If an overweight person is at the gym, that means they're actually trying to do something about it! Don't put someone down who's trying to make an effort.
Spacemonster Killer 1) no it’s not 2) it’s no ones business what you look like 3) if they are at the gym they are already trying to make change why continue to shame them
@@julialeland4387 I happen to appreciate the positive aspects of body shaming, but even if you don't, why make a spectacle of yourself? Why not just mind your own business and let it go?
Spacemonster Killer what are you talking about?? People should just mind their own business and stop worrying about what other people look like. The body shammer is the one making a “spectacle” of the situation.
As a skinny guy that's putting on some weight it's not sad. If your too skinny your unhealthy if your too fat your unhealthy. I'm not gonna cry about it do what you gotta do to be healthy or suck it up and own up to being unhealthy. You shouldn't be made fun of but don't be happy that your unhealthy
@@ahmedhajjaj5121 no ones doing that, you're making up situations in your head that have nothing to do with what OP said. Stop derailing the conversation
@@epicstyle160 allot of people say you should be happy at any size and I think that inspires laziness. You should only be happy if you're in the process of changing that aka going to the gym or eating more.
It is realistic. This kind of talk happens a lot, maybe more quietly, but some people are very rude and mean. I've seem childish behavior like this from grown adults who should know better.
@@SportsBossMan Yep, there's some people that don't grow up. I have zero booty, and a group of women were mocking me for it. And I'm a guy so I was like "wtf what are you doing? You don't have anything better to do?" I think they might have been drinking? (im autistic and very bad at telling if people have been drinking) They called me dorito man and I must admit that was pretty funny but still what the hell?
Oh i would like to. I used to be the mean guy back in High School, but then i stopped. I miss my stupid old me haha, i would be nice feeling being a bully again
Hahahaha same here!! But to the other people its called acting.. If you listen closely, they only taller about the yoga pants without saying the word fat but they did say, skinny 🤔
I love that they showed both sides of this. I've had problems with my weight ever since I had my daughter, no matter how much i exercise or what i eat, and I've been given a lot of crap for it even from family. Meanwhile my younger brother has a crazy fast metabolism and for most of his life was super skinny no matter how much he ate and he was severely bullied for it when we were kids. This stuff really does happen to people on both ends of the scale. Kudos to every person that defended the people being bullied in this vid, we need more people like them 👏👏👏
to be honest i don't really see the point in calling people names over their weight. it's not nice and i don't think people realize just how important someones mental health is in trying to loose weight and just in general. that's probably the reason why you're having such a hard time loosing weight. your family needs to calm down. if i were you i'd just not keep in contact with them. you and your bro deserve so much better, don't let others bring ya down. if you're set on loosing weight tho i recommend a diet of only three meals a day, no snacks in between. for the diet there are some rules of what you cannot eat. no sugar, no sugar, did i mention no sugar? you wanna get your carbs from vegetables and fruit. its very important you don't eat any processed foods and eat a lotta salads. you wanna pair a vegetable with lean proteins, it could be fish, chicken, etc. you'd actually be less hungry this way. once you do start using fat for energy, because you've run out of all those sugars, your body actually likes it better. for exercise i'd recommend lifting weights and doing cardio for a bit every day and just try to get 8 to 9 hours of sleeps every night. sorry this was so long, and again this was just a recommendation so don't get too upset with me lol. and tell your bro being super skinny is awesome! why just be a skeleton for halloween when you can be one all year round? -from an also supper skinny person :)
Yeah, I'm the same way. I find it so hard to lose weight, it's been a really struggle to lose about half my body weight over the years and I was bullied heavily for my size. Pretty much any weight related insult has been thrown my way at one point or another. My fiancé on the other hand, can't gain any weight and is super skinny. People have made comments to him like "why are you with a fat chick when you're so thin?" or, my personal favourite, "you're so lucky to be able to eat whatever you want and stay so skinny!" Yeah, no, it's not lucky when going one day without food means that he gets really sick and lethargic, has to eat the equivalent of two large men's meals to maintain a healthy weight. He easily eats between 4k and 4.5k calories a day. His favourite response to their "you're so lucky" comments is "live my life, eat what I have to eat just to stay alive, let alone healthy and then tell me how lucky I am." Of course, he's got detractors as well, telling him how he should eat more and work out to bulk-up. He responds with "you pay the food bill and I'll do just that" with a quick breakdown of what he needs just to maintain his weight. He's quite confident in telling "the morons" to get lost. People have made snide comments about both him being super skinny and me being fat. It really does happen at both ends of the spectrum.
@@SushiKatGamer yeah, it's something that sucks about this world. i find that as long as you're comfortable in your own skin it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. and if your not, you'll learn to be. eventually. just need some patience. :)
Don't give up. Diets arent one size fits all and even though the energy in VS energy expended thing IS true, it's a gross oversimplification of what's going on inside your body. When it seems like you're doing everything right and it's not working it means you're not. And by that I mean, the advice doesn't work for you and therefore you're not doing what works for your body mind and lifestyle. I won't give you unsolicited diet advice because that's not fair but if you're interested I can make a few suggestions of quite small things that I tweaked which made a HUGE impact on my ability to lose weight. I was also stuck like you, working out religiously and dieting until I was miserable but still not losing weight. It actually got me super interested in nutrition and fitness and it's become a bit of an extra-curricular for me, particularly any approach to dieting that is holistic and focuses on overall health rather than attaining a particular body shape (let's be real, no body needs that pressure/stress)
My sister and I were skinny shamed all throughout our childhoods and school. It’s a real thing and I’m glad they highlighted both. Body shaming no matter what size is terrible
One of my old friends from high school told me if someone gets body shamed, it's their own fault for having their body like that. I stopped being friends with that prick after he said that.
glad they included skinny shaming as well as fat shaming. my mom told me that she was always called a "toothpick" at her school for being relatively thin and the opposite has happened to me where people will call me a fat*ss at my school. its heartbreaking to hear those kinds of things
yup, i’m overweight due to an ed and have been bullied for it, my best friend is underweight due to diabetes, being premature and other medical problems and has also been bullied for it. nobody can really win in a world like this
This video made me pretty happy, I used to look a lot like that skinny girl at my lowest weight and never felt comfortable going to the gym. I didn't end up going until I took weight gaining pills to feel more comfortable with myself
i remember when i was a bit overweight and felt ashamed to go the gym, but when i did decided to change and went to gym, they are one the most coolest people, gave bunch of tips, how to do proper workout, and one dude even made diet plan for me for free!
@Brady MAher I think she meant that she is trying to fix her weight at the gym just like an alcoholic person would try to fix their addiction so making fun of them isnt helping them
4:39 THIS is the real Chad, a well educated, empathetic young person who respects everyone. The world would be so much better with more people like him.
As someone who has actually experienced this type of humiliation I can assure you as a fat person, being made fun of at a gym is absolutely soul crushing.
Yeah, and it just shows that people hide behind the phrase “I care about your health” as an excuse to bully fat people. If they actually cared about a person’s health, they wouldn’t be shaming them at a place where you’re TRYING TO GET HEALTHY.
Don't let them in you headspace. Those are people who truly hate themselves. It's called projection. They will never be thin enough or fit enough and that's why they project their insecurities on others.
I used to be a gym rat ( now im old but still in shape ) and body positivity was a big thing back then. Everyone used to lift each other up, that's why I loved going. It didn't matter what shape you were in, you were at the gym, and that made you one of us. It was like a mini club/society.
similar to a cycling club. The weaker riders can just sit in the draft and get stronger. One day they'll be pulling us all along. Never shame someone out of the opportunity to improve.
This..this comment exactly! Women are judged harshly ..no matter how they look or act. By men, by women. They can be pretty much flawless, and someone will find one small thing and highlight it to try and bring them down. It is so sad. 😔
I completely agree on this back then I would get picked on for being too thin and now I get told that I’m gaining weight .. when In my opinion I look and feel healthier but oh well everyone has their own opinions....
Ps1 Hagrid yeah i agree but (at least me personally) i’ve seen it happen a lot more to women. not saying ur wrong cuz it definitely happens to men too, but i’ve seen so many times where a guy shames a woman’s body but he’s not the most fit or anything himself
Me too! People often think being skinny excludes you from body shaming but it’s just as common. I remember being 15 trying on my first pair of wedges, and two girls walking by said I was too skinny to be wearing them and that I looked horrible. I never ever forgot that moment.
I agree! People used to always call me a stick as a joke and I just laughed with them but it really affected me. It was impossible to gain weight but when I started to get a little older I was gaining some weight and just recently my teacher commented on how I was “filling out” in front of my class. I was amazed by the fact that she thought that was okay.
Exactly, I've been both fat and skinny shamed despite never being overweight, I've always been underweight or close to underweight yet was fat shamed for 3-4 years from 9-13 then it turned to skinny shaming because I developed an ED (I've been getting better now though and eat better... kind of). It's so hurtful when all you hear is "She's such a pig, look at her" or, in more recent years "God, you look thinner than a toothpick, even your chest and butt are flat, it's gross, gain some weight holy shit". Even my family skinny shame me (Although I think they don't realise they're body shaming me) because they're always calling me a twig or too skinny and telling me to gain weight. Like yes, I get that I have an ED and need to gain weight BUT I don't need to be reminded of my weight all the time, like... it people make it the main topic of conversations which would be fine in a doctors office or a therapy room but NOT in public and especially not at home where you are supposed to feel safe from judgement.
I agree. Being asked if you’re bulemic or anorexic feels no better than the comments bigger people get. “Stick” and “all bones” aren’t compliments either. And don’t get me started on “real girls don’t look like that” or “there’s nothing to love on your body”, or that you aren’t feminine at all. I wasn’t even that skinny. I just grew a lot very suddenly and my weight couldn’t catch up yet, it wasn’t so bad. I can’t imagine what girls skinnier than I was back then hear. I know that fat shaming is an issue, but that’s not the only body type that gets shamed and I’m glad the other end of the scale was addressed here.
