Women shamed for how they look in gym outfits | WWYD
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- “What Would You Do?” hit the gym to see how people responded when they saw actors playing body-shaming bullies criticize a woman for working out in leggings.
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Imagine being shamed for being overweight at a gym. A GYM.
I 😅 used to be moderately obese and I used to go 😪 to the 🛌 gym 😅 all the time 🙏. People understood that I was exercising to try to lose weight 🙏.
@@hannahduggan3599 i love to see bigger ppl at the gym hives me more motivation tbh p
@@zacharyenck1087 I lost 😢 weight 😫 at 20 years old.
@@hannahduggan3599 im 15 at 120 wit mostly muscle hoping to compete soon💪🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@@hannahduggan3599 why you use so much emojis
being body shamed at a gym is like being shamed for being sick at a hospital.
So true!
Not really. There is a thing such as decency when dressing
@@hhbkjpointy7275 ain’t nobody dressing for other people we are dressing to look good for ourselves so stfu
@@breannaacosta3121 👎🤙☝️🤞👌🤚👋
@@breannaacosta3121 right! Also especially at the gym you want to be comfortable
For any potential gym goers who are conscious about their body: THIS IS NOT NORMAL BEHAVIOR. 99% of people at the gym are some of the nicest people you will ever meet and will respect you for coming in. Do not be discouraged or turned off from going by the behavior seen in this video.
Agree. Its usually outside the gym where it happens. I get fit-shamed and have only had it happen once in a gym.
Exactly or they just won’t say anything and will be focused on their own workout
That is so true... they dont care how it is your outfit they focus on the training, they know that working out is hard and some of them will encourage you to get what you want...
Who cares how you look.. you should be applauded for putting time and effort into your health
Yeah, No one Is "shaming" Anyone who Is trying to better themselves. Unless Its planet fitness and you grunt a little loud :P
Love watching people stick up for each other. Made me tear up ngl
same!
Same!!❤
Dude here, same absolutely nothing makes me cry, except apparently, unexpected kindness 😢
Actor: *is blatantly rude and uncalled for in public*
Person: "Stop."
John: "Incredible."
Because most people wouldn't say anything.
@@simplytutu3517 ye, i know, it's jus a joke lol
Yeah, they are running out of ideas.
😆😆😆 he's always like that
🤣🤣
If an overweight person is at the gym, that means they're actually trying to do something about it! Don't put someone down who's trying to make an effort.
I feel that body shaming is a valid way of prompting people to improve themselves.
Spacemonster Killer 1) no it’s not
2) it’s no ones business what you look like
3) if they are at the gym they are already trying to make change why continue to shame them
@@julialeland4387 I happen to appreciate the positive aspects of body shaming, but even if you don't, why make a spectacle of yourself? Why not just mind your own business and let it go?
Marl Kalone or trying to be healthy. same goes for skinny ppl
Spacemonster Killer what are you talking about?? People should just mind their own business and stop worrying about what other people look like. The body shammer is the one making a “spectacle” of the situation.
I love that they showed both sides of this. I've had problems with my weight ever since I had my daughter, no matter how much i exercise or what i eat, and I've been given a lot of crap for it even from family. Meanwhile my younger brother has a crazy fast metabolism and for most of his life was super skinny no matter how much he ate and he was severely bullied for it when we were kids. This stuff really does happen to people on both ends of the scale. Kudos to every person that defended the people being bullied in this vid, we need more people like them 👏👏👏
to be honest i don't really see the point in calling people names over their weight. it's not nice and i don't think people realize just how important someones mental health is in trying to loose weight and just in general. that's probably the reason why you're having such a hard time loosing weight. your family needs to calm down. if i were you i'd just not keep in contact with them. you and your bro deserve so much better, don't let others bring ya down.
if you're set on loosing weight tho i recommend a diet of only three meals a day, no snacks in between. for the diet there are some rules of what you cannot eat. no sugar, no sugar, did i mention no sugar? you wanna get your carbs from vegetables and fruit. its very important you don't eat any processed foods and eat a lotta salads. you wanna pair a vegetable with lean proteins, it could be fish, chicken, etc. you'd actually be less hungry this way. once you do start using fat for energy, because you've run out of all those sugars, your body actually likes it better. for exercise i'd recommend lifting weights and doing cardio for a bit every day and just try to get 8 to 9 hours of sleeps every night. sorry this was so long, and again this was just a recommendation so don't get too upset with me lol.
and tell your bro being super skinny is awesome! why just be a skeleton for halloween when you can be one all year round?
-from an also supper skinny person :)
Yeah, I'm the same way. I find it so hard to lose weight, it's been a really struggle to lose about half my body weight over the years and I was bullied heavily for my size. Pretty much any weight related insult has been thrown my way at one point or another. My fiancé on the other hand, can't gain any weight and is super skinny. People have made comments to him like "why are you with a fat chick when you're so thin?" or, my personal favourite, "you're so lucky to be able to eat whatever you want and stay so skinny!" Yeah, no, it's not lucky when going one day without food means that he gets really sick and lethargic, has to eat the equivalent of two large men's meals to maintain a healthy weight. He easily eats between 4k and 4.5k calories a day. His favourite response to their "you're so lucky" comments is "live my life, eat what I have to eat just to stay alive, let alone healthy and then tell me how lucky I am." Of course, he's got detractors as well, telling him how he should eat more and work out to bulk-up. He responds with "you pay the food bill and I'll do just that" with a quick breakdown of what he needs just to maintain his weight. He's quite confident in telling "the morons" to get lost.
