Was an indie singer in Canada and now a mom of three kids in Korea | Canadian Korean couple

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  • Juggling three kids and helping my beloved husband with his delivery job. it's not easy to become a mother but it's worth it and she is very proud of herself.
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  • @thanGacao
    @thanGacao ปีที่แล้ว +3114

    seeing her struggle with reading official letters makes me appreciate my own parents, who are immigrants as well, even more.

    • @MVBNov
      @MVBNov 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Yes. It is really hard and sometimes you feel helpless like a child and can be very tiring 😢❤❤

    • @lexio5300
      @lexio5300 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank goodness for Google Lens Translate for us to use it. lol

    • @pinkdragoneyes
      @pinkdragoneyes 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      My parents just made me deal with all of their business letters and calls since I learned English in kindergarten haha. Life hack, make your oldest child a third parent. (Dont actually do this)

    • @ap9212
      @ap9212 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Well the turn of tables

    • @Nopenopenope6969
      @Nopenopenope6969 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@ap9212 It's not a turn of tables, people immigrate from the US to other countries all the time. And it's often much harder than getting citizenship in the USA. Relax. It's not a competition.

  • @jinlee2617
    @jinlee2617 ปีที่แล้ว +5776

    3 kids, in a foreign land with language & cultural barrier...bruh, I have much respect for Emily and Dad too for working as a team and carrying everyday their family life. I wish them happiness!

    • @AliasHSW
      @AliasHSW ปีที่แล้ว +94

      That’s what I admire about my wife. We met when she came to the USA to study…and essentially left her entire behind in Korea to stay here with me. This can also be said about my parents uprooting themselves/family to immigrate to the USA. Truly a brave and selfless act of those that does it.

    • @ericsohn5084
      @ericsohn5084 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      She's the real patriot!

    • @safheart2306
      @safheart2306 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      respect

    • @anticommunist-sg3cn
      @anticommunist-sg3cn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@AliasHSW why didn't you people just stay at home? we don't need more immigrants in America.

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you!!!!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Nzesultanswife
    @Nzesultanswife ปีที่แล้ว +6170

    I love how she keeps reassuring her husband that he’s good looking despite society finding his looks a bit unconventional. He is a very handsome man and she’s gorgeous

    • @juno1765
      @juno1765 ปีที่แล้ว +464

      He's handsome I think they're talking about his beard and mustache, since most korean men shave them

    • @Nzesultanswife
      @Nzesultanswife ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@juno1765 yes, I meant the beard too

    • @1412Bunny
      @1412Bunny ปีที่แล้ว +388

      from a canadian perspective he's pretty good looking, he looks manly

    • @Cx0ew
      @Cx0ew ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Both can be true though, he can still be not the most attractive man in Korea, but maybe he has charisma, and that's what makes him attractive to her.

    • @Pumpkin0_0
      @Pumpkin0_0 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      They pointed out it's because of his hair and beard, especially because it's not common in the least for Korean men to have beards. But his looks are still unconventional in Korea, which doesn't make him "Korea handsome". He's basically like Bobby from the k-pop group IKON. He's not typically handsome, but has charisma and a badass sort of look.

  • @elisa.g1879
    @elisa.g1879 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1399

    I think the mom is a hero. She is cooking, cleaning, taking care of the kids, bringing them to school AND sometimes helping her husbend with delivery. Thats clazy. Respect to her.

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

      It's easier to brand women as "heroes" than it is to do your fair share of the household.
      They shouldn't have to be heroes. Their husband should do his part.

    • @huskytail
      @huskytail 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@chervilisbetterthancilantroso after 10h of running what exactly he should take off her shoulders? If she worked outside of home full time, ok, but she doesn't, that's her job.

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

      @@huskytail She did her job for him, and on top of that, he just takes a nap. She worked all day, multiple jobs, never got a rest. He worked half a job, comes home, and just goes to sleep while the woman sIaves away for him more.

    • @reverentlygrim2666
      @reverentlygrim2666 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You Should be clear with the man whose horrible fate will make him get in your life briefly that this how you think about his job and effort make it crystal clear don't hide your idea of the dynamics of relationship until it gets serious , wish you all luck of finding the "male" of your dreams.! @@chervilisbetterthancilantro

    • @ingrid6295
      @ingrid6295 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      ​​@@huskytail she works full time as well, even if it is in the house or doesn't get pay.

  • @JL_hahaha0303
    @JL_hahaha0303 ปีที่แล้ว +5195

    I finally understood why my mom keeps stocking up food in her fridge, I think the fear of not having food and having to find time to buy them when you have so many kids to care for, is such huge fear that causes so much anxiety in all the moms, and the only way to calm that anxiety is to have as much food as possible in the house 🤣

    • @myshoesnotyours
      @myshoesnotyours ปีที่แล้ว +301

      Keeping a well stocked fridge is a thing in Canada. Because of our density grocery stores are further away. Most families visit grocery stores once per week. Even for condos / apartment buildings, it's uncommon to have a grocery store right at the ground level. If you forget to buy something / urgently need something.... it's more borrow it from your next door neighbour than go to a store to buy it.

    • @jihojio2118
      @jihojio2118 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      동의해요

    • @solaris5922
      @solaris5922 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      … and add to the fact that prices are going up everyday. If I see something on sale that I won’t be using soon I’d probably still buy it and freeze it. Especially with three young kids

    • @perry4415
      @perry4415 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes and it's good backup in case the kids don't want to eat anything I cooked for them and would rather have something else.

