Why Women ACTUALLY Reject Nervous Men - Women Reject Men for Not OWNING It - The Fearless Man
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- Women do tend to reject men who are nervous, but it's not the nervousness itself that makes women reject men - the rejections come from men hiding or being owned by their nervousness. Learn to own your nervousness & you can go from getting rejected to attracting women in a TRULY confident, powerful way. ... SUBSCRIBE ON TH-cam: bit.ly/Subscrib...
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He had the balls to say hi to some random person I respect him
Yes, that's great. Absolutely. But it won't get you a date or anything until you're coming from the right place confidence-wise. That's what this video is about. Own your nervousness, show up in the middle of it, and you'll have a much better shot and definitely be growing from that point.
You can't just say "hi". You have to do it right.
yea, it takes lot of guts to do that ..I've been there.
Ben Steyn stfu ugly ass that's easy
The Fearless Man Once you penetrate her soul with your eyes there is no nervousness any more. I used to get nervous around women until I picked one up and spanked her, squeezed her, fingered her and licked her face. Now I get a naughty grin and I salivate while looking into a woman’s eyes- I know what they really want and they know I can own them. A bit of domination works wonders- go to a BDSM club near you or try it with your partner
a brave man can be very shallow... whilst a shy man may run very deep.
so even approaching women and walking over to talk to them is not enough? women should at least respect guys who have the balls(as much as i hate, detest that phrase) to walk over and talk to them even if the guy stutters a bit, gets a little nervous, as opposed to the guy who didn't approach at all. All women need to know how to do is how to screen guys, men need to know a hell lot of other shit in order to attract a mate and succeed in the dating/mating game, yup it is what it is
I think a woman reject a nervous man in a subconcious level, because he look way scary, and he doesn´t seem attractive to her because of his apparently lack of confidence.
This is going to sound weird, but I need to know about 'nervous women'.
There are women reaching out to me from over 16 YEARS AGO saying, "I was nervous and didn't say anything".
Getting one of the lady's perspective would help too.
My reason is not complicated. I'm a 4'9 under 100 pound little woman. If the man is nervous, I feel nervous, too. I don't require confidence but comfort. Relax and I'll be relaxed too.
Exactly. Thanks for sharing your perspective! This is useful for guys to see
Angel B But Some guys can't help but be nervous
What brought you here?
I used to get nervous around women until I picked one up and spanked her, squeezed her, fingered her and licked her face. Now I get a naughty grin and I salivate while looking into their eyes- I know what they really want and they know I can own them. A bit of domination works wonders- go to a BDSM club near you.
Approach a man first. That will make him less nervous.
if she doesn't sleep with you it's a rejection.
I’m a woman and I LOVE THIS VIDEO! Totally agree with everything she said!
Lets not fool ourselves, we're all intelligent lifeforms here. Sometimes it takes more than pure confidence. I bet if she thought he was physically unattractive no amount of confidence would of helped him get her phone number.... Dating advice is full of half-truths....
Some women don't care about physical attraction as much as you think. I've seen great looking guys still be alone, and "unattractive guys" get the really hot girl. What's inside matters.
At the end of the day, confidence really is key.
Amethyst752 no it doesn't you're just ugly
if you have money you are by default handsome.
My father is a skinny, short guy with a bit dark, old and unsymmetrical face. While my mother is very beautiful with dark long hair and yellow bright skin (Asian). When I was a kid, I asked her why did she want to marry that ugly guy. Her answer was simple. "There're three qualities that made me chose that ugly short guy over other beautiful guys that I knew: his kind heart, his badass confidence, and his beautiful mind".
MIND = BLOWN
Dude looks so insecure holding her back the entire time, as if he feared she might run away at any time.
Isaw too why
7:13 "...it doesn't mean that you have to be rude or super aggressive in a physical way. No, just be aggressive towards life and be aggressive towards what you really want. That's what we like." Such great advice and feminite insight. Thanks, Yaz.