People have made snide comments about both him being super skinny and me being fat. It really does happen at both ends of the spectrum.
@@SushiKatGamer yeah, it's something that sucks about this world. i find that as long as you're comfortable in your own skin it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. and if your not, you'll learn to be. eventually. just need some patience. :)
Don't give up. Diets arent one size fits all and even though the energy in VS energy expended thing IS true, it's a gross oversimplification of what's going on inside your body.
When it seems like you're doing everything right and it's not working it means you're not. And by that I mean, the advice doesn't work for you and therefore you're not doing what works for your body mind and lifestyle.
I won't give you unsolicited diet advice because that's not fair but if you're interested I can make a few suggestions of quite small things that I tweaked which made a HUGE impact on my ability to lose weight. I was also stuck like you, working out religiously and dieting until I was miserable but still not losing weight.
It actually got me super interested in nutrition and fitness and it's become a bit of an extra-curricular for me, particularly any approach to dieting that is holistic and focuses on overall health rather than attaining a particular body shape (let's be real, no body needs that pressure/stress)
@@rituEllie very well said. :)
The last time I was judged for what I wear was in high school. Kids can be so mean, but adults should know BETTER
they do. this is totally unrealistic
Some just don’t grow up. 😔 it’s kind of realistic.
It is realistic. This kind of talk happens a lot, maybe more quietly, but some people are very rude and mean. I've seem childish behavior like this from grown adults who should know better.
@@SportsBossMan Yep, there's some people that don't grow up. I have zero booty, and a group of women were mocking me for it. And I'm a guy so I was like "wtf what are you doing? You don't have anything better to do?" I think they might have been drinking? (im autistic and very bad at telling if people have been drinking)
They called me dorito man and I must admit that was pretty funny but still what the hell?
This is the last one I'll watch...
This is the last one I'll watch...
This is the last one I'll watch...
I have so much to do and here I am watching these scenes one after the other for more than 2 hours 😭
@@luayredgrave5897 same! Lol
Same😂
@@luayredgrave5897 2?! HAH ive been on this like a drug 👁👄👁 help me.
I know, right? I also have my favourite ones that I keep going back to as well
I helped an old lady cross the road once but realised John Quinones wasn’t there so I stole her bag
Okay this was funny as hec
LOL
I-
Appl E please don’t swear
🤣 🤣 🤣 love that ! Good one!!!
glad they included skinny shaming as well as fat shaming. my mom told me that she was always called a "toothpick" at her school for being relatively thin and the opposite has happened to me where people will call me a fat*ss at my school. its heartbreaking to hear those kinds of things
yup, i’m overweight due to an ed and have been bullied for it, my best friend is underweight due to diabetes, being premature and other medical problems and has also been bullied for it. nobody can really win in a world like this
My sister and I were skinny shamed all throughout our childhoods and school. It’s a real thing and I’m glad they highlighted both. Body shaming no matter what size is terrible
Yes
I'm also thin n gets joke on about it
*"If you're fat they judge you.."*
*"If you're skinny they judge you...."*
It's sad cause its true...
It sure is truth
As a skinny guy that's putting on some weight it's not sad. If your too skinny your unhealthy if your too fat your unhealthy. I'm not gonna cry about it do what you gotta do to be healthy or suck it up and own up to being unhealthy. You shouldn't be made fun of but don't be happy that your unhealthy
@@ahmedhajjaj5121 no ones doing that, you're making up situations in your head that have nothing to do with what OP said. Stop derailing the conversation
@@epicstyle160 allot of people say you should be happy at any size and I think that inspires laziness. You should only be happy if you're in the process of changing that aka going to the gym or eating more.
Common denominator is that 99% who make these comments are women
Shaming an overweight person in a gym is like shaming a child for being in school.
or shaming a person who did drugs for being in rehab.. smh
Great point
Okay, but I go to the gym as much as possible, and I'm glad to say I've never actually see anyone shame or insult an overweight person at the gym.
Copied from @Max Bowen
@@praneethmashetty591 nope i didn't even check comments.
I used to be a gym rat ( now im old but still in shape ) and body positivity was a big thing back then. Everyone used to lift each other up, that's why I loved going. It didn't matter what shape you were in, you were at the gym, and that made you one of us. It was like a mini club/society.
similar to a cycling club. The weaker riders can just sit in the draft and get stronger. One day they'll be pulling us all along. Never shame someone out of the opportunity to improve.
I love people in general that are so comfortable in their own skin to defy people's bs. Those that stand up for others are incredible.
That's true! I love this show for that. Funny, I always get dust in my eye when watching it...
A bit ironic
@@xolovenicole I see what you did there, and I agree. It is astounding that this person would comment that.
@@jbk0507 preaching the opposite of what they do
huh!☠️
I would hate to be the "bullying" actor. I'd just be thinking "John, come out NOW" the whole time.