    • @WileChile51
      @WileChile51 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, there is having food that you'll use soon, and then hoarding. It can be a tendency from like you said, not having enough in your past, or having to be very conservative with food and other items. It can be a product of trauma.

  • @kimz2224
    @kimz2224 ปีที่แล้ว +5404

    Idk why Koreans saying he isn't handsome?? He's a good looking man and not just good looking! He is hardworking family man. They both are great parents

    • @tictoc900912
      @tictoc900912 ปีที่แล้ว +405

      Im korean. They r jealous. Cant be anything else

    • @chillarypuff
      @chillarypuff ปีที่แล้ว +504

      I think it’s because of his facial hair - as an American I find him handsome!!

    • @Cx0ew
      @Cx0ew ปีที่แล้ว +187

      I don't get the resistance to it, Korean beauty standard is not about "being yourself", it's about following the celebrities. If he looks good to you, great, but Korean culture doesn't agree with you, and that's fine.

    • @StarlaBizarre
      @StarlaBizarre ปีที่แล้ว +217

      I instantly thought he was so attractive, and typically Koreans are not the type of guy that I go for, but wow

    • @packingtroll
      @packingtroll ปีที่แล้ว +149

      if you look at their tv shows, actors and kpop stars - thats why. their men are clean shaven, almost gay(feminine) looking. for them "handsome" means not so manyly. but odd thing is that their common folk looks like this man

  • @corgisrule21
    @corgisrule21 ปีที่แล้ว +2131

    I love how much her MIL loves her and cares for her…not all people are so lucky, even in their home country 🥹

    • @matthewlam856
      @matthewlam856 ปีที่แล้ว

      She has that white privilege

    • @rochellecaspada4355
      @rochellecaspada4355 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Yeah it's not easy to find a good mother in law.

    • @aaronmontgomery2055
      @aaronmontgomery2055 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      honestly feels like she loves her more than her son, but considering who she is it makes sense (they seem close).

  • @DK412724
    @DK412724 ปีที่แล้ว +1084

    This should be required viewing for anyone planning on getting married. Unlike the movies portraying the image of "happily ever after," real marriage is hard and unflattering. It requires sacrifice and selflessness. When children enter the picture, multiply the level of difficulty and get ready for an onslaught of unwanted surprises. This episode captured a lot of invaluable lessons that most media never shows. Thank you to the beautiful parents and children for sharing a part of lives. Life is truly precious and it showed throughout the footage of this wonderful family

    • @MVBNov
      @MVBNov 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly! True love includes so much hard work.

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      It should be required viewing before getting married. So women know to stay the heII away from these maIes.

    • @DonSalcedo-ic4le
      @DonSalcedo-ic4le 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      True, as a mother of three she’s doing a great job

    • @FuhrerHeisen
      @FuhrerHeisen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@chervilisbetterthancilantro why such a negative Nancy like they seem really in love and as long as they are faithful and treating each other right what's the problem?

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@FuhrerHeisen Except he's not treating her right. She's like his sIave, she even does his work for him on top of all the work she does at home! And then he just takes a nap, while she continues working, after she has worked all day and done his work for him!
      This should be mandatory to watch for women, to know what's waiting for you if you settIe for a maIe Iike this.

  • @lmntxo2678
    @lmntxo2678 ปีที่แล้ว +2437

    It is nice that Emily's husband isn't the type of guy that feels awkward when his wife is being sweet to him. I think showing affection to each other is even more important especially for a couple like them who are so busy throughout the day that they might be too exhausted to love on each other by the time her husband gets home in the evening.

    • @hellbunniez3
      @hellbunniez3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      love how they constantly call out “pping,ppang” lol

    • @suvisue6070
      @suvisue6070 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      Are we both watching the same video? This guy comes off as lazy and ungrateful to me. He doesn't help around the house AT ALL. When his wife went to see him at work with the kids, she helped him with his job, but he couldn't help her in the house or AT LEAST watch the kids while she was cooking. Being "tired" is not an excuse since he's not the only one who's "tired" here, she's been working all day as well. I would lose my mind if I had a husband like that. She's very patient and tolerates his behavior.
      I lost it when he started complaining about his wife's cooking as if she didn't spend a long time standing in the kitchen just to make him food. I'm surprised that she didn't lash out at him and ask him what his problem is. The least he could do was thank her for feeding him.
      Gender stereotypes are indeed very much alive in Korea and the woman is still expected to do EVERYTHING around the house with no rest or help. I feel bad for her. I hope that he can learn to appreciate her and start helping her out instead of complaining and nagging at her.

    • @Jjangbunbun
      @Jjangbunbun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@suvisue6070i agree they dont have the best relationship 50/50 wise its the traditional oh “as long as the man is working all day hes doing his part so u cant complain about anything he does”

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      @@Jjangbunbunexactly. I feel so bad for her, I was shocked that he couldn’t show gratitude like she was doing the whole time. His complaining was childish and rude

    • @suvisue6070
      @suvisue6070 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@sanha-127 So you say you'd rather have a toddler for a husband? A toddler who constantly complains about everything, doesn't help with anything, and throws a hissy fit when things don't go his way? ok. Good luck with that lol 😂
      As someone who grew up living in the same house as an adult who acts like this husband, I say I would rather die than date or even get married to someone like this. It's so annoying and frustrating to deal with their incompetence.
      How is being an adult and taking care of yourself and your children "acting like your dad"? Being loving, caring, understanding, and helpful to your family is a good thing.
      Get help 🖤

  • @Yokera67
    @Yokera67 ปีที่แล้ว +962

    She should open a TH-cam channel ! She has such a joyful personality !