No disrespect here for her opinion but she is lying through her teeth when she says that she appreciates guys who talk to her when they are nervous ..It's like men have to be supernatural creatures in every aspect of their existence, while women simply get to choose over them..So either women are intellectually and emotionaly superior by birth or upbringing and they are familiar with all this knowledge like the back of their hands somehow by interaction or magic or simply men get the short end of the stick as always in life ..
Women don't approach men bcoz they are shy n nervous by nature. Men hav the balls to approach the opposite sex, hunt down large prays without guns n break doors of houses that r on fire n save the ppl inside the house. That's exactly y we men r proud of our gender.
MEN rock!
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good job for the guy trying to approach you
Yeah, the ego on this bitch !! Fuck the bitch
What does Yaz offer? Why should guys be so nervous to talk to her?
6:30 is a interesting point. I wish she could of elaborated more on this. "A man with a little fear can be more attractive than a man who has none"
I would think a man who shows no fear is extremely attractive but from personal experience when I feel no fear I can seem unengaged or even bored.
It's very true. That's why it's so hard for people like me who have been playing it safe all my life because the fear of fucking up by taking a risk is to great for me.
Courage is not the absence of fear it's dealing with fear pushing through it. Yaz you are gorgeous!
Glad this connected!
San. Pablo
Good Videos Brian. Much of the info I've been aware of but always good to hear again as you never realize how many little things one does during interaction and engagement. A big one for me was always being clueless when women are giving you every clue in the the book that they like you. In my younger days women would have to literally throw themselves at me for me to have a clue, at least now I can pick up on their little signs here and there. And Wow, Yaz is gorgeous! I would not let her out of my sight without talking to her. How do I get in touch with her? Michael-
Great video, more proof that women are interested in real human beings and that it's okay to be afraid as long as you push through it.
Absolutely. Glad this connected for you
This isn't proof of that at all, she still rejected nervous guys and she it's still lying about why, this proves nothing but women lie to try to look kinder than they are, wich sadly means good men who trust women are doomed to fail, all because women are too gutless to say the truth, women are not interested in normal people, this is why 90% of men struggle like hell to get one girlfriend and people in jail who kill people all have loads of women
Good video. I liked hearing Yaz perspective on that.
I've experienced my self quite a few times doing some similar thing like that guy did. In essence going in a roundabout way getting the phone number, or contemplating going for the phone number.
Usually what I do though is stop myself before asking for the number because I figured out quite a while ago that that's a weak way to move the interaction forward in a way that makes sense for what I would desire with that woman.
Thanks for the video and the insights.
What about verbalizing your nervousness, when your conversation falters by saying "i'm nervous talking to you, you are so beautiful and intelligent"
are you out of your mind ? that's a terrible tactic ! never do that !
Lol at the way Brian kept on staring at her 😂
I just said I was nervous but you would not be able to tell. Im nervous out of fear of attachment. She cut me off, but Im prone to reject others, make them feel rejected when Im not, be distant, and I dont find being attached as all that comfortable. I
Some aspects are very enjoyable but I hate the dependency part. From my perspective, in this case, its because Im confident the probability we could fall togather is higher than most other situations.
That was great advice guys.. Yaz is a beautiful woman who would scare the life out of me but now if I like a woman I'm gonna do why she said. U guys are giving me some brilliant advice on what not to do. I have had this trouble all my life. it has hindered me to the point of distraction at times but I have begun to get over it. The friend thing has hindered me quite a bit also and that advice was great too. Thnx guys
You're welcome! Let me know how it's going.
I bet no guys ever approach this girl with confidence. She's a stunner. I for one would be intimidated by her.
whats the worst that could happen? She kills you? No, she's a weak little chick. That's the mentality.