I concur. I experienced both and they are both equally horrible. When I was chubby and at a perfectly healthy weight, relatives said I was chubby, that I should exercise, and that I would be prettier if I was less chubby. So I lose weight. Now it is "isn't that unhealthy??" Like, just SHUDDUP PLEASE 🥰☺🙈
It’s so annoying that many people tend to think that overweight people are lazy and trying to lose weight and underweight people are obsessed with how their body looks and being skinny
Some people have genetic predispositions to having a higher body weight unfortunately. Some people naturally will weigh more (genetic tests can show it), some people have health issues, and some people genetically have lower metabolism. It is a fact of life unfortunately. Imagine a world where body averages were decided based on your ethnic profiles, people would have much better ideas about what was really normal for them.
@-rainydayys I think it's something to do with metabolism or something like that. But yes, that is horrible to be bullied for something like that. Especially if someone feels bad about it then it makes it worse
I think weight doesn’t really matter as long as it doesn’t affect your health. One time one of my dance teacher was “fat” but in reality she was very energetic and I loved her she was so kind but she had to go because of university.
You just know as soon as one person finally sticks up to the bullies, everyone else presses pause on their music and is secretly listening to it all play out😂😂💀💀
I like how they didn’t insult the bullies’ looks to shut them up. It’s like it was never about the way you look just the outrage of the words coming out of your mouth
Probably chopped it out - because I would have straight up had a go at least one of them. But then that would have not been a clear message for the programme.
@@mlguy8376 my first go to when someone is insulting someone looks is always something along the lines of “I may be fat, but I can lose the weight. You’ll always be an ugly person inside and that can’t be changed” 😌 It usually works pretty well. Most the time they’re too shocked to speak 😂
A very good friend of mine has been hitting the gym for over 14 months now and has gone through an amazing change in his life. Over 170 pounds lost and still rising. Be careful of who you shame at the gym, they could become the person who ends up looking better than you and stealing your girl or man down the road. Edit: Changed my comment to include men and women who could both become amazing through hard effort and could take your wife or husband. I'd also like to comment that my same friend has become my inspiration to work out as well and I hope his story does the same for you as well. You can do it. You're all beautiful.
Beeing FAT shouldnt be showing as something positive it's fcking unhealthy and it's big problem especialy in the US where half of citzens weight is like 150kg
I was 65kg and I got bullied and now I'm 46kg and I still getting critics about how much weight I lost and how ugly I became. But I really don't give a shit I love me.
I hate that no matter what everyone gets shamed/bullied whether it’s because they’re “Too fat” or “too skinny” or any other thing about you that’s different from someone else. I really hate it.
me too , like ?? why can’t everyone just chill out and not make a comment on someone’s body ?? that’s why so many people are insecure about themselves , is because of everyone’s high expectations !!
That's exactly why I realized at a young age that people's opinions don't matter. Life's alot more enjoyable when you couldn't care less about what others think of you.
true dat! i just love lookin and oogling at those bead sweats drippin and rolling through them caterpillar looking love handles 😍 They're all pink in the inside
If you really think about it, when someone comment on somebody's weight is because they are immature brats that really need to get a life and not to judge others.
The oddest part of "body shaming" is it happens on both spectrums. I had a very overweight woman tell me I was too skinny and looked hungry. While I was working. Which was offensive. Then she came back with donuts and told me go eat because I looked like I had lost weight since she'd last seen me. It happens everywhere. It's never going to change.
As sapphyre said, it's all insecurity. It happens at both ends because either end of the spectrum, isn't "normal". They're deathly afraid and insecure about looking anything like what they feel is "acceptable".
For any potential gym goers who are conscious about their body: THIS IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR. 99% of people at the gym are some of the nicest people you will ever meet and will respect you for coming in. Do not be discouraged or turned off from going by the behavior seen in this video.
That is so true... they dont care how it is your outfit they focus on the training, they know that working out is hard and some of them will encourage you to get what you want...
I’m glad they had a slim girl facing criticism too. Because my daughter was called anorexic from elementary school thru high school! Even her “counselor” didn’t believe she did not have an eating disorder! It’s caused her a lot of pain and taken time for her to forgive their ignorance.
I was called anorexic all through school as well. I can understand how hard it is, I’m sorry your daughter went through that. I hope she is in a good place now and feels comfortable with her body.
Gentle Khajiit People just don’t realize how much words hurt. I’m sorry you went through that as well. Yes, she’s 21, and done some modeling which helped her self esteem. And, now going back to college to study biology. She’s doing great! Thanks!
@@KimSearch865 I agree. Oftentimes many people don’t realise that skinny shaming is an issue. I remember my doctor even being disrespectful to me about my size when I was a little older than your daughter, saying I had a ‘child’s body.’ Thank you. I’m glad to hear your daughter is doing well and her self esteem is positive. Biology sounds like a great avenue of study! I wish you and your family all the best 😊
I agree. Unrelated, but your comment kinda reminds me of Heterophobia. It's getting more and more common yet people ignore it. They say it's "not important because it's not as severe and common as homophobia". Like wtf??? That isn't a good reason to just ignore it and say "heterophobia doesnt exist" when it clearly does. Some people are even starting to use heterosexuality as an insult... where's this world going? Stopping homophobia to start heterophobia? This still isn't right. Why are people like that... why is human brain like that.
I agree. When I started going to the gym I was 5’3” and 93lbs. I was bullied relentlessly by a couple that would come in around similar times I would. I had actually known their daughter because she was in the same grade as me at the time so these were people that should have known better as they were parents. I ended up canceling my membership and going to an anytime fitness that is three blocks away from my house and I only used to go at night hours because it had made me that insecure. Happy ending is 2 years later I’m at a healthy 130lb and gaining because I’ve found that bodybuilding as given me confidence I didn’t know I could have.
@@GakusCrush heterophobia isnt a thing. in almost all cases, heterophobia is used as an ironic joke as heterosexuality is still the only socially accepted (across the world, it is the norm) and most previlant sexuality. shouldnt rlly to explain the power dyanmic between heterophobia vs homophobia but there it is
@@noah-ns2qd heterophobia IS a thing. I know a gay man who told me himself he was heterophobic, that he couldn't stand heterosexual people etc.. even online, for example on Quora, you can see many many LGBT people who claim to BE heterophobic. stop saying it isnt a thing when it obviously is, all phobias exist and you'll have to realize it because that's how life is.
Imagine you go to the gym to workout and exhaust yourself and in the middle of your exercices there are two idiots coming at you "oOouh look at thAT perSON with their PanTS" i'd be like "girls why are you here??" too. Everyone goes to the gym to workout and focus on themselves. Yes there are prejudices but usually people don't waste their time at the gym to judge other people.
Honestly if i saw a 'fat' person at the gym, i would respect them so much more because they are trying to be fit and healthy you know Edit: Im not say big people arnt healthy okayy im just saying i respect them for being at the gym😂
Big time eh. I saw a morbidly obese lady on the treadmill and all I have is respect. People who are making healthy changes deserve nothing but respect.
Yeah. Two people live 3 hours away from a location. One of them gets the call to be there 3 hours before they have to be there, and the other gets the call 1 hour before. You wouldn’t shame the person for showing up late. They’re at the beginning of their journey, so don’t shame someone for not being at the same point as where you are.
Being overweight isn't always about eating and training habits. It is also about hormones, medical conditions and physical limitations. I know a person who is almost completely blind after a brain tumour. The tumour also affected their metabolism heavily. As such, they have become extremely overweight. Even while trying to eat healthy.
I used to be a big girl. 100+lbs overweight. I have belonged to 2 different gyms in my city. I have never been teased, shamed, or even looked at funny by anyone in either gym. I only been lifted up, encouraged, made friends, and received love from the others gym users.
Too fat- eat a salad Too skinny- eat a burger Not fat nor skinny- *still makes rude comments on their body* Either way, society ALWAYS, ALWAYS has their ways to judge people.
•TaylorLulu• yes you’ll get judged no matter how you look so you just have to make yourself happy cause not everyone will agree or like you and constantly judge you for whatever you do
The fact skinny shaming was included made me happy, the amounts of “men like meat not bones” “I feel bad for whoever will marry you because you’re a toothpick” and so on and so forth that we hear is always shoved under the rug as us “looking for attention”
My sister and cousin were skinny. People never shut the fxck up about that. Like seriously don't you think some people have a fast metabolism. My brother sister and cousin could eat ravenously all day and not gain 2 pounds. Whilst I ate like 2 hot dogs and got instantly 3 pounds heavier. Shyt was so retarded. My dad genetics didn't affect me the way it did them.
Also eating won't help like do you think the meat will go to my hips or breast?????? Like lol even if I eat more it would not change my overall body type
I eat 2 cheeseburgers almost daily(McD's by work) and still wear a size 5.(not supper skinny, but still) I've been told my whole life "if I ate like that I'd be obese" or "not everyone can eat everything and not gain weight." I eat what I want, when I want. I like eating a whole medium pizza and watching everyone's shocked faces, or going back 4 times at a buffet. It might catch up to me one day, until then... (BTW, I'm in my 40s, still waiting for that day)
same i have really fast metabolism and sometimes i used to eat so much as possible to gain weight, but i never really did, so i was bodyshamed by everybody, lots of people at school, my pe teacher, so i used to sob and sob wanting to die. i wasnt even very skinny
@@annakish9879 That is not true. No one should be made fun of, but for instance Lizzo is not physically beautiful. And don't say beauty is subjective, it is not.
@@jwill5892 Beauty is subjective whether you like to hear the truth or not. You're really claiming all skinny people are attractive? Thinness is the only requirement for beauty? No it's not. Hateful and rude people will always find some physical feature to criticize. Big noses, thin lips, bald head etc.