Oh i would like to. I used to be the mean guy back in High School, but then i stopped. I miss my stupid old me haha, i would be nice feeling being a bully again
I guess the bullying actors get paid well for their role, unless those actors don't have a conscience and are able to talk that way effortlessly.
Hahahaha same here!! But to the other people its called acting.. If you listen closely, they only taller about the yoga pants without saying the word fat but they did say, skinny 🤔
Same, I kept thinking I couldn't be that mean even if I was just acting
@@francescofilippini9387 Wtf-
Imagine how awkward it would be if someone joined in with the bullies 😳
It would be so funny though, lol.
Soooooo cringe. They probably said they don't wanna be on cam
🤣🤣🤣omgaaaa🤣🤣
it wouldn’t have been funny, it would be just been disappointing. ppl can be so rude nowadays
🤣🤣 I would have
i remember when i was a bit overweight and felt ashamed to go the gym, but when i did decided to change and went to gym, they are one the most coolest people, gave bunch of tips, how to do proper workout, and one dude even made diet plan for me for free!
4:39 THIS is the real Chad, a well educated, empathetic young person who respects everyone.
The world would be so much better with more people like him.
being body shamed at a gym is like laughing at a poor man at a job interview
Love this analogy
Faxxxx
or a sick person at a hospital like it makes no fucking sense
@Atzo its actually a good analogy, you’re just probably too slow and cant think it through
I agree with this one
I’m so glad they put the skinny shaming in because it is never talked about . Everyone has insecurities
Not everyone. Some people are cocky as hell because that's just who they are. It's not always about insecurities
So true I have always been small and all I hear is you need get some meat on them bones.
Right!! Like words hurt and body shaming hurts not matter the size
My sister in law hears this a lot and it infuriates me. "Eat a cheeseburger" makes me so angry.
@@cardsfighter2 people are really cocky but that doesn’t mean they don’t have insecurities, their huge ego is like a cushion for them
You just know as soon as one person finally sticks up to the bullies, everyone else presses pause on their music and is secretly listening to it all play out😂😂💀💀
well using lizzo didn’t age well at all 😂😂😂
When i saw lizzo i ran to the newest replies
People bullying fat people
People bullying skinny people
Me: *Wtf is wrong with this world today?*
Idk I’m slim thicc
Its been like that since ever.. now everyone just like to bitch around
Our Lives Falling Apart thick and fat are different
@@trixieagustina6163 Gotta be the ''sexy curvy'' not fat...
Its literally the reason why people have body dismorphia and eating disorders
Sometimes, the actors are so cringey I get second hand embarrassment
Lol that’s why that one girl was like “I didn’t believe it was real” it’s so obviously fake
I cringed so much.
Same I'm like people actually believe this the acting can be so bad
@@kaelynsmith1242 You'd be surprised on how many people act like this.
Jpdanny 88
No
The oddest part of "body shaming" is it happens on both spectrums. I had a very overweight woman tell me I was too skinny and looked hungry. While I was working. Which was offensive. Then she came back with donuts and told me go eat because I looked like I had lost weight since she'd last seen me. It happens everywhere. It's never going to change.
its usually just projection of their own insecurities, like bc yr something theyre not they feel the need to bring u down
As sapphyre said, it's all insecurity. It happens at both ends because either end of the spectrum, isn't "normal". They're deathly afraid and insecure about looking anything like what they feel is "acceptable".
He said “dead ass” 😂
Girl: Yoga Pants aren't for everybody
Me: Then how come they come in different sizes?????
Oooooooooooh
Do you have legs? Then you can wear yoga pants.
Do you not have legs at all? Maybe yoga shorts so they don't get tangled around your stumps. ❤
Big 🧠
Damn personally I like thick girls or thick guys you know what MAN I LIKE EVERYBODY
only people they arent for is the male gender
Laughing at a overweight person at the gym is like laughing at a alcoholic at a rehab center
No I dont think that's ok and you didn't get what I was trying to say
The replies in on this comment is confusing me
Brady MAher what are you say? 😂 she’s being nice
Brady MAher, whoosh!🤦🏻♀️
@Brady MAher I think she meant that she is trying to fix her weight at the gym just like an alcoholic person would try to fix their addiction so making fun of them isnt helping them
A very good friend of mine has been hitting the gym for over 14 months now and has gone through an amazing change in his life. Over 170 pounds lost and still rising. Be careful of who you shame at the gym, they could become the person who ends up looking better than you and stealing your girl or man down the road.
Edit: Changed my comment to include men and women who could both become amazing through hard effort and could take your wife or husband. I'd also like to comment that my same friend has become my inspiration to work out as well and I hope his story does the same for you as well. You can do it. You're all beautiful.
Sooo true!!
work out because you love your body, not because you hate it.
Wwyd actors when they have nothing else to say:
"Im just saying what everyone else is thinking."
lmao. i’ve heard that one from Traci one too many times
JCW 895 yessssssssss
Because bullies irl use these tactics all the time. "A lot of people are saying...", "everybody knows that...", etc.