I can't help but think that even if you "own" your nervousness and address it while talking to girls, its still gonna turn more women off than show your strength and courage. I just don't think most women would interoperate it as a sign of strength because nervousness is nervousness and it's a turn off
It's all about how you do it. Truly owning it can be massively attractive. My clients do it all the time - if you show you're just overwhelmed by how attractive she is but are enjoying it and not afraid to show that you're overwhelmed or embarrassed, women often love it. Maybe this will help: Overcome Nerves Around Women - How to "Own It" | Fearless Q&A th-cam.com/video/PkYipb2f7XU/w-d-xo.html
I agree. I think this kind of approach may sometimes work with average women but with a high quality girl it will backfire. Cause it shows you are not used to talking to girls like her.
Brain gj your videos are awesome.i have seen changes in myself after watching your videos.
Why you touch the girl int he back, it's WEIRD
Why are you touching your boyfriend like that then?
It's
Not that weird haha.
You the nervous type son?
Why is it weird?
+The Fearless Man because it's a dominant use of pressure in physicality to influence or ultimately control in some way the person who's supposed to be speaking spontaneously without any or at least minimal external pressure or force
i type that same thing, scroll down and see your comment.. It seems so weird to me too.. You can do this to your friend when you let her go trough doors but then you let go, you dont have conversation like this ever... It bothers me lot more then it should.. You interduce your friend like this but then you let go. But this guy never let fucking GO.. fucking creep
great one !! im learning so fast my ears are smoking lol i love these dance videos ,im getting the picture . its a game. and its fun
now i dont even want a woman who dont wanna play the game with me , THANKS for the new perspective
Awesome. Love to hear all that
It's fun for women, it's win win for women, they either reject you and get an who boost from the power she has over you or says yes and gets sex with someone they like, it's far from fun for guys who are gonna suffer rejection and humiliation AT LEAST 99% of the time, and i do mean that literally, even the very to pick up artists get rejected 80% of the time and they dedicated their lives to hard training. Trust l me this is no fun for anyone but women
If only it was that easy. every girl I approach says they are already taken. Leaving me in a very awkward situation.
I really love this video and the one you did yesterday, Brian. I think accurately reading indicators of interest is an important skill because it will certainly help a guy's confidence to approach women that show a genuine interest in him rather than striking out constantly, this crushing the old ego....
But you shouldn´t rely only on these indicators, my friend.
So you're talking about honesty, being direct. Makes sense.
Yes!
Yes give us more Yaz I like her! Plus she gives great insight
+Jamal Valdez Awesome-I'm glad you found her helpful!
Thanks for the advice man. It really helps
Glad to hear it! Hope to meet you at an event
It happened to me and I lost the chance to make relationship with a very good and beautiful girl, because she lots her believe in me . She started talking to me but I didn't feel strong to make it Happen and she felt it and the rest you know what happens after this. So please Make more videos about this subject.
I don't fucking get it. So being nervous isn't the problem, but I don't know what you mean by"owning" it. What does that mean? Talking to her is already a huge step of courage. You say being nervous is unattractive but then you say it's fine as long as you break through it, but how do you do that?
i know from myself that im insecure in groups of people. im more relaxed talking to a woman on her own but i always have in the back of my head that if somethibg happens where other people get involved i cnat be tjat cool anymore. therefore i dont feel im being myself or rather consistent when i act confident and relaxed with her.
Creative stylish with substance topics you both discuss & thank you for sharing- peace light love to 1 and all !
Thanks! Glad it resonated
I think we should all work on being more social And not be attached to outcome and generally just want to get to know the person with no expectations
"..Just let it shake.." hahah literally my favorite part haha
You are the BEST! I love these tips! 👌👌
he wasn't nervous that much...atleast he dared to say hi to a pretty lady like her :))
Insightful, thanks for the video
Excellent!! Thank U and all the success!
ive always and I mean always found that when im nervous the woman leaves, even women that liked me a lot and made it very obvious they want me to approach, I was so certain I had one woman but she too rejected me ! I dont think this is honest at all, I still think you should approach being nervous, because eventually after you get rejected so many times you've lost coubnt (literally then you get numb to rejection and once your numb to rejection the fear subsides into discomfort, and once you get rejected countless times with discomfort then you get to being a bit more at ease and eventually after a REDICULOUS amount of rejections for years or even decades you begin to get so numb and disolusioned you really dont care about rejections, then you can get confident, then after your confident, then you can watch pick up study that for a few years refining your tactics, then once you got that after a decade then youl have an advantage over most guys ! phew, its tough being a guy !