    • @PerfumePretty
      @PerfumePretty ปีที่แล้ว

      They have one! 🤗
      youtube.com/@emyfullofbeans

    • @HachikoThePoochInugami
      @HachikoThePoochInugami 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She has! Search "FULL OF BEANS Emily in Korea"

    • @MusicSideAllDay
      @MusicSideAllDay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

      She has a TH-cam channel called FULL OF BEANS Emily in Korea

    • @greekswaglord-dathistoryla201
      @greekswaglord-dathistoryla201 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah, family TH-cam can go to hell, nothing but trouble in the long term.

    • @bangpinkarmyblink5894
      @bangpinkarmyblink5894 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ​@@MusicSideAllDaythanks

  • @jijijijibaby
    @jijijijibaby ปีที่แล้ว +2533

    wow emily is so amazing at korean . the way she chooses how to phrase things when speaking in front of her in laws is just so beautiful and kind. “their support is like gold to me” 🥹 her outlook on life is admirable as well ❤😊

    • @gamecxhanger
      @gamecxhanger 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      hopefully they are on her side 😂😂😂😂

    • @rebeccanagawa3253
      @rebeccanagawa3253 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Same with me here. When people are so nice consistently and I feel at home with them and my entire being settles will with them, I can't help but bubble praises and gratitude in all ways. Goodness feels so good.

  • @sweetTRS
    @sweetTRS 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +231

    I love how they call each other “pping” and “ppang” it’s adorable

    • @vlz7393
      @vlz7393 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      They started a Chanel Emily in Korea

  • @khinshoonlai9644
    @khinshoonlai9644 ปีที่แล้ว +709

    I love how Emily is so obsessed and so in love with her husband. Their family is so cute!!

  • @cameronmilan1467
    @cameronmilan1467 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    This is probably my favorite episode to date. I love Emily’s personality, the way she’s able to have fun and not take things too seriously even when the circumstances are tough. The husband is very hardworking and kind, and I feel that he grew softer at heart thanks to Emily’s love. Their kids obviously see that love and seem like good kids. Even though Emily and Bosun fight when things get tough, I feel that their love will win no matter what ❤❤

    • @tommyfield8449
      @tommyfield8449 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I also like how she didn't raise her voice towards her children. Many parents take the easy way out & just scold their child.

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for saying that❤ so sweet!!!!

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Emily has a LOT of patience and never even got praised for all the work she does while she made sure to compliment her man who does the bare minimum, multiple times. She is definitely unappreciated. I’m glad she seemed to have a wonderful mother in law, at least she is appreciated by her. The husband couldn’t even say anything nice specifically about Emily at the end. He gives me weird vibes

    • @vlz7393
      @vlz7393 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She acc started a TH-cam channel “Emily in Korea” :) its really cute youtube.com/@emyfullofbeans?si=vskub3CaZUTrqQSl

  • @alyssaw444
    @alyssaw444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +185

    Aww emily's line about "if i had known this back then i'd have been less depressed" is so sweet

    • @chinaboss6683
      @chinaboss6683 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her heart is worth more than gold. ❤

  • @NEWBOTANICA
    @NEWBOTANICA ปีที่แล้ว +230

    Oh the husband and wife are clearly madly in love despite the rough finacial situation they're in.. plus the mother in law and that as support... ugh beautiful family!

  • @NekoNyan
    @NekoNyan ปีที่แล้ว +768

    I love how they raise their children. Emily doesn't spoil them, so they don't grow up too dependent. The couple also are very close and too cute

    • @tanaaz7593
      @tanaaz7593 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yup ! It's lovely.🥰

    • @udontevenwannaknowbruv
      @udontevenwannaknowbruv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      You mean how she raises her children because that husband barely interacted with them

    • @finalphalax
      @finalphalax 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@udontevenwannaknowbruv How they are living is very traditional and its whats works best for society. Mothers are nurturers and she is doing a fantastical job at it. To be honest she is a strong woman who is very into her femininity because she provides a nurturing and peaceful place to her family. The husband, although tired after work, is doing his best to work almost 12 hours a day of physical labor in order to get money for food, rent and their life, he is doing his job as a provider and being the father to the kids. Both of them are working as a team to raise a family, this is one best example of a nuclear family, sometimes life is rough, having a family is never a happy ever after, because both husband and wife have to face issues together. By working together, they played to their strengths but also supports each other's weaknesses.
      You might be poisoned or told by modern society that this might look wrong but civilization through out history has lived and worked with this type of nuclear family. If what you were taught was different, then good luck getting married or having a family.

  • @Kuramuku4016
    @Kuramuku4016 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    OMG all of her doing those hardwork and the husband keep nagging her all day. I wouldve EXPLODED already😅

  • @maddielouwho
    @maddielouwho ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Every couple fights, and it shows they’re in a healthy relationship the way they’re able to get over it so quickly. They obviously love each so much, and they adore their kids. I had a smile on my face watching this the whole time.

  • @nicolelau8420
    @nicolelau8420 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    I cried at what the husband said about the family saving him, this family is so cute. The nagging is funny, it’s what I grew up with. I love the support and happiness of the children, that speaks volumes of how the parents care and love them.

