Its hard to move on from unrequited love if you have that perfect image in your head from childhood of your ideal partner. And then suddenly here comes this person in your life who has ALL those qualities. And they dont love you back. How can letting go of that be so easy...
Well just try to do your best on what your ideal partner wants in a partner it’s one thing to look for qualities you like but if you lack them yourself than you don’t deserve her/him not forget it works both ways.
@jerolvilladolid, I am relating each and every word you just wrote here. It's nearly impossible for us to let the person go and think like he/she was not made for us. I'm m not able to explain, but it's disturbing, it's painful, it exaust me whenever I get to see her in my random dreams, it's just unexplainable.
@@Paww_funny_Pets Bro... its been 4 months since I was hurt like a knife in my aorta. It still hurts. But not as much. The secret? Yes your ex may be "hot", mine was, but as I mingle with ones with better qualities, not necessarily appearance, just better qualities you liked in your ex in the first place, it will become easier. Cruel truth is when you're in love the other person looks like a diety to you. But there are other clone copies of them out there once the fog clears from your eyes.
Just found out yesterday through my friend that she never even saw me as an option, while I had fallen in love the first time I saw her and talked to her because of her intellect. I thought that she was perfect for me, and I looked forward to it so much. It is truly a big feeling of sorrow and melancholy @@jerolvilladolid
@Andreas16375 Find the source of it trust me. I can't write a paragraph over this because I'm trying to respond to as many people as possible, but I'm sure you'll know what I mean.
I'm a woman but I'm the same way so I feel your pain. I'm loyal and when I fell for a man and it feels special he is in my heart and I will not be able to forget about him easily.
They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Thus, I’m insane because of you, I just can’t stop hoping since 8 years.💔
It has now been 6 years, 1 month and 22 days. Everyday I cry for hours on end. And I think about her all the time. I just can not give up on her, I just can not. And I don't want to. And I will never do that. I swear that I will love her forever and I will remain loyal to her, even if that means dying alone. I love you, Ana!
@@AlexandruMarcu-zo8tnI hear you bud! I can so relate to that feeling. I have got the ultimate crush on my personal trainer. It has only been going on for three weeks. But she is very kind, and did not lead me on. She wants us to remain brother and sister. Some days I just want to drive into a tree. Other days, I would find myself subconsciously steering my vehicle into the path of a semi. Hang in there. I will try my best too.
@@AlexandruMarcu-zo8tn I understand you. I'm in the same position, 10 months now. I will never move on, even though she clearly said she doesn't want me and is probably angry at me for feeling this way. Of course, I shall respect her wishes and never talk to her and leave her alone. I hope she will be happy, even if I can't. All the advices to move on are unapplicable, because I don't want any girl, I just want one particular girl. I found a way to have functional life without her, but I will never be happy, except for few rare memories of her being kind and friendly to me.
I don't think I'm really deeply in love... But it's more emotional attachment... everytime i tried to pushed her away, she came back... I always get those tension around her... Always thinking about her even sense of smell got me triggered... I hate myself for loving someone who already in relationship and even worsening is the feelings of not good enough, so even if she break up with her bf, I won't dare myself to be with her... She deserves more than that...
@@RelationshipTips she may breakup with her bf for so many reasons.... His bf may not be the right person.. We are not in the place to judge them right....🤷♀️ Or else r u saying even if it is toxic relationship she should stay in that relationship ??
I had at least 4 years of unrequited love, long story short got over her once i saw her at my old job with a man, then i just accepted the fact that she'll never love me romantically, i moved on after 4 years of anguish, i didnt really infatuate on any girls up until a month ago, and im afraid im gonna fall through that cycle againm
She was the first girl I loved or liked that treated me like how she would treat any other guy or girl. She was intelligent, kind, has a beautiful voice at some point she became my partner in science class and in other subjects too. And today was our graduation. It just pains me knowing I won't see her and the guys for a long while.
Try to find her social medias. If that didn't work, use the old fashion way. Lease a spot on the front page of a newspaper with your picture. Even if she doesn't read newspapers, her father probably will. Or even braver, go on the local network and tell her you miss her. You still have a chance. I don't. My crush set the boundaries, and refer to me as her brother.
The thing is if someone doesn’t want someone else, then it is better and healthier to not accept anyone else and remain single, for peace of soul, heart, and mind. Being single is better.