This fact just blew my mind. Not only it's totally fine and okay to approach women, you can even just admit the elephant in the room (nervousness). In summary, what are the risks? 0! I wish I knew this when I was 9.
Fear is a neurochemical response to a PERCEIVED threat/danger. In other words, it’s all in your head.
Transmute your fear into arousal/excitement.
Fantastic video I haven't thought of it in that perspective.
Glad you learned a new perspective!
Reminds me of that movie the jerk where he cant speak and she says are you adking me out? stomp 1 for yes, 2 for no
The Fearless Man,
I have trouble with owning nervousness in two areas - touch and sexy compliments.
If I find a girl attractive and touch her (hold her hand, hold her by waist) I immediately get rejected. I am guessing this is due to my nervousness. So, does owning the nervousness not extend to touch?
Also, if I truly find a girl hot, my first reaction is to back away. However, if I force myself to express that I find her sexy, it does not feel authentic. What gives?
Dangerously generic response, especially the last one - “be aggressive towards what you want". There's more explanation and articulated unfolding needed, because I'm free to think that if I want her, I can be aggressive towards her. It's a lot of information incapsulated in feeling-like formulation.
Great Video and Advice Brian am really Nervous to Approach Females Yazz talks about having Courage/Valor to approach is theres any advice on tips on Openers to Approach.
Stop putting your hand on her back! :O) You want her don't you? Me too! LOL
He is clearly trying to fuck her, but she ain't down with him and I don't think he's getting the hint.
The problem with your argument is the fact that you base things on a narrow-minded judgement that if a guy is shy this some how means he cannot be protective, do you have any idea just how one track minded and overly simplistic that mindset well and truly is? Who said you cannot have a guy who is a shy person but once you actually get to know the guy, who said he cannot be protective? You do realise there are guys out there who can be shy but if you were to cross the line with them, you'd wish you never messed with them. It is for this reason I really have to question your logic, being shy means you cannot be protective?
Part of me agrees that it is not a healthy thing to have a level of insecurity, it's not healthy for any relationship and during one of my own darkest moments in my life I lost someone I really liked because of it back in January, unfortunately a continuation of something that built up over the past, so yes self-confidence matters, no question about it, however the true saying goes and it has to be said, see if someone cannot see you for the worst of you, they aren't good enough to know the best of you. In other words it is in my belief that you are potentially throwing away someone who has the potential to be the love of your life for all you know, you don't know what that person is going through or what that person went through or even how strong they can be when they're on their feet.
I just don't believe you can make such easy judgements as that, then again there are a lot of heartless folk out there and is the reason I lost trust in folk. Saw this shared on Facebook, just thought I'd throw in my own wee opinion :)
Unfortunately, we can't take the time to get to know everyone we come across at a deep level, and that's usually just not how attraction starts.
Hey Brian, great video. Quick question, why do you put your hand on her back? are you guys together, or are you trying to make her comfortable? I'd like to know. Thanks
We were together, yes. But I might do that even if we hadn't been. It's good to be comfortable touching people and making connection through touch
I should take your advice because u can get any woman u want ... i just need one woman that's enough.... yeah u are right about all of that how too get a girl how to talk to her and how to ask for her number and so one .... getting rejected ist part of the process .
Glad this helped. Hope to meet you at an event! www.thefearlessman.com/events
I want to know about eye contact like if I like her im attracted to her and she looks at me but not with any cold or dead eyes but nice welcoming eyes do I keep eye contact or what?what should my next step be?