  • @mishasan7
    @mishasan7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I felt for her when the husband kept putting food back. ARGH when you're the primary caregiver to THREE young children with the nearest groceries an intimidating ten minute drive away you do not have time to be going to the shop to top up the things you need. And they're a family of FIVE.
    It'd be nice if hubby took a step back and recognised that maybe his wife knows best about this as she's the one who prepares the meals. After all, she doesn't try to change things when she goes to help him at HIS job, she just follows his lead and helps without getting in the way.

  • @nickgarter7389
    @nickgarter7389 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    This lady is definitely a keeper.

  • @BlueberrySummertime
    @BlueberrySummertime ปีที่แล้ว +397

    I would watch a tv show with them. They’re so realistic and they’re struggles remind me of my childhood.

    • @chinesecovidanalswabs4752
      @chinesecovidanalswabs4752 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Hope she starts a youtube channel. Would love to watch some vlogs or even shorts.

    • @raycigar6356
      @raycigar6356 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Their Family YT channel: Full of beans Emily in Korea

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Omg can we have a show please?!!!! So fun!!!!❤

  • @sheiLaxL
    @sheiLaxL ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I can relate when she said that the fridge is her turf and that he doesn’t do the cooking so she knows better of what and what not to have.. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @yueliangmei12
    @yueliangmei12 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    It’s nice to see such a simple and humble life of a family in Korea. Both of them has a good understanding of one another, and it’s nice how the wife keeps assuring her husband that’s he’s doing a good job.

    • @selmahare
      @selmahare หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes and it’d be great if he could do the same for her, instead of nagging and criticising her so much. He could drink from her wisdom, kindness and light.

  • @OCR461
    @OCR461 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Omg this woman is such a ray of sunshine.....hope he appreciates her and vice versa

  • @justrelaxing1932
    @justrelaxing1932 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    My husband and I always in this situation. He thinks everything is wasted because it stays in the freezer for long time. Wife who cooks a lot must have everything she needs in the kitchen. Everyone eats but not everyone cooks. 😅

    • @tita2698
      @tita2698 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      And besides, if the wife has to go to the grocery everytime she needs something, then that would be time taken away from doing other chores, right?

    • @angelsis2222
      @angelsis2222 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Not only that, youre wasting more money on gas from driving everyday back and forth. Also, if your wife is afraid and lost when driving, why would you want her driving with the kids everyday wasting gas?

  • @chingunanderson8229
    @chingunanderson8229 ปีที่แล้ว +1292

    I disagree with the commentors who are saying that the husband is a nightmare or red flag. Yes, he can be more understanding of Emily's system and complain less. But he has good traits. He works hard. He tries to help Emily out like improving her driving skills. He tries to learn and cook with her. Most importantly, they clearly love each other/their kids, and their kids can see it. Expecting improvement is fair but perfection is not.

    • @stunnaremy
      @stunnaremy ปีที่แล้ว +208

      Exactly. I feel like most people in relationships nowadays try to be a yes-man. It’s okay to disagree with your significant other so long as you love and respect one another.

    • @user-gm2dl5xl2c
      @user-gm2dl5xl2c ปีที่แล้ว +145

      I've watched a few of these and tbh he's the best man so far lol others nag so terribly while the wife was working 10 hour days etc here I think he's just financially worried. But I love their family dynamic you can really tell they love each other.

    • @cat7181
      @cat7181 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      This is the only one I’ve seen - but to account for the fact of how well they work together even with those cultural differences is beautiful!

    • @user-gm2dl5xl2c
      @user-gm2dl5xl2c ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@cat7181 I really love how supportive his family is towards her. It must make a world of difference for her especially being in a foreign country.

    • @nyfikengulsvideo
      @nyfikengulsvideo ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Agree, compared to most Korean married men he's helping out with housework and other things a lot more. He's working 12-hour shifts or longer, 6 days a week and tries to find time to do things together with his family and be there for his wife.

  • @pinkymoon5039
    @pinkymoon5039 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    Beautiful family. Emily is such a good wife and mother. Her husband seemed cold at first but his tears in the end show that he does love and appreciate his wife and kids. I wish this beautiful family nothing but the best ❤🙏

  • @dduddujiswoo
    @dduddujiswoo ปีที่แล้ว +75

    They were on a different parenting show previously about parents having difficulty with one of or any of their children. They were on the show cause she had difficulty communicating with her kids since her kids mainly spoke korean and the mother spoke english. In one scene, the mother asked the firstborn to speak to her in english but the child got frustrated too saying she doesnt know how to say her words in english and they both cried while hugging each other and the mother apologising for not being korean. Another worry was the father being too intimidating. They did exercises in the end to communicate better with each other.
    But from what I saw, the family is actually very loving. I really like this family.

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you! Yes we are lucky in love for sure!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @FlowersByIrene
      @FlowersByIrene 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you have a link to that show?

  • @RebeccaBredin
    @RebeccaBredin 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    This is such a healthy thing to show. They clearly love each other, but fighting is always going to happen. There are huge cultural differences but they’re not letting it get in the way, which is great. Boson’s parents are the in laws you dream of, and I LOVE that they understand exactly how hard things can be for Emily at times. After living in SK for three years, I know that not many people truly understand what Emily goes through living on the other side of the planet. The fact they both have such love and support around them and for each other… it’s lovely to see.