It’s crazy how unrequited love is basically falling in love with your own fantasy of another person. You imagine this person loving you but in reality they don’t. You don’t fall in love with a person who doesn’t reciprocate love if it wasn’t for the fantasy you have created in your mind of the other person you would not have fallen for them.
I partially disagree because this person created feelings and expectation by flirting and spending time with us..he held my hand. We kissed, talked and he said it felt like a special bond. So jeah...I didn't expect big things bc it was dating stage but we were close for a while. It's not about fantasy always. We are human and we get attached by staying connected (which can be a healthy attachment too) It's unfortunately about a mismatch in different feelings, circumstances, needs etc.
We don’t think much of it when we don’t like someone that likes us. But life moves on. It may hurt for a while but it won’t hurt forever. If you let go of unrequited feelings for that person it means you can be in a better place for both of you and focus on yourself and when someone who does like you back comes along😊
1-cant stop mourning 2-We never had anything more than being super best friends but i knew for certain that i had everything that was needed to create and grow the best and healthiest relationship ever but he never tried and i always did try once i got to that type of elevated consciousness 3-boundaries where not needed since there was complete trust into the other partner and his decisions
You are worthy of receiving love that reflects the generosity and depth of the affection you give 🌟. Accepting this fundamental truth at the very core of your being 💖 is crucial for recognizing that her actions towards you reveal a significant inability to return your love in equal measure 🚫❤️. This understanding not only highlights her shortcomings but also serves as a caution about the emotional harm that could ensue if you decide to continue this relationship with her 🌧️. Pursuing a future with her, despite these revelations, poses a serious risk to the wellbeing of your heart and soul, my friend 🍃.
Also unhealthy: blaming a person who's just not all that into you by "highlighting her shortcomings" and suggesting she's unworthy of you because she doesn't have the same intensity of feeling for you. That's just sour grapes, not to mention uncharitable. There are better ways of facing reality than to blame people who don't give you what you want.
Today I honestly thought about my heart after so much heartache in my life and I keep trying to keep believing I'm a sweet loving person. I never claim or nag and still ppl seem to be selfcentered amd make you feel weird and guilty for feeling emotions. The worse part for me is dating feels disgusting bc I really felt attracted for once and I keep seeing his face and mannerisms in my mind but.he was also distant and talked to me like we were a business case. My heart physically aches and I'm looking for a new job but I feel so tired.
Im going through this at the moment and it's with my guy bestie friend. I used to brush off my feelings for him, until he told me he now has a gf. I felt a big pinch on my heart.😢 JT's song Selfish kind of describes it. But yeah I have to move on as hard as it may seem. Also, we have been best friends for long and I don't want to ruin that.
I've lost count over how many times my love goes unrequited. I've loved each person deeply, and yet..... it's always been only on my end. The one time someone loved me back and we got into a (what I thought was a loving) relationship, turned out to be sour because he rap*d me and even had the heart to guilt trip me for seeing him as a rap1st. I don't know how much more I can go through. I'm just really, really tired.
Got over my first crush rejection painful Tried it for a second time rejected Third time rejected Fourth rejected Fifth rejected Didn't even bother a sixth just gave up 😂 now living in lalaland 😂lol
@siriestichotkan2198 This advice can either make or break you. Please understand that I don't want to cause you harm by saying this, but your happiness must be maintained no matter what. Prioritize it at all cost, because a good life is not guaranteed.
He was super excited before meeting me and so was i cause i had a crush on him and once he saw me he stopped texting stopped talking to me just plainly ignored…ik its because how ugly,poor im and how socially awkward im and hes the most beautiful man ive ever seen💔 now im in pain😔
Aw no you're not ugly please. He was perhaps attractive for you but not respectful. A man with no empathy and consideration is not what you want but J understand your pain. Sending you a digital hug 😊 ❤
u see i did recently got over my crush and i am thankful to myself for having the courage to come up and getting rejected and accept ting it cause he liked someone else. now iam happy with my bf ,he was scared but proposed me 😆. some people don't even have chance to propose u may have more courage
I'm in great pain. Maybe it's because I'm too introverted, or maybe it's depression. I haven't confessed to you in the past five years. I don't know why I was so lacking in courage. But I think you deserve a better boy. Five years have passed and I still haven't taken that step. You also have a boyfriend now. I will remember that you chatted with me when I was the loneliest. I wish you happiness. Be happy for sure, you jerk!