They tell them what to say they have a mic in their ear telling them what to say
"maybe you should mind your own business"
Imagine actually caring about another person’s appearance. Especially someone you’ve never met.
Imagine actually caring about people their opinions.
Imagine eating Taco Bell every day
ishita jain Imagine never eating Taco Bell.
G V that’s - that’s too painful I can’t
ishita jain yea, I “can feel” de pain.
This didn't age well since Lizzo is being sued for calling people fat and being hostile LOL
I used to be a big girl. 100+lbs overweight. I have belonged to 2 different gyms in my city. I have never been teased, shamed, or even looked at funny by anyone in either gym. I only been lifted up, encouraged, made friends, and received love from the others gym users.
They should just put cams in a middle school. This is everyday life
fr and high school
Seems like schools need to teach classes on how to treat others....
Nothing like this happened when I was in middle school
Camboy9000 well... are you a male ?
@@crystallyzert148 yes
“Skinny shaming” shows you just can’t win as a woman. Fat, thin, curvy, doesn’t matter. Somebody’s always gonna criticize your body.
This..this comment exactly! Women are judged harshly ..no matter how they look or act. By men, by women. They can be pretty much flawless, and someone will find one small thing and highlight it to try and bring them down. It is so sad. 😔
unfortunately, no matter what you look like, people always got something to say :/
I completely agree on this back then I would get picked on for being too thin and now I get told that I’m gaining weight .. when In my opinion I look and feel healthier but oh well everyone has their own opinions....
So true,that's why you gotta love yourself and f@#$what others say,and slap the shit outta them.👊✌😁💯
Ps1 Hagrid yeah i agree but (at least me personally) i’ve seen it happen a lot more to women. not saying ur wrong cuz it definitely happens to men too, but i’ve seen so many times where a guy shames a woman’s body but he’s not the most fit or anything himself
Recently, Lizzo was heard shaming her backup dancers for how they look. Shame on Lizzo.
it was proven false
@@monamugu sure?
Love how she does a video saying it's none of anyone's business what her body type is. Well if it's no one's business why in God's name are you plastering it all over the internet?
People at the gym are honestly the most supportive and positive people I've ever met.
That's why the word chad exists.
So true, even they helping me when i do the wrong things. People in gym really know how it feels to be skinny or fat
I'm overweight and very self-conscious about it. I don't have the balls to go into a gym looking the way I do.
they always shoot these near my hometown i’m scared i make one wrong move in public and john quinones pops out💀
Maybe that’s a good thing?
@@stormyeffects4795 maybe it is
Me *literally in europe*
@@fookingavocados1084 OMG directioner 💖💖💖
@@shaktakhanomchowdhury171 hello fellow directioner
I THOUGHT THE LAST GUY WAS GONNA ATTACK THEM WITH THE POLE JSHSJSHSJSHSHS HELP
LMAKAOAOAKDNAONFOANF
SAME💀💀💀
HE REALLY LOOKED LIKE HE WAS BOUTTA THROW IT AT THEM WITH ALL HIS STRENGTH
SAME LMAOOO
PLEASEE😂😂🤣🤣
The gym is a place for positive motivation and to better ones self.
4:40 that young boy made me so happy, I was bullied my entire childhood for my body and hearing a young person say what he said was so refreshing
I’m so glad they included skinny shaming. A lot of people don’t even realize it’s a thing.
I didnt realise it was a thing... and I was shocked
@@anelekhoza3890 it really is, and it’s awful. As a naturally skinny person, I can’t count the amount of times I’ve been told to “eat a cheeseburger” or been the joke of the day because I “have no meat on my bones” and “is probably anorexic” especially now that thick bodies have become more popular. I was super excited when they covered skinny shaming! Anyways, sorry for ranting lol ☺️
It’s not a thing lmao
*just kidding*
@@ihatemathreadaboutsectionb4907 had me in the first half ngl
@@niasaraeeee haha I’m sorry
Body shaming is literally so rude. I don't even know why people even do it
Welcome to society
@@reredongy literally though
@@bonniehuang8696 yup like you don't need to bring people down just cause you can't stand them being happy
One of my old friends from high school told me if someone gets body shamed, it's their own fault for having their body like that. I stopped being friends with that prick after he said that.
@@jahhaj1020 like you should
Now lizzo is body shaming her dancers lol
XDD
My mother said something similar to this. She excused her actions by saying “I’m fat so I can judge other fat people”. SMH.
i’m glad they switched the roles cause no type of body shaming is okay
Yeah i get skinny shamed alot i can't walk the halls without being called a stick
This video made me pretty happy, I used to look a lot like that skinny girl at my lowest weight and never felt comfortable going to the gym. I didn't end up going until I took weight gaining pills to feel more comfortable with myself
Except short men. Everyone has a go at them.
I wish I could be a stick
Chloe Jayde that’s so great I’m so happy for you. Much love 💗
Does anyone else not watch WWYD for a few months and then they watch one video and then just can’t stop watching? Cause same
Yesss its addicting
that's what would you do to stop watching?
I should be studying rn but I can't stop it
STOP YES LMAO
Yep exactly like that
An incident like this stopped me from going to the gym. 5 people laughed at me for trying to work out slowly. I was sooooooo embarrassed that I left crying. I've never gone back to a gym again and this was 5yrs ago. I try to work out at home 🏡
Just laugh back!