  • @seamslatasha3598
    @seamslatasha3598 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    Emily seems like a truly lovely person.

  • @essedanel
    @essedanel ปีที่แล้ว +335

    being a mom of 3 kids is such a tough job... it's like working 3 jobs at the same time, thinking endlessly.... so filling the fridge i totally understand, but maybe not all the time so there won't be a fight always hehe fighting!❤

    • @leliavoinea7253
      @leliavoinea7253 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I have mad respect for mothers. I can't even imagine having a child let alone 3 of them!😂 I have 3 nephews and on nice. Needless to say but the two oldest are like a storm. I am content with the fact that to them I am the funny aunt with the cat and dogs.😂 I love my nephews and nice but I am glad they return with the parents at the end of the day.😂😂

    • @essedanel
      @essedanel ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @leliavoinea7253 ikr! I used to take care of this 2 kids before & they might be the cutest little things, but it was not e-a-s-y🥲 they also had some wild specie episodes... i remembered this scissor flying towards me, i was so glad i didn't expire🥹 And the curiosity just never ends, it makes me feel dumb when i can't answer their questions🥸... i just think i can never be like my mom... how did all the mothers survive? this is just an enigma to me

    • @aaronmontgomery2055
      @aaronmontgomery2055 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its easy once they are potty trained and you don't have to worry financially. I find having them do chores and responsibility at a young age helps keeps thigs in order

  • @hyunrahan5265
    @hyunrahan5265 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    They’re very affectionate and emotionally matured. Their fights did not last long as one will deescalate the situation whenever they sense the others are getting agitated.
    It’s so good to see healthy couple.

  • @kawaiikawaii7683
    @kawaiikawaii7683 ปีที่แล้ว +289

    You guys should start a youtube channel it's really refreshing to see such a lovely family

    • @daludna
      @daludna ปีที่แล้ว +34

      But the work of pulling that through, I would be very worried of Emily's health

    • @chinesecovidanalswabs4752
      @chinesecovidanalswabs4752 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I think it's doable. She could do 5 min vlogs or shorts than longer videos.

    • @donlee4105
      @donlee4105 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      she opened youtube channel recently

    • @kawaiikawaii7683
      @kawaiikawaii7683 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@donlee4105 Channel name ?

    • @raycigar6356
      @raycigar6356 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Their Family YT channel is: Full of Beans Emily in Korea

  • @gastronamour8398
    @gastronamour8398 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Ok but like why was this the most wholesome and precious video to stumble upon at 4am?! I was instantly hooked in 😭

  • @rosariolarion9319
    @rosariolarion9319 ปีที่แล้ว +182

    Both the wife and the husband produced beautiful kids. I love how Emily managing all the works as a housewife and still helps with the delivery with their kids and husband. Such a huge responsibility and still shows how much she love and adore her. husband. The three kids brings out the good and the bad side of the parents of to cope things in their lives. I cannot help to admire Bosun’s family as they love Emily -- she is like an Asian woman. Emily is patient, very loving, caring and a good wife. She loves her family so much. Bosun’s heartfelt words about his family was very heartwarming and full of care as he said,”his family nis his life”. I cried when he cried, his honesty and sincerity about his family is sweet and loving. God bless them all. ❤Thank you so much for sharing. This is one of my favourites from K-Doc. ❤

  • @LoveMusicSound
    @LoveMusicSound 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Love how she goes to help him at work. That is a good bonding moment for the family, and those kids are learning good characters to have as people towards the people they love. Those kids will remember those days.

  • @carolinejakubiak2435
    @carolinejakubiak2435 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    It's so good to see this kind of documentary. What I usually see in France is caricatural families treated with some irony by the journalists. Contrary this is inspirational : this couple working as a team is a great example for all of us, I'm tired of divorce stories so thank you!

    • @aaronmontgomery2055
      @aaronmontgomery2055 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      this is still rare as it takes people that are open and understanding while accepting that fighting is fine as long as you move forward.

  • @mb8456
    @mb8456 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Like many others have already said, this family should have their own TH-cam channel. We don't get to see realistic families on TH-cam that much. All three kids are so cute. They are hardworking parents.

  • @noonynoonynoo
    @noonynoonynoo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You don't have to be a perfect person to be perfect for the one you love. Even despite their quirks and disagreements, you can see how the strength of their love fills in the gaps and smooths their rough edges. This is what keeps them united and smiling even through hard times. I think that's beautiful and so rare nowadays.
    I really admire how they are raising their kids. These little ones will soon grow up into responsible, caring, independent, respectful people who know exactly what real love looks like because they were surrounded by so much of it every day. Alone each one is nothing, but together, they are a family--growing together, learning from each other, becoming better through their sacrifices for each other.

  • @sugarapplepie
    @sugarapplepie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    @25:12 Awww Emily is so blessed to have such wonderful in-laws that love her back! The grandma is so cute! Good genes run in the family

  • @RarelyRuby
    @RarelyRuby 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Honestly that's what a family is, starting from the married couple it's all about teamwork and communication. Kudos to these two awesome people for being great examples for their kids!

  • @PersonaN007Grata
    @PersonaN007Grata ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Props to all the moms and dads that hustled for their kids. ❤

  • @mamaraidervlogs3429
    @mamaraidervlogs3429 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    My rule: don’t bring husband in grocery shopping! Leave the kids with him @ home lol! 😜✌️
    But you both are doing great in raising 3 children.