Same for me. I love a boy who is in relationship, i don't want to go near him and I can't go away from him (thoughts). Its really hard to keep this emotion inside.
It’s like some sort of light was shed upon my dark world, thought I finally found a glimpse of love then it vanished, now in the same cynical darkness.
I just got rejected by a man I had a crush on for six months. Even though the relationship was only in my head, the hole in my heart is very real. I feel like I’ll never find someone I can love!😭
I like this woman who clearly have no interest in me no matter how good I treat her. Just use me. It time I accept this pain she don't want me don't even like me. Maybe one day I'd finally find someone who actually like me
I know exactly how you feel, i care very deeply for this woman, but i doubt shes ever given me an ounce of thought, i hate myself for feeling this way, and i cant stop. I dont think ill ever stop loving her and thats the most painful part, especially with no closure, its torture. I've never felt this much pain before.
Guys, don't waste your time chasing someone who's not interested in you... Start working on yourself, find a new hobbie, start gym, martial arts classes, pottery, cooking club, give your time to people who love you, and appreciate you. Drink plenty of water, try to eat healthy and enjoy your life, start reading self development books, at least 10 pages a day. Stay humble and respectful! As time goes by, you will meet someone who really cares about you, and you will care about them!
@lord beerus we're all on the same boat... and the hardest thing is to let go, but it's the right thing to do! Focus on yourself and people who actually care about your family, friends, etc. Give your parents/gramps/friends a call to check up on them. They will love it! If you need someone to talk to, I'm happy to help 😁
It's very complicated. Long story short, I've been secretly dating this girl for 6 yrs. But instead of dating, its been more of me giving of ALL MY RESOURCES AND MONEY. She wouldn't make it w/o my help. But its been hurting cuz i love her so dearly but she doesn't love me back. In fact she's become grossly disrespectful and ive allowed it. Things i would never allow anyone to do, ive allowed her to do. Ive loved her and given so much of myself to her. I knw i need to let go cuz its killing me. But i dnt want to....and i dnt wanna lose her. It hurts soo bad. Ive been fighting this battle for the last 3 yrs. She is soo disrespectful to me yet i do soo much for her cuz i love her. And its not reciprocated. I have to let go but i cant. Its like im addicted and or emotionally attacĥed. Cuz it feels good when she and i are together and on the same page. I need help yall. God gve me internal strength.
I think I'm stuck in this pattern of falling for men who lure me into situationships. I think I should blame my parents who denied me love and dismissed my needs. I'm unable to find true love. I'm being emotionally used by men who don't want me.
Hey, can anyone help me out? I one-sided loved someone for years and yesterday we finally met. He hugged and kissed me, i felt so safe around him. Though he didn't confess anything but he took care of me. But today he called and said he doesn't have any feelings for me, he likes me but not in that way. My heart shatters after listening to those words. I am in so much pain right now How to get out of this pain help please!
It hurts like a bitch. But you can do this.. "Time heals everything" I was a little sceptical about it.. But it's true.. I've been there. It's been 5 yrs.. I still talk to him.. Think of him but not as much.. This December is his wedding.. He asked me to write their love story for their pre wedding photo shoot... A little funny for me. Now the left side of my chest doesn't hurt anymore..it also beats steadily. So yeah.. Don't rush.. Take your time.. Let your feelings flow like a river..you have got this❤
But how do I go out and meet new people??? Just go to a bar or a club?? What do I do when I’m all alone and the path of my life doesn’t provide opportunity to meet more women because my calling is in an industry full of men?
I like the advices, but the video suggests that there is something else upward, I can't see anything...I'm not talking about someone that I met this years, I'm talking about someone who was always there for me, for decades, and she is simple not attracted to me, there is nothing I can do and there isn't any other type of relation or person like her, she was my light when I couldn't see any light, for once I thought that was over, that she finds someone else but she came back, I feel obligated to give suport and the first thing that I did was imagine again as I did a hundred of times: our life together...we even kissed, I really don't know how I fall in this situation and there is no solution that isn't about self harm or moving to other country and forgot this for some years. (don't worry guys, I will not do anything, only suffer.)