@@reagandyba9257 I think he should have said objective because no one is technically factually beautiful but everyone is subjectively beautiful because someone will think someone is beautiful.
Me too! We both want to go to the gym together to improve our health, but that doesnt mean we’re obsessed with losing/gaining weight. Im so happy people are paying attention to how toxic people’s attitudes to body image can be
Kevin Richards, he appeared to be older than her. A lot of people refer to people as girl if they are younger than them and are female (or identify as a women) and refer to people as boy if they are older than the person they are talking about ( and if they are male or identify as a man. ) My father often refers to people he works with as “kids” because he is older than them even though they are in their twenties.
Kevin Richards, you might have been joking but I don’t know. Technically you are right. She is not a girl. Hopefully I don’t seem like a know it all. Lol
If your fat they judge you if your skinny they judge you If yout smart they judge you If your dumb they judge you If you die Them: OMG I loved them so much OMG I miss them Me: wait what
Nobody can live their life because almost everyone has something to say. Like people ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. NOTHING is ever perfect for them! Like instead of working on themselves and living their OWN life they choose to do this.
This happened today with me A friend of mine(male) commented on a female's physique saying "she looks pathetic in a bikini,she should look at herself" . I couldn't help but put him in his place by saying he has not right to comment on anyone's dressing sense and how would he feel if anyone commented on his shortcomings
Some people are built different than others. Some people are thin, some are plump, some have wide hips, and some are full in the bosom. As long as you're healthy it doesn't matter.
Y'all can't imagine the amount of tears that i cried when they said they were doing skinny-shaming too, body shaming isn't only fat-shaming and i feel like not a lot of people realises that. This show is my happy place istg Omg thanks for 1k i didn't realise so many ppl felt like me abt this (; And i love everyone in the comments u are strong and beautiful
Exactly! People can be naturally skinner, sick, have cancer or many other reasons. People judge skinny people too accusing them of being a drug addict. These comments can be very hurtful as I’ve experienced being judged for being too skinny. I ended up binge eating to put on weight which made me put on more than I intended and left me not wanting to leave the house for a month even to get groceries I had to get my partner to pick up my essentials. Nothing is worse than feeling like a prisoner in your own home because that’s where you feel safest and most comfortable.
I said this in the first trailer but: Mocking an overweight person at the gym is like mocking an alcoholic at an AA meeting. (Unfortunately I did not come up with this and don’t know who did, but still, the point still stands.
Karina Peters 🤣 I love how you explained your wardrobe dilemma! I fell you my dear since my mother is a big lady and she finds difficulty’s finding clothes that fits her. But since we are Arabic and we live in the Middle East my mom wears big floating dresses 👗 were it doesn’t matter if you have big waist or big hips 🤣👍
tyrone loki my dear, I totally agree with you that sometimes people wear clothes that don't look good on them, it doesn't attract their bodies, but who am I to judge, especially at the GYM, it's a place we shouldn't judge, or argue about what people should wear. Because the gym is the place to work out and sweat 😓. Now on the other hand, it's a different story when someone is dressed up in disgusting and obnoxious clothing in places such as Walmart . When I watch TH-cam videos of people who are seen in the craziest clothes at Walmart it makes me want to puke 🤢
@@James-cs2dz everyone looks beautiful,dear....if we are going to define beauty by a certain scale...it goes unsaid that we are calling the others "not beautiful"...plus it's easier not to care in today's world....can't keep telling to people to not judge
I was fat-shamed as a little girl to my teen years when I wasn’t overweight and then was skinny shammed and accused of having anorexia when I was fighting cancer at 15 by the same people. I eventually learned to not give a crap what people say or think about me and my body if they’re not my doctors. Now when I see it happening to others I try to shut it down right away and tell them how wrong they are. It’s disgusting and harmful.
I'm really sorry to hear that ,you deserved better,I just want you to know your amazing and so strong,people who do this type of stuff need to know this isn't right,they disgust me ,I wish people someday realise the way to treat people,Im really sorry for what people have to go through,Im here for anyone who needs someone to talk to:)
They need to attract more attention because WWYD basically needs the tension to run. Also, at they gym, people will listen to music so if the acting isn't exaggerated overall, they won't be noticed. That's just my opinion though lol
X’Zayvian Cruz - I totally understand and think your are absolutely right. NO ONE has the right to say rude/insults to anyone confining anything about them. This could include about someone’s scars, weight, deformed body, and appearance PERIOD. But I will agree with Debbie that there are people who are just rude because that’s the way life works. No matter how we much we don’t want it to. There will always be that one person who just messes it up for everybody.
As an obese woman, this made me cry so bad because i can see myself in that situation. It is not funny being called fat...i know for a fact that i am and that's why i'm doing something about it. But to hear those words though...just breaks my heart.
Don't hear anyone, nobody at all. Most people at the gym don't really care, plus do you believe bodyshamer's opinions matters? Absolutely not. I also hit the gym, go there and don't care about your surroundings, have your good time and learn to love yourself❤️
I got ur feeling... As a skinny woman this also made me cry a lot (also bc I wasn’t expecting for ppl talking about skinny shaming so it was kinda like a shock to me)!
I remember when I was on the tennis team. There was this one high school that was much better than us in skill, but the girls were very rude. They were always criticizing our tennis uniforms and hair. Their biggest priority, apparently, was looking good on the court while beating us. We were never concerned about our looks because the goal was to win. I didn’t care if I looked cute, win or lose. All I cared about were the smaller victories I could get against this team.
All the comments be saying “If I saw a fat person at the gym, I would have nothing but respect for them.” I hope y’all also treat fat ppl with respect outside of the gym too tho lol.
Fr I’m cringing because every single comment is comparing fat people being at the gym to something extreme like a meth addict going to rehab. Like these people are really trying hard not to seem fatphobic lmao.
Nik's space I’m not sure what you mean. My comment was just pointing out that all the people in the comments are trying to sound like they have the utmost respect for fat people when the comparisons they use compare fat people to like people who need rehab and people who need cancer treatments lol. Nothing makes me feel more confidant than being compared to someone with pneumonia going to the hospital 😍😍
Poking fun at an overweight person at a gym is like poking fun at a homeless person at a job fair... These people are just trying to better their lives. If anything, they should be showed ecouragement, not disrespect.
@@Hgh38 wrong. I was fat shamed at my gym. I was known by a couple of guys as Shamu. They also said I was ugly and i should do the world a favor andkill myself. They were high school kids. I guess they didn't realize I was 35 and I don't need children's approval. I put them into their place. People who are bullies will be bullies anywhere.
its actually not common for people to be shamed at the gym at least not openly. Most people that consistently train at the gym would offer assistance and encouragement if given the chance. Sure youll always have the assholes but most people either wont acknowledge them at all or are happy to see someone trying to better themselves. .
When that one actress said, “it’s just distracting.”, it reminded me of the bullsh!t schools give girls for showing just a little bit of shoulder or having a skirt that’s less than an inch above the knee💀🙄
This was illuminating on a few levels. When I heard the social media comments I thought, “well that’s mean, but social media is like that.” When I heard those same comments out loud I was horrified. Goes to show how often people will post stuff they’d never say out loud in public and the rest of us are being desensitized to the online stuff as a result. As a teacher, I’d love to see a kids version for health classes and social media education. How to deal with bullies 101 and what your mean online comments really sound like.
yeah! people always forget that skinny shaming actually happens MORE than fat shaming. people do it so much and subtly too, so it can be harder to pick up. but skinny shaming is just as bad, even worse in some cases.
@@dreamerspringswalks even worse? no, it's not a competition but since you want to make it to be, the beauty standard and most modern clothes were literally built around skinny people's body. comparing when i was fat to when i was skinny, i was treated SO much differently when i was skinny. nobody talked to be when i was fat but then when i was skinny suddenly i got asked out and approached my people everyday. it's not a competition but don't say skinny shaming is worse because it's not.
@@Joemamaa6969 When someone's being called fat EVERYONE jumps in at least from my personal experience but when someone is being skinny shamed no one talks and it's like a "joke" and it's fucked up...
"...at the gym, where there should be space for every body." Such a good ending line because it works in two-fold. The gym is a space for everybody for every body.
I like that they mentioned skinny shaming and I think many people overlook skinny shaming but it’s still a problem, if you are being made to feel bad for your body then it’s the same
Used to have a friend that was fat and she would keep telling this really thin girl to eat more and would just always be on her ass about her weight and how she needed to gain. We were all friends but it bugged my skinny friend so much and made her self conscious and depressed. She was just naturally skinnier. But it breaks people down just as much as bullying a person for being fat.
That’s dope the show ran a scenario for skinny and overweight and also really glad to see men speaking up too. It would be so easy to just laugh it off or ignore it especially if it’s someone that probably isn’t your type but it takes guts to standup to bullies in general but especially on behalf of a stranger. Kudos to all the kind people in the gym.
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being body shamed at a gym is like being shamed for being sick at a hospital.
So true!
Not really. There is a thing such as decency when dressing
@@hhbkjpointy7275 ain’t nobody dressing for other people we are dressing to look good for ourselves so stfu
@@breannaacosta3121 👎🤙☝️🤞👌🤚👋
@@breannaacosta3121 right! Also especially at the gym you want to be comfortable
Actor: *is blatantly rude and uncalled for in public*
Person: "Stop."
John: "Incredible."
Because most people wouldn't say anything.
@@simplytutu3517 ye, i know, it's jus a joke lol
Yeah, they are running out of ideas.
😆😆😆 he's always like that
🤣🤣
If an overweight person is at the gym, that means they're actually trying to do something about it! Don't put someone down who's trying to make an effort.
I feel that body shaming is a valid way of prompting people to improve themselves.