    • @kamialexis4831
      @kamialexis4831 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly 😂 let’s stress and you get some me time

  • @boomshakarlaka7237
    @boomshakarlaka7237 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    I love the chill and calm demeanor of this video. Although it’s difficult due to many factors, it’s not stress-inducing to watch. 😊 It’s real and raw, and it elicits hope to couples. Either that, or the editing is great! 😂 I’m sure it’s a little of both.

  • @Hobo_X
    @Hobo_X ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Man I'd love to see periodic updates on this family. I don't know why I was so hooked watching this!

    • @SuukiDesu
      @SuukiDesu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They have their own YT channel now, it's called emyfullofbeans !

  • @amandakim180
    @amandakim180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Emily deserves so much credit and is quite remarkable for raising 3 children in a world that’s so different from Canada. Plus her husband works a lot , so she’s constantly home with with the kids which can be drive any mom insane. She has perseverance and you can see she has nothing but good intentions. Like being overly prepared is definitely a North American thing. You can never be unprepared. The overpacking and over-preparing is one way in which shows how she cares and loves her family. Their 3 children are very beautiful. It is nice to see how his family adores her and that Koreans are becoming more accepting of other races. It’s about time Korea gets with the program and accepts interracial marriages.❤

  • @StepOver420
    @StepOver420 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    what a fantastic woman and mother she is. im in awe and wish to meet someone like her one day!

  • @minkiemink
    @minkiemink 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

    Husband bossing her around at home and at the store, criticizing her especially in front of the kids when she does everything for the household is not cool. They are a nice couple with sweet kids, but he needs to support her emotionally as much as she supports him.

    • @Nominaze
      @Nominaze 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yes!

    • @Jjangbunbun
      @Jjangbunbun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      yea he was so annoying i hope he saw himself and realized

    • @misamisamisamisamisamisa
      @misamisamisamisamisamisa 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      yes that was very toxic. she cant go to the mart everyday with 3 kids and chores needing to be done constantly.

    • @chinaboss6683
      @chinaboss6683 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@nsi79
      Everyone has their darkside and you can stay hating because you gets no love. 😂

    • @selmahare
      @selmahare หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      This. My hope is that after watching this he realizes how he comes across when he starts nagging her like that; and doing it in front of the kids is a big, major “no”, as it could make them lose respect for her in the long run. She reminds me of myself in my 30s, people pleasing and accepting of behaviors from men (and people in general) that one should never accept. If the male host calls him out she can too. She can do it in a gentle manner, but it should ideally be tackled. It’s not ok to criticize her cooking when she’s putting in such and effort, and tell her stuff like “you should have cleaned the table”. Get you a freaking cloth and clean the darn table yourself, she’s already cooked you dinner after spending all day taking care of your cute but noisy ass kids, the nerve.

  • @thaynaguirao2303
    @thaynaguirao2303 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Emily, please do a yt channel so we can hype up your family! Wishing the best for the five of you, sending love from Brazil!

    • @syazwananordin8657
      @syazwananordin8657 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree!!! Looking forward to that too

    • @happysmile9785
      @happysmile9785 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      She started her channel
      ' Full of beans Emily in korea'

  • @formershadow
    @formershadow 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    He’s trying his best to be a good father. He nags because he loves his family❤❤

  • @BeybabaEfendi
    @BeybabaEfendi ปีที่แล้ว +30

    31:24 this part hits different, just shows that after all we are all emotional beings with things that pushes us to keep going forward..

  • @shaifulothman7442
    @shaifulothman7442 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She's an amazing lady, wife and mom... So dedicated to the family

  • @stephaniegonzalezpantaleon8790
    @stephaniegonzalezpantaleon8790 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Aww, this is the cutest episode I’ve ever seen. The amazing family together despite many different challenges. The wife who is the center of the universe, making everything happened by supporting the husband and the home. Many well wishes for this family and hopefully there will be a great update. 👏

  • @liukang85
    @liukang85 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless them... she seems like a wonderful wife

  • @ley6748
    @ley6748 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    the way she keeps her composure w his nagging is charismatic fr shes sm better than i would be

  • @y-yyy
    @y-yyy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I have to say, considering they didn't even speak a common language when they met and had an unplanned pregnancy, they're doing AMAZING! Literally defying all possible odds. You're smashing it guys, please keep loving each other. Husband's family seems really warm and relaxed, too.

  • @rinagonson9652
    @rinagonson9652 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I see a Korean superstar, all kid are so beautiful

  • @yzkkoch479
    @yzkkoch479 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    This is such a cute family, so hardworking, determined and respectful. Props to the couple for trying the hardest for their family.
    Emily is so inspiring 💓
    Edit: their kids are adorable, as expected though bc their parents are so good looking too

  • @pjoazure
    @pjoazure ปีที่แล้ว +15

    What a great family. Showing the common struggle without shame.

  • @Hooniverse._.
    @Hooniverse._. ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The youngest is so cute. She’s such a great mom

  • @ineffablemars
    @ineffablemars ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I think the grocery thing is cultural but also Canada/USA is MUCH bigger than Korea so everything is spaced further apart especially when you live in a rural or suburban area. Making. Daily trips to the grocery store is a big chore and doing a once and done trip every week makes more sense here. But in smaller countries and big cities where things are closer together it makes more sense to just go when you need something.