This happened today with me
A friend of mine(male) commented on a female's physique saying "she looks pathetic in a bikini,she should look at herself" . I couldn't help but put him in his place by saying he has not right to comment on anyone's dressing sense and how would he feel if anyone commented on his shortcomings
Man, WWYD is actually wonderful. It gives me hope in humanity.
I wholeheartedly agree!
Same
Yeah it's a good thing in the world
Yeah, but there was one episode where they were acting and making fun of a homeless person and a non-actor joined in :/
Neo Wulf I try bro but it’s not working
absolutely nobody acts like this in a gym, everyone is worried about themselves
I'm sure there are people like this, though they may be a bit less vocal. They could make fun of you under their breath or in their head.
Almost every scenario on this show is super unrealistic lol.
@@JBJones66 its realistic, but its exaggerated
@@Regent192 IK
@@Regent192 I think the only bit that's unrealistic is the loud conversations in a restaurant about sensitive topics tho
I remember when I was on the tennis team. There was this one high school that was much better than us in skill, but the girls were very rude. They were always criticizing our tennis uniforms and hair. Their biggest priority, apparently, was looking good on the court while beating us. We were never concerned about our looks because the goal was to win. I didn’t care if I looked cute, win or lose. All I cared about were the smaller victories I could get against this team.
In real life people don’t make fun of someone publicly like this. They just give glances.
As someone who has actually experienced this type of humiliation I can assure you as a fat person, being made fun of at a gym is absolutely soul crushing.
Yeah, and it just shows that people hide behind the phrase “I care about your health” as an excuse to bully fat people. If they actually cared about a person’s health, they wouldn’t be shaming them at a place where you’re TRYING TO GET HEALTHY.
I’m sorry you had to go through that 😔 I hate people
Keep at it! The best thing you can do is improve despite them. (But do it for yourself.) I believe in you, friend.
Don't let them in you headspace. Those are people who truly hate themselves. It's called projection. They will never be thin enough or fit enough and that's why they project their insecurities on others.
@@JesusChristTheOne exactly! And they wouldn't bring someone's mental health down which can cause an ed.
16 year old is blessed he looks good and he’s respectful shout out to who raised him
Ikr 😂
send this boy mama some flowers and a thank you card!
For real!
How does he have muscle at 16?!?!
@@pichipie Do you not know a single thing about body building?
I'm happy to see everyone who shows up to the gym and puts in work!
This was illuminating on a few levels. When I heard the social media comments I thought, “well that’s mean, but social media is like that.” When I heard those same comments out loud I was horrified. Goes to show how often people will post stuff they’d never say out loud in public and the rest of us are being desensitized to the online stuff as a result. As a teacher, I’d love to see a kids version for health classes and social media education. How to deal with bullies 101 and what your mean online comments really sound like.
i'm glad that the show covered both sides of the problem i wasn't expecting it
Me neither, but it was well appreciated.
Right
Bro I like your name😂
I relate to the second half of the video :(..
jelina vo me too. I remember when I first started lifting weights I was so thin and could barely lift the 25 lb plates.
I like how they didn’t insult the bullies’ looks to shut them up. It’s like it was never about the way you look just the outrage of the words coming out of your mouth
Probably chopped it out - because I would have straight up had a go at least one of them. But then that would have not been a clear message for the programme.
@@mlguy8376 my first go to when someone is insulting someone looks is always something along the lines of “I may be fat, but I can lose the weight. You’ll always be an ugly person inside and that can’t be changed” 😌
It usually works pretty well. Most the time they’re too shocked to speak 😂
@@mlguy8376 yeah sometimes when i react to a situation i pretend im on wwyd and think about what theyd keep in 💀
@@leviisdead 💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭
Might have been edited out
I am so glad you guyz included skinny shaming as well that is just as real as fat shaming. I myself am a victim of skinny shaming and have been for a while. I workout regularly and thankfully nobody at the gym seems to be judgemental, but that is a very real situation thank you!
the guy who said "shows you that they dont feel good about themselves" is so right. all bullies are extremely insecure on the inside.
I love how both fat AND skinny shaming was included, everyone should be respected equally.
Me too! People often think being skinny excludes you from body shaming but it’s just as common. I remember being 15 trying on my first pair of wedges, and two girls walking by said I was too skinny to be wearing them and that I looked horrible. I never ever forgot that moment.
I agree! People used to always call me a stick as a joke and I just laughed with them but it really affected me. It was impossible to gain weight but when I started to get a little older I was gaining some weight and just recently my teacher commented on how I was “filling out” in front of my class. I was amazed by the fact that she thought that was okay.
Exactly, I've been both fat and skinny shamed despite never being overweight, I've always been underweight or close to underweight yet was fat shamed for 3-4 years from 9-13 then it turned to skinny shaming because I developed an ED (I've been getting better now though and eat better... kind of). It's so hurtful when all you hear is "She's such a pig, look at her" or, in more recent years "God, you look thinner than a toothpick, even your chest and butt are flat, it's gross, gain some weight holy shit".