Spacemonster Killer 1) no it’s not
2) it’s no ones business what you look like
3) if they are at the gym they are already trying to make change why continue to shame them
@@julialeland4387 I happen to appreciate the positive aspects of body shaming, but even if you don't, why make a spectacle of yourself? Why not just mind your own business and let it go?
Marl Kalone or trying to be healthy. same goes for skinny ppl
Spacemonster Killer what are you talking about?? People should just mind their own business and stop worrying about what other people look like. The body shammer is the one making a “spectacle” of the situation.
Love watching people stick up for each other. Made me tear up ngl
same!
Same!!❤
Imagine how awkward it would be if someone joined in with the bullies 😳
It would be so funny though, lol.
Soooooo cringe. They probably said they don't wanna be on cam
🤣🤣🤣omgaaaa🤣🤣
it wouldn’t have been funny, it would be just been disappointing. ppl can be so rude nowadays
🤣🤣 I would have
Imagine being shamed for being overweight at a gym. A GYM.
I 😅 used to be moderately obese and I used to go 😪 to the 🛌 gym 😅 all the time 🙏. People understood that I was exercising to try to lose weight 🙏.
@@hannahduggan3599 i love to see bigger ppl at the gym hives me more motivation tbh p
@@zacharyenck1087 I lost 😢 weight 😫 at 20 years old.
@@hannahduggan3599 im 15 at 120 wit mostly muscle hoping to compete soon💪🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@hannahduggan3599 why you use so much emojis
*"If you're fat they judge you.."*
*"If you're skinny they judge you...."*
It's sad cause its true...
It sure is truth
As a skinny guy that's putting on some weight it's not sad. If your too skinny your unhealthy if your too fat your unhealthy. I'm not gonna cry about it do what you gotta do to be healthy or suck it up and own up to being unhealthy. You shouldn't be made fun of but don't be happy that your unhealthy
@@ahmedhajjaj5121 no ones doing that, you're making up situations in your head that have nothing to do with what OP said. Stop derailing the conversation
@@epicstyle160 allot of people say you should be happy at any size and I think that inspires laziness. You should only be happy if you're in the process of changing that aka going to the gym or eating more.
Common denominator is that 99% who make these comments are women
The last time I was judged for what I wear was in high school. Kids can be so mean, but adults should know BETTER
they do. this is totally unrealistic
Some just don’t grow up. 😔 it’s kind of realistic.
It is realistic. This kind of talk happens a lot, maybe more quietly, but some people are very rude and mean. I've seem childish behavior like this from grown adults who should know better.
@@SportsBossMan Yep, there's some people that don't grow up. I have zero booty, and a group of women were mocking me for it. And I'm a guy so I was like "wtf what are you doing? You don't have anything better to do?" I think they might have been drinking? (im autistic and very bad at telling if people have been drinking)
They called me dorito man and I must admit that was pretty funny but still what the hell?
Adults are worse than kids.
This is the last one I'll watch...
This is the last one I'll watch...
This is the last one I'll watch...
I have so much to do and here I am watching these scenes one after the other for more than 2 hours 😭
@@luayredgrave5897 same! Lol
Same😂
@@luayredgrave5897 2?! HAH ive been on this like a drug 👁👄👁 help me.
I know, right? I also have my favourite ones that I keep going back to as well
I would hate to be the "bullying" actor. I'd just be thinking "John, come out NOW" the whole time.
Oh i would like to. I used to be the mean guy back in High School, but then i stopped. I miss my stupid old me haha, i would be nice feeling being a bully again
I guess the bullying actors get paid well for their role, unless those actors don't have a conscience and are able to talk that way effortlessly.
Hahahaha same here!! But to the other people its called acting.. If you listen closely, they only taller about the yoga pants without saying the word fat but they did say, skinny 🤔
Same, I kept thinking I couldn't be that mean even if I was just acting
@@francescofilippini9387 Wtf-
being body shamed at a gym is like laughing at a poor man at a job interview
Love this analogy
Faxxxx
or a sick person at a hospital like it makes no fucking sense
@Atzo its actually a good analogy, you’re just probably too slow and cant think it through
I agree with this one
I love that they showed both sides of this. I've had problems with my weight ever since I had my daughter, no matter how much i exercise or what i eat, and I've been given a lot of crap for it even from family. Meanwhile my younger brother has a crazy fast metabolism and for most of his life was super skinny no matter how much he ate and he was severely bullied for it when we were kids. This stuff really does happen to people on both ends of the scale. Kudos to every person that defended the people being bullied in this vid, we need more people like them 👏👏👏
to be honest i don't really see the point in calling people names over their weight. it's not nice and i don't think people realize just how important someones mental health is in trying to loose weight and just in general. that's probably the reason why you're having such a hard time loosing weight. your family needs to calm down. if i were you i'd just not keep in contact with them. you and your bro deserve so much better, don't let others bring ya down.
if you're set on loosing weight tho i recommend a diet of only three meals a day, no snacks in between. for the diet there are some rules of what you cannot eat. no sugar, no sugar, did i mention no sugar? you wanna get your carbs from vegetables and fruit. its very important you don't eat any processed foods and eat a lotta salads. you wanna pair a vegetable with lean proteins, it could be fish, chicken, etc. you'd actually be less hungry this way. once you do start using fat for energy, because you've run out of all those sugars, your body actually likes it better. for exercise i'd recommend lifting weights and doing cardio for a bit every day and just try to get 8 to 9 hours of sleeps every night. sorry this was so long, and again this was just a recommendation so don't get too upset with me lol.
and tell your bro being super skinny is awesome! why just be a skeleton for halloween when you can be one all year round?
-from an also supper skinny person :)
Yeah, I'm the same way. I find it so hard to lose weight, it's been a really struggle to lose about half my body weight over the years and I was bullied heavily for my size. Pretty much any weight related insult has been thrown my way at one point or another. My fiancé on the other hand, can't gain any weight and is super skinny. People have made comments to him like "why are you with a fat chick when you're so thin?" or, my personal favourite, "you're so lucky to be able to eat whatever you want and stay so skinny!" Yeah, no, it's not lucky when going one day without food means that he gets really sick and lethargic, has to eat the equivalent of two large men's meals to maintain a healthy weight. He easily eats between 4k and 4.5k calories a day. His favourite response to their "you're so lucky" comments is "live my life, eat what I have to eat just to stay alive, let alone healthy and then tell me how lucky I am." Of course, he's got detractors as well, telling him how he should eat more and work out to bulk-up. He responds with "you pay the food bill and I'll do just that" with a quick breakdown of what he needs just to maintain his weight. He's quite confident in telling "the morons" to get lost.
People have made snide comments about both him being super skinny and me being fat. It really does happen at both ends of the spectrum.
@@SushiKatGamer yeah, it's something that sucks about this world. i find that as long as you're comfortable in your own skin it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. and if your not, you'll learn to be. eventually. just need some patience. :)
Don't give up. Diets arent one size fits all and even though the energy in VS energy expended thing IS true, it's a gross oversimplification of what's going on inside your body.
When it seems like you're doing everything right and it's not working it means you're not. And by that I mean, the advice doesn't work for you and therefore you're not doing what works for your body mind and lifestyle.
I won't give you unsolicited diet advice because that's not fair but if you're interested I can make a few suggestions of quite small things that I tweaked which made a HUGE impact on my ability to lose weight. I was also stuck like you, working out religiously and dieting until I was miserable but still not losing weight.
It actually got me super interested in nutrition and fitness and it's become a bit of an extra-curricular for me, particularly any approach to dieting that is holistic and focuses on overall health rather than attaining a particular body shape (let's be real, no body needs that pressure/stress)
@@rituEllie very well said. :)
Imagine actually caring about another person’s appearance. Especially someone you’ve never met.
Imagine actually caring about people their opinions.
Imagine eating Taco Bell every day
ishita jain Imagine never eating Taco Bell.
G V that’s - that’s too painful I can’t
ishita jain yea, I “can feel” de pain.
I THOUGHT THE LAST GUY WAS GONNA ATTACK THEM WITH THE POLE JSHSJSHSJSHSHS HELP
LMAKAOAOAKDNAONFOANF
SAME💀💀💀
HE REALLY LOOKED LIKE HE WAS BOUTTA THROW IT AT THEM WITH ALL HIS STRENGTH
PLEASEE😂😂🤣🤣
Jshsjshsjhs lmao!!
Sometimes, the actors are so cringey I get second hand embarrassment
Lol that’s why that one girl was like “I didn’t believe it was real” it’s so obviously fake
I cringed so much.
Same I'm like people actually believe this the acting can be so bad
@@kaelynsmith1242 You'd be surprised on how many people act like this.
Jpdanny 88
No
My sister and I were skinny shamed all throughout our childhoods and school. It’s a real thing and I’m glad they highlighted both. Body shaming no matter what size is terrible
Yes
I'm also thin n gets joke on about it
Body shaming is literally so rude. I don't even know why people even do it
Welcome to society
@@reredongy literally though
@@bonniehuang8696 yup like you don't need to bring people down just cause you can't stand them being happy
One of my old friends from high school told me if someone gets body shamed, it's their own fault for having their body like that. I stopped being friends with that prick after he said that.
@@jahhaj1020 like you should
Shaming an overweight person in a gym is like shaming a child for being in school.
or shaming a person who did drugs for being in rehab.. smh
Great point
Okay, but I go to the gym as much as possible, and I'm glad to say I've never actually see anyone shame or insult an overweight person at the gym.
Copied from @Max Bowen
@@praneethmashetty591 nope i didn't even check comments.
Wwyd actors when they have nothing else to say:
"Im just saying what everyone else is thinking."
lmao. i’ve heard that one from Traci one too many times
JCW 895 yessssssssss
Because bullies irl use these tactics all the time. "A lot of people are saying...", "everybody knows that...", etc.