    • @maddielouwho
      @maddielouwho ปีที่แล้ว +24

      That’s a really good point! A lot of videos and shows I see of Korea always show people just walking to a convenience store when they want something, but where I live in the us that’s impossible-you have to drive

    • @QWER-wv5kn
      @QWER-wv5kn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Oh my god.... 그러면 과일이나 채소는 어떻게 먹어요?? 일주일에 한번만 식료품점에 갑니까?? 나는 마트는 걸어서 5분, 편의점은 걸어서 2분 걸린다....

    • @Leashieeeee
      @Leashieeeee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@QWER-wv5knyou buy a week's worth of fruit and vegetables

    • @ingrid6295
      @ingrid6295 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm from a small town, yet people tend to buy every two weeks and vegetables/fruits once a week. It will take more time to go every day or to often.

  • @yiddena
    @yiddena ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He's criticizing her way too much. He needs to lay off. She's a good wife!

  • @willcookmakeup
    @willcookmakeup ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Her Korean is so good. What an awesome mom.

  • @jimmykim2497
    @jimmykim2497 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Emily is the real deal! She is an amazing woman!! The husband is one lucky man!

  • @JamaicanemeraldQueen
    @JamaicanemeraldQueen 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Take the kids to the park everyday after school or dinner everyday to tire them out. Let them play and burn off that energy.
    He is a great dad she is a great mom. I am glad his family loves her unconditionally ❤.
    Since the kids behave when dad is around. He and mom should create a schedule for the kids and pin it up where they can see it and he should explain the schedule so that it can be enforced...so that they can get their homework done ..get all school paperwork checked and signed on time, do small chores around to keep yhe space tidy, when to play at home and outside in the park, when to get a snack.
    You guys continue to do well and improve and I wish you all the health and strength to carry on.

  • @4ksandknives
    @4ksandknives ปีที่แล้ว +27

    As long as the family appreciates all the efforts of each spouse, the family won't crack but will harden and be strong

  • @Lily-wm4nm
    @Lily-wm4nm ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She Deserves better honestly. All he does is complain he never help. He didn’t even thank her.

  • @crystalm3th573
    @crystalm3th573 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    She deserves better.
    Wish she had her own foundation before getting married to someone would be as established as her.
    She looks like she’s struggling and has no choice but to dependent on her husband who complains all the time.

  • @lilithYoung
    @lilithYoung ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I love this family 👌😂💓💓
    Mad respect to both the wife and the husband ❤️❤️ they're both so hardworking,📌📌 their children are lucky to have them as their parents 🙂🙂🤗🥳🥳
    I want more videos of this family 💯💯👏👏

  • @Ikaa3224
    @Ikaa3224 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Aww her mother in law is so lovely and nice to her. What a wonderful family! Stay well and bless you. 🥰

  • @sugarapplepie
    @sugarapplepie 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Aww I randomly clicked on this and this family is just so loving and adorable! ❤ I was smiling throughout the whole video. I love how they're so supportive of one another, the realistic depiction of married life + how cheerful their family is despite the life struggles. It feels natural and it's really refreshing to see how humble they are compared to the other interracial couples as if putting on a show that I've seen featured on shows/TH-cam channels like this. And what adorable kids!!! All such cuties! They're all so cheerful and happy~ I'm sure the parents will miss those kiddos once they've all grown up too! God bless this humble and loving family. May they continue having a household filled with love & laughter. 💖🙏😄

  • @user-ws5dw1ul7h
    @user-ws5dw1ul7h ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Humans are sooo special and these two adult humans make water come to my eyes and spill out .. they are precious and their children are gorgeous

  • @maalat
    @maalat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The kids are so happy, expressive, beautiful. They love their mom and dad and love each other, too. They play together, talk together, clean together. So we’ll mannered. Congrats, parents. Parents are kind, too.

  • @ninademain
    @ninademain 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    Emily is adorable the way she speaks Korean, even when they're arguing, like how do you stay angry when she's that cute? Ahahaha but seriously this is so endearing and wholesome. They're not perfect but they work well together. What an awesome family!😊

    • @emyfullofbeans
      @emyfullofbeans 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hehe thank you ~~~ I'm shyyyyyy 😊

  • @Brooossss
    @Brooossss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +78

    @7:00 when she said, "if i know this life that i would have, i shouldnt be depressed in the past not knowing about the future."
    As a single woman, this looks depressing. But for her, it makes her happy to finally know this is what destined for her. 👏🏼

    • @scoobz4177
      @scoobz4177 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      A life with children is hard but very fulfilling. As a mother I have my days where I wish I could lay in bed all day because it is hard raising a child but omg its so worth it. My son is so adorable and is eager to play, learn etc. Its kinda like a way of reliving your childhood. 😊

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Your brain will do that to you. Being emotionaIIy abvsed by a maIe, your brain will trick you into thinking this is a peaceful life and you want it.
      If she ever got out, she'd have a shock she endured this dire, somber situation. Depressing 100%.

    • @noneofthiseverhappened
      @noneofthiseverhappened 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@chervilisbetterthancilantroYou are so miserable

    • @daklord
      @daklord 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I feel sad for you, you bought into the modern lie.
      I hope you are just young and not someone who is jaded from terrible life experiences.@@chervilisbetterthancilantro

    • @chervilisbetterthancilantro
      @chervilisbetterthancilantro 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@daklord I feel sad for her, she bought into the old Iie.
      Unmarried women are the happiest group. Why? Because they don't have to deal with maIes.
      Don't worry, I won't be jaded from terrible life experiences. Because I'm going to stay far away from maIes.