Even my family skinny shame me (Although I think they don't realise they're body shaming me) because they're always calling me a twig or too skinny and telling me to gain weight.
Like yes, I get that I have an ED and need to gain weight BUT I don't need to be reminded of my weight all the time, like... it people make it the main topic of conversations which would be fine in a doctors office or a therapy room but NOT in public and especially not at home where you are supposed to feel safe from judgement.
I agree. Being asked if you’re bulemic or anorexic feels no better than the comments bigger people get. “Stick” and “all bones” aren’t compliments either. And don’t get me started on “real girls don’t look like that” or “there’s nothing to love on your body”, or that you aren’t feminine at all.
I wasn’t even that skinny. I just grew a lot very suddenly and my weight couldn’t catch up yet, it wasn’t so bad. I can’t imagine what girls skinnier than I was back then hear.
I know that fat shaming is an issue, but that’s not the only body type that gets shamed and I’m glad the other end of the scale was addressed here.
I concur. I experienced both and they are both equally horrible. When I was chubby and at a perfectly healthy weight, relatives said I was chubby, that I should exercise, and that I would be prettier if I was less chubby. So I lose weight. Now it is "isn't that unhealthy??" Like, just SHUDDUP PLEASE 🥰☺🙈
It’s so annoying that many people tend to think that overweight people are lazy and trying to lose weight and underweight people are obsessed with how their body looks and being skinny
Some people have genetic predispositions to having a higher body weight unfortunately. Some people naturally will weigh more (genetic tests can show it), some people have health issues, and some people genetically have lower metabolism. It is a fact of life unfortunately. Imagine a world where body averages were decided based on your ethnic profiles, people would have much better ideas about what was really normal for them.
@-rainydayys I think it's something to do with metabolism or something like that. But yes, that is horrible to be bullied for something like that. Especially if someone feels bad about it then it makes it worse
I think weight doesn’t really matter as long as it doesn’t affect your health. One time one of my dance teacher was “fat” but in reality she was very energetic and I loved her she was so kind but she had to go because of university.
@@Nlyoungblood1 most people are fat due to overeating and laziness
People shouldn’t judge before they scoop in the inside ✨🍦
I've had this. I've had the gym staff snicker at me when I said I wanted to sign on. I've had gym users make animal noises at me. Stand in a group point and talk about me. Been left sitting in an empty dojo because nobody believed I was there for the boxing class and couldn't be bothered to tell me the instructor wasn't coming.
I really felt this. I was really overweight a few years ago, I was young and naive and insecure, but I’d had enough and I pushed myself to sign up to a gym, I remember when I first walked into a gym I was so lost and uncomfortable, all the girls had makeup on and looked like models, the guys were all confident, I felt like I was being stared and judged but I knew that the gym was where to get fit and strong and so I stuck it out. I lost about 25-30 kilos and became member of the month in that gym a couple times.
This really upset me because a gym is a place where everybody should be able to go and feel good about themselves, no matter what shape and size. If I ever saw this happening in front of me I’d definitely speak up. Making that decision to get to the gym is hard as it is, support people don’t bring them down.
I really like your comments. I'm overweight, and honestly I don't have the courage to go into a gym looking the way I do. I wouldn't even know what weights to do or anything. I'd be lost in that environment.
I think the trademark phrase of WWYD is “I’m just saying what everybody is thinking!”
Or, "I'm just trying to help them"
Honestly ya
True lol
Actually I think not
No
"You look like a complete idiot just sitting there doing nothing" When I almost spit out my tea 😂 So true hahaha
@@annakish9879 That is not true. No one should be made fun of, but for instance Lizzo is not physically beautiful. And don't say beauty is subjective, it is not.
@@jwill5892 Beauty is subjective whether you like to hear the truth or not. You're really claiming all skinny people are attractive? Thinness is the only requirement for beauty? No it's not. Hateful and rude people will always find some physical feature to criticize. Big noses, thin lips, bald head etc.
@@jwill5892 oh its absolutely subjective. i think lizzo is absolutely gorgeous and youre not one to change my mind
@@reagandyba9257 I think he should have said objective because no one is technically factually beautiful but everyone is subjectively beautiful because someone will think someone is beautiful.
Right!!😄😄
I just love such videos so much. They never fail to give valuabe lessons . We should always lookout for each other . Must speak if we see something wrong. U nvr know how serious things can be if we dont stand for each other
Once, on a school trip, a bunch of the girls all got in one tent and we were all talking about some of our experiences in how we’d been treated and one of the new students who I hadn’t talked to much because we didn’t have a lot in common said that some people at her old school used to call her some horrible names because she was skinny and it was shocking
the man who said “you two look like idiots doing nothing commenting on this girl” 👏🏼 👏🏼 he’s right! always speak up for yourself
Imagine you go to the gym to workout and exhaust yourself and in the middle of your exercices there are two idiots coming at you "oOouh look at thAT perSON with their PanTS" i'd be like "girls why are you here??" too. Everyone goes to the gym to workout and focus on themselves. Yes there are prejudices but usually people don't waste their time at the gym to judge other people.