😂 i know i accepted the pain but still my mind says no but my heart says yes even i lost 😢 for me i quit social apps because it gets deeper and deeper crying at nights alone because of seeing related videos.we know boys its hard to get that girl out of our minds and leave her even if she married to another guy but i know its not possible to get her 🙄 so i leave her to him and i didn't even said my love to her that atleast some one know the pain. For my case i say quit the reality and engage in some other things for me i found one group and they are bullying me they think that i am bullied by them but i am enjoying the bully 😂 at that time i really enjoyed but when i leave them its like i lost in loneliness
Been a month and it’s not getting easier she’s already got a new boyfriend and we were together for 2 years she’s acting like we had nothing together even tho she still means the world to me
She chose him over you… that says a lot … & remember some people just come for a season in our lives… so when time is due … smile… & walk away never look back…put your priorities straight… you will attract better people who will love you genuinely not just for convenience
The thing is if u follow what all these psychologists say u end up getting paranoid for sure. Setting healthy boundaries - who says u didn't have healthy boundaries, just the other person has absolutely no empathy which only turns out ways too late Why dont they tell u - if u have unrealistic expectations it will hurt like a mf when they crush. So dont create them in the first place???
True you are right wr all get confused even more if we did it wrong or ruined it etc .. the man I dated would ignore me in between dates and it hurted so much that I told him I can't with this stress and wondering. I shares it with a coach and instead of acknowledgement she blamed me basically by saying: you assumed things. So i told her: but I felt disrespected each time. Not one small text even if you are busy. I didn't ask for daily contact even. The coach replied: yes but what's the definition of respect for you? What... I felt even more hurt after this coach session. Won't go back there and pay to get hurt more.
And indeed, the ppl who are honest and healthy are getting hurt are also being blamed for getting hurt. We already selfreflected and I didn't expect much from the start at all but the other person creates them by showing affection and interest.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 well after all u mean psychological pain right, cuz nobody threw knifes at u or anything like that... 😆🙏🏼 U talked with this guy and told him directly - i don't see anything wrong with that at all Relationships are like plants - if u do not water them (nurture them) every day it might die off just like that. Even if u do everything right they still could just end its also possible but then at least u tried everything I garuntee ur money is better spent on doing inner engineering by sadhguru (should be 25% off rn) than on some coach thats certain Hope u will give it a shot - blessings and merry christmas Stefan
What if theres a big maybe that he likes me but its unsustainable people tell me its not always about getting married you are just a teen date him and get over him... but to me if i like someone i would marry them how can i just date them without wanting marraige
It feels like a knife thats been put in me, and i cant pull it out
Perfectly described
Agreed
So accurate 😢
🥲💔
Yo im so tired of knowing people out there south river new new THIS TOWN I LIVE IN IS CALLED SOUTH RIVER NIGGA YOU KNOW WHO YOURE GET OUT
Its hard to move on from unrequited love if you have that perfect image in your head from childhood of your ideal partner. And then suddenly here comes this person in your life who has ALL those qualities. And they dont love you back. How can letting go of that be so easy...
U know what's the most irritating part...
Those around u telling its not a big deal😢
Well just try to do your best on what your ideal partner wants in a partner it’s one thing to look for qualities you like but if you lack them yourself than you don’t deserve her/him not forget it works both ways.
@jerolvilladolid, I am relating each and every word you just wrote here. It's nearly impossible for us to let the person go and think like he/she was not made for us.
I'm m not able to explain, but it's disturbing, it's painful, it exaust me whenever I get to see her in my random dreams, it's just unexplainable.
@@Paww_funny_Pets Bro... its been 4 months since I was hurt like a knife in my aorta. It still hurts. But not as much. The secret? Yes your ex may be "hot", mine was, but as I mingle with ones with better qualities, not necessarily appearance, just better qualities you liked in your ex in the first place, it will become easier.
Cruel truth is when you're in love the other person looks like a diety to you. But there are other clone copies of them out there once the fog clears from your eyes.
Just found out yesterday through my friend that she never even saw me as an option, while I had fallen in love the first time I saw her and talked to her because of her intellect. I thought that she was perfect for me, and I looked forward to it so much. It is truly a big feeling of sorrow and melancholy @@jerolvilladolid
I am actually trying hard but it's terribly painful. Tears just rolled over my face typing this. I want to come out of this...
Same. I feel like a loser. How can someone i don’t matter to make me feel bad enough to have physical pain
@Andreas16375 In your chest I'm guessing.