Hmm, I may be able to do a video about eye contact. But in short, walk over to her and say hello. You said it "welcoming eyes" - that means welcoming you to go talk to her. So do it!
If you are in your teens or early to mid twenties, just be in a rock band that has played in front of more than three people. It doesn't even have to be any good. You will have it made then and not have to worry about any of this.
Im tired of woman makes serious face when see me or play that dont see me at all. Sometimes when see me act nervous and looks away . I dont know what is wrong with me but I dont like games like that. Many times I hear that Im handsome.
"Let is shake" yeah, I'm shaking
A lot of men are scared since the women will act flaky, or "you're never good enough". Or that's how it was with me.
When you said she has beautiful eyes the pickup artist in me cringed so hard, I know it was just an example but I can't help it.
Not all girls think like her to be awed by some alpha male. There are no easy paths to success in this game.
Exactly.... I went to a comic-con like event last summer (it was actually a gaming-con) and seen a awkward nerdy studdery weakling all dressed up in a game character costume walking out with another nerdy girl from the event to make out with each other behind a bush while I was leaving walking to my truck, lol. (my guess is she was attracted to him because she was also heavy into cosplay dress up and both had a strong similar interest). This is why I generally don't agree with dating advice and think dating advice actually does more to hurt than harm because it tends to make you overthink and over-analyze things. Traditional dating advice might of hurt mr.cosplay with leaving the event with that girl because he might of acted differently (or not at all) when he only had to be his normal nerdy cosplay self which might not seem normal to some people but she liked it if you catch my drift...
E5m but the advise he gives isnt to be someone else, its to own up to who you really are and to let that come through in a confident happy way, if anything fro what I have gathered from some of his videos is that the more you try to fake your way into a relationship, the more you will fail and it will lower the confidence, he just talks about confidence, learn to own your emotions not the other way around, the nerdy guy got the girl cause he didnt fake who he was, which is basically what this guy preaches.
Tore Aurstad truth
jose jimenez facts
To you want to leave it to luck-finding a girl that's perfectly in your comfort zone that likes you-or do you want to play bigger in life? I discourage and coch men out of over-thinking, but if you want to be more confident-if you want to change in any area of life-you have to become aware of your weaknesses first.
I like this good teaching.
Thanks! Glad you found it valuable.
Brian's voice sometimes remind me Toby's voice from The Office
So what is with the lip biting at about the 728 to 7:31 mark. Dry lips or subconscious message?
Really helped me, thanks !
How are the chances to get her interest back to us after showing nervousness?
If you can own and show up through the nervousness like I talked about in the video, it's very possible. Highly dependent on how you handle it and her personality.
I've never been able to approach a woman very often I just find it just too terrifying. I did approach a woman once but I had to fake the confidence but it just didn't work and i got rejected instantly,it just crushed my self esteem. How do I deal with this I just feel that there's something wrong with me and I'm just not good enough. I've had problems when women have approached me 5 times in my lifetime. I mess things up everytime by freezing up with my mind consumed with negative thoughts when they approach me then they think I don't like them which isn't true. Social anxiety gets the better of me and I get angry with myself which turns into self hate.
You need to work on your self esteem. A lot self-esteem issues are caused by experiences in your early childhood. I recommend checking out Marisa Peer.
I love her feedback..I would like to know more about masculine energy. I have the look but i feel awkward in my body when I walk and when I open my mouth I feel women lose interest or I just think they aren't interested from the get go. Even when they are obviously looking at me.
Hey Brian just wondering if you guys ever do stuff in Europe , I'll be going over to zans 90 day thing in 2017 but would be cool to possibly work with you too ( my travel is limited to europe )
Liked the vid btw, haha
Right now, our European programs are only for advanced students. But if you can invest in great personal development, you can invest in a plane ticket to LA ;)
If you're interested, fill out an application and we can talk to you about options.