They tell them what to say they have a mic in their ear telling them what to say
"maybe you should mind your own business"
glad they included skinny shaming as well as fat shaming. my mom told me that she was always called a "toothpick" at her school for being relatively thin and the opposite has happened to me where people will call me a fat*ss at my school. its heartbreaking to hear those kinds of things
yup, i’m overweight due to an ed and have been bullied for it, my best friend is underweight due to diabetes, being premature and other medical problems and has also been bullied for it. nobody can really win in a world like this
Take your big 🍑 as a compliment girl!! So many women want a big bum and can’t work for it or won’t and complain. Ignore the idiots! X
absolutely nobody acts like this in a gym, everyone is worried about themselves
I'm sure there are people like this, though they may be a bit less vocal. They could make fun of you under their breath or in their head.
Almost every scenario on this show is super unrealistic lol.
@@JBJones66 its realistic, but its exaggerated
@@Regent192 IK
@@Regent192 I think the only bit that's unrealistic is the loud conversations in a restaurant about sensitive topics tho
i’m glad they switched the roles cause no type of body shaming is okay
Yeah i get skinny shamed alot i can't walk the halls without being called a stick
This video made me pretty happy, I used to look a lot like that skinny girl at my lowest weight and never felt comfortable going to the gym. I didn't end up going until I took weight gaining pills to feel more comfortable with myself
Except short men. Everyone has a go at them.
I wish I could be a stick
Chloe Jayde that’s so great I’m so happy for you. Much love 💗
They should just put cams in a middle school. This is everyday life
fr and high school
Seems like schools need to teach classes on how to treat others....
Nothing like this happened when I was in middle school
Camboy9000 well... are you a male ?
@@crystallyzert148 yes
i remember when i was a bit overweight and felt ashamed to go the gym, but when i did decided to change and went to gym, they are one the most coolest people, gave bunch of tips, how to do proper workout, and one dude even made diet plan for me for free!
Laughing at a overweight person at the gym is like laughing at a alcoholic at a rehab center
No I dont think that's ok and you didn't get what I was trying to say
The replies in on this comment is confusing me
Brady MAher what are you say? 😂 she’s being nice
Brady MAher, whoosh!🤦🏻♀️
@Brady MAher I think she meant that she is trying to fix her weight at the gym just like an alcoholic person would try to fix their addiction so making fun of them isnt helping them
I’m so glad they put the skinny shaming in because it is never talked about . Everyone has insecurities
Not everyone. Some people are cocky as hell because that's just who they are. It's not always about insecurities
So true I have always been small and all I hear is you need get some meat on them bones.
Right!! Like words hurt and body shaming hurts not matter the size
My sister in law hears this a lot and it infuriates me. "Eat a cheeseburger" makes me so angry.
@@cardsfighter2 people are really cocky but that doesn’t mean they don’t have insecurities, their huge ego is like a cushion for them
I helped an old lady cross the road once but realised John Quinones wasn’t there so I stole her bag
Okay this was funny as hec
LOL
I-
Appl E please don’t swear
🤣 🤣 🤣 love that ! Good one!!!
4:39 THIS is the real Chad, a well educated, empathetic young person who respects everyone.
The world would be so much better with more people like him.
As someone who has actually experienced this type of humiliation I can assure you as a fat person, being made fun of at a gym is absolutely soul crushing.
Yeah, and it just shows that people hide behind the phrase “I care about your health” as an excuse to bully fat people. If they actually cared about a person’s health, they wouldn’t be shaming them at a place where you’re TRYING TO GET HEALTHY.
I’m sorry you had to go through that 😔 I hate people
Keep at it! The best thing you can do is improve despite them. (But do it for yourself.) I believe in you, friend.
Don't let them in you headspace. Those are people who truly hate themselves. It's called projection. They will never be thin enough or fit enough and that's why they project their insecurities on others.
@@JesusChristTheOne exactly! And they wouldn't bring someone's mental health down which can cause an ed.
16 year old is blessed he looks good and he’s respectful shout out to who raised him
Ikr 😂
send this boy mama some flowers and a thank you card!
For real!
How does he have muscle at 16?!?!
@@pichipie Do you not know a single thing about body building?
Man, WWYD is actually wonderful. It gives me hope in humanity.
I wholeheartedly agree!
Same
Yeah it's a good thing in the world
Yeah, but there was one episode where they were acting and making fun of a homeless person and a non-actor joined in :/
Neo Wulf I try bro but it’s not working
I used to be a gym rat ( now im old but still in shape ) and body positivity was a big thing back then. Everyone used to lift each other up, that's why I loved going. It didn't matter what shape you were in, you were at the gym, and that made you one of us. It was like a mini club/society.
similar to a cycling club. The weaker riders can just sit in the draft and get stronger. One day they'll be pulling us all along. Never shame someone out of the opportunity to improve.
“Skinny shaming” shows you just can’t win as a woman. Fat, thin, curvy, doesn’t matter. Somebody’s always gonna criticize your body.
This..this comment exactly! Women are judged harshly ..no matter how they look or act. By men, by women. They can be pretty much flawless, and someone will find one small thing and highlight it to try and bring them down. It is so sad. 😔
unfortunately, no matter what you look like, people always got something to say :/
I completely agree on this back then I would get picked on for being too thin and now I get told that I’m gaining weight .. when In my opinion I look and feel healthier but oh well everyone has their own opinions....
So true,that's why you gotta love yourself and f@#$what others say,and slap the shit outta them.👊✌😁💯
Ps1 Hagrid yeah i agree but (at least me personally) i’ve seen it happen a lot more to women. not saying ur wrong cuz it definitely happens to men too, but i’ve seen so many times where a guy shames a woman’s body but he’s not the most fit or anything himself
Does anyone else not watch WWYD for a few months and then they watch one video and then just can’t stop watching? Cause same
Yesss its addicting
that's what would you do to stop watching?
I should be studying rn but I can't stop it
STOP YES LMAO
Yep exactly like that
I love how both fat AND skinny shaming was included, everyone should be respected equally.
Me too! People often think being skinny excludes you from body shaming but it’s just as common. I remember being 15 trying on my first pair of wedges, and two girls walking by said I was too skinny to be wearing them and that I looked horrible. I never ever forgot that moment.
I agree! People used to always call me a stick as a joke and I just laughed with them but it really affected me. It was impossible to gain weight but when I started to get a little older I was gaining some weight and just recently my teacher commented on how I was “filling out” in front of my class. I was amazed by the fact that she thought that was okay.
Exactly, I've been both fat and skinny shamed despite never being overweight, I've always been underweight or close to underweight yet was fat shamed for 3-4 years from 9-13 then it turned to skinny shaming because I developed an ED (I've been getting better now though and eat better... kind of). It's so hurtful when all you hear is "She's such a pig, look at her" or, in more recent years "God, you look thinner than a toothpick, even your chest and butt are flat, it's gross, gain some weight holy shit".
Even my family skinny shame me (Although I think they don't realise they're body shaming me) because they're always calling me a twig or too skinny and telling me to gain weight.
Like yes, I get that I have an ED and need to gain weight BUT I don't need to be reminded of my weight all the time, like... it people make it the main topic of conversations which would be fine in a doctors office or a therapy room but NOT in public and especially not at home where you are supposed to feel safe from judgement.
I agree. Being asked if you’re bulemic or anorexic feels no better than the comments bigger people get. “Stick” and “all bones” aren’t compliments either. And don’t get me started on “real girls don’t look like that” or “there’s nothing to love on your body”, or that you aren’t feminine at all.
I wasn’t even that skinny. I just grew a lot very suddenly and my weight couldn’t catch up yet, it wasn’t so bad. I can’t imagine what girls skinnier than I was back then hear.
I know that fat shaming is an issue, but that’s not the only body type that gets shamed and I’m glad the other end of the scale was addressed here.
I concur. I experienced both and they are both equally horrible. When I was chubby and at a perfectly healthy weight, relatives said I was chubby, that I should exercise, and that I would be prettier if I was less chubby. So I lose weight. Now it is "isn't that unhealthy??" Like, just SHUDDUP PLEASE 🥰☺🙈
I love people in general that are so comfortable in their own skin to defy people's bs. Those that stand up for others are incredible.
That's true! I love this show for that. Funny, I always get dust in my eye when watching it...
A bit ironic
@@xolovenicole I see what you did there, and I agree. It is astounding that this person would comment that.
@@jbk0507 preaching the opposite of what they do
huh!☠️
It’s so annoying that many people tend to think that overweight people are lazy and trying to lose weight and underweight people are obsessed with how their body looks and being skinny
Some people have genetic predispositions to having a higher body weight unfortunately. Some people naturally will weigh more (genetic tests can show it), some people have health issues, and some people genetically have lower metabolism. It is a fact of life unfortunately. Imagine a world where body averages were decided based on your ethnic profiles, people would have much better ideas about what was really normal for them.
@-rainydayys I think it's something to do with metabolism or something like that. But yes, that is horrible to be bullied for something like that. Especially if someone feels bad about it then it makes it worse
I think weight doesn’t really matter as long as it doesn’t affect your health. One time one of my dance teacher was “fat” but in reality she was very energetic and I loved her she was so kind but she had to go because of university.
@@Nlyoungblood1 most people are fat due to overeating and laziness
People shouldn’t judge before they scoop in the inside ✨🍦
they always shoot these near my hometown i’m scared i make one wrong move in public and john quinones pops out💀
Maybe that’s a good thing?
@@stormyeffects4795 maybe it is
Me *literally in europe*
@@fookingavocados1084 OMG directioner 💖💖💖
@@shaktakhanomchowdhury171 hello fellow directioner
i'm glad that the show covered both sides of the problem i wasn't expecting it
Me neither, but it was well appreciated.
Right
Bro I like your name😂
I relate to the second half of the video :(..
jelina vo me too. I remember when I first started lifting weights I was so thin and could barely lift the 25 lb plates.