@Andreas16375 Find the source of it trust me. I can't write a paragraph over this because I'm trying to respond to as many people as possible, but I'm sure you'll know what I mean.
Cried a lot today. It's so painful, hurts so much. But I am tired of all of these, I need to get out of it. I need to let go and live free .
Unrequited love isn't a boundaries problem - the other person isn't going to cross boundaries when they don't want to date you
Its as if I'm still alive but my heart is dead
Way too relatable, you see time pass but it’s as if yours stands still in every moment
It's been a year for me. But I still keep chasing same person but I can't stop it's like an addiction. It hurts so much 😢
Yeah right...
It's like addiction
It takes a hell amount of a time for a men to recover from a serious heartbreak
I'm a woman but I'm the same way so I feel your pain. I'm loyal and when I fell for a man and it feels special he is in my heart and I will not be able to forget about him easily.
They say insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. Thus, I’m insane because of you, I just can’t stop hoping since 8 years.💔
You are in pain for 8 years?
You are in pain for 8 years?
@@ericsohn5084
No pain no happiness..just I feel numb...
Bro don't do that to yourself man don't suffer like that bro nivu bengaluru ha..?
@@chandanmchatrapathi174
Yea bro... ಕನ್ನಡಿಗ..
It has now been 6 years, 1 month and 22 days. Everyday I cry for hours on end. And I think about her all the time. I just can not give up on her, I just can not. And I don't want to. And I will never do that. I swear that I will love her forever and I will remain loyal to her, even if that means dying alone. I love you, Ana!
Bro I really hope you moved on
@@blue-bi8cn As I said, I will remain loyal to her until my last breath. I swear. I love her more than anything in this universe. ♾️😥
@@AlexandruMarcu-zo8tnI hear you bud! I can so relate to that feeling. I have got the ultimate crush on my personal trainer. It has only been going on for three weeks. But she is very kind, and did not lead me on. She wants us to remain brother and sister. Some days I just want to drive into a tree. Other days, I would find myself subconsciously steering my vehicle into the path of a semi. Hang in there. I will try my best too.
@@AlexandruMarcu-zo8tn I understand you. I'm in the same position, 10 months now. I will never move on, even though she clearly said she doesn't want me and is probably angry at me for feeling this way. Of course, I shall respect her wishes and never talk to her and leave her alone. I hope she will be happy, even if I can't. All the advices to move on are unapplicable, because I don't want any girl, I just want one particular girl. I found a way to have functional life without her, but I will never be happy, except for few rare memories of her being kind and friendly to me.
I don't think I'm really deeply in love... But it's more emotional attachment... everytime i tried to pushed her away, she came back... I always get those tension around her... Always thinking about her even sense of smell got me triggered... I hate myself for loving someone who already in relationship and even worsening is the feelings of not good enough, so even if she break up with her bf, I won't dare myself to be with her... She deserves more than that...
And what makes you so sure she won’t break up with you when another better person comes along…? This is lust not love …
@@RelationshipTips she may breakup with her bf for so many reasons....
His bf may not be the right person..
We are not in the place to judge them right....🤷♀️
Or else r u saying even if it is toxic relationship she should stay in that relationship ??
True... 🚶♂️ walk through the pain 🚬
I had at least 4 years of unrequited love, long story short got over her once i saw her at my old job with a man, then i just accepted the fact that she'll never love me romantically, i moved on after 4 years of anguish, i didnt really infatuate on any girls up until a month ago, and im afraid im gonna fall through that cycle againm
Same. I feel like I can't find the same pure feeling again.
She was the first girl I loved or liked that treated me like how she would treat any other guy or girl. She was intelligent, kind, has a beautiful voice at some point she became my partner in science class and in other subjects too. And today was our graduation. It just pains me knowing I won't see her and the guys for a long while.
Any update
Try to find her social medias. If that didn't work, use the old fashion way. Lease a spot on the front page of a newspaper with your picture. Even if she doesn't read newspapers, her father probably will. Or even braver, go on the local network and tell her you miss her. You still have a chance. I don't. My crush set the boundaries, and refer to me as her brother.
We should all meet up every now and then cry. Unrequited love never goes away.
It’s like a heavy stone on me hard to pull away to be free I felt a part of me died that day
The thing is if someone doesn’t want someone else, then it is better and healthier to not accept anyone else and remain single, for peace of soul, heart, and mind. Being single is better.