  • @ladyfightsoctopus8166
    @ladyfightsoctopus8166 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    If my hubby was attentive, hard working, a great partner/father and had that ruggedly handsome face, i too would be obsessed 😂

  • @user-hg2wq3mh8f
    @user-hg2wq3mh8f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    these two are true soulmates, what a beautiful chill family i wish them much happiness

  • @kristina17-9
    @kristina17-9 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    What an adorable kids they are blessed with.

  • @rebotilemokone5859
    @rebotilemokone5859 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Dad is very handsome, a lot of foreigners appreciate manly or very masculine looking men. And I noticed that in Asian countries they prefer feminine looking men and think that they are handsome. So to us foreigners it’s weird when they call him ugly beauty is subjective.

  • @hayleybarbara1589
    @hayleybarbara1589 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Emily makes me proud as a canadian 🇨🇦

  • @brotha444
    @brotha444 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Her kids are so beautiful! ❤

  • @4id472
    @4id472 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't know how many times I've been keeping repeating watch this but still I was crying at how lovely they are

  • @G-Bimmy
    @G-Bimmy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My guy, just say "thank you." I was even getting annoyed with the amount of nagging and complaining from the husband- I can't imagine how she deals with that if he's not just hamming it up for T.V.

  • @alfegella9146
    @alfegella9146 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    way back..i heard korean parents never accept other nationalities to marry their son except korean. nice to see how they embrace now

    • @thisiskevin1000
      @thisiskevin1000 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Times changed with economic development, exchanges and globalization

    • @fauna2836
      @fauna2836 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      They have no choice. They have to be accepting if they want grandkids. Lots of single koreans doesn't even want to marry and have kids. They're lucky if they bring home even a foreigner

    • @skunkymonkey9110
      @skunkymonkey9110 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thats at least a few dacades ago lol

    • @teoleno4019
      @teoleno4019 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's not just Koreans. I come from very homogenous white European country (Estonia) and most parents here want their kids to only marry other Baltic people.

    • @alfegella9146
      @alfegella9146 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@teoleno4019 ohh. Just only heard from u.. Gonna check on googles. Thanks

  • @knoore
    @knoore ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That's so heart felt - the husband's emotion.

  • @nadz5879
    @nadz5879 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    What a lovely family ❤ wishing them all the best for the future!

  • @angelsis2222
    @angelsis2222 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Husband said to just come back every day for groceries... does he not realize youre wasting more money on gas everyday from having to drive back and forth? You make one trip and you buy everything you need and have extra. Husband is stupid for that. Other than that, cute couple. The wife needs to put her foot down, but she cant since hes the breadwinner. Ladies, this is why you get your own job so you can buy what you want. Dont let no man tell you when to buy shit.

    • @dracomalfoy9098
      @dracomalfoy9098 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Man why are you so angry?? 😅😅

    • @selmahare
      @selmahare หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, this!

    • @angelsis2222
      @angelsis2222 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dracomalfoy9098 Its facts bruh. Sorry to come off strong, but sadly lots of men who want a "stay at home" wife dont realize the wives need free will to spend your money. Its a give and take. You provide the money, you get a clean house and food and she in turn cleans and cooks while being able to treat herself and spend freely. Of course, within budget. That is, if thats what you signed up for like this family.

  • @genesprouts
    @genesprouts ปีที่แล้ว +15

    ughhh i adore this family😭 i have so much respect for emily and her husband and i wish them only the best💗💗

  • @Morwenna16
    @Morwenna16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Ok now I’m sure: I will never have kids. This life looks like a nightmare to me. Emily is a brave woman and she has a wonderful family!

  • @sitiaisyahahmadkamal1592
    @sitiaisyahahmadkamal1592 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    i love how despite her struggling a lot of things at a foreign country, she is so thankful for the present and love every moments of it. what a beautiful mama!

  • @eddiemin4312
    @eddiemin4312 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    He had her at “hello” 😂. Joking aside, her Korean is better than mine. Dude works hard to support the family as delivery man. It’s strange but when looking back, living in a small apartment when the kids where little and barely being able to afford groceries was actually pretty happy times you just don’t realize it then. As long as you dream together.

    • @hellbunniez3
      @hellbunniez3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      guy pulled a jerry maguire lmaoo

  • @bruskydu
    @bruskydu ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lovely family. Adorable kids and an ever loving wife. Bro has it all.

  • @jtetsuya
    @jtetsuya ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This family is so sweet to watch that i also cried. They really are living off each other's love 🥰😭

  • @pandabear8171
    @pandabear8171 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Holy.. 300-400 deliveries a day. Plus running up and down the stairs to meet the required time. That's dedication

  • @scoobz4177
    @scoobz4177 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Omfg this hits home so hard as a parent. I had the most rough day with my toddler son and this woman had 3 kids. I feel her pain. The children are so beautiful but such a pain sometimes. Its so stressful being a parent. Let alone someone trying to survive in a foreign country. God bless.😂

  • @penpasherab
    @penpasherab ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hard working dad when he see his wife n kids, its make him happy n joy while a working hour.. beautiful family...

  • @chillarypuff
    @chillarypuff ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This was so great, thanks for sharing this family’s story ❤

  • @KikiT457
    @KikiT457 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow that was so real and lovely. What a beautiful family ❤ wish them all the best and happiness in life ✨