You just know as soon as one person finally sticks up to the bullies, everyone else presses pause on their music and is secretly listening to it all play out😂😂💀💀
Me 😂😂😂😂
Girl: Yoga Pants aren't for everybody
Me: Then how come they come in different sizes?????
Oooooooooooh
Do you have legs? Then you can wear yoga pants.
Do you not have legs at all? Maybe yoga shorts so they don't get tangled around your stumps. ❤
Big 🧠
Damn personally I like thick girls or thick guys you know what MAN I LIKE EVERYBODY
only people they arent for is the male gender
People bullying fat people
People bullying skinny people
Me: *Wtf is wrong with this world today?*
Idk I’m slim thicc
Its been like that since ever.. now everyone just like to bitch around
Our Lives Falling Apart thick and fat are different
@@trixieagustina6163 Gotta be the ''sexy curvy'' not fat...
Its literally the reason why people have body dismorphia and eating disorders
I like how they didn’t insult the bullies’ looks to shut them up. It’s like it was never about the way you look just the outrage of the words coming out of your mouth
Probably chopped it out - because I would have straight up had a go at least one of them. But then that would have not been a clear message for the programme.
@@mlguy8376 my first go to when someone is insulting someone looks is always something along the lines of “I may be fat, but I can lose the weight. You’ll always be an ugly person inside and that can’t be changed” 😌
It usually works pretty well. Most the time they’re too shocked to speak 😂
@@mlguy8376 yeah sometimes when i react to a situation i pretend im on wwyd and think about what theyd keep in 💀
@@leviisdead 💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
Might have been edited out
A very good friend of mine has been hitting the gym for over 14 months now and has gone through an amazing change in his life. Over 170 pounds lost and still rising. Be careful of who you shame at the gym, they could become the person who ends up looking better than you and stealing your girl or man down the road.
Edit: Changed my comment to include men and women who could both become amazing through hard effort and could take your wife or husband. I'd also like to comment that my same friend has become my inspiration to work out as well and I hope his story does the same for you as well. You can do it. You're all beautiful.
Sooo true!!
The 16yo 🥺 His momma/dad raised him right. That makes me happy to see
Gimme your death note please👉👈
Yea that made me happy too
@@laney4588 No 🥺❤
momma/dodda
wtf are these replies
When someone is too "fat" they get criticized. When someone is too "skinny", they get critisized. What is up with this world we live in..
just hv a normal body type...
@@johnsons3654 don’t fall for the trolls
@@johnsons3654 well for me If you can't accept the criticised, Yes. this is life and it's not always positive
Beeing FAT shouldnt be showing as something positive it's fcking unhealthy and it's big problem especialy in the US where half of citzens weight is like 150kg
I was 65kg and I got bullied and now I'm 46kg and I still getting critics about how much weight I lost and how ugly I became. But I really don't give a shit I love me.
I hate that no matter what everyone gets shamed/bullied whether it’s because they’re “Too fat” or “too skinny” or any other thing about you that’s different from someone else. I really hate it.
me too , like ?? why can’t everyone just chill out and not make a comment on someone’s body ?? that’s why so many people are insecure about themselves , is because of everyone’s high expectations !!
That's exactly why I realized at a young age that people's opinions don't matter. Life's alot more enjoyable when you couldn't care less about what others think of you.
true dat! i just love lookin and oogling at those bead sweats drippin and rolling through them caterpillar looking love handles 😍 They're all pink in the inside
If you really think about it, when someone comment on somebody's weight is because they are immature brats that really need to get a life and not to judge others.
Noob get robux noob
The oddest part of "body shaming" is it happens on both spectrums. I had a very overweight woman tell me I was too skinny and looked hungry. While I was working. Which was offensive. Then she came back with donuts and told me go eat because I looked like I had lost weight since she'd last seen me. It happens everywhere. It's never going to change.
its usually just projection of their own insecurities, like bc yr something theyre not they feel the need to bring u down
As sapphyre said, it's all insecurity. It happens at both ends because either end of the spectrum, isn't "normal". They're deathly afraid and insecure about looking anything like what they feel is "acceptable".
For any potential gym goers who are conscious about their body: THIS IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR. 99% of people at the gym are some of the nicest people you will ever meet and will respect you for coming in. Do not be discouraged or turned off from going by the behavior seen in this video.
Agree. Its usually outside the gym where it happens. I get fit-shamed and have only had it happen once in a gym.
Exactly or they just won’t say anything and will be focused on their own workout
That is so true... they dont care how it is your outfit they focus on the training, they know that working out is hard and some of them will encourage you to get what you want...
Who cares how you look.. you should be applauded for putting time and effort into your health
Yeah, No one Is "shaming" Anyone who Is trying to better themselves. Unless Its planet fitness and you grunt a little loud :P
I’m glad they had a slim girl facing criticism too. Because my daughter was called anorexic from elementary school thru high school! Even her “counselor” didn’t believe she did not have an eating disorder! It’s caused her a lot of pain and taken time for her to forgive their ignorance.
I was called anorexic all through school as well. I can understand how hard it is, I’m sorry your daughter went through that. I hope she is in a good place now and feels comfortable with her body.
Gentle Khajiit
People just don’t realize how much words hurt. I’m sorry you went through that as well. Yes, she’s 21, and done some modeling which helped her self esteem. And, now going back to college to study biology. She’s doing great! Thanks!
@@KimSearch865 I agree. Oftentimes many people don’t realise that skinny shaming is an issue. I remember my doctor even being disrespectful to me about my size when I was a little older than your daughter, saying I had a ‘child’s body.’
Thank you.
I’m glad to hear your daughter is doing well and her self esteem is positive. Biology sounds like a great avenue of study! I wish you and your family all the best 😊
Gentle Khajiit
Thank you! All the best to you as well! 🌟
@@KimSearch865 you’re welcome! Thank you so much! ☀️
im so glad skinny shaming was included. people need to realize that it is a thing and its hurtful.
Agreed!
I agree.
Unrelated, but your comment kinda reminds me of Heterophobia. It's getting more and more common yet people ignore it. They say it's "not important because it's not as severe and common as homophobia". Like wtf??? That isn't a good reason to just ignore it and say "heterophobia doesnt exist" when it clearly does.
Some people are even starting to use heterosexuality as an insult... where's this world going?
Stopping homophobia to start heterophobia? This still isn't right. Why are people like that... why is human brain like that.
I agree. When I started going to the gym I was 5’3” and 93lbs. I was bullied relentlessly by a couple that would come in around similar times I would. I had actually known their daughter because she was in the same grade as me at the time so these were people that should have known better as they were parents. I ended up canceling my membership and going to an anytime fitness that is three blocks away from my house and I only used to go at night hours because it had made me that insecure. Happy ending is 2 years later I’m at a healthy 130lb and gaining because I’ve found that bodybuilding as given me confidence I didn’t know I could have.
@@GakusCrush heterophobia isnt a thing. in almost all cases, heterophobia is used as an ironic joke as heterosexuality is still the only socially accepted (across the world, it is the norm) and most previlant sexuality. shouldnt rlly to explain the power dyanmic between heterophobia vs homophobia but there it is
@@noah-ns2qd heterophobia IS a thing. I know a gay man who told me himself he was heterophobic, that he couldn't stand heterosexual people etc.. even online, for example on Quora, you can see many many LGBT people who claim to BE heterophobic. stop saying it isnt a thing when it obviously is, all phobias exist and you'll have to realize it because that's how life is.
4:40 that young boy made me so happy, I was bullied my entire childhood for my body and hearing a young person say what he said was so refreshing
the man who said “you two look like idiots doing nothing commenting on this girl” 👏🏼 👏🏼 he’s right! always speak up for yourself
Imagine you go to the gym to workout and exhaust yourself and in the middle of your exercices there are two idiots coming at you "oOouh look at thAT perSON with their PanTS" i'd be like "girls why are you here??" too. Everyone goes to the gym to workout and focus on themselves. Yes there are prejudices but usually people don't waste their time at the gym to judge other people.
Honestly if i saw a 'fat' person at the gym, i would respect them so much more because they are trying to be fit and healthy you know
Edit: Im not say big people arnt healthy okayy im just saying i respect them for being at the gym😂
@Crusty Caleb good for you hun, people are just assholes. Good on you for not letting them get to you and achieving your goals 🙂 x
Big time eh. I saw a morbidly obese lady on the treadmill and all I have is respect. People who are making healthy changes deserve nothing but respect.
@Crusty Caleb No worries :) you can do anything you set your mind to. You're proof of that 🙂 you're an inspiration.
Yeah. Two people live 3 hours away from a location. One of them gets the call to be there 3 hours before they have to be there, and the other gets the call 1 hour before. You wouldn’t shame the person for showing up late. They’re at the beginning of their journey, so don’t shame someone for not being at the same point as where you are.
Being overweight isn't always about eating and training habits. It is also about hormones, medical conditions and physical limitations. I know a person who is almost completely blind after a brain tumour. The tumour also affected their metabolism heavily. As such, they have become extremely overweight. Even while trying to eat healthy.
I think the trademark phrase of WWYD is “I’m just saying what everybody is thinking!”
Or, "I'm just trying to help them"
Honestly ya
True lol
Actually I think not
No
I used to be a big girl. 100+lbs overweight. I have belonged to 2 different gyms in my city. I have never been teased, shamed, or even looked at funny by anyone in either gym. I only been lifted up, encouraged, made friends, and received love from the others gym users.
Too fat- eat a salad
Too skinny- eat a burger
Not fat nor skinny- *still makes rude comments on their body*
Either way, society ALWAYS, ALWAYS has their ways to judge people.
Agree really
Plain
I’m not fat or skinny.