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nervousness always gets me rejected
It doesn't really matter how confident you are they'll reject you anyway for the most petty reasons,
This guy looks like a eagle and she looks like a lil helpless bunny
That was money
What I think about the video? The woman looks great! :-)
Great video Brian!
Thanks!
Agreed! Would love to see more spontaneous videos like this! :-)
PS - Yaz, is pretty cute.
The Fearless Man yes sir facts. this is exactly what it is.
When I was single, I actually reject confident guys - they are eternally obnoxious and immature. I prefer the honest and humble quiet guys.
Thanks for your comment Emily! Would you say the guys you rejected were confident or arrogant? - Andrew, TFM Team
I will but it would still help me alot if you go a bit more indept with it and explain what she could possibly be thinking
I added it to the list of videos I want to do
+The Fearless Man thanks alot
That weird back touching and handshake in the in kind of implied, well, weirdness.
love your advice
+Tatiana Hernandez Thanks! Glad you're enjoying
superb..great
whats her name ? where can i find her
Why was he nervous? It's just hair and face paint.
Bro, she said the best quote ever. "Be aggressive towards life and be aggressive towards what you want"
The rapists’ manifesto
I think you made her feel uncomfortable by staying really close to her all the time !!!!!!!
He's teaching us but he's still doubting 🤣
This woman is so beautiful, i get nervous just watching my screen
weak
@@lordvenus7999 keep watching videos my dude, i hope you'll never get rejected again
She looks uncomfortable 😣
Can you blame her? He is kind of a creepy dude.
Spontaneity is born from discomfort. The whole point is, you need to stay grounded no matter what and embrace the discomfort. Thats what tension is. Can’t always be perfect
@@TheDudezer he is bald, under 6ft and looks like creepy joe
5:30
You speak of The Force... binds us... surrrouuuunds us! Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate! Wait wait Yoda, that's all wrong. Fearless Man says you must embrace the dark side, embrace the fear and be genuine and show it, not suppress it. How to get girls: be like Darth Vader lollol
Im fourteen and I dont really know how to implement this to my life I mean I dont go to bars or parties (Im kind of introverted) so any suggestions?
I think a woman reject a nervous man in a subconcious level, because he look way scary, and he doesn´t seem attractive to her because of his visible lack of confidence. So you guys shouldn´t blame the girls for it.
Juarez Leopoldino They're just bitter about reality. I'm shy with social anxiety and totally understand how that is unattractive. I accept reality and either have to deal with it or just stay a loser in the game of women forever...
No. I have plenty of shy classmates who got hooked up and got married and had kids and everything. Same guys who got bullied and made fun of in school (even by the girls)- beat to a pulp mentally no real friends etc. This is the problem with dating advice, it's already killed what little hope you already had by putting you in a place of hopelessness and throwing in the towel by "thinking" every situation is suppose to be the same cut and dry repeatable scientific end result and you don't fit it with that one and only way. I believe a real shy girl with high social anxiety will feel more comfortable and take to another shy guy because they don't take to aggression as well as a bar slut might if you catch my drift. Look, take everything in life with a grain of salt, things aren't always so cut and dry all of the time and there's always exceptions to the rule.
E5m so true bro a shy girl sometimes feels more comfortable with a shy guy. they both have similar personalities
It's biology
Did you even watch the video? It's about being courageous despite being nervous, therefore making a girl still feel comfortable with her sexuality.
Woah a fragile man... How terrible. He must be a worthless, total loser. She thinks she knows everything about him... However it's not really true, she doesn't know anything about him but that he's bit nervous. it really goes to show that women are instinctive, but not really intelligent. They react to their own feelings not to any curiosity or mysteriousness or hidden talents he may have.
Dear Brian, how do I accept women without making the rest jealous? (or think I'm an F-boy.)
Can you be a little more specific about your situation?