It’s crazy how unrequited love is basically falling in love with your own fantasy of another person. You imagine this person loving you but in reality they don’t. You don’t fall in love with a person who doesn’t reciprocate love if it wasn’t for the fantasy you have created in your mind of the other person you would not have fallen for them.
I partially disagree because this person created feelings and expectation by flirting and spending time with us..he held my hand. We kissed, talked and he said it felt like a special bond.
So jeah...I didn't expect big things bc it was dating stage but we were close for a while.
It's not about fantasy always. We are human and we get attached by staying connected (which can be a healthy attachment too)
It's unfortunately about a mismatch in different feelings, circumstances, needs etc.
We don’t think much of it when we don’t like someone that likes us. But life moves on. It may hurt for a while but it won’t hurt forever. If you let go of unrequited feelings for that person it means you can be in a better place for both of you and focus on yourself and when someone who does like you back comes along😊
1-cant stop mourning 2-We never had anything more than being super best friends but i knew for certain that i had everything that was needed to create and grow the best and healthiest relationship ever but he never tried and i always did try once i got to that type of elevated consciousness 3-boundaries where not needed since there was complete trust into the other partner and his decisions
Almost 3 years broken up. Haven't loved anyone after her & can't forget her can't move on 😔
If I ever manage to get over this, I’m never going near a woman again
You are worthy of receiving love that reflects the generosity and depth of the affection you give 🌟. Accepting this fundamental truth at the very core of your being 💖 is crucial for recognizing that her actions towards you reveal a significant inability to return your love in equal measure 🚫❤️. This understanding not only highlights her shortcomings but also serves as a caution about the emotional harm that could ensue if you decide to continue this relationship with her 🌧️. Pursuing a future with her, despite these revelations, poses a serious risk to the wellbeing of your heart and soul, my friend 🍃.
Also unhealthy: blaming a person who's just not all that into you by "highlighting her shortcomings" and suggesting she's unworthy of you because she doesn't have the same intensity of feeling for you. That's just sour grapes, not to mention uncharitable. There are better ways of facing reality than to blame people who don't give you what you want.
thank you so much. I was in denial until I get myself on the hospital bed.
Omg.. I am worried about my health now.
Today I honestly thought about my heart after so much heartache in my life and I keep trying to keep believing I'm a sweet loving person. I never claim or nag and still ppl seem to be selfcentered amd make you feel weird and guilty for feeling emotions.
The worse part for me is dating feels disgusting bc I really felt attracted for once and I keep seeing his face and mannerisms in my mind but.he was also distant and talked to me like we were a business case.
My heart physically aches and I'm looking for a new job but I feel so tired.
I see him every week. He is my tutor 😢
Im going through this at the moment and it's with my guy bestie friend. I used to brush off my feelings for him, until he told me he now has a gf. I felt a big pinch on my heart.😢 JT's song Selfish kind of describes it. But yeah I have to move on as hard as it may seem. Also, we have been best friends for long and I don't want to ruin that.
I've lost count over how many times my love goes unrequited. I've loved each person deeply, and yet..... it's always been only on my end. The one time someone loved me back and we got into a (what I thought was a loving) relationship, turned out to be sour because he rap*d me and even had the heart to guilt trip me for seeing him as a rap1st.
I don't know how much more I can go through. I'm just really, really tired.
Got over my first crush rejection painful
Tried it for a second time rejected
Third time rejected
Fourth rejected
Fifth rejected
Didn't even bother a sixth just gave up 😂 now living in lalaland 😂lol
broooo😢😢😢 i feel that lol. even though i have good career and financial stability. I still don't know why i still get rejected lol😂😂
Sometimes you just gotta play with the cards your dealt.
@@michaelgbrl22 dude they never gave me reason to 😂😭 always some vague answers
@@future_funk_music yeah✌🏾
@siriestichotkan2198 This advice can either make or break you. Please understand that I don't want to cause you harm by saying this, but your happiness must be maintained no matter what. Prioritize it at all cost, because a good life is not guaranteed.
He was super excited before meeting me and so was i cause i had a crush on him and once he saw me he stopped texting stopped talking to me just plainly ignored…ik its because how ugly,poor im and how socially awkward im and hes the most beautiful man ive ever seen💔 now im in pain😔
Aw no you're not ugly please. He was perhaps attractive for you but not respectful. A man with no empathy and consideration is not what you want but J understand your pain.