The 16yo 🥺 His momma/dad raised him right. That makes me happy to see
Gimme your death note please👉👈
Yea that made me happy too
@@laney4588 No 🥺❤
Please Write My Name In The Death Note. It's Spelled "Diet Suicide."
momma/dodda
I teared up at the first encounter.. I’m really proud of the people they spoke up
It's always so heartwarming when people speak up to protect others from that kind of hatred. Always makes me emotional.
I like the guy "you look dumb there doing nothing, speak up to yourself"
I’m glad they had a slim girl facing criticism too. Because my daughter was called anorexic from elementary school thru high school! Even her “counselor” didn’t believe she did not have an eating disorder! It’s caused her a lot of pain and taken time for her to forgive their ignorance.
I was called anorexic all through school as well. I can understand how hard it is, I’m sorry your daughter went through that. I hope she is in a good place now and feels comfortable with her body.
Gentle Khajiit
People just don’t realize how much words hurt. I’m sorry you went through that as well. Yes, she’s 21, and done some modeling which helped her self esteem. And, now going back to college to study biology. She’s doing great! Thanks!
@@KimSearch865 I agree. Oftentimes many people don’t realise that skinny shaming is an issue. I remember my doctor even being disrespectful to me about my size when I was a little older than your daughter, saying I had a ‘child’s body.’
Thank you.
I’m glad to hear your daughter is doing well and her self esteem is positive. Biology sounds like a great avenue of study! I wish you and your family all the best 😊
Gentle Khajiit
Thank you! All the best to you as well! 🌟
@@KimSearch865 you’re welcome! Thank you so much! ☀️
When someone is too "fat" they get criticized. When someone is too "skinny", they get critisized. What is up with this world we live in..
just hv a normal body type...
@@johnsons3654 don’t fall for the trolls
@@johnsons3654 well for me If you can't accept the criticised, Yes. this is life and it's not always positive
Beeing FAT shouldnt be showing as something positive it's fcking unhealthy and it's big problem especialy in the US where half of citzens weight is like 150kg
I was 65kg and I got bullied and now I'm 46kg and I still getting critics about how much weight I lost and how ugly I became. But I really don't give a shit I love me.
That’s dope the show ran a scenario for skinny and overweight and also really glad to see men speaking up too. It would be so easy to just laugh it off or ignore it especially if it’s someone that probably isn’t your type but it takes guts to standup to bullies in general but especially on behalf of a stranger. Kudos to all the kind people in the gym.
I am yet again on another WWYD youtube binge.... I have lost count of how many times I have watched these video over the years.
He’s a respectful teenage BOY? well damn😏
IKR? Bless the people raising him.
The bar is so low 😭
@@anaschneider3469 fr though 😂
@@anaschneider3469 ever looked in the mirror? perhaps your bar is also low, you earn respect, it isn't a right.
@@lewistaylor2858 respect is literally a right by law... Atleast we’re i’m from.
I’m sorry but is nobody talking about how that guy WAS 16?!?!?!?!?!?!
This show is to portray a message not to simp over random people who don't even know you exist.
Anjuma 2 we wernt simping, he just looks older than 16!!😂😂
Yeah he's good looking but just imagine how outrage ppl will be if it was a girl
Valeria Garcia 𝒄𝒉𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒍𝒍 I’m not simping, I literally just said he looks older than 16...😂😂
@@xoey309 i just edit it sorry i didn't read what u typed
I'm stuck with WWYD series til now.. wtf!! I love it...
Love how this show is basically just rewarding people for making good choices. so wholesome
When you do a good deed but John Quinoñes doesn’t come over-
Years of academy training wasted!
So u do a bad deed because u wont be caught
I know it's a joke lmao, but remember, God always sees you :)
@@jmat9909 true words 🙏
@Adelina Filifili first off I completely agree and second this was just a joke :)
I hate that no matter what everyone gets shamed/bullied whether it’s because they’re “Too fat” or “too skinny” or any other thing about you that’s different from someone else. I really hate it.
me too , like ?? why can’t everyone just chill out and not make a comment on someone’s body ?? that’s why so many people are insecure about themselves , is because of everyone’s high expectations !!
That's exactly why I realized at a young age that people's opinions don't matter. Life's alot more enjoyable when you couldn't care less about what others think of you.
true dat! i just love lookin and oogling at those bead sweats drippin and rolling through them caterpillar looking love handles 😍 They're all pink in the inside
If you really think about it, when someone comment on somebody's weight is because they are immature brats that really need to get a life and not to judge others.
Noob get robux noob
For someone who knows what is like to be judged for the way I look, I agree with you. I was stereotyped for being disabled. Not the way I look but what I have been through, and what I been through was traumatic. My spine had a curve structure and I had to get it fixed. I’m afraid of showing my spine, knowing the way they are going to judge me. I’ve been through enough. I’m afraid of being judged because of my spine.
Props also the fact none of the strangers who stuck up for the women resorted to the same low level bullying the actor bullies were doing, no body shaming or nasty on appearances. Practicing what they were preaching!
That one guy: "You guys look like idiots just standing there and commenting on the girl."
The bodyshaming bullies: 👁👄👁
Kevin Richards, he appeared to be older than her. A lot of people refer to people as girl if they are younger than them and are female (or identify as a women) and refer to people as boy if they are older than the person they are talking about ( and if they are male or identify as a man. ) My father often refers to people he works with as “kids” because he is older than them even though they are in their twenties.