•TaylorLulu• yes you’ll get judged no matter how you look so you just have to make yourself happy cause not everyone will agree or like you and constantly judge you for whatever you do
People go left they're wrong people go left still... wrong they can never be right whatever they do hehe
The fact skinny shaming was included made me happy, the amounts of “men like meat not bones” “I feel bad for whoever will marry you because you’re a toothpick” and so on and so forth that we hear is always shoved under the rug as us “looking for attention”
My sister and cousin were skinny. People never shut the fxck up about that. Like seriously don't you think some people have a fast metabolism. My brother sister and cousin could eat ravenously all day and not gain 2 pounds. Whilst I ate like 2 hot dogs and got instantly 3 pounds heavier. Shyt was so retarded. My dad genetics didn't affect me the way it did them.
@@ichoosemysanity6467 that's my entire childhood. I used to not look in the mirror. Body shaming sucks.
@@hevxhev Yea I had my own body image issues which was equal to or worse than being thin.
yeaaa fr I had the biggest smile on my face when I saw they included skinny shaming
Also eating won't help like do you think the meat will go to my hips or breast?????? Like lol even if I eat more it would not change my overall body type
As someone regularly told to “eat a cheeseburger” I greatly appreciate you also including the skinny shaming in this video.
Haha I have been told that many times too lol
Do we have same friends 🤔?
@@RukhShariq Oh.. Those aren't friends.
I eat 2 cheeseburgers almost daily(McD's by work) and still wear a size 5.(not supper skinny, but still)
I've been told my whole life "if I ate like that I'd be obese" or "not everyone can eat everything and not gain weight." I eat what I want, when I want. I like eating a whole medium pizza and watching everyone's shocked faces, or going back 4 times at a buffet. It might catch up to me one day, until then...
(BTW, I'm in my 40s, still waiting for that day)
same i have really fast metabolism and sometimes i used to eat so much as possible to gain weight, but i never really did, so i was bodyshamed by everybody, lots of people at school, my pe teacher, so i used to sob and sob wanting to die. i wasnt even very skinny
Same
work out because you love your body, not because you hate it.
When you do a good deed but John Quinoñes doesn’t come over-
Years of academy training wasted!
So u do a bad deed because u wont be caught
I know it's a joke lmao, but remember, God always sees you :)
@@jmat9909 true words 🙏
@Adelina Filifili first off I completely agree and second this was just a joke :)
"You look like a complete idiot just sitting there doing nothing" When I almost spit out my tea 😂 So true hahaha
@@annakish9879 That is not true. No one should be made fun of, but for instance Lizzo is not physically beautiful. And don't say beauty is subjective, it is not.
@@jwill5892 Beauty is subjective whether you like to hear the truth or not. You're really claiming all skinny people are attractive? Thinness is the only requirement for beauty? No it's not. Hateful and rude people will always find some physical feature to criticize. Big noses, thin lips, bald head etc.
@@jwill5892 oh its absolutely subjective. i think lizzo is absolutely gorgeous and youre not one to change my mind
@@reagandyba9257 I think he should have said objective because no one is technically factually beautiful but everyone is subjectively beautiful because someone will think someone is beautiful.
Right!!😄😄
i’m overweight and my best friend is underweight, seeing both being represented makes me feel so so so good
Me too! We both want to go to the gym together to improve our health, but that doesnt mean we’re obsessed with losing/gaining weight. Im so happy people are paying attention to how toxic people’s attitudes to body image can be
Yesssss, I had 3 close friends growing up who were RAIL thin, and I was overweight. It’s what is on the inside that counts.
That's awesome!
@@EstoyPensando Fat Girl For Sorry Boy
People at the gym are honestly the most supportive and positive people I've ever met.
That's why the word chad exists.
So true, even they helping me when i do the wrong things. People in gym really know how it feels to be skinny or fat
I'm overweight and very self-conscious about it. I don't have the balls to go into a gym looking the way I do.
That one guy: "You guys look like idiots just standing there and commenting on the girl."
The bodyshaming bullies: 👁👄👁
Kevin Richards, he appeared to be older than her. A lot of people refer to people as girl if they are younger than them and are female (or identify as a women) and refer to people as boy if they are older than the person they are talking about ( and if they are male or identify as a man. ) My father often refers to people he works with as “kids” because he is older than them even though they are in their twenties.
Kevin Richards, you might have been joking but I don’t know. Technically you are right. She is not a girl. Hopefully I don’t seem like a know it all. Lol
Kevin Richards if you act like a child you get referred to as a child
If your fat they judge you
if your skinny they judge you
If yout smart they judge you
If your dumb they judge you
If you die
Them: OMG I loved them so much OMG I miss them
Me: wait what
Basically
That is so true... like I can’t even express it
if you die they act like you were best friends
You're*
Nobody can live their life because almost everyone has something to say. Like people ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT. NOTHING is ever perfect for them! Like instead of working on themselves and living their OWN life they choose to do this.
I’m sorry but is nobody talking about how that guy WAS 16?!?!?!?!?!?!
This show is to portray a message not to simp over random people who don't even know you exist.
Anjuma 2 we wernt simping, he just looks older than 16!!😂😂
Yeah he's good looking but just imagine how outrage ppl will be if it was a girl
Valeria Garcia 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒍𝒍 I’m not simping, I literally just said he looks older than 16...😂😂
@@xoey309 i just edit it sorry i didn't read what u typed
This happened today with me
A friend of mine(male) commented on a female's physique saying "she looks pathetic in a bikini,she should look at herself" . I couldn't help but put him in his place by saying he has not right to comment on anyone's dressing sense and how would he feel if anyone commented on his shortcomings
If ur chubby, u get called fat, if your slim, u get called a stick and if ur average they say ur too “normal” wtf does humanity want-
Some people are built different than others. Some people are thin, some are plump, some have wide hips, and some are full in the bosom. As long as you're healthy it doesn't matter.
Shyanne Wipp agreed, ur body is for u and if it’s healthy u don’t need to change it for somebody else
Idgaf why they want, you shouldn't to, I am who I am, you are who you are.
@@Skipper86 Let's be real about what healthy is.
ΑΓΓΕΛΙΚΉ ΓΙΑΒΆΣΗ exactly sir/ma’am right here ur speaking fax
He’s a respectful teenage BOY? well damn😏
IKR? Bless the people raising him.
The bar is so low 😭
@@anaschneider3469 fr though 😂
@@anaschneider3469 ever looked in the mirror? perhaps your bar is also low, you earn respect, it isn't a right.
@@lewistaylor2858 respect is literally a right by law... Atleast we’re i’m from.
Y'all can't imagine the amount of tears that i cried when they said they were doing skinny-shaming too, body shaming isn't only fat-shaming and i feel like not a lot of people realises that. This show is my happy place istg
Omg thanks for 1k i didn't realise so many ppl felt like me abt this (; And i love everyone in the comments u are strong and beautiful
Fr 😓 I’ve been called twig, skeleton, and anorexic. I’m glad it’s getting more awareness.
Agreed 💞
Fr tho 😭
Exactly! People can be naturally skinner, sick, have cancer or many other reasons. People judge skinny people too accusing them of being a drug addict. These comments can be very hurtful as I’ve experienced being judged for being too skinny. I ended up binge eating to put on weight which made me put on more than I intended and left me not wanting to leave the house for a month even to get groceries I had to get my partner to pick up my essentials. Nothing is worse than feeling like a prisoner in your own home because that’s where you feel safest and most comfortable.
same
well using lizzo didn’t age well at all 😂😂😂
When i saw lizzo i ran to the newest replies
Imagine if they go up to someone and their like why didn’t you say anything and the person stands there like -_- and it turns out their deaf
😆
Shanedawsonschesthair that would be so awkward! I wouldn’t be too surprised if that happened in a clip that wasn’t shown in the show.
I’m sure it’s already happened
Alyeah yeah i remember it happening but i’m still not sure
I would act like i don't understand English.
I said this in the first trailer but:
Mocking an overweight person at the gym is like mocking an alcoholic at an AA meeting.
(Unfortunately I did not come up with this and don’t know who did, but still, the point still stands.
Exactly, it’s like mocking a cancer patient in a hospital. It makes no sense to body shame at a GYM.
Same for mocking an underweight person
Billie Eyelash exactly they’re probably at the gym to build muscle!!
Or hating on someone who is in a wheelchair for using a handicapped parking spot
Moth Idk That’s not even funny 🖕
Fat, skinny, tall, short, with special needs, it’s doesn’t F matter, they all have the right to wear what ever they desire!
FACT: yes they do....but its not always gonna look good. also a FACT
Karina Peters 🤣 I love how you explained your wardrobe dilemma! I fell you my dear since my mother is a big lady and she finds difficulty’s finding clothes that fits her. But since we are Arabic and we live in the Middle East my mom wears big floating dresses 👗 were it doesn’t matter if you have big waist or big hips 🤣👍
tyrone loki my dear, I totally agree with you that sometimes people wear clothes that don't look good on them, it doesn't attract their bodies, but who am I to judge, especially at the GYM, it's a place we shouldn't judge, or argue about what people should wear. Because the gym is the place to work out and sweat 😓.
Now on the other hand, it's a different story when someone is dressed up in disgusting and obnoxious clothing in places such as Walmart . When I watch TH-cam videos of people who are seen in the craziest clothes at Walmart it makes me want to puke 🤢
tyrone loki to you. just worry about your own outfit is how i see it
people make fun of me for being tall. my friend said “you go FEE FI FO FUM” (like a giant). i pretended to laugh but inside i was crying. 😔🥺😔
The gym is a place for positive motivation and to better ones self.
me before losing weight: *fat shamed*
me after losing weight: *skinny shamed*
there's no winning
Well. It probably depends if you are skinny and curvy. Thad probably why they do that
The problem is people care too much about what others think.
don’t care about what they say 💕 you’re beautiful!!
@@H42-w7y but we don't know that.