Sending you a digital hug 😊 ❤
I know he can never be mine, he doesn't evn know I exist. I'm finally letting him go
I mistakenly fall in love with my childhood school friend. When she say no 😢 I have no words explain that.
u see i did recently got over my crush and i am thankful to myself for having the courage to come up and getting rejected and accept ting it cause he liked someone else. now iam happy with my bf ,he was scared but proposed me 😆. some people don't even have chance to propose u may have more courage
I'm in great pain. Maybe it's because I'm too introverted, or maybe it's depression. I haven't confessed to you in the past five years. I don't know why I was so lacking in courage. But I think you deserve a better boy. Five years have passed and I still haven't taken that step. You also have a boyfriend now. I will remember that you chatted with me when I was the loneliest. I wish you happiness. Be happy for sure, you jerk!
Same for me. I love a boy who is in relationship, i don't want to go near him and I can't go away from him (thoughts). Its really hard to keep this emotion inside.
It’s like some sort of light was shed upon my dark world, thought I finally found a glimpse of love then it vanished, now in the same cynical darkness.
You said a whole lot of nothing, but your voice is beautiful
I just got rejected by a man I had a crush on for six months. Even though the relationship was only in my head, the hole in my heart is very real. I feel like I’ll never find someone I can love!😭
Yeah I got rejected by a girl I loved for a year 😢 but you ok
I like this woman who clearly have no interest in me no matter how good I treat her. Just use me. It time I accept this pain she don't want me don't even like me. Maybe one day I'd finally find someone who actually like me
I feel the same way , maybe one day the right man will come alone
I know exactly how you feel, i care very deeply for this woman, but i doubt shes ever given me an ounce of thought, i hate myself for feeling this way, and i cant stop. I dont think ill ever stop loving her and thats the most painful part, especially with no closure, its torture. I've never felt this much pain before.
Guys, don't waste your time chasing someone who's not interested in you... Start working on yourself, find a new hobbie, start gym, martial arts classes, pottery, cooking club, give your time to people who love you, and appreciate you. Drink plenty of water, try to eat healthy and enjoy your life, start reading self development books, at least 10 pages a day. Stay humble and respectful! As time goes by, you will meet someone who really cares about you, and you will care about them!
@@AB-jb1mf I needed that bruh. As I start my journey to self heal and learn to not go through that again. I went as far as to delete her number
@lord beerus we're all on the same boat... and the hardest thing is to let go, but it's the right thing to do! Focus on yourself and people who actually care about your family, friends, etc. Give your parents/gramps/friends a call to check up on them. They will love it! If you need someone to talk to, I'm happy to help 😁
It's very complicated. Long story short, I've been secretly dating this girl for 6 yrs. But instead of dating, its been more of me giving of ALL MY RESOURCES AND MONEY. She wouldn't make it w/o my help. But its been hurting cuz i love her so dearly but she doesn't love me back. In fact she's become grossly disrespectful and ive allowed it. Things i would never allow anyone to do, ive allowed her to do. Ive loved her and given so much of myself to her. I knw i need to let go cuz its killing me. But i dnt want to....and i dnt wanna lose her. It hurts soo bad. Ive been fighting this battle for the last 3 yrs. She is soo disrespectful to me yet i do soo much for her cuz i love her. And its not reciprocated. I have to let go but i cant. Its like im addicted and or emotionally attacĥed. Cuz it feels good when she and i are together and on the same page. I need help yall. God gve me internal strength.
It works. Thank you 🙏
You're welcome!
I think I'm stuck in this pattern of falling for men who lure me into situationships. I think I should blame my parents who denied me love and dismissed my needs. I'm unable to find true love. I'm being emotionally used by men who don't want me.
Just found your channel and I've your voice 😩
Hey, can anyone help me out?
I one-sided loved someone for years and yesterday we finally met. He hugged and kissed me, i felt so safe around him. Though he didn't confess anything but he took care of me. But today he called and said he doesn't have any feelings for me, he likes me but not in that way. My heart shatters after listening to those words. I am in so much pain right now
How to get out of this pain help please!
It hurts like a bitch. But you can do this..
"Time heals everything" I was a little sceptical about it.. But it's true.. I've been there.
It's been 5 yrs.. I still talk to him.. Think of him but not as much..
This December is his wedding.. He asked me to write their love story for their pre wedding photo shoot... A little funny for me.
