00.52 Learning to Be Compliant and Agreeable 03.24 The Real Self and The Adapted Self 07.11 The Six Horsemen of The Psychic Apocalypse 09.09 James F. Masterson - the Search For the Real Self Excerpts 09.27 Examples of Being in the Adapted Self 10.54 The Abandonment Depression - The Real and the Adapted Self 20.10 Depression and Rage 20.58 Anger 21.31 Rage, Fear and Panic 22.47 The Godfather 23.56 Guilt 27.31 Helplessness 29.25 Subconscious Defences 30.07 Why do We Fear Saying No? 31.23 Why Can’t We Say No? 34.09 We Don’t Know We Want to Say No 35.54 We Want to Say No but Can’t 36.32 Behaviours That Help us to Avoid Saying No 38.37 How Do We Learn to Say No?
Hello I appreciate your videos very much much. Knowing this helps me but it also makes me angry. I have a strong victim mentality internalising everything and not liking myself. Is the victim mentality a consequence of living with a narcissist parent ? Thank you
00.52 Learning to Be Compliant and Agreeable
03.24 The Real Self and The Adapted Self
07.11 The Six Horsemen of The Psychic Apocalypse
09.09 James F. Masterson - the Search For the Real Self Excerpts
09.27 Examples of Being in the Adapted Self
10.54 The Abandonment Depression - The Real and the Adapted Self
20.10 Depression and Rage
20.58 Anger
21.31 Rage, Fear and Panic
22.47 The Godfather
23.56 Guilt
27.31 Helplessness
29.25 Subconscious Defences
30.07 Why do We Fear Saying No?
31.23 Why Can’t We Say No?
34.09 We Don’t Know We Want to Say No
35.54 We Want to Say No but Can’t
36.32 Behaviours That Help us to Avoid Saying No
38.37 How Do We Learn to Say No?
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Hello I appreciate your videos very much much. Knowing this helps me but it also makes me angry. I have a strong victim mentality internalising everything and not liking myself. Is the victim mentality a consequence of living with a narcissist parent ? Thank you
Hi Kinga,
I am glad my videos are useful. The question you ask is very complex. I will do a video on this at some point in the future.