@@James-cs2dz everyone looks beautiful,dear....if we are going to define beauty by a certain scale...it goes unsaid that we are calling the others "not beautiful"...plus it's easier not to care in today's world....can't keep telling to people to not judge
I was fat-shamed as a little girl to my teen years when I wasn’t overweight and then was skinny shammed and accused of having anorexia when I was fighting cancer at 15 by the same people. I eventually learned to not give a crap what people say or think about me and my body if they’re not my doctors. Now when I see it happening to others I try to shut it down right away and tell them how wrong they are. It’s disgusting and harmful.
I'm so proud of you💜
I'm really sorry to hear that ,you deserved better,I just want you to know your amazing and so strong,people who do this type of stuff need to know this isn't right,they disgust me ,I wish people someday realise the way to treat people,Im really sorry for what people have to go through,Im here for anyone who needs someone to talk to:)
Sorry you experienced that. It happened to me. It happens to guys too.
I’m so sorry to hear that, God bless you. Keep fighting, you are loved and blessed💕💕
humans have a natural enemy. its humans since we just love to tear each other down
the actors could’ve made the acting more lowkey because the bullying was a little EXAGGERATED
I take it you've never attended high school. Ignoring a bully only irritates them more.
@@jamaljamal6169 True. The more you ignore them the more they attack you.
@kha0snv7 or a kettlebell, you'll have a better grip
They need to attract more attention because WWYD basically needs the tension to run. Also, at they gym, people will listen to music so if the acting isn't exaggerated overall, they won't be noticed. That's just my opinion though lol
No it's there real people like this
My mother said something similar to this. She excused her actions by saying “I’m fat so I can judge other fat people”. SMH.
Not being funny but girls would say it quietly, they wouldn't shout it out.
@X'Zayvian Cruz its not rude lol 💀💀
jk its so disrespectful
@X'Zayvian Cruz but the world doesn't act like that, people talk about other people and that's it really.
X’Zayvian Cruz - I totally understand and think your are absolutely right. NO ONE has the right to say rude/insults to anyone confining anything about them. This could include about someone’s scars, weight, deformed body, and appearance PERIOD. But I will agree with Debbie that there are people who are just rude because that’s the way life works. No matter how we much we don’t want it to. There will always be that one person who just messes it up for everybody.
@@averymaynard3841 hey Avery, your name sounds familiar.. anyways you didn't even read the whole thing so try again, luv!
Meh, most of the time. I've met some girls who were loud and proud about their crappy and hurtful opinions.
As an obese woman, this made me cry so bad because i can see myself in that situation. It is not funny being called fat...i know for a fact that i am and that's why i'm doing something about it. But to hear those words though...just breaks my heart.
Don't hear anyone, nobody at all. Most people at the gym don't really care, plus do you believe bodyshamer's opinions matters? Absolutely not. I also hit the gym, go there and don't care about your surroundings, have your good time and learn to love yourself❤️
I got ur feeling... As a skinny woman this also made me cry a lot (also bc I wasn’t expecting for ppl talking about skinny shaming so it was kinda like a shock to me)!
@Helena,
*Damn, you sure are a lil’ CUTIE 😍! May I PLEASE make direct payments towards your college tuition/student loans (Soon-To-Be Dr.) 😩?*
you so pretty
Ignore people who are jealous of your determination. Hopefully something like this doesn’t happen to you irl
lets be honest, no woman wants to be approached at the gym when they are full of sweat especially not on camera seen by millions on national TV
It's ok they'll gladly allow their faces to be shown after they get paid
Beorge Gush Depends on how much -LOL
why not?
Beorge Gush wait the people who stepped in get paid?
To be fair, some of these people didn't even get to exercise because they were focused on the bullying.
I remember when I was on the tennis team. There was this one high school that was much better than us in skill, but the girls were very rude. They were always criticizing our tennis uniforms and hair. Their biggest priority, apparently, was looking good on the court while beating us. We were never concerned about our looks because the goal was to win. I didn’t care if I looked cute, win or lose. All I cared about were the smaller victories I could get against this team.
All the comments be saying “If I saw a fat person at the gym, I would have nothing but respect for them.” I hope y’all also treat fat ppl with respect outside of the gym too tho lol.
Right!
LITERALLY
Fr I’m cringing because every single comment is comparing fat people being at the gym to something extreme like a meth addict going to rehab. Like these people are really trying hard not to seem fatphobic lmao.
Shannon
I don’t believe so, they’re real situations
Nik's space I’m not sure what you mean. My comment was just pointing out that all the people in the comments are trying to sound like they have the utmost respect for fat people when the comparisons they use compare fat people to like people who need rehab and people who need cancer treatments lol. Nothing makes me feel more confidant than being compared to someone with pneumonia going to the hospital 😍😍
“There aren’t always two pretty best friends”
Fucking best comment right here. Pretty sad that im the only person who liked it.
bruh
I fucking hate that saying,It gets on my nerves.People shouldn't care about appearance
@@mritten its just a meme, calm down bruh
WHERES THE TIMESTAMP FOR WHEN THEY SAY THAT
Fat shaming someone for going to the gym is like shaming a student for going to school.
Every starts somewhere
Thx Papa Stalin
Hail Stalin
Joseph Stalin or skinny
But here in the Soviet Union no one fat cause no one has food.
He said “dead ass” 😂
I would be like, “Um that’s what gyms were made for, losing weight”
Also to gain some
not 100%, but yeah
it's not just for losing weight it's also for people who need strength
19kClutch or gaining
Everyone has abs it’s just how well developed they are
Poking fun at an overweight person at a gym is like poking fun at a homeless person at a job fair... These people are just trying to better their lives.
If anything, they should be showed ecouragement, not disrespect.
Aww that's so sweet
John: so how come you didn’t speak up confront the bullies?
Girl: I mean their acting was terrible.
She isn’t wrong. And I doubt that anyone would do it in the gym. Like in a school yea but not in a public gym.
Cookie Boy that’s what I’m saying lol. She picked up on it being fake immediately for those reasons: it isn’t realistic and their acting was bad.
@@Hgh38 wrong. I was fat shamed at my gym. I was known by a couple of guys as Shamu. They also said I was ugly and i should do the world a favor andkill myself. They were high school kids. I guess they didn't realize I was 35 and I don't need children's approval. I put them into their place. People who are bullies will be bullies anywhere.
@@jessicaely2521 are you make or female because your names kinda throwing me off
@@ironfist1094 I dont know. What is it worth to you??????
This didn't age well since Lizzo is being sued for calling people fat and being hostile LOL
i don’t understand people tell “fat” people to go to the gym but when they’re at the gym they’re judged so ????
and it is sad mostly women are the ones who do the making fun.
Exactly.
So be an adult and don't worry about what complete strangers think of you.
its actually not common for people to be shamed at the gym at least not openly. Most people that consistently train at the gym would offer assistance and encouragement if given the chance. Sure youll always have the assholes but most people either wont acknowledge them at all or are happy to see someone trying to better themselves. .
@@ah7027 actually, when I’m overweight due to my medicine, and people would make similar comments to me ALL THE TIME
Dude leggings are the most comfortable pants to ever exist! Working out in them is almost like working out naked
Nice
Unless they’re itchy, that’s true.
Leggings after a shower is the worst especially if you don't shave
No they terrible they stick to your skin
Bad quality materials are the worst.
When that one actress said, “it’s just distracting.”, it reminded me of the bullsh!t schools give girls for showing just a little bit of shoulder or having a skirt that’s less than an inch above the knee💀🙄
yeah that's exactly what I was thinking smh
This was illuminating on a few levels. When I heard the social media comments I thought, “well that’s mean, but social media is like that.” When I heard those same comments out loud I was horrified. Goes to show how often people will post stuff they’d never say out loud in public and the rest of us are being desensitized to the online stuff as a result. As a teacher, I’d love to see a kids version for health classes and social media education. How to deal with bullies 101 and what your mean online comments really sound like.
I love how the did fat-shaming and skinny-shaming..as a skinny person it really touched home for me
Same
yeah! people always forget that skinny shaming actually happens MORE than fat shaming. people do it so much and subtly too, so it can be harder to pick up. but skinny shaming is just as bad, even worse in some cases.
@@dreamerspringswalks even worse? no, it's not a competition but since you want to make it to be, the beauty standard and most modern clothes were literally built around skinny people's body. comparing when i was fat to when i was skinny, i was treated SO much differently when i was skinny. nobody talked to be when i was fat but then when i was skinny suddenly i got asked out and approached my people everyday. it's not a competition but don't say skinny shaming is worse because it's not.
@@Joemamaa6969 When someone's being called fat EVERYONE jumps in at least from my personal experience but when someone is being skinny shamed no one talks and it's like a "joke" and it's fucked up...
nostalgic springs “Skinny shaming” is simply fat sloppy women lashing out because they know they are unhealthy and make poor choices.
"...at the gym, where there should be space for every body."
Such a good ending line because it works in two-fold. The gym is a space for everybody for every body.
I heard we’re there should be space for ever bo and then a toothpaste ad came😈
I like that they mentioned skinny shaming and I think many people overlook skinny shaming but it’s still a problem, if you are being made to feel bad for your body then it’s the same
yea definitely people tend to overlook skinny shaming but its just as much of an issue as fat shaming is
Used to have a friend that was fat and she would keep telling this really thin girl to eat more and would just always be on her ass about her weight and how she needed to gain. We were all friends but it bugged my skinny friend so much and made her self conscious and depressed. She was just naturally skinnier. But it breaks people down just as much as bullying a person for being fat.
Skinny shaming is not on the same level as fat shaming.
@@goesrawr doesn't make it any less wrong.
it is different than fat shaming because skinny people are the beauty standard.
That’s dope the show ran a scenario for skinny and overweight and also really glad to see men speaking up too. It would be so easy to just laugh it off or ignore it especially if it’s someone that probably isn’t your type but it takes guts to standup to bullies in general but especially on behalf of a stranger. Kudos to all the kind people in the gym.