Kevin Richards, you might have been joking but I don’t know. Technically you are right. She is not a girl. Hopefully I don’t seem like a know it all. Lol
Kevin Richards if you act like a child you get referred to as a child
As someone regularly told to “eat a cheeseburger” I greatly appreciate you also including the skinny shaming in this video.
Haha I have been told that many times too lol
Do we have same friends 🤔?
@@RukhShariq Oh.. Those aren't friends.
I eat 2 cheeseburgers almost daily(McD's by work) and still wear a size 5.(not supper skinny, but still)
I've been told my whole life "if I ate like that I'd be obese" or "not everyone can eat everything and not gain weight." I eat what I want, when I want. I like eating a whole medium pizza and watching everyone's shocked faces, or going back 4 times at a buffet. It might catch up to me one day, until then...
(BTW, I'm in my 40s, still waiting for that day)
same i have really fast metabolism and sometimes i used to eat so much as possible to gain weight, but i never really did, so i was bodyshamed by everybody, lots of people at school, my pe teacher, so i used to sob and sob wanting to die. i wasnt even very skinny
Same
I love how they were all ready to beat the living daylights of the "bullies". These people were all like "Not today!"
She's trying her hardest be her best self, encouraging her is what u do, give her props and compliment her determination
Too fat- eat a salad
Too skinny- eat a burger
Not fat nor skinny- *still makes rude comments on their body*
Either way, society ALWAYS, ALWAYS has their ways to judge people.
Agree really
Plain
I’m not fat or skinny.
•TaylorLulu• yes you’ll get judged no matter how you look so you just have to make yourself happy cause not everyone will agree or like you and constantly judge you for whatever you do
People go left they're wrong people go left still... wrong they can never be right whatever they do hehe
Imagine if they go up to someone and their like why didn’t you say anything and the person stands there like -_- and it turns out their deaf
😆
Shanedawsonschesthair that would be so awkward! I wouldn’t be too surprised if that happened in a clip that wasn’t shown in the show.
I’m sure it’s already happened
Alyeah yeah i remember it happening but i’m still not sure
I would act like i don't understand English.
Society/world is so critical
I love,when people,stand up,for others in real life.
it’s just beautifully precious.
no its the indiviuals problem
These videos always make me close to tearing up!
me before losing weight: *fat shamed*
me after losing weight: *skinny shamed*
there's no winning
Well. It probably depends if you are skinny and curvy. Thad probably why they do that
The problem is people care too much about what others think.
don’t care about what they say 💕 you’re beautiful!!
@@user-gq5gi2ml5h but we don't know that.
@@James-cs2dz everyone looks beautiful,dear....if we are going to define beauty by a certain scale...it goes unsaid that we are calling the others "not beautiful"...plus it's easier not to care in today's world....can't keep telling to people to not judge
im so glad skinny shaming was included. people need to realize that it is a thing and its hurtful.
Agreed!
I agree.
Unrelated, but your comment kinda reminds me of Heterophobia. It's getting more and more common yet people ignore it. They say it's "not important because it's not as severe and common as homophobia". Like wtf??? That isn't a good reason to just ignore it and say "heterophobia doesnt exist" when it clearly does.
Some people are even starting to use heterosexuality as an insult... where's this world going?
Stopping homophobia to start heterophobia? This still isn't right. Why are people like that... why is human brain like that.
I agree. When I started going to the gym I was 5’3” and 93lbs. I was bullied relentlessly by a couple that would come in around similar times I would. I had actually known their daughter because she was in the same grade as me at the time so these were people that should have known better as they were parents. I ended up canceling my membership and going to an anytime fitness that is three blocks away from my house and I only used to go at night hours because it had made me that insecure. Happy ending is 2 years later I’m at a healthy 130lb and gaining because I’ve found that bodybuilding as given me confidence I didn’t know I could have.
@@GakusCrush heterophobia isnt a thing. in almost all cases, heterophobia is used as an ironic joke as heterosexuality is still the only socially accepted (across the world, it is the norm) and most previlant sexuality. shouldnt rlly to explain the power dyanmic between heterophobia vs homophobia but there it is
@@noah-ns2qd heterophobia IS a thing. I know a gay man who told me himself he was heterophobic, that he couldn't stand heterosexual people etc.. even online, for example on Quora, you can see many many LGBT people who claim to BE heterophobic. stop saying it isnt a thing when it obviously is, all phobias exist and you'll have to realize it because that's how life is.
I have always been bullied or commented on for being skinny even now as an adult this was beautiful to see ppl defending this girls I love it
I'm sorry that you've been bullied for being skinny. People can be so insensitive. They think they're being constructive, but in reality they are been rude and mean. Please don't let them get to you. I love this show when people stick up for those that are being bullied like that. It disgusts me when people make comments. Hey, I'm fat and I know it, but I certainly don't want anybody saying that to me. It can make you feel down about yourself - and I'm already hard on myself because of my weight. Hang in there C.
lizzo trying to take the high road is crazy funny considering the info we have now