with a grain of salt.
@Tommykey07 actually her sexual orientation is not irrelevant. the dynamic between 2 women is NOT the same as a heterosexual couple. only feminists & woke people would like you to think that a lesbian woman is the same as a man, it is not. the hormones aren't the same, the sexual desires aren't at the same level. men are far more horny & sex is far more important to them which changes the whole dynamic as far as how women use men's sexual desires to manipulate men & get what they want. 2 lesbians both have PMS & they argue & fight more because of it. also when its two women, who is the "provider" ? thats another different dynamic. its not the same bro. take a lesbian's dating advice to men with a grain of salt.
But she is dating a girl instead of guy, isn't lesbian sexual dynamics different & they look for different things in realtionship