Sharp info
I could never hold a conversation with a women this beautiful. All i can talk about is video games movies and Bodybuilding
Well.. those are your passions, own 'em. ;)
It's possible that you meet a gym-nut or a gamer-lady (or both) that you like by pure coincidence.
+The one who they Mashuo
Thanks for the kind words man, I seriously got very confident about Bodybuilding within the past 6 month to the point were i want to teach it to Newcomers.
i forgot 1 passion i really love to listen to Jazz music and Heavy Metal music.
i just need to remember that women are humans to. I know it sounds stupid but i always think about them as some magical Fairy Tale like creatures that have No Flaws.
My Self Esteem was much much lower 4 years ago. Being to the Gym 9 hours per week really helped me.
Yes a Gym Nut Gamer Lady would be great :) Or a Gym Nut Lady that can at least tolerate video games for 1 hour per day.
This is crap. Nothing in this video teaches men how to be fundamentally ok with themselves, insecurities and all. Courage isn't about confidence, it's about how you live with your fears.
Suneil Patel you’re looking at it backwards. You are right that courage isn’t about confidence, however confidence IS 100% about courage. Nobody can teach you to be brave. They can show you bravery, but only you can live your life and be there for yourself, to take responsibility for yourself. It definitely won’t happen overnight though
How do you control the nervousness when you approach women
don't approach directly if you know you you gonna meet her everyday like if its school, workplace, etc... approach indirectly. move gradually from friend to lover. find out what makes her tick, listen carefully, get outside of urself and inside hr mind. look at tone of voice to certain words, body language, face, etc.. find out her insecurities, use flattery directly on her insecurities, say things that makes her feel good about herself.
+TroutButter Lol
Just sit in your house and tell yourself you wont be social forever. Then leave your house, get a job as cashier or some human interaction job and then save money. Research how to do some deadlifts, squats and bench press all night. After that go hit the Weight gym/mma gyms and train what you have been taught. Then buy yourself new clothes and ALOT of food/Snacks. After 2 years you will start getting more testosterone aka more muscle aka more confidence. Quality women will see what you are doing and will hint you to come talk to them. When they do that you go talk to them and you speak in a very deep/sexy voice "Hi".
DO approach directly. Don't control the nervousness-own it, like I talked about in the video. The more you do that, the more your nervousness will subside. Practice consistently. And work on embodiment:
Be more Attractive to Women - Body Awareness | Inside FEARLESS #43
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Too often, muscles still don't equal confidence. Working out and on your body is great, but that doesn't always help you deal with your underlying insecurities. I see that time and time again.
Yo, I notice the camera shook for a second. Maybe the camera operator is nervous on how she is so fine or the guy. 🤔😂😉. Thank for the video
What's your opinion about feminism and how it the main cause of masculine fem roles being flipped in men in women?
Its retarded. If a bitch comes up to you they will TRY to be a man but you are natrually a man so you win her. Always be a man and never allow yourself to be a feminzed little girl. Unleash that shit you have inside you. Fuck Timidness and fuck being a coward. Everything you do, do it as a man. Act like it, read about it and Be like it until you are THE MAN.
+Freedom Fighter On the right track, but I encourage guys to try to do it from a good-feeling, giving place as much as possible. Coming from anger or resentment does work sometimes for some people, but it's not the healthiest or most effective place to be coming from to form genuine, strong connections. Anger also m means you still are seriously in need of validation, rather than being free and internally validated.
so in other words, its women who are allowed to want and need external validation, but not men?
Where did you get that idea? Women certainly should work on themselves as well. But I'm talking about how men can better themselves and be more confident here.
People can be angry at alot of things. It's cop out to just say they are seeking validation. Maybe people are angry at how they are being viewed and treated and the lies being told about how they are being viewed and treated.
I don't want validation. I live and breathe. I have interests and am aware of my qualities and value. But I do have opinions on things that any sane person would be angry about.
... or you could stop defining yourself via how many women you had and start measuring the level of your worth using other metrics.