Now the left side of my chest doesn't hurt anymore..it also beats steadily.
So yeah.. Don't rush.. Take your time.. Let your feelings flow like a river..you have got this❤
It is so hard
Thank you, ☺️
Thx🙂
Yeah sure.
I have three unrequited love. One ongoing now! 😢
Its like swimming upstream😢
Thank you
It can be possible, just trust Allah ❤
Allah can make impossible things possible ❤
It hurts so much
Step 3 is the most required step..
But how do I go out and meet new people??? Just go to a bar or a club??
What do I do when I’m all alone and the path of my life doesn’t provide opportunity to meet more women because my calling is in an industry full of men?
This is a question I don't have an answer to.
I like the advices, but the video suggests that there is something else upward, I can't see anything...I'm not talking about someone that I met this years, I'm talking about someone who was always there for me, for decades, and she is simple not attracted to me, there is nothing I can do and there isn't any other type of relation or person like her, she was my light when I couldn't see any light, for once I thought that was over, that she finds someone else but she came back, I feel obligated to give suport and the first thing that I did was imagine again as I did a hundred of times: our life together...we even kissed, I really don't know how I fall in this situation and there is no solution that isn't about self harm or moving to other country and forgot this for some years. (don't worry guys, I will not do anything, only suffer.)
If I was better she would have wanted me. I need to become better or this will only continue
😂 i know i accepted the pain but still my mind says no but my heart says yes even i lost 😢 for me i quit social apps because it gets deeper and deeper crying at nights alone because of seeing related videos.we know boys its hard to get that girl out of our minds and leave her even if she married to another guy but i know its not possible to get her 🙄 so i leave her to him and i didn't even said my love to her that atleast some one know the pain. For my case i say quit the reality and engage in some other things for me i found one group and they are bullying me they think that i am bullied by them but i am enjoying the bully 😂 at that time i really enjoyed but when i leave them its like i lost in loneliness
I really need help..unable to let it go..what to do??plzzz someone help.
Been a month and it’s not getting easier she’s already got a new boyfriend and we were together for 2 years she’s acting like we had nothing together even tho she still means the world to me
She chose him over you… that says a lot … & remember some people just come for a season in our lives… so when time is due … smile… & walk away never look back…put your priorities straight… you will attract better people who will love you genuinely not just for convenience
Makes no sense
Yeah, it hurts. I did everything for her. I come to realize you will waste life chasing something. That’s not yours.
The thing is if u follow what all these psychologists say u end up getting paranoid for sure.
Setting healthy boundaries - who says u didn't have healthy boundaries, just the other person has absolutely no empathy which only turns out ways too late
Why dont they tell u - if u have unrealistic expectations it will hurt like a mf when they crush. So dont create them in the first place???
True you are right wr all get confused even more if we did it wrong or ruined it etc .. the man I dated would ignore me in between dates and it hurted so much that I told him I can't with this stress and wondering.
I shares it with a coach and instead of acknowledgement she blamed me basically by saying: you assumed things.
So i told her: but I felt disrespected each time. Not one small text even if you are busy. I didn't ask for daily contact even.
The coach replied: yes but what's the definition of respect for you?
What... I felt even more hurt after this coach session. Won't go back there and pay to get hurt more.
And indeed, the ppl who are honest and healthy are getting hurt are also being blamed for getting hurt. We already selfreflected and I didn't expect much from the start at all but the other person creates them by showing affection and interest.
@@peaceofmindofpeace1650 well after all u mean psychological pain right, cuz nobody threw knifes at u or anything like that... 😆🙏🏼 U talked with this guy and told him directly - i don't see anything wrong with that at all
Relationships are like plants - if u do not water them (nurture them) every day it might die off just like that. Even if u do everything right they still could just end its also possible but then at least u tried everything
I garuntee ur money is better spent on doing inner engineering by sadhguru (should be 25% off rn) than on some coach thats certain
Hope u will give it a shot - blessings and merry christmas Stefan
It hurts
What if theres a big maybe that he likes me but its unsustainable people tell me its not always about getting married you are just a teen date him and get over him... but to me if i like someone i would marry them how can i just date them without wanting marraige
We have the same name😊
i thought he was mine… idk what happened
Yeah, not really that helpful advice.
You're basically saying, "Get over it."
Like gee, why didn't I try that earlier.
That was the worse advice ever given.